I'm so happy everyone is giving her her props. The sister is gifted!!!!!Ive been listening to her teachings for decades. I love her. I thank God daily that we finally have an African American sister therapist. Dr Phil is good but she is phenomenal😘😘😘
I read iyanlas book peace from broken pieces about 5yrs ago, it changed me. Started me on my path to self healing. I have no words on how much this woman means to me. However I wanna say I love her soooooooo much and thank u. Namaste.
It's 6:41 i'm glad this video gave me hope. it's been 27 years now and i think it's time to tell my mother how i feel as a son that needs to be loved. Since my father died of cancer.
I hope this went well for you! I just wanted to share my story, I’m 18 and it started therapy on my own, I recognized I could not hold this conversation with my mom and chose to write a letter to her, and free myself!
I love her. I have begun to let go of people who don't treat me right. I don't care ergo they are. I've given 5884356788900 chances to people and they take you for granted. Tired and done with that.
I heard along time ago nobody can take advantage of us without our permission. I live this and stay on guard.I want to add this doesn’t pertain to children. Children are innocent
Exactly why I dumped my boyfriend of 14 yrs. He saw nothing wrong because I was the only one complaining, instead of acknowledging I wasn't asking for the moon or stars. I wasn't good enough to please. I miss him dearly but know I'm healthier without him. This woman is right, we live once and I won't stop searching for my baby, I know he's out there haahaa.
Iyanla, I started reading your books wayyy before I knew what cable was, wayyy before I came to America. You have seen me through some rough times and I thank you.
Ms. Vanzant, I am in the depths of my sorrows at this moment and the only thing that brings me joy, is watching your videos and hearing your messages. Stay as beautiful as you are. With love, your grateful student in Toronto, Canada
Awesome Iyanla, both my grandma's ironed pillow cases and even my grandpa's undies..this brought back bitter- sweet memories. My favorite pillow cases were the ones my grandma crocheted. Thanks for including so much humor in your essence...it brings a refreshing twist!
thank you i needed to see this it made me realize that I am important also and there are times in life when other people are doing wrong, they try to make you look bad
I love this ,this is my 2016,i deserve more than im settling for.... I was almost brought to tears when i heard this,this is my and will be my motivaton Amen
You are wonderful. Thank you so much. I am finally at this next step in my life after so many years of abuse from others and myself to myself. Blessings to you.
self preservation is nature's first law...developing and maintaining a balanced psyche, an optomistic perspective and implementing prrsonal growth are yhe greatest of rewards. Iyana knows how to deliver the message with joy!
I really admire what you do. I have taken a look at my self my life and behaviors because of your wisdom and ur shows. Thank you for doing what u do. I would love to meet you my whole family needs their lives fixed.
Very Good Advice.........The chains of Abuse r very hard to Break.......U know i have found people are often judged as bad because they r abused or were abused.........Peace.......xoxoxoxo
Sometimes i just set down and watch.her videos cause I have absolutely nobody to support me or help me at all so . I do it my own i just need a little support plz god
Iyanla what to do when the abusive verbal ways (Daughter) are connected to drug addiction and /alcohol abuse ? And there are small grandchildren involved (9 and 12)
So I went through my address book, even if I did not know them I sent this video because there is NO-ONE who will not, BENEFIT THEMSELVES AND OTHERS JUST BY LISTENING.
victim of Domestic abuse, & I have 2 children ex is joining forces with bureuacratic system try to take my children away...he stole all my money (had own home prior 2 marriage, he took my profit of home, my nest egg) sold our $3 million dollar home and left my kids and I homeless. refinance my car - repo people coming after me...please help
u kno how women compete wit eachother with mundane astuteness..it would be a much better place if women now adays had the audacity to compete with a woman of the such likeness as IYANLA VANZANT.pOwerful,and sO beautiful.. wise,and sO witty..sO pluralistic and PRO-FOUND.....cause Only men Of men can nurture&be appreciative Of such remarkable wOman
I like this men. He has been good to me this summer. I want to take the next step with him. We have not had a sexual relationship. He told me that his ex wife did him wrong. I told him that i would never do that to him. Sometimes he tells me an a good person. Hw calls me jellybean. Once when he was talking with me, he said oh let's go home. He seems to be interested in me for the most part but sometimes I think he just wants to be friends. He has also told me that he doesn't want me to stop his friendship abruptly he said he wouldn't like it I think he really does care for me but is afraid to let go I do care and would like to say it to him. Help
I admire Iyanla's talents and appreciate her heart for people and her willingness to help them. I appreciate her courage to face whatever challenges she's had in her own life and how she draws from them to help others. I feel I've learned a lot about people and myself through many things she's said and done. My only issue is with how Ms. Van Zant mixes and matches various religious doctrines. I understand her application of whatever doctrines and principles that seem to be advantageous to helping people, no matter where they've come from. I also believe that every "major" religion has a portion of truth in it. However, when it comes to, at least the major 3 (Christianity, Judaism and Islam) their basic teaching claim exclusivity on a fundamental level that renders them inapplicable, in their fullness, for her methodology. In other words, by virtue of the nature of their own tenets, they are not to be used the way she is using them, in my understanding, based on having been a student of them. Actually, based on their tenets, as I understand them, she is voiding them out. This would basically render them resources for "motivational language", which might bolster people's self confidence and faith in themselves, but voids what they each claim is necessary for real spiritual strength, a restored relationship to God and their fellow man. I'm not judging Iyanla. I don't think she's just in it for the money or on a mission to lead people astray. I think she has a gift and is using it to fulfill what she believes is her destiny. I just know that in too many scenarios for me to remain comfortable, I've witnessed what I believe stands outside of fundamental Christian doctrine. I would add, however, that many who claim to follow God, in my opinion, could stand to learn a lot through Iyanla. Organized religion has too, too often been doctrine heavy and love light, full of laws and empty of mercy, quick with condemnation and slow with forgiveness, but the complete opposite will come up short too. We all have to judge what claims to be truth and goodness for ourselves.
Your my spiritual Earth Mother . Thank you for all the years . You were a voice in a time of my life when I needed help. I saw your book and I picked it up and read it and I couldn’t put it down.
![THIS IS HOW SMART PEOPLE TREAT TOXIC PEOPLE [ BEST MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH BY OPRAH WINFREY ]MUST WATCH.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/UTYHq-eztVA/mqdefault.jpg)
iylanla helped transform me. she helped me to realize, no matter what anyone else said, God loves me.
Is it kind,Is it loving,is it necessary -My life motto
I'm so happy everyone is giving her her props. The sister is gifted!!!!!Ive been listening to her teachings for decades. I love her. I thank God daily that we finally have an African American sister therapist. Dr Phil is good but she is phenomenal😘😘😘
I would love to meet her and talk to her
Yes! Self-Corrective Conversations. A great reason to talk to yourself. That's how get out the junk in your head. Clarity is the goal.
Iyanla is healing during this coronavirus pandemic greetings from Denmark 🇩🇰
I read iyanlas book peace from broken pieces about 5yrs ago, it changed me. Started me on my path to self healing. I have no words on how much this woman means to me. However I wanna say I love her soooooooo much and thank u. Namaste.
It's 6:41 i'm glad this video gave me hope. it's been 27 years now and i think it's time to tell my mother how i feel as a son that needs to be loved. Since my father died of cancer.
Bless you :)
I pray it worked out for u! God bless you'll and always be humble.
I hope this went well for you! I just wanted to share my story, I’m 18 and it started therapy on my own, I recognized I could not hold this conversation with my mom and chose to write a letter to her, and free myself!
Iyanla You Amazing Being - You get the message across with Humour, Compassion. Brilliant!
Thank you......
My beautiful Virgo sis!!! I get all of this! Love this message! 🙌🏾
She is a mentor for me.....have a lot of here books. They r all beneficial and real deep to the point....
I love her. I have begun to let go of people who don't treat me right. I don't care ergo they are. I've given 5884356788900 chances to people and they take you for granted. Tired and done with that.
I heard along time ago nobody can take advantage of us without our permission. I live this and stay on guard.I want to add this doesn’t pertain to children. Children are innocent
she's wearing a traditional inspired outfit....a Xhosa inspired outfit. my tribe.
yep she is.
None None Helllooo...
Hey fellow Xhosa🥰
Mine too!
@@ThobekaMhlongo6270 q+qqq++
Exactly why I dumped my boyfriend of 14 yrs. He saw nothing wrong because I was the only one complaining, instead of acknowledging I wasn't asking for the moon or stars. I wasn't good enough to please. I miss him dearly but know I'm healthier without him. This woman is right, we live once and I won't stop searching for my baby, I know he's out there haahaa.
Good for you.
I'm actually going through similar...how did you do it...I have been with him for 9 yrs now and I want out
Let people tell you the truth! That's a word, Mother!
Iyanla makes God's love feel more real and closer!
Iyanla, I started reading your books wayyy before I knew what cable was, wayyy before I came to America. You have seen me through some rough times and I thank you.
I love her so much
When I need reminding myself to be strong
She is a gift from God
To women and men
I just love
I have most of her books
Ms. Vanzant, I am in the depths of my sorrows at this moment and the only thing that brings me joy, is watching your videos and hearing your messages. Stay as beautiful as you are. With love, your grateful student in Toronto, Canada
Sophia Meron may blessings be with you... Pray it's gotten better!
Awesome Iyanla, both my grandma's ironed pillow cases and even my grandpa's undies..this brought back bitter- sweet memories. My favorite pillow cases were the ones my grandma crocheted. Thanks for including so much humor in your essence...it brings a refreshing twist!
I love me some Mama Iyanla❤
Thank you, I am on my path and doing my work....
I absolutely adore this woman
she could do stand-up for your soul lol love her
Thank you for sharing your wisdom it is helping me to regain myself and be the woman God intended me to be ,much lovexx
This is Very important for transforming my life.
Ugh it's so hard being attracted to people who mistreat you. I know all the steps and even follow them, and still can't stop!!!
Thank you Iyanla, for ALL you do! Your empowerment and spirit to serve is a healing tool to many. Thank you God for shedding light into my life.
if i dont watch you i will go crazy ivanla,,,keep encouraging me sister
God i love this woman
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK GOD IN YOU
thank you i needed to see this it made me realize that I am important also and there are times in life when other people are doing wrong, they try to make you look bad
You are a blessing Ms. Iyanla.
I love this ,this is my 2016,i deserve more than im settling for.... I was almost brought to tears when i heard this,this is my and will be my motivaton Amen
You are wonderful. Thank you so much. I am finally at this next step in my life after so many years of abuse from others and myself to myself. Blessings to you.
self preservation is nature's first law...developing and maintaining a balanced psyche, an optomistic perspective and implementing prrsonal growth are yhe greatest of rewards. Iyana knows how to deliver the message with joy!
You make me think and you make me smile and laugh.
I love miss iyanla vanzant
I really admire what you do. I have taken a look at my self my life and behaviors because of your wisdom and ur shows. Thank you for doing what u do. I would love to meet you my whole family needs their lives fixed.
Thank you for feeding my soul
Thank you! I love your energy and I love you for your strong attitude :) because I love watching people sharing the same life like me!
Thank you from all of my heart!
Im listening to every one of her lesson what a smart wise women her advice is prices less. Bless u mrs iyanla
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I love her,, she's amazing
i love my beloved sister ms iyanla is a blessing to all
Many blessings you make me laugh when you speak your truth have got nothing to laugh about it then listen to you bless up
I didn't know iyanla was a virgo!
😊😊😊😊
Love, love, love her
'Tell your truth!' On point Miss Iyanla! xo
is it kind, loving, necessary
This is so amazing...truly a God sent women.
She’s so amazing I love her thank you so much for sharing it helps me thank you 😊
You are an blessing to my soul ❤️😇
Love this thank you❤🙏
WE LOVE YOU IN THE FORTE-RODRIGUEZ FAM. IYANLA!
Part 4 :-( PLEASE!!!!
Very Good Advice.........The chains of Abuse r very hard to Break.......U know i have found people are often judged as bad because they r abused or were abused.........Peace.......xoxoxoxo
YES! YES! YES! HalleluYah! Shabbat Shalom everybody! 10/5/19
You are absolutely amazing
Very true point. Thanks 🙏.
That was beautiful. Thank you so much.
Loved the end!
2019,, my journey in courage for change with boldness.
i miss you when i need you
Love her .... mentor
This is soooo good thank you
Thank you Lyanla.. God bless you always!!!!!!
oh I love you..
Needed to hear that. Much respect. Thank you
I knew she was a Virgo 😅😅👍🏾👍🏾team Virgo
beautiful
Sometimes i just set down and watch.her videos cause I have absolutely nobody to support me or help me at all so . I do it my own i just need a little support plz god
Be open to who God sends, not always who you want. God taught me that. Be blessed.
I love you.
Thank you. Needed to hear this.
I loooovvvee her 💙
Thank You... This was much needed!
Lol that closer tho 😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾
Superb thoughts
Wonderful!
Iyanla what to do when the abusive verbal ways (Daughter) are connected to drug addiction and /alcohol abuse ? And there are small grandchildren involved (9 and 12)
Thank you!
Yes!!!
I needed this !
Awesome...
thank you
Spiritual Warrior Training I am Ready to Win...where is the link????
Amazing❤️
draw power from ancestors!
Amennnnnnnnnn 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾❤️
amen
🙏🏽
❤
So I went through my address book, even if I did not know them I sent this video because there is NO-ONE who will not, BENEFIT THEMSELVES AND OTHERS JUST BY LISTENING.
i love you
How do I sign up!!!
❤️❤️❤️
❤🙌🏽
victim of Domestic abuse, & I have 2 children ex is joining forces with bureuacratic system try to take my children away...he stole all my money (had own home prior 2 marriage, he took my profit of home, my nest egg) sold our $3 million dollar home and left my kids and I homeless. refinance my car - repo people coming after me...please help
11:30 aha moment
u kno how women compete wit eachother with mundane astuteness..it would be a much better place if women now adays had the audacity to compete with a woman of the such likeness as IYANLA VANZANT.pOwerful,and sO beautiful.. wise,and sO witty..sO pluralistic and PRO-FOUND.....cause Only men Of men can nurture&be appreciative Of such remarkable wOman
I like this men. He has been good to me this summer. I want to take the next step with him. We have not had a sexual relationship. He told me that his ex wife did him wrong. I told him that i would never do that to him. Sometimes he tells me an a good person. Hw calls me jellybean. Once when he was talking with me, he said oh let's go home. He seems to be interested in me for the most part but sometimes I think he just wants to be friends. He has also told me that he doesn't want me to stop his friendship abruptly he said he wouldn't like it I think he really does care for me but is afraid to let go I do care and would like to say it to him. Help
I admire Iyanla's talents and appreciate her heart for people and her willingness to help them. I appreciate her courage to face whatever challenges she's had in her own life and how she draws from them to help others. I feel I've learned a lot about people and myself through many things she's said and done. My only issue is with how Ms. Van Zant mixes and matches various religious doctrines. I understand her application of whatever doctrines and principles that seem to be advantageous to helping people, no matter where they've come from. I also believe that every "major" religion has a portion of truth in it. However, when it comes to, at least the major 3 (Christianity, Judaism and Islam) their basic teaching claim exclusivity on a fundamental level that renders them inapplicable, in their fullness, for her methodology. In other words, by virtue of the nature of their own tenets, they are not to be used the way she is using them, in my understanding, based on having been a student of them. Actually, based on their tenets, as I understand them, she is voiding them out. This would basically render them resources for "motivational language", which might bolster people's self confidence and faith in themselves, but voids what they each claim is necessary for real spiritual strength, a restored relationship to God and their fellow man. I'm not judging Iyanla. I don't think she's just in it for the money or on a mission to lead people astray. I think she has a gift and is using it to fulfill what she believes is her destiny. I just know that in too many scenarios for me to remain comfortable, I've witnessed what I believe stands outside of fundamental Christian doctrine. I would add, however, that many who claim to follow God, in my opinion, could stand to learn a lot through Iyanla. Organized religion has too, too often been doctrine heavy and love light, full of laws and empty of mercy, quick with condemnation and slow with forgiveness, but the complete opposite will come up short too. We all have to judge what claims to be truth and goodness for ourselves.
Lol!! Okay
I would love to have a opportunity to sit down with Mrs. Iyanla.
Your my spiritual Earth Mother . Thank you for all the years . You were a voice in a time of my life when I needed help. I saw your book and I picked it up and read it and I couldn’t put it down.
Yes yes me too praying that would happen on day.
She never mentions her other daughter who is alive 🤔. Maybe they are estranged.