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Having to put up boundaries is so difficult! I’ve done it twice now with SP over the course of 1.5 yrs. 1. Last yr broke up bc he said he wanted to see someone else. I said I don’t want to talk to you. Deleted him and all that. He came back. 2. Now - im over the friendship. He likes some girl pictures a lot who’s close to him and it irks me bc he said he wasn’t ready to date and still watches my social media. So, I deactivated. I don’t want to engage passively. So yeah I’m in my feelings and it’s sucks and I miss him and it’s soooooo infuriating! But, boundaries help us deal.
Thank you. Your experience feels very similar to mine and my person has come back today in a way that isn’t acceptable to me and whereas normally I would be all lovely and nice about it this time I just didn’t feel good about it so am just leaving it. Great to hear this today.
How did you date others - knowing you’re wanting to be with someone else in the back of your mind. (Did you secretly always feel that wasn’t the right person?) esp in those 7 years before getting being with him.
How can I find out if she’s still with her boyfriend? She seems enthusiastic about a future catch up, but like you I don’t want that if they are together? How would I actually ASK her or find out? A tactful text that says I can’t if she’s with someone might not work, as she’s only ever (I think) seen me as a friend (although she did text me in November after 10 months of me not contacting her?) I can’t use social media as she’s a student teacher and has it set to private. Her last message ended recently with ‘…keep in touch.’ meaning WHAT? Aargh! It’s so frustrating 🤬😡
Oof I need to set this boundary now. We've been fwbs for three years, acting like a couple. But I'm at my limit. He wants to stay "friends". Is this possible?
@@mlong506argh don’t do friendship. He came back too and wanted friendship. But, it was this week where I had a snapping point. He keeps liking someone else on fb bc she posts sexy pics. He watches my social media too, but it just pisses me off being his friend when I want more. So I just deactivated and I am having my doubts but I also know I can’t do this passive 💩 I think they have to truly lose you to see your worth. I used to deactivate here snd there for weeks and he knew I’d be back. But this time, I’m sticking to it. I miss him and I wanna him to give me the attn online but I know it’s all passive. So now I’m like nope not getting back on until I get a text from him.
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Having to put up boundaries is so difficult! I’ve done it twice now with SP over the course of 1.5 yrs.
1. Last yr broke up bc he said he wanted to see someone else. I said I don’t want to talk to you. Deleted him and all that. He came back.
2. Now - im over the friendship. He likes some girl pictures a lot who’s close to him and it irks me bc he said he wasn’t ready to date and still watches my social media. So, I deactivated. I don’t want to engage passively.
So yeah I’m in my feelings and it’s sucks and I miss him and it’s soooooo infuriating! But, boundaries help us deal.
Soo spot on!! Why cant we be scared together? 😂🤔💕 So much makes sense when I watch your videos. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you. Your experience feels very similar to mine and my person has come back today in a way that isn’t acceptable to me and whereas normally I would be all lovely and nice about it this time I just didn’t feel good about it so am just leaving it. Great to hear this today.
The way I just set a boundary 20 min ago and now this video❤️🙏🏽
How did you date others - knowing you’re wanting to be with someone else in the back of your mind. (Did you secretly always feel that wasn’t the right person?) esp in those 7 years before getting being with him.
I wish I heard that before.. I didn't know what I know now too. Thank you for this video.. Deeply relatable
That is a powerful video. I love your insights. Very clarifying because they do resonate with me. You're like a True North here. 🙂
Love these long form personal anecdotes, corri! Get to learn so much from you this way ❤
omg i needed this today
How can I find out if she’s still with her boyfriend? She seems enthusiastic about a future catch up, but like you I don’t want that if they are together? How would I actually ASK her or find out? A tactful text that says I can’t if she’s with someone might not work, as she’s only ever (I think) seen me as a friend (although she did text me in November after 10 months of me not contacting her?)
I can’t use social media as she’s a student teacher and has it set to private.
Her last message ended recently with ‘…keep in touch.’ meaning WHAT?
Aargh! It’s so frustrating 🤬😡
Corri thank you for this , I’m going trough the same , he wanted me sexually still but I said no 😢
Oof I need to set this boundary now. We've been fwbs for three years, acting like a couple. But I'm at my limit. He wants to stay "friends". Is this possible?
@@mlong506argh don’t do friendship. He came back too and wanted friendship. But, it was this week where I had a snapping point. He keeps liking someone else on fb bc she posts sexy pics. He watches my social media too, but it just pisses me off being his friend when I want more. So I just deactivated and I am having my doubts but I also know I can’t do this passive 💩
I think they have to truly lose you to see your worth. I used to deactivate here snd there for weeks and he knew I’d be back. But this time, I’m sticking to it. I miss him and I wanna him to give me the attn online but I know it’s all passive. So now I’m like nope not getting back on until I get a text from him.