Most popular foreign men in Japan: Are YOU one of them?
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- Опубліковано 19 лют 2019
- Some foreign men are very popular in Japan. Are you one of them? Japanese girls and boys will confess what type of foreign man they like, their looks, their characteristics and what will make them better than Japanese men.
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"Italian men seem to care for their girlfriends a lot." Which is true, but their wives generally don't approve of it.
i see what you did there lolz
LOL Funny man
That's amore!
lmfao
This backwards in the US particularly in California and near portland.
Uhh.. The last pair of girls like Italians, but want their date to be on time. Something tells me they've never met any real Italians.
and not hairy
thats why you have to lay down the line with a little tough love
Aside from commonplaces (which thrive in the comments), Northern and Southern Italians are about as different as Germans and Spanish, for many a number of cultural, sociological and historic reasons.
@@andy5178 I feel every region is different. But that's the same in Japan
Southern Italians/=/being on time. But the train said it would he here at 12 PM. 🤷🏻♂️🇮🇹
the girl in the white said she likes italian guys, but hates body hair.... lol
well, only the south italians have body hair
@@TerumiFakeman i'm going to cry
Facts tho lmao, how the hell do you expect and italian to not have body hair like what???? lmao
@@Frankmonster most of my friends have little body hair. Hairy people started to die alone and childless even here
@@paulmclean6503 Hair will definitely make you look bad if you're ugly and fat. But have you ever seen a muscly man with body hair and a handsome face? The hair is a god damn plus!
City people are all the same. I'm waiting for an interview in the countryside where they say "A good man can split wood, wrestle a bear, and keep you warm."
Hopefully the keep you warm part doesn't involve putting you inside the wrestled bear.
@@briancarter1597I'm not sure how that's a bad thing.
@@zoomzabba452 It is if you're the bear.
@@briancarter1597 I'm not here to pass judgment
@@elzaforte The mountains are where my spirit soars. Living in the fertile valley, as I do now, leads to complacency.
There’s a disease that’s specific to Japanese people called Paris Syndrome in which Japanese experience an extreme case of culture shock when visiting Paris for the first time and seeing that it doesn’t live up to their romanticized perception.
A few decades ago , Paris would have been much closer to their expectations when compared to today.
No, it wouldn't, you just weren't alive a few decades ago.
i dun think that's a disease, it's just dem being naive lol
There's the America Syndrome too.
@Freak159753 it was a shit. Before than it just shittier now
Sounds like they all think of Johnathan Joestar
As they should
Sean Folk laughing out loud rn
LMAOOOOO
Omg😂😂😂
Naniii?!!
'They should be tall. Five foot seven'.
ROFL
*im five foot 8, time to go to japan*
Bro I once got rejected by a girl cause she said I’m short ( I’m 5’10) I guess like the guy on the top comment said it’s time to move to Japan if 5’7 is tall lol
@@pablosanchez5294 We should start rejecting women that are fat. Let's see how our politicaly correct society reacts to that.
I'm 5'9, gonna join their basketball team.
5'3" rip
The last girls - Want Italians... who are on time.. with no beard... and no body hair. WUT? haha
Lol, we aren't as hairy as you may think, only a small percentage from southern Italy that has Arabic blood in them are as hairy as you think. In northern Italy we barely have hair.
@@dolos9978 haha lol😂
@@dolos9978 Well, the thing is, when they refer to "italian", they are probably thinking of the Southern men. Dark skin and hair, deep eyes and with that "gentleman" vibe and elegant style
@@dolos9978 you might think most Italians are not as hairy for an European perspective, but "not hairy" for a Japanese perspective is probably very different. Some Asian and native American men don't have beards and chest hair naturally, so not being hairy for them must be something like that.
@Mosco monster I know that Asian men often have little to no body hair, but the one I replied to implied somehow that italian men have more body hair than any other ethnicities in Europe. That is true only if one considers those men with Arabic descent that come from southern Italy, to be the majority in Italy... but that is absolutely not the case.
身長は高くなくていい does not mean tall is great. It’s actually opposite. He said “it’s okay if he’s not tall. 170cm is good enough”
I feel like this channel has lots of mistakes when they translate
@@Dr.Frasier_Crane They do. Plus Cathys japanese is generally quite poor
I think they're giving us europeans wayyy too much credit lol
ya they still think about those old stereotypes of europeans lulz, like they think that british men are gentlemen and stuff, they still think old fashioned.
they watch too much television if u ask me
@@MichaelSEhcscim i still think that way too
@@shihabahmed2809 ;_; why
Especially if they don't know how hairy most westerns are, lord help their little small minded views when they see a shirtless European man.
Foreign guy = not Asian
Also not Black and Brown. Only White.
Foreign guy = Tall, blonde, blue eyed white.
You all didnt watch the whole video
@Nerf This!!! Sorry I don't speak *single motherhood*
@@koganenokoro4361 There is nothing wrong with white people and there is nothing wrong with nonwhite people recognizing that white people have unique features.
I gotta give props to Cathy Cat, I can't imagine how many times she's heard the same answers in her interviews. Still goes about it with a really light-hearted attitude. I for one wouldn't be able to not roll my eyes sometimes.
I know, right? I’ve rolled my eyes a couple of times by hearing the same repeated stereotypes over and over in Cathy’s vids and I’m not even the interviewer. Like, I’m Latino and I don’t sleep with every stranger I come across in a party while drinking tons of Caribbean cocktails and dancing to Latin music.
@@ybenax but if you did...
Why would you roll your eyes even if you had heard the answer before that's rude as fuck.
Based from every videos I find, the only countries abroad for Japanese people are:
- France
- America
- Italy
America its not a country :)
@@thereisnico yes it is a countries
@@thereisnico exactly, there is North America, Central America or Caribe and South America
@@wakakabravo7998 united states is the country name, America is a representation of all western countries from Europe, aka North and South America. It was foreigners that shorten the United States of America to America for X reasons.
@@davidsawyers8754 united state of america is the country name. America is not a representation of all western countries from Europe, i dont know why make u think america represent europe. well i see a lot of american in media call themselves as american. after all its the only countries in the world that have america on it name. we dont call people from america as united statedian or united stateny. we just call it american.
These Japanese girls want
Mario and Luigi's Salami.
"foreign men help raise the kids and do the cooking and cleaning"
And foreign women help pay the bills.
AMV CBG Lol...foreign women who help pay the bills still end up doing all the cooking, cleaning and child raising in most cases. It’s a sore point that kids favourite question to their father is “where’s mum?’ 😂😂😂😂
@@oliviaanderson4595 i don't think u got the jokes here
@@oliviaanderson4595 goes both ways really
"Cooking and cleaning" im not doing any of that 🤧
Western women expect the men to pay the bills, do the housework, raise the kids and do the cooking.
Any money the woman makes is hers, she's not spending it on the family lmao.
I think japanese women have too high standards on foreign men lol
Most of the westerners do qualify for the height standard they impose tho xD only the other things like gentlemen and stuff you have to be lucky to find the perfect person for you!! but ya who knows women dont know what they like lulz.
@@MichaelSEhcscim my gf is Japanese but she travelled a lot so she thinks these girls are ignorant.
but in the end it's opposite...
We should all stick to our own kind because our standards are too high for people who are culturally different. Thats like buying a horse and expecting a cow right? 😂
It's because the media only shows White celebrities
Everyone in Tokyo is so well-dressed. I like their coats.
Thats all they know. Is buying clothes because its the only way to show yourself to the people and only way to be excepted in the society. Many spent all their money for clothes. It isnt happy as it seems
@@maxmenaktas well that’s depressing asf
@@SpicyMang0s Ballin' but at what cost
@@maxmenaktas but they look cool
@@maxmenaktas Bro it’s not that deep 💀
My ideal man is Shaggy.
Ultra Instinct Shaggy?
The singer or the cartoon character?
zibby zibby ya zibby yo zibby yea
@@briancarter1597 Did anybody call thy glorious name??? #ScoobyGotWAVES
Right here, mortal... Be amazed *flexes with 0.08℅ of my power* #ScoobyGotWAVES
Man, I dont want to hate on Japanese people, but its the most naive country I've ever seen in terms of cliches and stereotypes. They meet one good westerner and believe every single westerner is like that from the get go. Every single video I see about Japanese women commenting on foreign guys is them saying westerners care for their partners and they do ''lady first''.
i cannot wait until 2020 olympics. they will see truth
Yeah....true indeed...how many Hollywood Utopia Audrey Hepburn Richard Gear Drama that they've been watching
This comment is old and I doubt you’ll see it but the rest of the world have the same cliche in mind about japanese women/korean men
Can you blame them? You said it yourself, they hardly meet that many foreign people. I'm sure if they did, they'd find out the reality.
Honestly, we all have different ideas of how foreigners act. We all romanticize foreigners because they seem interesting, unique, rare, and cool.
Why I get the feeling they find their ideal Foreigner from JOJO. I just have a feeling that they watch Jojo and thought all male foreigners were like them.
As a foreign boy I gotta say it feels nice to be indirectly complimented for once but we do not at all live up to the hype😂
Which is why they mostly ended up dating and that's it. Hardly married. To get married, you have to live up to their expectation, which is exhausting.
@@CoolNumber1 Good point
LoL those first girls still have that 50/60s image of a western man... 😂😂😂
They are probably watching too watch Audrey Hepburn movies....
A lot of people here in America still have that Spaghetti Western attitude. It's not a surprise that women would be drawn to that.
@RZZ nn I've seen Arab guys pick up Japanese women with no trouble. Same goes for Indians, Malays, mexicans, Chinese, blacks, etc. Don't tell some of these white guys tell you otherwise LOL. They get so insecure when they see another race pick up Japanese. It's jokes.
@@deadstar5328 White guys aren't insecure. Asian guys are incredibly insecure about white guys however. That is a fact.
@Lock&Load 77 Depends where you live. In the west I would say it's harder for them but I've seen quite a bit of Indians pickup Japanese women with not much issue. There's tons of curry shops in Japan that are run by an Indian/Japanese couple anyway sooo yea
@sakata gintoki Brother as a Indian , 90% of indians in Japan are IT engineers. They are well educated people. Nepali people's Are most of them are blue collar labour's like factory workers with pathetic conditions. They used name of India and running the restaurants with Indian flags. All the dishes are copying from India and just changed to Japanese version. What a pitty conditions of these people. They don't have anything to do their own.
I've dated a man who is 6ft 9 and it hurts my neck every time I had to look up to talk to him, so I had to ask him to sit down just so I can talk to him at eye-level. LOL
Wow, you finally found this channel, huh?
Xiaorishuuuuuu
You should have looked at him using a selfie stick 😅
@RZZ nn Arab money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@RZZ nn No imagination. You've posted the same lame line multiple times.
Whew boy, they put a lot on foreign men.. they'd be disappointed. Men are men no matter where they come from, some better than others some worse. It's just how people are, if you find a rude and mean Japanese boy who pays you no attention and isn't someone who says thank you then you can find that in White, black, Mexican, Etc men. It doesn't really matter.
True, you're very down to earth. :)
Same shit goes for both genders.....
Kudos!!!!
マザーファッカー fuck it,he can be a no one from Eastern Europe or a French businessman as long as you love and care for each other it shouldn’t be a problem.
@@skillskiller1012 So true, a man is a man, it doesn't matter where he comes from
its all about culture, some cultures have people with more respect
It was fun to listen to that guy talk about how he thinks it's fun and cool when foreigners are a bit more outgoing than them, and are willing to talk to Japanese people they don't know about each other's lives, because when I go to Japanese bars and pubs in Tokyo, I do this, and the Japanese in general seem to like this quite a bit. I've met a bunch of nice people, and talked a lot about various things. It's a good opportunity to practice my Japanese anyway, and likewise some of them seem to want to practice English with me, so it's useful and fun for everyone. I'd like to make it clear that I'm not being too forward, pushy or annoying or anything, if people don't want to talk I leave them be. It might very well be the Japanese people I'm talking to that started the conversation sometimes too. Because of how Japanese people are more reserved than many westerners, and because of how important poilteness is in Japan, I think some foreigners are understandably worried about appearing to be too outgoing and/or rude, which is a legitimate concern, but please don't overdo it either, or you'll miss out on so much! Japanese people like/are interested in you precisely BECAUSE you are a bit different from them, and because you can more easily do certain things that they can't do very easily! It's the same the other way around too, after all, right? :-) I recommend foreigners in Japan to have the guts to TALK to people! Even if you've just met them! At least in bars and pubs and such, the Japanese there are usually very happy to talk to you, and will appreciate and enjoy it just as much as you! Just like the guy in the video said. :-)
Brutha I’m American , it’s literally our mission in life to strike up conversations with strangers just for the fun of it lmao
As a Japanese living in US, I agree with you guys. I really wish I could strike a conversation with strangers in Japan like in US. Actually I do it anyways but usually don’t get a quick response, because people are not expecting a conversation from a Japanese looking guy (unless you’re in Osaka where I’m from).
The girl on the right at about 8:50 is so adorable. She's so shy and is blushing so hard. It looks like she's really pushing herself just to be a part of this.
Btw, I love the way you're doing your interviews. It was fun to watch. Keep it up !!
0:40 French men are the 5 least faithful in the world 😂
Vraiment mdrrrr
Merde
My ideal man is my boyfriend. Actually I didn't have an ideal type until I met him and got to know him. His personality and looks are just stunning to me. I'm very lucky!
Man, this is a great channel to learn basic Japanese conversation
thank you for the subtitles! 😀
asking girls: "whats your ideal foreign boy?"
response: a gentleman. they'll help, express themselves and their thankfulness... etc
asking boys same question: a gentleman. they seem to be popular. "have you ever tried being a gentleman" nah. *proceeds to talk about how "i dont like doing that kind of thing" and they dont express themselves...
Yo Japan... this is why your population is decreasing.
(yes I know of course there is more to it than just that. but come on. this is pretty comical)
🤣🤣👋@karlwithak.
"Frenchmen devote themselves to their parteners" i stop you right here , arround 60% of marriages endup with a divorces here.
Also if they go off the movies
Then why don't they see
the abundance of gay guys in France?
Like half of the French movies I've seen
Starred at least 1 gay couple,
Often with a 3rd wheel character for drama.
@@BramLastname maybe you should just stop watching movies on gays channels ?!
@@YMangaka well a lot of these are either really well-known,
Or were mandatory material in my French classes.
@@BramLastname well, either you dont know much bout classic french movies in general or you take classes in the most stereotypically racist part of your country !
You wanna check for yourself some REALLY well-known french movies with NO gay couples ? Check the ones with these names featured : Bourvil, Louis de Funès, Pierre Richard, Christian Clavier, Gérard Depardieu, Jean Reno..
And those are only a FEW names.
@@YMangaka Just because it's well-known here doesn't mean it's because of racism.
Also aren't Gérard Depardieu and Pierre Richard from those really old movies?
There's a difference between classic and from the classical era ya'know.
Like of course there's movies without gay people,
pretty sure I never said anything to the contrary,
But almost every movie that I've seen with the caring french man trope
(Which is what the comment is about)
also tends to have 1 or more gay guys.
Just because there's movies like Intouchables and Huitieme Jour that are written platonically,
If you've actually watched them you'd see the "caring frenchman" is something they get guilt tripped into,
So that doesn't make me feel like I'd want to have them close to me.
(especially since they've shown a unnecessarily violent tendencies to people that "wronged" them.)
I mean as long as he’s nice ,funny, cute and cares for his girlfriend... where he come from or what he looks like really don’t matter.
Why wouldn't you want him to be good looking? Do you want ugly children?
@@NOU-iw3gb bro tf?
Apparently helping someone with luggage means you are devoted to them. I know we westerners have a different culture than you but we can’t be so different that you confuse kindness for devotion.
@Karl with a K Who are you? And what a gross way to talk about someone. There are multiple pairs of women interviewed. And if you mean the first pair: she looks amazing, with good hair, stylish clothes, and well-done makeup. And she looks like she'd look good without that, too. She's totally being reasonable with her expectations.
ye it's just expected that you carry all the heavy shit for women if you're a man here (UK). You get sarcastic comments from women if you don't. Like, "wow, look at all the big strong men standing around here." While she struggles with something heavy lmao.
Theres plenty of feminists in the younger generations that get angry if you help them now though so it's a minefield out there.
It is more a question of autonomy and competence, than feminism (or hate of men) that women refuse to be helped by the opposite gender.
So don’t take it personally.
Especially, if you are a person that helps everybody and not only the ones you feel so attracted to that you want to get into their panties.
People feel that and might tell you no for that reason. Which isn’t bad right? You’re special and not everybody’s cookie to snack on? 🍪
Judging from all the interviews like this that I’ve already seen, you just need to do the “ladies first” and you are already halfway to dating a Japanese girl.
Yeah the bar is set so low lol. All the stuff they like we already do it by default in UK where I live.
The two guys who were interviewed kind of depressed me. I’m a very free human being. I express myself fully and seeing how they had a desire to do the same but couldn’t, I’m assuming because of their society, made me quite sad. It takes courage to stand out, especially in Japan but if it makes them happy, I really hope they do someday!
I felt the same, the women want them to care more, be fun and more relaxed and lively (at least I read that between the lines), but it is sad that the men think they need to hold back and be controlling themselves (and others) to be accepted Japanese men.
Foreign or not, my ideal guy should look like Hank Hill.
You win
So you’re an ass girl
I need a hammer, and some WD-40.
Propane and propane accessories
I’m a straight guy but my message is still the same.
Very cool and interesting video.
Me encantan tus videos, felicidades.
Lmao Italian and French... These poor girls, they have no idea.
They want an Italian
Who is not 30 minute late?
Where are they gonna find that one?
i like it how 170 cm is tall for the second guy. in the netherlands our average is above 180
170 is not that tall,
I would know,
I am below average
Dutchman after all.
aeneas de baan Well, he just said 170 cm is just fine for him. He didn’t say 170cm is tall.
But 170 cm in Japan its like 5 cm higher than the average JP dude
Most people where I'm fro reach 170 cm by the time they're 15 lol. It's not a big deal limh.
Thats not what she said. She said too tall is bad, 170 is just about right.
this channel is fun to watch. want to watch more. :D
cathy i miss your videos :((( please make moreeeeee
The women on the first point seem no idea on what she talking about .. in the end she prefers Japanese dude
No shit lmao. It's homogenous country after all
I’m a French girl and what japanese can think about us are sometimes false, ofc majority of us act like gentleman/ gentlewoman sometimes because we are polite and it’s in our education to help when some people are having a hard time BUT it’s not all the french who are like that, some of us are cold, don’t want to waste their time ( especially people who come from a big city, even french people are shocked sometimes).
France is not a wonderland and you will be sooo disappointed if you think that when you will come to France, especially if you go to Paris lol you’ll have Paris Syndrome (even I got it and i’m a french girl from a little city haha)
This pink costume that Cathy cat used is super cute.
Cathy Cat was very colorful and pretty this video
Honestly that girl in the thumbnail is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, she seems so kind hearted and nice as well ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I agree with you she is really beautiful pity that she prefers French men:'(
"in Japan women are expected to do cook and men work"
That's every country.
I hate to say but they seem to have this really unrealistic standard that men do all the work AND help the housework.
When in reality they help a bit then just focus on work.
Yes
I really like that you don't embed english subtitles in your videos.
oh this video is about to get lit 😂🔥
... lets not forget beauty is in the eye beholder 😙
"They help raising children"...girl, they are just assuming their responsability
I was eating ramen while watching this, I laughed so hard a noodle came out of my nose...
Ouch
Hi cathy cat: on the next video can you interview boys on their perspective on "ladies first"?
Yeah with such a videotitle, it should do well
After watching this video, I feel like they would make me the king of Japan.
7:06 The Ricardo meme came instantly to my mind lol
LOVE your hair Cathy =)
The lady in the white turtleneck at the 1:33 mark is absolutely adorable!!
The truth is there are many different people in every country. There are Good People and bad people in everywhere.
The country doesn't matter when we talk about relashionships. The most important thing is the personality.
If you want someone sweet, gentle and that loves you, you can find it anywhere.
Wow, it made me so happy that they knew about my country (the netherlands). Even if its just because of the tall men XD
I have NEVER heard a japanese person in any video i watched, say something about it. I thought they didnt even know my country excisted looooooooll
I know it sounds strange but it made my day XD
Good video btw, its always nice to hear what japanese people think about foreign people ^^
Hahhah I once watched a tv series were they reviewed the dutch roadinfrastructure and they all were amazed by the biking lines and stuff xD But yeahh Japanese aree nice peoplee!
@@MichaelSEhcscim haha reallyy? Are those that great? Hahaha i gues im just used to it🤣. Its all aboit cycling here😋😂
To be fair it was Cathy (who is German) who prompted tall Netherland men into the conversation.
@@overthewebb no she didnt😋 but that doesnt matter. They atleast know the name of my country so im satisfied😂
We're actually fairly well known in Japan for judo, Dejima and tulips. That's usually the stuff Japanese strangers I meet know about. As far as I've seen there are few that don't at least know one of those three.
Interesting video, and interesting perspectives as well. I'd always thought I'd be liked in Japan because I get asked out a lot by Asian girls. However, now I'm confused because I recently found out they do not like facial hair, and I have a short trimmed beard. I do go out of my way to be extra nice, so maybe that was it.
Cathy Cat is so cute.
I think they are giving a lot of credits to europeans
Im German and its OK No its good If they like each other. Japanese dont have to idolize foreigners !
I love your channel and it led me to do more research on Japanese culture but havnt seen much or anything relating to Spanish, Hispanic or Latin culture or spanish men, or spanish music or caribean culture. Seems like mostly just talk about white or Europeans. If you can Cathy Cat try to do more videos about what they think about Latin culture or music. Im from NYC and my family is originally from Dominican Republic 🇩🇴. ✌🏽
ありがとう
only subcultures know about hispanic, latin or caribbean culture. In Osaka and Tokyo they have salsa clubs and bars, reggae lounges and such. In other cities there aren't as many. I'm in Nagoya and there is a Latin festival and a Jamaica festival. There are many food vendors and bar/restaurant owners that come out to these events, so it's the best place to find out about local businesses that represent those cultures. If you go there, you'll find the Japanese ppl that are into those cultures and have probably traveled to those countries. There are tons of Brazilian places here cuz of the Japanese diaspora there.
I noticed that they list personality traits more than physical characteristics. Personality traits they believe are rooted in certain cultures, like the one who said she likes Italian guys because they seem to care about their girlfriends. They seem way less superficial than American women for sure but they also need a serious reality check about how European guys are. I'm half German and Japanese and most guys I feel are pretty much the same everywhere.
A good way to win a heart of a German girl is making her lough. Girls get comfortable with guys who are funny. Faithfulness and reliability are great points, too. Not being to chubby but being into sports and therefore, have well-trained looks helps also. And behaving like the typical gentleman is also going to make you popular.
I am flemish (basically Southern netherlands now known as belgium) though i am fit and muscular (a bit chubby but in a very minor way) and moderatly tall it sort of feels like the hollywood image is a bit strong in Japan, (though i am sure that people's ideal is just what they would like them to look like the most)
I personally like western and asian girls, i find them the most attractive i guess, though nothing is set in stone
I think i would want someone that is willing to put the same work into themselves and a relationship as i would,
for instance i keep fit by going to the gym, (well outside of exam periods and the recent closing period ofcourse) I cook, I clean,... basically I believe that to have a good partner you first have to be attractive and a good match yourself
anyway, I hope i find my perfect girl one day soon, I would love to have a stereotypical family one day in the not so distant future.
Wow, 2nd pair of girls have very cute personalities. I would fell in love if I met someone like this in person 🥰
We want more of this video type..
Ideal foreign me for japanese girls
oh boy, imagine their disappointment when they actually meet them.
I lived in Japan for 5 years. I understand what sort of foreign men they like, and to be completely fair, it's not that hard to meet their requirements (compared to your usual woman in the "west"). However, there's a few problems to most "foreign" men and some of them reside in the culture:
- Japanese people, especially women, don't like "smelly people". If you're a foreigner, you'll have some issues with this at first because you're either used to living in high humidity places or you're going to suffer A LOT. If you're moving to Japan, best advice anyone can give you is to either take or pre-order some smell-free dehodorant from your own country as those sold in Japan will most likely not work on you, at all, for the first 6-9 months;
- Another issue is that beards are usually a no-go there as well. Few can get away with it, sort of, but most of us can't, and most of men can't be bothered shaving every day unless you're already used to doing so. Besides, I don't think men like to see themselves without a beard once they're able to grow one, so there's a hard choice to be made there.
Now for the part where their requirements are not that hard to meet, but it's actually tough for a foreign man to adapt to:
- Japanese people are not that loyal. The loyalty part they mention they like so much is because it's a major fault on their culture. It's HARD to find a japanese person, male or female, that doesn't cheat;
- Their work and general culture makes it difficult to date anyone. Not only do you need to have extensive knowledge of logistics to find an opening in both your schedules, you also have to be mindful that being lovey-dovey in public is a massive no-no.
It's easy, but hard at the same time. Japanese culture and "western" culture clash on far too many points to make it easy, but the "standarts" women have are easy for foreign men to accomplish.
And the biggest wall a foreign man can face is the cheating part. I couldn't bring myself to date a japanese girl while I lived there because I couldn't be bothered to live with a constant question like "has she cheated on me yet?" on the back of my mind. Quite frankly, all the other issues can be somewhat solved with time spent living there, but the the cheating part alone is just not worth the hassle, especially for those who take relationships, intimacy and trust seriously. In fact, that issue is so big in Japan that women AND men literally expect to be cheated on relationships. If that's not a serious red-flag, I don't know what is.
I lived japan too, and cheating was the last thing I worried about! I think the foreign guys do the cheating, not the Japanese women. I think Japanese women who are attracted to foreign guys are very loyal. If you spoke fluent Japanese and were hanging out with really popular ones, then maybe not. Japanese culture is fairly conservative. I have a beard, but off it comes when I go back to Japan. I'm not stupid.
You make some fair points but some I disagree with. I lived there 3 years and dated a different girl every week. And I have a big beard. And I'm bald. And I don't speak Japanese. I workout a lot, don't dress that well (sports clothes mostly) and I'm 6ft tall. I didn't encounter the smelling bad part (actually girls used to snuff me saying they loved my scent) but I did swear profusely during the summer and I hated that 😅 About Japanese girls not cheating... They do. As far as I'm aware non were cheating on me but I did sleep with a teacher who was 25 and had a Japanese bf who lived 2hours drive away and she never mentioned him while we were together. A year later they got married and had a baby. He still doesn't know I banged his girl 😅
@@acollins929 "..in Japan,.. i dated a different girl every week.. and i dont speak japanese"
Huh-uh..
And you also met Elvis after being abducted by aliens riding unicorns before Bigfoot and his army of dragons helped you saving the world from a nazi zombie outbreak ?
@@YMangaka Haha someone sounds jealous. A different girl every week is a normal number if you're a reasonably attractive foreigner. My friend who was a model there could probably get two or 3 girls a week easy. You really have no idea haha
@@acollins929 and the other one sounds full of BS !
Every single foreigner and even actual japanese people giving advices to anyone interested in visiting Japan would say the most important thing to do is to learn the language first..
And you'ld like to make us believe that in a country so uptight bout cleanliness, where somethin like maybe 8% of the population speaks a somewhat *decent* english,.. you were some kind of hentai protagonist who just had to cross path with a girl every week to instantly get her, even a *teacher* who was already engaged (even though it could ruin her career!).. all that while being bald, bearded, and you even like to call yourself "reasonably attractive" (which is not by japanese standards obviously) and even pretend they all loved your *stink* ?!..
yea, right.. sorry, "makoto itou" but the idea of you getting abducted by unicorn-riding aliens and saving the world from nazi zombies with Bigfoot and his dragons sounds more plausible than your weeby erofiction !
Your page would be so much better if you had Subtitles
that one chubby girl is so freaking cute. Gosh.... Also I was kinda confused when she said "10 minutes like train delays" well in Germany sometimes the train delays up to 45 minutes 😅😅 my worst was 2 hours delay. But yeah trains in japan are more on time... She's really cute. Totally my type hahaha
Hahahaha your image of how tall a 1,90m person is it's really far from real 😂😂 as a 1'96m tall guy what you pointed in the video looked more like a 2'10m person haha 😂😂
@Mr BuzzKill My best friend is 1,58 m, so I took her as reference. Well I can't be sure since I don't know how tall Cathy is, but I think it was a big exaggerated. Maybe she was joking tho (?)
Have a nice day mate (^•^)/
I wonder if the person who's hurry to help her with the luggage isn't good looking, will he look creepy to her instead?
Well said mate... They don't know what they want
Probably? Probably not? Japanese people dont really see too many foreigners. They are more closed to the outside world compared to many countries. They probably have twisted preferences and stereotypes by watching western tv
No? You only think that because woman react to you that way because you're probably an actual creep lmao.
I read this comment and I thought of the “Carl the Braincell” vid.
“That’s the blackpill, Jimmy”
“That’s the biggest black pill of all”
Is it possible to use translated answers for your video because it is in UA-cam and seen outside Japan. Thanks
Nice thumbnail
It's almost as if they would show gratitude if I were to be chivalrous and demonstrated good manners. American women just expect it.
Good manners are expected yes from women too
These girls have been watching too many rom coms lmfaoooo
I'm from the Netherlands and I can tell you that everybody is tall and muscly here, okay maybe not everybody is muscly. We cycle everyday to work or school and take care of ourselves. However it's subjective to say the ideal foreigner, I think. I personally believe it's Japanese women for me! (Japan is foreign to me seeing I'm from Europe)
You know its quite funny how cathy has interviewed so many girls on this so many times but the one time she interviews two dudes they give the most intricate response shes ever gotten.
Imma take that back last girl just revealed she had a feeding fetish on air haha
Ok, so I have to go in Japan! (I'm Italian 😅)
I love watching all these vids and seeing how far from reality they are. Just like all the foreigners who got made up ideas for Japanese :)
Ask Japanese
can you do ideal girl image of a foreigner looks like?
It strikes when the girls say "foreigner man HELP at home and with the children". Some of us sees it as taking part of your responsability, not as a help
This is my new favorite anime
Lol
Quite funny how they admire Europeans for their height but in other videos they find tall European guys to be scary and intimidating.
Quite confusing really 😂
I swear to god, the girl talking at the very beginning of the video next to Cathy is on HelloTalk, and I see her posting occasionally.
Ojalá este video algun día tenga subtítulos en español :'v mientras tanto a seguir aprendiendo inglés
I can't comment on what type of guy I like because I don't swing that way, no offense to people who do. I can say to me race doesn't matter as long as she has a good heart and open mind. Bad attitude is such a turn off
Exactly, and what it seems to be the case... Japanese men are falling out of favour for decades now, very uncaring and genderless is not helping ...
A man must be strong and tender at the same time .
Not a spineless creature.
Those first two girls had some big misconceptions about “foreign” men. First, what is “foreign”? There are 196 countries in the world, and every part of the world has a unique culture. And, most Western men are not how those girls think. A man who does all the chores while his wife does none is usually considered kind of a loser. I know marriages like that, and they are sad. The wife thinks, “Oh, he’s so good to me, because he loves me.” But, she’s not even attracted to him, and she cheats on him. Anyway, I’ve heard a lot of the same misconceptions from Chinese women, because I live in China. It looks like some Japanese women have gotten the same ideas. Whenever a Chinese women tells me something about what she thinks foreign men are like, I have to quickly correct her.
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no one ever comments on how well japanese dress compared to westerners... shit is crazy lmao
I presume that's why there are virtually no Japanese in Ireland/Dublin. They've seen how most people dress here, and Nope.
This is why I'm drawn to Japanese women, because they appreciate Gentlemen qualities, like chivalry, kindness, respect, and loyalty. Even fantasize about my marriage to a Japanese gal, that she and I raise the childern together. To be the role models of what kind of people they should be. That and other romantic scenarios, like lifting her into my arms and telling her how much she means to me, and that we shall go to our home, together. You know, mushy stuff like that, which I secretly crave. Major plus on the snuggling in bed, and me being too lazy to get up and she's trying to pull me out of bed lol Also, Sass, though lesser men don't like it when they get sassed in private (not in public, because hey, you got to be the man in the relationship and make good decisions), but I love it. Mostly because to me, that's couples bantering and finding renew love when we know we're the only people who can stand each other.
In my opinion, yeah, it's good to love the best in someone, but it's way more special if you can love the worst in someone.
10 March 2019, Palermo, Sicily.
Oh well, the torture of seeing that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence! Obviously these girls and boys can't see their own unique beauty. And my gosh! Many of these Tokyo people dress so simply but look sooooooo elegant!
6:19 well im 1,90, not muscular, wouldn't call myself a gentleman, but those do exist here in the netherlands, everyone is tall here compared to abroad (bit of an overstatement ofc). he could def find someone like that here.
These comment wreak of insecurity..