Omg. I am really really struggling with this today so much that I wondered if I was just delusional and should give up. And then I got the notification about this video and realized that I am heard. Thank you so much! This journey is so damn hard at times. This was that still small voice that I needed to hear. ❤
I know my guides brought me to this reading. I am being healed by this. I wish I had known about you last year when I first met my twin. So many videos and readers steer us in the wrong direction. Thank you!
Regardless if they are your tf, don't let someone tell u twice they don't want you. Your feelings are valid but ypu deserve better. Self love is #1!!! The whole point of tf journey! ❤️❤️
While self love and appropriate boundaries are key, you do need to stay open to your twin. It’s not cut and dry/black and white. It’s about learning unconditional love, compassion and patience.
Marla, I highly recommend the reading: COMPLEX PTSD by Pete Walker. That book is amazing in bringing awareness about your defense system, which gets activated doing TwinFlame journey. It will help everyone in the path of healing. Blessings.
Returning to this video today after speaking to a healer who did not understand my tf story. It was very jarring as I was not expecting a judgmental reaction from this person. I had that familiar feeling of feeling stupid or confused about the connection. It’s sad but I am thankful for your work, Marla. It’s so important to simply feel seen and validated on this path. I especially dislike the way people invalidate your own feelings and act like you’re naive. Also, the third party or karmic aspect is especially terribly received by people who don’t understand and I really dislike the way they judge my twin when I try to explain how everything played out. I will also add that this healer said someone better would come in and I found that to be such a low vibrational way of speaking. Even if I did end up in a different relationship, I would never see anyone as “better” than my twin. I’m venting a bit, but I know we’ve all been there in some way. Lots of love, Marla!!
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope it ended up being a learning experience for the other person. Sadly, most of the judgment we receive are from other light workers.
It feels like a non stop process, we do much inner work, we bring more awareness to our patterns, we are learning the lessons, but it seems like it never ends, we are in this process of learning/unlearning but never make it to the other side though the massive transformation we have achieved! This leaves me depressed and so tired of this journey! I gained much but i still have deep dark pains sometimes. I wanna get graduate this journey and feel happy without those dark times that attack me frequently!
You are very wise Marla. I have never understood the difference between boundaries and expectations. Like many who withstood childhood trauma and weren't fully loved as children, they feel the same.
Great video Marla thanks I do believe my twin is my self pushed out, my state of consciousness, so my twin can only reflect that back to me. All comes from within, as within so without ❤
Thank you Marla. Your wisdom resonates very strongly and helps me feel more at peace. Unrequited love has been a life long theme for me, I have Chiron square Venus natally. I have been questioning my love for my TF in light of my history and wounding around this and wondered if it was just another example. But as i'm approaching my Chiron return I am starting to recognise the value of my journey, that the pain wasn't a punishment, but learning to lead me to this point of unconditional love for my self that simply reflects the love God has for me. I felt abandoned by God for much of my life but am now feeling God's love more and more. Knowing God love me helps me to begin to accept love for myself, even if it takes time to receive it. Allowing myself to feel love for my TF will go a long way toward healing the shame I felt in the past. Thank you
This is very positive message, ty M. I am always grateful for your posts, truly, always perfect timing. I've chosen "unrequited" to describe my TF's position to a mutual friend in a key communication about it last year. The friend asked me, "Does he know how you feel?" To which I flatly replied, "Yes, and it is unrequited." How you offered, "If you were told this isn't your TF, would your feelings towards them change?" That hit it so real! So glad you put that out there. Allow feeling, Loving without need, huge. Meantime, I actually like that we aren't all in each other's phones constantly. Lately, I like how he leaves me alone, actually.
Just allowing the love to be there. Thank you Marla, this unrequited love at the moment when i thought we were going closer into union and i got to know he went into a new relationship and maybe is getting married -devastated me. This video is helping me to find the next step. I d like to work with you some day.
Thanks Marla, this is so relevant and helpful. Having strongly felt the ego vs. soul question, I’ve been feeling unconditional love without expectations; however, this video helped free me from the nagging little ego voice that negated myself.
I met my twin in 2009 when I inherited my aunts house which is 3 doors down from his, ( I call that divine intervention !). He has had a gf since 2019 & Valentine's Day has been a big trigger in the past. Last year on feb 15th he fell on the ice, shattered his ankle which required 6 months to heal. Although we were in minimal communication, this past summer he made it a point to tell me what day he fell. Now I just look at it this way.. if our DM's were able to be with us this Valentine's day they would be. This is a day to smile at others, spread your love, especially to yourself & eat some healthy dark chocolate!
Thank you, Marla! Had to listen to this incredible message a few times, before commenting. Such wisdom, which spoke to my heart and soul, as I'm smack in middle of this scenario you are speaking of with my TF. I've come to realize and have to keep reminding myself; that most of the time, my thoughts and what I project about certain situations with my TF, are worse than the situation itself, haha! However, at the end of the day, I'm aware that fear is an illusion. My inner personal connection with God has always kept me centered from within with peace, love and joy, as to never give up on what I wholeheartedly believe to be a soul connection. I also remind myself, which is very important to me, so that I remain open to Source being the pilot of my life as I reiterate it continually; thy will be done, not my will, and I let go and let God! Many Blessings...I appreciate you!🥰
What you say makes so much sense. I needed to hear this message after the way I’ve been feeling these past couple of weeks. So I’m glad and grateful this message came through to me via someone’s IG stories. Thank you. And I will certainly take on board what you have said.
What a beautiful message Marla❤ what I understand for myself that I have healed a lot and developed spiritual. I am feeling beyond all this facets you are talking about and in complete peace with whatever will happen or will not happen 😇🙏 Thank you ❤
Since I’ve surrendered to the love for my TF, I honestly couldn’t be with another person and feel like I’m in my integrity with them. It would be incredibly fake and I’d feel icky af. I could’ve tried in the past, but not now anymore that I’ve surrendered to the truth. I’ve tried to shut out this connection in the past, and every time I did, my energy got so blocked. I tried doing readings for people and they were absolute sh*t because my connection to God was blocked. My DM asked me a few weeks back (we hardly ever talk so this was a rare occurrence), “But what if I never come around?” Because he is also fully aware that this connection is here to stay, and he’s also getting loads of signs about me, but since he’s married, he feels stuck. But I just said that I just have to continue down my path and trust it will all work out how it’s meant to, however that looks. I will continue to pray for his and his wife’s healing, because that’s what I’m being called to do. I sound so ridiculously delusional to others 🤣 but there are thankfully a handful of people I can talk to about this connection. But I do know they are the only people I can talk to. One of these friends was with me at an Ayahuasca ceremony this past summer, and that experience validated everything with my twin. I didn’t go for him, I went for me and guidance for my own path, but my higher self, angels, and guides, led me through a journey and showed me so much about the connection with my twin. There’s no escaping it. The friend who was with me now believes me and finally sees that I’m not this poor little girl with an obsession over a boy. It’s truly divine and its foundation is unconditional love.
I so very grateful I found this video today. It's helping so much. This experience is actually crazy painful at times. In a two/three months I'll have the exact Chiron return in my 8H... currently transiting Chiron is conjunt my natal Sun and Venus in 7H. Many days i wonder if I can actually survive all of this. Other days (fewer) I'm in bliss. Before seeing this video I was planning to just curl up in my bed and hope to find the strength to holding on for another day, another hour...minute. I might actually go for a walk instead thanks to your beautiful perspective that reassured me so much... I hope I can find the means to talk directly to you in the near future 🙏🌟💕
@@Twinstrology thank you! I actually managed to release some of the pain during the day and I'm now feeling more serene. I listened to another couple of your videos. I'm so glad I found your channel!
She ran to another for 9 months about 6 years ago. That’s when I first became aware that I was a thinner. Then reunification for several years till recently, another man again. But this time I drew the line. Now I am the runner. During both separations lots of metaphysical activity, omens and coincidences. High strangeness. Both events have leveled me up spiritually. What a freaking journey. Who signs up for this?
I think I would like to come back and listen to this video again and again. What Marla said is so true, it's really hard for people to relate to unconditional love, even the person who receive that kind of love would feel suspicious about our motive hahaha .... Thanks Marla, this is very helpful!
I can't complain about him not acknowledging his Love for me. He has told me many times he will Love me forever. He has also already told me he knows we're Spiritually connected. After all that, he still ghosts & gives silent treatment. I guess there will always be Healing needed for us. I seriously would Love to sell my house and move away atm. Start fresh somewhere near the beach ⛱️ 😎 💕
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh Marla! Your opening remarks! 😉 ... You can cut cords with your twin? I do cord cutting, a general one. I didn't know it was possible to cut cords with your twin. ... I think this is the first time I've heard you speak of your twin! Do you have videos or blogs about your own journey? ... There's no doubt that all the inner child work I have done over the decades is why he and I are still connected, healthily. ... Fully dropping that rope! ... Thank you for answering so many of my questions! I have some awesome clearing practices!
I have try it, and it didn’t work for me. We are bond for a reason and only for that same reason be it learning lessons or whatever is for you specially, we can’t unbind.
Thank you Marla, this a piece of puzzle i was missing. I have been pondering about this before and i felt so good when i just loved and as you said much easier to manifest, but at the same time felt like such a fool because of 3D programing/expectations and droped into negativ energy instead. This was such a relief for me and I feel free again. Big hug to you ❤️🤗
@twinstrology Mya Angelou said it best in this video about how love liberates and not binds. How the truest love is meant to be set free. And this was such a game changer for my twin and me. I used to wonder why we were so close to coming together, but then it never happened. Until this video ua-cam.com/video/cbecKv2xR14/v-deo.html. Now I understand. There is also a celine dion song that is called I know what love is. In that song, there are a few lines that say, "it is an unspoken thing. A quiet opening. There are no words that go that deep." And there aren't. Learning to love in a liberating way actually helps bring the connection much closer. And some times this means no physical contact for some time. Trust your journey. They will keep proving to you that they are always there. It may not look like you think or want, but it is there.
I think I healed the Valentines Day trigger because I have always been single for the day for years and now it’s been just another day. Aka as Taco 🌮 Tuesday. Yeah.. I don’t talk about my twin flame 🔥 to another unless I know for a fact they are fully on my level.. and even the ones who know about Twin Flames 🔥 still think I can actually have a causal romantic connection with someone else. 😂🤣😂😜🤣. So many people coming in wondering why I never married, even my parents think I am pipe dreaming that love ❤️ will work for me.
Today was Ryan's wedding I was so happy for him it was beautiful he said he would not be in this position if it was not for me. His new wife is beautiful but did not stay for the reception as did not know anyone and I was all alone and felt very sick. Also because so much time has gone I have done everything you told me but there is never any result and I am getting older day by day.
Thank you for this. I have realized lately that the TF journey turns all the "rules" of relationships on its ear. You can't just look up dating videos and apply "normal" to this! I am experiencing all the wounds- big wounds- that are between me and my twin with a soulmate, but way more dramatic. It hurts. It's confusing. I thought healing would be more pleasant. It seems the more I work, the more I uncover to work on.
On the contrary to what other people’s experiences showed me my DM (TF) is such a pure lovely person, i guess most of mischief is on my side! 😅 i wanna kiss her and tell her how much i love her one day.
And there were rays of a Sun Shining from his face. His face, alone, seeing me only Had it's own beaming streams Of Life, like a human star. Rays of his own particular light. How to receive star light? How to keep it? My child, said a Father God, It is not for keeping.
@@Twinstrology Thanks, Marla. I meant to comment on one of the videos since December that I did a meditation and my heart completely exploded about my twin and a lot of the piled up resentment just melted away. Something big is definitely happening energetically around twin flames. Maybe not all of the resentment is completely gone, but that was huge. Also, I think I'm starting to have more epiphanies seeing exactly how my blocks have been his blocks and his blocks have been my blocks. For example, I just realized that I've been feeling very neglected by him because that mirrors a dynamic from my childhood, but the reason why he is showing up for me that way is because of his own resentment towards the way he was neglected growing up. However, before you see it so clearly like this, you just think that you're being neglected because you somehow must deserve to be treated that way. When really, it's both of your blocks somehow just mirroring each other. Lifting the veil in this instance has been really cool and freeing. Thank you so much for supporting us all on this journey 💘
Hi again Marla , curious question, the unconditional love that you experience with your twin…. It is sacred and unlike anything else I have ever experienced. I wouldn’t change anything that has transpired up to this point. But as time goes by with no 3-d contact how do you continue to cultivate those feelings within yourself and the world around you? I find often times my connection to my twin “just is” i which s great but if the purpose is unconditional love how do you tap into it and transmit it to yourself and the world? Thank you 💛💛🌈🌈🦋🦋🦄🦄
I think the love being cultivated for self and others is a natural process. Your heart doesn't stop growing at your twin. Lessons like forgiveness, compassion, patience and being able to walk in another persons shoes become a way of life. It's who we are. Not having 3D contact forces you to grow in multiple directions not just toward your twin and that is a blessing. If you don't feel like this is natural for you right now, that's ok! It will come. I hope that answers your question?
@@Twinstrology thank you Marla yes I do feel it at times just not to the degree I have felt it or feel it when I tap into it with my twin. Thank you 💛💛
So I've let go. Forgiven. Sent him my love and prayers to find his path. Now what? Is it ok to let in another person should a soulmate cross our paths?!! 😬 This is where I'm confused! Am I supposed to just wait?? I've already done that for over a year! It's been in and out for over 3 1/2 years! I feel like God doesn't want that for me...🤷♀️
Hi Sara. The TF journey is not easy. Four years. My DM, when I told him about my unconditional love for him, thought that I was insane, delusional. So, I took it as unrequited love, and dove into deep searching, grieving etc. What really made difference in decreasing my feelings and intensity... Meditations/videos by Moojiji (finding the Real Self), materials around Radical Acceptance, GP Walsh vidios (Inner Reconciliation, Angels in the Basement etc), the amazing book COMPLEX PTSD by Pete Walker (highly recommend everyone in this journey), daily meditation/inquiry, health life-style, and most of all, grieving work. You got to understand that everyone that enters our lives have something to teach about ourselves. After reading Pete Walker book, that goes deep into defense system styles (fight, flight, freeze, flown) you will get that your DM activated ALL or many of of your core wounds, and the best way out is through a deep healing process of RECLAIMING YOUR REAL SELF. I have high suspicious that TF journey happens because it is the fast way towards healing and self-realization. Union, God knows if will happen or not. But when you feel whole again, you definably will attract better matches towards you in every aspect of your life. So, the answer to all... get your healing process moving. Many blessings e always educate yourself... there are so many wonderful people out there. Marla is one of those.
I agree with Divine5353…when I met my DM I was not spiritual and did not even care or know about soulmates let alone anything deeper…I moved on quickly once the DM married someone else. I married within 2 years…I thought I had it all just to see it crumble to dust…very painful. When you do not heal, you attract toxic energies - be patient with yourself and learn how to love yourself first and foremost…and know, you are free to love whoever you want and let the twin live his life…
That's a really complicated question because there are many facets. First, I would ask do you really want to be with your twin? If a soulmate took you off your path at least temporarily and maybe delayed your union, would you be alright with that? Sometimes soulmates come in as karmic that we need to heal something with. If that happens you will know because you will feel inexplicable drawn to the connection. On the other hand, just settling for someone bc you don't want to be alone is just fear. The divine masculine can have trust issues and they maybe watching to see if the love you profess is real or out of side out of mind. Just like you'd be hurt if they were with another, they feel the same way even if they aren't showing it. So you see, each situation is different and needs to be looked at honestly to see what is the reason for the other person at the core. I may use your question in an upcoming Q&A video.
I was thinking about whether I should move on too but all I could think of was how I wouldn’t want to hurt that person because I knew the second my TF would be available that I would go running to him. This is why I just stay single.
Learning to sit in the energy of love without expectations.
Only Twins understand Twins. At least that's been my experience. 💕
So I listen to it again 1 year after and it resonates in a new light. Thank you so much.
Thank you.
I don’t know what to believe or trust anymore. All I know is that here I am 9 years later still crying myself to sleep.
Same, girl, same. 🫂
Omg. I am really really struggling with this today so much that I wondered if I was just delusional and should give up. And then I got the notification about this video and realized that I am heard.
Thank you so much! This journey is so damn hard at times. This was that still small voice that I needed to hear. ❤
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I know my guides brought me to this reading. I am being healed by this. I wish I had known about you last year when I first met my twin. So many videos and readers steer us in the wrong direction. Thank you!
Thanks for being here. Learning discernment is important.
Yes the wound of feeling separated from God and perceiving god as something external from ourselves is one of the biggest wound of human kind
God is I AM. That’s his name. And it resides in the coding of our DNA. Apply this.
@@martingd777 thanks yes I know this 😉
Regardless if they are your tf, don't let someone tell u twice they don't want you. Your feelings are valid but ypu deserve better. Self love is #1!!! The whole point of tf journey! ❤️❤️
While self love and appropriate boundaries are key, you do need to stay open to your twin. It’s not cut and dry/black and white. It’s about learning unconditional love, compassion and patience.
Marla, I highly recommend the reading: COMPLEX PTSD by Pete Walker. That book is amazing in bringing awareness about your defense system, which gets activated doing TwinFlame journey. It will help everyone in the path of healing. Blessings.
Yes, I talked about that book in another video I did, "PTSD and Past Lives w/Teresa Blackburn."
@@Twinstrology roughly when was this video done, Marla? So I can search it up
Wow! I had a terrible bout with anxious attachment after seeing my twin. I went back to therapy, and that’s one of the books in my pile!
Returning to this video today after speaking to a healer who did not understand my tf story. It was very jarring as I was not expecting a judgmental reaction from this person. I had that familiar feeling of feeling stupid or confused about the connection. It’s sad but I am thankful for your work, Marla. It’s so important to simply feel seen and validated on this path. I especially dislike the way people invalidate your own feelings and act like you’re naive. Also, the third party or karmic aspect is especially terribly received by people who don’t understand and I really dislike the way they judge my twin when I try to explain how everything played out. I will also add that this healer said someone better would come in and I found that to be such a low vibrational way of speaking. Even if I did end up in a different relationship, I would never see anyone as “better” than my twin. I’m venting a bit, but I know we’ve all been there in some way. Lots of love, Marla!!
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope it ended up being a learning experience for the other person. Sadly, most of the judgment we receive are from other light workers.
After several years of my twin flame journey, I needed this. Thank you 🙏💜
This is most profound video in regards to tf. Thank you so much. 💖🙏🤗
Aw, thank you!
It feels like a non stop process, we do much inner work, we bring more awareness to our patterns, we are learning the lessons, but it seems like it never ends, we are in this process of learning/unlearning but never make it to the other side though the massive transformation we have achieved! This leaves me depressed and so tired of this journey! I gained much but i still have deep dark pains sometimes.
I wanna get graduate this journey and feel happy without those dark times that attack me frequently!
Check into a course in miracles. The answers are there.
I agree
You are very wise Marla. I have never understood the difference between boundaries and expectations. Like many who withstood childhood trauma and weren't fully loved as children, they feel the same.
Yes.
Great video Marla thanks I do believe my twin is my self pushed out, my state of consciousness, so my twin can only reflect that back to me. All comes from within, as within so without ❤
I'm getting this feeling too.
Thank you Marla. Your wisdom resonates very strongly and helps me feel more at peace. Unrequited love has been a life long theme for me, I have Chiron square Venus natally. I have been questioning my love for my TF in light of my history and wounding around this and wondered if it was just another example. But as i'm approaching my Chiron return I am starting to recognise the value of my journey, that the pain wasn't a punishment, but learning to lead me to this point of unconditional love for my self that simply reflects the love God has for me. I felt abandoned by God for much of my life but am now feeling God's love more and more. Knowing God love me helps me to begin to accept love for myself, even if it takes time to receive it. Allowing myself to feel love for my TF will go a long way toward healing the shame I felt in the past. Thank you
Beautiful said. Thank you. There is a hump that must be gotten over but once it is, things begin to make sense and feel less oppressive.
Needed this today. I appreciate your energy and wisdom.. feeling a lot at this time, hope everyone heals these wounds and loves
This is very positive message, ty M. I am always grateful for your posts, truly, always perfect timing. I've chosen "unrequited" to describe my TF's position to a mutual friend in a key communication about it last year. The friend asked me, "Does he know how you feel?" To which I flatly replied, "Yes, and it is unrequited."
How you offered, "If you were told this isn't your TF, would your feelings towards them change?"
That hit it so real! So glad you put that out there. Allow feeling, Loving without need, huge.
Meantime, I actually like that we aren't all in each other's phones constantly. Lately, I like how he leaves me alone, actually.
This helps so much Marla, thank you! Once again, perfect timing! I'm immersed in the Ho'oponopono,,,it is so powerful!
Excellent!
TY, this explains a lot about the journey.
Just allowing the love to be there. Thank you Marla, this unrequited love at the moment when i thought we were going closer into union and i got to know he went into a new relationship and maybe is getting married -devastated me. This video is helping me to find the next step. I d like to work with you some day.
I'm glad it's helping.
Thanks Marla, this is so relevant and helpful. Having strongly felt the ego vs. soul question, I’ve been feeling unconditional love without expectations; however, this video helped free me from the nagging little ego voice that negated myself.
Simply LOVE. first to self. Then twin and others! ❤
Thank you Marla🙏 and the reminder, how far I’ve actually come on this journey. Sometimes I really don’t give myself enough credit💗
I met my twin in 2009 when I inherited my aunts house which is 3 doors down from his, ( I call that divine intervention !). He has had a gf since 2019 & Valentine's Day has been a big trigger in the past. Last year on feb 15th he fell on the ice, shattered his ankle which required 6 months to heal. Although we were in minimal communication, this past summer he made it a point to tell me what day he fell. Now I just look at it this way.. if our DM's were able to be with us this Valentine's day they would be. This is a day to smile at others, spread your love, especially to yourself & eat some healthy dark chocolate!
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Thank you, Marla! Had to listen to this incredible message a few times, before commenting. Such wisdom, which spoke to my heart and soul, as I'm smack in middle of this scenario you are speaking of with my TF. I've come to realize and have to keep reminding myself; that most of the time, my thoughts and what I project about certain situations with my TF, are worse than the situation itself, haha! However, at the end of the day, I'm aware that fear is an illusion. My inner personal connection with God has always kept me centered from within with peace, love and joy, as to never give up on what I wholeheartedly believe to be a soul connection. I also remind myself, which is very important to me, so that I remain open to Source being the pilot of my life as I reiterate it continually; thy will be done, not my will, and I let go and let God! Many Blessings...I appreciate you!🥰
Very beautifully said!
What you say makes so much sense. I needed to hear this message after the way I’ve been feeling these past couple of weeks. So I’m glad and grateful this message came through to me via someone’s IG stories.
Thank you. And I will certainly take on board what you have said.
Wonderful advice thank you Marla - I will listen to this a few times - it absolutely reflects and speaks to my soul & almost 40yr journey with my TF x
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you so very much for this wonderful video. I so appreciate it - and your most insightful msg. It's very relatable!!
Glad it was helpful!
thank you! very comprehensive!
What a beautiful message Marla❤ what I understand for myself that I have healed a lot and developed spiritual. I am feeling beyond all this facets you are talking about and in complete peace with whatever will happen or will not happen 😇🙏 Thank you ❤
You have arrived at the same place I am in now. Thank God, literally. It was worth the sufferings, though it does not feel that way at the time. Phew.
I needed to hear this! Thank you!
Great explanation I still associate part of this journey with my limerance and CPTSD but that’s the trigger this journey is designed for 😅
Since I’ve surrendered to the love for my TF, I honestly couldn’t be with another person and feel like I’m in my integrity with them. It would be incredibly fake and I’d feel icky af. I could’ve tried in the past, but not now anymore that I’ve surrendered to the truth.
I’ve tried to shut out this connection in the past, and every time I did, my energy got so blocked. I tried doing readings for people and they were absolute sh*t because my connection to God was blocked. My DM asked me a few weeks back (we hardly ever talk so this was a rare occurrence), “But what if I never come around?” Because he is also fully aware that this connection is here to stay, and he’s also getting loads of signs about me, but since he’s married, he feels stuck. But I just said that I just have to continue down my path and trust it will all work out how it’s meant to, however that looks. I will continue to pray for his and his wife’s healing, because that’s what I’m being called to do.
I sound so ridiculously delusional to others 🤣 but there are thankfully a handful of people I can talk to about this connection. But I do know they are the only people I can talk to.
One of these friends was with me at an Ayahuasca ceremony this past summer, and that experience validated everything with my twin. I didn’t go for him, I went for me and guidance for my own path, but my higher self, angels, and guides, led me through a journey and showed me so much about the connection with my twin. There’s no escaping it. The friend who was with me now believes me and finally sees that I’m not this poor little girl with an obsession over a boy. It’s truly divine and its foundation is unconditional love.
Thanks for sharing your perspective! 💗
Thank you so much for sharing 💛💛🌈🌈🦄🦄
I so very grateful I found this video today. It's helping so much. This experience is actually crazy painful at times. In a two/three months I'll have the exact Chiron return in my 8H... currently transiting Chiron is conjunt my natal Sun and Venus in 7H. Many days i wonder if I can actually survive all of this. Other days (fewer) I'm in bliss. Before seeing this video I was planning to just curl up in my bed and hope to find the strength to holding on for another day, another hour...minute. I might actually go for a walk instead thanks to your beautiful perspective that reassured me so much... I hope I can find the means to talk directly to you in the near future 🙏🌟💕
I"m so glad it helped. Please don't give up. It gets better.
@@Twinstrology thank you! I actually managed to release some of the pain during the day and I'm now feeling more serene. I listened to another couple of your videos. I'm so glad I found your channel!
She ran to another for 9 months about 6 years ago. That’s when I first became aware that I was a thinner. Then reunification for several years till recently, another man again. But this time I drew the line. Now I am the runner. During both separations lots of metaphysical activity, omens and coincidences. High strangeness. Both events have leveled me up spiritually. What a freaking journey. Who signs up for this?
I think I would like to come back and listen to this video again and again.
What Marla said is so true, it's really hard for people to relate to unconditional love, even the person who receive that kind of love would feel suspicious about our motive hahaha ....
Thanks Marla, this is very helpful!
Thanks again for the timely information and helpful message and wisdom, Marla.
Namaste 🙏❤️🎶 🕊 💎 🌈 🌟 🔱
Thank you Marla! Much Love! 💜💚🤗💕
Thank you so much Marla!! I really needed to hear this today and it helped me a lot❤️❤️🙏🏼
I can't complain about him not acknowledging his Love for me. He has told me many times he will Love me forever. He has also already told me he knows we're Spiritually connected. After all that, he still ghosts & gives silent treatment. I guess there will always be Healing needed for us. I seriously would Love to sell my house and move away atm. Start fresh somewhere near the beach ⛱️ 😎 💕
I went through the anger phase and I do feel it’s part of the grieving process
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh Marla! Your opening remarks! 😉 ... You can cut cords with your twin? I do cord cutting, a general one. I didn't know it was possible to cut cords with your twin. ... I think this is the first time I've heard you speak of your twin! Do you have videos or blogs about your own journey? ... There's no doubt that all the inner child work I have done over the decades is why he and I are still connected, healthily. ... Fully dropping that rope! ... Thank you for answering so many of my questions! I have some awesome clearing practices!
I know you can’t cut cords with your twin but people still try especially when they feel hopeless.
I have try it, and it didn’t work for me. We are bond for a reason and only for that same reason be it learning lessons or whatever is for you specially, we can’t unbind.
I’m 2 weeks “late”, but definitely timely, this video. Confirmation i need the 3 of swords tattooed on my body… 😢 ⚔️ 🗡️ ❤️ 💜 💔
Valentine’s Day is my twin’s birthday. I was led to buy him 15 shirts, 4 hats and 3 custom notebooks 🫶🏾
Almost every point is so resonant and validating of my experience, thank you Marla! 💛💛🦄🦄🌈🌈🌻🌻
Thank you Marla, this a piece of puzzle i was missing. I have been pondering about this before and i felt so good when i just loved and as you said much easier to manifest, but at the same time felt like such a fool because of 3D programing/expectations and droped into negativ energy instead. This was such a relief for me and I feel free again. Big hug to you ❤️🤗
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Amazing video 🙌🏻
Absolutely amazing advise...thank you💞🙏
So glad!
Just ask the divine, it’s simple . You just have to be careful and make sure your intuition is speaking and not ego
Right on point, Marla! Thank yoU!
This is really helpful
@twinstrology Mya Angelou said it best in this video about how love liberates and not binds. How the truest love is meant to be set free. And this was such a game changer for my twin and me. I used to wonder why we were so close to coming together, but then it never happened. Until this video ua-cam.com/video/cbecKv2xR14/v-deo.html. Now I understand. There is also a celine dion song that is called I know what love is. In that song, there are a few lines that say, "it is an unspoken thing. A quiet opening. There are no words that go that deep." And there aren't. Learning to love in a liberating way actually helps bring the connection much closer. And some times this means no physical contact for some time. Trust your journey. They will keep proving to you that they are always there. It may not look like you think or want, but it is there.
I think I healed the Valentines Day trigger because I have always been single for the day for years and now it’s been just another day. Aka as Taco 🌮 Tuesday. Yeah.. I don’t talk about my twin flame 🔥 to another unless I know for a fact they are fully on my level.. and even the ones who know about Twin Flames 🔥 still think I can actually have a causal romantic connection with someone else. 😂🤣😂😜🤣. So many people coming in wondering why I never married, even my parents think I am pipe dreaming that love ❤️ will work for me.
It's like it's a crime to be single! ;)
I can so relate. People wonder how we can remain unattached. It's not for us to explain except to perhaps a very few
Today was Ryan's wedding I was so happy for him it was beautiful he said he would not be in this position if it was not for me. His new wife is beautiful but did not stay for the reception as did not know anyone and I was all alone and felt very sick. Also because so much time has gone I have done everything you told me but there is never any result and I am getting older day by day.
Thank you, Marla!
Thank you
I hate him today; so thank you for this. He has been married for a year now. I’m not ready to forgive him for that.
Thank you Marla ❤
Thank you for this. I have realized lately that the TF journey turns all the "rules" of relationships on its ear. You can't just look up dating videos and apply "normal" to this!
I am experiencing all the wounds- big wounds- that are between me and my twin with a soulmate, but way more dramatic. It hurts. It's confusing. I thought healing would be more pleasant. It seems the more I work, the more I uncover to work on.
Hi Marla is it possible to cut the cords of a TF?
No but people still try. I was referring to trying to. If you try you’ll be in pain.
The worst pain too! 🤣
@@Twinstrology thank you so much. I appreciate you!
No how can you cut cords with your own soul self?
On the contrary to what other people’s experiences showed me my DM (TF) is such a pure lovely person, i guess most of mischief is on my side! 😅 i wanna kiss her and tell her how much i love her one day.
And there were rays of a Sun
Shining from his face.
His face, alone, seeing me only
Had it's own beaming streams
Of Life, like a human star.
Rays of his own particular light.
How to receive star light?
How to keep it?
My child, said a Father God, It is not for keeping.
Beautiful!
Did you write this?
@@Twinstrology Yes, I have 8 years of such "poems" on this subject.
Do we just go on accepting letting someone hurt us?
What’s the difference between soul mates and twin flames?
Twin flames share the same frequency and energy field, to some they share the same soul. They were created together in other words.
@@Twinstrology Thanks, Marla. I meant to comment on one of the videos since December that I did a meditation and my heart completely exploded about my twin and a lot of the piled up resentment just melted away. Something big is definitely happening energetically around twin flames. Maybe not all of the resentment is completely gone, but that was huge. Also, I think I'm starting to have more epiphanies seeing exactly how my blocks have been his blocks and his blocks have been my blocks. For example, I just realized that I've been feeling very neglected by him because that mirrors a dynamic from my childhood, but the reason why he is showing up for me that way is because of his own resentment towards the way he was neglected growing up. However, before you see it so clearly like this, you just think that you're being neglected because you somehow must deserve to be treated that way. When really, it's both of your blocks somehow just mirroring each other. Lifting the veil in this instance has been really cool and freeing. Thank you so much for supporting us all on this journey 💘
@@laurabolukbasi8197 Yes, when you can see those things you know you have really shifted!
Hi again Marla , curious question, the unconditional love that you experience with your twin…. It is sacred and unlike anything else I have ever experienced. I wouldn’t change anything that has transpired up to this point. But as time goes by with no 3-d contact how do you continue to cultivate those feelings within yourself and the world around you? I find often times my connection to my twin “just is” i which s great but if the purpose is unconditional love how do you tap into it and transmit it to yourself and the world? Thank you 💛💛🌈🌈🦋🦋🦄🦄
I think the love being cultivated for self and others is a natural process. Your heart doesn't stop growing at your twin. Lessons like forgiveness, compassion, patience and being able to walk in another persons shoes become a way of life. It's who we are. Not having 3D contact forces you to grow in multiple directions not just toward your twin and that is a blessing. If you don't feel like this is natural for you right now, that's ok! It will come. I hope that answers your question?
@@Twinstrology thank you Marla yes I do feel it at times just not to the degree I have felt it or feel it when I tap into it with my twin. Thank you 💛💛
@@maryanodden1830 I'm sure it will grow over the next 6 months.
So I've let go. Forgiven. Sent him my love and prayers to find his path. Now what? Is it ok to let in another person should a soulmate cross our paths?!! 😬 This is where I'm confused! Am I supposed to just wait?? I've already done that for over a year! It's been in and out for over 3 1/2 years! I feel like God doesn't want that for me...🤷♀️
Hi Sara. The TF journey is not easy. Four years. My DM, when I told him about my unconditional love for him, thought that I was insane, delusional. So, I took it as unrequited love, and dove into deep searching, grieving etc. What really made difference in decreasing my feelings and intensity... Meditations/videos by Moojiji (finding the Real Self), materials around Radical Acceptance, GP Walsh vidios (Inner Reconciliation, Angels in the Basement etc), the amazing book COMPLEX PTSD by Pete Walker (highly recommend everyone in this journey), daily meditation/inquiry, health life-style, and most of all, grieving work. You got to understand that everyone that enters our lives have something to teach about ourselves. After reading Pete Walker book, that goes deep into defense system styles (fight, flight, freeze, flown) you will get that your DM activated ALL or many of of your core wounds, and the best way out is through a deep healing process of RECLAIMING YOUR REAL SELF. I have high suspicious that TF journey happens because it is the fast way towards healing and self-realization. Union, God knows if will happen or not. But when you feel whole again, you definably will attract better matches towards you in every aspect of your life. So, the answer to all... get your healing process moving. Many blessings e always educate yourself... there are so many wonderful people out there. Marla is one of those.
I agree with Divine5353…when I met my DM I was not spiritual and did not even care or know about soulmates let alone anything deeper…I moved on quickly once the DM married someone else. I married within 2 years…I thought I had it all just to see it crumble to dust…very painful. When you do not heal, you attract toxic energies - be patient with yourself and learn how to love yourself first and foremost…and know, you are free to love whoever you want and let the twin live his life…
That's a really complicated question because there are many facets. First, I would ask do you really want to be with your twin? If a soulmate took you off your path at least temporarily and maybe delayed your union, would you be alright with that? Sometimes soulmates come in as karmic that we need to heal something with. If that happens you will know because you will feel inexplicable drawn to the connection. On the other hand, just settling for someone bc you don't want to be alone is just fear. The divine masculine can have trust issues and they maybe watching to see if the love you profess is real or out of side out of mind. Just like you'd be hurt if they were with another, they feel the same way even if they aren't showing it. So you see, each situation is different and needs to be looked at honestly to see what is the reason for the other person at the core. I may use your question in an upcoming Q&A video.
God knows we are never alone.
I was thinking about whether I should move on too but all I could think of was how I wouldn’t want to hurt that person because I knew the second my TF would be available that I would go running to him. This is why I just stay single.
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