As a tourist I always have the mindset of respect. Respect the people and the country I’m privileged to visit. I’m also cognizant of representing my own country by being a good steward, Showing nothing but kindness. Unfortunately I HAD friends that didn’t behave the same. I was offended and explained to her the reasons to have respect but fell on deaf ears. I separated from her as soon as I could. I feel absolutely horrible that you and your sisters had to endure being treated like an attraction. I’m so proud of you from being courageous and standing up for your sister. I would have done the same 😊
Beautiful video, as a young boy I was taught to respect others. When I see the videos of people being disrespectful to others and other lands, it’s sickening. I’m old now and hope one day soon I can visit Japan and see the beauty it has to offer.I have so very much respect for everything you have achieved. You seem to be a wonderful person. And yes I’m old 63 in a couple weeks. Have a beautiful day, pray all good things for you.
I'm really enjoying your videos so much! When you explained how the Japanese respect your space while going through the train station, that made me teary eyed. Being a third generation American-Japanese, I just returned from my first trip to Japan. Seeing it first hand really reinforces how respectful the Japanese are. And of course many tourist were still taking photo's in the "no photograph" Gion area when we were there. Ugh.
This is a beautiful and sad story. As you said it's very difficult for a tourist to avoid looking at Maiko san, Geiko san because you are so beautiful and it's a blessing to cross the path of a Maiko san, Geiko san as a tourist visiting Japan. I would never chase a Maiko san, Geiko san or act like the awful people we've seen recently on internet however. I will remember what you said about making you uncomfortable when saying you are beautiful or simply maintaining eye contact. I also understand being taller is intimidating. Hope I will be a better tourist and be respectful of the beautiful Japanese culture in my next trip to Japan.
I'll be going to Japan next year. If I am lucky enough to see a geimaiko on the street, would it be rude to take a photo from a distance? I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or get in their way when they are trying to go somewhere? And if a picture on my cell phone would not be acceptable, a few admiring glaces as she goes? Seeing a geimaiko would be a dream come true, a precious memory. However, not worth harassment!
Such discipline and beauty. Thank you for your videos and education. As a future tourist I agree with the ban. As human beings we should look forward to respect and preserve other peoples ways of life.
I'm loving this series and you have an incredible gift for imparting information,I am very grateful you find it within your heart to share your experiences with us. Bless you beautiful human.
You have my support!! I have a great admiration for the Geisha culture, you are certainly living Art!! I think it's good that you keep posting videos when needed . I know this is so hard ,especially with such culture, but remeber loads of us admire and respect you dearly !! 😊😊❤ As for me I would be truly humbled if I got a trip to Japan
Thank you for your continued insight. I think the biggest issue is people have this need to validate their existence by documenting everything via their photos/ videos. Now that everyone has cellphones it's readily available. But as you said certain things need to be appreciated without such things. There's a saying in the photography world "if you live life through a shutter (camera shutter) have you really lived?" It's message is essentially the same as yours. To be in the moment to savor it without needing to document it to truly live. Also sorry that you were inconvenienced by inconsiderate people.
I stayed in Gion two weeks ago during my visit to Kyoto and acting respectfully was at the top of my list. I saw maiko or geiko multiple times and always stepped aside for their passage, never photographed them, and kept an eye out for bad tourist behavior. I was 100% prepared to intervene. I was pleased to see volunteers interacting with tourists to teach them correct behavior and this topic is getting traction on the internet. Thank you for this video.
Without social media, would you have been educated enough to keep your distance? Some tourists are just not educated, they don't know. There are those of course who just don't give a toss. Like the tourist masses taking pictures and chatting in the sistine chapel despite having multiple absolutely in your face signes at every entrance and also having guards from the swiss army AND speakers reminding them to STFU and pack away their cameras. It is right there where I fail to find an excuse for tourists. With geikos though I'm tempted to believe them to simply not know better.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I was walking along Shijo dori today and I saw a geiko waiting to cross the street to enter Hanamikoji. I was genuinely surprised to see her there and worried for her safety given recent events. I walked further down the street but stopped and looked back to see if she was okay, but she disappeared. I wasn’t sure if she had boarded a taxi or if she was surrounded by the horde of tourists crossing the street. Part of me had wanted to follow her in case anyone tried to harass her like that lady in the viral video, but I thought it wasn’t my place and might be considered an intrusion as well. I hope she made it to her destination with no trouble.
As always thank you for sharing your story Hina . Btw best video so far maybe because you had a special guest 🐈 😊 . I’m really sorry you had to go through all that it’s not fair for you at all lucky you are a strong woman keep doing what you are doing . Tourist need to hear it from some one who has been there
Thank you for mentioning the special guest, or rather, the "main" guest hahaha I hope no one noticed her tail was a little bushy--maybe she was angry at me......
Thank you Mayuhina-san for your latest, Part 2 video. These tourists that have been “flowing” into Japan, because of weak Yen, has and is bringing tourists; of course I believe not all of them, but the bad or disrespectful and unruly one’s, who are causing these issues for the local community. It’s very unfortunate that no type of security can be provided for the Geiko, Maiko-sans, to get to their jobs, and return to their Okiya. These unruly and disrespectful tourists needs to be taught Japan’s culture, practices, beliefs. And taught to be respectful of all peoples, of the country they are visiting. It is to understand what used to be said(and people understood,) “How would you feel if you(the tourist) was in her shoe(zori/Okobo.)”
Hello Spencer :) Thank you for your message here and in the previous video (my mother screenshotted and sent to me because she agreed with it 😂) Yes, there are many factors to the problem. And the locals want things to change. For now, I guess what we can do is to continue raising awareness.
The closest comparison I can make is the tourist treatment of the King's Guard from Great Britain. Because of their big hats and red jackets, visitors assume they are a tourist attraction. But their true job is to guard their posts. The difference is that you'll get your ass kicked if you tried to touch a soldier, as opposed to a Geisha.
Thank you for sharing your experiences and interactions. Your stories have made me reflect on the photos I took during my visit, which were always taken from a distance to avoid disturbing the presence that a Geiko or Maiko projects. While I cherish these pictures, I now realize that even from afar, this might be seen as intrusive. I also wonder if my own interactions, where I made eye contact, then respectfully lowered my gaze and tilted my head slightly, might have unintentionally crossed a boundary when all you seek is a peaceful space.
@@sleepysartorialist No I agree, however that would be difficult on a candid in context in the Gion. I am all for paying talent for there services, these pictures were taken many years ago.. I was reflecting on Mayuhina comment of respecting space and even how eye contact should be avoided to respect space.
Hello :) I'm glad there was something in the video that helped you reflect on your experiences. Looking away after making eye contact is okay. But if that person continued to stare after I made eye contact, I think that would make me feel uncomfortable. Not just for geiko/maiko, but any person, especially women in the world who often experience these things and feel unsafe. Please do not worry about what happened in the past :) You are a respectful person.
@bubbavonbraun, You don't seem to understand @sleepysartorialist's comment. For geisha and maiko, their profession is to show off their beauty and art to the customers who gather for them at their "destination." Their passage on the public roads is like a back passage from the dressing room to the stage. Behavior that disturbs their mental preparation to go on stage is very annoying. Also, the idea of enjoying their beauty for free because that's not on stage is, an insult to the pride of the performers. The point that "if you want to enjoy their beauty, you have to pay" is what it means, not that you should pay on the street. This is not limited to geisha and maiko. Most Japanese people who see movie actors or professional athletes on the street do not talk to them or stare at them. This is because the Japanese community share the values and consideration mentioned above "Respect prides of professions."
@@datte_nanda_mon I do understand the comment, you miss the context of my response about street photography and the candid nature of it. Anything staged looses a level of authenticity in capturing the environment that Maiko/Geiko's are part of. Mayuhina understood my comment, her response to me was on point, its about respect and as you can see from the updated subject of the video.. Its about "How to respect a Geisha" not make sure you pay the Geisha.
I truly understand what you are saying. I think Japanese people are born with a unique sensibility. I was also surrounded by tourists when I went out to eat with a maiko, and I had to protect her. However, ordinary Japanese people kept their distance from us and never got in our way. When I met you, I was overwhelmed by your beauty and couldn't help but look down. 😄
When I was in Kyoto about 10 years ago, I asked a Geiko if I could take a photo. She nodded yes, and so I did. However, I felt like I had done something wrong and like I bothered her. She might not have felt comfortable saying no even if she didn’t want to stop for a photo. I still feel bad about it, and I would never do it again. Even back then though, I would never have approached or took a photo without asking and getting consent. Please understand that not all tourists are like the terrible ones you encountered. What you experienced was wrong and unacceptable. Those tourist should be ashamed of themselves. However, many of us do want to appreciate from afar and not bother anyone.
Hello :) Thank you for your words of reflection. Please do not feel bad about things that happened in the past. Yes, not everyone is like that. Thank you for being respectful ✨
When I’m travelling I either ask if I could take a picture, or leave people alone. When I was in the US on a bus, an elderly man who looked Native American got on, What struck me, and caught my attention was his face: he looked fascinating as he had a face that had years of stories etched in every wrinkle. I was gonna ask to take a picture, but I realised, the dude is just going about his day, so I didn’t bother. I just lived in the moment, noticed him, the story of who he was captured more than a photo could anyway. And I think we miss these behind the lens of a camera sometimes. That woman with the camera was completely rude and uncalled for. People need to realise they’re not entitled to a strangers time, and consider they might be busy or needed elsewhere. Your story of the woman with the camera in Tokyo reminded me of a similar experience I had with tourists in St. Andrews Scotland. Me (a Scot) bought a scotch pie, and a can of Irn Bru and was eating it. Ahead of me, a group of Asian tourists (probably from mainland china?) stopped me and proceeded to take photos of what I was eating as I was eating it. Asking what it was, and asked if they could take better photos of it. Confused, and me being Glaswegian (from Glasgow, we can be quite open, chatty and friendly right off the bat). So I explained what I was eating was a Scotch pie from Greggs, the drink was Irn Bru, but if they really want the best pictures was to buy the same from Greggs! They thanked me and eventually went off on the side-quest I just set up to find the legendary Scotch pie and Irn Bru from Greggs! It was a strange experience. The next similar experience was when I wore my Kilt in Italy. I’d get calls out in Italian, mostly harmless like “Scozezzie” or “Braveheart” but the strangest was a random woman getting her male partner to slow down the car to take photos, she then got him to drive ahead of me quickly, turn around the block to double back to catch me get more! So, Being followed in a car was a bit unnerving, especially since I didn’t know the culture and language.
Thank you for another insightful conversation. It seems quite obvious that there are multiple factors at work in these situations. One is certainly a lack of knowledge, and your videos are probably the best antidote against much of the disturbance. There are cultures where the personal space is not so relevant, and I am sure your upbringing already showed you that. Rest assured that there are also cultures that do share the same attention to it: my parents always told me that it is highly impolite to stare at people, and I applied the same rule with my son's upbringing. It is a form of courtesy and manners that is very well understood in most parts of Europe as well -- although some of the younger generations have not been taught as well as the older ones. Unfortunately, this is not just a Japanese problem. I can offer a personal anecdote: I lived for 12 years in Austria, in Carinthia. I am not Austrian, however during my stay I adopted the language and some of the clothing style that was prevalent there: large woollen cloaks, jackets and suits. Furthermore, I also have the habit of suiting up quite often: a three-pieces suit, tie, pocket watch and a wide brimmed hat. Nothing extraordinary, but certainly not common. I must say that my attire attracted a small but significant amount of unwarranted comments, some of them quite disagreeables. Oh, well. Shame on them. Ignorant people are unfortunately everywhere, but we -- collectively -- have agency: we can do something. You do a great service to all geiko-san and maiko-san with your videos, and we well-mannered tourists can be active as well, in deeds and words. We can set the example. One final consideration: my culture demands that a gentleman should intervene if a lady is bothered by some ill-mannered individual. I can only hope that someone of appropriate physical presence will rise to the occasion and intervene -- as you so effectively did -- to underscore even more the message of "Do. Not. Bother. Them". It will pass, of that I am certain. Courage. L. P.S. Your cat is adorable 🙂
You mentioned my cat!! She will be so happy "Lack of knowledge" "Highly impolite to stare at people" "Not just a Japanese problem" "We--collectively--have agency. We can set the example" Thank you for sharing your experience as well as words of encouragement 🙇♀
Since I was 11 I have wanted to go to Kyoto and attend an Ochaia with Maikosan or Geikosan but I don't want to be part of this horror story for artists I really admire. No one deserves to be treated in the way you describe.
Thank you for your insights. It's a shame that tourists don't even have the courtesy to ask for photos (and for you to refuse the request) 😔 They're so self entitled and think that it's their right. They don't even acknowledge how scared and uncomfortable you look. Unfortunately, some people don't bother to learn other countries' etiquette 😔. I am so sorry that you have had bad experiences 🙏
Your life at that point, I think, was very Nobel. I wonder now what your future holds. I think maybe Japan is where you are most suited. Japanese are very different from the rest of the world in their actions. To look down when they would like to look is very Japanese. It is not very anybody else. But if I knew as I now do, I will look down and make room. Thank you for your teaching points and experiences.
Hello Derek :) I am not sure where I belong 😅 Yes....not every Japanese person is polite, but as a whole, they are very respectful of space and privacy. Thank you for viewing and sharing your thoughts.
Let her voice be heard and re-echoed. In behalf of her sisters she represents. Please be gentle with them, be considerate and respect their personal boundaries. Avoid harassing them, avoid stalking them, give them way, and be courteous. Specially to tourists, please refrain from being entitled and annoyingly rude. Please behave like civilized humans. Respect the culture and customs as you cherished your stay in Kyoto. Her simple request deserves attention. Please respect them as people. Respect begets respect. (Geiko-san looks like Ada Wong from RE4:Remake, I appreciate her effort voicing out her concern). Again, when you're privileged to see a Maiko/Geiko remember their presence are "For your eyes Only." Just like what she said, admire them from afar.
My honest advice for all the tourists: Just don't go to these places. Of course you kinda miss out on this experience, but it seems like it's unavoidable to be part of the problem and most likely you would do something wrong, not by intention, just by not knowing certain culural nuances. There are so many other places out there in Japan. Do your research and avoid contributing to mass tourism.
Agreed. I live in Kyoto and generally avoid Gion as much as I can, unless I’m going to eat there or see an Odori. Hopefully the opening of the Gion Kagai Art Museum takes some of the heat off the geiko, since people can line up to take photos with maiko there. And since moving here I’ve found there are many ways to see maiko and geiko in ways that contribute to the kagai. You can catch the spring dances, join a maiko beer garden, book a tour that includes a maiko performance, etc. All it takes is a bit of googling or a visit to a tourism office.
I feel like there are different levels to this. Just my opinion, but some of the disrespect shown is straight up ignorance and doesn’t necessarily have to do with not understanding cultural differences. If someone asks you not to take photos, you should be able to take a hint and stop. I’m sure some of this happens because it’s Japan and foreigners know that they are generally not confrontational people. I am fairly certain something like this would never go down here in the US. I appreciate Mayuhina’s perspective and explanation of the contrast between Japanese and foreigners and have learned a lot about how I should conduct myself should I ever encounter a geiko-san. I would like to add that if there are ever good experiences with foreigners, that those experiences be shared on UA-cam as well. I hope that the situation improves in Kyoto and elsewhere, but videos like this need to be shared in order to spread awareness.
Shoving cameras in someone's face or standing in their way is not a cultural nuance, it's not acceptable anywhere in the world. Japan needs tourism and is clearly not prepared well enough for the amount of people visiting. There's always going to be people not following the rules, knowing or unknowingly, even Japanese sometimes. I don't see that the millions of tourists are all ignoring the rules and laws, we only hear from the ones that do. Not going somewhere is hardly the solution. As more and more poeple get to know the country, they will also get to know the rules and the authorities will find ways to deal with the people that don't abide by them.
I always feel amusing these ideas that foreigners are unable to understand the Japanese culture that would be to sophisticated...we just talk about basic education here, we talk about harassment, we talk about women disrespect. Geiko are women and I think just applying basic rules of respect would work. But there are stupid people everywhere, including Japanese people insulting gaijin...
I´m so sorry for what happend to you or what has been done by tourists to you. Me and my Wife will visit Japan for the first time in late August. We are busy learning basic japanese and rules of behaviour rules. I think it is our responsibility as guests to act respectfully towards the host and to treat Japanese culture and people responsibly. We are looking forward to our vacation and hope to be welcome in Kyoto.
I'm so sorry these things happened to you (and so many other Geikosan and Maikosan too) - those situations sounded so scary too... people really need to be more considerate of others and I really don't understand why for some "being a tourist" equals "disrespecting others" like this. Like... they wouldn't want to be swarmed by random people, shoved, having their photo taken without permission, having people yell at them (even if it's compliments) - the why do it to others? Just because they are in vacation, the rest of the world is neither on vacation as well, nor does it turn into an amusement park with everyone working for them... It's sad to see and hear how little people like that care about others feelings. You protecting you お姉さん was very brave. It is super intimidating to speak up against a strangers, especially if you're alone against a group and they're taller than you. Glad they gave up fast. (the audacity though... "BuT I wANnA TakE A PhoTO" - the world doesn't revolve around you, geez...!) If I were ever to witness such a situation, I will try to gather up my courage and help the person in trouble or danger out as well. I would want someone to help me out too if it were me! As for making eye contact, I usually give people a polite smile and then move along (or, if I'm focusing on something else, I tend to just look through them and make sure not to bother them). They have their everyday business, I have mine. That should go for travelers too.
You are such an empath. "BuT I wANnA TakE A PhoTO" made me laugh. Yes, standing up to strangers is intimidating, but we must do it when others cannot help themselves. Thank you for responding so thoroughly and understanding ♡
Recently, more signage threatening fines in Gion Kobu streets and alleys were put up. Sadly, I am sure that these signs will also only fall on “blind” eyes. Much like your Shikomi experience, many, many decades ago, geimaiko had Hakōya (assistants) to help carry their instruments, umbrella, etc. I think that each Kagai should “hire” volunteer Hakōya to assist/protect them from one Ozashiki to another, etc and at least run interference to help insure that geimaiko can be timely. I am pretty sure that they could enlist many university students, especially the ones studying about Japanese history and culture for this task. This issue/problem is a hot-topic now and your video is so well done and thought out. Thank you for sharing your experiences and your feelings. Your forever fan…
Hello! Your siamese neko-chan icon always makes me so happy to see :) Thank you always for your thoughtful comments. I didn't know about hakoya-san. Yes, that might be something the kagai could consider implementing.
Good morning. Thank you very much for addressing this topic. I find the behaviour of tourists absolutely deplorable. It would never have crossed my mind to have that kind of behavior. Thank you, too, for mentioning the way the Japanese interact with the geikosan and maikosan, because if I go to Japan, as I intend to go, I can react respectfully. In my hometown I also try to avoid the tourists areas because of the behaviour of many of them. Congratulations on this very interesting video. I wish you a good week.
this is the same issue we're having here in Europe with mass immigration. too many foreigners (no matter if tourists or migrants) who don't adhere to local rules automatically make a place less pleasant!
I don’t know how anyone can treat another person like that with a camera. It’s so disgusting. I’m sorry you had to experience this. It makes me ashamed to be Western. I went to Japan a few years ago. I bowed to everyone who bowed to me and made sure I found out what was appropriate before I went. A Japanese man told me I was the only tourist who had ever bowed to him. Wishing you all the best for the future. May we all learn from your video. Thank you for sharing.
Unfortunately tourists many times have a sense of privilege coupled with a complete ignorance of the local culture. I’m always saddened when I hear these stories. I’ve made many trips to Japan and every time I’ve gone I’ve learned something new culturally, if just by observation. Early on though I learned that respect is one thing I can always give, even if I don’t understand the nuances completely. I think it’s important if we as a foreigners see something like this going on that we say something to the tourists if we can. Be part of the solution, not part of the problem. Tourists need to respect the natives, you are a guest in their country.
What a horrible thing you went through on those two occasions, I imagine how bad several Geiko-san and Maiko-san felt. I really hope that it improves in some way, I will try to help in some way, sharing your video, and also producing videos to try to raise awareness as many people as I can.
USA = Obsessive focus on individuality Japan = Extreme focus on collectivity The two are on the extrem far polar ends on the spectrum. There are less differences between USA and China than there are with Japan.
There is a natural curiosity for a visitor to another country to witness something they never would in their own country, but in every instance (and country/culture) a quick look at how the local population react should be be a strong indicator on how to behave. Experiencing someone in cultural attire is unique and the reality is tourists will inevitably wish to document that experience. With today’s smartphone technology, there’s no excuse to not simply do that from afar, well out of the way of disturbing them & others going about their daily business. I’m interested to know if Maiko/Geiko are educated on how to handle unintended public interactions?
I think some people are unaware that Geiko-san and Maiko-san are not a part of Kyoto's larger tourist industry (unlike e.g. the people dressing up as Samurai) but are still active jobs - part of the cultural heritage as something historical, but still a line of work. So Geiko-san and Maiko-san don't do what do they do specifically to preserve and represent a part of Japanese cultural heritage and show it to the tourists, they do what they do because this is their profession - which just happens to be historical and an integral part of Japanese cultural heritage. I think Kyoto could've made a better job at communicating this (and at a few other aspects in how to manage tourism), nevertheless I don't see any problem with banning this district. In other countries there are, for example, old buildings or very sensitive historical sites which are only possible to preserve by banning entry and allow visitation only from a distance, so this is action is not unheard of. I think this was such big news only because the Japanese state media made a big deal out of it - I've no idea why is it so cool to hate on tourists while oversea tourism is a huge part of Japan's economy, specifically Kyoto would've went bankrupt 10-15 years ago without its enormous revenue from tourism. The story about shoving a camera into your face so agressively (and without asking for permission) was infuriating. E.g. in pretty much any European country something like this is straight-up shameful and completely unacceptable towards anyone regardless of how they are dressed or what their occupation is, but for sure you'll find a very few people anywhere who lack the basic decency not to do such a thing. (In some countries the pushing part is fairly common - even if still in the minority -, unfortunately.) However, about the part where all Japanese people were looking down to avoid any chance of looking at you, that might be a bit too much to ask. Staring is kind of rude in a lot of countries (in mine too) but just looking (without intense staring, making comments, or hindering movements) in what is essentially a public space... I can understand the sentiment, I don't like it either when this happens (and I'm not even nearly as interesting as a Geiko-san or Maiko-san, so it happens much-much less frequently with me), but it is human nature to be curious about the unusual, the extraordinary. (And let's note that Japanese people can do a lot of staring at foreigners as well because of the skin colour that's unusual/extraordinary/borderline exotic from a Japanese perspective.)
I agree with your message, and thank you for understanding. Yes, in reality it is too much to ask people to "not look" and it's not something I expect. I think I wanted to share that example not to say "don't look" but to share the sentiment Japanese generally people feel towards maiko and geiko, which I think differs from what tourists generally might see. They see them as people, and it is not so much "exotic" because it is a part of Japanese culture, their own culture, which they are familiar with. In contrast, I can see how Japanese people may stare at foreigners because they see them as unusual/exotic.
I was just thinking about the city doing something to prevent this mess jn the first place. Ban is a last measure, nuclear option and if at this point it’s the only one that helps, I think it should be utilized. But why not have tourist police in the historical areas especially like this? Do not make businesses pay for their own security, because that’d be too expensive and government is interested in them going, considering historical and cultural value it has. But regulating tourism in sensitive places (ban is not regulation, it’s prohibition, that’s why it’s a last measure) is really a must.
@@jamkp1685 from what I've found, in 2023 the tourism tax income from oversea tourism was ~40 billion JPY. I couldn't find how much was this percentage-wise in the overall yearly government revenue but the 2024 annual budget for the Japanese government is 112,57 trillion JPY, so 40 billion is approx. 3,5% of that. That might not seem significant, but a budget consists of hundreds/thousands of small items, so if there's a single one which individually is 3,5% that is actually very significant. Japan's expenditure on pensions in 2017 was 6,5% of their annual budget - I couldn't find just now quickly how much was it in 2023, but it is safe to say that it is still around 6,5% because from 2000 to 2017 the increase was 1,7%. So the direct tax revenue coming from oversea tourism is roughly as much as half of all the pension expense. This is how significant this number is. Also, it is not just the tourism tax what the government directly collects. Tourists spend on accomodation, food, souvenirs, transportation, tickets to whatever they are watching/visiting, this is revenue for city governments and Japanese businesses who also pay income-based taxes, plus there's VAT on the purchases. So the indirect income generated by oversea tourism can be much bigger than the direct one. This indirect impact is very unevenly distributed throughout Japan, with some places (like Kyoto) getting a huge share of tourism, while other places (e.g. the Tohoku region) getting close to nothing. So for the ones in the 1st category the impact can be huge. I don't want to put here a whole case study/report (I'm an economist so I always get excited when I can share the aspects of this field with others, I'm trying my best not to go overboard here :D), so just briefly: unfortunately Kyoto made some very bad financial decisions in the '80s (they thought the Japanese economy boom will last forever and no expenditure is too much) so the city is in a lot of debt ever since, while they have a lot of amazing historical sites which cost an amazing amount of money to maintain - their local tax revenues can hardly cover it. So during the covid lockdown Kyoto almost went bankrupt, that is how decisive the oversea tourism-generated revenue is for Kyoto. (If you'd like to know more, there were a lot of youtube videos about this, as this is extremely rare, especially in Japan there was only 1 city in modern history which went bankrupt. Some of those videos were done with people specializing in the Japanese economy who for sure know a lot more than me.)
@@geikohina I completely agree with your point, apologies for the misunderstanding. My goal was to make a kind of comparison. That for a foreign tourist seeing a Geiko-san or Maiko-san is extraordinary/exotic the same way as for certain Japanese people to see an African, European, or American foreigner. So even though staring is not nice, it might be that they can't help it. (But shouting comments, obstructing your movement, especially trying to make photos agressively and without permission - too much, curiosity cannot be an excuse for these.)
@@Tesis I too am very curious about this. Japan has quite a lot of police personnel compared to the crime rate. So on paper the police should have the numbers to post some foot patrols around or within this district. Also, for example I see a lot of news about the littering problem. Some tourists litter in European countries too, they get a nice fine from a police officer then they learn not to litter anymore. And I believe the Japanese law has littering listed as an offence, so there is judicial background to hand out fines - in return this could cover the costs of cleaning up.
Times have changed. It’s time to realize that Geiko/Maiko need escorts even if it not traditionally the normal procedure. There are too many self-centered people as of late.
Thank you, for sharing those stories. It sounds extremely horrible for your sister - financial things aside, she must have felt very uncomfortable. But I am appalled by the idea of someone forcing a camera on someone else. If it happens because you take a panorama - okay. But right next to the Face? That is a huge no. But I also feel that those type of tourists come always, when visiting a place is popular and leave when the next new and shiny thing arrives. And it's unpleasant for everyone. Because it gives also a negative idea on visitors/tourists.
Yes, some people do a lot of strange things. And it's sad that when it happens so often, it becomes normalized and we get used to it. Thank you for understanding.
That second story. The shove sounds passive aggressive. I'm so sorry you had that experience. Being physically assaulted in any way is very stressful and I can understand how upset that must have made you.
Very interesting video! I just wish to let you know that there are also many tourists who do respect boundaries. Unfortunatelly they are overshadowed by the rude ones, because you generally won't notice the well behaved ones, since they don't bother you. (I don't necessarily mean myself, that would have to be judged by others. Though I do try to respect the culture that I am visiting, there might be instances when I am ignorant and unintentionally rude. I also want to mention that I have never been to Japan, but am interested in your culture and am self-studying Japanese. However I'll be the first to admit that there is still a lot that I don't know, especially about geishas, geikos and maikos.) With all that being said, I actually agree with the district ban for tourists, since there will sadly always be those that will harrass. I think it could also be solved by a very hefty fine, but that would mean there would have to be a lot of law enforcement in the area and it would also involve a lot of paperwork and honestly be probably quite a hastle. I just wish you wouldn't lump all tourists into the same batch. Especially with the eye contact - that is mainly a cultural thing that most foreigners have no way of knowing or remembering when they see you. It might seem rude to you, but it is simply difference in culture. 😊
I visited Japan before COVID and would like to come back again. However I’m reluctant with all the controversy about over tourism and bad behaviour by tourists. I think I’d feel uncomfortable and like an unwelcome guest at the moment.
The tourist at Tokyo Station (holding the camera) trying to get back at you for not complying her "request". Not only it's incredibly rude, but highly disrespectful to shove you like that. Like, WTH? Stop treating Japan, especially international countries, like an amusement park. Yes, they can admire maiko and geiko, but please be respectful. Sorry for what you and your sisters have to go through.
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Hey, I don't think it's about being Japanese or not. It's about elementary personal culture and that's exactly what rules of savoir Vivre are all about. Unfortunately it looks like only in Japan still people are taught from generation to generation how to behave properly and these are just the results of that education and requirements of the vast majority of Japanese society. I would say that it's normal that if somebody is carrying a lot of stuff, you should make space for that person so it would be possible for him/her to pass. Next time you could be in exact same position and it should be normal that other people should also make space for you. Staring is also terrible manner no matter if you are staring at a beautiful woman, a disabled person, different height person or just anybody. Staring means no more no less than just bad manners and it works same way all over the world. The different topic is that unfortunately in other parts of the world is bad mannered but unfortunately acceptable and done by lots of people which is truely sad... I am really sorry for your experience, it had to be definitely unpleasant but I can tell you that you have experienced couple of time something which well-mannered people who were not lucky enough to be born in Japan experience on a daily basis... Unfortunately it's an every day struggle in public spaces... Nevertheless, I wish that due to raising everness it will be getting only better and better!
Yes, this issue connects to many similar issues around the world. Tourism, harassment, and basic lack of etiquette and respect. Thank you for understanding and sharing your thoughts :)
I am very sorry that you and your sisters have to endure this. I hope the Japanese government puts a much higher tax on tourists so that tourist areas can hire more security officers. Then perhaps, geisha can arrange for an escort when going to work. Maybe tax relief or government subsidies? Tourism is a double edged sword, many Japanese livelihoods depend on tourism. With the yen so low, tourist misbehavior might increase. Beg your government to raise taxes on tourists. ❤
thanks for the video. We heard and saw bad tourists, can you tell us about bad guests, if there is "sexual harassment". There is a twitter from former Maiko about how girls are treated badly by their guests and "mothers"
It's a culture issue. That's why the Rich and Famous need bodyguards and Security in the United States. The first “geisha” appeared in the 13th century and were originally men known as “taikomochi”. These men acted as both advisors and entertainers for their lord. The first female geisha appeared in 1751.....so Japan had a whole of time to understand about Geisha since the Edo Period .....but ....to the Western people especially United States, the Geisha culture is a still a new thing. The Fake Geishas making into the sex industry; which make the real Geishas look bad. Omotenashi does NOT Existence with in the United States....maybe a small concept of Omotenashi may be a part of the Southern States of the United States, but besides that, most Americans do not raised up with Hospitality and Respect is part of everyday life. American customer service is totally different from Japanese customer service. Americans are like, "me, myself & I". kaizen does NOT Existence in United States either. It's all about getting Big paycheck. LOL ..so ...yeah, It's a culture issue; which people who travel to Japan, they act like stupid Americans. ha....they will be like, "omg! A Maiko!" or "omg! A Geisha". LOL Personality, I have never went outside of United States but I do know and understand enough to know better since I was a kid.
Like in Part 1 of your excellent video, I understand your concerns completely. But the first thing to understand for you, is that tourists are not Japanese. Tourists' expect to see whatever they like and behave however they like! This is a problem with the country that they travel from, as well as a problem with the person themselves. You mentioned 'entitlement' in your first video, and that's exactly the problem! People from USA, China, Australia and Europe etc. have this type of entitlement - "I've paid for it, so now I'm going to get it!" We see similar behaviours in London too, with people interfering with Royal Guards etc. The difference is that, Royal Guards defend aggressively their freedom to not be interfered with. Maiko san and Geiko san do not! Interfering with their work is always wrong, but touching and aggressive photographing is illegal. It is in The West, so why is it tolerated in Japan? The reason is that Japanese people are very respectful of their culture and their people, and expect others to be too. Tourists from countries that I mentioned, do not! As you mentioned, the females that work in your profession are so mysterious to the rest of The World. People want to see it, but are incapable of seeing it from a distance. They want that 'close up' photo to show their friends. But they do not realise what a special thing it is, or what an honour it is, to see it I don't know what the answer is? You can't ban all tourists from seeing the beauty of Japan and, it seems, you can't educate them either?? Rude, ignorant people, will always travel to Japan - as they do to other places in the World. Look at the examples of people carving their names in historic places around the World, like The Colosseum in Rome? I am afraid that these people will always be present. I sympathise so much with you and everything you have said, and all I can say is to stay strong and do your best to carry on being your normal self. It is so sad. Thank you for your video; hopefully more people will see it and learn from it.
In human nature, men persuade by force of will whereas women persuade by grace and patience. While Japanese culture set out a path to mastery for women, which is the way of the Geisha, no comparable phenomenon arose in Western culture, bar perhaps the Ballet (although there are hints of such a social system to be found in the lost civilization of the Minoans of Crete). Western women today however seek mastery by competing directly with men, they choose to dominate by masculine force, they regard your path of discipline, sacrifice and acquiescence as yet another form of oppression from which they would like to 'liberate' you. The woman who shoved you at the train station was I think enraged by your reserved and reticent dignity, she mistook it for weakness, she wanted you also to push and shove your way as she does. If only Japan could afford to close itself to tourism and the west I think it would be better for you, even though for the rest of us it would mean losing the brightest star in our sky.
Over at the KonichiValue channel there’s a new video about Kyoto being the worst run city in Japan and it’s political corruption. And guess who’s being used as a scapegoat and distraction? Tourists.
ここ数年の芸舞妓さんはじめ花街の方たちに対する危険な状況に心を痛めていました。たくさんの方にこの動画が届き、花街の方々が安心して生活できることを祈っています。経験をシェアしてくださって、ありがとうございます。
少しでも力になれたらなと思います、、
動画観ていただいてありがとうございます✨
@@geikohina 返信ありがとうございます。応援しています！
As a tourist I always have the mindset of respect. Respect the people and the country I’m privileged to visit. I’m also cognizant of representing my own country by being a good steward, Showing nothing but kindness. Unfortunately I HAD friends that didn’t behave the same. I was offended and explained to her the reasons to have respect but fell on deaf ears. I separated from her as soon as I could.
I feel absolutely horrible that you and your sisters had to endure being treated like an attraction. I’m so proud of you from being courageous and standing up for your sister. I would have done the same 😊
Hello, Nikky :) Yes, respect when traveling is so important and standing up for others.Thank you for sharing your experiences :)
当事者がこのように流暢な英語で伝えてくれること、これがどれだけ貴重なことか。
もっとこの動画が広がり、海外観光客の目にも留まりますように、願っています😊
猫ちゃん可愛い❤
Beautiful video, as a young boy I was taught to respect others. When I see the videos of people being disrespectful to others and other lands, it’s sickening. I’m old now and hope one day soon I can visit Japan and see the beauty it has to offer.I have so very much respect for everything you have achieved. You seem to be a wonderful person. And yes I’m old 63 in a couple weeks. Have a beautiful day, pray all good things for you.
I'm really enjoying your videos so much! When you explained how the Japanese respect your space while going through the train station, that made me teary eyed. Being a third generation American-Japanese, I just returned from my first trip to Japan. Seeing it first hand really reinforces how respectful the Japanese are. And of course many tourist were still taking photo's in the "no photograph" Gion area when we were there. Ugh.
"tear eyed" T_T Thank you for your understanding. I hope you had a wonderful trip apart from it all :)
This is a beautiful and sad story. As you said it's very difficult for a tourist to avoid looking at Maiko san, Geiko san because you are so beautiful and it's a blessing to cross the path of a Maiko san, Geiko san as a tourist visiting Japan. I would never chase a Maiko san, Geiko san or act like the awful people we've seen recently on internet however. I will remember what you said about making you uncomfortable when saying you are beautiful or simply maintaining eye contact. I also understand being taller is intimidating. Hope I will be a better tourist and be respectful of the beautiful Japanese culture in my next trip to Japan.
You sound very kind and considerate--please do not be discouraged about things too much and enjoy your future trip in Japan ✨Thank you for viewing :)
I'll be going to Japan next year. If I am lucky enough to see a geimaiko on the street, would it be rude to take a photo from a distance? I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or get in their way when they are trying to go somewhere?
And if a picture on my cell phone would not be acceptable, a few admiring glaces as she goes?
Seeing a geimaiko would be a dream come true, a precious memory. However, not worth harassment!
Tourists tend to behave as if they're in theme parks, regrettably.
京都市は、芸子や舞子は外人に見せるために存在しているのではないということをアナウンスする必要がある。そうでないと彼女らを追い回して動画・写真を撮るのがマナー違反であることが理解されないだろう。
I am so glad that you are sharing these experiences. Hopefully, people will listen and learn how to behave when visiting Japan.
Thank you! I hope there's some change that can be made....
Such discipline and beauty. Thank you for your videos and education. As a future tourist I agree with the ban. As human beings we should look forward to respect and preserve other peoples ways of life.
Thank you for taking the time to listen to my story ✨
I'm loving this series and you have an incredible gift for imparting information,I am very grateful you find it within your heart to share your experiences with us. Bless you beautiful human.
"beautiful human" ♡
Your words help me feel comfortable to keep sharing. Thank you.
You have my support!! I have a great admiration for the Geisha culture, you are certainly living Art!! I think it's good that you keep posting videos when needed . I know this is so hard ,especially with such culture, but remeber loads of us admire and respect you dearly !! 😊😊❤ As for me I would be truly humbled if I got a trip to Japan
You have a regal, dignified, beautiful way of speaking. It is an unreal experience to just listen to you.
Thank you for sensing my words in this way✨
Thank you for your continued insight. I think the biggest issue is people have this need to validate their existence by documenting everything via their photos/ videos. Now that everyone has cellphones it's readily available. But as you said certain things need to be appreciated without such things. There's a saying in the photography world "if you live life through a shutter (camera shutter) have you really lived?" It's message is essentially the same as yours. To be in the moment to savor it without needing to document it to truly live. Also sorry that you were inconvenienced by inconsiderate people.
"If you live life through a shutter, have you lived?"
Thank you for sharing and understanding ✨
I agree with you. スマホの普及で観光客皆カメラマンになってしまいました。 そんなに多く写真撮って何するの？と思います。 多分、大多数の人は写真を撮っているカメラマン気取りの自分の姿に酔っているのでしょうね。 でも誰も見ないよ、そんな写真。
I stayed in Gion two weeks ago during my visit to Kyoto and acting respectfully was at the top of my list. I saw maiko or geiko multiple times and always stepped aside for their passage, never photographed them, and kept an eye out for bad tourist behavior. I was 100% prepared to intervene. I was pleased to see volunteers interacting with tourists to teach them correct behavior and this topic is getting traction on the internet. Thank you for this video.
Without social media, would you have been educated enough to keep your distance?
Some tourists are just not educated, they don't know.
There are those of course who just don't give a toss. Like the tourist masses taking pictures and chatting in the sistine chapel despite having multiple absolutely in your face signes at every entrance and also having guards from the swiss army AND speakers reminding them to STFU and pack away their cameras. It is right there where I fail to find an excuse for tourists. With geikos though I'm tempted to believe them to simply not know better.
Thank you so much. Appreciate your story from far. I promised to listen and did so carefully. Keep up the good work :-)
Thank you ✨
Thank you for sharing your experience. I was walking along Shijo dori today and I saw a geiko waiting to cross the street to enter Hanamikoji. I was genuinely surprised to see her there and worried for her safety given recent events. I walked further down the street but stopped and looked back to see if she was okay, but she disappeared. I wasn’t sure if she had boarded a taxi or if she was surrounded by the horde of tourists crossing the street. Part of me had wanted to follow her in case anyone tried to harass her like that lady in the viral video, but I thought it wasn’t my place and might be considered an intrusion as well. I hope she made it to her destination with no trouble.
I see--you are very kind to check for her safety :)
Above you mentioned you live in Kyoto. I hope the city has been treating you well ✨
現役の方がこのようにわかりやすく状況を英語で説明してくれると理解が広がると思います。ありがとう。個人的にはもっと一般の日本人（男女共）で和服を着る人が増えると珍しさも減るし、和服産業も応援できるしいいな〜、と思います。ところで、ヒナさんはあの伝説の山口百恵さんの雰囲気がありますね。貴女のご活躍を祈念しております。
As always thank you for sharing your story Hina . Btw best video so far maybe because you had a special guest 🐈 😊 . I’m really sorry you had to go through all that it’s not fair for you at all lucky you are a strong woman keep doing what you are doing . Tourist need to hear it from some one who has been there
Thank you for mentioning the special guest, or rather, the "main" guest hahaha
I hope no one noticed her tail was a little bushy--maybe she was angry at me......
@@geikohina both of you looked like a million bucks !! I love her little ears so cute !!!
Thank you for sharing your experience. Respect must always go both ways. It is only then harmony can be preserved.
Yes, it should always be mutual 🌿
Thank you for sharing your experience with me and the world.
Thank you for taking the time to listen to the video ✨
Thank you Mayuhina-san for your latest, Part 2 video. These tourists that have been “flowing” into Japan, because of weak Yen, has and is bringing tourists; of course I believe not all of them, but the bad or disrespectful and unruly one’s, who are causing these issues for the local community. It’s very unfortunate that no type of security can be provided for the Geiko, Maiko-sans, to get to their jobs, and return to their Okiya. These unruly and disrespectful tourists needs to be taught Japan’s culture, practices, beliefs. And taught to be respectful of all peoples, of the country they are visiting. It is to understand what used to be said(and people understood,) “How would you feel if you(the tourist) was in her shoe(zori/Okobo.)”
Hello Spencer :) Thank you for your message here and in the previous video (my mother screenshotted and sent to me because she agreed with it 😂)
Yes, there are many factors to the problem. And the locals want things to change.
For now, I guess what we can do is to continue raising awareness.
The closest comparison I can make is the tourist treatment of the King's Guard from Great Britain. Because of their big hats and red jackets, visitors assume they are a tourist attraction. But their true job is to guard their posts. The difference is that you'll get your ass kicked if you tried to touch a soldier, as opposed to a Geisha.
Thank you for sharing your experiences and interactions. Your stories have made me reflect on the photos I took during my visit, which were always taken from a distance to avoid disturbing the presence that a Geiko or Maiko projects. While I cherish these pictures, I now realize that even from afar, this might be seen as intrusive. I also wonder if my own interactions, where I made eye contact, then respectfully lowered my gaze and tilted my head slightly, might have unintentionally crossed a boundary when all you seek is a peaceful space.
It is. If you want to do that you need to schedule it and pay. They're artisans and the art itself.
@@sleepysartorialist No I agree, however that would be difficult on a candid in context in the Gion. I am all for paying talent for there services, these pictures were taken many years ago.. I was reflecting on Mayuhina comment of respecting space and even how eye contact should be avoided to respect space.
Hello :) I'm glad there was something in the video that helped you reflect on your experiences.
Looking away after making eye contact is okay. But if that person continued to stare after I made eye contact, I think that would make me feel uncomfortable.
Not just for geiko/maiko, but any person, especially women in the world who often experience these things and feel unsafe.
Please do not worry about what happened in the past :) You are a respectful person.
@bubbavonbraun, You don't seem to understand @sleepysartorialist's comment.
For geisha and maiko, their profession is to show off their beauty and art to the customers who gather for them at their "destination."
Their passage on the public roads is like a back passage from the dressing room to the stage.
Behavior that disturbs their mental preparation to go on stage is very annoying.
Also, the idea of enjoying their beauty for free because that's not on stage is, an insult to the pride of the performers.
The point that "if you want to enjoy their beauty, you have to pay" is what it means, not that you should pay on the street.
This is not limited to geisha and maiko. Most Japanese people who see movie actors or professional athletes on the street do not talk to them or stare at them. This is because the Japanese community share the values and consideration mentioned above "Respect prides of professions."
@@datte_nanda_mon I do understand the comment, you miss the context of my response about street photography and the candid nature of it. Anything staged looses a level of authenticity in capturing the environment that Maiko/Geiko's are part of. Mayuhina understood my comment, her response to me was on point, its about respect and as you can see from the updated subject of the video.. Its about "How to respect a Geisha" not make sure you pay the Geisha.
Excellent and much needed video. Thank you, Mayuhina-san, and wishing you joy, success, and fulfillment in your retirement.🙇🏼♂🙇🏼♂🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
Thank you, Bruce ✨
I always wanted to see a real geisha, now i know how to respect them,
ありがとうございます🙇🏻
thank you for sharing your perspective. I feel really terrible about why these tourists are so disrespectful and unable to comprehend cultures.
Thank you for taking the time to listen to my story ✨
舞妓さんが言うだけで重圧がありますね。空気を読むは、日本人にしか備わっていないので、外国人に求める事はできないですし、この動画をカフェや公共施設など観光客が立ち止まる場所で、流しっぱなしにしたら、少しでも効果があるかもですね。日本を代表するお仕事です。頑張って下さい。
I truly understand what you are saying. I think Japanese people are born with a unique sensibility. I was also surrounded by tourists when I went out to eat with a maiko, and I had to protect her. However, ordinary Japanese people kept their distance from us and never got in our way. When I met you, I was overwhelmed by your beauty and couldn't help but look down. 😄
コメントありがとうございます✨
Hina-san what happened to your other videos? I hope everything is going good. Arigato gozimasu for sharing!!❤❤❤
ありがとうございます
When I was in Kyoto about 10 years ago, I asked a Geiko if I could take a photo. She nodded yes, and so I did. However, I felt like I had done something wrong and like I bothered her. She might not have felt comfortable saying no even if she didn’t want to stop for a photo. I still feel bad about it, and I would never do it again.
Even back then though, I would never have approached or took a photo without asking and getting consent. Please understand that not all tourists are like the terrible ones you encountered. What you experienced was wrong and unacceptable. Those tourist should be ashamed of themselves. However, many of us do want to appreciate from afar and not bother anyone.
Hello :) Thank you for your words of reflection.
Please do not feel bad about things that happened in the past.
Yes, not everyone is like that. Thank you for being respectful ✨
When I’m travelling I either ask if I could take a picture, or leave people alone. When I was in the US on a bus, an elderly man who looked Native American got on, What struck me, and caught my attention was his face: he looked fascinating as he had a face that had years of stories etched in every wrinkle. I was gonna ask to take a picture, but I realised, the dude is just going about his day, so I didn’t bother. I just lived in the moment, noticed him, the story of who he was captured more than a photo could anyway. And I think we miss these behind the lens of a camera sometimes.
That woman with the camera was completely rude and uncalled for. People need to realise they’re not entitled to a strangers time, and consider they might be busy or needed elsewhere.
Your story of the woman with the camera in Tokyo reminded me of a similar experience I had with tourists in St. Andrews Scotland. Me (a Scot) bought a scotch pie, and a can of Irn Bru and was eating it. Ahead of me, a group of Asian tourists (probably from mainland china?) stopped me and proceeded to take photos of what I was eating as I was eating it. Asking what it was, and asked if they could take better photos of it.
Confused, and me being Glaswegian (from Glasgow, we can be quite open, chatty and friendly right off the bat). So I explained what I was eating was a Scotch pie from Greggs, the drink was Irn Bru, but if they really want the best pictures was to buy the same from Greggs!
They thanked me and eventually went off on the side-quest I just set up to find the legendary Scotch pie and Irn Bru from Greggs! It was a strange experience.
The next similar experience was when I wore my Kilt in Italy. I’d get calls out in Italian, mostly harmless like “Scozezzie” or “Braveheart” but the strangest was a random woman getting her male partner to slow down the car to take photos, she then got him to drive ahead of me quickly, turn around the block to double back to catch me get more! So, Being followed in a car was a bit unnerving, especially since I didn’t know the culture and language.
Generally the world has gotten worse by moral decay, thanks for sharing your story.
😭 ahhh "moral decay"
Thank you for viewing ✨
Thank you for another insightful conversation. It seems quite obvious that there are multiple factors at work in these situations. One is certainly a lack of knowledge, and your videos are probably the best antidote against much of the disturbance. There are cultures where the personal space is not so relevant, and I am sure your upbringing already showed you that. Rest assured that there are also cultures that do share the same attention to it: my parents always told me that it is highly impolite to stare at people, and I applied the same rule with my son's upbringing. It is a form of courtesy and manners that is very well understood in most parts of Europe as well -- although some of the younger generations have not been taught as well as the older ones.
Unfortunately, this is not just a Japanese problem. I can offer a personal anecdote: I lived for 12 years in Austria, in Carinthia. I am not Austrian, however during my stay I adopted the language and some of the clothing style that was prevalent there: large woollen cloaks, jackets and suits. Furthermore, I also have the habit of suiting up quite often: a three-pieces suit, tie, pocket watch and a wide brimmed hat. Nothing extraordinary, but certainly not common. I must say that my attire attracted a small but significant amount of unwarranted comments, some of them quite disagreeables.
Oh, well. Shame on them.
Ignorant people are unfortunately everywhere, but we -- collectively -- have agency: we can do something. You do a great service to all geiko-san and maiko-san with your videos, and we well-mannered tourists can be active as well, in deeds and words. We can set the example.
One final consideration: my culture demands that a gentleman should intervene if a lady is bothered by some ill-mannered individual. I can only hope that someone of appropriate physical presence will rise to the occasion and intervene -- as you so effectively did -- to underscore even more the message of "Do. Not. Bother. Them".
It will pass, of that I am certain. Courage.
L.
P.S. Your cat is adorable 🙂
You mentioned my cat!! She will be so happy
"Lack of knowledge"
"Highly impolite to stare at people"
"Not just a Japanese problem"
"We--collectively--have agency. We can set the example"
Thank you for sharing your experience as well as words of encouragement 🙇♀
Since I was 11 I have wanted to go to Kyoto and attend an Ochaia with Maikosan or Geikosan but I don't want to be part of this horror story for artists I really admire. No one deserves to be treated in the way you describe.
I am SO sorry this has been your experience, , it's shameful and Im so thankful you are speaking out about your experience.
Thank you for understanding ♡
Thank you for your insights. It's a shame that tourists don't even have the courtesy to ask for photos (and for you to refuse the request) 😔 They're so self entitled and think that it's their right. They don't even acknowledge how scared and uncomfortable you look. Unfortunately, some people don't bother to learn other countries' etiquette 😔. I am so sorry that you have had bad experiences 🙏
Hello, Amanda :) Thank you for understanding ✨
Your life at that point, I think, was very Nobel. I wonder now what your future holds. I think maybe Japan is where you are most suited. Japanese are very different from the rest of the world in their actions. To look down when they would like to look is very Japanese. It is not very anybody else. But if I knew as I now do, I will look down and make room. Thank you for your teaching points and experiences.
Hello Derek :) I am not sure where I belong 😅
Yes....not every Japanese person is polite, but as a whole, they are very respectful of space and privacy. Thank you for viewing and sharing your thoughts.
Let her voice be heard and re-echoed. In behalf of her sisters she represents. Please be gentle with them, be considerate and respect their personal boundaries. Avoid harassing them, avoid stalking them, give them way, and be courteous. Specially to tourists, please refrain from being entitled and annoyingly rude. Please behave like civilized humans. Respect the culture and customs as you cherished your stay in Kyoto. Her simple request deserves attention. Please respect them as people. Respect begets respect. (Geiko-san looks like Ada Wong from RE4:Remake, I appreciate her effort voicing out her concern). Again, when you're privileged to see a Maiko/Geiko remember their presence are "For your eyes Only." Just like what she said, admire them from afar.
My honest advice for all the tourists: Just don't go to these places. Of course you kinda miss out on this experience, but it seems like it's unavoidable to be part of the problem and most likely you would do something wrong, not by intention, just by not knowing certain culural nuances. There are so many other places out there in Japan. Do your research and avoid contributing to mass tourism.
Agreed. I live in Kyoto and generally avoid Gion as much as I can, unless I’m going to eat there or see an Odori. Hopefully the opening of the Gion Kagai Art Museum takes some of the heat off the geiko, since people can line up to take photos with maiko there.
And since moving here I’ve found there are many ways to see maiko and geiko in ways that contribute to the kagai. You can catch the spring dances, join a maiko beer garden, book a tour that includes a maiko performance, etc. All it takes is a bit of googling or a visit to a tourism office.
I feel like there are different levels to this. Just my opinion, but some of the disrespect shown is straight up ignorance and doesn’t necessarily have to do with not understanding cultural differences. If someone asks you not to take photos, you should be able to take a hint and stop. I’m sure some of this happens because it’s Japan and foreigners know that they are generally not confrontational people. I am fairly certain something like this would never go down here in the US. I appreciate Mayuhina’s perspective and explanation of the contrast between Japanese and foreigners and have learned a lot about how I should conduct myself should I ever encounter a geiko-san.
I would like to add that if there are ever good experiences with foreigners, that those experiences be shared on UA-cam as well.
I hope that the situation improves in Kyoto and elsewhere, but videos like this need to be shared in order to spread awareness.
Shoving cameras in someone's face or standing in their way is not a cultural nuance, it's not acceptable anywhere in the world. Japan needs tourism and is clearly not prepared well enough for the amount of people visiting. There's always going to be people not following the rules, knowing or unknowingly, even Japanese sometimes. I don't see that the millions of tourists are all ignoring the rules and laws, we only hear from the ones that do. Not going somewhere is hardly the solution. As more and more poeple get to know the country, they will also get to know the rules and the authorities will find ways to deal with the people that don't abide by them.
I always feel amusing these ideas that foreigners are unable to understand the Japanese culture that would be to sophisticated...we just talk about basic education here, we talk about harassment, we talk about women disrespect. Geiko are women and I think just applying basic rules of respect would work. But there are stupid people everywhere, including Japanese people insulting gaijin...
Fascinating story and insight, thank you for sharing!
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I´m so sorry for what happend to you or what has been done by tourists to you. Me and my Wife will visit Japan for the first time in late August. We are busy learning basic japanese and rules of behaviour rules. I think it is our responsibility as guests to act respectfully towards the host and to treat Japanese culture and people responsibly. We are looking forward to our vacation and hope to be welcome in Kyoto.
I'm so sorry these things happened to you (and so many other Geikosan and Maikosan too) - those situations sounded so scary too... people really need to be more considerate of others and I really don't understand why for some "being a tourist" equals "disrespecting others" like this. Like... they wouldn't want to be swarmed by random people, shoved, having their photo taken without permission, having people yell at them (even if it's compliments) - the why do it to others? Just because they are in vacation, the rest of the world is neither on vacation as well, nor does it turn into an amusement park with everyone working for them... It's sad to see and hear how little people like that care about others feelings.
You protecting you お姉さん was very brave. It is super intimidating to speak up against a strangers, especially if you're alone against a group and they're taller than you. Glad they gave up fast. (the audacity though... "BuT I wANnA TakE A PhoTO" - the world doesn't revolve around you, geez...!)
If I were ever to witness such a situation, I will try to gather up my courage and help the person in trouble or danger out as well. I would want someone to help me out too if it were me!
As for making eye contact, I usually give people a polite smile and then move along (or, if I'm focusing on something else, I tend to just look through them and make sure not to bother them). They have their everyday business, I have mine. That should go for travelers too.
You are such an empath. "BuT I wANnA TakE A PhoTO" made me laugh.
Yes, standing up to strangers is intimidating, but we must do it when others cannot help themselves. Thank you for responding so thoroughly and understanding ♡
What a beautiful and Graceful woman. Calmly giving such information with resonance
日本政府は観光客向けに注意勧告をし何らかの対処が必要ですね！なのに政府は動かない😅
日本の文化 < 訪日観光客が落とす金
ヨダレを垂らす政府は本当に日本人ですかね？
Recently, more signage threatening fines in Gion Kobu streets and alleys were put up. Sadly, I am sure that these signs will also only fall on “blind” eyes. Much like your Shikomi experience, many, many decades ago, geimaiko had Hakōya (assistants) to help carry their instruments, umbrella, etc. I think that each Kagai should “hire” volunteer Hakōya to assist/protect them from one Ozashiki to another, etc and at least run interference to help insure that geimaiko can be timely. I am pretty sure that they could enlist many university students, especially the ones studying about Japanese history and culture for this task. This issue/problem is a hot-topic now and your video is so well done and thought out. Thank you for sharing your experiences and your feelings. Your forever fan…
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Thank you always for your thoughtful comments.
I didn't know about hakoya-san. Yes, that might be something the kagai could consider implementing.
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Good morning. Thank you very much for addressing this topic. I find the behaviour of tourists absolutely deplorable. It would never have crossed my mind to have that kind of behavior. Thank you, too, for mentioning the way the Japanese interact with the geikosan and maikosan, because if I go to Japan, as I intend to go, I can react respectfully. In my hometown I also try to avoid the tourists areas because of the behaviour of many of them. Congratulations on this very interesting video. I wish you a good week.
Hello Jose. Thank you for your thoughtful message and finding something you can take away from the video. Please take care ✨
this is the same issue we're having here in Europe with mass immigration. too many foreigners (no matter if tourists or migrants) who don't adhere to local rules automatically make a place less pleasant!
I don’t know how anyone can treat another person like that with a camera. It’s so disgusting. I’m sorry you had to experience this. It makes me ashamed to be Western. I went to Japan a few years ago. I bowed to everyone who bowed to me and made sure I found out what was appropriate before I went. A Japanese man told me I was the only tourist who had ever bowed to him. Wishing you all the best for the future. May we all learn from your video. Thank you for sharing.
この人素顔の方が綺麗だと思う。
Unfortunately tourists many times have a sense of privilege coupled with a complete ignorance of the local culture. I’m always saddened when I hear these stories. I’ve made many trips to Japan and every time I’ve gone I’ve learned something new culturally, if just by observation. Early on though I learned that respect is one thing I can always give, even if I don’t understand the nuances completely. I think it’s important if we as a foreigners see something like this going on that we say something to the tourists if we can. Be part of the solution, not part of the problem. Tourists need to respect the natives, you are a guest in their country.
What a horrible thing you went through on those two occasions, I imagine how bad several Geiko-san and Maiko-san felt. I really hope that it improves in some way, I will try to help in some way, sharing your video, and also producing videos to try to raise awareness as many people as I can.
Thank you, Gui for always reposting my things 😅
I wish you the best on your channel :)
@@geikohina Thankyou 😊
USA = Obsessive focus on individuality
Japan = Extreme focus on collectivity
The two are on the extrem far polar ends on the spectrum.
There are less differences between USA and China than there are with Japan.
日本女性の向上心は中世以前からのものですね。芸妓、舞妓の始まりも三百年の時を経て女性が行儀しきたり、そして芸を身につけて初めて就ける職業。選ばれた女性達です。それを現代の我々にリアルな世界として継承してくれています。これから先の未来へも継承させる義務を一般の日本人も負ってる様に思います。文化財とかではなく日々の生活の中にある娯楽文化は一番大切な大和心ですね。
私は京都には数度行きましたが祇園と八坂神社にもいきましたが芸舞子さんや芸者さんに会う機会がなかったけどそんなにも異常な体験があったとわ知りませんでしたが どうか未来の為に此の文化を無くさ無いように継承して下さい美しく気高く華麗であって下さいね
古都京都の神社や佛閣とほぼ同等かそれ以上に価値が有る芸妓さんや舞妓さんは重要な観光資源（もちろん文化的な意味合いは沢山あるのだが、ただ何百年も前からそこに在る建物と違って、彼女らは現実に生きているし、その姿でいる時は〝仕事中〟だから）ですから、旅行社とかツアーを企画する業者が積極的に彼女らを守る意識を持つ事が大事だし、彼らが客（旅行者）に対してその事をパンフレットやwebでアピールし、周知を図る必要があると思う。
There is a natural curiosity for a visitor to another country to witness something they never would in their own country, but in every instance (and country/culture) a quick look at how the local population react should be be a strong indicator on how to behave.
Experiencing someone in cultural attire is unique and the reality is tourists will inevitably wish to document that experience.
With today’s smartphone technology, there’s no excuse to not simply do that from afar, well out of the way of disturbing them & others going about their daily business.
I’m interested to know if Maiko/Geiko are educated on how to handle unintended public interactions?
I think some people are unaware that Geiko-san and Maiko-san are not a part of Kyoto's larger tourist industry (unlike e.g. the people dressing up as Samurai) but are still active jobs - part of the cultural heritage as something historical, but still a line of work. So Geiko-san and Maiko-san don't do what do they do specifically to preserve and represent a part of Japanese cultural heritage and show it to the tourists, they do what they do because this is their profession - which just happens to be historical and an integral part of Japanese cultural heritage. I think Kyoto could've made a better job at communicating this (and at a few other aspects in how to manage tourism), nevertheless I don't see any problem with banning this district. In other countries there are, for example, old buildings or very sensitive historical sites which are only possible to preserve by banning entry and allow visitation only from a distance, so this is action is not unheard of. I think this was such big news only because the Japanese state media made a big deal out of it - I've no idea why is it so cool to hate on tourists while oversea tourism is a huge part of Japan's economy, specifically Kyoto would've went bankrupt 10-15 years ago without its enormous revenue from tourism.
The story about shoving a camera into your face so agressively (and without asking for permission) was infuriating. E.g. in pretty much any European country something like this is straight-up shameful and completely unacceptable towards anyone regardless of how they are dressed or what their occupation is, but for sure you'll find a very few people anywhere who lack the basic decency not to do such a thing. (In some countries the pushing part is fairly common - even if still in the minority -, unfortunately.)
However, about the part where all Japanese people were looking down to avoid any chance of looking at you, that might be a bit too much to ask. Staring is kind of rude in a lot of countries (in mine too) but just looking (without intense staring, making comments, or hindering movements) in what is essentially a public space... I can understand the sentiment, I don't like it either when this happens (and I'm not even nearly as interesting as a Geiko-san or Maiko-san, so it happens much-much less frequently with me), but it is human nature to be curious about the unusual, the extraordinary. (And let's note that Japanese people can do a lot of staring at foreigners as well because of the skin colour that's unusual/extraordinary/borderline exotic from a Japanese perspective.)
I agree with your message, and thank you for understanding.
Yes, in reality it is too much to ask people to "not look" and it's not something I expect.
I think I wanted to share that example not to say "don't look" but to share the sentiment Japanese generally people feel towards maiko and geiko, which I think differs from what tourists generally might see.
They see them as people, and it is not so much "exotic" because it is a part of Japanese culture, their own culture, which they are familiar with.
In contrast, I can see how Japanese people may stare at foreigners because they see them as unusual/exotic.
I was just thinking about the city doing something to prevent this mess jn the first place. Ban is a last measure, nuclear option and if at this point it’s the only one that helps, I think it should be utilized. But why not have tourist police in the historical areas especially like this? Do not make businesses pay for their own security, because that’d be too expensive and government is interested in them going, considering historical and cultural value it has. But regulating tourism in sensitive places (ban is not regulation, it’s prohibition, that’s why it’s a last measure) is really a must.
@@jamkp1685 from what I've found, in 2023 the tourism tax income from oversea tourism was ~40 billion JPY. I couldn't find how much was this percentage-wise in the overall yearly government revenue but the 2024 annual budget for the Japanese government is 112,57 trillion JPY, so 40 billion is approx. 3,5% of that. That might not seem significant, but a budget consists of hundreds/thousands of small items, so if there's a single one which individually is 3,5% that is actually very significant. Japan's expenditure on pensions in 2017 was 6,5% of their annual budget - I couldn't find just now quickly how much was it in 2023, but it is safe to say that it is still around 6,5% because from 2000 to 2017 the increase was 1,7%. So the direct tax revenue coming from oversea tourism is roughly as much as half of all the pension expense. This is how significant this number is.
Also, it is not just the tourism tax what the government directly collects. Tourists spend on accomodation, food, souvenirs, transportation, tickets to whatever they are watching/visiting, this is revenue for city governments and Japanese businesses who also pay income-based taxes, plus there's VAT on the purchases. So the indirect income generated by oversea tourism can be much bigger than the direct one.
This indirect impact is very unevenly distributed throughout Japan, with some places (like Kyoto) getting a huge share of tourism, while other places (e.g. the Tohoku region) getting close to nothing. So for the ones in the 1st category the impact can be huge.
I don't want to put here a whole case study/report (I'm an economist so I always get excited when I can share the aspects of this field with others, I'm trying my best not to go overboard here :D), so just briefly: unfortunately Kyoto made some very bad financial decisions in the '80s (they thought the Japanese economy boom will last forever and no expenditure is too much) so the city is in a lot of debt ever since, while they have a lot of amazing historical sites which cost an amazing amount of money to maintain - their local tax revenues can hardly cover it. So during the covid lockdown Kyoto almost went bankrupt, that is how decisive the oversea tourism-generated revenue is for Kyoto. (If you'd like to know more, there were a lot of youtube videos about this, as this is extremely rare, especially in Japan there was only 1 city in modern history which went bankrupt. Some of those videos were done with people specializing in the Japanese economy who for sure know a lot more than me.)
@@geikohina I completely agree with your point, apologies for the misunderstanding. My goal was to make a kind of comparison. That for a foreign tourist seeing a Geiko-san or Maiko-san is extraordinary/exotic the same way as for certain Japanese people to see an African, European, or American foreigner. So even though staring is not nice, it might be that they can't help it. (But shouting comments, obstructing your movement, especially trying to make photos agressively and without permission - too much, curiosity cannot be an excuse for these.)
@@Tesis I too am very curious about this. Japan has quite a lot of police personnel compared to the crime rate. So on paper the police should have the numbers to post some foot patrols around or within this district.
Also, for example I see a lot of news about the littering problem. Some tourists litter in European countries too, they get a nice fine from a police officer then they learn not to litter anymore. And I believe the Japanese law has littering listed as an offence, so there is judicial background to hand out fines - in return this could cover the costs of cleaning up.
Times have changed. It’s time to realize that Geiko/Maiko need escorts even if it not traditionally the normal procedure. There are too many self-centered people as of late.
Thank you, for sharing those stories. It sounds extremely horrible for your sister - financial things aside, she must have felt very uncomfortable.
But I am appalled by the idea of someone forcing a camera on someone else.
If it happens because you take a panorama - okay. But right next to the Face? That is a huge no.
But I also feel that those type of tourists come always, when visiting a place is popular and leave when the next new and shiny thing arrives.
And it's unpleasant for everyone. Because it gives also a negative idea on visitors/tourists.
Yes, some people do a lot of strange things. And it's sad that when it happens so often, it becomes normalized and we get used to it. Thank you for understanding.
That second story. The shove sounds passive aggressive. I'm so sorry you had that experience. Being physically assaulted in any way is very stressful and I can understand how upset that must have made you.
It was upsetting T_T Thank you for understanding...
9:22 i just saw a video of a women do that to a geiko in tiktok she was running after her too 💀💀
Omg i am so sorry! I think Geikos need bodyguards after hearing that
インバウンドによる金だけが目的のホテル業、観光業界、物販や政治家が嘆かわしい。
もっと外国人観光客の迷惑行為防止策の立案、実施、必要であれば法整備を精力的に行うべき。
Have you read or heard of the book Geisha: A Life by Mineko Iwasaki? She talks a lot about how going through all of this during the 60s & 70s.
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Very interesting video!
I just wish to let you know that there are also many tourists who do respect boundaries. Unfortunatelly they are overshadowed by the rude ones, because you generally won't notice the well behaved ones, since they don't bother you.
(I don't necessarily mean myself, that would have to be judged by others. Though I do try to respect the culture that I am visiting, there might be instances when I am ignorant and unintentionally rude. I also want to mention that I have never been to Japan, but am interested in your culture and am self-studying Japanese. However I'll be the first to admit that there is still a lot that I don't know, especially about geishas, geikos and maikos.)
With all that being said, I actually agree with the district ban for tourists, since there will sadly always be those that will harrass. I think it could also be solved by a very hefty fine, but that would mean there would have to be a lot of law enforcement in the area and it would also involve a lot of paperwork and honestly be probably quite a hastle.
I just wish you wouldn't lump all tourists into the same batch.
Especially with the eye contact - that is mainly a cultural thing that most foreigners have no way of knowing or remembering when they see you. It might seem rude to you, but it is simply difference in culture. 😊
Yes, there are many tourists who are respectful :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
I visited Japan before COVID and would like to come back again. However I’m reluctant with all the controversy about over tourism and bad behaviour by tourists. I think I’d feel uncomfortable and like an unwelcome guest at the moment.
I think you should still come! As long as tourists are respectful, I don't think there's a problem.
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The tourist at Tokyo Station (holding the camera) trying to get back at you for not complying her "request". Not only it's incredibly rude, but highly disrespectful to shove you like that. Like, WTH? Stop treating Japan, especially international countries, like an amusement park. Yes, they can admire maiko and geiko, but please be respectful. Sorry for what you and your sisters have to go through.
It's just disgusting how tourists can treat geisha. As if they're not even human, and that they feel entitled to the geisha's time and space. UGH!
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I'm very sorry and frustrated.
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I am sorry
Those tourists are rude and entitled for sure 🙄
They were......-___-
A woman who is like a model as a geisha.
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Hey, I don't think it's about being Japanese or not. It's about elementary personal culture and that's exactly what rules of savoir Vivre are all about.
Unfortunately it looks like only in Japan still people are taught from generation to generation how to behave properly and these are just the results of that education and requirements of the vast majority of Japanese society.
I would say that it's normal that if somebody is carrying a lot of stuff, you should make space for that person so it would be possible for him/her to pass.
Next time you could be in exact same position and it should be normal that other people should also make space for you.
Staring is also terrible manner no matter if you are staring at a beautiful woman, a disabled person, different height person or just anybody. Staring means no more no less than just bad manners and it works same way all over the world.
The different topic is that unfortunately in other parts of the world is bad mannered but unfortunately acceptable and done by lots of people which is truely sad...
I am really sorry for your experience, it had to be definitely unpleasant but I can tell you that you have experienced couple of time something which well-mannered people who were not lucky enough to be born in Japan experience on a daily basis...
Unfortunately it's an every day struggle in public spaces...
Nevertheless, I wish that due to raising everness it will be getting only better and better!
Yes, this issue connects to many similar issues around the world. Tourism, harassment, and basic lack of etiquette and respect. Thank you for understanding and sharing your thoughts :)
I am very sorry that you and your sisters have to endure this. I hope the Japanese government puts a much higher tax on tourists so that tourist areas can hire more security officers. Then perhaps, geisha can arrange for an escort when going to work. Maybe tax relief or government subsidies? Tourism is a double edged sword, many Japanese livelihoods depend on tourism. With the yen so low, tourist misbehavior might increase. Beg your government to raise taxes on tourists. ❤
I think you guys need foreign bodyguards to fight off tourists .
thanks for the video. We heard and saw bad tourists, can you tell us about bad guests, if there is "sexual harassment". There is a twitter from former Maiko about how girls are treated badly by their guests and "mothers"
Actually, this is a common sense rule. You don't need training to be respectful. I really don't understand these people! . Makes me angry!!!
Lets be honest here I'll bet all the tourists were from China. I may be wrong, but I would wager I am right
Nah, it's entitled white tourists. The videos of tourists chasing down geisha are all white trash.
It's a culture issue. That's why the Rich and Famous need bodyguards and Security in the United States.
The first “geisha” appeared in the 13th century and were originally men known as “taikomochi”. These men acted as both advisors and entertainers for their lord. The first female geisha appeared in 1751.....so Japan had a whole of time to understand about Geisha since the Edo Period .....but ....to the Western people especially United States, the Geisha culture is a still a new thing.
The Fake Geishas making into the sex industry; which make the real Geishas look bad.
Omotenashi does NOT Existence with in the United States....maybe a small concept of Omotenashi may be a part of the Southern States of the United States, but besides that, most Americans do not raised up with Hospitality and Respect is part of everyday life.
American customer service is totally different from Japanese customer service. Americans are like, "me, myself & I".
kaizen does NOT Existence in United States either. It's all about getting Big paycheck. LOL
..so ...yeah, It's a culture issue; which people who travel to Japan, they act like stupid Americans. ha....they will be like, "omg! A Maiko!" or "omg! A Geisha". LOL
Personality, I have never went outside of United States but I do know and understand enough to know better since I was a kid.
Like in Part 1 of your excellent video, I understand your concerns completely.
But the first thing to understand for you, is that tourists are not Japanese. Tourists' expect to see whatever they like and behave however they like! This is a problem with the country that they travel from, as well as a problem with the person themselves. You mentioned 'entitlement' in your first video, and that's exactly the problem! People from USA, China, Australia and Europe etc. have this type of entitlement - "I've paid for it, so now I'm going to get it!"
We see similar behaviours in London too, with people interfering with Royal Guards etc. The difference is that, Royal Guards defend aggressively their freedom to not be interfered with. Maiko san and Geiko san do not!
Interfering with their work is always wrong, but touching and aggressive photographing is illegal. It is in The West, so why is it tolerated in Japan? The reason is that Japanese people are very respectful of their culture and their people, and expect others to be too. Tourists from countries that I mentioned, do not!
As you mentioned, the females that work in your profession are so mysterious to the rest of The World. People want to see it, but are incapable of seeing it from a distance. They want that 'close up' photo to show their friends. But they do not realise what a special thing it is, or what an honour it is, to see it
I don't know what the answer is? You can't ban all tourists from seeing the beauty of Japan and, it seems, you can't educate them either??
Rude, ignorant people, will always travel to Japan - as they do to other places in the World. Look at the examples of people carving their names in historic places around the World, like The Colosseum in Rome? I am afraid that these people will always be present. I sympathise so much with you and everything you have said, and all I can say is to stay strong and do your best to carry on being your normal self. It is so sad.
Thank you for your video; hopefully more people will see it and learn from it.
Thank you for your insightful message.
It is sad that this problem exists everywhere in the world.
In human nature, men persuade by force of will whereas women persuade by grace and patience. While Japanese culture set out a path to mastery for women, which is the way of the Geisha, no comparable phenomenon arose in Western culture, bar perhaps the Ballet (although there are hints of such a social system to be found in the lost civilization of the Minoans of Crete). Western women today however seek mastery by competing directly with men, they choose to dominate by masculine force, they regard your path of discipline, sacrifice and acquiescence as yet another form of oppression from which they would like to 'liberate' you. The woman who shoved you at the train station was I think enraged by your reserved and reticent dignity, she mistook it for weakness, she wanted you also to push and shove your way as she does. If only Japan could afford to close itself to tourism and the west I think it would be better for you, even though for the rest of us it would mean losing the brightest star in our sky.
Over at the KonichiValue channel there’s a new video about Kyoto being the worst run city in Japan and it’s political corruption. And guess who’s being used as a scapegoat and distraction? Tourists.