I totally understand Melissa’s reasons for wanting to do her wedding over. Every moment/detail no matter how big or small will be remembered. My wedding is 5/30/21. Wish me luck fam ❤️❤️
I’m currently planning my renewal (20yrs) in Bora Bora this November. No bridal party, just a best man and maid of honor. There will be 12 guests, all the ladies will wear what they want, but the same color, and they will act as my bridal party, men will do the same. I hope you guys have the wedding of your dreams..
OMG! Melissa that is BRILLIANT!!! The wedding SHOULD BE about YOU and YOUR SPOUSE! Not about no one else! 👏🏽👏🏽 The reception is about celebrating with the family and friends!
I'm taking tips from Liss. As a recovering people pleaser, the idea of having other people to worry about on your special day, is overwhelming! Do it your way, so that YOU enjoy it. Can't wait to see the optics!
YEEEEEES!!!!!Recovering people pleaser here!🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ When does the support group meet? I need to get done things off my chest.
Rewatching this episode post vow renewal. I love that everything Melissa said would happened, did happen when she said it would happen. Congrats on your dreams coming true Melissa and Kevin! And congrats on 20 years! Super happy for you both❣
OMG! I’m getting married next month and I have been struggling for the perfect song for the father/ daughter dance. Why did I cry BIG, UGLY TEARS when I heard Butterfly kisses in this episode. THANKYOU Melissa. You helped me find my song.
I feel Liss one thousand percent! I’m planning my 20 year vow renewal destination wedding now for next year and it is only about me and my hubby. The only people that may be in it are our 3 kids. It will be solely about US. If you can come, cool. If not, I won’t be mad. It’s a total RE-DO! I love this idea so much.
Melissa: How long does it take to plan a wedding? 18 months... Kev: The wedding is already planned you just gotta finalize the guest list Melissa: and I already....😂😂😂
@@UKLeonie i am from the Caribbean Island of Trinidad and Tobago. I know for fact that it was not the iceberg lettuce. I am trying to see how i can post a picture if it.
As someone getting married during a pandemic (5/31/21), I already feel like I deserve a better wedding/vow renewal later but I also feel burnt out and can’t imagine spending as much on a wedding ever again. My problem with my day is more of a bad planning experience. I know my wedding day will be wonderful. I already know if I did do things over it would be a destination wedding with no bridal party as well so I feel you, Melissa.
I’m happy for you Melessia for your wedding redo. I never had a wedding and for a long time I was very sad about not having one, my husband and I will be married for 25 years in June. I thought about renewing our vows but then COVID happened, now I’m just praying for God to bless us with our dream house. I rather put that money towards our house. I pray your dream wedding is a big success. 😃
Butterfly kisses is beautiful! My husband loves this song & plays it every time he has special moments with our daughters. Congratulations on your renewal! My husband & I will be renewing our vows in 2022. I’m so EXCITED!
Weddings without a wedding party is definitely common lol I had one in 2016. Family walked down the isle and sat in front row and we were up there by ourselves
I feel you Liss!!! I canceled my wedding, long story about my dress, we just went to a local justice and married in his atrium with his wife as the witness. It was a cute day, we were very young as well. I could not handle people telling me what I should want so I just didn't LOL
The new pictures were absolutely beautiful. I like India Arie Beautiful Surprise and Butterfly Kisses is a beautiful song as well. I also understand the no bridal party. I have said the same thing if I get married again.
This year I will be married for 21 years and I never really had huge thoughts or plans for a wedding. And after I attempted to get excited about a wedding I look into the calls instead we bought two houses one of them in one of the income property. We put a lot of emphasis on on a day for pictures.
Melissa on our honeymoon Butterfly Kisses played everywhere. We didn't play it at the wedding, but we got pregnant, with our daughter, on our honeymoon- not exactly planned. She's 23 now and I'm pretty sure when she gets married she'll play it. We used to put her to sleep playing it. It's such a beautiful song and Daddy's girls get it.
Bruh--- I was listening to the podcast in my car and I freakin died just hearing @kevonstage doing the Butterfly Kisses impression....I literally had to pull over-- I watched it just to see if the hilarity would match; it did not disappoint. Lol !!!!!
I totally understand the lack of control you feel when you get married and someone else is paying and gets to make key decisions. I would like to redo my marriage, however I'd also need a completely different groom this time!! 🙊
Liss, I did not have bridesmaids for that very reason! Our neice was the flower girl and nephews were ring bearer and broom carrier. I was not fooling with grown folks!!
Liss!!! I completely understand. I also want a do over too. The person who has the money makes is the one that really has the final say and that wasn’t me.
Melissa 👏🏿 is👏🏿 a 👏🏿 PLANNER 👏🏿
If them pics came out fireee like that! This do-over wedding finna be EVERYTHING!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Kev rubbing his head like "man this wedding is about to be expensive" lol 🤣
I totally understand Melissa’s reasons for wanting to do her wedding over. Every moment/detail no matter how big or small will be remembered. My wedding is 5/30/21. Wish me luck fam ❤️❤️
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All the best 💖💖
Congratulations!!🥂🥳
Congrats!!
Wedding on 5/31/21! We are so close!
I’m currently planning my renewal (20yrs) in Bora Bora this November. No bridal party, just a best man and maid of honor. There will be 12 guests, all the ladies will wear what they want, but the same color, and they will act as my bridal party, men will do the same. I hope you guys have the wedding of your dreams..
Next level when you can sit down and chop it up about whatever and have people watching til the end and be fully entertained
💯💯💯💯
The nevermind that Melissa pays Kev is legendary!!! LMAO
It is 🤣🤣🤣 I laugh every time
Dont make her no nevermind! LMAO
When Liss said and we are writing our vows, OMG...insert crying Kev! 😂🤣
2024: What day did you want the wedding to be on?
Melissa: YES
Friends and Family: So you said 2024, when should we prepare?
Melissa: YES
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂exactly!
🤣🤣🤣
Just save the whole year cause it's gonna be epic!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Melissa said she don't wanna be told No...#WhoGonnaCheckYouBoo 🤣😂🤣❤
Kev
All the things we couldn't do because we were saved. Im dying!!!!!🤣🤣🤣
I was like "were" saved...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
☝😍😍😍😍 LISTEN I love this statement.
Liss: Ok Kev, what do you want for the wedding?
Kev: just this and this
Liss: No.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
OMG! Melissa that is BRILLIANT!!! The wedding SHOULD BE about YOU and YOUR SPOUSE! Not about no one else! 👏🏽👏🏽 The reception is about celebrating with the family and friends!
I'm taking tips from Liss. As a recovering people pleaser, the idea of having other people to worry about on your special day, is overwhelming! Do it your way, so that YOU enjoy it. Can't wait to see the optics!
YEEEEEES!!!!!Recovering people pleaser here!🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ When does the support group meet? I need to get done things off my chest.
@@tenyathomas6065 when you find out, lemme know!
I dont blame you for NOT giving specific-specifics. Folks will take your vision, do it, and promote it like it was theirs
I love how Josh is mediating, yet siding with Liss.
Rewatching this episode post vow renewal. I love that everything Melissa said would happened, did happen when she said it would happen. Congrats on your dreams coming true Melissa and Kevin! And congrats on 20 years! Super happy for you both❣
OMG! I’m getting married next month and I have been struggling for the perfect song for the father/ daughter dance. Why did I cry BIG, UGLY TEARS when I heard Butterfly kisses in this episode. THANKYOU Melissa. You helped me find my song.
I feel Liss one thousand percent! I’m planning my 20 year vow renewal destination wedding now for next year and it is only about me and my hubby. The only people that may be in it are our 3 kids. It will be solely about US. If you can come, cool. If not, I won’t be mad. It’s a total RE-DO! I love this idea so much.
Please let Jonathan McReynolds song at your wedding, that would be awesome.
If Melissa walk down the isle to City Girls I need to be there lmao
Congratulations again Mr. And Mrs. Fredricks!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Melissa: How long does it take to plan a wedding? 18 months...
Kev: The wedding is already planned you just gotta finalize the guest list
Melissa: and I already....😂😂😂
Alternate title: watch Kev be stressed for 55 minutes
I found one pic on Google. Melissa looked gorgeous to me but I totally understand the specifics. Can't wait for the do over🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yes I just saw them too she looked absolutely beautiful and the hair didn’t look that long ☺️
@@kingdompursuit3472 riiight!!
Where did you find the photo?
@@jayyyyynickiiiii they both have posted it on their pages by now
@@jayyyyynickiiiii I found one on by Googling "kevonstage wedding photo". I might be strange because I think their picture is so adorable 🥰
Melissa, hypothetically you aren't supposed to pay for your Bachelorette party IF you chose to do it. Let Danni and Angel plan it.....😈😏
YESSSS NANNA P
LET👏🏽DANNI👏🏽AND👏🏽ANGEL👏🏽PLAN👏🏽THE👏🏽BACHELORETTE 👏🏽PARTY👏🏽
🔥🔥🔥
Just make sure you got at LEAST 3 days to recover for THAT🥴😭
It would take Melissa a week to recover if they did 😆😆😆😆
Oh the debauchery to take place if Angel and Danni plan this! Let’s go! Patreon better get invited! 😜
I wanna go
Kev wanting Melissa to have strippers after being “saved” is everything to me!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I love the fact that Melissa ain't like that. Some of these chicks and dudes would do some wild stuff at their parties
@@Dud512 I don’t consider enjoying strippers as “wild”, but to each their own!
Don’t forget the song Melissa had made for Valentine’s Day!!
I love how candid Liss is about this wedding vision. The clarity....Do your thing Liss. I am here for Bridzilla 20 years late. It will be lit.
“Why did you let this white man sing at your wedding?!” 😂
You should get Xavier Omar!
Put the song you made for Kev on the playlist
Liss’s planning ahead is amazing, reminds me of one my good friends. Something to look forward to. 💞🥳👰🏾
When Kev said Zay zay would say "mom and dad do you have the wifi for the hotel" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'M CRYING!!!!
I got married a year after you guys in March and i used a Lettuce for my bouquet.
Like iceberg or white bouquet????
@@UKLeonie i am from the Caribbean Island of Trinidad and Tobago. I know for fact that it was not the iceberg lettuce. I am trying to see how i can post a picture if it.
As someone getting married during a pandemic (5/31/21), I already feel like I deserve a better wedding/vow renewal later but I also feel burnt out and can’t imagine spending as much on a wedding ever again. My problem with my day is more of a bad planning experience. I know my wedding day will be wonderful.
I already know if I did do things over it would be a destination wedding with no bridal party as well so I feel you, Melissa.
"Wear what you want! Sit in the audience, it better not be white!"
PERIOD LISS!!!!
Come to Barbados 🇧🇧! The best destination!
There is actually an R&B version to Butterfly Kisses I danced with my Dad to at my wedding.
Show us the pictures 😀
I absolutely support Melissa’s perspective.
But why did I tilt my head at the exact same time when Melissa told Kev to come with it with their vows! 😂😂😂🙃
I’m happy for you Melessia for your wedding redo. I never had a wedding and for a long time I was very sad about not having one, my husband and I will be married for 25 years in June. I thought about renewing our vows but then COVID happened, now I’m just praying for God to bless us with our dream house. I rather put that money towards our house. I pray your dream wedding is a big success. 😃
Butterfly kisses is beautiful! My husband loves this song & plays it every time he has special moments with our daughters. Congratulations on your renewal! My husband & I will be renewing our vows in 2022. I’m so EXCITED!
Lol I never in my life heard Butterfly Kisses before this video
I love that song.. Butterflykisses. What's funny though ....Kev knowing all the words of the song! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He hating because he want to lol He love the song deep down somewhere
I Iike the song by Major
Aruba for the wedding! Fantastic beaches and great weather year round. Jamaica as a close 2nd plus travel there is cheaper.
Weddings without a wedding party is definitely common lol I had one in 2016. Family walked down the isle and sat in front row and we were up there by ourselves
Just went to one that just had the parents and a flower girl & ring bearer walk down the aisle. The attendants were not missed.
Same ! 2015 for us. It was just my husband and I standing up there , with 14 guest in attendance😆
I just came across this episode and so cool to see how the vision manifested. Beautiful.
I was singing this song yesterday. Butterfly Kisses is the joint.
I know the cake looks funny Daddy, but I sure tried!
I walked down the aisle to the Major song...so when Kev played it, I got misty eyed🥺
Melissa I love Butterfly Kisses & it makes me cry tooo...Kevin the wordsss friend
Kevin singing Butterfly Kisses is sending me…Hollering!!!😂😂
PJ Morton singing First Began would be amazing
yessss
Absolutely!! Tears will be flowing
The Wade’s wedding was like that. Everyone in the audience was grooms men and bridesmaids💕 beautiful
39:10 Real Love by Eric Benet is a good song to include.
Consider giving the background people a mic. Love you Melissa!
Don't let Kev clown you on that Bob Carlisle song. Us church kids from the 90s remember it well! Lol
BIG FACTS!!!!!
I feel you Liss!!! I canceled my wedding, long story about my dress, we just went to a local justice and married in his atrium with his wife as the witness. It was a cute day, we were very young as well. I could not handle people telling me what I should want so I just didn't LOL
The new pictures were absolutely beautiful. I like India Arie Beautiful Surprise and Butterfly Kisses is a beautiful song as well. I also understand the no bridal party. I have said the same thing if I get married again.
Awe, I danced with my dad at my reception to Butterfly Kisses
I love that Butterfly Kisses song! I agree with Melissa!
Ahhhh 😂 Butterfly Kisses!! Melissa tried to disappear 🤣 that song is total tear jerker though 😭
Ooo KE-VIN stay telling ppl's business; his, Melissa's, Joshy, Angel's. Melissa looked at him like ok Mr. tell all our first time sex business.
I love Butterfly Kisses too, @Mrskevonstage!😍
It's alright Liss...I use to cry to that Butterfly Kisses too 😭. It's a beautiful song 🥰
Melissa has a perfect radio voice
If the photographs were out of this world gorgeous, I can only imagine how magnificent the ceremony will be!!
YES LIZ... Be yourself ❤️. Enjoy your day. ❤️
Liss, come to my country St Kitts 🇰🇳 excellent for destination weddings
Butterfly Kisses is a beautiful song
I like the butterfly kisses song!!!!
And the redo was beautiful. BUT a few folks were stressed out about the outfits lol
I totally understand Liss when she says it's gonna be her day!!!! Get what you want baby and Kev, you just pipe down!
June 26 is my anniversary as well
Kev! That’s a beautiful song!!❤️❤️❤️
Butterfly kisses was me and my father's song when I was younger and it makes me cry every time I hear it! I'm not ashamed!! Hehe🙌🏾😭
Now I wish y’all recorded the wedding so we could see how “bad” it was😂
And Melissa let Kev have his ribs lol!
Pastor Cal will be officiating
This year I will be married for 21 years and I never really had huge thoughts or plans for a wedding. And after I attempted to get excited about a wedding I look into the calls instead we bought two houses one of them in one of the income property. We put a lot of emphasis on on a day for pictures.
Girl I said the same thing for my renewal this on is about me. Period
Come to Barbados!
Melissa on our honeymoon Butterfly Kisses played everywhere. We didn't play it at the wedding, but we got pregnant, with our daughter, on our honeymoon- not exactly planned. She's 23 now and I'm pretty sure when she gets married she'll play it. We used to put her to sleep playing it. It's such a beautiful song and Daddy's girls get it.
The words of Butterfly Kisses are beautiful. Have it your way Lis!!
I had to go look for a pic. I only saw a pic at an angle but i think you looked beautiful. Kev is so stressed already 😂
🤣🤣flap flap flap! Aww Kev is so sweet !
Liss your wedding is going to be FIRREEEEEEE
Kev better be on his best behavior or else Melissa is going to find a stand-in lol
Kev's disappointment when Liss says they are writing their vows!
Bruh--- I was listening to the podcast in my car and I freakin died just hearing @kevonstage doing the Butterfly Kisses impression....I literally had to pull over-- I watched it just to see if the hilarity would match; it did not disappoint. Lol !!!!!
Melissa not playing! "it's mine and I want it done this way!"
I totally understand the lack of control you feel when you get married and someone else is paying and gets to make key decisions.
I would like to redo my marriage, however I'd also need a completely different groom this time!! 🙊
That last part tho 😂😂😂☠️
😂😂
Angel should definitely do the renewal!
Liss, I did not have bridesmaids for that very reason! Our neice was the flower girl and nephews were ring bearer and broom carrier. I was not fooling with grown folks!!
Kev suit was a big bag bussing out the Bentley bentayga 😂
Hold up..😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
@@amcclain1989 you seen the pic on Melissa IG? TEARS
Josh can get ordained for free online. All he have do pay for the book or books package.
Yes Galvin and Nu Vison. The Tacoma girl and me was like Nu Vison is the name. I love when you guys talk about home.
Liss!!! I completely understand. I also want a do over too.
The person who has the money makes is the one that really has the final say and that wasn’t me.
Melissa’s nails are giving me all the things 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Noticed all the ladies got white nails lately.
Ima need this whole wedding streamed. Lol
Kevin and Melissa look all of 17 in their wedding photo