As someone who has worked from home the last few years - it's a blessing and a curse. I am glad you are finding ways to improve that and improve the family dynamic. You are doing great man. Proud of you!
Jordan, please ignore the comments (except this one -ha!). You and Mrs Bricksie are making decisions that are best for your whole family. Nobody has any business judging your choices, and you both clearly adore those wonderful tiny humans of yours. It’s going to be good for all of you. ❤
its nobody's business, but thats the downside of posting your entire life online. I'm sure other people gossip about me also but the difference is that there is no comment section in real life...
@milky4672 i agree wirh u 100% as Jordan was talking about the comments hating iam thinking do you man. We your fans will still be here and if u need to go home and see ur family and not vlog it online unless u really want to vlog go for it. Also ur city will be there. I understand that u feel the need to get all the content out thir for the update mainly so u can get paid . I was told by a friend that ur best ally is you looking out do ur self. I thing ur a cool person and the is a reason people follow unon this platform. Best of luck tou u ans ms brickisie and ur channel Jordan. 😊
Came here to say pretty much the same thing. You both make decisions for yourselves and what you think is best for your family. No one should judge you for your decisions. Also… thank you for opening up about your loneliness. I know you said you’re “ok”, and “fine”… but you opening up about your struggles (however small) is a really positive thing to hear. Love your content, Jordan. And that curved road looks great, too. ❤️
As an early childhood educator, you and your wife are choosing an amazing adventure for your children. They will learn so much and you both will be able to replenish yourselves. Taking care of young children is very taxing. Please do not listen to negative comments .
One word BALANCE. The best thing is you have both come to the same realization 'together', it time to re focus on what comes first, HEALTH, FAMILY and a distant 3rd work. Notice 'work' is in lowercase because it will be there every day it's relentless and will as you mentioned DRAIN you mentally and physically. I watched my beloved wife BURN herself OUT totally. Seizure disorder, total physical collapse not a good place. It's taken her quite some time to recover and she still has issues. Do NOT continue down that path. BALANCE and recalibrate, you and the kids will be sooo much better off. We all LOVE the channels but your collective wellbeing is MORE important than any UA-cam channel content. Be safe and WELL!
Putting your kids in daycare is one of the best things to get them used to new settings, developing social skills, early education etc ….. I can’t believe people left those comments lol. As if the people leaving those comments remember being 2 to 5. People forget this is how you make money so this is your job, so if you weren’t doing this and had a 9 to 5 you’d see your kids probably even less because there is no flexibility. Most people would not do what you do to get to the level you are on but they will complain about your success because they don’t have your life and perks with Lego etc… stay up brotha
It'll be great soon!!! The kids will be in daycare, meeting another kids, making friends and learning a lot of new stuff! You gonna be working with Mrs. Bricksie soon and everything will be awesome!!! You're a great guy, never forget that! Just wanted to mention too that you make my days a LOT less loneliest!!! Thanks a lot man!
Only you and Mrs Bricksie know what is best for your family. Try and ignore the negativity. To many people nowadays are obsessed with decisions others are making that affect them in no possible way. Keep up the great content. The majority here support you.
I appreciate watching your videos on both channels because of all the talking you do. I’m away from my family for a prolonged time very often for work, and I think what a lot of the negative people don’t realize is that this is your livelihood. It’s very fortunate that you love your work, but it is also still work. Having Mrs. Bricksie with you not only makes the work more efficient, so that we fans can get more creative Lego content, but also helps keep you sane and motivated. Any negative comments about how you can always make money are way out of touch and come from a place of privilege. It’s unreal anyone judges you for having your children in daycare (where they make friends!)
As someone with a child just shy of two years old… I would say…. ignore all of the comments about childcare being bad!!! Every parent deserves a break and every kid needs time away from parents to be with other kids and learn how to socially develop… you are doing the right thing for you and your family and you shouldn’t be made to feel guilty about it 🩵
People are just so quick to jump on what they think is negative and focus on it. I think the level headed fans of the channel completely agree with your sentiments. It'll be all around positive for everyone, the kids included!
Good for you brother. Daycare is very important for social interaction. So many kids don't get that at a young age and it shows big time. They will love you for it when they get older. Keep up the great work my dude!
Speaking as a stay at home mother …. Yes it is exhausting. And it’s lonely , I wish daycare had been a thing back then. You are both doing a great job. You will all be better for being apart. Give yourselves permission to be apart knowing they are well looked after . Now look after yourselves . Thanks for sharing .
i'm overjoyed that you and mrs bricksie are going to be able to work together again - and the kids are going to learn to be with others. it's all a win-win. regarding loneliness - i was super lonely during the early days of covid. i live alone, and would mask up and go to walmart and other places, just to interact with strangers. i'm probably more like your brother - i need people. and if you call mrs bricksie 4 times a day, ... it's sweet. wishing you all the best. ps. road looks awesome!
It's really nice to hear you are prioritizing Mrs Bricksie having some time off after putting in so much time with the kids in those early years. My two kids are 12 & 10 now and their time in daycare was excellent and really great for their independence in the long run. Good for you for being a great dad, supportive partner and doing it all while keeping your own wellbeing in mind. "Lonely dad" is real but it's not unbeatable. UA-cam will be there when you are ready to upload, not the other way around
Thanks for the great video! It’s great that you acknowledge your struggle with loneliness while helping to normalize talking about mental health. It’s obvious that Josée is an amazing mother! You didn’t mention the obvious: that she’s had double the workload raising twins! I’ve only done it four times (working and staying at home), but spaced out, and I can’t imagine I’d be as organized and patient as Josée with twins. Being a full time stay at home mom is tough. Both of you deserve a happy work/life balance and your kids will only benefit from it. Here’s to the happier future ahead for all four of you!
Im a career fireman and from the sound of it your suffering from something we call burnout … try to switch things up take more time to yourself .. the LEGO city can wait heck I prefer it takes longer .. space is finite eventually you’ll hit a wall … personally I love daily uploads but I think you can do that without working 12-14hrs … all the best my brother hope you feel better
I think that was a great and honest video about mental health All your viewers could see how the negative comments (about their perceived lack of progress with the Lego city) which I disagree with btw had affected you deeply and the loneliness compounded it as I expect it was something you were thinking about so much. I am glad things are looking better for you and Mrs Bricksie with Daycare which will benefit both of you and the kids
Hey Bricksie. Many of the people who watch your content can relate to the situation in some capacity. Do whatever you feel is right for your family. Never let ANYone shame you for how you spend time with your family or how you conduct your business. If it means you post less so you can continue being a great dad and husband, so be it. You make the content, we support it. There will always be more work. I initially struggled with many of the valid points you brought up. My son (13 going on 30) did the daycare thing under similar circumstances. It wasn't forever. It's also where he met 2 of his best friends. They've learned alot from each other over the past 13yrs and their families are great. Don't keep them isolated from other kids. Mrs. B needs and deserves some breathing space to have a fresh perspective and creativity when she's back by your side. This all part of parenting. You guys will continue to do well.
Thankyou for your honesty about mental health. I watch your channels and love all content. Please please please stop over thinking on negative peoples comments you and your wife have a fantastic bond with your children. Children need to be with other kids to help their development so you are doing the right thing. They will have to go to school full time and your introducing them gradually which is a good thing for them xxx
Completely agree with the kids going to daycare. They learn social skills, make friends, as well as start learning numbers, letters, etc. I have young kids who went to daycare and it was a great experience for them; they actually loved it. Also completely agree that not many people can handle being with their kids 24-7 with little to no help. It is good for the parents’ mental health as well to go to work, see friends, etc. That being said, the price of daycare is ridiculous!😵💫
Hi Jordan, thank you for being so real, i understand how you feel on the loneliness I work alone almost every day and I feel the same way there are only so many audiobooks and podcasts you can listen to. You guys are smashing it you got the dream job you work so so hard and you got the buy one get one free surprise with having twins it must be so hard to keep all the plates spinning. Do what you have to do if you ever have to choose between getting a video up and seeing the kids choose the kids every time real fans will be patient. Technically this counts as a city update too 👌🏻
Humans are social creatures. You’re not meant to exist in isolation. The feelings you’re having are normal. I’m glad that there is light on the horizon for you and for your whole family. I stayed home with my son until he started school, but when he was three, I put him in a Mother’s Day out program three days a week. It was the best decision my spouse and I ever made. I was able to breathe and have some time for myself. It also made me a better parent 1000%. At the end of the day-you do what’s right for your family!
Hey, Jordan, I was a stay at home dad for years and my Wife worked, we put all of our kids into daycare/crèche and it was so good for them! They learned stuff we couldn’t teach them and they learned to interact with kids their age 😀 Plus it gave Lorraine and myself time to hang out! You guys are doing the right thing and everyone will benefit from it 😀
Its about doing what is best for you to be the best parents you can be. Self-care is like putting on that air mask in the airplane on yourself first. If you don't take care of yourselves the family will suffer so kudos for identifying and addressing your needs. It is admirable. You communicated about the situation very clearly so I hope people will just be understanding, its not hard to do.
I've been worried about the bricksies for awhile so I am so happy to see you and your wife find some much needed balance. Moms and dads leave for work everyday and kids are just fine. Honestly once the kids get settled they will love it. I'm happy to see you both taking care of yourselves so you can take care of others. That's what good parents do.
My mom started a daycare in 1980 slightly before my younger brother was born and ran it up until 1996. It was challenging but all my mom's daycare kids keep in touch. We have watched them grow up get married and have kids of their own. Life long friendships were made and joys shared. I think you've made the right choice.
Jordan. Anyone that is not a parent doesn’t know the struggle. It’s hard so do what is right for you guys and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. Also, good for you for acknowledging your wife’s hard work and resilience. My wife did the same thing - I always marvelled at her strength. Take care of yourself too - it’s been clear to me in your videos you’ve been burnt out lately. I’ll keep watching tho mate, I enjoy watching your journey and your process 🙏
Your kids are going to LOVE daycare. Our two boys started out kind of shy the first few days but quickly asked to spend more time in daycare because they enjoyed the social time with other kids. My wife and I both feel that this transition you are going through was the absolute toughest time for us as parents and that's looking back at raising two kids who are now 18 and 22. Hang in there, it DOES get easier and you will see just how much the kids are going to enjoy this next stage in their lives. Your kids are so lucky to have the two of you! Remember, parenting is a marathon not a sprint. Take good care of yourselves.
I’ve been loving your channels with whatever you happen to be doing that day. I’m amazed at how productive you are. I hope you are able to get more done with Mrs. Bricksie on site. As a former day care provider myself, I would simply advise you to realize there are times when their mental health can also be negatively affected. The more you show your appreciation and understanding, the happier everyone will be. 😊 your cute kids will probably have a great time and will definitely start learning to talk more! Be prepared for chatterboxes!
Don't give a sh!t what people say to you. you and Mrs Bricksie are amazing parents. And your Lego city is not your number 1 priority. you do what you want in the city, and spend time with your family. I know you working with Mrs B will be amazing for you both, and then go and get the kids from daycare and end your evening at home with your family. I'll still be watching your updates. Take care mate
Hi there, it sounds like you need to slow down a little. take a small break even for a week or so. Spend quality time with your family & friends. Here's an idea: Ask yourself "What would i be doing IF I wasn't doing UA-cam or the "studio"?" AND do that. We UA-camrs are afraid to take breaks cause we "might" loose followers, who cares? If they don't understand then that's on them. My mom passed away back in January 2024 & I took a full 6 months off (I would upload an occasional video here and there, but that's it AND I would still have LIVE streams), I'm sure I lost Subs, but I think they came back eventually. I hope this advise helps. Thank you for ALL of your videos AND take a well deserved break!
I’m no expert, but I have studied psychology and mental health a bit, and based upon what you have said I think that you should take at least take one day a week to spend time with your family. It will help with your lonely issues and it can take some ease off your wife because I imagine she is exhausted as well and would like support too. As one who has runned himself into the ground due to overworking and not being with loved ones is unhealthy, physically and mentally. I can’t force you to do it, but Taking breaks and being with those who we love and being there to support each other is Super important. As a fan of your work, I can say for all of us that we really enjoy your work and I’m sure we won’t mind if you take the time you need to rest and take care of yourself. God’s Blessings on you, your beautiful family and the amazing building you do!!!
I'm confused, I thought only one of the kids was able to get into daycare this year? If they both got in now, Congrats! I can't believe people said you were putting them in, "the system." It's not jail, it's school. My mom was a single mom and put me into pre-K for a couple years until I was old enough for kindergarten. I loved it. It's bad enough people criticize how you handle your own Lego City, criticizing you as a parent is too much.
Hey Bricksie, ignore the random internet people that think they know what you should be doing. The only thing you should be doing is making your own decisions (with your wife, of course) based on your family's needs. Not that my opinion matters, but I think you and your wife have come up with a great plan that seems to suit your life needs. Daycare will be great for your kids as well as for you and your wife.
You simply cannot do it right for some people, no matter what you do. You and Jose do such a wonderful job! And it will be nice to have Jose with you in the studio and the kids in daycare. Daycare is a really good thing for kids; both of my kids learned how to socialize with other children when in daycare. And they make new friends and have a blast!
I can understand if/when people bring their kid(s) to daycare in some form or way. And I think people forget that raising twins is probably a lot harder then raising a single kid, or even 1 kid after the other. My kid is a few months younger then yours, so I can relate to the situation to a degree. I say to a degree since we only have 1 kid and every kid is different. Our situation was quite similar to yours with the mom being on almost fulltime "mom" duty and me working fulltime, although I can work from home 3 days a week. After he was 1 year old, he spend 1 day a week at one of his grandma's and from next month on, he'll go to "daycare" although it's more called pre-school for 2 mornings a week. I think that it is good for the kid to get to know a different environment, where he gets to play and interact with other kids of his age. This helps his development in every way (learning to do new things, learning to talk more/better, learing to play together, making friends). And it's not that this "daycare" is neglecting kids, there are teachers there who studied for this exact job and they are people who love doing that. And in the end if it helps our kid develop more/better and it keeps us a bit more sane (our you and ms Bricksie in your case), that also helps the kid(s) indirectly. A calm, rested and not grumpy parent is way better for the kid. The only advice I would give, but I ofcourse don't know if and to what extend you and ms Bricksie have already discussed this, is to try the daycare thing out for a bit, but rather start it a bit smaller (by which I mean fewer days and shorter in hours) and build that up depending on if the kids like it and what it brings you. If the kids don't like it as much and they are annoyed after each day, your remaining time with them is also less fun. If it turns out that 3 days a week from 9 to 3 is the best for everyone, do that instead of focussing on achieving 5 days from 9 till 5.
Your plan sounds great! Chin up and keep hanging on as your plan will bring sanity soon enough! It’s ok that things are taking longer … take care of yourself and your family. ❤
Jordan you’ve gone down a rabbit hole you just have to keep going, I’ve done it too, we watch you every day and love what you are doing keep at it my friend, your kids will get older, next phase in growing up and they will become a bigger part of everything too 😃
Each family should make their own decisions. I’ve watched you for a year now. You and Mrs B. are not selfish or foolish. Negative commenters should back off.
You two are the only ones who know what is best for your family and your business and no one else should be giving you an opinion. ( Except maybe the grandparents who are still your parents and still care and worry about you).
Totally understand having people around makes you more motivated. When I was a student writing and reading in a library full of people, it made me work so much better than sitting in my house alone, even though in both scenarios I'm just doing my own work not talking to anyone. There's something about being around others working that just makes yourself work better too.
You are doing the right thing for everyone that matters (aka your family). Never doubt that! On a personal note, I have to say I identify with your current struggle of loneliness. I live alone - no partner or kids - I work from home in a job that is fairly isolating most days. I have no family (all deceased) and 2 very close friends who I don’t have very many opportunities to see. I understand the loneliness you feel, especially as a fellow introvert. Oddly enough, for me it was part of what drove me to Lego and social media. Hang in there! Your days are about to get better and you and your family deserve that 😊
Kids get easier as they get older - you are in the toughest age right now. Your kids will love being with other kids everyday and will quickly make friends. Ignore the hate.
Jordan, this video has struck a nerve with me and my wife it’s the season we are going through the loneliness tiredness are something we are dealing with my wife has been a stay at home mum for 8 years and our youngest has just started school. We are both so tired or wives are amazing people who do all they can for our children. It will get better our is but never forgot to be there for your children. They will remember the experiences you have with them.
Happy for you guys to be sorting things out. I’m currently confused about the content on the 2 channels, but I expect you will settle that too in the next few weeks as your new routine kicks in.
I think it’s good that you talk so openly about mental health. As someone who has been living mostly in isolation and working from home for the last five years I can relate to your struggles.
Just a suggestion I’ve recently been jounelling each day to try and get my thoughts ordered, each night I just write all my thoughts before bed maybe you could start jounelling about your thoughts if you ever need to just get them out if your overwhelming
Dude, you and the Mrs are fantastic, loving parents. Anyone who doubts that are likely just trolling you, or have never seen your vids. Your kids are going to love daycare, and be more well-adjusted and sociable with the help of daycare. Soon, you'll be going home to kids super excited to tell you about THEIR days! Having Mrs Bricksie there three days a week is going to be great for your mental health, and you'll be able to really enjoy the couple days you'll have to yourself.
I went to daycare from the age of like 1 to the age of 5 and I turned out fine. Your UA-cam and lego studio is your job and you need to work obviously, so I think its pretty normal for kids to go to daycare even :)
Lol negative comments about daycare probably came from smothering house holds. Life aint easy and lifes a balancing act. So is family. Do what u gotta do brother! Your kids are lucky to have yall and daycare is a good experience overall. In regarda ro people saying daycare is detrimental-what about work? We grow up and go to work away from our families typically. It aint the end of the world distance is healthy amongst everyone. Keep doing u duder!!
Hi ! I'm a fan of Belgium. I find it good that you have the courage to talk about your mental state.. I have the feeling that French-speaking UA-camrs are increasingly daring to reduce the number of videos and therefore work for their own good! in my opinion, the most important thing is you and your family above all else. I send you all my support
Great job and effort u provide for the channel. I dun think u need to push yourself too much . Maybe 4 videos per wk . Then u can have more free time for yourself. All of your viewers will wan you to enjoy your job . Cheer man 👏👍
Dear Bricksie, family first! Mental health and stability first! The Lego City is a long process, but there's no reason to be forced to bring an update every-time! Just a camera-view with nice music showcasing the present status of the City and leaving us the viewer what has changed (or not) is also a nice video! Maybe iso on Whatnot only auction or give away a Lego-set can also keep the community vivid. Winner is he or she who can explain in best way why he or she wants to win that particular set. Sending everything of Whatnot for free should be an option not standard; there are enough viewers/subscribers who are willing to pay the shipping costs.
Why don't you turn one or 2 of the rooms into living quarters. I mean some place the kids can nap and a kitchen area. You don't need every inch of your work area for just lego.
Daycare is good for the kids too! Social assimilation/exposure. Conflicts and their resolutions...and build a knowledge around the safety and beauty of 'home' as well...👍🏻
I think the vast majority of your viewers would agree that you work too hard and that burnout is inevitable if you keep it this way. I don't even have time to view half of the content you put out. Daycare is good, don't feel bad about it. But I suggest you find the balance and come home no later than 17:30. This way you get to be with the kids every day and not just in the weekends. We all wanna see a happy Jordan who is not sacrificing his mental being for the job.
Je valide à 100% Sage décision. Positive pour tout le monde : les enfants, Mrs Bricksie et toi-même... Important de faire évoluer les choses et de retrouver un équilibre. Merci pour toutes ces vidéos qui demandent beaucoup de temps et d'énergie. Il faut garder l'envie sinon plus rien n'a de sens. Je sentais bien que les choses devenaient pesantes ces derniers temps...
Hey man, I don’t normally comment on your videos but I’ve been watching a while and I have a daughter who is now at school so I feel I’m in a place to discuss this matter. Before she started school she was at nursery 3 days a week and I think it was a benefit to both my wife and I aswell as my daughter. It’s totally necessary for their development and for parents to have some time to themselves too. Don’t mind the negative comments - you could do something incredible for the benefit of the world which impacts so many lives yet there will will always be those who try to put you down. I’m sure your ratio must be far more positive comments than negative - focus on those. Dont let people get you down! Keep on grinding man - Your’e doing a great job!
Some (negative) people will always take the least charitable interpretation of what you say & do, Jordan. It’s a great decision to get the kids in daycare- it will give Mrs Bricksie a well deserved breather and will give the kids a social outlet. Definitely take some of that time back for you and José to hang out together away from the studio. Lastly, perhaps take out some of the fan mail letters you’ve received over the years and read them and remind yourself how much you’re valued and appreciated by your followers.
Jordan, you are addressing something I’ve been concerned for you about. First and foremost, your poor wife. She seems like a superstar but wow, if having twin toddlers and a household to run (with you away so much) she has to manage your needs too It’s not really fair. Calling 3-4 times a day, always talking about how much you wish she were there… too much. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge fan but I see an adult who is putting their happiness on the shoulders of an already overburdened wife. I know you say no one is going to be Simon but you HAVE to get several other new people in there helping you. It’s the right thing to do. For you and especially on her. She can’t fill your emotional bucket right now. The world is vastly different with kids. You need to pivot. I agree, she deserves at least one day that is for her. Not for laundry and groceries but for a movie and lunch with girlfriends. A nice long daytime nap. Work to fill her bucket and everything else will improve. Love your family and what you’re building. I still think you need to diversify and not have all revenue based on your physical time. Products, customers evangelists all that. Your pace isn’t sustainable. All from a place of caring. Take care.
I raised my 3 kids (35, 34, 30) 7 days a week, and now am helping to raise 2 of my grandsons (9 and 11) 5 days a week. 3 days a week preschool works really well, kids usually ask on their days off if its a school day... (in my mind...don't they love me too?) 😂 kids love preschool and all of the other little humans and teachers they interact with theyre fun. Mums never have a day off they're still thinking of house and family, so even sitting quietly is making a mental list time 😅 I hope everything works out like you wish it will. Expect a few tears at preschool (from both kids and both you and Mrs Bricksie) you will learn to let go so the kids can have fun and flourish in an educational environment
You’re a good man, a good parent, and a good Lego builder / content creator. The internet is going to do what it does - complain. It’s certainly frustrating, but it’s not something you can control. It’s abundantly clear you are more than capable to make your own sound decisions, as you’ve already been doing running a successful channel and what is essentially a business! If anything not being burnt out, and being able to come home at the end of the day instead of working to the late hours of the night, is going to allow you to manage things at home and with the family better. I did notice in one of your recent prior videos you did look a bit lonely. Don’t mean that in a rude way, I just notified it. I think Mrs. Bricksie joining you again will definitely help rejuvenate you.
Please understand you are getting a range of different people watching your videos; some may not agree with the education system we generally have, and some think that what you are doing is a holiday. You work out a structure that works for you and your family and ignore the comments of the extreme. I am passionate about my work and sometimes overwork, but all the same, I love what I do as an educator.
I watch you videos daily and love them. But here is the truth if you, your wive and children don't look after yourselves there will be no content. Your wellness is and will always be more important than Lego (and i have been watching i think for over 2 years). Childcare is not evil and a must for most people me included and my daughter is now 14 and doing great. Be released from any negative comment (easier said than done) but feel it, Feel the release. I'll be praying for you to know peace.
Childcare is there for a reason - it helps adults back into work and helps children grow as they are able to spend time with their peers and be educated at the same time through play! Haters will always hate, don’t take it to heart.
So if you’re worried about not spending enough time with your children and then not enjoying your time away always being alone , you should not worry about all the keyboard bullies. This hobby/ job should be enjoyed without worrying what they think or say. If you both had a full time jobs and had to put the twins in daycare full time. No one would think it any different from most of the population. But because you’re funemployed and looking after them and your business it gives them the right to judge you. Keep doing you and looking after you and your beautiful little family
In Norway daycare for children is the norm. Don't listen to the toxic "tradwife" people. Do what makes you happy! Also you might want to cut back on working, 12 hour days 7 days a week is not healthy. You make some great videos on both your channels!
Bricksie, first little piece of advice from an old hand, you need to make sure you keep your “Work and Home Life” in balance. So stop the 7 days a week, secondly don’t work more than 10 hours a day, as stats prove that longer days don’t equal more productivity. Thirdly, get other hobbies that includes other people, like play more golf, have BBQ’s with friends and family. Also although Mrs Bricksie will be joining you for more hours, you need to replace Simon, with another person. Anyway Keep Brickin.
Hi Bricksie . Thank you for a frank, honest and open chat about your life and its difficulties right now. Not an easy thing thing to talk about. I think you and Jose are making the right decision for your family. You are overwhelmed with all that needs doing, and the choices you are making can only benefit all of you. Your days will be happier with Jose next to you, and the twins need to learn to cope with friends, new and exciting discoveries and growing independence. You will enjoy your quality times with them all, and your working week can start looking more normal. All positive reasons why you should make these changes. We are all right beside you Bricksie, and will support you and Jose all the way.
This is a very brave video to make thank you for sharing how you feel I can’t help with what to do or say but not having a video for a day won’t hurt anyone
I love when my child goes to school but once he is there, I want him home... one word of advice is do drop in at the day care randomly to check on them. Make sure everything looks good.
Taking care of your mental health is more important than anything. Putting your kids in daycare is a good thing. They will learn so much from doing that and like you said learn how to interact with other people. But if you dont take care of your health you cant take care of your family. Love your videos and your channel. Take care of yourself
Jordan, I think you are doing what's best for your entire family. You have to ignore the naysayers. I relate a lot on the loneliness thing. You've created this amazing studio and if you can't share it with Mrs. Bricksie or a small team, it seems fruitless. I don't mind you talking a lot either, I have LOVED watching you get your work space organized as I am trying to do that now too. I am dying to put the white plates on my drawers with the parts displayed. Anyhow, I think you should also consider going to 3-4 days a week posting on your main channel. It will give you breathing room and honestly you will probably create better content and be happier. There aren't too many creators that are still trying to keep up with posting everyday! Good luck, I know great things are to come for you and your family.
That’s why it’s said, “It takes a village” to raise children. Having a community with your church or other outlet like family and friends to allow free time to relax and slow down from the “chaos” of kids is important!
Jordan, I work alone too... For like 60 hours a week. And yeah, books on tape were ok for awhile but I honestly have to recommend podcasts. It makes you connect with someone. Me, personally, I like comedy pods or True Crime. But, find something you like. It'll keep you company and keep your mind ingaged.
Hey Jordan I think what you have been doing and what you have planned out is outstanding. You certainly have a good head on your shoulders and strive at having family time and now arranged for more one on one time with your wife. I understand what all you got going on UA-cam wise as your always active and now that you have really stepped up and majorly expanded can understand the stress of trying to keep up with it all. If really getting overwhelmed/burnt out take a few days off here and there or a week and do something with the family. Your true friends and members here on UA-cam and your other platforms will be understanding to that. I would do what you feel is enough and right and do at your pace and not the pressure of peeps in your comments. I for one am a big fan and very proud of what you have accomplished and your amazing family (thanks for the family time content as well) not just about Lego. Will always wish you and the family the best.
Hey Bricksie , thanks for speaking on the issue of feeling alone , I can relate in some ways, I'm wishing the best for you and hoping Jose's return/ daycare will give you the boost you need .😊
Beneficial for the little ones too, help with development, independence, socializing! I work remotely and find even facetiming or messaging with colleagues helps with the isolation. Maybe a stream once in awhile where you interact with your followers just for some socializing. As someone who loves your content I hate to suggest it but maybe you should designate one day a week or half a day a week where you force yourself not to work. I know that's easier said than done when running a personal business though, the work life balance is very tricky.
Seven days a week is a very long week. It is, in fact, your life. And even when work is as cool as yours, your work is your work. A weekend every week or even every other week might do wonders. And daycare is okay. Kids make friends and learn stuff they do not learn at home. You wouldn't want them to be there 7 out of 7 days, just like you shouldn't be at work all the time. A healthy balance is key. And we all like what you do and we all watch the content if its 5 out of 7 days as well. And the problem might become that because of your schedule, life catches up with you and there will be no more Bricksie videos for a long time or forever. Stay healthy and we'll be here for you. And for misses Bricksie because being a caretaker is a serious job that isn't valued by society as it should be.
Can you use an instant messenger app on your phone to do video calls over wifi, then just see and talk when you need to, to your over half in between making content. Putting kids in day care will let them make friends thats a big plus. Supporting both channels, its all bricksie content in my opinion talking or not talking your making content that i like to watch, so thank you for that.
I think those who think negatively about putting kids to daycare has a bad experience with them or daycare is not a thing in their country of residence or just old school / conservative about stuff.
As someone who has worked from home the last few years - it's a blessing and a curse. I am glad you are finding ways to improve that and improve the family dynamic. You are doing great man. Proud of you!
Jordan, please ignore the comments (except this one -ha!). You and Mrs Bricksie are making decisions that are best for your whole family. Nobody has any business judging your choices, and you both clearly adore those wonderful tiny humans of yours. It’s going to be good for all of you. ❤
Good 👍 thing to say
its nobody's business, but thats the downside of posting your entire life online. I'm sure other people gossip about me also but the difference is that there is no comment section in real life...
@milky4672 i agree wirh u 100% as Jordan was talking about the comments hating iam thinking do you man. We your fans will still be here and if u need to go home and see ur family and not vlog it online unless u really want to vlog go for it. Also ur city will be there. I understand that u feel the need to get all the content out thir for the update mainly so u can get paid . I was told by a friend that ur best ally is you looking out do ur self. I thing ur a cool person and the is a reason people follow unon this platform. Best of luck tou u ans ms brickisie and ur channel Jordan. 😊
Came here to say pretty much the same thing.
You both make decisions for yourselves and what you think is best for your family. No one should judge you for your decisions.
Also… thank you for opening up about your loneliness. I know you said you’re “ok”, and “fine”… but you opening up about your struggles (however small) is a really positive thing to hear.
Love your content, Jordan. And that curved road looks great, too. ❤️
As an early childhood educator, you and your wife are choosing an amazing adventure for your children. They will learn so much and you both will be able to replenish yourselves. Taking care of young children is very taxing. Please do not listen to negative comments .
One word BALANCE. The best thing is you have both come to the same realization 'together', it time to re focus on what comes first, HEALTH, FAMILY and a distant 3rd work. Notice 'work' is in lowercase because it will be there every day it's relentless and will as you mentioned DRAIN you mentally and physically. I watched my beloved wife BURN herself OUT totally. Seizure disorder, total physical collapse not a good place. It's taken her quite some time to recover and she still has issues. Do NOT continue down that path. BALANCE and recalibrate, you and the kids will be sooo much better off. We all LOVE the channels but your collective wellbeing is MORE important than any UA-cam channel content. Be safe and WELL!
Putting your kids in daycare is one of the best things to get them used to new settings, developing social skills, early education etc ….. I can’t believe people left those comments lol. As if the people leaving those comments remember being 2 to 5. People forget this is how you make money so this is your job, so if you weren’t doing this and had a 9 to 5 you’d see your kids probably even less because there is no flexibility. Most people would not do what you do to get to the level you are on but they will complain about your success because they don’t have your life and perks with Lego etc… stay up brotha
It'll be great soon!!! The kids will be in daycare, meeting another kids, making friends and learning a lot of new stuff! You gonna be working with Mrs. Bricksie soon and everything will be awesome!!! You're a great guy, never forget that! Just wanted to mention too that you make my days a LOT less loneliest!!! Thanks a lot man!
Only you and Mrs Bricksie know what is best for your family. Try and ignore the negativity. To many people nowadays are obsessed with decisions others are making that affect them in no possible way. Keep up the great content. The majority here support you.
I appreciate watching your videos on both channels because of all the talking you do. I’m away from my family for a prolonged time very often for work, and I think what a lot of the negative people don’t realize is that this is your livelihood. It’s very fortunate that you love your work, but it is also still work. Having Mrs. Bricksie with you not only makes the work more efficient, so that we fans can get more creative Lego content, but also helps keep you sane and motivated. Any negative comments about how you can always make money are way out of touch and come from a place of privilege. It’s unreal anyone judges you for having your children in daycare (where they make friends!)
As someone with a child just shy of two years old… I would say…. ignore all of the comments about childcare being bad!!! Every parent deserves a break and every kid needs time away from parents to be with other kids and learn how to socially develop… you are doing the right thing for you and your family and you shouldn’t be made to feel guilty about it 🩵
People are just so quick to jump on what they think is negative and focus on it. I think the level headed fans of the channel completely agree with your sentiments. It'll be all around positive for everyone, the kids included!
Good for you brother. Daycare is very important for social interaction. So many kids don't get that at a young age and it shows big time. They will love you for it when they get older. Keep up the great work my dude!
Speaking as a stay at home mother …. Yes it is exhausting. And it’s lonely , I wish daycare had been a thing back then. You are both doing a great job. You will all be better for being apart. Give yourselves permission to be apart knowing they are well looked after . Now look after yourselves . Thanks for sharing .
i'm overjoyed that you and mrs bricksie are going to be able to work together again - and the kids are going to learn to be with others. it's all a win-win. regarding loneliness - i was super lonely during the early days of covid. i live alone, and would mask up and go to walmart and other places, just to interact with strangers. i'm probably more like your brother - i need people. and if you call mrs bricksie 4 times a day, ... it's sweet. wishing you all the best. ps. road looks awesome!
It's really nice to hear you are prioritizing Mrs Bricksie having some time off after putting in so much time with the kids in those early years. My two kids are 12 & 10 now and their time in daycare was excellent and really great for their independence in the long run. Good for you for being a great dad, supportive partner and doing it all while keeping your own wellbeing in mind. "Lonely dad" is real but it's not unbeatable. UA-cam will be there when you are ready to upload, not the other way around
Thanks for the great video! It’s great that you acknowledge your struggle with loneliness while helping to normalize talking about mental health. It’s obvious that Josée is an amazing mother! You didn’t mention the obvious: that she’s had double the workload raising twins! I’ve only done it four times (working and staying at home), but spaced out, and I can’t imagine I’d be as organized and patient as Josée with twins. Being a full time stay at home mom is tough. Both of you deserve a happy work/life balance and your kids will only benefit from it. Here’s to the happier future ahead for all four of you!
What you need to do is go home earlier. Go and see your family. Never prioritise work over family. ❤
Im a career fireman and from the sound of it your suffering from something we call burnout … try to switch things up take more time to yourself .. the LEGO city can wait heck I prefer it takes longer .. space is finite eventually you’ll hit a wall … personally I love daily uploads but I think you can do that without working 12-14hrs … all the best my brother hope you feel better
I think that was a great and honest video about mental health
All your viewers could see how the negative comments (about their perceived lack of progress with the Lego city) which I disagree with btw had affected you deeply and the loneliness compounded it as I expect it was something you were thinking about so much.
I am glad things are looking better for you and Mrs Bricksie with Daycare which will benefit both of you and the kids
Hey Bricksie. Many of the people who watch your content can relate to the situation in some capacity. Do whatever you feel is right for your family. Never let ANYone shame you for how you spend time with your family or how you conduct your business. If it means you post less so you can continue being a great dad and husband, so be it. You make the content, we support it. There will always be more work. I initially struggled with many of the valid points you brought up. My son (13 going on 30) did the daycare thing under similar circumstances. It wasn't forever. It's also where he met 2 of his best friends. They've learned alot from each other over the past 13yrs and their families are great. Don't keep them isolated from other kids. Mrs. B needs and deserves some breathing space to have a fresh perspective and creativity when she's back by your side. This all part of parenting. You guys will continue to do well.
Thankyou for your honesty about mental health. I watch your channels and love all content. Please please please stop over thinking on negative peoples comments you and your wife have a fantastic bond with your children. Children need to be with other kids to help their development so you are doing the right thing. They will have to go to school full time and your introducing them gradually which is a good thing for them xxx
Completely agree with the kids going to daycare. They learn social skills, make friends, as well as start learning numbers, letters, etc. I have young kids who went to daycare and it was a great experience for them; they actually loved it. Also completely agree that not many people can handle being with their kids 24-7 with little to no help. It is good for the parents’ mental health as well to go to work, see friends, etc. That being said, the price of daycare is ridiculous!😵💫
Hi Jordan, thank you for being so real, i understand how you feel on the loneliness I work alone almost every day and I feel the same way there are only so many audiobooks and podcasts you can listen to. You guys are smashing it you got the dream job you work so so hard and you got the buy one get one free surprise with having twins it must be so hard to keep all the plates spinning. Do what you have to do if you ever have to choose between getting a video up and seeing the kids choose the kids every time real fans will be patient. Technically this counts as a city update too 👌🏻
Humans are social creatures. You’re not meant to exist in isolation. The feelings you’re having are normal. I’m glad that there is light on the horizon for you and for your whole family. I stayed home with my son until he started school, but when he was three, I put him in a Mother’s Day out program three days a week. It was the best decision my spouse and I ever made. I was able to breathe and have some time for myself. It also made me a better parent 1000%. At the end of the day-you do what’s right for your family!
Hey, Jordan, I was a stay at home dad for years and my Wife worked, we put all of our kids into daycare/crèche and it was so good for them! They learned stuff we couldn’t teach them and they learned to interact with kids their age 😀 Plus it gave Lorraine and myself time to hang out! You guys are doing the right thing and everyone will benefit from it 😀
Its about doing what is best for you to be the best parents you can be. Self-care is like putting on that air mask in the airplane on yourself first. If you don't take care of yourselves the family will suffer so kudos for identifying and addressing your needs. It is admirable. You communicated about the situation very clearly so I hope people will just be understanding, its not hard to do.
"As a public minifigure" 🤣
Thanks for the subject you chose, that affects many of us working isolated 👍
I've been worried about the bricksies for awhile so I am so happy to see you and your wife find some much needed balance. Moms and dads leave for work everyday and kids are just fine. Honestly once the kids get settled they will love it. I'm happy to see you both taking care of yourselves so you can take care of others. That's what good parents do.
My mom started a daycare in 1980 slightly before my younger brother was born and ran it up until 1996. It was challenging but all my mom's daycare kids keep in touch. We have watched them grow up get married and have kids of their own. Life long friendships were made and joys shared. I think you've made the right choice.
Jordan. Anyone that is not a parent doesn’t know the struggle. It’s hard so do what is right for you guys and don’t worry about what anyone else thinks. Also, good for you for acknowledging your wife’s hard work and resilience. My wife did the same thing - I always marvelled at her strength. Take care of yourself too - it’s been clear to me in your videos you’ve been burnt out lately. I’ll keep watching tho mate, I enjoy watching your journey and your process 🙏
Your kids are going to LOVE daycare. Our two boys started out kind of shy the first few days but quickly asked to spend more time in daycare because they enjoyed the social time with other kids. My wife and I both feel that this transition you are going through was the absolute toughest time for us as parents and that's looking back at raising two kids who are now 18 and 22. Hang in there, it DOES get easier and you will see just how much the kids are going to enjoy this next stage in their lives. Your kids are so lucky to have the two of you! Remember, parenting is a marathon not a sprint. Take good care of yourselves.
I’ve been loving your channels with whatever you happen to be doing that day. I’m amazed at how productive you are. I hope you are able to get more done with Mrs. Bricksie on site. As a former day care provider myself, I would simply advise you to realize there are times when their mental health can also be negatively affected. The more you show your appreciation and understanding, the happier everyone will be. 😊 your cute kids will probably have a great time and will definitely start learning to talk more! Be prepared for chatterboxes!
Don't give a sh!t what people say to you. you and Mrs Bricksie are amazing parents. And your Lego city is not your number 1 priority. you do what you want in the city, and spend time with your family. I know you working with Mrs B will be amazing for you both, and then go and get the kids from daycare and end your evening at home with your family. I'll still be watching your updates. Take care mate
Working 7 days a week seems insane honestly to your overall health man. Especially alone
Hi there, it sounds like you need to slow down a little. take a small break even for a week or so. Spend quality time with your family & friends. Here's an idea: Ask yourself "What would i be doing IF I wasn't doing UA-cam or the "studio"?" AND do that. We UA-camrs are afraid to take breaks cause we "might" loose followers, who cares? If they don't understand then that's on them. My mom passed away back in January 2024 & I took a full 6 months off (I would upload an occasional video here and there, but that's it AND I would still have LIVE streams), I'm sure I lost Subs, but I think they came back eventually. I hope this advise helps. Thank you for ALL of your videos AND take a well deserved break!
I’m no expert, but I have studied psychology and mental health a bit, and based upon what you have said I think that you should take at least take one day a week to spend time with your family. It will help with your lonely issues and it can take some ease off your wife because I imagine she is exhausted as well and would like support too. As one who has runned himself into the ground due to overworking and not being with loved ones is unhealthy, physically and mentally. I can’t force you to do it, but Taking breaks and being with those who we love and being there to support each other is Super important. As a fan of your work, I can say for all of us that we really enjoy your work and I’m sure we won’t mind if you take the time you need to rest and take care of yourself.
God’s Blessings on you, your beautiful family and the amazing building you do!!!
I'm confused, I thought only one of the kids was able to get into daycare this year? If they both got in now, Congrats! I can't believe people said you were putting them in, "the system." It's not jail, it's school. My mom was a single mom and put me into pre-K for a couple years until I was old enough for kindergarten. I loved it. It's bad enough people criticize how you handle your own Lego City, criticizing you as a parent is too much.
Ignore the haters. You and Mrs Bricksie are doing a brilliant job both with the Business and the Mini bricksies.
Hey Bricksie, ignore the random internet people that think they know what you should be doing. The only thing you should be doing is making your own decisions (with your wife, of course) based on your family's needs.
Not that my opinion matters, but I think you and your wife have come up with a great plan that seems to suit your life needs. Daycare will be great for your kids as well as for you and your wife.
You simply cannot do it right for some people, no matter what you do. You and Jose do such a wonderful job! And it will be nice to have Jose with you in the studio and the kids in daycare. Daycare is a really good thing for kids; both of my kids learned how to socialize with other children when in daycare. And they make new friends and have a blast!
I can understand if/when people bring their kid(s) to daycare in some form or way. And I think people forget that raising twins is probably a lot harder then raising a single kid, or even 1 kid after the other. My kid is a few months younger then yours, so I can relate to the situation to a degree. I say to a degree since we only have 1 kid and every kid is different. Our situation was quite similar to yours with the mom being on almost fulltime "mom" duty and me working fulltime, although I can work from home 3 days a week. After he was 1 year old, he spend 1 day a week at one of his grandma's and from next month on, he'll go to "daycare" although it's more called pre-school for 2 mornings a week.
I think that it is good for the kid to get to know a different environment, where he gets to play and interact with other kids of his age. This helps his development in every way (learning to do new things, learning to talk more/better, learing to play together, making friends). And it's not that this "daycare" is neglecting kids, there are teachers there who studied for this exact job and they are people who love doing that.
And in the end if it helps our kid develop more/better and it keeps us a bit more sane (our you and ms Bricksie in your case), that also helps the kid(s) indirectly. A calm, rested and not grumpy parent is way better for the kid. The only advice I would give, but I ofcourse don't know if and to what extend you and ms Bricksie have already discussed this, is to try the daycare thing out for a bit, but rather start it a bit smaller (by which I mean fewer days and shorter in hours) and build that up depending on if the kids like it and what it brings you. If the kids don't like it as much and they are annoyed after each day, your remaining time with them is also less fun. If it turns out that 3 days a week from 9 to 3 is the best for everyone, do that instead of focussing on achieving 5 days from 9 till 5.
Your plan sounds great! Chin up and keep hanging on as your plan will bring sanity soon enough! It’s ok that things are taking longer … take care of yourself and your family. ❤
Kudos to you for identifying what you need, speaking up about mental health, and setting a great example for your viewers!
Jordan you’ve gone down a rabbit hole you just have to keep going, I’ve done it too, we watch you every day and love what you are doing keep at it my friend, your kids will get older, next phase in growing up and they will become a bigger part of everything too 😃
Jordan, if you drink milk someone is going to say that is awful…you can’t please everyone…everyone needs a break/day off…put them in daycare.
Don’t explain your self bro your a family with twins never going to be easy for you both do what is right
Very nice and interesting talk. The main thing to remember: family comes first. Good luck and may the force be with you. 😉
Each family should make their own decisions. I’ve watched you for a year now. You and Mrs B. are not selfish or foolish. Negative commenters should back off.
You two are the only ones who know what is best for your family and your business and no one else should be giving you an opinion. ( Except maybe the grandparents who are still your parents and still care and worry about you).
Totally understand having people around makes you more motivated. When I was a student writing and reading in a library full of people, it made me work so much better than sitting in my house alone, even though in both scenarios I'm just doing my own work not talking to anyone. There's something about being around others working that just makes yourself work better too.
You are doing the right thing for everyone that matters (aka your family). Never doubt that!
On a personal note, I have to say I identify with your current struggle of loneliness. I live alone - no partner or kids - I work from home in a job that is fairly isolating most days. I have no family (all deceased) and 2 very close friends who I don’t have very many opportunities to see. I understand the loneliness you feel, especially as a fellow introvert. Oddly enough, for me it was part of what drove me to Lego and social media. Hang in there! Your days are about to get better and you and your family deserve that 😊
When parents are happy their kids will be happy. Daycare will be good for all
I am definitely the opposite, I'm an introvert & prefer being alone lol, I'd luv to build lego alone all day every day lol 😊
Kids get easier as they get older - you are in the toughest age right now. Your kids will love being with other kids everyday and will quickly make friends. Ignore the hate.
Jordan, this video has struck a nerve with me and my wife it’s the season we are going through the loneliness tiredness are something we are dealing with my wife has been a stay at home mum for 8 years and our youngest has just started school. We are both so tired or wives are amazing people who do all they can for our children. It will get better our is but never forgot to be there for your children. They will remember the experiences you have with them.
Happy for you guys to be sorting things out.
I’m currently confused about the content on the 2 channels, but I expect you will settle that too in the next few weeks as your new routine kicks in.
I think it’s good that you talk so openly about mental health. As someone who has been living mostly in isolation and working from home for the last five years I can relate to your struggles.
Just a suggestion I’ve recently been jounelling each day to try and get my thoughts ordered, each night I just write all my thoughts before bed maybe you could start jounelling about your thoughts if you ever need to just get them out if your overwhelming
Great Video. "It takes a village to raise a child", still holds true. Need family/community support to raise a child to be a well adjusted person.
i get it man i work alone alot and its tough. your doing great.. keep your mentality right and take care of it
Dude, you and the Mrs are fantastic, loving parents. Anyone who doubts that are likely just trolling you, or have never seen your vids.
Your kids are going to love daycare, and be more well-adjusted and sociable with the help of daycare. Soon, you'll be going home to kids super excited to tell you about THEIR days!
Having Mrs Bricksie there three days a week is going to be great for your mental health, and you'll be able to really enjoy the couple days you'll have to yourself.
I went to daycare from the age of like 1 to the age of 5 and I turned out fine. Your UA-cam and lego studio is your job and you need to work obviously, so I think its pretty normal for kids to go to daycare even :)
Lol negative comments about daycare probably came from smothering house holds. Life aint easy and lifes a balancing act. So is family. Do what u gotta do brother! Your kids are lucky to have yall and daycare is a good experience overall.
In regarda ro people saying daycare is detrimental-what about work? We grow up and go to work away from our families typically. It aint the end of the world distance is healthy amongst everyone.
Keep doing u duder!!
Hi ! I'm a fan of Belgium. I find it good that you have the courage to talk about your mental state.. I have the feeling that French-speaking UA-camrs are increasingly daring to reduce the number of videos and therefore work for their own good! in my opinion, the most important thing is you and your family above all else. I send you all my support
Glad you’ll have Mrs. Bricksie back
Great job and effort u provide for the channel. I dun think u need to push yourself too much . Maybe 4 videos per wk . Then u can have more free time for yourself. All of your viewers will wan you to enjoy your job . Cheer man 👏👍
Dear Bricksie, family first! Mental health and stability first! The Lego City is a long process, but there's no reason to be forced to bring an update every-time! Just a camera-view with nice music showcasing the present status of the City and leaving us the viewer what has changed (or not) is also a nice video! Maybe iso on Whatnot only auction or give away a Lego-set can also keep the community vivid. Winner is he or she who can explain in best way why he or she wants to win that particular set. Sending everything of Whatnot for free should be an option not standard; there are enough viewers/subscribers who are willing to pay the shipping costs.
Why don't you turn one or 2 of the rooms into living quarters. I mean some place the kids can nap and a kitchen area. You don't need every inch of your work area for just lego.
Daycare is good for the kids too! Social assimilation/exposure. Conflicts and their resolutions...and build a knowledge around the safety and beauty of 'home' as well...👍🏻
I think the vast majority of your viewers would agree that you work too hard and that burnout is inevitable if you keep it this way. I don't even have time to view half of the content you put out. Daycare is good, don't feel bad about it. But I suggest you find the balance and come home no later than 17:30. This way you get to be with the kids every day and not just in the weekends. We all wanna see a happy Jordan who is not sacrificing his mental being for the job.
Je valide à 100% Sage décision. Positive pour tout le monde : les enfants, Mrs Bricksie et toi-même... Important de faire évoluer les choses et de retrouver un équilibre. Merci pour toutes ces vidéos qui demandent beaucoup de temps et d'énergie. Il faut garder l'envie sinon plus rien n'a de sens. Je sentais bien que les choses devenaient pesantes ces derniers temps...
Hey man, I don’t normally comment on your videos but I’ve been watching a while and I have a daughter who is now at school so I feel I’m in a place to discuss this matter. Before she started school she was at nursery 3 days a week and I think it was a benefit to both my wife and I aswell as my daughter. It’s totally necessary for their development and for parents to have some time to themselves too. Don’t mind the negative comments - you could do something incredible for the benefit of the world which impacts so many lives yet there will will always be those who try to put you down. I’m sure your ratio must be far more positive comments than negative - focus on those. Dont let people get you down! Keep on grinding man - Your’e doing a great job!
It takes a troubled nature to be upset with the lovely content you post daily. Keep up the amazing creative work!
Some (negative) people will always take the least charitable interpretation of what you say & do, Jordan. It’s a great decision to get the kids in daycare- it will give Mrs Bricksie a well deserved breather and will give the kids a social outlet. Definitely take some of that time back for you and José to hang out together away from the studio. Lastly, perhaps take out some of the fan mail letters you’ve received over the years and read them and remind yourself how much you’re valued and appreciated by your followers.
Jordan, you are addressing something I’ve been concerned for you about. First and foremost, your poor wife. She seems like a superstar but wow, if having twin toddlers and a household to run (with you away so much) she has to manage your needs too It’s not really fair. Calling 3-4 times a day, always talking about how much you wish she were there… too much. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge fan but I see an adult who is putting their happiness on the shoulders of an already overburdened wife. I know you say no one is going to be Simon but you HAVE to get several other new people in there helping you. It’s the right thing to do. For you and especially on her. She can’t fill your emotional bucket right now. The world is vastly different with kids. You need to pivot. I agree, she deserves at least one day that is for her. Not for laundry and groceries but for a movie and lunch with girlfriends. A nice long daytime nap. Work to fill her bucket and everything else will improve. Love your family and what you’re building. I still think you need to diversify and not have all revenue based on your physical time. Products, customers evangelists all that. Your pace isn’t sustainable. All from a place of caring. Take care.
I raised my 3 kids (35, 34, 30) 7 days a week, and now am helping to raise 2 of my grandsons (9 and 11) 5 days a week.
3 days a week preschool works really well, kids usually ask on their days off if its a school day... (in my mind...don't they love me too?) 😂 kids love preschool and all of the other little humans and teachers they interact with theyre fun.
Mums never have a day off they're still thinking of house and family, so even sitting quietly is making a mental list time 😅
I hope everything works out like you wish it will.
Expect a few tears at preschool (from both kids and both you and Mrs Bricksie) you will learn to let go so the kids can have fun and flourish in an educational environment
Perhaps more livestreams? So you can interact with your fans.
You’re a good man, a good parent, and a good Lego builder / content creator. The internet is going to do what it does - complain. It’s certainly frustrating, but it’s not something you can control.
It’s abundantly clear you are more than capable to make your own sound decisions, as you’ve already been doing running a successful channel and what is essentially a business! If anything not being burnt out, and being able to come home at the end of the day instead of working to the late hours of the night, is going to allow you to manage things at home and with the family better.
I did notice in one of your recent prior videos you did look a bit lonely. Don’t mean that in a rude way, I just notified it. I think Mrs. Bricksie joining you again will definitely help rejuvenate you.
I live alone so you talking a lot is nice lol
Please understand you are getting a range of different people watching your videos; some may not agree with the education system we generally have, and some think that what you are doing is a holiday. You work out a structure that works for you and your family and ignore the comments of the extreme. I am passionate about my work and sometimes overwork, but all the same, I love what I do as an educator.
I watch you videos daily and love them. But here is the truth if you, your wive and children don't look after yourselves there will be no content. Your wellness is and will always be more important than Lego (and i have been watching i think for over 2 years). Childcare is not evil and a must for most people me included and my daughter is now 14 and doing great. Be released from any negative comment (easier said than done) but feel it, Feel the release. I'll be praying for you to know peace.
Childcare is there for a reason - it helps adults back into work and helps children grow as they are able to spend time with their peers and be educated at the same time through play!
Haters will always hate, don’t take it to heart.
So if you’re worried about not spending enough time with your children and then not enjoying your time away always being alone , you should not worry about all the keyboard bullies. This hobby/ job should be enjoyed without worrying what they think or say. If you both had a full time jobs and had to put the twins in daycare full time. No one would think it any different from most of the population. But because you’re funemployed and looking after them and your business it gives them the right to judge you. Keep doing you and looking after you and your beautiful little family
In Norway daycare for children is the norm. Don't listen to the toxic "tradwife" people. Do what makes you happy! Also you might want to cut back on working, 12 hour days 7 days a week is not healthy. You make some great videos on both your channels!
Bricksie, first little piece of advice from an old hand, you need to make sure you keep your “Work and Home Life” in balance. So stop the 7 days a week, secondly don’t work more than 10 hours a day, as stats prove that longer days don’t equal more productivity. Thirdly, get other hobbies that includes other people, like play more golf, have BBQ’s with friends and family. Also although Mrs Bricksie will be joining you for more hours, you need to replace Simon, with another person. Anyway Keep Brickin.
Hi Bricksie .
Thank you for a frank, honest and open chat about your life and its difficulties right now. Not an easy thing thing to talk about.
I think you and Jose are making the right decision for your family. You are overwhelmed with all that needs doing, and the choices you are making can only benefit all of you. Your days will be happier with Jose next to you, and the twins need to learn to cope with friends, new and exciting discoveries and growing independence. You will enjoy your quality times with them all, and your working week can start looking more normal. All positive reasons why you should make these changes.
We are all right beside you Bricksie, and will support you and Jose all the way.
This is a very brave video to make thank you for sharing how you feel I can’t help with what to do or say but not having a video for a day won’t hurt anyone
I love when my child goes to school but once he is there, I want him home... one word of advice is do drop in at the day care randomly to check on them. Make sure everything looks good.
Taking care of your mental health is more important than anything. Putting your kids in daycare is a good thing. They will learn so much from doing that and like you said learn how to interact with other people. But if you dont take care of your health you cant take care of your family. Love your videos and your channel. Take care of yourself
Jordan, I think you are doing what's best for your entire family. You have to ignore the naysayers. I relate a lot on the loneliness thing. You've created this amazing studio and if you can't share it with Mrs. Bricksie or a small team, it seems fruitless. I don't mind you talking a lot either, I have LOVED watching you get your work space organized as I am trying to do that now too. I am dying to put the white plates on my drawers with the parts displayed. Anyhow, I think you should also consider going to 3-4 days a week posting on your main channel. It will give you breathing room and honestly you will probably create better content and be happier. There aren't too many creators that are still trying to keep up with posting everyday! Good luck, I know great things are to come for you and your family.
Next time e you call Mrs Bricksie and she asks why just sing "I just called to say I love you." It's a stevie wonder song from the 80s.
That’s why it’s said, “It takes a village” to raise children. Having a community with your church or other outlet like family and friends to allow free time to relax and slow down from the “chaos” of kids is important!
Jordan, I work alone too... For like 60 hours a week. And yeah, books on tape were ok for awhile but I honestly have to recommend podcasts. It makes you connect with someone. Me, personally, I like comedy pods or True Crime. But, find something you like. It'll keep you company and keep your mind ingaged.
Hey Jordan I think what you have been doing and what you have planned out is outstanding. You certainly have a good head on your shoulders and strive at having family time and now arranged for more one on one time with your wife. I understand what all you got going on UA-cam wise as your always active and now that you have really stepped up and majorly expanded can understand the stress of trying to keep up with it all. If really getting overwhelmed/burnt out take a few days off here and there or a week and do something with the family. Your true friends and members here on UA-cam and your other platforms will be understanding to that. I would do what you feel is enough and right and do at your pace and not the pressure of peeps in your comments. I for one am a big fan and very proud of what you have accomplished and your amazing family (thanks for the family time content as well) not just about Lego. Will always wish you and the family the best.
Hey Bricksie , thanks for speaking on the issue of feeling alone , I can relate in some ways, I'm wishing the best for you and hoping Jose's return/ daycare will give you the boost you need .😊
Beneficial for the little ones too, help with development, independence, socializing! I work remotely and find even facetiming or messaging with colleagues helps with the isolation. Maybe a stream once in awhile where you interact with your followers just for some socializing. As someone who loves your content I hate to suggest it but maybe you should designate one day a week or half a day a week where you force yourself not to work. I know that's easier said than done when running a personal business though, the work life balance is very tricky.
Seven days a week is a very long week. It is, in fact, your life. And even when work is as cool as yours, your work is your work. A weekend every week or even every other week might do wonders. And daycare is okay. Kids make friends and learn stuff they do not learn at home. You wouldn't want them to be there 7 out of 7 days, just like you shouldn't be at work all the time. A healthy balance is key. And we all like what you do and we all watch the content if its 5 out of 7 days as well. And the problem might become that because of your schedule, life catches up with you and there will be no more Bricksie videos for a long time or forever. Stay healthy and we'll be here for you. And for misses Bricksie because being a caretaker is a serious job that isn't valued by society as it should be.
Can you use an instant messenger app on your phone to do video calls over wifi, then just see and talk when you need to, to your over half in between making content.
Putting kids in day care will let them make friends thats a big plus.
Supporting both channels, its all bricksie content in my opinion talking or not talking your making content that i like to watch, so thank you for that.
You’re incredible at building Lego dude! You have a lego mastermind for sure. Can’t wait to follow your journey of developing the city
Hi bricksie, although I do not own any Lego I love watching all your videos. Thank you
I think those who think negatively about putting kids to daycare has a bad experience with them or daycare is not a thing in their country of residence or just old school / conservative about stuff.