Every Narcissist that I've known could control themselves in certain situations(i.e. public.) They dump on their spouses, children, siblings, parents, etc. privately. If they treat you worse than a common stranger, then they know exactly what they are doing. Tornadoes can't do that, and tigers can kill anyone, no matter who watches without being shy.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
@@bingobongo4906 it is not a mental disorder I was delivered of these DEMONS Don't buy into secular opinion I did It only made me worse Therapy Antidepressants All a bunch of secular garbage Jesus delivers Not man It's all demonic Have a nice day God bless you
@@amwil4980 no disrespect but it's literally called nassistic personality DISORDER A narcissistic person does not equal NPD they're 2 different things Also trying to blame demons on the awful actions of someone is not going to help coping not all bad people are demons some people are just bad people and we shouldn't automatically assume every person with NPD is a bad person because of the name of their disorder narcissistic personality disorder does not make someone a bad person it just makes them have a very bad way of dealing with their own issues usually from trauma and calling people with NPD demons is going to encourage them to never try to change because they will be convinced that no matter what they do that's always how people will view them
evil can only exist in the absence of Good. Just as dark can only exist in the absence of light. So by definition it is evil behavior if it isn't good, uplifting behavior. Are they inherently evil? Who knows? But their behavior is unquestionably morally wrong behavior and thereby evil.
Is it wrong to hurt an ant? Yes but would you consider it evil to hurt that ant? Not really at least not to that extent as you would for a human. If a narcissist hurts someone they don't consider on the level of human (themselves) how evil is it from that perspective?
A tiger hurts out of his instinct. A tornado destroys simply because it is a element of nature. But a narcissist is far differemt in that, being human, he KNOWS better, yet knowing better, he chooses to hurt others anyway. He has no conscience, but he sure as heck knows better. His is the choice; he could control himself if he wanted to.
I have a narcissist family memeber ,and Im not convinced they are not posessed by an evil spirit.How can a person be so vile and not have an evil spirit??
I believe they are Demons as the behavioral patterns cross language and culture. It is like a intricate step by step process. Search for 'Shaneen Medji' she has many video's on the subject. The pharisees and sagisees were narcs not to mention satan is the original Narcissist.
Psychopaths differ from narcissists in that they often lack control over their impulses. They are deceptive, cunning, capable of forethought, and are able to blend into society; which differentiates them from sociopaths who tend to be caught rather quickly. Both psychopaths and sociopaths tend to exhibit sadistic qualities, which narcissists do not. Narcissists are like predators that quickly kill their prey, whereas psychopaths enjoy toying with their victims and watching them suffer.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
I was "friends" (more like [unwilling] mind-fuck buddies) with a Narcissist for more than a year and I can definitely say that he was the fucking evil thing I've ever known in my life, and I have the PTSD to show for it. The best word I could come up with to describe him is "Demon." I don't believe in eternal torment but sometimes I almost wish I did just so that he would end up there.
John 1:1-5 KJV [1] In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. [2] The same was in the beginning with God. [3] All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. [4] In him was life; and the life was the light of men. [5] And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.
I know a woman who is such an extreme narcissist, I wouldn't be a bit surprised if her head started spinning right in front me while she spits up pea soup.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
@Sorakeyblademaster37 Yes, a narcissist nearly drove me crazy because I was trying to understand them! The best advice someone gave me was "don't study them." Understanding them in an objective, academic way is fine, especially before you ever have to deal with one. But trying to empathize, to reconcile human emotion with their behavior, can hurt you psychologically (if you are the victim).
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
Its inhuman to treat people as objects merely to gratify your self. An object has no feelings, no worth pride or humanity. Seeing a women in this light spurs on the hatred, and these men glean what they can from women to fuel their own hatred of womanhood and justify their own hateful behavior, then they cry that they are the victims. What a joke!!! 8 months of that nonsense was enough for me i couldn't run fast enough. Men like that relish in the pain they cause others, and even drive them over the edge to suicide. Is it evil, well how else can one describe such behavior?
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
A tiger and a hurricane don’t have awareness of what’s right or wrong; that’s what sets humans apart from animals, etc. To act on a choice that is expedient for you while deliberately hurting others is evil. Treating people as collateral damage to one’s narcissistic intentions is pure evil.
Narcissists have the ability to reflect on their actions and imagine (even without the faculty of empathy) the repercussions of their actions- even if the results that are incidental in meeting whatever their needs at the moment. This superior mental capasity makes nacissists and psychopaths are more morally responsible than a tiger. Being unable to reflect and predict is quite different from being unwilling to reflect and predict or not valuing reflecting and predicting. KG
This is where I become confused as to the differences betwen Psychopathy and Narcissism. There seems to be some overlap. Narcissists and Psycho/Sociopaths all can be deliberately, systematically, even criminally cruel for their own benefit, devoid of empathy.
most people with ASPD or NPD just want to live a normal life and don't want to hurt anyone media has spread a terrible stereotype that they only hurt people I know people with NPD and they're super nice! (also psychopaths cant be narcissists or sociopaths by psychology's terms)
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
@@fooled_twice4668 Interesting. It was my mother that would say mean things with the sly innuendos, in public. She was so cruel behind closed doors but had to act nice in public. So she had her little remarks that she knew were hurtful but that only I would understand. She HAD to feed her cruelty….even in public.After I shut her off completely she went after my siblings. These people need to feed and eventually everyone figures them out but….no closure. None. There’s never closure with narcissistic people
Narcissists tend to be VERY evil when cornered, even the laughable ones. A good example of this would be Gilderoy Lockhart in the Harry Potter series. If all narcissists met the same sticky end, it would truly be for the greater good.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far WAIT A MINUTE DID YOU USE HARRY POTTER AS A REFERENCE FOR BASHING A MENTAL DISORDER LMAO
So does mine....So hard to explain to the average Joe what kind of Mother you have or spouse - It is like you spend your entire life hiding the truth for the very people that have hurt you so deeply.
I apologize all the time when I screw up! I hate to be lied to so I do not ever Lie. I am far from perfect but I do have a very high self esteem about myself. I do love myself and am very head strong and many people find that offensive. I tell people what is on my mind regardless of how the other may feel. I do not know how to hold back. I do offend people who do not like to hear the truth! I do not like BS and most of the people I run into seem to be living in fantasy land! WAKE UP FOLKS!...YO!
i have seen such evil in my 28 yrs, what i have seen is not only doing evil deeds to those that are friends and loves but they actually feel thrilled ,they feel they have accomplished something grand in their eyes,it is hard to discribe with out living it, It is everything evil ,bad, Godless,you name it that is what they are and do.Cheating on best friends and wifes and husbands but it is thier happiness in the accomplishment that is so perverse.they celebrate their evil deeds ..
In my experience the main point of frustration is the futility of communicating and reaching the 'narcissist' and being understood in a way that both parties can warm themselves by the same fire. BUT, folks, it's a one way street not mutuality & giving because it's a pleasure to share. One has to do all the work according to someone else's script to boot! It is like having to learn another's language which would be ok, but the N can't accommodate you out of loving regard.
This is such valuable knowledge delivered from by someone with good expertise. A man who is well researched and has specialised on this area. seems to be well grounded in literature.
evil - is when a person refuses to acknowledge the dark side of there nature, wicked is when a person chooses too do wrong to another person and they know they are doing wrong, ignorant is when a person insults someone and does know what they are doing, messed up is when a person hurts someone else and doesnt realise that is not the way they behave these people demand a person lies to them all the time, they need other people to lie to them 24/7, so dependant, so sick, so unhappy, so foolish
A narcissist is aware what he does harms others, a tornado and a tiger do not. His awareness how ever choosing to do not good acts is what make them not good, not just a force of nature.
I've read nearly all the comments on this page and it's obvious the trauma N's inflict on others, but where does that leave us? I also have experienced suffering at the hands of these personality types but now know I must face my own co-dependancy issues. Would be interested to hear how others overcome theirs. Be safe, be strong.
I apologize. Upon re-reading my comment, I appear to have confused the two. I also feel the need to clarify that narcissists do not typically "kill" their prey in a literal sense. They will use people and discard them immediately unless they are a source of narcissistic supply.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far also narc supply is a harshly disregarded term in psychology
Also something I've been wondering is if Narcissists and socios can even be considered humans at all? Humans feel attachment and love for each other that goes beyond survival instincts and operates in concepts of morality. A N/socio though is utterly devoid of ANY compassion or human love. Even ANIMALS such as gorillas and wolves are capable of caring about each other. Narcissist can NOT feel love at all. So I don't think an N or a socio could be considered human or animal... They are monsters.
This video is half right IMO. I was married to a narcissist for longer than I care to admit. His shallow ability to be spontaneous was his hallmark. His lack of empathy and emotions other than frustration and anger were his constant companions. I don't believe narcissists are conscious of their mental illness. Yes they make conscious decisions to act out there "evil" behavior, however I truly believe that if they were able to have an objective viewpoint towards their abusive behavior they wo
@dutytocareforothers Do you mean to say that narcissism is a cultural problem?. If so then I wholeheartedly agree. I also agree that our political leaders are deliberately affecting our culture in a negative way. I'm a bit of a conspirancy theorist. Is that would you're saying? I've not read State of Confusion. It sounds interesting.
Me? Where I'm at now is that warmth is a remedy as is simplicity. N's are a waste of time & not productive in times when you need someone who just plain cares in the ups and downs of life. Both my father & ex husb were absent when it came to being present to express spontaneous acts of caring. Both had to be the hub around which everyone else serves, but were never THERE when the going gets real for you. N's leave you utterly alone in their presence. You don't even speak the same language.
@MsDanny444 even psychologists themselves get xompletely sucked in by the narcissists "show". my mom is one and EVERYBODY always looks at me as the bad one and dont believe anything i say.....its driving me crazy. i truly think narcisissts are evil, at least i know my mom is one....i dont know how i survived this long
Wrong again. A sociopath is a socialized psychopath and are tougher to spot. Where as a psychopath does not care about anything including if you know what they are.
Interesting eval of evil. I really have a hard time calling them truely evil. The one I knew was so badly hurt as child, I pitied her. But stay clear!!! She could be like a wild animal at times. Always has a razor blade in her back pocket.
@aaaaaaaars That would be called a "Malignant Narcissist." The line between Narc and Sociopath is completely irrelevant in that case because the Narc is every bit as evil as a Socio.
What he's really meaning to ask is not whether Narcissists are evil, but whether or not they are prone to doing evil more so than the average person. Morality is objective, and it is contradictory to say that it is not, because that, in it of itself, is an objective statement. Whether the evil acts of the N. are sinful is objective: if they are evil they are sinful. Are the acts sins on the N.'s soul? That depends if the person has full knowledge and full consent and the matter is grave.
If there is range of narcissism, i would probably fall between NO narcissism to Narcissism. My father is narcissist. I am however, a narcissist, and boderline. I am however, recovering, and I always knew i could find the solution for my intense emotions and anger i feel. I think i can get over all this, by accepting i am vulnarable and its okay and its only way to do. Now, its easier because, i know where my feeling and strong emtions are coming from.
@EternalFuu Good you bring up the element of 'retaliation' or vengeance which is akin to being pursued by a wild force of nature. This is the blank that needs to be filled in that i would like to comprehend more. Humans lack clear identifiers like stripes or spots that warn us off emotional & physical investments...instead we make camp and have children who will also suffer complex inabilities to adapt. I say it's an impossible situation.
Good reply. I not only know the truth about the things I talk about I back it up with proof! I get all the facts just like Mr. Snowden did and then spread the word. I will try to respect the other person if they don't believe me. This world is full of people so unconscious of what is right in front of their eyes! Maybe they are too afraid to ask questions about reality? ...YO!
I believe we do need new words and new language for this. The word "evil" just doesn't work. It is very telling, that there is no word to describe it--it seems that abuse of any sort just silences people--the victims, and the allowers, all--and the silence serves the purposes of the abusers. It is words which help people break the silence and heal. Now, how can we find a word....DESTRUCTIVE, maybe?
My husband told me he will keep his mistress (his business worker) because “at least she produces me money”. Myself, I should take care of the house, our children, his needs, and “try to understand and be thankful that I am not gay”. Somebody, please, invent that vocabulary soon 🙏🏼
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain thereis no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer
Wouldn't it be great to just look another in the eye about our own incredulousness and have a laugh about it. I would ask myself if i'm worth knowing before painting myself up to attract god-knows-what. In the same spirit would ask if another is worth knowing because they are decent human beings. Is this person fundamentally good as a basis informing who they are and their actions, or are they split off in a thousand complicating directions that suck you dry. Idiosyncracies can be endearing.
@patriciacarrasco I'm so sorry you have to experience this! You are a survivor, we all are. I have truly suffered in life do to the Narcs is my life. I really hope you are away from that person, or at least surviving the best you can until you can get out. Well its a wonder she even got to the psychologist?? all my life i have begged my mom to go to therapy and this was her answer ( I don't need therapy, you do. you have the problem) I truly wish u the best and if you need to talk msg me anytime
whether or not a narcissist is good or evil seems irrelevant.. the narcissist is not acting within reality, and is therefore acting against their own interests. I see this condition as being little different from any other form of delusion. If you are living in delusion, then you don't really even know whether or not you are even taking advantage of life in all the ways you would desire to if you had the proper perspective, the delusion is not yielding real benefit. the equation seems simple.
@dutytocareforothers I'm sorry you had to go through that too. :( And I agree; Narcissists are far more common than we think and the state of the world has a lot to say for that.
I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met they've figured out how to not hurt people through their life the best way is they literally say "if I'm hurting your feeling you need to say so I can stop" the stigma behind narcissists are terrible they can be good people without narcissism do bad stuff all of the time I hear people saying all of the time "He's a narcissist because he did (insert bad thing here)" and that's only throwing more misinformation into an already misinformed subject
I've been watching your videos, and I believe I have been raised by narcissists and am struggling to overcome my own narcissistic tendencies. Your videos dont address strategies for recovering from this. Perhaps we should be rounded up and killed? it is obvious that you have been victimized by a narcissist at some point. Perhaps do a video: 'Strategies for overcoming being a narcissist'?
My ex intentionally hurts people loves it lies on purpose cheated on purpose stole on purpose smeared my name on purpose deystroyed my whole life subhuman was evil
@EternalFuu they are, you need to experience it to see how bad it is.........ppl cant believe that another wld be that evil, hahahahaha ya i have experienced it for 28 yrs.
I am not Evil! I just don't like BS! BS PISSES ME OFF! I don't lie and don't like anyone to lie to me! I am a very honest narcissists! Many people think I am evil and that is far from the truth!....YO!
Psychopaths are human, their brains are wired differently so they act and think differently than the majority - people capable of empathy and remorse. That doesn't mean they aren't human. Also, you think just considering something is a crime against humanity? Gonna send the thought police after people who consider them human? Such a terrible crime. Thinking a group are human.
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer.
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no difference to me between a psychopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times leaving them or being with them you suffer
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no difference to me between a psychopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times leaving them or being with them you suffer
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer.
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no difference to me between a psychopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times leaveing them or being with them you suffer
Every Narcissist that I've known could control themselves in certain situations(i.e. public.) They dump on their spouses, children, siblings, parents, etc. privately. If they treat you worse than a common stranger, then they know exactly what they are doing. Tornadoes can't do that, and tigers can kill anyone, no matter who watches without being shy.
Trust me I know a Narcissist and he is definitely evil.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
@@bingobongo4906 it is not a mental disorder
I was delivered of these DEMONS
Don't buy into secular opinion
I did
It only made me worse
Therapy Antidepressants
All a bunch of secular garbage
Jesus delivers
Not man
It's all demonic
Have a nice day
God bless you
@@amwil4980 no disrespect but it's literally called nassistic personality DISORDER
A narcissistic person does not equal NPD they're 2 different things
Also trying to blame demons on the awful actions of someone is not going to help coping not all bad people are demons some people are just bad people and we shouldn't automatically assume every person with NPD is a bad person because of the name of their disorder narcissistic personality disorder does not make someone a bad person it just makes them have a very bad way of dealing with their own issues usually from trauma and calling people with NPD demons is going to encourage them to never try to change because they will be convinced that no matter what they do that's always how people will view them
evil can only exist in the absence of Good. Just as dark can only exist in the absence of light. So by definition it is evil behavior if it isn't good, uplifting behavior. Are they inherently evil? Who knows? But their behavior is unquestionably morally wrong behavior and thereby evil.
If a Narcissist knows the difference between right and wrong, then they make a choice to hurt others
Is it wrong to hurt an ant? Yes but would you consider it evil to hurt that ant? Not really at least not to that extent as you would for a human. If a narcissist hurts someone they don't consider on the level of human (themselves) how evil is it from that perspective?
A tiger hurts out of his instinct. A tornado destroys simply because it is a element of nature. But a narcissist is far differemt in that, being human, he KNOWS better, yet knowing better, he chooses to hurt others anyway. He has no conscience, but he sure as heck knows better. His is the choice; he could control himself if he wanted to.
Guilt? What guilt?
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I have a narcissist family memeber ,and Im not convinced they are not posessed by an evil spirit.How can a person be so vile and not have an evil spirit??
I agree!
Scripture says if you aren't for Christ you are anti-Christ. This would describe a lot of the spiritual war going on.
I believe they are Demons as the behavioral patterns cross language and culture. It is like a intricate step by step process. Search for 'Shaneen Medji' she has many video's on the subject. The pharisees and sagisees were narcs not to mention satan is the original Narcissist.
Psychopaths differ from narcissists in that they often lack control over their impulses. They are deceptive, cunning, capable of forethought, and are able to blend into society; which differentiates them from sociopaths who tend to be caught rather quickly. Both psychopaths and sociopaths tend to exhibit sadistic qualities, which narcissists do not.
Narcissists are like predators that quickly kill their prey, whereas psychopaths enjoy toying with their victims and watching them suffer.
yes, Evil.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
I was "friends" (more like [unwilling] mind-fuck buddies) with a Narcissist for more than a year and I can definitely say that he was the fucking evil thing I've ever known in my life, and I have the PTSD to show for it. The best word I could come up with to describe him is "Demon." I don't believe in eternal torment but sometimes I almost wish I did just so that he would end up there.
John 1:1-5 KJV
[1] In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
[2] The same was in the beginning with God.
[3] All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.
[4] In him was life; and the life was the light of men.
[5] And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.
i dont believe anyone is truly 100% evil only if they're completely possessed by demons...but a narcissist and psychopath are very close!
I know a woman who is such an extreme narcissist, I wouldn't be a bit surprised if her head started spinning right in front me while she spits up pea soup.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
Ash Morrow So glad that your experiences with NPD people have been so positive.
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@Sorakeyblademaster37 Yes, a narcissist nearly drove me crazy because I was trying to understand them! The best advice someone gave me was "don't study them." Understanding them in an objective, academic way is fine, especially before you ever have to deal with one. But trying to empathize, to reconcile human emotion with their behavior, can hurt you psychologically (if you are the victim).
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
Its inhuman to treat people as objects merely to gratify your self. An object has no feelings, no worth pride or humanity. Seeing a women in this light spurs on the hatred, and these men glean what they can from women to fuel their own hatred of womanhood and justify their own hateful behavior, then they cry that they are the victims. What a joke!!! 8 months of that nonsense was enough for me i couldn't run fast enough. Men like that relish in the pain they cause others, and even drive them over the edge to suicide. Is it evil, well how else can one describe such behavior?
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
@@bingobongo4906 nobody cares
A tiger and a hurricane don’t have awareness of what’s right or wrong; that’s what sets humans apart from animals, etc. To act on a choice that is expedient for you while deliberately hurting others is evil. Treating people as collateral damage to one’s narcissistic intentions is pure evil.
Narcissists have the ability to reflect on their actions and imagine (even without the faculty of empathy) the repercussions of their actions- even if the results that are incidental in meeting whatever their needs at the moment. This superior mental capasity makes nacissists and psychopaths are more morally responsible than a tiger. Being unable to reflect and predict is quite different from being unwilling to reflect and predict or not valuing reflecting and predicting. KG
Kushee7 They don't reflect much. Their arrogance makes them stupid.
This is where I become confused as to the differences betwen Psychopathy and Narcissism. There seems to be some overlap. Narcissists and Psycho/Sociopaths all can be deliberately, systematically, even criminally cruel for their own benefit, devoid of empathy.
most people with ASPD or NPD just want to live a normal life and don't want to hurt anyone media has spread a terrible stereotype that they only hurt people I know people with NPD and they're super nice! (also psychopaths cant be narcissists or sociopaths by psychology's terms)
@@bingobongo4906 when they're being super nice , it's just an act
Don't be confused. Head to my UA-cam channel and find the video about Narcissists vs. Psychopaths.
I don’t think we need new vocabulary; parasite is pretty appropriate. Yes?
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far
Ash Morrow THANK YOU
They are depressing. There is no joy or laughter or love. Avoid them.
@@oldcrone 💯👏👏👏👏👏👏
I read '' People of the Lie '' years ago. I love that book.
It's an easy read and very interesting Lots of real stories.
Very good book.
@@fooled_twice4668 Interesting. It was my mother that would say mean things with the sly innuendos, in public. She was so cruel behind closed doors but had to act nice in public. So she had her little remarks that she knew were hurtful but that only I would understand. She HAD to feed her cruelty….even in public.After I shut her off completely she went after my siblings. These people need to feed and eventually everyone figures them out but….no closure. None. There’s never closure with narcissistic people
True story. Just because it's in their nature doesn't mean they aren't evil, but it's different than a tornado or tiger.
Narcissists tend to be VERY evil when cornered, even the laughable ones. A good example of this would be Gilderoy Lockhart in the Harry Potter series. If all narcissists met the same sticky end, it would truly be for the greater good.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far WAIT A MINUTE DID YOU USE HARRY POTTER AS A REFERENCE FOR BASHING A MENTAL DISORDER LMAO
So does mine....So hard to explain to the average Joe what kind of Mother you have or spouse - It is like you spend your entire life hiding the truth for the very people that have hurt you so deeply.
Heartless! That's it! It comes from the very core of these people. Tigers are carnivores, they hunt or die.
I apologize all the time when I screw up! I hate to be lied to so I do not ever Lie. I am far from perfect but I do have a very high self esteem about myself. I do love myself and am very head strong and many people find that offensive. I tell people what is on my mind regardless of how the other may feel. I do not know how to hold back. I do offend people who do not like to hear the truth! I do not like BS and most of the people I run into seem to be living in fantasy land! WAKE UP FOLKS!...YO!
i have seen such evil in my 28 yrs, what i have seen is not only doing evil deeds to those that are friends and loves but they actually feel thrilled ,they feel they have accomplished something grand in their eyes,it is hard to discribe with out living it, It is everything evil ,bad, Godless,you name it that is what they are and do.Cheating on best friends and wifes and husbands but it is thier happiness in the accomplishment that is so perverse.they celebrate their evil deeds ..
They are arseoles need to be dead
In my experience the main point of frustration is the futility of communicating and reaching the 'narcissist' and being understood in a way that both parties can warm themselves by the same fire.
BUT, folks, it's a one way street not mutuality & giving because it's a pleasure to share.
One has to do all the work according to someone else's script to boot!
It is like having to learn another's language which would be ok, but the N can't accommodate you out of loving regard.
This is such valuable knowledge delivered from by someone with good expertise. A man who is well researched and has specialised on this area. seems to be well grounded in literature.
evil - is when a person refuses to acknowledge the dark side of there nature, wicked is when a person chooses too do wrong to another person and they know they are doing wrong,
ignorant is when a person insults someone and does know what they are doing, messed up is when a person hurts someone else and doesnt realise that is not the way they behave
these people demand a person lies to them all the time, they need other people to lie to them 24/7, so dependant, so sick, so unhappy, so foolish
A narcissist is aware what he does harms others, a tornado and a tiger do not. His awareness how ever choosing to do not good acts is what make them not good, not just a force of nature.
I've read nearly all the comments on this page and it's obvious the trauma N's inflict on others, but where does that leave us? I also have experienced suffering at the hands of these personality types but now know I must face my own co-dependancy issues. Would be interested to hear how others overcome theirs. Be safe, be strong.
Through seeking healing directly from God.
I apologize. Upon re-reading my comment, I appear to have confused the two.
I also feel the need to clarify that narcissists do not typically "kill" their prey in a literal sense. They will use people and discard them immediately unless they are a source of narcissistic supply.
I'm getting tired of responding to each individual bashing a MENTAL DISORDER so I'm just going to copy paste this
people with NPD arent always bad I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met nowhere in the diagnostic criteria does it say "must be a terrible person that abuses other" you may have met somebody who was a terrible person but that doesn't mean they have NPD I think a lot of people just assume "this person is a big meanie so they must have NPD" because of what media has taught us but thats not true in the slightest! most people with NPD recognize the issue and learn how to pick up social cues and shut up when they realize they're going too far also narc supply is a harshly disregarded term in psychology
Also something I've been wondering is if Narcissists and socios can even be considered humans at all? Humans feel attachment and love for each other that goes beyond survival instincts and operates in concepts of morality. A N/socio though is utterly devoid of ANY compassion or human love. Even ANIMALS such as gorillas and wolves are capable of caring about each other. Narcissist can NOT feel love at all. So I don't think an N or a socio could be considered human or animal... They are monsters.
This video is half right IMO.
I was married to a narcissist for longer than I care to admit. His shallow ability to be spontaneous was his hallmark. His lack of empathy and emotions other than frustration and anger were his constant companions.
I don't believe narcissists are conscious of their mental illness. Yes they make conscious decisions to act out there "evil" behavior, however I truly believe that if they were able to have an objective viewpoint towards their abusive behavior they wo
thanks for the class master. now i have better view of my life.
WOW! Thanks DOC! I don't think I will be Evil no more! I will let people think any way they want and I wont have fight anymore! I got it! ....YO!
.......I'm speechless.....
@dutytocareforothers Do you mean to say that narcissism is a cultural problem?. If so then I wholeheartedly agree. I also agree that our political leaders are deliberately affecting our culture in a negative way. I'm a bit of a conspirancy theorist.
Is that would you're saying? I've not read State of Confusion. It sounds interesting.
Me? Where I'm at now is that warmth is a remedy as is simplicity.
N's are a waste of time & not productive in times when you need someone who just plain cares in the ups and downs of life.
Both my father & ex husb were absent when it came to being present to express spontaneous acts of caring.
Both had to be the hub around which everyone else serves, but were never THERE when the going gets real for you. N's leave you utterly alone in their presence. You don't even speak the same language.
It’s taken you 11 years to come to that conclusion?
@MsDanny444 even psychologists themselves get xompletely sucked in by the narcissists "show". my mom is one and EVERYBODY always looks at me as the bad one and dont believe anything i say.....its driving me crazy. i truly think narcisissts are evil, at least i know my mom is one....i dont know how i survived this long
Love your videos Sam
Wrong again. A sociopath is a socialized psychopath and are tougher to spot. Where as a psychopath does not care about anything including if you know what they are.
@aaaaaaaars waht video would that be? the one where a narcissist can become one herself?
He looked like the victim which was his intent
Interesting eval of evil. I really have a hard time calling them truely evil. The one I knew was so badly hurt as child, I pitied her. But stay clear!!! She could be like a wild animal at times. Always has a razor blade in her back pocket.
@aaaaaaaars That would be called a "Malignant Narcissist." The line between Narc and Sociopath is completely irrelevant in that case because the Narc is every bit as evil as a Socio.
What he's really meaning to ask is not whether Narcissists are evil, but whether or not they are prone to doing evil more so than the average person. Morality is objective, and it is contradictory to say that it is not, because that, in it of itself, is an objective statement. Whether the evil acts of the N. are sinful is objective: if they are evil they are sinful. Are the acts sins on the N.'s soul? That depends if the person has full knowledge and full consent and the matter is grave.
If there is range of narcissism, i would probably fall between NO narcissism to Narcissism. My father is narcissist. I am however, a narcissist, and boderline. I am however, recovering, and I always knew i could find the solution for my intense emotions and anger i feel. I think i can get over all this, by accepting i am vulnarable and its okay and its only way to do. Now, its easier because, i know where my feeling and strong emtions are coming from.
@EternalFuu Good you bring up the element of 'retaliation' or vengeance which is akin to being pursued by a wild force of nature. This is the blank that needs to be filled in that i would like to comprehend more.
Humans lack clear identifiers like stripes or spots that warn us off emotional & physical investments...instead we make camp and have children who will also suffer complex inabilities to adapt.
I say it's an impossible situation.
Good reply. I not only know the truth about the things I talk about I back it up with proof! I get all the facts just like Mr. Snowden did and then spread the word. I will try to respect the other person if they don't believe me. This world is full of people so unconscious of what is right in front of their eyes! Maybe they are too afraid to ask questions about reality? ...YO!
I believe we do need new words and new language for this. The word "evil" just doesn't work. It is very telling, that there is no word to describe it--it seems that abuse of any sort just silences people--the victims, and the allowers, all--and the silence serves the purposes of the abusers. It is words which help people break the silence and heal. Now, how can we find a word....DESTRUCTIVE, maybe?
My husband told me he will keep his mistress (his business worker) because “at least she produces me money”. Myself, I should take care of the house, our children, his needs, and “try to understand and be thankful that I am not gay”. Somebody, please, invent that vocabulary soon 🙏🏼
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain thereis no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer
Day 10 of No contact with Demon Dave! He was Dreamy Davey at 1st.
@DropDeadCouture they are!! my mom (narc) is such a bore becasue everything's about her all the time, no sense of humor...
Wouldn't it be great to just look another in the eye about our own incredulousness and have a laugh about it.
I would ask myself if i'm worth knowing before painting myself up to attract god-knows-what.
In the same spirit would ask if another is worth knowing because they are decent human beings. Is this person fundamentally good as a basis informing who they are and their actions, or are they split off in a thousand complicating directions that suck you dry.
Idiosyncracies can be endearing.
@mildpace Continue to get help. Good for you, and good luck.
@patriciacarrasco I'm so sorry you have to experience this! You are a survivor, we all are. I have truly suffered in life do to the Narcs is my life. I really hope you are away from that person, or at least surviving the best you can until you can get out. Well its a wonder she even got to the psychologist?? all my life i have begged my mom to go to therapy and this was her answer ( I don't need therapy, you do. you have the problem) I truly wish u the best and if you need to talk msg me anytime
whether or not a narcissist is good or evil seems irrelevant.. the narcissist is not acting within reality, and is therefore acting against their own interests. I see this condition as being little different from any other form of delusion. If you are living in delusion, then you don't really even know whether or not you are even taking advantage of life in all the ways you would desire to if you had the proper perspective, the delusion is not yielding real benefit. the equation seems simple.
asdfasdfasdf I agree thr narcissistic illusion doesn't benefit thr ones I know.They always seem to inadvertently hurt themselves.
@dutytocareforothers I'm sorry you had to go through that too. :( And I agree; Narcissists are far more common than we think and the state of the world has a lot to say for that.
@LoserMillionaire ya but just because they hurt or I hurt gives us no right to EVER abuse another no matter what.
I know people with NPD and they're some of the nicest people I've ever met they've figured out how to not hurt people through their life the best way is they literally say "if I'm hurting your feeling you need to say so I can stop" the stigma behind narcissists are terrible they can be good
people without narcissism do bad stuff all of the time I hear people saying all of the time "He's a narcissist because he did (insert bad thing here)" and that's only throwing more misinformation into an already misinformed subject
I've been watching your videos, and I believe I have been raised by narcissists and am struggling to overcome my own narcissistic tendencies.
Your videos dont address strategies for recovering from this. Perhaps we should be rounded up and killed? it is obvious that you have been victimized by a narcissist at some point.
Perhaps do a video: 'Strategies for overcoming being a narcissist'?
My ex intentionally hurts people loves it lies on purpose cheated on purpose stole on purpose smeared my name on purpose deystroyed my whole life subhuman was evil
@EternalFuu SO TRUE
The only evil is ignorance.
Evil ex.
let's start a jam session and smoke marijuana with us... maybe helps...
Narcissists are a force of nature because they have animal souls, not human souls.
Dogs have more emphaty than most humans
@EternalFuu they are, you need to experience it to see how bad it is.........ppl cant believe that another wld be that evil, hahahahaha ya i have experienced it for 28 yrs.
I am not Evil! I just don't like BS! BS PISSES ME OFF! I don't lie and don't like anyone to lie to me! I am a very honest narcissists! Many people think I am evil and that is far from the truth!....YO!
Psychopaths are human, their brains are wired differently so they act and think differently than the majority - people capable of empathy and remorse. That doesn't mean they aren't human. Also, you think just considering something is a crime against humanity? Gonna send the thought police after people who consider them human? Such a terrible crime. Thinking a group are human.
@mamolie1 A lot of them already are!! Ha
narcissist are pure evil but this is their choice to become a narcissist.
Dude, narcissistic personality disorder is a mental illness. Do you “choose” to be depressed?
@@oofoof7336 I think it is a choice. whatever it is a choice or not. I simply avoid them, I don't care.
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer.
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no difference to me between a psychopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times leaving them or being with them you suffer
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no difference to me between a psychopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times leaving them or being with them you suffer
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no radiance to me between a physopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times at 58 leavein them or being with them you suffer.
Me to and I still need to keep listing to these videos to stay away from my husband.I been with in misery for 17 years They make you hate love or look at love like nothing but pain that is evil tearing ones heart and soul to pieces.Then smiling about the pain there is no difference to me between a psychopath and a Narcissist the side effects of being with one can make you feel like your dieing.I ask my husband to leave 4 days ago for the 100th times leaveing them or being with them you suffer