Tim Ross vs Princella The Queenmaker DEBATE Marriage, Family & Monogamy

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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  3 місяці тому +8

    👉DATING CARDS: hi.hardlyinitiated.com/datingcards

    • @smartass0124
      @smartass0124 23 дні тому +2

      What about mearkats. And instincts do exist it's all reflexes craving and urge and sense and learned behavior and memory and reason.
      And why is nature better because it's nature

    • @osmosisjones4912
      @osmosisjones4912 23 дні тому +1

      What about gorillas what recist monkeys what about laumers. What about . Meerkats what . Wolves .what about Digos what ceotyes . What about those hot spring long nose monkeys . What about bat . What about Rats in the city .what about baboons .

    • @LogicalThinking-p2s
      @LogicalThinking-p2s 23 дні тому

      How come looking pet females call out the males in Zoos I see females coming up on the males only places we see the male curses of being under female in nature are no nature shows

  • @sidtheKld
    @sidtheKld Рік тому +2839

    This interview needed more listening to understand and not to respond on both sides. Every time Tim spoke she softened up because he was not trying to prove her wrong. He was trying to understand. He showed her that men can also be empathetic. I feel that he left a positive impression on her. This is how you bring people to the kingdom.

    • @Mr1Musiclover
      @Mr1Musiclover Рік тому +20

      Maybe

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому +101

      Listening to understand is a huge first step for having compassion for the marginalized. "Compassion" meaning empathy + justice/ problem solving

    • @pats8219
      @pats8219 Рік тому +186

      More men need to submit to God and actually start acting godly for women. Every church I went to was filled with more women and the the “godly “ man I was married to treated me and the children as servants to him. I divorced him after 17 miserable years and will never marry again.

    • @Mr1Musiclover
      @Mr1Musiclover Рік тому +23

      @pats8219 the head of the church probably preferred you leave your husband and serve him instead.

    • @lunam33
      @lunam33 Рік тому +1

      🤡. We are not following Jesus ya are delusional. You guys don’t even understand Christ Consciousness, has nothing to do with a male but the original CHRISTOS DNA of the original ascended human which most of you are not, and can’t reach, and at this rate will never reach unless Mother Nature sets you straight or deals with you as needed, you don’t even have the capacity to understand higher knowledge. He did have more empathy then the vast majority of males she encounters and could actually listen to some of her message but none the less a male is a male and all ya did is prove her right on everything men are inacabable of love and understanding love, because real love is just not part of your beingness. Men can’t even see what’s unfolding and that all this is much bigger than Princella and coming straight from the divine mother because she is done with how the feminine has been treated on this planet for thousands of years no one knows true feminine exaltation because it has not been allowed to exist for a longgg time due to mass persecution. The male is unwilling to face his shadow and karma and looks for all kinds of excuses to coddle is fragile ego.
      You guys are the real anti-Christ going against the divine order even early Christians understood archons and that Christianity is based off of astrology and esoteric teachings. You guys pale in comparison to early Christians and if you actually studied some history you would know this and that Christianity is also based off of pagan lore and that Jesus’s story is a REPEATED archetype, same exact archetype as in pagan lore, it’s MYTHOLOGY because existence CANNOT be conveyed through language, it’s an EXPERIENCE, that is irrefutable facts. The real knowledge is the Her-metic philosophy. The divine feminine is rising and you can’t stop what’s coming. The original God is the GODDESS who came lone before fallen patriarchal religions which were created for planetary domination and Transhumanism. The divine mother is who gives you life and nourishes you, even your Y chromosome is a degenerate X chromosome. Women created men. Women came first and a males whole existence is trying to be like a woman because she is the source. When ya are ready to humble yourselves perhaps you can evolve.

  • @rosecoloredglasses67329
    @rosecoloredglasses67329 Рік тому +1673

    Shout out to the Pastor for being receptive, open, non-judgmental, and unbothered!

    • @quanniesworld
      @quanniesworld Рік тому +32

      In what world is crying over her story unbothered? He would have showed no emotion at all of that were the case.

    • @Oregonsistah
      @Oregonsistah Рік тому +40

      He is amazing and renewed my belief in men of “God”

    • @Oregonsistah
      @Oregonsistah Рік тому +4

      I look at life realistically as well

    • @pinkypromise6037
      @pinkypromise6037 Рік тому +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @petracain6794
      @petracain6794 Рік тому +23

      Unbothered was not why they brought him. That woman talked a lot, yet I barely heard Tim's message. Her version of the truth was overpowering

  • @Livelife95ify
    @Livelife95ify Рік тому +529

    Tim Ross is brilliant!
    "Love covers a multitude of sin." Tim chose to love and defend the Queens humanity.
    He also made his theology and beliefs very clear without weaponizing them against her, to win the argument
    Today Tim Ross taught me a very important message about Love.
    What we see with Tim Ross in this video is God's love demonstrated .

    • @latarabryant9486
      @latarabryant9486 Рік тому +8

      Amen!

    • @lunam33
      @lunam33 Рік тому +51

      He actually proved her right that men are incapable of love in-spite of him showing some empathy, ya can't see it, but all men do is prove her right on everything, all this panel did is try to protect their access to women, it was all ego, no self reflection, Tim even admitted afterwards that his wife asked for divorce after 20 years of marriage if he had true integrity, he would have said something live while she was speaking on the divorce rates and how men expect women to sacrifice themselves for their lower nature. Its insane...

    • @pastorcharleshumphrey9418
      @pastorcharleshumphrey9418 Рік тому +11

      Yes indeed. He was not trying to win. He was trying to reconcile their different views from different perspectives as much as possible. I give the HI props for bringing her on.

    • @beatricewilliams7143
      @beatricewilliams7143 Рік тому +9

      If you are a true believe in the Lord Jesus Christ you can not go along with this young lady,it sounds good,but to God this is like the serpent in Adam and Eve,so you all want more children to not have a stable home,God made man,then he put man to sleep and took a rib and m are woman for him,God said it is not for this man to be alone,she is his helpmate,help mate, young woman is being use to go against the WORD OF GOD.

    • @Livelife95ify
      @Livelife95ify Рік тому +4

      ​@@beatricewilliams7143I'm not supporting or going along with her..

  • @shantehill4158
    @shantehill4158 2 місяці тому +28

    The moment where Princella talked about her trauma and speaks on her thoughts of how she perceived Tim’s empathic reaction resonated with me so intensely. When she spoke of how normalized it is to share a trauma or in my experience even a success with most men it typically goes in one ear and out of the other. Most never really indulge in questions to gain more understanding. For Tim to fully empathize and demonstrate genuine concern, so much so that he could truly feel her pain really captivated me. He talked about how he could even envision her as a child which showed how hearing this deeply affected him. This is what women yearn for when opening up a old wound and being vulnerable around men. With sharing a successful milestone instead of it being glossed over we look for men to be who we have been to them which is their greatest supporter. I loved watching every minute of this, it was good to see a healthy form of communication ❤

    • @ninichic11
      @ninichic11 Місяць тому +2

      This comment is good

    • @Kara3-n4p
      @Kara3-n4p 23 дні тому +1

      Your comment is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @franciszico828
      @franciszico828 7 днів тому +1

      @@shantehill4158 everybody talks about how Tim upheld her but nobody talks about how she didn't even say Thank you or appreciate his love

  • @NatalieBaucum
    @NatalieBaucum Рік тому +2003

    1. From observing Princella, her life experiences sent her on a quest to scientifically understand a man's behavior. She has synthesized what she's learned and created the platform she has today and has chosen to deliver advice to women based on scientific evidence. Her message will go over most people's heads because the average human reads at a 7th-8th grade level.
    2. The Hardly Initiated team failed to do what the Pastor did, which is listen with an inclusive lens. Their stance from the beginning was to dismantle the ideologies she's studied. Science vs spirituality are hard to exist in this conversation. They also cut her off after asking her to share her personal experiences. Asking her to shorten her thoughts. Make it simple. Men want women to communicate simply. Women are more verbose. Hence, the podcasters not genuinely listening to understand vs respond like the pastor did. Cutting her off also communicated you could care less about her past hurts which is definitely not the Biblical way and hopefully you two will take the time to apologize for this. She deserves an apology for that segment specifically.
    3. Pastor Tim seemed to be very genuine in his responses and showed great care to be inclusive and not divisive. He sought to find similarities and not harp in the differences in thought and belief. That is a very rare trait and is to be commended. Had he not been on this panel this evening, no progress would've been made and Princella's entire messaging would've been dismissed. His emotional intelligence is high. He seeks to understand. He knows a woman needs more words than a man. He seems to be the 1% man all women are desiring and hope to find. May he infect the 99% to follow his leadership on how to treat women.

    • @shenquejames7598
      @shenquejames7598 Рік тому +53

      Exactly 💯

    • @ktokie338
      @ktokie338 Рік тому +35

      💯 💯 💯

    • @erock9594
      @erock9594 Рік тому

      She's just saying dumb stuff that any person with a decent amount of intelligence can easy pick apart. You're lost you thing

    • @Sharifay.
      @Sharifay. Рік тому +32

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 Рік тому +252

      Ryan and Tysean were hell bent on telling her she was wrong when if they sat and reflected she wasn't. Their own male guests who may be good husbands NOW, have all said that - in the early years of their marriage and relationships they put their wives through a lot. That they were cheaters, they were immature, they were broke and had to be supported, etc. I've listened to most of their male guests - and all have put women through "trauma".
      Ryan and Tysean have also admittedly put women through trauma. I remember a guest (I think it was the female virgin from the show last week), asking Tysean why he was criticizing women about having a lot of bodies (sexual partners) while he himself has contributed to a number of women's body count. He got defensive and didn't want to address it in an objective way. He admitted he was wrong but didn't want to focus on his wrongness.... only the woman's. Child even the male virgin they bring on is toxic as hell.... talking about "shorty" this and "shorty" that.

  • @Karlabeautifulheir
    @Karlabeautifulheir Рік тому +848

    Pastor Tim is the Most mature Pastor that’s ever come on this show hands down. He is a true representation of Christ. Men of God take notes! Straight humility and strength at the same time! Pastor was skilled in his ability to pinpoint the similarities in the message and still was able to see her value despite not agreeing with some points she made . He ate the meat and threw away the bones sort of speak. The essence of Spiritual maturity Pastor Tim has demonstrated. As a woman with Christian values Princella has helped me understand the nature of men and women as a whole. She is able to explain things in a very logical, practical and scientific sense. Its often too easy just to use scripture to answer someones questions. You’re really skilled when you can help someone understand scriptures without having to even quote it.

    • @erock9594
      @erock9594 Рік тому

      He's a simp

    • @CaramelCali
      @CaramelCali Рік тому +4

      @@erock9594you’re proving Princellas point

    • @shenquejames7598
      @shenquejames7598 Рік тому +7

      Exactly 💯 Sis

    • @ront9267
      @ront9267 Рік тому

      I like that does somebody wanna tell me who's supposed to fix all these broken ass? Black women that follow princella and her broken black ass. As you see, the men are well on their way to fixing themselves in writing the ship. But she has said absolutely nothing about the women. The state of mind they're state of mind. Are they working on themselves? Are they getting therapy? Are they losing weight? She said absolutely nothing about the broken black women dead that all these great Willie Justin. Newly fixed men are supposed to deal with or maybe I heard that wrong

    • @OceanisInfinite
      @OceanisInfinite Рік тому

      I agree but the men will never agree because of their agenda to still have access to sex WITH women so their male nature is going to always want to preserve their desires that’s why they don’t do religion well. They have failed collectively for thousands of years or else we wouldn’t be STILL having the same issues & worst.

  • @philtjr
    @philtjr 11 місяців тому +481

    Here's something intriguing from my time serving as a Christian counselor: in almost every married couple I counseled, men would often express dissatisfaction with the frequency of sex and share frustrations about their partners' complaints. On the other hand, women frequently mentioned emotional distress and high levels of stress within their relationships and surroundings. Princella is addressing some uncomfortable truths that many may shy away from. It's essential that we listen because she's touching on something significant, and this observation is based on a substantial number of Christian couples grappling with marital issues. While some may attempt to reconcile biology with scripture, I've personally encountered numerous instances of cheating pastors and church members, and lots of family dysfunction, which lends credence to her argument.

    • @diannemcneil-woodford8614
      @diannemcneil-woodford8614 11 місяців тому +45

      You hit the nail on the head.

    • @lyndapatterson2923
      @lyndapatterson2923 11 місяців тому

      Princess are your Male/Female family cohesiveness statements based on the psychological problems that results from human men not mice? Family, male/ female, Divisiveness definitely causes Black Family Dysfunction & Black Male Demise! The male masculinity functions are to direct, protect, & provide that educates, motivates, & demonstrates Black family unification! Female nurturing, supporting, Creativity ,motivating, & stimulating the emotional educational growth! Separation brings about annihilation! The simplicity of male/female compatibility is unification! Female reproduction can’t exist without male sperm introduction! Your vitriolic verbiage of male condemnation coincides with the white powerful systemic separation resulting in Black Family annihilation! I agree that non marital Black Female statistics have increased due to inherited female indoctrination & commonly expressed from ignorance “ I DON’T Need A Man” thus promotes homosexuality! Women also adorn themselves for male acceptance witch can be intentional larcenous looking for financial, physical, & emotional satisfaction!RESPECTFUL BIBLICAL Foundational TRUTHS That REFUTES FALSE FEMALE EMOTIONAL Feelings that FORGES satanic Separation from Pernicious Philosophers that you promote! Male/Female Relationship Education is VITAL for Relationship Cohesiveness! Princess please project the emotional equalization of Female separation that can promote egregious evils of jealousy, hostility, envious inferiority when compared to each other, & bitch brutality Is persistently prevalent! R Kipling’s poem The Female of The Species! Jezebel & the wicked women of the Bible are also written for our avoidance of evil behaviors! God is the AUTHORITY on promoting Unification of Male/ Female Relationships!

    • @Artryom
      @Artryom 11 місяців тому +1

      Sounds like sex addicts and women who need to grow up?💀 Most folks don’t comprehend and stick to scripture, we go our own way and pleasures are EZ to become addicted to while emotions are EZ to get manipulated by…

    • @myraclez7612
      @myraclez7612 10 місяців тому +52

      The fact that you are a Christian male counselor saying this speaks volumes. It is cool to hear your pov. I am saying this as a Christian woman.

    • @iamkingziionproductions100
      @iamkingziionproductions100 10 місяців тому

      So, as a “Christian counsellor” your endorsing the break up of the nucleus family and the fact that men are incapable of functioning accordingly in a relationship? I guess this is why they say seek WISE COUNSEL” 😏

  • @Awayoutthesimulation
    @Awayoutthesimulation Місяць тому +6

    I have researched all she has said I overstand everything & stand with her to every word she spoke to the very end Love you Queen & I'll see u in the new earth that we are slowly shifting into.❤

  • @Jonathan_Justiniano
    @Jonathan_Justiniano Рік тому +539

    I’ve only watched 42 mins of this so far and I love how pastor Tim, regardless of him not agreeing with her, stays composed and respectful. We can’t argue anyone to heaven, we can’t shame someone to repentance. The fruits of the spirit definitely come out of him here.

    • @keelhe893
      @keelhe893 Рік тому +28

      I agree but want to add that All the men on this podcast showed great restraint with this conversation because it was a tough one. Princella was not being as gracious she came off as male bashing but they gave her time to explain herself

    • @CriticalTimez
      @CriticalTimez Рік тому

      ​@@keelhe893that pretty much what she does😔🫤😟

    • @robingarrett7252
      @robingarrett7252 Рік тому +19

      Ryan was so frustrated as was I. Some of her statistics 📈 need fact checking. I wish her complete healing and restoration!!!

    • @teenspirit9837
      @teenspirit9837 Рік тому

      Absolutely 🙏🏾❤️

    • @chrystylhamilton3267
      @chrystylhamilton3267 Рік тому +7

      I totally agree. I cringed a little bit watching this! Because her philosophy of this is from a science perspective, and we all know who created science! So to speak from this standpoint is her opinion on how she feel men and women should operate with raising families, scientifically, etc….. but I bow out gracefully, and may god work through her and show her something different…. 😊

  • @daronbigby
    @daronbigby Рік тому +407

    I learned that I need to love my wife and daughter even more! I learned that my wife may be putting up with things in my marriage and regardless of that woman's conclusion, she opened my eyes to what I must do. Awesome conversation.

    • @foxylady6901
      @foxylady6901 Рік тому +39

      I pray for you're wife's sanity and I pray she learns to love herself enough to know you're her burden and she can get rid if you if she had a stronger mind

    • @Ava44322
      @Ava44322 Рік тому +13

      @@foxylady6901😂😂😂😂 lost

    • @notimeforweight
      @notimeforweight Рік тому +13

      And this is the beautiful part of family. Bravo my brother

    • @daronbigby
      @daronbigby Рік тому +26

      @@foxylady6901 the cool thing is, she does love herself enough to know that she can walk at any point and completely doesn’t want to because that is her choice. Not everyone in a marriage is miserable.

    • @ARS-fn6px
      @ARS-fn6px Рік тому +51

      Im glad you took the lessons from Princella to better yourself as a father and a husband instead of getting in your feelings. Good on you and I wish you the best for you and your family. May your daughter and wife benefit from your care and hardwork becoming a better person.

  • @BrittneyJae
    @BrittneyJae Рік тому +224

    2:32:30 The fact that Tim acknowledged Princella’s experiences verses Ryan’s statement of “we don’t want to hear about all of your past blah blah blah”, even after asking her, once again proves the points she’s made throughout the show up to this point.

    • @titaa56
      @titaa56 Рік тому +19

      Bingo

    • @goodtrouble841
      @goodtrouble841 Рік тому +15

      🎯 🎯 🎯

    • @so0oochante840
      @so0oochante840 Рік тому +48

      Yup! They were VERY dismissive... and she spoke about emotional intelligence... where was it?

    • @Ranessarose
      @Ranessarose Рік тому +46

      This. I hated the way they treated their “guest”. They were literally proving her point.

    • @adelestears8298
      @adelestears8298 Рік тому +2

      Ryan is an example of the deficiency males have that she is talking about.

  • @y.patricianunes6160
    @y.patricianunes6160 2 місяці тому +10

    Pastor Tim Ross Is An Emotionally Intelligent Man, He Is That One Percent (1%)
    The 2 Host…
    Proved Princella’s Point On The True Nature Of Most males.
    they Both Fall Under The 99% Of males Category.
    they Weren’t Capable Of Grasping The High Level Of Intellectual Concepts Brought By Princella Clark, The QueenMaker.
    The Host
    We All Need To Place More Focus On Ourselves, In Order To Improve & Evolve For Our Betterment.
    Through Our Self Love,Our Self Care, And Healing…
    We Can Make The Necessary Changes In Our Lives To Elevate In Becoming Truly Enlightened & Have Self Awareness.
    By Fixing Ourselves, We Are Able To Show Up In This World As A Healthy Whole Human Person 100%
    🙏🏽Peace Is Within Us🙏🏽

  • @pastorcharleshumphrey9418
    @pastorcharleshumphrey9418 Рік тому +572

    For me one of the major points she landed on and emphasized is this: Men are the problem and men are the answer. Men are the problem and answer to sexual and physical abuse; men are the problem and answer to fatherlessness; men are the problem and answer to sex trafficking. Men must mentor and disciple men to become better men. Apart from that the proliferation of misogynistic, manipulative, and materialistic men will continue to grow. If more pastor focused on helping men get whole, we could make a dent in the problem. If we get the man right, then we will get the marriage, family and community right. How many pastors are up for the challenge?

    • @CreoleMadi-ko9mp
      @CreoleMadi-ko9mp Рік тому +11

    • @BeeJ3
      @BeeJ3 Рік тому +13

      Amen agreed

    • @stephaniewynn8291
      @stephaniewynn8291 Рік тому +6

      💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

    • @10ille99
      @10ille99 Рік тому +19

      Amennnnnnn! This! And you're a pastor??? Wow. I appreciate you for this VERY enlightened conclusion
      #FewAreCalled

    • @erock9594
      @erock9594 Рік тому

      You're wrong and lacking intelligence

  • @briiSkii
    @briiSkii Рік тому +283

    2:30:51 ⬅️ the moment Tim humanized himself to her experiences and shows compassion when nobody else in this interview would. This is why we dwell!!!! Thank you Holy Spirit 🥲🩷

    • @jayfab4689
      @jayfab4689 10 місяців тому +8

      Yes. I'm not Christian but willing to give the book a look through Pastor Tim.

    • @natima_sheree
      @natima_sheree 6 місяців тому

      Yaaassss Sis!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @tarawalker6200
      @tarawalker6200 4 місяці тому

      @@jayfab4689 That''s awesome Sis. I hope you find the true message of Love .

  • @fionaokumu4785
    @fionaokumu4785 Рік тому +445

    As a Christian woman I feel like the one big message I got out of this is women need to know their wholeness, understand their value; nurture their creativity and love (learn to) themselves wholly. I also like the point that women need to understand men and what it means to be in a marriage before committing their lives in that ministry. I also feel both guests agree that men need to submit to God (Higher Power) and work on themselves while seeking guidance from fellow men (women can’t do this for men)….i found this discussion/debate very interesting, thank you.

    • @oliviajohnson2130
      @oliviajohnson2130 Рік тому +10

      Spot on

    • @10ille99
      @10ille99 Рік тому +41

      Agree! It's called chew the meat and throw out the bones. But unenlightened people are unable to do that. Which is unfortunate. They throw out the entire meal. But there was a WHOLE LOT OF MEAT IN HERE!

    • @fishbowl8496
      @fishbowl8496 Рік тому +7

      I liked ur comment. My question is do u agree that not only men, but women too need to work on themselves to develop (and submit to God)?

    • @fishbowl8496
      @fishbowl8496 Рік тому

      ​@@10ille99factoids!!

    • @fionaokumu4785
      @fionaokumu4785 Рік тому +18

      @@fishbowl8496 yes I agree that both men and women need to work on themselves….there is always room to learn and grow for everyone. As a Christian I also agree and believe both men and women need to submit to God / Higher Power and I believe God does not have a gender. God is Spirit and we can never understand God because God’s Being supersedes our human understanding.

  • @jaydahteaunna
    @jaydahteaunna Місяць тому +10

    First time listening and I understood everything. I’m not sure why they were having such a hard time grasping what she was saying. I believe a person has to first want to understand a different perspective. It is different from everything we were raised to believe but it makes so much sense. Thank you for breaking this down for us to give us a new way to view things. Definitely a lot to think about. I feel freed, more free to be my authentic self and operate in my authenticity instead of attempting to conform to modern ideology. There is so much beauty in my sacred femininity. Thank you for this peace of clarity.

    • @eam4279
      @eam4279 4 дні тому

      People like princella only serve to give women more excuses to not hold themselves accountable

  • @Ecemd1
    @Ecemd1 4 місяці тому +183

    The maturity level difference between the hosts and the pastor is MASSIVE. Its HUGE.

    • @MrStaano
      @MrStaano 2 місяці тому

      He's talking to a woman with psychological issues.

    • @LaurenFunderburg
      @LaurenFunderburg 24 дні тому +8

      Too many times they show their childishness, it’s annoying

    • @ItsMissChas5
      @ItsMissChas5 24 дні тому +4

      Especially Tyshaun ​@@LaurenFunderburg

    • @MonaWright-wx1ht
      @MonaWright-wx1ht 22 дні тому +5

      Because the Pastor's foundation & mindset is God centered.

    • @nathaliesavoury7736
      @nathaliesavoury7736 22 дні тому +2

      Exactly! They are not mature to be having this convo. They validated her world view. Both her and the pastor were unbothered. She's the "anti - Christ though". Praying for her to meet Jesus🙏🏽

  • @beastmode4ever502
    @beastmode4ever502 Рік тому +878

    I'm a 49 Year old Black male...and when i say Princella has really really made me think about some things....She really made me take a deep look at my past behaviors/relationships...

    • @1111ScorpQn
      @1111ScorpQn Рік тому +45

      Good🫶🏽

    • @IyeshaB
      @IyeshaB Рік тому +77

      I’m so glad someone can understand. Even though it sounds different from what we KNOW the things she’s saying is happening DAILY within male and female relationships.

    • @pokinhonicola
      @pokinhonicola Рік тому +31

      You 50 years old and princella, 38, make you check yourself on these topics really? That make me question your upbringing big homie?

    • @demoladigital
      @demoladigital Рік тому +1

      I came to the realisation years ago watching westerners that there are many children in the adult population. I don't mean to sound insulting but I just have to say it as it is. Many of you, males and females included, are horny teenagers in adult bodies. Truth be told, you guys need Jesus in your lives.
      This is what appears to be affecting the black culture.
      When men rise to the ocassion and begin to really, REALLY take accountability for their actions, there'll be change.
      It'll be tough holding the mirror to your own face. It'll be tough to admit your insecurities and vulnerabilities to yourself talk more others. But if you can take that first step, the rest would begin to fall in place.

    • @taffy1234ful
      @taffy1234ful Рік тому +85

      It takes a grown man to admit his shortcomings and his growth. Well said @Beastmode4ever.

  • @AscendinSoul
    @AscendinSoul Рік тому +260

    This was more challenging for the podcasters than Tim. I have more respect for Tim because he demonstrated a lot of divine masculinity.

  • @NenaKeruvim
    @NenaKeruvim Місяць тому +39

    It reminds me of this experiment done in England, that was a tv show, they picked two groups of kids. Separated them in girls and boys, took them to a house to live without adult supervision. The boys vandalized the house while the girls worked together to make it a home, have everyone fed, clean.

    • @zainabinti5170
      @zainabinti5170 22 дні тому

      Evidence based 😂😆🤣😂

    • @benworthmore621
      @benworthmore621 21 день тому +2

      And your saying you think grown men would do the same??

    • @franciszico828
      @franciszico828 12 днів тому

      Why didn't she ever mention that she has been previously married and that she has a kid . HI didn't do their due diligence

    • @NenaKeruvim
      @NenaKeruvim 12 днів тому

      @franciszico828 She has mentioned in other video.

    • @franciszico828
      @franciszico828 12 днів тому

      @@NenaKeruvim But she kept it away so meticulously in THIS video. I had to watch another video to get that perspective. This is all just smoke screen and BS. She is out to sell her evil books 📚

  • @fivemargaritasonly
    @fivemargaritasonly Рік тому +304

    They say about 85% of black women have faced some kind of abuse in the household as children. Most of it being SA. Pretending this is not a huge issue and just anecdotal is invalidating and disrespectful. She has very valid points on why women need to separate and find divinity outside of a male centered society. Anyone telling women otherwise has something to gain.

    • @adelestears8298
      @adelestears8298 Рік тому +19

      True

    • @HowiGotCustody
      @HowiGotCustody Рік тому

      You F'ing dumbazz MOST of that abuse is from the MOM and her new BF or the step dad.. WOMEN DESTROY families while men protect them. G*T*FunkOH with your bull.

    • @AyoKilla
      @AyoKilla Рік тому +11

      this is a bs stat

    • @brandonwilliams1851
      @brandonwilliams1851 Рік тому +12

      But over 80% of black kids are raised in single mothers households. So make it make sense??

    • @HowiGotCustody
      @HowiGotCustody Рік тому

      @@brandonwilliams1851-- right!!! It's BLACK MOTHERS who are DESTROYING children. Anyone with 1/2 a brain can do the math. When dad is in the home (whether married or single custodial father) kids do well overall. When a mom takes over the lead and is the "protector" it all goes to hell. We need to STOP WORSHIPPING these house slaves who kicked dad out for gov't cheese. 97% of of the time when the mom says "dad left us" she ABUSED the feminist courts to push him out.

  • @diva216
    @diva216 Рік тому +237

    I'ma need her on the Basement w/o these two hosts cause I think Pastor Tim gets her WAY more than they do

    • @rosebush7000
      @rosebush7000 11 місяців тому

      Their brain is not developed.

    • @afakespace
      @afakespace 11 місяців тому +22

      He's married and in a seemingly healthy relationship. These type of men have more balance and understanding of feminine energy than most bachelor's.

    • @zandraaina1322
      @zandraaina1322 11 місяців тому +17

      Yep they thought the pastor was gonna come and tear her down like they tried to do

    • @jayfab4689
      @jayfab4689 10 місяців тому +2

      Yes

    • @Blessedqueen741
      @Blessedqueen741 4 місяці тому +6

      Yes they proved every point she was making. And she still got the point out even with them making it difficult.

  • @kennethcunningham8907
    @kennethcunningham8907 11 місяців тому +178

    Tim Ross was amazing in this interview. He demonstrated the love and compassion of Jesus Christ the ENTIRE TIME. And still pointed everything back to Jesus while ministering to Princella.

    • @joannafillmore6325
      @joannafillmore6325 11 місяців тому +4

      That was so beautiful to see

    • @queenofthousandmoons2231
      @queenofthousandmoons2231 9 місяців тому

      Where was this compassion from Jesus as indigenous men and black men failed to protect their women and children. Y’all tripping as if history doesn’t show y’all Jesus likes colonizer more by proof they invoked him and was handed the world on a platter. Either Jesus is not real or blakc and indigenous men are just failures at protecting anything

    • @user-sn8lk2mf5m
      @user-sn8lk2mf5m 24 дні тому +2

      I appreciate you supporting him. I’m a woman btw. Positive male support is honored by women who believe in integrity and honor.

  • @Iamkrisiman
    @Iamkrisiman 2 місяці тому +8

    Everyone needs to hear this. This is such a high level conversation between Princella and Pastor Tim lol. Just them two!!!! This is amazing

  • @robynfowler8775
    @robynfowler8775 Рік тому +243

    This was an amazing interview. I learned so much from both sides, and as a Christian woman I believe a-lot of what Princella says because like a lot of women I too have lived it repeatedly. Men don't hold other Men accountable. I suggest having Men on the show who admit that they treat women this way, lie, cheat, steal, rape, manipulate, use abuse and the list goes on. I have never seen a man say I did these things to a woman and this is WHY, now we can have a conversation!

    • @missdesireindependance5194
      @missdesireindependance5194 Рік тому +82

      Most men will never admit to doing these things to women.

    • @missqlalah
      @missqlalah Рік тому

      The host on the panel know what she says is true! They've admitted to it on Pastor Jamal's interview. Men give each other daps for cheating + Princella will be condemned for exposing the man code. Steve Harvey was called a simp for exposing men to women.

    • @t.l1357
      @t.l1357 Рік тому +41

      My ex admitted it AFTER our divorce. He praised me for leaving because he wasn't ever going to file or change on his own.

    • @FreeBirdee
      @FreeBirdee Рік тому +23

      Recently, I came across a video on UA-cam featuring a Pastor who shared a story about cheating on his wife with a man. He referred to it as a testimony, but I couldn't help but think about how the situation could have continued if he hadn't been caught. It's concerning how many individuals refuse to admit their actions until they're caught red-handed, and even then, some continue to hide the truth. This behavior is truly sinister.
      Similar stories involving Bishops and Pastors, such as Bishop Eddie Long, are disheartening. The apparent betrayal must have shattered the trust their wives had in them. I personally choose not to entrust my life to man, as it's too great a risk.

    • @toniohowell2609
      @toniohowell2609 Рік тому +12

      BOYS will never admit it. But once the boy grows into what a real man is he has no choice but to admit it and also hold all of his male friends accountable as well. That’s where we break this cycle. Accountability among all males.

  • @ashleysangster2371
    @ashleysangster2371 11 місяців тому +639

    As a married woman listening to this, I don’t feel that her message is to get rid of men but how to function with them. Women have been feed this image of men being the knight and shining armor which isn’t true. If we know what to expect, we know how to move. Also I think the conversation would have been better with just her and the pastor.

    • @Misaamanenoir
      @Misaamanenoir 11 місяців тому +24

      I agree

    • @antoinettebriscoe3492
      @antoinettebriscoe3492 11 місяців тому +16

      Absolutely

    • @rondawallace8761
      @rondawallace8761 11 місяців тому +50

      SHOUT OUT TO US MARRIED WOMEN WHO SEEN AND HEARD THE TRUTH!!

    • @SuperLISSHA
      @SuperLISSHA 11 місяців тому +4

      I agree

    • @grindhard4312
      @grindhard4312 11 місяців тому +29

      She admittedly said she advocates that women don't deal with men and move on their own. And we know she's only talking about black men. Men have ALSO been fed an image of women which isn't true. But that isn't as important i'm sure and probably think men should just figure it out. Truth is, we wouldn't be here if we weren't already here. Men have evolved way past primal instincts to help move forward society. She's only to cause division. Admittedly.

  • @kimberlybrown7554
    @kimberlybrown7554 Рік тому +256

    Thanks so much Tim for acknowledging her pain that she went through instead of just dismissing it! That was powerful in itself.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому +39

      Yeah, Ryan basically told her to "shut up, don't nobody wanna hear about how badly you've been treated by males." How does any woman listen to this guy?

    • @CuriosityKilldBoredm
      @CuriosityKilldBoredm Рік тому +9

      But then he turned right back to how Jesus is the example that defies her points…. I don’t think that was done truly in altruism

    • @lizb1061
      @lizb1061 Рік тому +5

      2:31:12 cringe

    • @Ava44322
      @Ava44322 Рік тому +8

      @@CuriosityKilldBoredmit showed empathy and respect. You don’t have to agree with everything someone says. It was made very clear that the foundation of their ideals come from a completely different place.

    • @Ava44322
      @Ava44322 Рік тому

      @@lizb1061explain?

  • @stephanytorrez2555
    @stephanytorrez2555 Місяць тому +7

    You have to give it to her. She is correct ✅ now let’s fix our society and create healthy society for children, men and women.

  • @autumnevans4411
    @autumnevans4411 Рік тому +170

    Why do we keep saying her message is rooted in fear?? All she saying is the system is broken and it benefits men and is not safe for women. The cognitive dissonance is loud from the hosts. Her solutions were clear: men need to learn self governance without women. Women need to become whole and tap into their true identity outside of man’s validation. Her point has been proven over and over. Kudos to Priscilla.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому

      They are literally trying to scare women away from the message by calling it fear-based. Twisted manipulation

    • @martelldozier3898
      @martelldozier3898 Рік тому +5

      How is humanity going to go on if men and women are separated. This is dumb. Women benefit from the things men do . I benefit from things men do

    • @peachy32001
      @peachy32001 Рік тому +1

      At the same time there's so many broken homes it's already happening

    • @robirod7421
      @robirod7421 Рік тому +8

      Her message pretty much sounds to be very much rooted in fear...hate n resentment

    • @queendove6376
      @queendove6376 Рік тому

      @@martelldozier3898
      You worship men that’s why you’re going to continue to be dogged out.
      If you like it we love it. Eve too wanted the man over her and then he blamed her for doing it.
      The Men know exactly what she’s saying. The Bible clearly said the man knew but she was DECEIVED.
      Wake up sister! Wake up!

  • @abianapatton-toure8545
    @abianapatton-toure8545 Рік тому +84

    Tim is such a cutie pie. Princella standing on business. Like Tim really understood the assignment! And the hosts really proved her point thru and thru. They chose not to listen and hear her point of view and Tim consistently showed up for her. Apologizing for their mistakes, being vulnerable and listening. I love their union.

    • @abianapatton-toure8545
      @abianapatton-toure8545 Рік тому +11

      Also interesting how they are never able to acknowledge that Tim has acknowledged almost EVERYTHING she says as in alignment with his own beliefs and teachings.

    • @abianapatton-toure8545
      @abianapatton-toure8545 Рік тому +6

      Getting to the end… their closing comments are so ignorant. They’ve been closed minded this whole time and acting like they’re “wrapping it all up”

  • @Chacha1tube
    @Chacha1tube Рік тому +199

    Wow!! This woman is brilliant. I see all the nice comments about Pastor Tim and all he did was listen and try to understand which really shouldn't be such a huge feat. Just goes to show we expect men to listen and respond the way the hosts did, we do not expect them to respond like Pastor Tim, unfortunately. The fact that this woman is sharing and teaching this content for free! It's quite remarkable, she should be giving TED talks to people who are happy to listen and receive such elevated teachings.

    • @kimberly6243
      @kimberly6243 Рік тому +3

      💯💯💯!!!

    • @benadek6703
      @benadek6703 Рік тому +3

      Don’t try to diminish what Tim Ross did to just listen and try to understand

    • @Yaffa444
      @Yaffa444 Рік тому +14

      ​@@babyslm11I agree..it was a lot of defensive energy which is why often they claimed she didn't answer the question but she did ..Like she said . Truth hurts!

    • @luxe4744
      @luxe4744 Рік тому +15

      Shattered women gives broken advices... a woman taking princella advices is like drinking water from a broken glass cup ur going to cut or swallow glasses

    • @LamarGriffin-y1j
      @LamarGriffin-y1j Рік тому +10

      Her warped sense of reality will collapse the structure of this planet and it would bring serious destruction the likes that one can not imagine.

  • @asmith8898
    @asmith8898 24 дні тому +26

    Her problem is she denounced God and now demons have free rein over her life to work havoc and chaos.

    • @PressureMakeDiamonds-o9e
      @PressureMakeDiamonds-o9e 13 днів тому

      And you right ...the demon 😈 completed the mission..separate her from MAN

    • @franciszico828
      @franciszico828 13 днів тому +1

      A woman who can't even define what a NUCLEAR FAMILY is 😅

    • @PressureMakeDiamonds-o9e
      @PressureMakeDiamonds-o9e 13 днів тому +1

      @franciszico828 she made it up 😂🤣🤣😅😆😆😆😁😁😄😄😀

    • @PressureMakeDiamonds-o9e
      @PressureMakeDiamonds-o9e 13 днів тому

      @franciszico828 she invented that type of disfun̈ctional family 😂🤣😅😆😁😄😃😀😃😄😁😆😅 she promoting and advertising for SECTION 8 GOVERNMENT HOUSING PROGRAM

    • @tysonwilliams3751
      @tysonwilliams3751 6 днів тому

      😂 😂 😂....and people on here thinking she cooking. These women becoming professional delusionistssss

  • @perspective7760
    @perspective7760 Рік тому +194

    Man listen....2 hours in and I can say HANDS DOWN this is the best full circle conversation anybody has had with Princella. Pastor Ross is patient and that makes all the difference.
    As a listener this takes a lot of patience and if something rubs you wrong, it's ok...don't click off....because so much of this is pin point accurate and necessary to reset a lot of mens' outlook.

    • @freshdesign2026
      @freshdesign2026 Рік тому +12

      Really, over 1 hour in. I could not understand much of what that lady was explaining ... And i am a woman. For the part i understood, she was much talking of a place of hurt. I could not agree with her opinions on men and women.
      She lost me when she said that women do not need men.
      That is misleading.

    • @deirdremorris9234
      @deirdremorris9234 Рік тому +18

      @@freshdesign2026 Try and actively listen to the whole podcast. It was enlightening and all parties were wonderfully polite and considerate. Princella does have some poignant insights we all can learn from. In a lot of ways, she is the voice of millions of suffering women. I really encourage you to listen. I know 3 hrs is long! I did chores while listening.

    • @deirdremorris9234
      @deirdremorris9234 Рік тому +6

      I really appreciate your willingness to Really listen. We are in critical times!

    • @walterjohnson7455
      @walterjohnson7455 Рік тому +9

      This is how Kings in Africa has lived for years, women and children lived alone

    • @somebodycomelistentothispo7217
      @somebodycomelistentothispo7217 Рік тому +7

      @@walterjohnson7455yep. It’s how all black people lived before colonialism. She has studied it. It’s in the books

  • @courtneyp7152
    @courtneyp7152 Рік тому +294

    The first step people miss or get misconstrued is, she NEVER said we can’t coexist or partner up with each other. She is saying once the men govern themselves, the men will be their best selves to THEN be able to have a healthy community. Women should NOT try to save them

    • @TamikaMichelle
      @TamikaMichelle Рік тому +12

      I sure we hear that part and in a lot of ways support it. Where you get lost is the no marriage, never live together, only co partner and if the female has a boy at the age of 6 or 7 give you child to the man. That's a tough pill to swallow.

    • @courtneyp7152
      @courtneyp7152 Рік тому +18

      @@TamikaMichelle Again, take your own bias out of it and think bigger picture. What points is she making that we don’t already perpetuate??? Aren’t we preaching to take marriage very serious, then there are men and women stepping outside of their union already practicing the polygamy. Let’s just cut the middle man (marriage). You have an idea of equal partnership in the home, is that true for the MAJORITY of people in the world or do you see it one sided? Then, aren’t we saying boys need to be with their father’s, so 0-6 or 7 he’s able to embody his mother’s qualities mainly and then formative years, mainly his father. She made it a fact to state that doesn’t mean an absentee parent, it just means boys can’t learn everything from a woman, he needs male influence majority. How many in our community are screaming that right now? Marriage can ONLY be successful with two whole people (refer to my original comment). So I would say dig a little deeper on the conclusions.

    • @erinoshun9331
      @erinoshun9331 Рік тому +15

      ​@@TamikaMichellehard pill to swallow but needs to be done. Male children should be with their fathers as long as they are not toxic to them. Women can not raise sons alone.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 10 місяців тому +10

      @@erinoshun9331. If only their fathers will take them.. if only.. if only… 😅😴

    • @marquitapetty9685
      @marquitapetty9685 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@gailainsley6939 exactly bc the comment said, "give your male child to the man." No, that his child too.

  • @nakiavirtually1376
    @nakiavirtually1376 Рік тому +752

    I'm a Christian. To be perfectly honest...after praying for a husband and praying for a husband and begging God for a husband...He finally said to me loud and clear (after I asked Him if He was punishing me for something or if something was wrong with me) that He hadn't given me a husband because He was protecting me.

    • @Pho3nixSol
      @Pho3nixSol Рік тому +160

      I dont think anyone knows just how POWERFUL your comment is🙏🏾

    • @BasedTruth
      @BasedTruth Рік тому +64

      Protecting you from...?? If you've never had a husband how can you know you need protection FROM one??

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 Рік тому +272

      @@BasedTruth look around you, having a husband is not a flex for alot of women. It is a flex for me cause my hubby serves me, and I serve him. 20 years happily married I have a rare man. When my husband agrees with a lot of what the Queen says and the way he shows his love for me and my family, I know I have a man that has elevated beyond his natural male nature and I thank God everyday. The things my hubby does I know a lot of men would never do. He adds to my happiness and I am very thankful for him in my life. With that said, not all men are deserving of a woman period, and some women need to know that being alone is perfectly okay. Men need women more than women need men. 😌

    • @SoldByCindyGen
      @SoldByCindyGen Рік тому +29

      Wow! So profound!

    • @clreed244
      @clreed244 Рік тому

      ​@@sg5720You've got a 1%r. ❤

  • @1FriendlyFace1
    @1FriendlyFace1 Місяць тому +6

    Before I got divorced I told my husband he needed his place and I needed mine and I would stay with him. He did not want to try that so I was like cool. I truly believe our relationship would have been better. When we were together, that’s all he did anyway was go everywhere without me, come home late and I did all the work. I do not want to marry ever again. Don’t even want to even date again. I’m cool.

  • @UpdatedView
    @UpdatedView Рік тому +333

    As a married man, I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Everyone isn’t cut out for marriage regardless of gender. It takes an exceptional person to get married and remain successfully married. The marriage and divorce rate numbers are accurate and it takes a special person to indefinitely pair-bond with another person. I pray for the best outcome for everyone. Honestly, there are some great people out there, but they are not great for marriage. God bless 🙏🏾

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Рік тому +33

      I totally agree some of the greatest people in the Bible died single

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 Рік тому +5

      Agreed.

    • @roots1458
      @roots1458 Рік тому +7

      Very interesting perspective, UpdatedView. Would love to hear more detail about what kind of person it takes to remain successfully married.

    • @petracain6794
      @petracain6794 Рік тому +10

      I am not cut out for a lot of things, but that does not mean that I will not get the tools necessary to be better at it

    • @PicturesofHealth-POH
      @PicturesofHealth-POH Рік тому +10

      That's not bad news because it helps some of us make a conscious decision vs. white picket fence thinking .

  • @johnnettapage3654
    @johnnettapage3654 10 місяців тому +172

    Omg!! When Pastor Tim had the revelation, I wanted to jump out my seat! I absolutely LOVED the way The Word & what she was saying came together bc it kept connecting for me too but I couldn’t put my finger on it & then boom! Pastor Tim hit the nail. She is certainly closer to the Kingdom than what she even knows.. Love this…

    • @Mizzlibrarian83
      @Mizzlibrarian83 8 місяців тому +7

      Lol bu saying the nuclear family doesn’t exist. People really don’t know the Bible at all

    • @shinelil1
      @shinelil1 8 місяців тому

      There is no kingdom to reach, atleast not for women

    • @indiawood19
      @indiawood19 7 місяців тому +12

      She just gotta believe in Christ Jesus and the holy spirit. BUT she thinks the bible is just a book that men wrote.

    • @smf427
      @smf427 7 місяців тому

      @@indiawood19she believes in a higher power (i.e GOD) but she doesn't believe in Jesus.
      she doesn't subscribe to a male god. she doesn't believe in a nuclear family bc it's not natural. marriage is man made. nuclear family is man made. religion is man made.
      the proof is in the pudding. most marriages end in divorce. . proof it's not natural to stay with one person who is the opposite sex.
      man destroy humanity. you see it through the bible
      man treat woman like property or mistreat them.. you see it in marriages and long term relationships
      the list goes on and on. her references are science based; tangible proof... which i believe we need bc we're living on earth. ppl need something to answer "why" we are here. what's the purpose of us being here. etc

    • @Trish0103
      @Trish0103 6 місяців тому +7

      The revelation didn’t for me!! He’s right what she’s trying to do will never work without God.

  • @CuriosityKilldBoredm
    @CuriosityKilldBoredm Рік тому +329

    She totally broke it down…. The problem is people in ego defense (males and male-identified females) and cognitive dissonance.

    • @tam6011
      @tam6011 Рік тому +28

      Correct. You can tell people want to react. Somethings can’t be summed up in two sentences

    • @joyhappy3461
      @joyhappy3461 Рік тому +2

      My mother and sisters

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому +39

      The hosts reaction is strikingly similar to when you talk with some White people about WS/ racism.

    • @marcgarvey4659
      @marcgarvey4659 Рік тому

      Broke what down..She’s sleeping with women,She’s a whole lesbian… You’re as delusional, hateful, resentful and bitter.
      Go sleep with women and leave men alone

    • @esjadaze
      @esjadaze Рік тому +23

      Yess they know if all women think like her it’s game over so they gotta keep defending with not all men every single time

  • @joannelewis3390
    @joannelewis3390 Місяць тому

    Thanks

  • @GOODmusic843
    @GOODmusic843 Рік тому +75

    If Pastor Tim wasn’t on this panel, I probably would’ve not gotten to the end of this episode. This was a lot to digest and I appreciate the panel for the message for those to receive..

  • @K1ngSRE
    @K1ngSRE Рік тому +202

    Tim was planting seeds throughout this whole discussion not only from what he was saying but also through his actions and genuine compassion and appreciation that he was expressing for Pricilla’s appearance on the show as well
    I think there is a big lesson in grace/humility that we can all learn when interacting w/ people w/ opposing views to our own💯

    • @Mila_C
      @Mila_C Рік тому +11

      YES! It takes a lot of patience to sit through a conversation like this. I loved how Pastor Tim pointed out that she’s literally speaking the same language with the same outcome, the only thing missing from her plan is Jesus.

    • @Mira-gu6we
      @Mira-gu6we Рік тому +8

      ​​@@Mila_C no. Her message is for women. Jesus is meant to lead men.

    • @Mila_C
      @Mila_C Рік тому +2

      @@Mira-gu6we I don’t really see your point. But if you just disagree, I understand.

    • @MahoganyGlaze
      @MahoganyGlaze Рік тому +2

      @@Mila_Cloved how respectful you are!

    • @Mila_C
      @Mila_C Рік тому

      @@MahoganyGlaze Thankyou ❤️🙂

  • @dontme4132
    @dontme4132 Рік тому +90

    What I find most interesting is that this same podcast had Minister Yada on 2 weeks ago. He said a lot of negative things about male behavior and they agreed with him. Seems to me that they don’t like when women highlight negative male behavior. They’re called a misandrist and the gaslighting starts (who hurt you?!). But men can speak the truth about male behavior and it’s accepted.

    • @_Ridethemaverick
      @_Ridethemaverick Рік тому

      And Yads is a documented scammer😂😂😂😂 but since he’s a man, they’ll listen to him. Pathetic😵‍💫

    • @judithsakala4944
      @judithsakala4944 Рік тому +16

      That’s where we have a problem. That’s what she is trying to tell us. Prince Ella 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @cmechell4702
      @cmechell4702 Рік тому +17

      I say this all the time. They’ll listen to “Big Bro” although we’re saying the exact same thing 🙄

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 Рік тому +24

      I said the exact same thing when they played the clip and said she was coming on the show, after the abuse show. I was like she is saying THE EXACT SAME THINGS men say including them. So what exactly is the issue. The issue is she is telling women to decenter men.

    • @imaninyla
      @imaninyla 8 місяців тому +7

      But that goes to her point…men must follow men.

  • @chinawade7258
    @chinawade7258 18 днів тому +4

    I took "hurt people really do hurt other people" from this conversation. I am a woman who knows her true self and purpose, and I really want to thank Tim Ross for being so gentle during this debate or conversation. He is a true man of God, and it shows. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the light! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @terrilk4634
    @terrilk4634 Рік тому +197

    The way the Host kept proving her point about Men needing leadership. Some people don’t want change cause it works in their best interest.

    • @Mamamangolina
      @Mamamangolina Рік тому +19

      Exactly girl 🎉

    • @Lo289-im3ip
      @Lo289-im3ip Рік тому +7

      Works w/ white privilege too😤

    • @robirod7421
      @robirod7421 Рік тому

      It's their show... not hers. She flopped her mouth during most of the video. Yall hyenas so damn divisive

    • @brandonburns5365
      @brandonburns5365 Рік тому +3

      I find this comment ironic, when it's her that needs male platforms to push her message.

    • @VavaCherie
      @VavaCherie Рік тому

      🗣🗣🗣

  • @MissCurvyQueenTeah
    @MissCurvyQueenTeah Рік тому +170

    Thank you Pastor Tim for maintaining a posture of control, empathy, curiosity, and firmness. I pray this conversation open our eyes to pursue purpose and be solution minded. Love and light everyone!

    • @kenyufranklin3475
      @kenyufranklin3475 Рік тому +4

      I think he didn’t want to go down the angry woman route. She is wrong in so many ways, because anytime anyone goes against God word is in danger of hell , fire and brimstone

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Рік тому +3

      Yes, he did very well. I thought he was going to get emotional. Princella is for people who understands esoteric and the occult. He broke it down well for those who need the basics of what she tried to say 😅

    • @pokinhonicola
      @pokinhonicola Рік тому +1

      Express her beliefs and facts but ARE THESE FACTS ACTUALLY TRUE? You come off as agreeing with her cus she a woman and you are a woman, could that be a true statement?

    • @geraldos9094
      @geraldos9094 Рік тому +2

      He had to, or the women in his church would leave.

    • @alishaendre616
      @alishaendre616 11 місяців тому +1

      @@geraldos9094 that part

  • @sarahsinger07
    @sarahsinger07 Рік тому +197

    Powerful Conversation. What Princella is saying exists here in Tanzania! In some communities Husbands and Wives live peaceably in separately households usually on the same compound. The women have support of other women in the community to raise the children and boys and girls are reared separately for future life roles. Funny enough this is all Biblical and the Bible's culture is African. (only 30 min in to this video)

    • @sarahsinger07
      @sarahsinger07 Рік тому +38

      Also... what she's talking about men being together to establish a natural pecking order is essentially a "brotherhood" or "rights of passage"

    • @lonagwegwe
      @lonagwegwe Рік тому +6

      Am sorry Sarah but you can not conclude that something is working based on few villages in Tanzania when Tanzania itself has not proven to be the most thriving country. May I ask what do you mean biblical culture is African? How many countries have you visited to conclude that Africa is the blueprint for biblical customs ? How did African become acquainted with the Bible?
      I am African myself and the continent is faced with so many challenges because of the same culture and customs we think are superior to other cultures. Not having both parents in the household does not serve the family certainly does not improve the children’s development.

    • @AscendinSoul
      @AscendinSoul Рік тому +27

      @@lonagwegwe…before colonialism Kenyan culture, most Bantu culture was as Princella described. The wife and husband slept in different structures within a compound. The children were raised in said compound. For the record, the oldest bible with all 88 books is the Ethiopian bible. Bantu and Niger-Congo cultures are all mostly Old Testament. Look it up.

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 Рік тому +10

      @@lonagwegwe I am not sure why you are asking her all of these questions. What did she say specifically that you are essentially disagreeing with. Let's start there.

    • @lonagwegwe
      @lonagwegwe Рік тому +1

      @@AscendinSoul and is Kenya the most prosperous nation? What did that segregation do positively for the family structure?

  • @ALYSSABREALTY
    @ALYSSABREALTY 2 місяці тому +1

    Tim Ross is a man...In this moment, he heard Princella's full opinion. Made sure he understood it entirely despite her at times having to correct or reiterate herself with the hosts. He stood silent and only interjected to get clarity not to combat or provide his alternate point of view. I have never seen a man with such patience, and I see that 20+ years of marriage in him showing in this moment. This video is old now but wow what a great impression and representation this man has been. I have to look into both of the guests' work more because both of their persepctives have merit all around.

  • @andreakennedy4868
    @andreakennedy4868 9 місяців тому +232

    I loved how Tim Ross handled her with care and compassion. He never judged or argued with her. I listened intently.

    • @LBFufuEata
      @LBFufuEata 2 місяці тому +1

      Tim Ross is a Simp. He never challenged her.

    • @Muacharm
      @Muacharm Місяць тому +4

      @@LBFufuEatachallenge facts ?! Y’all think everything is a competition or a sport Lol

    • @LBFufuEata
      @LBFufuEata Місяць тому +1

      @ there were so many holes in her argument.
      I can’t list them because comments are deleted

    • @LBFufuEata
      @LBFufuEata Місяць тому

      @@Muacharm when she actually gets challenged, she gets real triggered and starts hurling insults.
      She’s a fraud,
      how can women still listen to her after B Taylor?

    • @virginiasmith4608
      @virginiasmith4608 Місяць тому +2

      @@LBFufuEatayou can’t list them because you can’t list them because you don’t have any idea what she said. 😂

  • @zinaphillips9021
    @zinaphillips9021 Рік тому +264

    Thank you, Pastor, for understanding her story, because most of us have gone through what the Queen has gone through!

    • @1111ScorpQn
      @1111ScorpQn Рік тому +5

      Facts

    • @HopeRichards-t2d
      @HopeRichards-t2d Рік тому +6

      No, most of us did not. Just too many. Plus a woman has no business going out drinking with a man especially one you hardly know.

    • @psionicpowers132
      @psionicpowers132 Рік тому

      ​@@HopeRichards-t2d
      Boo no one is talking about drinking, we talking about the programing of what women have gone through due to unnatural orders of patriarchy that males have used against mother nature to cause chaos and distractions against women and children. You are in your denial

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Рік тому +5

      So rather than praising the woman who made the points. You praise the man.😮😮

    • @ChoozieD
      @ChoozieD 4 місяці тому +7

      U are delusional to believe in her nonsense

  • @michaelam7832
    @michaelam7832 Рік тому +60

    Pastor Tim was the perfect person to sit down and have this conversation with her. He is a brilliant communicator. I respect the opinion of everyone in the conversation and I truly believe that collectively truth is somewhere in between. This woman’s intelligence and knowledge is on another level lol it had to listen oh so very closely. Great episode….

    • @10ille99
      @10ille99 Рік тому +3

      Agree with this!

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 Рік тому +2

      Agree

    • @BlackberryTitties
      @BlackberryTitties Рік тому +5

      Yeah the truth lies with Princella. Her message is not the norm. And it will go over y’all’s heads!

    • @dz7a756
      @dz7a756 Рік тому +1

      There is no such thing as "collective truth". If truth is really true, then it never changes nor does it "lie" in between.
      Be well and be at peace.

  • @rereianna02
    @rereianna02 Місяць тому +14

    Princella is ABSOLUTELY speaking the truth for women. This is not her truth. This is the truth

  • @belindalucas6294
    @belindalucas6294 Рік тому +496

    I’ve been married for 20 years. There came a time when I couldn’t take the abuse. I divorced him in 2020. All I can say is Pastor P is on point….. She is telling the truth…… Men don’t hear women 😱……

    • @israelsfusion4727
      @israelsfusion4727 Рік тому +99

      They aren’t listening to her now

    • @mrandmrslewis5552
      @mrandmrslewis5552 Рік тому

      Why would we listen to her? She likes women in a sexual way …… she is the competition and sorry but that ain’t right.
      I thank God for my wife, who loves me and wants to spend her life with me.
      For the single men out here……. Turn your back on women who want to die single, their done anyway.

    • @Livelife95ify
      @Livelife95ify Рік тому +40

      Your husband didn't listen to you. You don't get to speak for my marriage and how I treat the woman I love.
      The men in.my life are very transparent with each other.
      All of us have accountability for our personal and marital lives.
      So please don't accuse all men of what your husband did to you. That's not fair and it's dishonest
      There are men and women who are happily married and have been that way for a long time. I don't care what the studies and the statistics say you don't get to speak for the personal lives of marriages that you have no idea about.
      All that energy you're spending trying to diagnose everybody should be spent on diagnosing yourself and making sure that you're the woman you need to be instead of focusing on demonizing men

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 Рік тому

      ​@@israelsfusion4727bingo.... some of their responses pretty much validated her points...

    • @Candie4JC
      @Candie4JC Рік тому

      @@Livelife95ify👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Teexytee777
    @Teexytee777 10 місяців тому +250

    Princella will answer the question , but the guys can’t comprehend the build up.

    • @dtpbach
      @dtpbach 8 місяців тому +1

      Men are too impatient in general that’s why

    • @GodisLeoSimone
      @GodisLeoSimone 7 місяців тому +4

      Absolutely

    • @ilycemurray1183
      @ilycemurray1183 5 місяців тому +9

      @Teexytee777 she said herself that after 30 sec men can't hear or understand. Tim Ross in contrast is VERY intentional on being present which is a more feminine characteristic.

    • @virginiasmith4608
      @virginiasmith4608 Місяць тому

      Also why they’re incapable of foreplay…most men really do move like it’s all about them.

    • @franciszico828
      @franciszico828 13 днів тому

      Women love lies. Time will tell who is lying and who is real.

  • @renitawilliams8499
    @renitawilliams8499 Рік тому +183

    I have never heard of this young lady but will support her in purchasing 1 of her products/books. She brought a different perspective and was able to back it up statistically. Everything she said about the biology and psychology between men and women, heterosexual relationships and long-term marriage between a man and woman is true but I've never heard it explained like this.
    Also, she stood her own against the 3 guys which is commendable! She's definitely into empowering the woman which I fully support. Life is too short to be unhappy...live and let live.

    • @latricenarcisse5426
      @latricenarcisse5426 Рік тому +39

      Same! I had to go search her. They are listening with patriarchal ears. Pastor speaking biblically & she’s speaking biologically; which biology can’t be disputed.

    • @Naturesbeauty248
      @Naturesbeauty248 Рік тому +3

      Yesss 🎉❤❤

    • @eberejosiah5078
      @eberejosiah5078 Рік тому +8

      @@latricenarcisse5426 I make this comment with no prejudice but as someone who is an african and someone who believes in separatism;
      Here's the problem with westerners when they have this conversations, they view the whole system through the eyes of the west and only the west, to the point that when they make appeals to biological statuses they sound like someone grasping on straws.
      I would say she was right in most of her points, but when it came to solutions it is always the typical western woman's pill "Men are evil, women are innocent and victims", it's the same playbook with the sexual revolution - make men the enemy and do whatever to cause the absolute separation from men.
      Her other solution is community, which would involve who?
      In african and non western nations communalism or an aspect of community participation is prevalent and this is usually called an Extended Family. Which ironically has male a very significant male participation. There will always be a strong and noticeable male presence. Except she is looking for a womanist utopia.
      The problems she listed out are character flaws that vary from person to person and can be feasibly solved, like a obese person hitting the gym.
      Anti-nuclear family don't stop the woman from being part of the workforce, do the typical 9-5, come back home and clean up.

    • @GardensFlowers-f7k
      @GardensFlowers-f7k Рік тому

      ​@@eberejosiah5078Why are males r@pists, ped0s, mass_ sh00ters, & family annihilat0rs? Why do males k*ll pregnant women at such a high rate? Why can't males be trusted in daycare centers or morgues? Why do males fill pris0ns? Y'all are the ones who are f00ling yourselves.

    • @thequeensonarant9403
      @thequeensonarant9403 Рік тому +6

      Why can't you take this perspective to YOUR community and save it ❓🧐

  • @ohlottie
    @ohlottie Місяць тому +10

    Princella is brilliant!!! Thank you so much for this enlightening conversation. Everything she says hits home and makes sense.❤ The pastor’s epiphany about Jesus is also brilliant. 🙏 My mother says the same thing; “men need religion for guidance.”

  • @AleciaRenece
    @AleciaRenece Рік тому +65

    This conversation was painful to watch. These men were not listening at all. No empathy and basically no introspection or chivalry. Everytime they heard what they didn't like, they were rude.
    Even cutting her off... SHE'S THE GUEST. They don't even know how misogynistic they are by telling her she is "talking too much". The AUDACITY. Y'all invited her on and made a fool of her. The hosts were really immature.
    Y'all literally asked her about her past, then told her y'all don't want to hear it... How rude.
    Tim was the only man that should have been talking. He's measured, mature and kind. Even when they disagree, he never gaslit or cut her off. He listened. He handled her with care. And was actually heart broken about her experiences.
    The other men... All they had to say was "... Well, that's not all men.." or "... We don't want to hear about your pain."
    Also, peep how it took Tim, a man, to express empathy for these men to be empathetic.
    They are misogynistic and don't even see it.
    If this chat is reflective of Believers, I am ashamed. I am embarrassed and *appalled*. The chat was SO nasty just like the world they say is evil. I can't see the difference.
    Heartless. And a POOR representation of Christ. This is why folks don't like Christians. Jesus cared. Jesus took his time to listen and show care and empathy. Y'all are just mean.
    THIS is why Princella says what she says. These two are a PRIME example of what she's talking about.

    • @nicollegreenheart6682
      @nicollegreenheart6682 Рік тому +9

      That part!!

    • @judithsakala4944
      @judithsakala4944 Рік тому +7

      That’s why for the first time since I started watching the lives. ? I couldn’t finishing this ☝🏾. I was very disappointed 😔. Am still struggling inside my mind right now . Lord help me 🙏🏾

    • @kimpossible2725
      @kimpossible2725 Рік тому +15

      Even called her evil at the end. I sat through the entire podcast and was glued to how well learned she is. She completely understands the Universal Laws of the Earth and this Fabricated World is a antagonist to the those natural laws, therein, we have all these problems. To me, she kept it simple and told the Truth to those who recognize the Truth.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому +3

      I agree 💯 Spot on....every word‼️

    • @ladylefteye
      @ladylefteye 27 днів тому +8

      I disagree they were listening. They are very patient. I don't understand why the nuclear family isn't natural. What evidence does she have? Where are her sources?

  • @samiki88
    @samiki88 Рік тому +73

    I LOVED pastor Tim’s approach to this. Too many men wanted to sweep what she was saying aside. Which is ironic because that is exactly the problem and men don’t see it. But look at someone who actually listens, not just with his ears but with the spirit. Not everything she’s saying is wrong, in fact 80% of the experiences she is detailing is right and MANY women will agree (married or not). Will men listen? That’s the question.

    • @queendove6376
      @queendove6376 Рік тому

      Not according to Priscilla. Are the women listening. That’s who she’s talking to.
      Hopefully brothers are ready to go to the altar, confess and humble themselves before God and ask God to teach them. Then and only then will they be ready to be there for us.

    • @michaelharris5857
      @michaelharris5857 Рік тому +1

      She is contradicting herself.. and throwing high level vocabulary into it . For example she talking about submission and thriving but insists that partnership can happen . I honestly can they Tim Ross was more mature than I would have been in this debate. Lol

    • @Wewereneveryoung
      @Wewereneveryoung Рік тому

      ​@@michaelharris5857You still don't get it

  • @earthtonosh
    @earthtonosh Рік тому +59

    I'm so grateful that Tim was there to listen and advocate for Princellas message because today men don't listen and some of the original cast members are confused because their ego felt attacked.

  • @poochtrish
    @poochtrish Місяць тому +4

    I'm so happy I saw later versions of this podcast before this one to see how much these hosts have grown because they were passive-aggressive, demeaning, and flat out rude. He gets so excited when talking to Tim you could sense the bias every time she opens her mouth. This just makes her point of view all the more valid.

  • @Laroc1982
    @Laroc1982 Рік тому +83

    1:48:25 I love how Ryan completely dismisses the statistic as if HE is a woman…
    Any woman, especially women who have been married, automatically understand that the statistic is true and WHY it’s true. Marriage was such a miserable, traumatizing experience for them that they never wish to repeat it. Ever. Some women will date after divorce, but they refuse to marry. There’s a reason for that and it has nothing to do with the previous failure. It has everything to do with the TRAUMA. But of course, just like Princella said, he refuses to listen. Women understand and already know it to be true.

    • @Yournamehere1009
      @Yournamehere1009 Рік тому

      He dismissed it due to it not being in observable reality. Look at society now and imagine it goes on for 1500 more yrs. We will revert back to animals without structure.

    • @chrysanthemums4963
      @chrysanthemums4963 Рік тому +2

      This is why nobody should date and definitly not get married before you heal from your own wounds. Broken ppl will always connect to broken ppl.

    • @Laroc1982
      @Laroc1982 Рік тому

      @@chrysanthemums4963 It is impossible to heal from trauma created by a system of philosophies that end up hurting other people. If the system still exists you will be hurt again. The only way to “heal” is to destroy the system that creates pain.

    • @TheForkOnTheLeftist
      @TheForkOnTheLeftist 3 місяці тому

      Right and men don't have equal gripes like women thinking home making is more valuable than their grueling day job, dead bedrooms, cheating and trying to get them to raise a kid that isn't theirs (which is prevalent and only can only be caused by women btw). Maybe you're just playing the victim and this chick makes you feel better about it

  • @heirtotheking1969
    @heirtotheking1969 Рік тому +150

    Pastor Tim THANK YOU for acknowledging what she is saying! She is stating some experiences that women endure daily but are rarely heard AND blamed for how a man has treated them by men who do NOT have romantic relationships with men and by men who are the perpetrators of these experiences. 😢😭

    • @queendove6376
      @queendove6376 Рік тому +10

      They blamed Eve in the Garden and then blamed God. But a truly repented man will take the blame and acknowledge it’s him and him alone.
      David did this when he sinned with Bathsheba in the Bible. He asked God to cleanse him. 1st John 1-10. Confession, helps one be cleansed.
      Be blessed!

  • @ryanmarable2195
    @ryanmarable2195 Рік тому +172

    Damn. This debate should have been held without the hosts. Idk how they missed the mark on this. Salute to Tim & P. Y’all opened my eyes to many things.

    • @synthtv5976
      @synthtv5976 Рік тому +50

      They missed the mark because deep down, they know that they are the very men that she was talking about.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому +27

      This seems like a closeted manosphere channel...so I'm not surprised

    • @tacaraH
      @tacaraH Рік тому +12

      @@teresam5199 when I tell you I was just saying this to myself…literally took the words out my mouth.

    • @soundsaboutright---
      @soundsaboutright--- Рік тому +13

      ​@@synthtv5976she did have to call the one guy out on liking you ger women because they're more Naive

    • @synthtv5976
      @synthtv5976 Рік тому +14

      @soundsaboutright--- That's exactly why they go for the younger, inexperienced woman.

  • @francineevans8023
    @francineevans8023 2 місяці тому +1

    I truly adore Pastor Tim’s interaction with Princella. Thank you for being in that 1% Pastor. Thank you!

  • @ybatoba
    @ybatoba Рік тому +268

    It’s my first time hearing this woman and she is brilliant. I can’t help but think how useful she would be for the Kingdom of God. I’ll be praying for her.

    • @joyhappy3461
      @joyhappy3461 Рік тому +73

      She serves the QUEENDOM.

    • @Sharifay.
      @Sharifay. Рік тому +31

      @@joyhappy3461 period. 💅

    • @KFontLab
      @KFontLab Рік тому +15

      Horrible events can push you to purpose but they also effect your perception. I hate that she went through this, and it absolutely affects her views and message even though she keeps saying it does not. She definitely has a great speaking voice.
      I collect data for my day job for the last 8 years. It’s useful but it’s always important to look at what is behind the data.

    • @D_L_P
      @D_L_P Рік тому

      Unfortunately your kingdom constantly uses and abuses which negates any true service because you abuse ppl especially women.

    • @erock9594
      @erock9594 Рік тому

      You must be dumb as 🔥

  • @JourneyThroughAnimation
    @JourneyThroughAnimation 11 місяців тому +96

    Tims Silence is golden and such an example of being Holy Spirit led I love the way he listened and didnt interrupt her

  • @zinaphillips9021
    @zinaphillips9021 Рік тому +123

    Straight facts, we are tired giving and not receiving what we need as women!

    • @dpjmj
      @dpjmj 2 місяці тому +5

      @Judah_1983 she is also a lesbian, so if that is your preference, then go ahead ...

  • @wearesummerjames
    @wearesummerjames Місяць тому +3

    I’ve heard the phrase, “so smart you’re dumb” for years. I was right now years old when I discovered what it meant. 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @justbelit
    @justbelit Рік тому +53

    Ryan and Ty were listening from the filters of their belief system (social programming) so they weren't getting her but Tim, God bless Tim. He was listening and hearing without being judgemental. He was asking the right questions and had the appropriate responses to engage a healthy discourse.

  • @equallyyoked
    @equallyyoked Рік тому +94

    At first I didn’t know if I could deal with the back and forth of this episode but I love that everyone in time became more open to exchanging healthy dialogue. Tim was the light in the room and eased the tension by way of being a true witness and expressing the decorum of an emotionally mature person. Great episode, everyone.

    • @kaymarierichburg
      @kaymarierichburg Рік тому +9

      Amen. It was hard for me too. Glad I continued to listen as well. She is hurting and needs healing. And I clearly see that God is using her life to send a message of of the importance of men to and be better. And I also believe this is her cry for the man to be better and do better. Her work may very well do that. I pray people will see thru the message she is providing to what God is really doing.

  • @blackforest905
    @blackforest905 Рік тому +120

    Pastor Ross, thank you for listening and actually hearing not only Princella but every woman's heart.

  • @natsedso6086
    @natsedso6086 26 днів тому +2

    I never had the pleasure of being an eyewitness of Jesus and the woman at the well, but Brother Tim you were a modern day example of what that conversation must’ve looked like.
    I just watched this ENTIRE video, on 11/22/24, and was about to click it off 5 minutes into it, BUT I couldn’t. Tim Ross thanks for showing us Jeremiah 31:3 in real time with Miss Princella. Believers today need COMPASSION with broken, hurting and wounded people. That’s the take away for me. I’m praying for you Sis.

  • @tinarichardson7058
    @tinarichardson7058 Рік тому +73

    Very good show! A lot of truth from a Woman's prospective I was married for 35yrs, what she said about marriage was true. 4 years divorced now and no regrets about leaving the best decision for me self love ❤

    • @MirageLove24
      @MirageLove24 Рік тому +13

      Kudos to you. Staying married in misery is not a flex and is against nature. When you are no longer compatible, you should be able to move on with your life. All the is “til death do us part no matter what” is some patriarchal bs pushed by religion mainly.

    • @LisaSimmons-mn2sr
      @LisaSimmons-mn2sr Рік тому +1

      She sounds like people who’ve been to prison, read some books, and get some half-knowledge, and think they know what they’re talking about. “Allow me to pontificate, per se…”. When you go back and forth with a fool… This is foolish and contrary to God’s Word and will. Period.

    • @LisaSimmons-mn2sr
      @LisaSimmons-mn2sr Рік тому

      Sophomore = Wise Fool

    • @LouLouLion
      @LouLouLion Рік тому +7

      ​@@LisaSimmons-mn2sr None of those things apply to her. A fool is a silly or stupid person; a person who lacks judgment or sense. And the judgment you made about her was way off. So who's the fool?

    • @LisaSimmons-mn2sr
      @LisaSimmons-mn2sr Рік тому

      @@LouLouLion Lol. As I said, the Bible says don’t argue with a fool, sooo…..✌️

  • @NuancedNita
    @NuancedNita 11 місяців тому +159

    You see how the hosts gave Tim the respect to feel and get through his point without having any questions or needing any clarity or told him to hurry up and get through it and give them a simple yes or no. It shows you how differently the message hits for “180” men who understands the conditions men who have not submitted to the creators will for men. She is absolutely right and I pray that God changes these men’s hearts to see her message clearly and they submit to the creator to change their heart posture.

    • @NuancedNita
      @NuancedNita 11 місяців тому +19

      The only way we can change things as men is be great and be the 1% of men she’s talking about. EXACTLY, many are called few are chosen and that’s biblical.

    • @keturahmorris5075
      @keturahmorris5075 11 місяців тому +17

      Let’s be real here… she takes 30 mins to answer 1 question. There are two people on this panel that need to even speak their point for both sides. In order to run this show, Tim also needed more time to talk. She took long point blank period, so much so that she spoke the majority of the time #facts.

    • @RodneyFx
      @RodneyFx 11 місяців тому +7

      Because when asked a question. She gives a 10 minute answer… She said it herself that men are analytical, so we don’t need 20 analogies to get her point. Granted what she says makes sense.. a lot of sense. But getting to the point faster would is cool

    • @shukriyyahmurchison681
      @shukriyyahmurchison681 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@keturahmorris5075 exactly it was so hard to listen

    • @Misaamanenoir
      @Misaamanenoir 11 місяців тому +21

      ⁠@@RodneyFxy’all have short attention spans like goldfish. Many concepts take a good 10 minutes to explain or more. There are no 10 minute classes. And analogies are part of analyzing things.

  • @michellec3681
    @michellec3681 Рік тому +81

    I have so much respect for Pastor Tim. He demonstrated patience & an active attempt to fully understand Princella's perspective while making it gently & assertively clear where he stood with his beliefs.
    I truly believe that through his wisdom he quickly realized that regardless of what he shared, Princella is so engraved in her beliefs, that getting the same in return just wouldn't happen. He didn't come to preach or debate through doctrine - he genuinely wanted to understand.
    He humbly relinquished the floor to her, allowing her to dominate majority of the talking time. His humility & compassion spoke volumes for him, beyond the topic that was being discussed. Blessings to them both🙏🏾

    • @scylee3415
      @scylee3415 Рік тому +4

      He knows she is right! Submission to truth and humility is a superpower. Good on you pastor!

    • @mistahjay8598
      @mistahjay8598 Рік тому +9

      ​@@scylee3415 you sound silly, no sometimes if you just sit and let folks talk long enough, they'll look crazy on their own.😂

    • @makebacunningham6795
      @makebacunningham6795 Рік тому +4

      I was married for 20years and it was always bad. The last 5 were horrible and we divorced and I still believe in love because I know every man ain’t like the one I was married to. This was a great discussion and a respectful conversation and I am praying for you my sister ❤

    • @LouLouLion
      @LouLouLion Рік тому +7

      Its just your perspective. In my opinion, he had no way of disproving her beliefs, so he hushed. And just bc there's a debate does not mean someone is going to change their beliefs so I'm not sure why you thought otherwise. Stats back up what she is saying along with the real-life experiences of millions of women all over the world.

    • @michellec3681
      @michellec3681 Рік тому +3

      @@LouLouLion I had to go back & read my comment before replying to you. Where did I mention that a debate required a change in a personal belief? All I said was that he gently asserted his, which she did as well. I don't believe either came with the intention to change one another's perspective. If anything, the hosts were the ones who seemed irritated & trying to prove a point.

  • @shondaceesayful
    @shondaceesayful 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm just shy of age 47. I have never been loved by a man, brothers, father, uncles, husband included. They were always in competition with me because they could not manipulate, control or dominate my reality. I am not broken or distressed about it. Just stating this has been my experience. Men don't understand because it has never been their experience. I tell men all the time your perspective will change if you were ever forced to exist in this world in a female body.

  • @jammyettehunsinger2221
    @jammyettehunsinger2221 Рік тому +105

    I absolutely understand what Princella is teaching. We (modern society) have to study the human origins from the very beginning..

    • @quanniesworld
      @quanniesworld Рік тому

      Crazy thing is human origins IS taught! It's taught in every public school and then a person can major in a specific field that only studies certain aspects of humans in higher education. The problem?
      Religious circles (fundamentalists and evangelicals) have always tried (and have been largely successful) to counter the information with faith- a concept NOT based on evidence or facts just belief. I.e humans come from a God which there is ZERO evidence of but mound of evidence for evolution (which schools teach). They try to explain away human nature via a spiritual concept called sin which again, there's no evidence for since there is no evidence of a man and woman made by a god nor a savior who died as a sacrifice. Only faith that those claims are true.
      The battle is between facts/evidence and faith. Shouldn't even be a battle but it is.

    • @mimiprice6899
      @mimiprice6899 Рік тому +1

      In the beginning God.

    • @quanniesworld
      @quanniesworld Рік тому +6

      @@mimiprice6899 I understand you *believe* that, but demonstrate how you confirmed that is true. What methodology did you use to verify that claim?

    • @marcgarvey4659
      @marcgarvey4659 Рік тому

      She’s teaching hate and divisions. When white people used bs logic and bias science to divided us along color line and race…We marched and called them racist and hateful.
      Are people like you that mentally ill… Is that what you delusional hyenas are doing today?

    • @bdott1538
      @bdott1538 Рік тому +4

      @@mimiprice6899 in the beginning…there wasn’t a nuclear family structure.

  • @StylesbyNina
    @StylesbyNina Рік тому +50

    People ask her experience to place judgment and to dismiss her message. Then to be gaslighting her is disgusting.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому

      Right ..I wish she would stop giving them coupons to discount her message. But she decides how best to do what she's doing.

    • @tammypritchett7028
      @tammypritchett7028 6 місяців тому

      Sometimes, people ask questions because they need context. You should want to know how a person arrives at any conclusion. It helps in getting a good understanding. A good understanding gives you space to have sympathy and empathy!

  • @visionsofablackherstorian
    @visionsofablackherstorian Рік тому +222

    People dismissed everything that Princella said about men and the world, because she shared her past traumas. Her message is for women who no longer want to be delusional about men and the world around us. If you want to be delusional, then of course that comes with denial. Also, don't dismiss her intelligence as just "brokenness". That's pretty messed up. She brings stats, psychology, biology, and philosophy into her theories and what she says is based on her intelligence and not brokenness. I hate when people do this to women. "You're speaking out of hurt" as a way to dismiss them. NO. She's not broken, she's brilliant!

    • @joyhappy3461
      @joyhappy3461 Рік тому +33

      Exactly. Males responses is why I deal with them with a 10 ft pole between us

    • @clreed244
      @clreed244 Рік тому +8

      ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾

    • @theiswithin3649
      @theiswithin3649 Рік тому +5

      💯🎯🌳

    • @CeceTvCeceTv
      @CeceTvCeceTv Рік тому +5

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @judithsakala4944
      @judithsakala4944 Рік тому +4

      Absolutely brilliant!🙌🏾 I salute 🫡 her!🗣️

  • @MsOwens-oo5cb
    @MsOwens-oo5cb 19 днів тому +2

    The emotional intelligence of Tim
    Ross is unmatched! This is where we can start to have healing and understanding when spiritual leaders can listen with empathy and understanding even if they disagree.

  • @lilcray99
    @lilcray99 11 місяців тому +112

    I love that Tim listens intently and ask questions. More inquisitive than argumentative 🙏🏾

    • @ezracollins4034
      @ezracollins4034 Місяць тому

      He definitely used his feminine side of the brain.. which many men not tapped into.

  • @SoldByCindyGen
    @SoldByCindyGen Рік тому +106

    She is so right!! I was married for 16years; with him for about 20 and I was traumatized. A part of me wants marriage again; I love commitment to the right person but there is a strong part of me that says NEVER!
    And ladies have your career, business-your own money when married. He didn’t want the divorce. If I didn’t have my own resources it would have been very hard to leave.
    Those of you that have not married-hear to listen…seek understanding, know yourself, choose wisely. Gain all the wisdom you can before deciding to make one of the biggest decisions of your life.

    • @robirod7421
      @robirod7421 Рік тому +3

      Your experience right?
      Are you a lesbian now?

    • @AsTheWebTurns
      @AsTheWebTurns Рік тому +10

      Never ignore red flags, and stop focusing on the pinch of goodness he showed you. You can almost guarantee your time won't be wasted.

    • @SoldByCindyGen
      @SoldByCindyGen Рік тому

      @@robirod7421 excuse me….?

    • @Mira-gu6we
      @Mira-gu6we 8 місяців тому

      Dear lady, 99.99 percent men are DETRIMENTAL to women.

    • @Mira-gu6we
      @Mira-gu6we 8 місяців тому

      Men drain life force energy from women. This is why married women age faster.

  • @FreshManna754
    @FreshManna754 Рік тому +96

    This has been one of the most thought provoking interview i've ever watched. As a woman and a believer of Jesus Christ i really did appreciate princella's views because alot of what she said is true and women really need to be free in her purpose, which is something i've always said which some see it as a threat from both men and women. I'm so grateful fr Pastor Tim Ross, he's impacting so many lives as a true disciple. I must say i do believe in marriage but if a man can't pull up the right way or bring a balance, i'll go right back to my father the way i am.😅 RESPECTFULLY!

    • @queendove6376
      @queendove6376 Рік тому +5

      He knows men. He wants the truth so he is able to do what he does best, minister truthfully to men.
      All these men retreats waste time. Now he knows Jesus true purpose and he can turn men from demonic to Christ like.

    • @lisaf5105
      @lisaf5105 12 днів тому

      She said that the true God is the divine feminine . . .darkness and light cannot be mixed I'm not sure how any Christian can support her messaginf

    • @lisaf5105
      @lisaf5105 12 днів тому

      *god

  • @angelknowsrealestatellc9043
    @angelknowsrealestatellc9043 22 дні тому

    You all have become one of my favorite podcasters. 💖💖💯 Great convo.

  • @ashleywilliams3545
    @ashleywilliams3545 Рік тому +108

    I am so greatfull for this conversation and on this platform. I do hear what Princella is saying on multiple fronts. I am a woman who is navigating what she is talking about and I hear her on a heart level. Both Ryan and Tysean have made great strides but still have a ways to go with their ability to actively listen, empathize , checking that ego and male privelege. Tim did an outstanding job of active listening, listening to understand instead of to just respond and I stand 10 toes down as a follower of Christ. I do agree she is close to the Kingdom of God. I pray the Holy spirit gives her a new heart and puts a new spirit in her.I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. This was a great conversation thanks for giving her the space to speak. #ezekiel36:26#dweller #bside#hardlyinitiated

    • @erock9594
      @erock9594 Рік тому

      She's close to the kingdom of God? She's going to the hot place 🔥 for sure. Keep lying to yourself

    • @Milan-wg4lh
      @Milan-wg4lh Рік тому +1

      HalleluYah to Abba Yahuah for HIS Unfathomable Love, Grace, Mercy & undeserved Longsufferring for us through Yahusha our Ha'Mashiach the One we've know as Jesus Christ!!!❤👑❤️
      Ezekiel 36:26 is 1 of my favorite scriptures. Through HIS Infinite Unusual Wisdom Abba gave & told us how to pray(talk) to HIM toward the end of that chapter when He said He's waiting to hear our request(ask) to for the Good things He said He Will do in the previous verses!! HalleluYah!!!
      ❤☝🏾🤲🏾💪🏾🙌🏾❤️

    • @roseallen5514
      @roseallen5514 Рік тому +1

      I feel she is on a journey of understanding and once she see GOD as female and male she will move to the next level.

    • @KFontLab
      @KFontLab Рік тому +7

      I’m listening too and I understand why they are trying to get it in the way they are. They are trying to listen but as a woman I’m trying to understand as well. 😂
      To say the a man is incapable of love is completely false. But I’m listening to everything to make sure I get what she is saying, but my head is starting to hurt. Because this is true about some men but definitely not all.

    • @autumnandpeanut5598
      @autumnandpeanut5598 Рік тому +15

      Ryan and Tysean showed way too much ego. They internalized much of what she said and it proves her words to be right. Even though she didn't need help.

  • @LovelyDejadej
    @LovelyDejadej Рік тому +64

    🎉 Tim has a lot of compassion and he listened to every word she said. He gave her so much respect and room to just speak her truth. Great interview

    • @sonson1873
      @sonson1873 11 місяців тому

      Sometimes that’s the people

  • @t.l1357
    @t.l1357 Рік тому +71

    I'm listening now. I'm so surprised she's on the platform. Thx Hardly Iniitiated for bringing such a necessary and inclusive conversation. We have to not gloss over real issues. Princella is saying out loud what women say behind closed doors. Many of todays men are pushing out what they have heard and seen while even growing up in single parent homes. Let's find solutions. Being fully mature adults prior to having children is one step.

    • @t.l1357
      @t.l1357 Рік тому +13

      Woo Chile that was the best comvo...just finished getting thru the full vid. The pastor has an empathetic ear. The point Tysean and Ryan are glossing over is the power of the male ego is inherently more DANGEROUS than a woman in her lower ego. Do women cheat, rape , murder? Absolutely 💯 But it's not on the same level or scope. Women taking chances =gambling with our LIVES. I'm a believer and know there's great men out there. I'm getting to know one now. But in my over 40 yrs of living, I can't name over 4 great men. That's sad since I'm extroverted and meet hundreds and sometimes thousands of people each yr. I wouldn't trust hardly any man unsupervised with my daughter. That's a problem and it's not pessimistic. When I travel overseas I actually feel much safer.

    • @queendove6376
      @queendove6376 Рік тому +6

      She also brings out just how much men need their fathers and a man in their life. We need the men in the boys lives. Great men. Unfortunately so many churches have failed our men and exploited the women.
      But God is doing what God does. He’s going to save us ALL BY HIMSELF.
      Praise God! He’s doing it.
      Be blessed!

    • @GardensFlowers-f7k
      @GardensFlowers-f7k Рік тому

      Why are males r@pists? Why do males k*ll pregnant women? Why are males p3dophiles? Why do males fill pris0ns? Why are males the most vi0lent people in society? Why can't males be trusted in daycare centers or morgues? The males behavior SHOWS us what the reality is. Globally, their vi0lence is causing women to change their behavior. Women have to do what's best for their safety, freedom, and happiness. The male is NOT a factor once women see they are the greatest thre@t to our ulitmate happiness & freedom.

    • @teresam5199
      @teresam5199 Рік тому

      The solution for women is to decenter a man, build yourself up inwardly then outwardly and focus on your divine purpose. God should be the center of your life, not a male.

  • @Nyy6
    @Nyy6 Місяць тому +2

    She was hurting their ego .. they couldn’t handle it .. but the pastor was very respectful and open minded and open hearted 🙌🏾

  • @CreatorSpiritualist77
    @CreatorSpiritualist77 11 місяців тому +265

    The host made it difficult for the conversation to flow. Tim and Princella speaking to each other was perfection🙏🏽👌🏽🔥

    • @SunManality
      @SunManality 11 місяців тому +3

      She dominated him, he cried and tapped out, submitted 😢 Thats not perfect

    • @jinellerobinson4392
      @jinellerobinson4392 11 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely came to say the same. He over talked and rushed everyone, including his co-host . Made it hard to watch

    • @naturalimmunity3776
      @naturalimmunity3776 11 місяців тому +9

      Right.. I just fast forwarded every time they chimed in.

    • @Daddyboy948
      @Daddyboy948 11 місяців тому

      Half of u black women are lesbian that is facts

    • @dianasohn2515
      @dianasohn2515 11 місяців тому +2

      @@SunManality can’t argue with facts

  • @AmandaNBS
    @AmandaNBS Рік тому +230

    Why do y'all think these men are unaliving women for wanting a divorce? BECAUSE THEY GOTTA HAVE CONTROL!!

    • @martelldozier3898
      @martelldozier3898 Рік тому

      Because most women aren't truly capable of hurting men.

    • @yay568
      @yay568 10 місяців тому +1

      @amandabs4037
      Actually it’s because men know she and the government will take all their money and resources and men not going for it

    • @ultradevon04
      @ultradevon04 8 місяців тому +8

      That’s very rare

    • @tropiclucas9130
      @tropiclucas9130 6 місяців тому

      Like there aren't woman serial unalivers that marry men for the wealth then get them gone it's rare its not the Norm

    • @Itsabbyyyy2
      @Itsabbyyyy2 29 днів тому

      @@ultradevon04 it’s called femicide, look it up in places like South Africa, Kenya, a lot of cases of it in America.

  • @QYOUNG10_03
    @QYOUNG10_03 11 місяців тому +51

    I never heard pastor Tim speak, but you, Sir, stood on BIBLE🫡

    • @nekea93
      @nekea93 8 місяців тому +3

      I love Pastor Tim he keep it real on all sides while not losing who he is ❤

  • @Mrs.T13
    @Mrs.T13 22 дні тому +3

    Did this woman just say that "men are incapable of love" at 1:53 ish...that is so absurd..wow...as a woman her age married to a loving caring devoted husband, I am and will say that is a lie from the pit of hell. Sorry that she has not been able to receive love from a man but I have received love not only from my husband but also my father.

  • @ultimateenigma6038
    @ultimateenigma6038 Рік тому +132

    The hosts are proving her point. Men literally NEED women. It is evidenced in how they both struggled to understand that women are conditioned to want kids and marriage bc it benefits the man. Listen carefully....this idea of women going their own way and happy with her fullness in her life is foreign. We are viewed as labor.

    • @Sharifay.
      @Sharifay. Рік тому +10

      Well said. 🎯

    • @joyhappy3461
      @joyhappy3461 Рік тому +21

      So true. My mother tried hard to get me to go to church so I would be indoctrinated and I would sacrifice my life for a male. My stubborn Taurus ass rejected all that crap lol I’m
      44, sexy, single and living my best feminine and sensual life.

    • @ultimateenigma6038
      @ultimateenigma6038 Рік тому +10

      @Sharifay. if you survey most mothers they will tell you that they themselves did not make the choice to have children. Pressure from the men for lineage, the grand parents or whatever. It is a chore, a task and a job that society does not respect or cherish. The children even by men who are not the father are viewed as burdens. It is sad 😔

    • @Sharifay.
      @Sharifay. Рік тому +1

      @@ultimateenigma6038 Oh, don’t I know it!😞 I come from a Somali culture which is heavily male centered. The female psychology is extremely male-identified and strategically manipulated for the survival of man. They literally just exist as baby making machines, going completely against their own maternal instincts to birth infants into war zones. My heart breaks for my own mother and the countless women just like her. I’m honestly still unlearning my own conditioning so I do not suffer as my foremothers did. It’s not easy.

    • @judithsakala4944
      @judithsakala4944 Рік тому +2

      @@joyhappy3461
      😘

  • @girlbrittneygirl
    @girlbrittneygirl Рік тому +214

    My stepmom has been married to my dad for 25 years, one day we were having a conversation and she told me if I want to stay single for rest of my life, it’s ok. That hunted me for years! Since I’ve started listening to Princella , I understand why she made that statement.

    • @willwashington1884
      @willwashington1884 Рік тому +5

      I'm so sorry to hear that listening to her was what made you understand that statement from your stepmom. Did you ask her about why? Maybe she was coming from the Biblical perspective that it is okay to be single and stay that way and not from the rhetoric she so gladly stands on? Marriage is indeed not for everyone, but her ideas and using her wordsmithing to make it sound good is so wrong. Why do I say that? lYou can not quote polls and studies and present them as FACT! Those who created them wouldn't even do that.

    • @MySignatureSoul
      @MySignatureSoul Рік тому +68

      @@willwashington1884You are on every comment trying to gaslight women and their experiences as if they need you to narrate what they have gone through… You are proving her point about men not being able to listen and being dismissive as hell. This is our reality, GET OVER IT! Or be left behind!!!

    • @Kieshak02
      @Kieshak02 Рік тому +5

      Wow!! Respect

    • @janine3330
      @janine3330 Рік тому +22

      ​@willwashington1884 Mr. Not so intellectual, statistics and large studies are the best way to gain factual information about a population as long as it comes from a reliable, credible and ethical source. 🤨

    • @girlbrittneygirl
      @girlbrittneygirl 11 місяців тому +5

      @@willwashington1884 Marriage is unnatural! People keep saying marriage is not everyone! Marriage is not for anyone period! Who said being single includes not be married!

  • @Thecycys
    @Thecycys Рік тому +66

    Thank you for schooling us Princella, your knowledge goes beyond what we have been taught, sending you love from france 🫶🏾🫶🏾 🙏🏾

  • @teaowilson6871
    @teaowilson6871 Місяць тому +3

    She's way more evolved and educated then any of the men on that panel. Wake up guys! She's spitting some real talk!

  • @taylorjackson4342
    @taylorjackson4342 Рік тому +133

    Thank you Pastor Tim for actually acknowledging her experiences!! Not only did Ty and Ryan(specifically Ryan) dismiss and bypass her vulnerability in expressing her experiences despite trying to focus on stats and facts, they def were a prime example of proving her philosophy in the fact that men are extremely self serving. I am a proud/married Christian. I do not agree with everything she believes but I absolutely agree with most of it. Their goal was to get what they wanted in this conversation but failed to acknowledge or consider the female experience. Which is extremely typical for a black male to do to a black female..Where there is consideration, there will be understanding.

    • @LUX_8
      @LUX_8 Рік тому +22

      Pastor Tim was borderline patronizing. The other two males were dismissive and condescending, when they weren't busy gaslighting her. 😒

    • @gomolemomanche257
      @gomolemomanche257 Рік тому +20

      How they tried to weaponise her trauma because they couldn’t rebut her stats was brutal to watch. I nearly unsubscribed; then thought I’d potentially be missing out on more conversations like these 😌

    • @Mamamangolina
      @Mamamangolina Рік тому +1

      Wow that’s amazing

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 Рік тому

      ​okay, so I'm not the only one that picked up on that @@LUX_8

    • @ebony9524
      @ebony9524 Рік тому +20

      Right it was cringy watching Ty and Ryan 😂 I was thinking yikes they are literally doing exactly what she said.

  • @haleeg
    @haleeg Рік тому +90

    It’s crazy how the majority of women get what she’s saying easily but men always have a hard time understanding and listening thoroughly. She’s giving the whole run down on how things operate but men want quick simple answers due to their short attention spans. We just want men to understand what we’re saying 😅simple. That may never work so it probably is best we have separate spaces and build from there.

    • @jasminemartin2081
      @jasminemartin2081 Рік тому +8

      Literally mind blowing how much they cannot keep. And I applaud Princella for being able to sit here and explain basic concepts to these males over and over again.

    • @anthonythomas8810
      @anthonythomas8810 11 місяців тому

      Real men know this is delusional to say the least, example she said train the man and teach the woman, the female is born whole and the male is not, stupidity, the woman is an extension of the man. I could break this shit down to the point my 4 year old to understand...

  • @dandrehamilton6598
    @dandrehamilton6598 Рік тому +131

    I just wanted to say thank you Pastor Tim for being a representative of Christ!

    • @martelldozier3898
      @martelldozier3898 Рік тому

      He shouldn't be comparing wits with demons for entertainment