Here's a thought to ponder: When Whitney first agreed to marry Bobby Brown, be honest, how many of you were shocked? My next question is, if you were shocked, WHY were you shocked? I'll tell you why... because in that moment, you realized there was a disconnect between the classy diva image that the record company sold you, and the type of person she would have to be in order to love Bobby Brown. So my question to you is this, if you THEN discovered there was a side of Whitney you never knew, then how can you be so sure she wasn't a cocaine user before she ever met Bobby Brown? I get so tired of people saying Bobby brought Whitney down. If she shocked us by saying yes to his proposal, right there was your first clue that we didnt know her as well as we thought we did.
I don't believe he introduced her to drugs, but I believe she continued because of his jealousy, where she had tone down herself and her fame so that he could feel like was the man of the household and that he was still relevant in the entertainment industry. Also his cheating didn't make it better, not to mention the crazy stuff he would do like drawing creepy eyes around the house. Also the stress of her fame in general, as that exploded after the bodyguard, and the fact that she had several abortions must have triggered a deep depression. What he is to blame for is that he didn't want to let her go, even if that was the better for her health and well being...They loved so hard, they brought each other down.
AMEN! She was not innocent, she was simply a talented beauty, who was portrayed as a damn saint by the media. We have no idea what goes on in these celebrities personal lives, only what they allow us to, which could also be a damn lie.
Bobby was not responsible for Whitney's drug use. Her brother Michael got on Oprah and clearly stated that HE was the one who introduced her to it. Bobby looks well. He is clearly trying to change his life
Bobby Brown changed his behavior for 100%. He's so serious and well reflected in this interview I've never seen him before. I wish all the best to him. Nice guy. He lost a lot.
Bobby Brown spoke very well of his Ex-wife. He gave her the utmost respect even though Matt's trying to pull out dirt from under his fingernails about her he handled that interview like a well-spoken, and loving man.. (In his own words) I HAVE NOTHING BUT LOVE FOR WHITNEY, I LOVED HER EVEN THOUGH I'M ABOUT TO GET MARRIED.. MY SOON TO BE WIFE KNOWS HOW I FELT ABOUT WHITNEY AND SO DID MY KIDS. I'M IN TEARS BECAUSE I BELIEVE HIM AND I MISS HER AND BOBBI KRISSY! REST IN PEACE LADIES. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Even after her own brother has taken ALL CREDIT for being the one who first introduced her to drugs, and even WHITNEY HERSELF had stated several times that Bobby never introduced her to drugs. It has always been their story that before they got together, Bobby was just a frequent drinker and weed smoker - not a cocaine user... yet, you ppl STILL insist on blaming him for her downfall, #Wow!!! This, for me, is absolute proof we're now living in a world where no one likes to hear, wants to hear , or willing to accept THE TRUTH when its given to them. Continuing to blame this man for something we now KNOW HE WAS NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR, is blatant denial. Do yourselves a favor and ACCEPT THE TRUTH - and the truth is, SHE chose her own path and that path lead to her demise.
doesn't matter. he was jealous of her success, she said it and in their interviews together, you can notice how jealous he was of her. She was Whitney Houston and he couldn't compare.
TheLine Agreed! He SPIT in her face.... That's not exactly a loving gesture.... His hands are not clean.... Bottom line she is gone and he goes on.... If only he was half the man he is now....
Exactly! I grew up with people putting this shit in my head as well.. “It was Bobby!” “Bobby turned her to it!” I was then too young to ever understand what was REALLY going on, I’m now 20, and I admire Whitney, but I now realize she may have been just as “wild” as Bobby in his prime, if not more. She can’t fool me with that “Princess” image. 💁🏾♀️
WE love you Bobby, Whitney and Bobby Kristina. I always knew that Bobby made her better. I want to hear about Whitney the singer the impact she made on the world. Thank Mrs. Cissy for sharing your only daughter with us. Sooo Proud of the Super Star!!!!!!
Come on people. She led him to addiction on the hard drugs. They loved each other deeply but sadly under the influence of drugs people act badly.....leading to the arrests and physical/emotional battering they BOTH did to each other. I saw that reality show and Whitney could run her dammed mouth and get up in his face. He is devastated over the death of his ex wife and daughter. Stop blaming him. He has been sober for years. I commend him.
Nobody needs to or should ever blame him for Whitney's Death or drug use, Her brother has already stated that he got her hooked on drugs long before her and Bobby even met. She is gone now and People should learn from her death the effects of drug use instead of placing blame on Bobby Brown.
She was loved. We are all gonna die but not all of us are going to be able to say we were really and truly loved by someone. Bobby, no matter what went on, still professes love for her to this day. He has a lot of class for telling the truth like that.
Everything aside... those last few words... were a great tribute... because Whitney adored that man "for better or worst!" The best gift (besides continuing on) you can give someone who has passed on is to simply remember them.. Bobby remembered Nippy in love... everyone can judge all the day long... but whats done is done, and as Cissy said, "let the church say Amen"
I find it extremely hard to believe that Bobby wasn't an instigator in Whitney's drug use. He even tells a story about his own mother dealing cocaine when he was young. Supposedly he had no clue and fried a chicken in it while his mom was out. Whitney isn't here to defend herself, and All we hear is his side of the story. I believe Whitney was on drugs before she met this guy, her brother admitted the fact. That still doesn't excuse Bobby. He could have gotten her the help she so desperately needed had he not been messed up too. He is remarried with a new family now......Whitney and Bobby Christina are gone. Let them RIP.
I believe he protected his wife. I believe he took the blame for her. He had his troubles, but I think Whitney was good at hiding her secretes and he helped her do that because he loved her.
Chris Rydaa The Houstons are more of a blame than the Browns. Whitney's brother admitted he introduced her to cocaine when she was a teenager. And her mother made her stifle her homosexuality because she wanted her to be a famous singer.
Eboni Brown very true, Gary Houston admitted in front of his mom Cissy that he got her started on drugs, and maybe it was just me but Cissy looked surprised, or shocked
"Drugs" killed Whitney and she was the one that allowed them into her life, so quit blaming & finger pointing. " Drugs Kill ", end of story. Whitney loved & adored Bobby, and he loved & adored her, they weren't just husband & wife, they were the best of friends. I'm happy that they got to experience that kind of unconditional love together, it's not often it happens to couples in the spotlight. I wish , if anything is to be learned from Whitney's death, is that drugs do not discriminate,..they kill ! R. I. P. Whitney
Loved and adored? but Bobby beat her, cheated from the start & ending of the marriage, spit at her, and cut her face and she was rushed to the hospital. He was a menace! He did not love her.
Bobby adored and loved her, you say? - Maybe...but I would never treat a woman by hitting her that her lips are bleeding...and I wouldn't spit on her!! Bobby did all that, this is a fact, not just rumors, so yeah...I don't say he is guilty on her death...but he was no good to her either!
Whitney was using drugs way before she ever knew Bobby Brown, her Brother said that in a interview! Her brother is the one who turned her on to drugs he said that in a Oprah Winfrey interview.
Annette Rome Yes he did. You can look up the interview on here. It was an Oprah interview special with Whitney's family and he stated that they did everything together and drugs was one of those things. He specifically stated that it was NOT Bobby who started her on drugs and that it was him and that he has to live with that every day of his life.
Annette Rome The interview where he states this on youtube is titled "Whitney Houston's Brother Makes a Shocking Revelation | Oprah's Next Chapter | Oprah Winfrey Network" . Watch and you can see for yourself.
this man was in love with her and still is without a doubt but he had too move on with his life after her passing they had a unbelievable but beautiful union
This is hard man. I wouldn't do this interview knowing that both his ex and his daughter passed. It's too traumatic. :( Bobby was brave. People were asking questions and I'm glad he spoke up. I'm tired of the media speaking and people around him speaking about him when we haven't heard from him about everything. If you look at the VH1 untold story, they interviewed a drug dealer who used to give Whitney's drugs it was way before she met Bobby. People need to get it straight. Both Whitney and Bobby were using as they admitted in their interviews - but as Bobby said, it was a struggle. Only people with addictions would understand that. We can't understand it unless we've been there.
They both had an equal part to play in their own addictions. When you're a child one of your first words learn to say is "no". Unless a gun is put to your head there isn't anything anyone can MAKE you do. I loved Whitney as an artist throughout her entire career. I loved Bobby during his musical career back in the 80's and 90's. But I didn't know either of them personally, so I can't judge their lives on their mistakes and mishaps seen from the outside. Nothing any of us can ever say will be anything more than assumptions and accusations.
Bobby Brown isn't the bad guy, she admit she had taken drugs before him. Everybody is responsable for his own actions, i am still sad Whitney Houston isn't with us anymore. We don't know these people, we know them from the tabloids and there music! that's it!
Fanai Armstrong I don't agree with either you nor sunshine52512. Of course, Whitney tried drugs before. So did Obama for that matter. Trying them is one thing, getting immersed in them within the wrong company is another. Bobby dragged her down and not just with drugs. His pushing her into appearing on his reality TV show was selfish on his part and a career disaster for her. And NO, I am not getting this from tabloids. This is what Whitney's family say and what they think. Their decision to not allow Bobby to sit at the front row at the funeral was their way of letting the world know exactly what they thought of him.
toussaintf1 Blaming Bobby is overplayed now. It's really overplayed to blame Bobby for Whitney's choice she made when she was alive. Sunshine52512 and Fanai were right.
MsKira1313 For you it is 'overplayed' because you share Sunshine52512 and Fanai's opinion. Not everyone agrees with you and Whitney's family certainly does not.
toussaintf1 Whitney's brother and mother came on Oprah's talk show with their mom. Her brother confessed that he was the one that started Whitney on the drugs, not Bobby. Whitney was on the drugs way before she met Bobby. Bobby is not at fault for her drug problems.
It bothers me when idiots wanna blame Bobbi for Whitney's life and her death... People genuinely believe that that "fake girl" act Whitney put on for the first few years of her career was actually her... It's like when we were kids when we meet new people for the first time or we're in a social setting, we're not gonna be ourselves and act crazy around them... Same thing with Whitney. She knew how to behave in the media and in a public setting but the REAL her was a little ratchet and it's stupid to blame other people for her choices and for who SHE was.
God is the only one that can bring you here and the only one that can take you a way. You can't blame it on nobody . You can't be responsible for any one life when God is ready for you he can get you cause you can't hide , Whitney Houston I will always love you forever. Rest in ☮️
Bobby you are a true gentlemen .you never ever talked bad about Whitney or the Houston family,you knew everybody was gonna blame you for Whitneys drug use.and you still stood by her by not back lashing at her or her family.Your mother raised you right!!!
Bobby was a cancer during Whitney's life and he remains one now that she's gone. How many interviews must he do, how many books must he write exploiting her memory for money and not even keeping his lies straight? Besides, Whitney was doing great before him, making movies the first 10 years or so with him - while he was getting arrested and causing trouble. Then she finally fell apart and he and his family seemed to just exploit her over and over, and continues to this day.. He deserves blame for HIS actions.
I love Whitney but clearly She had an addiction to cocaine, Bobby Brown is not responsible for her Dead, perhaps things were so out of control in their marriage drugs history of abuse etc... He wasn't able to help her , he needed help himself. sad ending to a Amazing , beautiful talented woman . R.I.P. Withney we'll forever miss you.
Bobby Brown will never killed her, he does loved her. I can hear the pain in his voice and people keep on accusing of him killing her like what the hell!
Bullshit he was a grown assume man who was on the way of destruction anyway. They both had a part to play plus he had an alcohol addiction before met Whitney, which made him very abusive towards her. Whitney never blamed Bobby for anything.
The blame game is not helpful. The woman is dead. They both admitted to being addicts. I'm quite sure neither one had to put a gun to the others head to get them to smoke some crack. My only hope is that Bobbi Christina's upbringing wasn't as horrifying as its beginning to look, and that she is OK.
In the beginning I blamed Bobby Brown for her death but honestly what I've heard not only from others but from her own mouth it wasn't Bobby Brown that turned her onto drugs narcotics I mean it was Whitney Houston who actually turned him.
My idoit always and I will always love Whitney and I'ma miss her very much so as if I really knew her personally plus I grew up with her music and I love it all...R.I.P.and Heaven.And to me her and Bobby had something in common with the good,bad and ugly,sadden missed
*Whitney Houston life didnt start going down when she meet Bobby Brown! Her life first started going down when her own older brother introduce her to drugs people! I have to say I appreciate the courage that it took for her own brother to admit that he was the first to start her on drugs, because he could have set back and let the world continue to blame Bobby! Anyways I bet Whitney herself would say quit blaming Bobby, because she's responsible for herself and her own actions! Matter a fact I think she did say once! Anyways yes Bobby wasn't the best husband, or influence in her life along with her brother, but I bet if he wouldn't have been on drugs she probably wouldn't have gave him the time of day long, and vice versa cause birds of a feather flock together, plus Whitney to me seem like a person that was like its either my way or the highway when it comes to things she really wanted to do, especially when she was younger, and I think Bobby was the same way too when he was younger, but that's just my opinion though. Whitney & Bobby sadly I think was just no help to each other or anyone when it came to those drugs which also cause poor Bobbi Kristina to get caught up too. Anyways the whole point is Whitney is resting in peace with her daughter now and I'm pretty sure she have forgave herself, her mom, her brother & Bobby Brown now & so should everybody else, cause Nobody's perfect.*
It makes so sad that you know she loved him so much too but in her interview with oprah she expresses the relationship with him didnt help her to quite the drugs if anything it keep her stuck life of drugs she never got out of. Its so sad such a beautiful soul.
It's strange that people are saying that he didn't do drugs, but his band mates said he did hard drugs. He even had it on stage during one of his concerts. Maybe he was just selling it due to the industry stealing money.
They may have been toxic for each other, but this man loved her in life and death. He has NEVER spoken badly about her publicly. I salute him for being mature enough to move past their issues.
citygirl81 yes but lying is sort of the same thing. Being jealous of your partner, being abusive. He could just be honest, I'd respect him more. Say I've grown, was in a bad place etc... he was no good influence at all, and caused her so much pain.
F F But he’s already expressed the relationship was toxic, and if he could turn back time, and make it right for not only Whit, but his daughter, he would. They both were abusing each other, Whitney never admitted to her doings while she were still here.. so what’s the problem? He’s owned up to more than she ever had. Stop trying to shoulder the blame on him all of the the damn time! They both were addicts, and they both did each other wrong, period.
Wow...Anne Curry. The last legitamcy of the Today Show. I miss her. Bobby is/was a scapegoat, and the media has done an excellent job in villifying him.
TROY DAVIS ..right. Everyone got a little quiet when Whitney's brother admitted to introducing her to drugs. Even Chaka Khan said she was doing it prior to Bobby (when Chaka was in it herself in the 80's). Everyone thought Bobby was a bad boy and corrupted Whitney, but she was hood before Bobby..just Arista records changed her image. How do we know she didn't introduce him to the hard stuff? Yes, they didn't make a good match, we don't know if she married him because of the rumors about her sexuality, we don't know anything unless you lived with them. Yes, the media has shot him down and accused him of everything, and we as the public just goes along with it. I'm glad he got himself together. Now he has to deal with the death of his daughter. I hope folks leave him alone.
its always been baffling to me how ppl always say "Whitney life went down hill after she got wit bobby" if u ask me it was the other way around bobby life went down hill after dont be cruel album.... "bobby" the album did alright but nothing like "dont be cruel" and by the time the album "bobby" came out he was already wit Whitney so that's why I say after "don't be cruel" he was going down hill so to blame this man all these years for somethin he did not do is so wrong ppl be forgetting Whitney is 6yrs older then bobby ....when they got together he was 22 she was 28 a 22 &28yr old mind are not the same a 22yr old boy is still like a 18yr old a 28yr old women is like a 35yr old so I say all that to say in this case it really seem like Whitney got him hooked on drugs but still in all im not blaming no1 Cuz they are grown ppl who made all their own decisions ....can't blame bobby for Whitney habits and u cannot blame Whitney for bobby's habits ..... r.I.p Whitney r.I.p bobbi Kris. ....may god bless bobby b.
sha rich626 Exactly! She led him down a path of destruction, he was just a damn boy. Mind wasn’t even there yet, but Whitney knew better. She was an old enough woman to know what she wanted in a marriage, and what she wouldn’t tolerate. She gravitated towards him, because she saw herself in him, period. They weren’t too different from one another, regardless of what the media wanted you to believe. Hell, they both hood.
We all have our faults; no one is perfect. In spite of some of their character flaws which are by no means uncommon, I believe Bobby and Whitney are beautiful people who brought a lot of joy to this world with their tremendous gifts. Rather than throw blame or criticize, I choose to celebrate their lives, and honor Whitney in particular for the light she gave to us in the time she had here on earth.
Unless Bobby Brown held Whitney down and forced her to do drugs only then will I see it being his fault, but everyone know that didn't happen, Whitney was a addict and died as one. Bobby is not the blame. Wish some people will hold Whitney feet to the fire and make her accountable for her own actions.
This guys questions are too much. Bobby did well to compose himself. I respect him and feel for him. Everyone is like Whitney could of quit da drugs. Its not like giving up cigarettes or weed. Coke will destroy everything you are fullstop.
Only he and Whitney knew their lives... I also think because she seemed so pure, young n beautiful because of her upbringing and her voice that it had to be all his doing. Addiction is so sad. I don't understand it, but I know its not a character thing as much as a struggle for some. Sad sad. She seemed angelic and he was the' bad boy' ??????
When bobby and whitney met, whitney was already hooked on drugs. Even her brothers and parents admitted that she was doing drugs way before and that she was a much heavier user than bobby.
Whitney killed Whitney. Bobby Brown appears to be more of a victim than her. She was a grown ass woman, he was younger then her and impressionable so it was probably more of an opposite scenario to what a lot of people are saying. I understand why people may turn to drugs in the first place and get hooked and I also understand that it must be incredibly difficult to get off, but the fact is HER choices are what killed her. That is the sad truth.
Whitney started doing drugs in high school. Bobby was about 12/13 when she was in high school. It didn't help that he started doing them after they got together but it wasn't his fault that she started. He got himself together and tried to help her but Whitney does what Whitney wants.
TO BOBBY BROWN MAY YOU LIVE IN PEACE. TO ALL IN THE FAMILY MAY YOU ALL LIVE IN PEACE. BECAUSE THE NIGHT OF OUR ANGEL' S DEATH NO ONE KNOWS BUT GOD. WE HAVE TO TAKE THE THE HEART BREAK OF OUR LOST AS WELL AS KRISIE THE ANGEL TO US ALL, AND PRAY THAT GOD WILL KEEP ALL OF THIS ON HIS ALTER FOR HIS WILL TO BE DONE. GOD BLESS YOU ALL...
I am so glad it was real......whitney had class ...she liked the bad boys ...immature ones for her...excitement.....a gentleman perhaps would have bored her
Whitney was a grown ass woman with a mind of her own. Its not anybody fault but hers.. i use to blame my moms crack habit on her boyfriend but as i got older i realize it was her choice.. if u r a follower and weak minded person n want 2 b part of the crowd thats on u... unless somebody hold a gun 2 ur head something the blame is on u..
You don't have to have an addictive personality to get hooked on cocaine. It's immediately addictive to ANYONE who tries it. In the end, that addiction is stronger than one's ability to fight it.
I completely 100% believe Bobby Brown!!! I am an avid fan of he and Whitney ' s music still today. He has become the fall guy for her death but he's not to blame. Whitney was using prior to her meeting him. Her brother, Michael, admitted to Oprah live and in living color while sitting next to their mother Cissy Houston that he is fully responsible for putting Whitney on drugs. There was jealousy and animosity between Whitney and her brothers that was set in motion by momma Cissy. She made it crystal clear in a recent interview that she favored Whitney more than her boys. She did not want sons at all. Imagine the tension in that family with their mom creating that kind of atmosphere. I've experienced that in my own family. It ain't cool. I love Cissy Houston but she wrong for that one and she needs to STOP blaming Bobby Brown and deal with the real issues.
stephanie nurse But she was unfaithful too. She slept with Tupac, her relationship with Robyn was still going on while she was with Bobby. These are his claims! But since y’all are so damn quick to believe Whitney, why can’t we Bobby? Hell, I’m convinced neither were loyal, they were addicts, and weren’t in the right mindset.
@@iMelanin I don't think that she continued to sleep with Robyn once she got married! She was too in love with Bobby Brown thooo! Her eyes were only for him. She kept Robyn around cause they were best friends and they were working together too!
Here's a thought to ponder: When Whitney first agreed to marry Bobby Brown, be honest, how many of you were shocked? My next question is, if you were shocked, WHY were you shocked? I'll tell you why... because in that moment, you realized there was a disconnect between the classy diva image that the record company sold you, and the type of person she would have to be in order to love Bobby Brown.
So my question to you is this, if you THEN discovered there was a side of Whitney you never knew, then how can you be so sure she wasn't a cocaine user before she ever met Bobby Brown? I get so tired of people saying Bobby brought Whitney down. If she shocked us by saying yes to his proposal, right there was your first clue that we didnt know her as well as we thought we did.
Thank you very much. I have been saying this all of the time.
Rob Lett
she'd still be alive today if she had never married bobby.
I don't believe he introduced her to drugs, but I believe she continued because of his jealousy, where she had tone down herself and her fame so that he could feel like was the man of the household and that he was still relevant in the entertainment industry. Also his cheating didn't make it better, not to mention the crazy stuff he would do like drawing creepy eyes around the house. Also the stress of her fame in general, as that exploded after the bodyguard, and the fact that she had several abortions must have triggered a deep depression. What he is to blame for is that he didn't want to let her go, even if that was the better for her health and well being...They loved so hard, they brought each other down.
Rob Lett AMEN!
AMEN! She was not innocent, she was simply a talented beauty, who was portrayed as a damn saint by the media. We have no idea what goes on in these celebrities personal lives, only what they allow us to, which could also be a damn lie.
Bobby was not responsible for Whitney's drug use. Her brother Michael got on Oprah and clearly stated that HE was the one who introduced her to it. Bobby looks well. He is clearly trying to change his life
Right!!
Bobby was right, you can't help an addict unless they want help..
Bobby brown gave r beautifull whitney menta abuse, and I do believe that he cheated on her with numros woman ,scum bag
@@saskiaenglish5487 They cheated on each other
Yeah he can’t even help himself
And in the end, sometimes the addiction is syringe than one's ability to fight it.
@@kimberlymcneill7283 Whitney didn’t cheat on bobby
Bobby Brown changed his behavior for 100%. He's so serious and well reflected in this interview I've never seen him before. I wish all the best to him. Nice guy. He lost a lot.
Bobby Brown spoke very well of his Ex-wife. He gave her the utmost respect even though Matt's trying to pull out dirt from under his fingernails about her he handled that interview like a well-spoken, and loving man.. (In his own words) I HAVE NOTHING BUT LOVE FOR WHITNEY, I LOVED HER EVEN THOUGH I'M ABOUT TO GET MARRIED.. MY SOON TO BE WIFE KNOWS HOW I FELT ABOUT WHITNEY AND SO DID MY KIDS. I'M IN TEARS BECAUSE I BELIEVE HIM AND I MISS HER AND BOBBI KRISSY! REST IN PEACE LADIES. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amen 🙏
Even after her own brother has taken ALL CREDIT for being the one who first introduced her to drugs, and even WHITNEY HERSELF had stated several times that Bobby never introduced her to drugs. It has always been their story that before they got together, Bobby was just a frequent drinker and weed smoker - not a cocaine user... yet, you ppl STILL insist on blaming him for her downfall, #Wow!!! This, for me, is absolute proof we're now living in a world where no one likes to hear, wants to hear , or willing to accept THE TRUTH when its given to them. Continuing to blame this man for something we now KNOW HE WAS NEVER RESPONSIBLE FOR, is blatant denial. Do yourselves a favor and ACCEPT THE TRUTH - and the truth is, SHE chose her own path and that path lead to her demise.
shame they must apologise......the guy was innocent, after all these years people hated a wrong person shame.
doesn't matter. he was jealous of her success, she said it and in their interviews together, you can notice how jealous he was of her. She was Whitney Houston and he couldn't compare.
TheLine Agreed! He SPIT in her face.... That's not exactly a loving gesture.... His hands are not clean.... Bottom line she is gone and he goes on.... If only he was half the man he is now....
absolutely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Exactly! I grew up with people putting this shit in my head as well.. “It was Bobby!” “Bobby turned her to it!” I was then too young to ever understand what was REALLY going on, I’m now 20, and I admire Whitney, but I now realize she may have been just as “wild” as Bobby in his prime, if not more. She can’t fool me with that “Princess” image. 💁🏾♀️
Whitney’s image was portrayed squeaky clean. But as years passed I noticed Bobby wasn’t to blame.
Bobby was not a good man!
So what, he was a negative influence to Bobbi Kristina
@@haenockkebede8855 Both Whitney & Bobby were bad influences, fuck is you talking about 😒
@@haenockkebede8855 whitney let bobbi smoke cigarettes
I do believe Bobby was an Influencer in her life but then again Bobby never stuffed the Drugs down her throat. Whitney made her choice
WE love you Bobby, Whitney and Bobby Kristina. I always knew that Bobby made her better. I want to hear about Whitney the singer the impact she made on the world. Thank Mrs. Cissy for sharing your only daughter with us. Sooo Proud of the Super Star!!!!!!
Come on people. She led him to addiction on the hard drugs. They loved each other deeply but sadly under the influence of drugs people act badly.....leading to the arrests and physical/emotional battering they BOTH did to each other. I saw that reality show and Whitney could run her dammed mouth and get up in his face. He is devastated over the death of his ex wife and daughter. Stop blaming him. He has been sober for years. I commend him.
Nobody needs to or should ever blame him for Whitney's Death or drug use, Her brother has already stated that he got her hooked on drugs long before her and Bobby even met. She is gone now and People should learn from her death the effects of drug use instead of placing blame on Bobby Brown.
She was loved. We are all gonna die but not all of us are going to be able to say we were really and truly loved by someone. Bobby, no matter what went on, still professes love for her to this day. He has a lot of class for telling the truth like that.
He still protect her secrets to this day my heart breaks for him. I hope his babies help him to go on because I see Bobby grieving hard!!!!
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The whole world owes Bobby an apology
He beat her!
Not really. He emotionally abused her and cheated on her.
@@robtheipad8315 SHE ALSO ABUSED HIM TOO, AND WOULD SCRATCH AND PUNCH HIM DURING ARGUEMENTS
He speaks like a MAN who really loved this woman but felt helpless BECAUSE of the love the people who stood in their way!
Everything aside... those last few words... were a great tribute... because Whitney adored that man "for better or worst!" The best gift (besides continuing on) you can give someone who has passed on is to simply remember them.. Bobby remembered Nippy in love... everyone can judge all the day long... but whats done is done, and as Cissy said, "let the church say Amen"
Salute to you Bobby Brown , SPEAK YOUR TRUTH ❤️
the last picture of him and whitney. We lost a beautiful angel too soon.
Whitney was on drugs before she met bb . Get over it .
Exactly!
Yeah but he made her feel the need for drugs to deal with all his betrayal towards her come on the guy is a gutter snake
@@saskiaenglish5487 She told you that, or a wishful observation ?
He also did the girl ZERO favors in the process 🤔
I find it extremely hard to believe that Bobby wasn't an instigator in Whitney's drug use. He even tells a story about his own mother dealing cocaine when he was young. Supposedly he had no clue and fried a chicken in it while his mom was out. Whitney isn't here to defend herself, and All we hear is his side of the story. I believe Whitney was on drugs before she met this guy, her brother admitted the fact. That still doesn't excuse Bobby. He could have gotten her the help she so desperately needed had he not been messed up too. He is remarried with a new family now......Whitney and Bobby Christina are gone. Let them RIP.
This is one proud ex-husband I must say! His eyes light up when he talks about Whitney. Bless you Bobby!
I believe he protected his wife. I believe he took the blame for her. He had his troubles, but I think Whitney was good at hiding her secretes and he helped her do that because he loved her.
Se ele a amava e era tão bom como dizem, por que teve ciúmes , inveja fo sucesso dela?
It´s not fair to blame someone else for one´s drug abuse ou for any other choice in life. Whitney made her own choice, as much as Amy Winehouse.
People should stop being so judgemental
Keep your head up Bobby. Haters gonna hate.
As long as you know.. that's all that matters.
Rd g Jesus keep morpc s,e
They were both addicts he cannot be blamed for her death
I don't understand why people love to blame bobby. How could he help whitney if he was an addicted himself
Chris Rydaa The Houstons are more of a blame than the Browns.
Whitney's brother admitted he introduced her to cocaine when she was a teenager. And her mother made her stifle her homosexuality because she wanted her to be a famous singer.
+Chris Rydaa they were both addicted and both had issues
+Chris Rydaa because he was the one that introduced her to the drugs
Eboni Brown very true, Gary Houston admitted in front of his mom Cissy that he got her started on drugs, and maybe it was just me but Cissy looked surprised, or shocked
Chris Rydaa well he could've tried to help by not being abusive by doing things like spitting on her etc
"Drugs" killed Whitney and she was the one that allowed them into her life, so quit blaming & finger pointing. " Drugs Kill ", end of story. Whitney loved & adored Bobby, and he loved & adored her, they weren't just husband & wife, they were the best of friends. I'm happy that they got to experience that kind of unconditional love together, it's not often it happens to couples in the spotlight. I wish , if anything is to be learned from Whitney's death, is that drugs do not discriminate,..they kill ! R. I. P. Whitney
Whitney was a chain smoker, too.
I couldn’t agree with you more.
Loved and adored? but Bobby beat her, cheated from the start & ending of the marriage, spit at her, and cut her face and she was rushed to the hospital. He was a menace! He did not love her.
Bobby adored and loved her, you say? - Maybe...but I would never treat a woman by hitting her that her lips are bleeding...and I wouldn't spit on her!! Bobby did all that, this is a fact, not just rumors, so yeah...I don't say he is guilty on her death...but he was no good to her either!
@@tradingguy1004 don’t forget their second honeymoon. He gashed her face open and was rushed to the hospital for emergency surgery.
Whitney was using drugs way before she ever knew Bobby Brown, her Brother said that in a interview! Her brother is the one who turned her on to drugs he said that in a Oprah Winfrey interview.
I don't think so!
Annette Rome
Yes he did. You can look up the interview on here. It was an Oprah interview special with Whitney's family and he stated that they did everything together and drugs was one of those things. He specifically stated that it was NOT Bobby who started her on drugs and that it was him and that he has to live with that every day of his life.
Annette Rome The interview where he states this on youtube is titled "Whitney Houston's Brother Makes a Shocking Revelation | Oprah's Next Chapter | Oprah Winfrey Network" . Watch and you can see for yourself.
ur right bc he look healthy
this man was in love with her and still is without a doubt but he had too move on with his life after her passing they had a unbelievable but beautiful union
Bobby Looks Well. I hope he is Well.
This is hard man. I wouldn't do this interview knowing that both his ex and his daughter passed. It's too traumatic. :( Bobby was brave. People were asking questions and I'm glad he spoke up. I'm tired of the media speaking and people around him speaking about him when we haven't heard from him about everything. If you look at the VH1 untold story, they interviewed a drug dealer who used to give Whitney's drugs it was way before she met Bobby. People need to get it straight. Both Whitney and Bobby were using as they admitted in their interviews - but as Bobby said, it was a struggle. Only people with addictions would understand that. We can't understand it unless we've been there.
good interview Bobby Brown!! he’s speaking from his heart ♥️
So what wen he hit her on enormous accassions he was soon controlling
THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟BOBBY BROWN 💯♥️🖤💚 BROWN FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜.
Matt was a very insensitive interviewer. Repeating the same rude questions in different ways.
That's exactly what I thought!! How many times is he going to reword the same damn question?
@@hurricanecamille8089 couldn't believe how insensitive he was.
You ever notice how white media is so obsessed with black celebrity culture
Booooo hoooooo
They both had an equal part to play in their own addictions. When you're a child one of your first words learn to say is "no". Unless a gun is put to your head there isn't anything anyone can MAKE you do. I loved Whitney as an artist throughout her entire career. I loved Bobby during his musical career back in the 80's and 90's. But I didn't know either of them personally, so I can't judge their lives on their mistakes and mishaps seen from the outside. Nothing any of us can ever say will be anything more than assumptions and accusations.
Netta B Someone with common sense!
Bobby Brown isn't the bad guy, she admit she had taken drugs before him. Everybody is responsable for his own actions, i am still sad Whitney Houston isn't with us anymore. We don't know these people, we know them from the tabloids and there music! that's it!
Thank you somebody that speaks logic and knows the situation
Fanai Armstrong
I don't agree with either you nor sunshine52512. Of course, Whitney tried drugs before. So did Obama for that matter. Trying them is one thing, getting immersed in them within the wrong company is another. Bobby dragged her down and not just with drugs. His pushing her into appearing on his reality TV show was selfish on his part and a career disaster for her. And NO, I am not getting this from tabloids. This is what Whitney's family say and what they think. Their decision to not allow Bobby to sit at the front row at the funeral was their way of letting the world know exactly what they thought of him.
toussaintf1 Blaming Bobby is overplayed now. It's really overplayed to blame Bobby for Whitney's choice she made when she was alive. Sunshine52512 and Fanai were right.
MsKira1313
For you it is 'overplayed' because you share Sunshine52512 and Fanai's opinion. Not everyone agrees with you and Whitney's family certainly does not.
toussaintf1 Whitney's brother and mother came on Oprah's talk show with their mom. Her brother confessed that he was the one that started Whitney on the drugs, not Bobby. Whitney was on the drugs way before she met Bobby. Bobby is not at fault for her drug problems.
I LOVE and ADMIRE his HONESTY!
I am sure she'd tried harder drugs before meeting Bobby
It bothers me when idiots wanna blame Bobbi for Whitney's life and her death... People genuinely believe that that "fake girl" act Whitney put on for the first few years of her career was actually her... It's like when we were kids when we meet new people for the first time or we're in a social setting, we're not gonna be ourselves and act crazy around them... Same thing with Whitney. She knew how to behave in the media and in a public setting but the REAL her was a little ratchet and it's stupid to blame other people for her choices and for who SHE was.
God is the only one that can bring you here and the only one that can take you a way. You can't blame it on nobody . You can't be responsible for any one life when God is ready for you he can get you cause you can't hide , Whitney Houston I will always love you forever. Rest in ☮️
I believe Bobby and with him saying that he was deeply in Love with Whitney
Bobby you are a true gentlemen .you never ever talked bad about Whitney or the Houston family,you knew everybody was gonna blame you for Whitneys drug use.and you still stood by her by not back lashing at her or her family.Your mother raised you right!!!
stopp blaming him for her actions here
he stop and he had kept somber then herself not starting a change here
Bobby was a cancer during Whitney's life and he remains one now that she's gone. How many interviews must he do, how many books must he write exploiting her memory for money and not even keeping his lies straight? Besides, Whitney was doing great before him, making movies the first 10 years or so with him - while he was getting arrested and causing trouble. Then she finally fell apart and he and his family seemed to just exploit her over and over, and continues to this day.. He deserves blame for HIS actions.
gr8thingz12 noooo he was blames for her shit
Whitney was free basing crack years before she met Bobby. Her own brother admits it.
BangEmBeatZ no, her brother said he introduced her to cocaine in the late 80s. She met Bobby in the late 80s too. Bobby mom was a crack dealer.
It' weird. I still listen to Whitney's music daily. Stuff like this online reminds that she's no longer with us. My #1 Dive of all time!
People need to stop blaming Bobby Brown for Ms. Houston's drug use. I believe him!
+ shannonD68 ME NO. sorry
I love Whitney but clearly She had an addiction to cocaine, Bobby Brown is not responsible for her Dead, perhaps things were so out of control in their marriage drugs history of abuse etc... He wasn't able to help her , he needed help himself. sad ending to a Amazing , beautiful talented woman . R.I.P. Withney we'll forever miss you.
her brother got her hooked on drugs way before bobby was even in the picture
Bobby Brown will never killed her, he does loved her. I can hear the pain in his voice and people keep on accusing of him killing her like what the hell!
Like she said she was her own biggest DEAMON. RIP Whitney
She took on other people's demons as well that lead to her death.
Good for you Bobby for telling your own truth.
The N.E. movie shows Bob was doing cocaine in his teens...but I don't believe he got WH hooked on drugs...
Gina Tunstall He didn’t, it was her own brother Michael who introduced her, from then on out, her drug use was HER DECISION, HER RESPONSIBILITY.
Exactly!!! It's funny how ppl are so quick to say that.
But he was abusing coke too. He tries to act like he was so innocent . Stop
Whitney was doing coke back in the '80s. Bobby's life went to the shitter when he met Whitney. I'm glad he's alive though.
They both did drugs before they met each other. In an interview Bobby brown admitted to doing drugs at the age of 8.
ckmissghana She was the one who introduced him to cocaine and pretty much ruined his life.
No sugar coating lies Whitney can't harm him anymore. That's all that matters.
Bullshit he was a grown assume man who was on the way of destruction anyway. They both had a part to play plus he had an alcohol addiction before met Whitney, which made him very abusive towards her. Whitney never blamed Bobby for anything.
The blame game is not helpful. The woman is dead. They both admitted to being addicts. I'm quite sure neither one had to put a gun to the others head to get them to smoke some crack. My only hope is that Bobbi Christina's upbringing wasn't as horrifying as its beginning to look, and that she is OK.
I've always loved both of them. And always will. And from the sounds of it, they'll always loved each other and all of us too.
Love is ALL you need!
In the beginning I blamed Bobby Brown for her death but honestly what I've heard not only from others but from her own mouth it wasn't Bobby Brown that turned her onto drugs narcotics I mean it was Whitney Houston who actually turned him.
they loved eachother and they enjoyed their playground, knowbody wanted to get mature!
My idoit always and I will always love Whitney and I'ma miss her very much so as if I really knew her personally plus I grew up with her music and I love it all...R.I.P.and Heaven.And to me her and Bobby had something in common with the good,bad and ugly,sadden missed
*Whitney Houston life didnt start going down when she meet Bobby Brown! Her life first started going down when her own older brother introduce her to drugs people! I have to say I appreciate the courage that it took for her own brother to admit that he was the first to start her on drugs, because he could have set back and let the world continue to blame Bobby! Anyways I bet Whitney herself would say quit blaming Bobby, because she's responsible for herself and her own actions! Matter a fact I think she did say once! Anyways yes Bobby wasn't the best husband, or influence in her life along with her brother, but I bet if he wouldn't have been on drugs she probably wouldn't have gave him the time of day long, and vice versa cause birds of a feather flock together, plus Whitney to me seem like a person that was like its either my way or the highway when it comes to things she really wanted to do, especially when she was younger, and I think Bobby was the same way too when he was younger, but that's just my opinion though. Whitney & Bobby sadly I think was just no help to each other or anyone when it came to those drugs which also cause poor Bobbi Kristina to get caught up too. Anyways the whole point is Whitney is resting in peace with her daughter now and I'm pretty sure she have forgave herself, her mom, her brother & Bobby Brown now & so should everybody else, cause Nobody's perfect.*
It makes so sad that you know she loved him so much too but in her interview with oprah she expresses the relationship with him didnt help her to quite the drugs if anything it keep her stuck life of drugs she never got out of. Its so sad such a beautiful soul.
I LOVE BOBBY BROWN'S MUSIC
in past interviews there's old friends of Whitney who said that they used drugs with Whitney back in the 80s
Tineia Andrews That’s pretty much when she got started, her brother Michael introduced her. So I believe it.
Rest in peace whitney and Bobbi kristina
Poor guy took a huge loss :(
Boston strong bobby ;)
It's strange that people are saying that he didn't do drugs, but his band mates said he did hard drugs. He even had it on stage during one of his concerts. Maybe he was just selling it due to the industry stealing money.
Bobby Brown is not responsible. Whitney was a grown woman who made her own choices for her life. Rip Whitney.
They may have been toxic for each other, but this man loved her in life and death. He has NEVER spoken badly about her publicly. I salute him for being mature enough to move past their issues.
citygirl81 yes but lying is sort of the same thing. Being jealous of your partner, being abusive. He could just be honest, I'd respect him more. Say I've grown, was in a bad place etc... he was no good influence at all, and caused her so much pain.
F F But he’s already expressed the relationship was toxic, and if he could turn back time, and make it right for not only Whit, but his daughter, he would. They both were abusing each other, Whitney never admitted to her doings while she were still here.. so what’s the problem? He’s owned up to more than she ever had. Stop trying to shoulder the blame on him all of the the damn time! They both were addicts, and they both did each other wrong, period.
Wow...Anne Curry. The last legitamcy of the Today Show. I miss her. Bobby is/was a scapegoat, and the media has done an excellent job in villifying him.
TROY DAVIS ..right. Everyone got a little quiet when Whitney's brother admitted to introducing her to drugs. Even Chaka Khan said she was doing it prior to Bobby (when Chaka was in it herself in the 80's). Everyone thought Bobby was a bad boy and corrupted Whitney, but she was hood before Bobby..just Arista records changed her image. How do we know she didn't introduce him to the hard stuff? Yes, they didn't make a good match, we don't know if she married him because of the rumors about her sexuality, we don't know anything unless you lived with them. Yes, the media has shot him down and accused him of everything, and we as the public just goes along with it. I'm glad he got himself together. Now he has to deal with the death of his daughter. I hope folks leave him alone.
jmusic45 AMEN!
I believe every word Bobby is saying here!!!
I understand what Bobby Brown is saying.
she's in a better place , respects to Bobby , hold ya head up bruh !
its always been baffling to me how ppl always say "Whitney life went down hill after she got wit bobby" if u ask me it was the other way around bobby life went down hill after dont be cruel album.... "bobby" the album did alright but nothing like "dont be cruel" and by the time the album "bobby" came out he was already wit Whitney so that's why I say after "don't be cruel" he was going down hill so to blame this man all these years for somethin he did not do is so wrong ppl be forgetting Whitney is 6yrs older then bobby ....when they got together he was 22 she was 28 a 22 &28yr old mind are not the same a 22yr old boy is still like a 18yr old a 28yr old women is like a 35yr old so I say all that to say in this case it really seem like Whitney got him hooked on drugs but still in all im not blaming no1 Cuz they are grown ppl who made all their own decisions ....can't blame bobby for Whitney habits and u cannot blame Whitney for bobby's habits ..... r.I.p Whitney r.I.p bobbi Kris. ....may god bless bobby b.
sha rich626 Exactly! She led him down a path of destruction, he was just a damn boy. Mind wasn’t even there yet, but Whitney knew better. She was an old enough woman to know what she wanted in a marriage, and what she wouldn’t tolerate. She gravitated towards him, because she saw herself in him, period. They weren’t too different from one another, regardless of what the media wanted you to believe. Hell, they both hood.
I'm still a fan of Bobby brown
We all have our faults; no one is perfect. In spite of some of their character flaws which are by no means uncommon, I believe Bobby and Whitney are beautiful people who brought a lot of joy to this world with their tremendous gifts. Rather than throw blame or criticize, I choose to celebrate their lives, and honor Whitney in particular for the light she gave to us in the time she had here on earth.
So glad Bobby did this interview, it shows his love for Whitney.
Lady Tee i love this interview as well! And I'm glad he finally told people that he wasn't the one who got Whitney hooked!
Yes, it really showed the real side to Bobby on this one.
God is around Booby.Pray and dont despair....South Africa
I'm glad I am subscribed to this channel because I missed this part.thx for uploading this.
THANK U BOBBY FOR TELLING THE WHOLE TRUTH POINT BLANK..
Unless Bobby Brown held Whitney down and forced her to do drugs only then will I see it being his fault, but everyone know that didn't happen, Whitney was a addict and died as one. Bobby is not the blame. Wish some people will hold Whitney feet to the fire and make her accountable for her own actions.
This guys questions are too much. Bobby did well to compose himself. I respect him and feel for him. Everyone is like Whitney could of quit da drugs. Its not like giving up cigarettes or weed. Coke will destroy everything you are fullstop.
Only he and Whitney knew their lives... I also think because she seemed so pure, young n beautiful because of her upbringing and her voice that it had to be all his doing. Addiction is so sad. I don't understand it, but I know its not a character thing as much as a struggle for some. Sad sad. She seemed angelic and he was the' bad boy'
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When bobby and whitney met, whitney was already hooked on drugs. Even her brothers and parents admitted that she was doing drugs way before and that she was a much heavier user than bobby.
Whitney killed Whitney. Bobby Brown appears to be more of a victim than her. She was a grown ass woman, he was younger then her and impressionable so it was probably more of an opposite scenario to what a lot of people are saying. I understand why people may turn to drugs in the first place and get hooked and I also understand that it must be incredibly difficult to get off, but the fact is HER choices are what killed her. That is the sad truth.
Whitney started doing drugs in high school. Bobby was about 12/13 when she was in high school. It didn't help that he started doing them after they got together but it wasn't his fault that she started. He got himself together and tried to help her but Whitney does what Whitney wants.
People can't always be blamed for getting other people hooked on things. It is their own choice whether to do drugs etc.
Bobby still love Whitney Houston so much really and she still Him ❤
I totally agree that Bobby does not hold the blame! We all pour our own poison!
Bobby strikes me as a straight up honest man..I respect anyone who admits....
Let's stop judging and love.
I feel bad for him - people only cares about him in terms of Whitney (
Funny to hear him say I still love her today while engaged.
I don't think that Alicia would be happy about that, but she has to deal with it because she knows that Bobby will always love Whitney.
TO BOBBY BROWN MAY YOU LIVE IN PEACE. TO ALL IN THE FAMILY MAY YOU ALL LIVE IN PEACE. BECAUSE THE NIGHT OF OUR ANGEL' S DEATH NO ONE KNOWS BUT GOD. WE HAVE TO TAKE THE THE HEART BREAK OF OUR LOST AS WELL AS KRISIE THE ANGEL TO US ALL, AND PRAY THAT GOD WILL KEEP ALL OF THIS ON HIS ALTER FOR HIS WILL TO BE DONE.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL...
Some things r just better left unsaid!
I am so glad it was real......whitney had class ...she liked the bad boys ...immature ones for her...excitement.....a gentleman perhaps would have bored her
Whitney was a grown ass woman with a mind of her own. Its not anybody fault but hers.. i use to blame my moms crack habit on her boyfriend but as i got older i realize it was her choice.. if u r a follower and weak minded person n want 2 b part of the crowd thats on u... unless somebody hold a gun 2 ur head something the blame is on u..
I love Bobby! In spite of what Whitney has said or other people, he has never said anything bad about her. 👏
You don't have to have an addictive personality to get hooked on cocaine. It's immediately addictive to ANYONE who tries it. In the end, that addiction is stronger than one's ability to fight it.
Bobby brown we love u
I feel 💔 for Bobby Brown Whitney, Bobbi Kristina, & Bobby Jr may they rest peacefully. Bobby never got Whitney on drugs
I'm glad Bobby is getting clean... He looks alot better
Am touched
Bobbi should have slappec the Hell out of Mat!
Matt only asked the questions ppl wanted to know and he worded them as respectfully as he could...and he used a nonjudgemental tone
Stop attacking interviewers
Still in love with your Ex Wife and told your fiancée how you felt about your Ex 😳😳😳😳. How many men would be BLUNTLY honest 🤔
COURAGE BOBBY
I completely 100% believe Bobby Brown!!! I am an avid fan of he and Whitney ' s music still today. He has become the fall guy for her death but he's not to blame. Whitney was using prior to her meeting him. Her brother, Michael, admitted to Oprah live and in living color while sitting next to their mother Cissy Houston that he is fully responsible for putting Whitney on drugs. There was jealousy and animosity between Whitney and her brothers that was set in motion by momma Cissy. She made it crystal clear in a recent interview that she favored Whitney more than her boys. She did not want sons at all. Imagine the tension in that family with their mom creating that kind of atmosphere. I've experienced that in my own family. It ain't cool. I love Cissy Houston but she wrong for that one and she needs to STOP blaming Bobby Brown and deal with the real issues.
bobby wasnt to blame at all but he broke her heart he was cheating on her ALOT while they was together after they divorced she was using way more!
stephanie nurse But she was unfaithful too. She slept with Tupac, her relationship with Robyn was still going on while she was with Bobby. These are his claims! But since y’all are so damn quick to believe Whitney, why can’t we Bobby? Hell, I’m convinced neither were loyal, they were addicts, and weren’t in the right mindset.
@@iMelanin I don't think that she continued to sleep with Robyn once she got married! She was too in love with Bobby Brown thooo! Her eyes were only for him. She kept Robyn around cause they were best friends and they were working together too!