Challenge Yourself ~Taking The Next Steps~ part 5

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  • @maxtheknife
    @maxtheknife 8 років тому +60

    iylanla helped transform me. she helped me to realize, no matter what anyone else said, God loves me.

  • @audrineeyjohnson6016
    @audrineeyjohnson6016 8 років тому +61

    I'm so happy everyone is giving her her props. The sister is gifted!!!!!Ive been listening to her teachings for decades. I love her. I thank God daily that we finally have an African American sister therapist. Dr Phil is good but she is phenomenal😘😘😘

  • @jaystan233
    @jaystan233 6 років тому +8

    Is it kind,Is it loving,is it necessary -My life motto

  • @nodlew1943
    @nodlew1943 11 років тому +7

    Yes! Self-Corrective Conversations. A great reason to talk to yourself. That's how get out the junk in your head. Clarity is the goal.

  • @stephanienissen4439
    @stephanienissen4439 4 роки тому +2

    Iyanla is healing during this coronavirus pandemic greetings from Denmark 🇩🇰

  • @kevinhsu7733
    @kevinhsu7733 8 років тому +27

    It's 6:41 i'm glad this video gave me hope. it's been 27 years now and i think it's time to tell my mother how i feel as a son that needs to be loved. Since my father died of cancer.

    • @C53Maximoff
      @C53Maximoff 8 років тому +2

      Bless you :)

    • @laughalotitsgoodforyourbod7627
      @laughalotitsgoodforyourbod7627 6 років тому +3

      I pray it worked out for u! God bless you'll and always be humble.

    • @malikgill3105
      @malikgill3105 2 роки тому

      I hope this went well for you! I just wanted to share my story, I’m 18 and it started therapy on my own, I recognized I could not hold this conversation with my mom and chose to write a letter to her, and free myself!

  • @starseedlove3768
    @starseedlove3768 6 років тому +9

    I read iyanlas book peace from broken pieces about 5yrs ago, it changed me. Started me on my path to self healing. I have no words on how much this woman means to me. However I wanna say I love her soooooooo much and thank u. Namaste.

  • @carmenm.478
    @carmenm.478 9 років тому +33

    Exactly why I dumped my boyfriend of 14 yrs. He saw nothing wrong because I was the only one complaining, instead of acknowledging I wasn't asking for the moon or stars. I wasn't good enough to please. I miss him dearly but know I'm healthier without him. This woman is right, we live once and I won't stop searching for my baby, I know he's out there haahaa.

    • @KismetSKinNurse
      @KismetSKinNurse 8 років тому +1

      Good for you.

    • @TheBengs_Gh
      @TheBengs_Gh 4 роки тому +1

      I'm actually going through similar...how did you do it...I have been with him for 9 yrs now and I want out

  • @barbaratraub2859
    @barbaratraub2859 7 років тому +24

    Iyanla You Amazing Being - You get the message across with Humour, Compassion. Brilliant!
    Thank you......

  • @harrietmuchu4070
    @harrietmuchu4070 Рік тому

    Iyanla makes God's love feel more real and closer!

  • @GlendaCunningham
    @GlendaCunningham 11 років тому +4

    She is a mentor for me.....have a lot of here books. They r all beneficial and real deep to the point....

  • @nonenone5247
    @nonenone5247 7 років тому +49

    she's wearing a traditional inspired outfit....a Xhosa inspired outfit. my tribe.

  • @bearice8340
    @bearice8340 5 років тому +9

    My beautiful Virgo sis!!! I get all of this! Love this message! 🙌🏾

  • @veronique1000
    @veronique1000 9 років тому +28

    I love her. I have begun to let go of people who don't treat me right. I don't care ergo they are. I've given 5884356788900 chances to people and they take you for granted. Tired and done with that.

    • @lindagucwa9685
      @lindagucwa9685 5 років тому +2

      I heard along time ago nobody can take advantage of us without our permission. I live this and stay on guard.I want to add this doesn’t pertain to children. Children are innocent

  • @LookNLive
    @LookNLive 10 років тому +6

    Let people tell you the truth! That's a word, Mother!

  • @Rjkui
    @Rjkui 11 років тому +2

    Iyanla, I started reading your books wayyy before I knew what cable was, wayyy before I came to America. You have seen me through some rough times and I thank you.

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 6 років тому +6

    I love her so much
    When I need reminding myself to be strong
    She is a gift from God
    To women and men
    I just love
    I have most of her books

  • @sophiameron9075
    @sophiameron9075 9 років тому +19

    Ms. Vanzant, I am in the depths of my sorrows at this moment and the only thing that brings me joy, is watching your videos and hearing your messages. Stay as beautiful as you are. With love, your grateful student in Toronto, Canada

    • @blackblessed3130
      @blackblessed3130 6 років тому

      Sophia Meron may blessings be with you... Pray it's gotten better!

  • @perfectlyimperfect6781
    @perfectlyimperfect6781 5 років тому +3

    This is Very important for transforming my life.

  • @cgipson100
    @cgipson100 9 років тому +7

    Thank you, I am on my path and doing my work....

  • @Tosta506
    @Tosta506 11 років тому +3

    Awesome Iyanla, both my grandma's ironed pillow cases and even my grandpa's undies..this brought back bitter- sweet memories. My favorite pillow cases were the ones my grandma crocheted. Thanks for including so much humor in your essence...it brings a refreshing twist!

  • @ABM750
    @ABM750 8 років тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom it is helping me to regain myself and be the woman God intended me to be ,much lovexx

  • @sharondavis3535
    @sharondavis3535 3 роки тому

    she could do stand-up for your soul lol love her

  • @INFJ2
    @INFJ2 4 роки тому

    I absolutely adore this woman

  • @AB-qe8cs
    @AB-qe8cs 3 роки тому

    Ugh it's so hard being attracted to people who mistreat you. I know all the steps and even follow them, and still can't stop!!!

  • @jaxsterization
    @jaxsterization 11 років тому +1

    Thank you Iyanla, for ALL you do! Your empowerment and spirit to serve is a healing tool to many. Thank you God for shedding light into my life.

    • @milcahsamoei6696
      @milcahsamoei6696 7 років тому

      if i dont watch you i will go crazy ivanla,,,keep encouraging me sister

  • @michelegmiller8500
    @michelegmiller8500 6 років тому

    self preservation is nature's first law...developing and maintaining a balanced psyche, an optomistic perspective and implementing prrsonal growth are yhe greatest of rewards. Iyana knows how to deliver the message with joy!

  • @tanyabaffour2639
    @tanyabaffour2639 8 років тому +5

    thank you i needed to see this it made me realize that I am important also and there are times in life when other people are doing wrong, they try to make you look bad

  • @niomimorris8679
    @niomimorris8679 9 років тому

    I love this ,this is my 2016,i deserve more than im settling for.... I was almost brought to tears when i heard this,this is my and will be my motivaton Amen

  • @frida.lorena.s
    @frida.lorena.s 3 роки тому

    God i love this woman

  • @stillasabutterfly9706
    @stillasabutterfly9706 8 років тому +3

    if this dream truly exist let it be

  • @andreawindrim8235
    @andreawindrim8235 4 роки тому

    You are wonderful. Thank you so much. I am finally at this next step in my life after so many years of abuse from others and myself to myself. Blessings to you.

  • @dellawielsputz4326
    @dellawielsputz4326 2 роки тому

    You are a blessing Ms. Iyanla.

  • @shellyortiz1977
    @shellyortiz1977 7 років тому

    Im listening to every one of her lesson what a smart wise women her advice is prices less. Bless u mrs iyanla

  • @elenachikildina3969
    @elenachikildina3969 8 років тому +3

    Thank you from all of my heart!

  • @Beautifulher23
    @Beautifulher23 11 років тому +1

    I really admire what you do. I have taken a look at my self my life and behaviors because of your wisdom and ur shows. Thank you for doing what u do. I would love to meet you my whole family needs their lives fixed.

  • @karencrossett
    @karencrossett 11 років тому +2

    You make me think and you make me smile and laugh.

  • @angeldustxiii
    @angeldustxiii 11 років тому +4

    Very Good Advice.........The chains of Abuse r very hard to Break.......U know i have found people are often judged as bad because they r abused or were abused.........Peace.......xoxoxoxo

  • @TheJlubi777
    @TheJlubi777 11 років тому +1

    I felt this. Powerful message! Thank you for sharing.

  • @ms.mookie8699
    @ms.mookie8699 8 років тому

    i love my beloved sister ms iyanla is a blessing to all

  • @hallowell5555
    @hallowell5555 11 років тому +2

    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK GOD IN YOU

  • @kkjbmttx
    @kkjbmttx 11 років тому +4

    Thank you for feeding my soul

  • @barbarashepard3032
    @barbarashepard3032 5 років тому +2

    2019,, my journey in courage for change with boldness.

  • @isag458
    @isag458 5 років тому +1

    Thank you! I love your energy and I love you for your strong attitude :) because I love watching people sharing the same life like me!

  • @jujubee90275
    @jujubee90275 4 роки тому

    I love me some Mama Iyanla❤

  • @success375
    @success375 11 років тому

    This is so amazing...truly a God sent women.

  • @claudettesimmons3718
    @claudettesimmons3718 3 роки тому

    She’s so amazing I love her thank you so much for sharing it helps me thank you 😊

  • @slimwarriorteamtv
    @slimwarriorteamtv 11 років тому

    WE LOVE YOU IN THE FORTE-RODRIGUEZ FAM. IYANLA!
    Part 4 :-( PLEASE!!!!

  • @munamusa7249
    @munamusa7249 6 років тому

    I love miss iyanla vanzant

  • @beautyalchemy584
    @beautyalchemy584 8 років тому +12

    Love, love, love her

  • @quasims2318
    @quasims2318 5 років тому +1

    I didn't know iyanla was a virgo!
    😊😊😊😊

  • @leantranewkirk4781
    @leantranewkirk4781 5 років тому +4

    Sometimes i just set down and watch.her videos cause I have absolutely nobody to support me or help me at all so . I do it my own i just need a little support plz god

    • @barbarashepard3032
      @barbarashepard3032 5 років тому +1

      Be open to who God sends, not always who you want. God taught me that. Be blessed.

  • @Hebrewsista
    @Hebrewsista 5 років тому

    YES! YES! YES! HalleluYah! Shabbat Shalom everybody! 10/5/19

  • @mariehaverty8209
    @mariehaverty8209 2 роки тому +1

    Love this thank you❤🙏

  • @journeytohealthroadtoforgi980
    @journeytohealthroadtoforgi980 6 років тому +1

    This is soooo good thank you

  • @sharondavis3535
    @sharondavis3535 3 роки тому

    is it kind, loving, necessary

  • @quiltaholicmomof3
    @quiltaholicmomof3 11 років тому +1

    That was beautiful. Thank you so much.

  • @msj6324
    @msj6324 4 роки тому

    You are an blessing to my soul ❤️😇

  • @rachelbyars2297
    @rachelbyars2297 5 років тому

    You are absolutely amazing

  • @tinastaley5470
    @tinastaley5470 3 роки тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I love her,, she's amazing

  • @bless485
    @bless485 11 років тому +1

    Many blessings you make me laugh when you speak your truth have got nothing to laugh about it then listen to you bless up

  • @peggyrobinson1407
    @peggyrobinson1407 5 років тому

    Needed to hear that. Much respect. Thank you

  • @franciacaoduwa2419
    @franciacaoduwa2419 5 років тому

    Very true point. Thanks 🙏.

  • @audreyannmunizlorusso
    @audreyannmunizlorusso 10 років тому

    Thank you Lyanla.. God bless you always!!!!!!

  • @miriamc4232
    @miriamc4232 4 роки тому

    Loved the end!

  • @shanellevwilliams
    @shanellevwilliams 4 роки тому

    I knew she was a Virgo 😅😅👍🏾👍🏾team Virgo

  • @andreawindrim8235
    @andreawindrim8235 5 років тому

    Thank you. Needed to hear this.

  • @b00tsyallday
    @b00tsyallday 9 років тому

    Thank You... This was much needed!

  • @pearlmon379
    @pearlmon379 7 років тому +1

    beautiful

  • @TheAMW
    @TheAMW 6 років тому

    Lol that closer tho 😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ahmedhabel2334
    @ahmedhabel2334 Рік тому

    i miss you when i need you

  • @relocatetoEUROPE
    @relocatetoEUROPE 5 років тому

    I needed this !

  • @belindakaruaihe638
    @belindakaruaihe638 10 років тому

    Love her .... mentor

  • @YouGrowAsYouGo
    @YouGrowAsYouGo 11 років тому

    Superb thoughts

  • @MaryJoMatey
    @MaryJoMatey 7 років тому +1

    Iyanla what to do when the abusive verbal ways (Daughter) are connected to drug addiction and /alcohol abuse ? And there are small grandchildren involved (9 and 12)

  • @florasha1212
    @florasha1212 5 років тому

    oh I love you..

  • @kewilliams4230
    @kewilliams4230 6 років тому

    I loooovvvee her 💙

  • @rembeadgc
    @rembeadgc 6 років тому

    I admire Iyanla's talents and appreciate her heart for people and her willingness to help them. I appreciate her courage to face whatever challenges she's had in her own life and how she draws from them to help others. I feel I've learned a lot about people and myself through many things she's said and done. My only issue is with how Ms. Van Zant mixes and matches various religious doctrines. I understand her application of whatever doctrines and principles that seem to be advantageous to helping people, no matter where they've come from. I also believe that every "major" religion has a portion of truth in it. However, when it comes to, at least the major 3 (Christianity, Judaism and Islam) their basic teaching claim exclusivity on a fundamental level that renders them inapplicable, in their fullness, for her methodology. In other words, by virtue of the nature of their own tenets, they are not to be used the way she is using them, in my understanding, based on having been a student of them. Actually, based on their tenets, as I understand them, she is voiding them out. This would basically render them resources for "motivational language", which might bolster people's self confidence and faith in themselves, but voids what they each claim is necessary for real spiritual strength, a restored relationship to God and their fellow man. I'm not judging Iyanla. I don't think she's just in it for the money or on a mission to lead people astray. I think she has a gift and is using it to fulfill what she believes is her destiny. I just know that in too many scenarios for me to remain comfortable, I've witnessed what I believe stands outside of fundamental Christian doctrine. I would add, however, that many who claim to follow God, in my opinion, could stand to learn a lot through Iyanla. Organized religion has too, too often been doctrine heavy and love light, full of laws and empty of mercy, quick with condemnation and slow with forgiveness, but the complete opposite will come up short too. We all have to judge what claims to be truth and goodness for ourselves.

  • @jtee231
    @jtee231 4 роки тому

    I love you.

  • @Candy9g
    @Candy9g 10 років тому

    Wonderful!

  • @geminijohn
    @geminijohn 11 років тому +2

    So I went through my address book, even if I did not know them I sent this video because there is NO-ONE who will not, BENEFIT THEMSELVES AND OTHERS JUST BY LISTENING.

  • @TheSupaTeaPodcastShow
    @TheSupaTeaPodcastShow 4 роки тому

    Spiritual Warrior Training I am Ready to Win...where is the link????

  • @julianagawanas6081
    @julianagawanas6081 8 років тому

    Thank you!

  • @autumnrose6370
    @autumnrose6370 8 років тому

    Awesome...

  • @sharondavis3535
    @sharondavis3535 3 роки тому

    draw power from ancestors!

  • @marthygirma3886
    @marthygirma3886 8 років тому

    thank you

  • @q60sredsport74
    @q60sredsport74 5 років тому

    🙏🏽

  • @maritaunosson9631
    @maritaunosson9631 6 років тому

    Amazing❤️

  • @LeilaniAlua
    @LeilaniAlua 6 років тому

    Yes!!!

  • @keneilwesereme5274
    @keneilwesereme5274 3 роки тому

  • @ItWasWrittenByMe
    @ItWasWrittenByMe 11 років тому

    u kno how women compete wit eachother with mundane astuteness..it would be a much better place if women now adays had the audacity to compete with a woman of the such likeness as IYANLA VANZANT.pOwerful,and sO beautiful.. wise,and sO witty..sO pluralistic and PRO-FOUND.....cause Only men Of men can nurture&be appreciative Of such remarkable wOman

    • @modestaterado6180
      @modestaterado6180 7 років тому

      I like this men. He has been good to me this summer. I want to take the next step with him. We have not had a sexual relationship. He told me that his ex wife did him wrong. I told him that i would never do that to him. Sometimes he tells me an a good person. Hw calls me jellybean. Once when he was talking with me, he said oh let's go home. He seems to be interested in me for the most part but sometimes I think he just wants to be friends. He has also told me that he doesn't want me to stop his friendship abruptly he said he wouldn't like it I think he really does care for me but is afraid to let go I do care and would like to say it to him. Help

  • @confidental1000
    @confidental1000 11 років тому

    victim of Domestic abuse, & I have 2 children ex is joining forces with bureuacratic system try to take my children away...he stole all my money (had own home prior 2 marriage, he took my profit of home, my nest egg) sold our $3 million dollar home and left my kids and I homeless. refinance my car - repo people coming after me...please help

  • @KiaBridges84
    @KiaBridges84 2 роки тому

    ❤🙌🏽

  • @meghanb3865
    @meghanb3865 8 років тому

    amen

  • @supremetantheman8698
    @supremetantheman8698 7 років тому

    i love you

  • @jerryheavenly7437
    @jerryheavenly7437 5 років тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheSupaTeaPodcastShow
    @TheSupaTeaPodcastShow 4 роки тому

    How do I sign up!!!

  • @walenalivingdancingpraying3517
    @walenalivingdancingpraying3517 6 років тому

    Amennnnnnnnnn 🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾❤️

  • @LeilaniAlua
    @LeilaniAlua 6 років тому

    Lol!! Okay

  • @kaliph4424
    @kaliph4424 5 років тому

    11:30 aha moment