The Harder You Try with Women the Less They Want You

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  • Опубліковано 18 тра 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 54

  • @logwind
    @logwind 24 дні тому +100

    Treat the ones you like... like the ones you don't like.

    • @luukbrugge
      @luukbrugge 23 дні тому

      But how will you land a girlfriend this way when you have to keep your feelings and stuff a mystery? How will you invest as a man in the beginning?

    • @Slidehhy
      @Slidehhy 23 дні тому +3

      @@luukbruggeread atomic attraction

    • @Loozyzi
      @Loozyzi 23 дні тому +1

      I try this but they just don't notice me

    • @taylorbee4010
      @taylorbee4010 20 днів тому

      Depends on how used to attention they are

  • @UltimateLimitless678
    @UltimateLimitless678 24 дні тому +40

    What you persist will resist but what you resist will persist.

  • @starzgalaxy17
    @starzgalaxy17 24 дні тому +41

    Stop trying, if she's into you'll know it
    If she's not into you, you'll know that as well

  • @santo9032
    @santo9032 24 дні тому +27

    Why I DON’T even try anymore… 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @andywatson8225
    @andywatson8225 24 дні тому +16

    Your attitude and interaction with women can be summed up in one word: indifference.

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 24 дні тому +28

    She must invest at least as much as you or more. If you invest more you will lose everytime.

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 24 дні тому +13

    Even Majority of successful men are chasing women around , The less you need The more you get that's how it Works

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 24 дні тому +10

    It's worth the effort achieving your goals and dreams than to try so hard wasting your time and effort chasing chicks

  • @kenzo1120
    @kenzo1120 24 дні тому +14

    If you don’t live rent free in her mind well she lives rent free in yours …

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 24 дні тому +4

      Or you both are indifferent, and then you both go date other people

    • @kenzo1120
      @kenzo1120 23 дні тому

      @@blair5475 you right don’t know what’s on another person mind , girlfriend could be thinking and obsessing over her ex with you but never show it and u will never know it , she fool u cause she said she loves you … we all live in our fantasy

  • @silvermine2033
    @silvermine2033 24 дні тому +9

    This is true. I learned this the hard way.

    • @artofgarduno
      @artofgarduno 23 дні тому +3

      Everyone has learned the hard way.

  • @thedailyvibes4033
    @thedailyvibes4033 24 дні тому +17

    Remember that women always want something they can't have.

    • @ddmozz
      @ddmozz 23 дні тому +6

      More like something they can have, but with a bit of effort.

  • @bYz4rEel
    @bYz4rEel 23 дні тому +1

    This is very true mr candwell, i stopped trying last year and ever since then i've been focused on 4 things to make me a better person and rather let them chase me if the interest isn't shown towards me, then i'll move on to other women that do.....just wont out too much of my energy towards them

  • @Citizen-by9vw
    @Citizen-by9vw 20 днів тому

    Great video, Chris

  • @1by110
    @1by110 24 дні тому +10

    Chris I love u man.
    And so I urge you to explore the territory of why the women leave the man who is completely focused on purpose alone ! You will find very valuable things

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  24 дні тому +8

      Please elaborate

    • @urbanproductions4852
      @urbanproductions4852 24 дні тому

      women dont care about men on their purpose or men self improving, they just care about men who dont give a s hit about them lol.

    • @keasenne
      @keasenne 24 дні тому +3

      Yeah please elaborate.. 🤔 I think I might be facing a similar challenge.

    • @palindrome06
      @palindrome06 24 дні тому +6

      I think it makes sense. In my opinion those women are the ones who want to control men. Conscientious hardworking men cannot be easily controlled. So they just leave when they realize they can’t control that man.

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 24 дні тому

      ​@@palindrome06all women want to control a man.

  • @carlospita6442
    @carlospita6442 24 дні тому +11

    Why men are the ones that always have to adapt to the females ?

    • @dodji582
      @dodji582 24 дні тому

      Because men are at a disadvantage in the dynamics of dating.

    • @natureloverdude
      @natureloverdude 22 дні тому

      Women and men love differently. Women want you for what you bring to the table.

    • @carlospita6442
      @carlospita6442 22 дні тому

      @@natureloverdude But what do they bring to the table?

    • @josephmikelson2976
      @josephmikelson2976 15 днів тому

      ​@@carlospita6442that one thing set the world in chaos " coochie"

  • @robertminnie782
    @robertminnie782 24 дні тому +6

    It seems that this is the only thing to do when she "needs space."
    But it's still frustrating when you want and need intimacy and don't necessarily want to leave, and heaven forbid you cheat to get your needs met.

  • @hars6029
    @hars6029 24 дні тому +1

    I really love your videos.

  • @timothyrobinson2387
    @timothyrobinson2387 24 дні тому +3

    And if the man is one his purpose with everything, she goes, "he's too perfect". Or "he's a great man, but".....

  • @simonsezfitness5702
    @simonsezfitness5702 24 дні тому +4

    If your a man you have to have a woman as your partner that you don't need in your life but she has to need you in hers , that's just how it works, makes no logical sense and is a complete double standard but this is how it works. You're welcome in advance

  • @vidyanandsharma2655
    @vidyanandsharma2655 23 дні тому

    Great
    ❤❤

  • @incredibledn
    @incredibledn 15 днів тому

    i like the animations

  • @suhridsaha5934
    @suhridsaha5934 23 дні тому

    2:00 what's Rest lunch Inc. ?☠️

  • @danielshadap9165
    @danielshadap9165 23 дні тому

    does this apply to marraiges..??

  • @x_MrYAYA_x
    @x_MrYAYA_x 23 дні тому +1

  • @sharendravarmanbalakrisnan2307
    @sharendravarmanbalakrisnan2307 24 дні тому +2

    If you want to know whether all his videos are saying nothing but trurh then experience it yourself. I believe life shouldn't be lived according to rules or principlesm but live dangerously

  • @Jasong-zk2iq
    @Jasong-zk2iq 22 дні тому

    I was dating this girl for about 2 months and she ended it cuz she wasn’t over her ex idk if me disappearing for a day or two triggered her past trauma. Anyways it’s been 5-6 months of no contact, she still views my stories. Should I reach out? What do u think

    • @CR91280
      @CR91280 22 дні тому +1

      Find another girl ! If you been able to live 6 months without her in your life you already got your answer

    • @LT-vc1sj
      @LT-vc1sj 21 день тому

      Mate she’s viewing your stories that’s it. She’s fishing to get your attention. Ignore and move on. Make those stories she sees amazing. THAT will show her your moving on and that is like catnip. Move on buddy and do great things for yourself

    • @VolleKwark
      @VolleKwark 6 днів тому

      @@LT-vc1sjShe’s not fishing for his attention. She was clear, wasn’t she? She wasn’t over her ex. And she just views your stories just like everybody on social media does. Just move on and accept that it was nothing personal, but just not the right timing for her. And yeah, live life to the fullest, she might reach out again, maybe not, that’s life.

  • @PyroShields
    @PyroShields 24 дні тому +3

    I can't believe I'm the first one here.