Clare was full of BS. Won’t last with Dale. She was just disturbed that Dale didn’t step up. She cared less that the others Riley or whoever didn’t fight for her minutes.
“I like this conversation with Bennet but my ego is taking over and I’m going to be rude and ditch someone that wanted to spend quality time with me to lecture the group for not fighting over me because I signed up for this show for attention”
yeah and also some people are shy about being the first person to initiate stuff... i know i would be, doesn't necessarily have to do with interest level
She’s the kind of person that needs reassurance. No matter how much she says she is confident and knows what she wants, she not. She expects everybody to drool over her when that’s not how it works.
@Love you can’t just fall in love when you meet someone, it takes time. You have to get to know each other and spend time together. That scene was when she made a big deal out of the men not jumping after here. Maybe some of the men weren’t falling in love and that’s okay. Maybe it was just a big misunderstanding, they were probably waiting for Clare to say something else.
@Love stop trying to find a man to fix your problems and insecurities and the empty void within you and your life. Itll never work. Theres your answer.
@Love I would say understand that no one is entitled to or is guaranteed love, marriage or a dating relationship. I would also say take a different approach. Try being selfless in finding out the other persons needs and wants and try to deliver on that. If that person is decent they would reciprocate. If they don’t reciprocate I would suggest you move on. You admit that you are insecure and entitled and that is a very good thing that you have an understanding of yourself and not in denial. As a guy I would rather be with a woman who knows her strengths and can admit to her weaknesses because that means she can grow in those weak areas. You have to find a guy that you can trust to be vulnerable in saying you have insecurities and sometimes entitled so they aren’t blindsided. A person who doesn’t see their weaknesses can be toxic you seem to have some self-awareness about yourself. From what I’ve seen of Claire I could not see her having any self-awareness.
@Love I understand you. I think you're saying you deserve love and seeing others validates that belief when others who aren't as loving or kind get to have others love them. I felt that scene too. That moment feels a type of way when rejection has been a theme and moments like that reinforce that theme and we're easier to pick up on it. I too want to be loved and desired, but the most important thing is to show love and boundaries and have healthy boundaries with yourself and others. Therapy is also a good thing for that. God bless and may love find you.
I just think she's too old. I mean shes 39 and looks it. She looks like my moms age and guys that good looking go for younger women from my experience.
I hear that they get the people drunk for purposes of creating drama. I think also she was expecting to get there and for everyone to be all over her, and she was quite upset that it did not work that way because she was really looking forward to it.
Exactly. She’s so worried about the way she’s being treated, that she treated Bennett like crap. He was the only one that stepped up and did exactly what she wanted
And now we know why Clare is single at 39. Because she's impossible. Relax and let people move at their own pace. Just because you are desperate to find "love" and are out of patience and want to demand that everyone grovel at your feet every 3 seconds and coddle you with attention doesn't mean the guys DON'T want love. They are polite and probably nervous, especially since you are blatantly all about Dale and practically rubbing it in everyone's face. It's only week 2.... not everyone is desperate and wanting to dive into the unknown with someone who is still largely unknown to them. If you try to force these things they will NEVER turn out well. Take a chill pill, hotpants. Take 2 actually.
Notice how when all the other guys were making excuses she wasn’t giving them a break but as soon as Dale apologized she’s all “I appreciate that.” 😂😂😂😂 And then she lets Dale take her away after several other guys tried seconds earlier. This is cracking me up!! I love how transparent she is.
@@bizwizconsultant I mean she said excuse me. She was pissed and couldn’t get it off her mind. I like that she stood up for herself though I think she was a little over the top. It is a weird situation with heightened emotions so I empathize with her. I probably wouldn’t have done that but I get it.
@@Whoeverheardof So why didn't she speak her mind which I agree was totally unnecessary, and then leave the guys and go back to Bennet, after she totally cut into his conversation to get off what was on her chest?? Bennet was still sitting there waiting for her to come back but instead she walked away with Dale...so disrespectful.
@@bizwizconsultant Exactly. Between this situation and sending home the guy that choked because all eyes were on him, Claire is the rudest, most selfish and genuinely cruel Bachelorette I've ever seen.
Like 3 of them offered to go off with her but she kept crying but as soon as dale stepped up she went with him. And totally left Bennett there too. I have a feeling this whole dramatic outburst was @ dale bc he didn’t step up and take her away lmao
I dont think it was right for him to call her crazy. That's basic gaslighting, even though I dont think he meant it that way. I think shes been in past abusive relationships and that line is used often.
Lol no. I think they weren't chasing her because the woman is a little too "mature" if you know what I mean. Old. She's too old. A 21 year old wouldn't be left alone for a second.
@@adriana77 She is very insecure. She stopped her conversation to ask the guys why they weren't fawning all over her and then sent Brandon home because he wanted to start fresh and had not researched her ahead of time. Kinda crazy behavior, definitely thirsty.
swoon? no thanks. Yall fall for that dumbass prince charming love bombing crap and wonder why none of your relationships work out. Nothing about him is genuine. Hes just playing the game. Its obvious. Dont be so naive and weak.
She acts as though she's in charge and I think most of the guys are somewhere between scared and defeated by her obvious interest in Dale. Meanwhile, notice that Dale didn't make a move to "go chat" either - he's smug.
@Savvi C Clare is an attractive woman who works and makes her own money, keeps her body in shape, looks younger than her 39 years, live in a city and area of California where there are tons of available professional men, and she's a dog lover to boot! Believe me, women that look like Clare have no problem attracting men yet she's never been married and now finds herself thirsty and desperate to find a husband. Chances are it's not the men she's been choosing, it's her!
a woman standing up for herself? thats wrong? its unbelievable that people actually had the audacity to agree to saying shes crazy? for standing UP for HERSELF?
@@michaelamurphy7742 Give me a break! She can’t be standing up for herself if she’s not being mistreated in the first place. The dudes did nothing wrong.
@@michaelamurphy7742 I agree you should stick up for yourself when you are being mistreated in some way. Let's be clear. She was upset because they were not fawning all over her. She was upset, actually VERY upset, because she wanted more attention than they were giving her. Yeah, that's a bit nutty. Well-balanced people don't do that.
@@michaelamurphy7742 standing up for herself? what did they even do to her? they were probably nervous or awkward because she cant interact properly or they jst plain dont like her very much
They never said that they wanted to hang out together. Bennet who seemed to have stayed behind by himself said they like hanging out together. Which I think think she misinterpreted that. I guess that she was just upset because all the other bachelorettes were stolen left and right and here she was sitting waiting to be whisked away. I bet that she expected Dale to steal her first. I really think that the guys were feeling out of sorts which is understandable for the time we are living in because of this pandemic and having to be in quarantine.
When he first pulled up in that Rolls I thought to myself oh my god what a pompous show off. But now with his face masks, his cute smile and his business shirt with shorts, I think he’s adorable and sweet.
*I think shes a nutcase. I wish whoever gets with her good luck!! As its gonna be rough. She just left the ONE guy in there who did EXACTLY what she wanted!?! 🤦♂️*
@@milwaukeemotor5995 The one guy who did EXACTLY what she asked.. SHE LEFT IN THE DUST THERE & Totally Ignored.. She went back out to the group of guys she was "So mad & upset at" Think about that.. If not a nutcase then a pure LIAR who deceives.
At the very least shes a sneaky deceptive liar pulling that little stunt. Guy treated her exactly how she wanted and look what happened to him. She leaves him in the dust to go date the guy who did what she was Sooo Mad & upset at!!
I think they all wanted to be polite and not interrupt each other cuz it always causes drama. She is getting upset and it’s valid but i think she needs to consider how the guys feel during that time too. They obviously want to be with but this group maybe not be good at showing it.
You know, there is a fine line of “stepping up to the plate” and “coming on too strong”. She was just upset that the one guy she had the obvious “hots” for the most didn’t step up to the plate first. I would have walked out after the words “
I definitely think it was just a case of the guys not knowing it was their cue to ask for one-on-one time with her. I think Claire misinterpreted things and shouldn't have taken it as personally, but I still like watching her and think she has an honest heart!
I agree....they looked awkward and unsure what they were supposed to do. Reminds me of the little boys at the dance standing against the wall afraid to approach a girl. She has to also remember that these just came out of quarantine and trying to get back into some kind of normal and probably out of practice.
I would wonder what was going on too. All these seasons and I have never seen the guys (or the girls) sit there like they had no idea what was going on not trying to spend time with the Bachelor/Bachelorette. Not saying she handled it right, but good grief what a group of deadheads!
the dude who said: you're crazy to think we're not here for you... why did he have to usr the word crazy, that would rub me the wrong way. like its the second week or so and she's already the crazy one lol
I'm confused why she sent that one guy home randomly, because he didn't know her from watching her like the other guys did, I think he was really nervous and shy and I feel bad for him, I know she knows what she wants but I feel like she bashed him and said he had no substance, also never gave him a chance
Unpopular opinion: I actually don’t see anything wrong in her sending him home. He said that he had to be there knowing that she was the bachelorette but couldn’t find anything he liked about her? That’s kinda weird
she was right to send him home. What he said seemed like a line to me, and she probably picked up on that. I mean she's 39. She's probably been through lots of guys like that. He said he was super happy it was her and then he couldn't name one thing he liked about her. He either was really shallow or was just saying what he thought she would want to hear. Neither of which are good.
I disagree. It would be different if he owned up to not knowing much about her but said he wanted to get to know her more. Instead, he said when he found out she was the bachelorette, he "just knew he had to sign up", which made him come off as disingenuine after she found out he really knew nothing about her. I'm sure he's not a bad guy, but Claire is allowed to send guys home if she feels like other men are making stronger connections with her.
Marietou Sangare I agree! Not a bad guy, but when she’s already got so many men to choose from that set the bar a little higher, I would’ve sent him home too.
I think Dale was trying to be respectful to the other guys by giving them a chance to talk to her first since he got the first impression rose and has the strongest connection already. It’s a much better look than being that one eager suitor who’s always desperate to talk to the lead first.
imagine coming home from a rough day of work then having to wake up to this train wreck every morning. all the dudes are just here for some clout and more IG followers
I mean it IS kind of awkward... but this is too much drama for questioning why u guys were just hanging around but not all over me.....She is 39 but sounds like a early 20s woman, kind of immature...
Eughhh....she's so insecure and entitled at the same time. It's the first group date and they were obviously nervous and she comes off scary and unapproachable.
Imagine liking a guy and you’re talking to him, midway conversation he stops you to ask about other girls in the house. smh! I feel so bad for Bennett.
They didn’t stand up cuz they all know she’s not the real bachelorette, she just wants clout, she’s delaying Tayshia’s journey and we have to wait twice as long for Matt James
It was very awkward. She needs someone who's very strong, someone who won't be intimidated by her, or, someone who lets her take the lead. I would feel weird if no one asked me to go talk and I had to ask them, but I guess she's the lead and they wanted to be respectful and allow her to take the lead? I don't know.
True. A clearly strong woman who needs a self assured man. When Dale spoke, he didn't project anything on her. He reflected on his own behaviour in a group then, in essence said I was wrong, let's move on from this. I can see why she's into him.
She’s lowkey entitled and another thing once this next episode comes out I’m guessing it will be the last time we see Claire and then tayshia will come it’s either that or the next episode after that
@@Natori0131 same! Idk how they'll do it but I'm assuming she'll get the guys that Clare left. No way they'll put a whole other group of guys through quarantine.
Im pretty indifferent to Dale but the little Office moment he had when he looked into the camera after Yosef said “youre crazy” was mad funny to me @ 4:15
Very happy that she is ending this season soon because it is too much for me to watch the entire season acting the way she is. Good luck to the guy she end up with!!!
Clare only sees Dale and no one else, so of course everyone is going to be checked out. Men could be just as intuitive as women are, and I'm sure they can tell that her mind is somewhere else. Plus, this show is happening in the middle of the pandemic. Everyone in the room is just happy to see other people. She really needs to be more rationale.
i can't wait for clare's part to be over lmao. that was so uncalled for, they were just being polite and making sure they didn't step on someone's toes or something. how many times is she gonna say "i'm a woman." Anyway, where is tayshia?
It seems like the expectation that the guys step up like that was a case of miscommunication/ misinterpretation. Watching that unfold, I was completely taken aback as it didn't seem like the guys were expecting to take the lead. I think they were waiting on their cue from her. IDK why she didn't just lightheartedly say something along the lines of, "okay so who wants to come chat with me first?" She could've and should've been a bit more playful with it and given them the opportunity to take the bait. Whereas they were just sitting around casually and then out of the blue expected to clamour after her. Totally case of mixed cues. I will say this though... I think it was also the case of her wanting the one and only Dale to be vying for her and also of her wanting Dale to see that the other men were interested in her as well. As a woman, I think it's nice to have men kind of chasing after you. Yes, it's an ego boost but I can't deny that it feels good and I think it also ups the ante and makes the guy that gets you in the end feel like he won the prize. It's all very primitive in many ways, LOL! Also her being older, I think that even if she isn't flat out saying it, there is a certain level of insecurity that comes along with that. It's not the norm that younger guys are going to be super interested in an older woman and especially an older woman who is nearing 40 and that's not always for superficial reasons but for things like starting a family etc. While it's perfectly possible for women to have children in their 40s, it also means that if you get with a woman in that age range, you kind of have to get on the baby making right away if that's the goal.
Yosef is right. Clare just does not realise that the men are there for her AND that she is there for them too. She is the lead and has the responsibility to make them comfortable to approach her. Fast forward look how Tysha handled the men. How she listened and respected them. She was there for the men and they for her.
I think they were just nervous and confused as to what she wanted. Usually the guys are fighting like crazy for time and it’s just nice to sit for a second and speak to everyone about how the date went. I don’t think they meant it the way she took it. I did feel bad for her and I’m sure it was awkward and weird but she was really rude about it. Idk I don’t like her vibes at all.
Why do I feel like all the first group dates are awkward and usually edited out but they left it bc Clare called it out. Love her skipping everyone and going to Dale tho- its so funny
Usually there's a toast or something, I think that awkward silence was when 'someone makes a toast. So when she asked if anyone wants to talk to her, the closest person to her did it. It was just a huge misunderstanding that was hugely exaggerated
And there goes a man (Dale),"i am sorry you feel that way, but I am not going to let you stress more, let me rescue the guys and do the right thing, take her away from stress" this is all about confidently falling in love. I pray they end up together, to eternity.
I mean say what u wanna say about her but at least she doesn’t say “like” after every word like a lot of previous bachelorettes/girls who went on the bachelor! she’s really well spoken.
That fact that she left the ONLY dude that stepped up is just heartbroken 😔
That broke my heart oh my gosh!!! She just left him chillin back there
So why even step upto her....?
@@kevintoth5365 because he obviously like her
@@hannahbanana5950 stepped up and dumped. So why bother? I think she was waiting for Dale only and he ignored her.
Clare was full of BS. Won’t last with Dale. She was just disturbed that Dale didn’t step up. She cared less that the others Riley or whoever didn’t fight for her minutes.
“I like this conversation with Bennet but my ego is taking over and I’m going to be rude and ditch someone that wanted to spend quality time with me to lecture the group for not fighting over me because I signed up for this show for attention”
Haha bang on 😆
Dale - words of affirmation 🤦🏻♀️
Clearly
She does not have a cell phone or wing girl to pull her away with an excuse to leave for a phony emergency.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Clare is that girl whose like "I don't like drama" but definitely lives for the drama
I don't think she wants drama, I just don't think she's fully healed from her past issues, which results in drama.
lives *on the drama
I’m telling you lol
Narcissistic…… i would have walked away there and then.
@@kelseyfrasier wanna take that back now? 😂
I think they were just being polite/nervous tbh
right... she's just expected them to be all over her like girl calm the heck down lmaoo
That’s exactly what they were being
yeah and also some people are shy about being the first person to initiate stuff... i know i would be, doesn't necessarily have to do with interest level
Exactly. They were just nervous. I'd imagine this being nerve wracking. Accusing them only made the situation worse.
Nervous to be around a lady uglier than any stripper I've ever seen??
Lol when she said nobody wanted to hangout but Bennett was there that clearly meant she's not into him
@@jyn88 Agreed.
Yeah obviously haha poor dale
@Akeno Chu Poor Dale????
@@sylvie3097 lol I meant Bennett 🤣🤣
I think its super rude that she cut her chat with Bennett short to go yell at them only to run off with Dale.
Because that’s who she really wanted to talk to 😂
@@thequeen3834 fr 😭😂 she so desperate
She’s the kind of person that needs reassurance. No matter how much she says she is confident and knows what she wants, she not. She expects everybody to drool over her when that’s not how it works.
She is NOT a "strong/independent" woman at all!!!
@Love you can’t just fall in love when you meet someone, it takes time. You have to get to know each other and spend time together. That scene was when she made a big deal out of the men not jumping after here. Maybe some of the men weren’t falling in love and that’s okay. Maybe it was just a big misunderstanding, they were probably waiting for Clare to say something else.
@Love stop trying to find a man to fix your problems and insecurities and the empty void within you and your life. Itll never work. Theres your answer.
@Love I would say understand that no one is entitled to or is guaranteed love, marriage or a dating relationship. I would also say take a different approach. Try being selfless in finding out the other persons needs and wants and try to deliver on that. If that person is decent they would reciprocate. If they don’t reciprocate I would suggest you move on. You admit that you are insecure and entitled and that is a very good thing that you have an understanding of yourself and not in denial. As a guy I would rather be with a woman who knows her strengths and can admit to her weaknesses because that means she can grow in those weak areas. You have to find a guy that you can trust to be vulnerable in saying you have insecurities and sometimes entitled so they aren’t blindsided. A person who doesn’t see their weaknesses can be toxic you seem to have some self-awareness about yourself. From what I’ve seen of Claire I could not see her having any self-awareness.
@Love I understand you. I think you're saying you deserve love and seeing others validates that belief when others who aren't as loving or kind get to have others love them. I felt that scene too. That moment feels a type of way when rejection has been a theme and moments like that reinforce that theme and we're easier to pick up on it. I too want to be loved and desired, but the most important thing is to show love and boundaries and have healthy boundaries with yourself and others. Therapy is also a good thing for that. God bless and may love find you.
Is it just me or does Bennet have kind of a Clark Kent thing going on?
Omg that's exactly what I was thinking about. He's so cute.
Absolutely
That's it!! I've been trying to figure out who he reminds me of! Thank you Ashley!
Bruh I said the same thing ! He dressed up as Superman for Halloween too lol
Yup
She seems so insecure for 39. Did she drink too much to get so emotional. These guys were just being polite and waiting for direction from you.
Clare don't drink
I bet it was egged on by the producers! They know she is a loose cannon to begin with!
I just think she's too old. I mean shes 39 and looks it. She looks like my moms age and guys that good looking go for younger women from my experience.
I hear that they get the people drunk for purposes of creating drama. I think also she was expecting to get there and for everyone to be all over her, and she was quite upset that it did not work that way because she was really looking forward to it.
@@lunayoureright I dont think that has anything to do with it but ok.
so she just left Bennet alone... lmaooo
😂I was just thinking that. It's so messed up.
😂😂😂
Embarrassing.
Exactly. She’s so worried about the way she’s being treated, that she treated Bennett like crap. He was the only one that stepped up and did exactly what she wanted
@@razm.3135 right smh...
And now we know why Clare is single at 39. Because she's impossible. Relax and let people move at their own pace. Just because you are desperate to find "love" and are out of patience and want to demand that everyone grovel at your feet every 3 seconds and coddle you with attention doesn't mean the guys DON'T want love. They are polite and probably nervous, especially since you are blatantly all about Dale and practically rubbing it in everyone's face. It's only week 2.... not everyone is desperate and wanting to dive into the unknown with someone who is still largely unknown to them. If you try to force these things they will NEVER turn out well. Take a chill pill, hotpants. Take 2 actually.
I agree. When u see ppl who are either still single in late 30s or divorced more than once, u can clearly see why they are still available.
Notice how when all the other guys were making excuses she wasn’t giving them a break but as soon as Dale apologized she’s all “I appreciate that.” 😂😂😂😂 And then she lets Dale take her away after several other guys tried seconds earlier. This is cracking me up!! I love how transparent she is.
And she was also rude and disrespectful to Bennett as left him there waiting for her while she took off with Dale.
@@bizwizconsultant I mean she said excuse me. She was pissed and couldn’t get it off her mind. I like that she stood up for herself though I think she was a little over the top. It is a weird situation with heightened emotions so I empathize with her. I probably wouldn’t have done that but I get it.
@@Whoeverheardof So why didn't she speak her mind which I agree was totally unnecessary, and then leave the guys and go back to Bennet, after she totally cut into his conversation to get off what was on her chest?? Bennet was still sitting there waiting for her to come back but instead she walked away with Dale...so disrespectful.
@@bizwizconsultant Exactly. Between this situation and sending home the guy that choked because all eyes were on him, Claire is the rudest, most selfish and genuinely cruel Bachelorette I've ever seen.
Like 3 of them offered to go off with her but she kept crying but as soon as dale stepped up she went with him. And totally left Bennett there too. I have a feeling this whole dramatic outburst was @ dale bc he didn’t step up and take her away lmao
Yesss😂😂😂😂
“No one wants to step up and talk to me”.... but I’m going to be rude and walk off from one guy who did 🙃🙃
Lmaooo right I think she specifically wanted Dale to take her. She would have made a big deal about it too “Dale was the only one who showed up”
I honestly think they were just being polite.
She basically got mad at them for listening to her, rather than cutting in
She just wanted Dale's attention...
Exactly what I was thinking! I think she pulled that just so she could talk to him!
ahahah i love this comment. so true
100%! She might deny this but you know it's true lol
Bingo!
Exactly
“You’re crazy..” is all she heard hahhahahaa
It seem like a trigger for her, like she has been called that many times 🤣
I dont think it was right for him to call her crazy. That's basic gaslighting, even though I dont think he meant it that way. I think shes been in past abusive relationships and that line is used often.
Every season people are way too aggressive stealing the lead. Maybe we have some mature men for once. 😧
Agreed
Lol no. I think they weren't chasing her because the woman is a little too "mature" if you know what I mean.
Old. She's too old. A 21 year old wouldn't be left alone for a second.
Or maybe because they don't actually want her because they know she's crazy.
Clare IS drama but everything Dale said and did, swoon.
I get the vibe that she's been thru tons of therapy yet still has major baggage.
@@adriana77 She is very insecure. She stopped her conversation to ask the guys why they weren't fawning all over her and then sent Brandon home because he wanted to start fresh and had not researched her ahead of time. Kinda crazy behavior, definitely thirsty.
swoon? no thanks. Yall fall for that dumbass prince charming love bombing crap and wonder why none of your relationships work out. Nothing about him is genuine. Hes just playing the game. Its obvious. Dont be so naive and weak.
She acts as though she's in charge and I think most of the guys are somewhere between scared and defeated by her obvious interest in Dale. Meanwhile, notice that Dale didn't make a move to "go chat" either - he's smug.
I think he was trying to be polite to the other guys since he already got the 1st impression rose.
She is 39 but acting like a 20yr old
Arrested development, and the reason why at 39 she's still looking for a husband.😳🤔
@Savvi C Clare is an attractive woman who works and makes her own money, keeps her body in shape, looks younger than her 39 years, live in a city and area of California where there are tons of available professional men, and she's a dog lover to boot! Believe me, women that look like Clare have no problem attracting men yet she's never been married and now finds herself thirsty and desperate to find a husband. Chances are it's not the men she's been choosing, it's her!
@Savvi C Exactly 💯
More like 15 😬
Its cringey. Age means nothing
She is acting crazy...... The guys just weren't sure what they were supposed to do. Drama queen
wrong again
a woman standing up for herself? thats wrong? its unbelievable that people actually had the audacity to agree to saying shes crazy? for standing UP for HERSELF?
@@michaelamurphy7742 Give me a break! She can’t be standing up for herself if she’s not being mistreated in the first place. The dudes did nothing wrong.
@@michaelamurphy7742 I agree you should stick up for yourself when you are being mistreated in some way. Let's be clear. She was upset because they were not fawning all over her. She was upset, actually VERY upset, because she wanted more attention than they were giving her. Yeah, that's a bit nutty. Well-balanced people don't do that.
@@michaelamurphy7742 standing up for herself? what did they even do to her? they were probably nervous or awkward because she cant interact properly or they jst plain dont like her very much
They never said that they wanted to hang out together. Bennet who seemed to have stayed behind by himself said they like hanging out together. Which I think think she misinterpreted that. I guess that she was just upset because all the other bachelorettes were stolen left and right and here she was sitting waiting to be whisked away. I bet that she expected Dale to steal her first. I really think that the guys were feeling out of sorts which is understandable for the time we are living in because of this pandemic and having to be in quarantine.
Taiyasia comes soon
her ego is showing lol
So is urs
*Ooh she admit something made her feel hurt what a narcissist*
Aw shucks a Human has flaws
A fragile ego for that matter.
javi001mia damn trueeee
Poor Bennet. I’ll take him
DWL
I know right his looks gives off that Clarke Kent vibe
That boy is gorgeous.
When he first pulled up in that Rolls I thought to myself oh my god what a pompous show off. But now with his face masks, his cute smile and his business shirt with shorts, I think he’s adorable and sweet.
Absolutely
mans were just vibing without her lmao
If I was one of the guys I'd be thinking "is this how she's gonna be in a relationship?"
Yep. Already you can tell that she wants a man to read her mind and give her constant attention.
Brooooo😂😂😂😂😂😂
This felt like she scolded them like a teacher
Lol so she just left Bennett there and went off with dale? Poor bennett is probs wondering where she is!!
*I think shes a nutcase. I wish whoever gets with her good luck!! As its gonna be rough. She just left the ONE guy in there who did EXACTLY what she wanted!?! 🤦♂️*
Crazy. Nut case. Then the violent guy getting mad because he said "WE" Speaking for him.
She's Definitely overdramatic and too emotional. I'm just ready to get on to the next bachelorette there is no adventure left in her short season
i wouldn't call her a nutcase, that's extreme
@@milwaukeemotor5995 The one guy who did EXACTLY what she asked.. SHE LEFT IN THE DUST THERE & Totally Ignored.. She went back out to the group of guys she was "So mad & upset at" Think about that.. If not a nutcase then a pure LIAR who deceives.
At the very least shes a sneaky deceptive liar pulling that little stunt. Guy treated her exactly how she wanted and look what happened to him. She leaves him in the dust to go date the guy who did what she was Sooo Mad & upset at!!
I think they all wanted to be polite and not interrupt each other cuz it always causes drama. She is getting upset and it’s valid but i think she needs to consider how the guys feel during that time too. They obviously want to be with but this group maybe not be good at showing it.
Jeez, they were nervous. They were being polite and letting you talk.
So Benette was just there? Sitting alone?🤣
Hes hot
@@kellyramirez6252 i meant she just left him there and went with perfectly splendid dale🤣
Soooooo disrespectful
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Came back to watch Yosef's reaction. You can tell this is where he starts being anti-Clare. Lmao!!!!!
You know, there is a fine line of “stepping up to the plate” and “coming on too strong”. She was just upset that the one guy she had the obvious “hots” for the most didn’t step up to the plate first. I would have walked out after the words “
I would have walked out after her whole “taken aback” speech
Agreed
I think Clare misinterpreted.
I definitely think it was just a case of the guys not knowing it was their cue to ask for one-on-one time with her. I think Claire misinterpreted things and shouldn't have taken it as personally, but I still like watching her and think she has an honest heart!
I agree....they looked awkward and unsure what they were supposed to do. Reminds me of the little boys at the dance standing against the wall afraid to approach a girl. She has to also remember that these just came out of quarantine and trying to get back into some kind of normal and probably out of practice.
I would wonder what was going on too. All these seasons and I have never seen the guys (or the girls) sit there like they had no idea what was going on not trying to spend time with the Bachelor/Bachelorette. Not saying she handled it right, but good grief what a group of deadheads!
Nah, all these guys dodged a bullet.
@@Trish0871 god forbid women act on equality and actually initiate.
the dude who said: you're crazy to think we're not here for you... why did he have to usr the word crazy, that would rub me the wrong way. like its the second week or so and she's already the crazy one lol
Nobody likes her.
I agree with the terminology, but she was acting a bit crazy. Who gets that upset because they are not getting attention?
I'm confused why she sent that one guy home randomly, because he didn't know her from watching her like the other guys did, I think he was really nervous and shy and I feel bad for him, I know she knows what she wants but I feel like she bashed him and said he had no substance, also never gave him a chance
Unpopular opinion: I actually don’t see anything wrong in her sending him home. He said that he had to be there knowing that she was the bachelorette but couldn’t find anything he liked about her? That’s kinda weird
she was right to send him home. What he said seemed like a line to me, and she probably picked up on that. I mean she's 39. She's probably been through lots of guys like that. He said he was super happy it was her and then he couldn't name one thing he liked about her. He either was really shallow or was just saying what he thought she would want to hear. Neither of which are good.
I disagree. It would be different if he owned up to not knowing much about her but said he wanted to get to know her more. Instead, he said when he found out she was the bachelorette, he "just knew he had to sign up", which made him come off as disingenuine after she found out he really knew nothing about her. I'm sure he's not a bad guy, but Claire is allowed to send guys home if she feels like other men are making stronger connections with her.
@@saraasmr5200 I don’t think he’s a bad guy either I just thought that it was kinda weird
Marietou Sangare I agree! Not a bad guy, but when she’s already got so many men to choose from that set the bar a little higher, I would’ve sent him home too.
Poor bennet
Honestly, he can do better.
She's way too dramatic and desperate.
I think Dale was trying to be respectful to the other guys by giving them a chance to talk to her first since he got the first impression rose and has the strongest connection already. It’s a much better look than being that one eager suitor who’s always desperate to talk to the lead first.
imagine coming home from a rough day of work then having to wake up to this train wreck every morning. all the dudes are just here for some clout and more IG followers
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To be fair I don’t blame them
Couldn't have said it better
Okay so I’m like over this season. I really tried to like Clare. But she’s soooooo annoying.
Hang in there. Tayshia should arrive soon.
@@jenniferhansen3622 Tayshia was awesome!
@@MaryTheresa1986 Yes, she was wonderful! It was so enjoyable to watch her fall in love!
@@MaryTheresa1986 Mary, Tayshia's the best 😁👍
There is a sense of insecurity on Clare’s thought process with what happened here
This season is CRINGE....I’m ready for queen Tayshia to save the season. 💕
Me too!!!
Thank goodness for Tayshia. What a season!
I mean it IS kind of awkward... but this is too much drama for questioning why u guys were just hanging around but not all over me.....She is 39 but sounds like a early 20s woman, kind of immature...
Yeah she's very immature.
Wow Rude, just left Bennett, how self-centered
Why is it so awkward
Same 😬
Because she's 39 and domineering.
All the guys can see her pursuing Dale
She is so insecure! And she only has eyes for one guy... This is so bad!
Eughhh....she's so insecure and entitled at the same time. It's the first group date and they were obviously nervous and she comes off scary and unapproachable.
She hasn't changed a bit since Juan Pablo's season. She was childish then and still childish now.
She is old hagg
Juan Pablo was an @ss!
@@mistyrain68ify But I can see why Juan Pablo chose Nikki over Clare because she's childish
Yosef face is like “yeah she is already a lot to handle” ! He knows what wife he wants and it’s not her at all
“Omg guys because I’m bachelorette, that means you guys MUST come to me. You must throw yourselves at me and make me feel like a true bachelorette”
Imagine liking a guy and you’re talking to him, midway conversation he stops you to ask about other girls in the house. smh! I feel so bad for Bennett.
*4:26** "Id love to go Stt- and Uh.. argue about it later.. ok?"* 🤣 😆 🤦♂️
They didn’t stand up cuz they all know she’s not the real bachelorette, she just wants clout, she’s delaying Tayshia’s journey and we have to wait twice as long for Matt James
Looool I can’t
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Aww that's mean
She’s exhausting 🤣
At the end of the day , looks like Juan Pablo saw the real Clare and was smart in not picking her 😬😬😬!
It was very awkward. She needs someone who's very strong, someone who won't be intimidated by her, or, someone who lets her take the lead. I would feel weird if no one asked me to go talk and I had to ask them, but I guess she's the lead and they wanted to be respectful and allow her to take the lead? I don't know.
True. A clearly strong woman who needs a self assured man. When Dale spoke, he didn't project anything on her. He reflected on his own behaviour in a group then, in essence said I was wrong, let's move on from this. I can see why she's into him.
She needs more therapy, alone.
I don't know. Two alpha dogs in a relationship seem tough...
Hahah as soon as he dropped the "crazy" word it all went down hill from there 😂😂
The guy called her crazy and Dale was pissed lol
She’s lowkey entitled and another thing once this next episode comes out I’m guessing it will be the last time we see Claire and then tayshia will come it’s either that or the next episode after that
That’s all I’m tryna see!
@@tamrahandy7992 Yass if we’re gonna be honest the only I was excited to watch this season was cause of tayshia
@@Natori0131 same! Idk how they'll do it but I'm assuming she'll get the guys that Clare left. No way they'll put a whole other group of guys through quarantine.
@@tamrahandy7992 I didn’t even think about it like that your so right
It's so obvious that her low self esteem was screaming for affirmation. Omg they didn't all jump out at once to talk to me! They must not like me!
Aww Bennett seems like a great guy. Felt bad for him
Im pretty indifferent to Dale but the little Office moment he had when he looked into the camera after Yosef said “youre crazy” was mad funny to me @ 4:15
Very happy that she is ending this season soon because it is too much for me to watch the entire season acting the way she is. Good luck to the guy she end up with!!!
I am having a blast and to think I wasn't going to watch this season am so glad I did it just began but I love it
Clare only sees Dale and no one else, so of course everyone is going to be checked out. Men could be just as intuitive as women are, and I'm sure they can tell that her mind is somewhere else. Plus, this show is happening in the middle of the pandemic. Everyone in the room is just happy to see other people. She really needs to be more rationale.
Ego hit her so hard and she couldnt handle it so well 🤣
Yousef sitting there like “I see through this BS, imma grill her on TV”
She’s so entitled, those guys need to run.
Legend says Bennett is still sitting there
She and Dale are both stoned out of their minds 😂
Poor Bennett! Where did he go? Did she ever come back?
Dale’s speech: like, like, like... like like
What’s up with the guy arguing over everything Yousef said???
“Perception is like painting a scenery - no matter how beautifully you paint, it will still be a painting of the scenery, not the scenery itself.”
i can't wait for clare's part to be over lmao. that was so uncalled for, they were just being polite and making sure they didn't step on someone's toes or something. how many times is she gonna say "i'm a woman." Anyway, where is tayshia?
"strong woman" so so so many times.
Who’s watching in between wheel commercials waiting for episode 2 to start? 😂😂😂😇🥰
It seems like the expectation that the guys step up like that was a case of miscommunication/ misinterpretation. Watching that unfold, I was completely taken aback as it didn't seem like the guys were expecting to take the lead. I think they were waiting on their cue from her. IDK why she didn't just lightheartedly say something along the lines of, "okay so who wants to come chat with me first?" She could've and should've been a bit more playful with it and given them the opportunity to take the bait. Whereas they were just sitting around casually and then out of the blue expected to clamour after her. Totally case of mixed cues.
I will say this though... I think it was also the case of her wanting the one and only Dale to be vying for her and also of her wanting Dale to see that the other men were interested in her as well. As a woman, I think it's nice to have men kind of chasing after you. Yes, it's an ego boost but I can't deny that it feels good and I think it also ups the ante and makes the guy that gets you in the end feel like he won the prize. It's all very primitive in many ways, LOL!
Also her being older, I think that even if she isn't flat out saying it, there is a certain level of insecurity that comes along with that. It's not the norm that younger guys are going to be super interested in an older woman and especially an older woman who is nearing 40 and that's not always for superficial reasons but for things like starting a family etc. While it's perfectly possible for women to have children in their 40s, it also means that if you get with a woman in that age range, you kind of have to get on the baby making right away if that's the goal.
Yosef is right. Clare just does not realise that the men are there for her AND that she is there for them too. She is the lead and has the responsibility to make them comfortable to approach her.
Fast forward look how Tysha handled the men. How she listened and respected them. She was there for the men and they for her.
Dysfunction on a whole other level 😂😂 nothing about that situation or show is at all normal
I think they were just nervous and confused as to what she wanted.
Usually the guys are fighting like crazy for time and it’s just nice to sit for a second and speak to everyone about how the date went.
I don’t think they meant it the way she took it.
I did feel bad for her and I’m sure it was awkward and weird but she was really rude about it.
Idk I don’t like her vibes at all.
Maybe they were tired of chasing her, when she only allows Dale to catch her.
Why do I feel like all the first group dates are awkward and usually edited out but they left it bc Clare called it out. Love her skipping everyone and going to Dale tho- its so funny
They were just trying to be polite. Clare is a drama Queen LOL
No guy is going to want to approach her after she’s done this Hahahah it’s just scary
Usually there's a toast or something, I think that awkward silence was when 'someone makes a toast. So when she asked if anyone wants to talk to her, the closest person to her did it. It was just a huge misunderstanding that was hugely exaggerated
Is the silence edited in? Please someone say yes
You could tell they took out the audio for some parts but it was probably still pretty awkward live.
And there goes a man (Dale),"i am sorry you feel that way, but I am not going to let you stress more, let me rescue the guys and do the right thing, take her away from stress" this is all about confidently falling in love. I pray they end up together, to eternity.
They knew exactly what they were doing in getting her to be the bachelorette. She is 100% made for tv drama! 🥴🤪
Is she a teacher are they students.. this is kinda nuts
I know right she just seems like a thirsty teacher and the roses being gold stars for how well they did
@@priscillaarellano562 hahah
I love how clare went off bc it was very weird
4:15 oh no he said the forbidden C word
I laughed so hard😂😂 everything was going wrong!!
They all seem really nervous apart from Yosef who's just sitting back chilling haha
I mean say what u wanna say about her but at least she doesn’t say “like” after every word like a lot of previous bachelorettes/girls who went on the bachelor! she’s really well spoken.
She obviously didn’t want him talking to her and it showed once he pulled her aside.
This was the most awkward thing! 😂🤣