Heidi this is not a Q&A....this is easily one of the most inspiring and educational videos you've ever made about LIFE. This had so much good advice and you have so much wisdom it's amazing...
Alex M Ahhhh thanks I appreciate it so much. Sometimes I get a little nervous opening up so much and being so vulnerable in these Q&As but I think of my subscribers as family❤️❤️❤️
Heidi Somers being nervous is okay, it made it real and raw and one of the things I love about you is how authentic you are. You are such a genuinely kind individual. Keep it up Heidi, I love how you talked about what it was like to be a female business owner too. I am aspiring to be a business owner one day and am going to business school in the fall. You've inspired me so much.
My favorite part of the Q&A was when you explained friendship. Negative people really do drag you down and understanding who those toxic people are is really important to be able to remove them from your life. I always love your Q&A’s. I’ve been watching you from the beginning and you’ve grown so much. I’m so happy you found someone in your life that makes your soul happy 💕☺️
I love your advice about toxic friends. Honestly that’s something I am so terrible at. I want to assume everyone is good hearted but sometimes people aren’t. And sometimes people have good intentions but their negativity is just something you can’t keep around. Love you Heidi!
My favorite part is how you explain your hustle from where you started, working full time, school, bar tendering, a prep, and coaching!! You amaze me but inspire me so much. I have heard your story before, but just to see how far you keep on going really motivates me to continue working hard and believing in myself.
My favorite part of the Q&A is you talking about how you CHOOSE each day to be positive. It is a choice, we can choose to let hard things bring us down or we can flip it off and be happy haha I love the quote " of this I am sure, we don't find a happy life, we make it!" President Gordon B Hinkley. Love you!
My favorite part is about your transition into your business and how you managed to be in school, prep for a show, working, and starting to build your business it is inspiring.
My favorite part was you talking about how Christian sets your soul on fire and the advice about who should be in your life. Thank you so much for that and you and Christian are so cute together! ❤️🔥
You're so sincere and genuine! Your advice about making/ finding friends was my favorite part. It definitely comes with time especially when you're in a new area, but the friends that you need are the ones that support you 100% of the time and don't put you down. Thank you, Heidi! You are so inspirational
Loved the quote "you should not have to rip yourself into pieces to keep others whole". I tend to see the good in others as well and worry about making others happy. Can't forget to make ourselves happy first!
Staying positive and being a happy person was my favorite part. That’s always something I strive to do everyday I wake up. It’s so hard being a full time student and working, while also trying to be fit and healthy. It’s all about learning and regardless of the things going on, push through and make everyday the best you can! Love you Heidi!
When you are talking about “‘negative people” it is always a good reminder to hear that. Sometimes it’s hard to see, but even negative energy can affect you! 🙏🏼💕
Favorite part is when you explain about the hardships of your business. I think it helps viewers / haters to realize that you really did have to work hard to be where you are now. :) Keep going Heidi! So proud of how much you've accomplished at such a young age and I know this is only the beginning. Lots of love xoxo.
Thanks Christine! I do want to do a sit down video going over Buffbunny Collection and the trials and errors lol theres a lot! SO much goes into running a business that people don't even think about. I'll do it really soon :)
My favorite part is how you give such honest and kind advice. It’s hard to find people that have worked as hard as you that still see the good in the world. Sometimes people call me “naive” and I question myself but you reinforce that about myself and I’m so grateful that I found you! Keep doing you girl and I’ll be behind you! 👏🏼👏🏼
How do you deal with haters? I agree with what you said. "You're not living this life, to make these people happy. You're living your life, to make yourself happy!" 🤗 I love your positive attitude & outlook on life. May you have forever success & happiness. Hard working women, ROCK! 💓
I just love that you're always willing to talk about the hard stuff, but not in a negative light. Your positivity just BEAMS off of you and it's so refreshing. I love that your brand is empowering and doesn't fit any typical 'influencer' mold. Keep being YOU!!!!
I loved that you talked about “haters” and staying positive. I love the quote about not tearing yourself into pieces to keep others whole because I feel like that is something I can really relate to right now
Hi favorite part of the video was when you said that Christian sets your soul on fire! You can tell how genuine you were and how much he TRULY makes you happy! I love how real you are, Heidi! Such a breath of fresh air!!
Love how you are so down to earth. The best part of the video is how you speak positivity throughout every hard situation you’ve been through. You speak truth and heart and I love it!!! You’re a great role model.
I loved when you talked about letting negative people go from your life. You mentioned that no matter how long you've known them, you basically don't owe them your friendship. How it's okay to keep some people at a distance, and make space for those who are a more positive influence on your life. This topic rings so true to my life recently, so thank you for explaining it so accurately!
I’m a competitor and just moved to a new city. It’s actually easy to make friends now. All you gotta do, is go to the gym, find a girl that looks fit or normal and go up and say “hey are you competing? You look great!” And boom! You get the digits 😂
My favorite part of the video was just listening to how excited you get when you talk about Christian or your business. You light up every time and it's obvious that you are truly happy and loving life!
Heidi your such an amazing and powerful woman!!! NOTHING IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN A STRONG WOMAN WHO IS FOCUSED AND DETERMINED TO ACHIVE HER GOAL IN LIFE!!” 💗💗💗💗
I love how you don't let anything stand in your way. You make owning a business seem real, and not like it was a piece of cake. But at the same time, you make it seem so achievable and it is very reassuring for someone with dreams in starting a business. Love your videos :)
Girl, my favorite part was you explaining that seeing the good in people can sometimes hurt you and finding balance. I have finally learned how to manage that too so that it's healthy for me. I was in an abusive relationship in my early 20's and I'm turning 30 this year and learned to still be positive and see the good in people but also respect myself and set boundaries 😁 love ya girl!
My favorite part of this video is how inspiring you are talking about how to stay positive. You are the most genuine youtuber that I have come across and I love your vibe! Finding people that are real and positive feels nearly impossible these days but you do it with such ease and grace! Thank you for inspiring me on the daily in every aspect of my life- from fitness to style and as well as positivity 🤗 keep up the amazing work!!!
My favorite was the end when u talk about the struggle of being taken serious as business owner. I never even thought of that because all I’ve seen is the positive and you actually doing it and not the struggle of the process! Love you Hiedi!!
I like how you got so serious when you talked about your friend who passed away. I could really hear the sincerity in your voice when you spoke about how special he was. It must have been great having someone so positive and supportive in your life! Congratulations on all your success!
ooohhh loving the fluffy egg chair! I love the part where you express how Christian really sees that your positive and happy through your soul not just youtube - I think it's so great that you clearly hugely value this part of you self and character! xxxxxx
I love how honest you are! You seem incredibly genuine and real, not stuck up or superficial. I love that you don't pretend to be perfect or have all the answers either. you're a gem :)
I had no idea you juggled so much when you first started on this path. It makes me love you so much more and appreciate your journey as an inspirational person/leader. I am going through very similar transitions now, between bartending, school, training, and coaching -this video gives me the motivation to keep going! Thanks for always being so positive, you’re amazing!
my favorite part of the q&a was when you talked about it being okay to stop associating with people you might have been friends with for like 10 years if they are just bringing you down... I'm definitely going through that right now in my early 20s (i'll be 23 in may) also love how you addressed the fact that you were still working and going to school while following your dreams... you literally never hear people say that! love the video
Favorite part of your Q&A is your positivity. Always humble and kind! Pluuussss, on the business side, as a business owner myself, I get rather annoyed by people always assuming that my husband is the owner. To the point where he is even offered better pay rates! Every now and again I let it slip "and women vote too!" Hubby chuckles, the offenders not so much🤩😘😍😎
You are such an inspiration!!! My favorite part of the Q&A is how you continue to tell us to stay true to ourselves, that it’s okay to see the good in people and try to make people happy but to ultimately focus on yourself. I love that because i struggle with that, i constantly put everyone else before me subconsciously and i don’t even notice until i feel myself being lost with it.
I like your last answer. I have a really young face and am blond, I always feel like people are second-guessing whether or not I'm serious about things and how exactly they should take me. Not to mention as a mother I know that I've gotten looks where people are trying to guess if I'm a babysitter, older sibling, or mother. I actually had a guy say to me once happy Mother's Day and then he did a double take and said "Oh, you're too young to be a mom sorry". So here's to breaking people's assumptions.
I’ve been following you for about 2 years now and I always look forward to your next upload! I just recently changed career paths from banking to the medical field and the part where you talked about making yourself happy really stood out to me today. I’ve had some negativity from family about the change and it really hurt my feelings. But I know it’s the right move for me and my immediate family. I definitely needed to hear your thoughts right now. Keep being awesome Heidi!
I like your advice on friendship! Something I think is important is that your friends are there for you whether you are in a good place or bad place. Lots of people will like you when your life is a success but are quick to leave when you go through a rough patch.
I LOVE the way your eyes light up when you said "He sets my soul on fire"❤❤ I took my time getting married my second time around. After 24 years, he STILL sets my soul on fire! Enjoy every moment of your relationship! You will NEVER regret that, sweetie!
I love how honest you are about the long distance relationship. My husband and I were on a long distance relationship for a year from him being in the military and it really is JUST that. Love, effort, and patience is key and it IS worth every second!
Thank you for being a friend to all of us out here in youtube land that you can't see!! I do like the advise about not trying so hard to please everyone when it's tearing you apart...like you said, if you do that to yourself, there will be nothing left to give!!! You do have to take care of yourself so you can be there for others. Sometimes you do have to get rid of toxins in your life....socially and dietary :-)
I love how you said happiness is a choice, so so true. You did not become a happy and positive person by sitting around waiting for someone or something to make you happy. We can choose to be happy now in whatever situation or stage of life we are in , or we can say to ourselves - ill be happy once i have a new car , a bigger house, a boyfriend, more money, more friends , fame or whatever it is you are looking for. In my experience if you do not choose to be happy now, nothing will make you truly happy ❤️ thanks Heidi for the great advice. Love you
My favorite part was the whole thing. I’ve watched your videos for years and I feel like you were so genuine in this one and it reminds me more of how you were in your old videos
I love how humble and REAL you are. My fav part is you talking about starting your business and all of the things you were doing meanwhile. It makes me feel really secure because I️m currently juggling a bunch of things and it’s definitely a good feeling knowing someone as successful as you, was doing the exact same thing. I️ love you Heidi!!
I genuinely loved and was very engaged throughout your whole video. There were two parts I think resinated with me most. One is when you spoke about surrounding yourself with positive and uplifting people. I struggled a lot in high school to find my crowd. I always felt like I was on the outside of the inside of everyone. I was me but not completely me with a lot of people and it was honestly exhausting. It has only been within the last year since starting my fitness journey that I have found myself and come to the realization that I owe it to myself to be ME ALL THE TIME! Since then I have found amazing and supportive people and I am eternally thankful for them. The second part is when speaking about not being taken seriously. I have experienced this on a much smaller scale since I am just barely starting up my personal brand/business. But people are constantly trying to squeeze free information/services out of me and are so appalled to find out that my work and effort comes at a cost. I am not often taken seriously being a small and petite women, however, I am not letting that fact that others underestimate me hold me back! I am SO sorry for this being so long!!!! This video just really captured me and got me thinking! I love your content, I'll be a forever supporter of yours!!! (:
Favorite part of the Q&A is when you talk about staying positive and not letting glass half empty people drag you down. This is has definitely been a struggle in my own life. And let’s not forget about “he sets my soul on fire” 💗
The business part of the Q&A was surprisingly my fave part(besides the questions about Christian😉)! Super inspired to break standards and enter the business world as a strong a** girl!!!
It's so nice to see when a couple truly loves each other and are willing to go through the rough patches in order to make everything work out at the end. Love what you mentioned, "He sets my soul on fire!" Kudos to you and Chris :)
I've been subscribed for a long time and my favourite part is the part about the awkward friend lol! 😂 But I love you and I hope you have awesome friends now!
My favorite part is when you talked about getting negative people out of your life and feeling so much better because I had to realize that this past year and it was very hard but I feel 1000x times better. Hearing you say that helped me to validate what I did and helped me know that I made the right choice! You’re amazing and so inspirational 😊😊😊
Hi Heidi! Will you be coming to Sacramento, CA anytime soon? I would love to meet you! And Christian! You are a huge motivation in my life & I'd like to shake your hand one day. 😃 Thank you for all that you do. You're such a selfless person & you inspire me. 💚💪
My fav part is when you talk about being an upbeat and positive person !! Always surrounding yourself with like minded people and not to worry about the noise 💞💞💞 such an inspiration 🧘🏼♀️
My favorite part was when your face lit up talking about how you make your long distance relationship work! The “I love that man!” was so cute! ❤️ Also at the end when you discussed how you don’t get taken seriously. I also am a young, blonde woman & I’ve been dealing with that crap for as long as I can remember! Thanks for being so genuine, Heidi!
My favorite part is that you and Christian make it work no matter what because he sets your soul on fire! I totally get it! There’s no better feeling! My husband is military and when he’s gone, it’s TOUGH, buttt he’s the one so I stick by his side no matter what!!
I loooved when you said Christian “sets my soul on fiiire!” 🔥🔥 “I love that man” I think you set his soul on fire too girl. :) And I LOVE that you are always so happy & bubbly! I’m like that too, I’ve been told so many times I’m “fake” but there is really no point in being down all the time. You gotta create your own little world of happinnnesss 😊
My favorite part is when you addressed how hard it was for you to be taken seriously as a business owner. It’s hard to be taken seriously when you’re a young blonde woman. Everyone thinks we’re dumb but you proved them all wrong!👊🏼 keep up the awesome work Heidi!!! We love you!!!❤️
Love the chair love your positivity love you! 😘. I always love hearing about you and Christian. You can really tell by the way you two talk about each other that y’all are perfect for one another. I definitely always love hearing the business advice! You are living a dream that a lot of us are too scared to dive into! Definitely an inspiration girl! Thanks.😊
My favvvvv part of the video was of you talking about how you make your relationship work with Christian. When you know you've found the one, it's pretty darn easy to make it work regardless of the situation you're in. Putting in the time and effort to see each other isn't hard because seeing your significant other just makes it all okay. Love the video! xoxo
I love hearing your advice of sticking with a sponsorship/business you believe in regardless of price they may offer you. Staying loyal to a company you love, and just hearing your brief answer about working, prep, school, and learning how to build your business. ❤️💪🏻
Indoor skydiving is soooooo much fun! Come to iFly Dallas 😜 and I know where that positivity comes from. That Christian life! The Christian spirit and the man with the body named Christian. Hahaha
Thanks Heidi for always being so transparent with your followers! Truly an inspiration, i love that you and Christian are so into each other never think you guys are annoying in ur vlogs!❤️
It’s a God thing. God will show you how he sees people and in his loving way. Although he can guide you through discernment when caution is necessary. It can be hard if you are like me and have a lot of mercy and grace on others. It can get taken advantage of not careful but ultimately it’s still a great thing to have! :)
I loved how you talked about developing friends that are supportive of you in every single way, motivating you to keep moving up further in your career. I've definitely had to make those hard decisions of cutting out life-long friends.
I love how real you are with your fans! You go through life struggles just like everyone else does and you’re not afraid of telling people that. I think in today’s society people assume that successful people like yourself don’t experience hard times in life & I appreciate that you’re upfront and honest ❤️❤️
Best part of the video is when you talk about not settling for someone. Find the person that sets your soul on fire! Love that and you and Christian are so cute!
I do love how positive you are. And I most love how you talk about not having toxic people in your life. You and Christian are definitely relationship goals
I cannot agree with you more on being with someone who sets your soul on fire. My husband is my best friend, love of my life, biggest supporter, and he drives me insane 😂 I don't know what I'd do without him. Also with women owning businesses, we can run kickass businesses too!!
I love the part where I can totally relate on how people won't take you seriously because you're "small, fragile, woman" and they think the course you are choosing to take is too big for you to handle. People often treat me that way and the worst part about it is that I am the one that underestimates myself the most. Then I meet the rare kind heartful people that have hope in me and motivate me to do better and pusher harder. They help me overcome the obstacles I never thought I would get through. The best part about it is feeling the love and happiness from my family and knowing I made them proud and also give them hope and motivation. ❤❤❤❤❤ I love you Heidi Somers you've been my motivation since day 1 🙌😉
My favorite part is your overall positivity in general. It is contagious and very heartwarming and inspirational to witness. You can tell you are speaking from your heart and really believe in the things you share ❤️
My favourite part was when you were talking about how you make long distance relationship work. A lot of people don't have the patience and trust to make such a relationship work . I was in the same situation (but different countries) and we've currently just moved into a house together. This proves that if you love someone, there is no limit that can stop you to be with them. I have been following you for a while now and you really inspire me and more people to stay healthy and love ourselves :)
My favorite part is you explaining the importance of surrounding yourself with kind positive people! I did not grow up with those type of people in my life. You are truly inspirational and I’m glad I found your channel! 💕
I have "friends" who have ignored me everytime I talk about my fitness journey and they too are also into fitness. This is a big part of my life and is important to me. I like the part most where you recommend the need to focus on myself and get rid of the negative people. I feel like that hit home the most.
Talking About releasing the negative people out Of your life was my fav! It’s so true, you can t have a positive attitude if people you associate yourself don’t!
Heidi this is not a Q&A....this is easily one of the most inspiring and educational videos you've ever made about LIFE. This had so much good advice and you have so much wisdom it's amazing...
Alex M Ahhhh thanks I appreciate it so much. Sometimes I get a little nervous opening up so much and being so vulnerable in these Q&As but I think of my subscribers as family❤️❤️❤️
Heidi Somers being nervous is okay, it made it real and raw and one of the things I love about you is how authentic you are. You are such a genuinely kind individual. Keep it up Heidi, I love how you talked about what it was like to be a female business owner too. I am aspiring to be a business owner one day and am going to business school in the fall. You've inspired me so much.
“He sets my soul on fire”. Absolutely sweetest comment ever. And you can actually see it when you watch you two together.
I can’t even tell y’all are in a long distance relationship tbh. Y’all are together all the time.
Elite Clinical Research lol this is true 😂😂
It’s true, I feel like they see each other more than my husband and I do and we live together lol (working opposite shifts)
lol. The move in is coming soon!!
dang, fortunately they are both in a position to have flexible working hours to see eachother so often.
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My favorite part of the Q&A was when you explained friendship. Negative people really do drag you down and understanding who those toxic people are is really important to be able to remove them from your life. I always love your Q&A’s. I’ve been watching you from the beginning and you’ve grown so much. I’m so happy you found someone in your life that makes your soul happy 💕☺️
I love your advice about toxic friends. Honestly that’s something I am so terrible at. I want to assume everyone is good hearted but sometimes people aren’t. And sometimes people have good intentions but their negativity is just something you can’t keep around. Love you Heidi!
My favorite part is how you explain your hustle from where you started, working full time, school, bar tendering, a prep, and coaching!! You amaze me but inspire me so much. I have heard your story before, but just to see how far you keep on going really motivates me to continue working hard and believing in myself.
My favorite part of the Q&A is you talking about how you CHOOSE each day to be positive. It is a choice, we can choose to let hard things bring us down or we can flip it off and be happy haha I love the quote " of this I am sure, we don't find a happy life, we make it!" President Gordon B Hinkley. Love you!
My favorite part is about your transition into your business and how you managed to be in school, prep for a show, working, and starting to build your business it is inspiring.
My favorite part was you talking about how Christian sets your soul on fire and the advice about who should be in your life. Thank you so much for that and you and Christian are so cute together! ❤️🔥
You're so sincere and genuine! Your advice about making/ finding friends was my favorite part. It definitely comes with time especially when you're in a new area, but the friends that you need are the ones that support you 100% of the time and don't put you down. Thank you, Heidi! You are so inspirational
Loved the quote "you should not have to rip yourself into pieces to keep others whole". I tend to see the good in others as well and worry about making others happy. Can't forget to make ourselves happy first!
Me too, I think it needs to be on a t-shirt.
Staying positive and being a happy person was my favorite part. That’s always something I strive to do everyday I wake up. It’s so hard being a full time student and working, while also trying to be fit and healthy. It’s all about learning and regardless of the things going on, push through and make everyday the best you can! Love you Heidi!
The loyalty you have for 1up!! Says a lot about you as a person 💖
When you are talking about “‘negative people” it is always a good reminder to hear that. Sometimes it’s hard to see, but even negative energy can affect you! 🙏🏼💕
Favorite part is when you explain about the hardships of your business. I think it helps viewers / haters to realize that you really did have to work hard to be where you are now. :) Keep going Heidi! So proud of how much you've accomplished at such a young age and I know this is only the beginning. Lots of love xoxo.
Thanks Christine! I do want to do a sit down video going over Buffbunny Collection and the trials and errors lol theres a lot! SO much goes into running a business that people don't even think about. I'll do it really soon :)
My favorite part is how you give such honest and kind advice. It’s hard to find people that have worked as hard as you that still see the good in the world. Sometimes people call me “naive” and I question myself but you reinforce that about myself and I’m so grateful that I found you! Keep doing you girl and I’ll be behind you! 👏🏼👏🏼
How do you deal with haters? I agree with what you said. "You're not living this life, to make these people happy. You're living your life, to make yourself happy!" 🤗 I love your positive attitude & outlook on life. May you have forever success & happiness. Hard working women, ROCK! 💓
I just love that you're always willing to talk about the hard stuff, but not in a negative light. Your positivity just BEAMS off of you and it's so refreshing. I love that your brand is empowering and doesn't fit any typical 'influencer' mold. Keep being YOU!!!!
I loved that you talked about “haters” and staying positive. I love the quote about not tearing yourself into pieces to keep others whole because I feel like that is something I can really relate to right now
Hi favorite part of the video was when you said that Christian sets your soul on fire! You can tell how genuine you were and how much he TRULY makes you happy! I love how real you are, Heidi! Such a breath of fresh air!!
Negative friends have to go. It might be hard to do but I always say "If I cut you off, chances are you handed me the scissors."
Bird Plan I agree negative friends have to go bye bye ..as snagglepuss would say "exit stage left!" with negative friends!
Yes! This year I have definitely cut people off and it is the best thing I have ever done!
I love that saying, I'm going to start using this!! It sums it up perfectly.
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Bird Plan including negative FAMILY members!! Best thing I did!
Love how you are so down to earth. The best part of the video is how you speak positivity throughout every hard situation you’ve been through. You speak truth and heart and I love it!!! You’re a great role model.
My favorite part was "women are capable of running and operating a business" :) that's very inspiring 🙌
I loved when you talked about letting negative people go from your life. You mentioned that no matter how long you've known them, you basically don't owe them your friendship. How it's okay to keep some people at a distance, and make space for those who are a more positive influence on your life. This topic rings so true to my life recently, so thank you for explaining it so accurately!
I’m a competitor and just moved to a new city. It’s actually easy to make friends now. All you gotta do, is go to the gym, find a girl that looks fit or normal and go up and say “hey are you competing? You look great!”
And boom! You get the digits 😂
My favorite part of the video was just listening to how excited you get when you talk about Christian or your business. You light up every time and it's obvious that you are truly happy and loving life!
Heidi your such an amazing and powerful woman!!! NOTHING IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN A STRONG WOMAN WHO IS FOCUSED AND DETERMINED TO ACHIVE HER GOAL IN LIFE!!” 💗💗💗💗
I love how you don't let anything stand in your way. You make owning a business seem real, and not like it was a piece of cake. But at the same time, you make it seem so achievable and it is very reassuring for someone with dreams in starting a business. Love your videos :)
In love with how much you've been posting lately! Love getting a notification from you and ALWAYS watch immediately
Girl, my favorite part was you explaining that seeing the good in people can sometimes hurt you and finding balance. I have finally learned how to manage that too so that it's healthy for me. I was in an abusive relationship in my early 20's and I'm turning 30 this year and learned to still be positive and see the good in people but also respect myself and set boundaries 😁 love ya girl!
My favorite part of this video is how inspiring you are talking about how to stay positive. You are the most genuine youtuber that I have come across and I love your vibe! Finding people that are real and positive feels nearly impossible these days but you do it with such ease and grace! Thank you for inspiring me on the daily in every aspect of my life- from fitness to style and as well as positivity 🤗 keep up the amazing work!!!
My favorite was the end when u talk about the struggle of being taken serious as business owner. I never even thought of that because all I’ve seen is the positive and you actually doing it and not the struggle of the process! Love you Hiedi!!
Great Q&A!! Your such a positive person! Beautiful inside and out !! I love that you said Christian sets your soul on fire 🔥 !! Love ya girl💗
I like how you got so serious when you talked about your friend who passed away. I could really hear the sincerity in your voice when you spoke about how special he was. It must have been great having someone so positive and supportive in your life! Congratulations on all your success!
ooohhh loving the fluffy egg chair! I love the part where you express how Christian really sees that your positive and happy through your soul not just youtube - I think it's so great that you clearly hugely value this part of you self and character! xxxxxx
I love how honest you are! You seem incredibly genuine and real, not stuck up or superficial. I love that you don't pretend to be perfect or have all the answers either. you're a gem :)
My favorite part of your video was when you gave your mom props for being even more positive then you😀💕💞I love my family as much as u do!
I had no idea you juggled so much when you first started on this path. It makes me love you so much more and appreciate your journey as an inspirational person/leader. I am going through very similar transitions now, between bartending, school, training, and coaching -this video gives me the motivation to keep going! Thanks for always being so positive, you’re amazing!
The story about the girl sending you a photo had me crying! I love that you push to do things for yourself. Your energy is contagious!
my favorite part of the q&a was when you talked about it being okay to stop associating with people you might have been friends with for like 10 years if they are just bringing you down... I'm definitely going through that right now in my early 20s (i'll be 23 in may) also love how you addressed the fact that you were still working and going to school while following your dreams... you literally never hear people say that! love the video
Favorite part of your Q&A is your positivity. Always humble and kind! Pluuussss, on the business side, as a business owner myself, I get rather annoyed by people always assuming that my husband is the owner. To the point where he is even offered better pay rates! Every now and again I let it slip "and women vote too!"
Hubby chuckles, the offenders not so much🤩😘😍😎
You are such an inspiration!!! My favorite part of the Q&A is how you continue to tell us to stay true to ourselves, that it’s okay to see the good in people and try to make people happy but to ultimately focus on yourself. I love that because i struggle with that, i constantly put everyone else before me subconsciously and i don’t even notice until i feel myself being lost with it.
I like your last answer. I have a really young face and am blond, I always feel like people are second-guessing whether or not I'm serious about things and how exactly they should take me. Not to mention as a mother I know that I've gotten looks where people are trying to guess if I'm a babysitter, older sibling, or mother. I actually had a guy say to me once happy Mother's Day and then he did a double take and said "Oh, you're too young to be a mom sorry". So here's to breaking people's assumptions.
I’ve been following you for about 2 years now and I always look forward to your next upload! I just recently changed career paths from banking to the medical field and the part where you talked about making yourself happy really stood out to me today. I’ve had some negativity from family about the change and it really hurt my feelings. But I know it’s the right move for me and my immediate family. I definitely needed to hear your thoughts right now. Keep being awesome Heidi!
This video was so inspiring Heidi! I admire your positivity and how kind you are so much💞💞
I like your advice on friendship! Something I think is important is that your friends are there for you whether you are in a good place or bad place. Lots of people will like you when your life is a success but are quick to leave when you go through a rough patch.
I LOVE the way your eyes light up when you said "He sets my soul on fire"❤❤ I took my time getting married my second time around. After 24 years, he STILL sets my soul on fire! Enjoy every moment of your relationship! You will NEVER regret that, sweetie!
I appreciate how honest you are about the bumps you've experienced with opening your business and working with other companies
i love how you get so much positivity from mama somers. she’s the best:))
I love how honest you are about the long distance relationship. My husband and I were on a long distance relationship for a year from him being in the military and it really is JUST that. Love, effort, and patience is key and it IS worth every second!
Thank you for being a friend to all of us out here in youtube land that you can't see!! I do like the advise about not trying so hard to please everyone when it's tearing you apart...like you said, if you do that to yourself, there will be nothing left to give!!! You do have to take care of yourself so you can be there for others. Sometimes you do have to get rid of toxins in your life....socially and dietary :-)
I love how you said happiness is a choice, so so true. You did not become a happy and positive person by sitting around waiting for someone or something to make you happy. We can choose to be happy now in whatever situation or stage of life we are in , or we can say to ourselves - ill be happy once i have a new car , a bigger house, a boyfriend, more money, more friends , fame or whatever it is you are looking for. In my experience if you do not choose to be happy now, nothing will make you truly happy ❤️ thanks Heidi for the great advice. Love you
My favorite part was the whole thing. I’ve watched your videos for years and I feel like you were so genuine in this one and it reminds me more of how you were in your old videos
I love how humble and REAL you are. My fav part is you talking about starting your business and all of the things you were doing meanwhile. It makes me feel really secure because I️m currently juggling a bunch of things and it’s definitely a good feeling knowing someone as successful as you, was doing the exact same thing. I️ love you Heidi!!
We need more Heidi's in this world!
agree!
I genuinely loved and was very engaged throughout your whole video. There were two parts I think resinated with me most. One is when you spoke about surrounding yourself with positive and uplifting people. I struggled a lot in high school to find my crowd. I always felt like I was on the outside of the inside of everyone. I was me but not completely me with a lot of people and it was honestly exhausting. It has only been within the last year since starting my fitness journey that I have found myself and come to the realization that I owe it to myself to be ME ALL THE TIME! Since then I have found amazing and supportive people and I am eternally thankful for them. The second part is when speaking about not being taken seriously. I have experienced this on a much smaller scale since I am just barely starting up my personal brand/business. But people are constantly trying to squeeze free information/services out of me and are so appalled to find out that my work and effort comes at a cost. I am not often taken seriously being a small and petite women, however, I am not letting that fact that others underestimate me hold me back! I am SO sorry for this being so long!!!! This video just really captured me and got me thinking! I love your content, I'll be a forever supporter of yours!!! (:
Freaking loved this 💗 I used to be so happy and positive.. trying to get back to that. This vid def helped!!
Monique Anaee u can do it!!!!!!!!
Favorite part of the Q&A is when you talk about staying positive and not letting glass half empty people drag you down. This is has definitely been a struggle in my own life. And let’s not forget about “he sets my soul on fire” 💗
The business part of the Q&A was surprisingly my fave part(besides the questions about Christian😉)! Super inspired to break standards and enter the business world as a strong a** girl!!!
It's so nice to see when a couple truly loves each other and are willing to go through the rough patches in order to make everything work out at the end. Love what you mentioned, "He sets my soul on fire!" Kudos to you and Chris :)
I've been subscribed for a long time and my favourite part is the part about the awkward friend lol! 😂 But I love you and I hope you have awesome friends now!
My favorite part is when you talked about getting negative people out of your life and feeling so much better because I had to realize that this past year and it was very hard but I feel 1000x times better. Hearing you say that helped me to validate what I did and helped me know that I made the right choice! You’re amazing and so inspirational 😊😊😊
Hi Heidi! Will you be coming to Sacramento, CA anytime soon? I would love to meet you! And Christian! You are a huge motivation in my life & I'd like to shake your hand one day. 😃 Thank you for all that you do. You're such a selfless person & you inspire me. 💚💪
My fav part is when you talk about being an upbeat and positive person !! Always surrounding yourself with like minded people and not to worry about the noise 💞💞💞 such an inspiration 🧘🏼♀️
My fave part was you talking about negative people and to cut them out of your life because they will bring you down
My favorite part was when your face lit up talking about how you make your long distance relationship work! The “I love that man!” was so cute! ❤️ Also at the end when you discussed how you don’t get taken seriously. I also am a young, blonde woman & I’ve been dealing with that crap for as long as I can remember! Thanks for being so genuine, Heidi!
YESS IM SO EXCITED FOR THIS!!! Okay I’m gonna watch it now hehe
My favorite part is that you and Christian make it work no matter what because he sets your soul on fire! I totally get it! There’s no better feeling! My husband is military and when he’s gone, it’s TOUGH, buttt he’s the one so I stick by his side no matter what!!
I loooved when you said Christian “sets my soul on fiiire!” 🔥🔥 “I love that man” I think you set his soul on fire too girl. :) And I LOVE that you are always so happy & bubbly! I’m like that too, I’ve been told so many times I’m “fake” but there is really no point in being down all the time. You gotta create your own little world of happinnnesss 😊
Thanks for being so open Heidi. I love when you get giddy about Christian, true love, never let that flame burn out!!
My favorite part was learning about your mentor. Sorry to hear he passed.
My favorite part is when you addressed how hard it was for you to be taken seriously as a business owner. It’s hard to be taken seriously when you’re a young blonde woman. Everyone thinks we’re dumb but you proved them all wrong!👊🏼 keep up the awesome work Heidi!!! We love you!!!❤️
Love the chair love your positivity love you! 😘. I always love hearing about you and Christian. You can really tell by the way you two talk about each other that y’all are perfect for one another. I definitely always love hearing the business advice! You are living a dream that a lot of us are too scared to dive into! Definitely an inspiration girl! Thanks.😊
My favvvvv part of the video was of you talking about how you make your relationship work with Christian. When you know you've found the one, it's pretty darn easy to make it work regardless of the situation you're in. Putting in the time and effort to see each other isn't hard because seeing your significant other just makes it all okay. Love the video! xoxo
Anyone want to be friends once I move to San Antonio in June? LOL
Ashley Lamborghini me me me me! I move at the end of this month!
Karla Diaz Omg yay! Here’s my instagram: xolamborghini
I’ll follow u back so we can stay in touch!
Ashley Lamborghini We are moving to Houston in January!
Ashley Lamborghini pls be careful!
I agree, be careful i just saw your IG and you are a beautiful girl....enjoy SA is a great city.
I love hearing your advice of sticking with a sponsorship/business you believe in regardless of price they may offer you. Staying loyal to a company you love, and just hearing your brief answer about working, prep, school, and learning how to build your business. ❤️💪🏻
Indoor skydiving is soooooo much fun! Come to iFly Dallas 😜 and I know where that positivity comes from. That Christian life! The Christian spirit and the man with the body named Christian. Hahaha
Porsche Vonne ahhh there is actually one in San Antonio and Houston!!! Gonna go sooooon 😛😛😛😛
Omg I just read the rest of your comment 😂😂 Yup that Christian life and Christian 😂😂
Heidi Somers do it!!!!! I will be here (in Dallas) waiting for the iFly Vlog 🙌🏽😹🤟🏾
Heidi Somers and yep! L0L nailed it! 🔨
Thanks Heidi for always being so transparent with your followers! Truly an inspiration, i love that you and Christian are so into each other never think you guys are annoying in ur vlogs!❤️
It’s a God thing. God will show you how he sees people and in his loving way. Although he can guide you through discernment when caution is necessary. It can be hard if you are like me and have a lot of mercy and grace on others. It can get taken advantage of not careful but ultimately it’s still a great thing to have! :)
I loved how you talked about developing friends that are supportive of you in every single way, motivating you to keep moving up further in your career. I've definitely had to make those hard decisions of cutting out life-long friends.
That black outfit, girl!😍👌🏼🖤
I love how real you are with your fans! You go through life struggles just like everyone else does and you’re not afraid of telling people that. I think in today’s society people assume that successful people like yourself don’t experience hard times in life & I appreciate that you’re upfront and honest ❤️❤️
When Heidi said sh** I was like 🙊😁
Best part of the video is when you talk about not settling for someone. Find the person that sets your soul on fire! Love that and you and Christian are so cute!
wth I haven’t gotten any notifications from buffbunny from the last month. I just thought she wasn’t posting 🤦🏼♀️ ugh UA-cam why
I do love how positive you are. And I most love how you talk about not having toxic people in your life. You and Christian are definitely relationship goals
I cannot agree with you more on being with someone who sets your soul on fire. My husband is my best friend, love of my life, biggest supporter, and he drives me insane 😂 I don't know what I'd do without him. Also with women owning businesses, we can run kickass businesses too!!
I love the part where I can totally relate on how people won't take you seriously because you're "small, fragile, woman" and they think the course you are choosing to take is too big for you to handle. People often treat me that way and the worst part about it is that I am the one that underestimates myself the most. Then I meet the rare kind heartful people that have hope in me and motivate me to do better and pusher harder. They help me overcome the obstacles I never thought I would get through. The best part about it is feeling the love and happiness from my family and knowing I made them proud and also give them hope and motivation. ❤❤❤❤❤ I love you Heidi Somers you've been my motivation since day 1 🙌😉
The egg would have to be my fav! Perfect timing for Easter 😌❤️
My favorite part is your overall positivity in general. It is contagious and very heartwarming and inspirational to witness. You can tell you are speaking from your heart and really believe in the things you share ❤️
I liked your "new friend" story lol :)
My favourite part was when you were talking about how you make long distance relationship work. A lot of people don't have the patience and trust to make such a relationship work . I was in the same situation (but different countries) and we've currently just moved into a house together. This proves that if you love someone, there is no limit that can stop you to be with them. I have been following you for a while now and you really inspire me and more people to stay healthy and love ourselves :)
Perfect timing I'm doing my cardio!!
Jordan Fisher omg me tooooo
GET ITTT GIRLLLLLLL....do some cards for me toooo 😂❤️❤️❤️
My favorite part is you explaining the importance of surrounding yourself with kind positive people! I did not grow up with those type of people in my life. You are truly inspirational and I’m glad I found your channel! 💕
I LOVE that white chair haha 😍😍😍
Alaina Nicole riiiiight
Thanks giiiiirl it’s pottery barn 😛👌🏽
I have "friends" who have ignored me everytime I talk about my fitness journey and they too are also into fitness. This is a big part of my life and is important to me. I like the part most where you recommend the need to focus on myself and get rid of the negative people. I feel like that hit home the most.
Loved the video! My favorite part was just how real you were! Your whole face lights up when you mention Christian! Great video!💕💕💕
Talking
About releasing the negative people out
Of your life was my fav! It’s so true, you can t have a positive attitude if people you associate yourself don’t!
Awwww..... "He sets my soul on fire!" Fav quote for this vlog!
Love when you talked about being a woman and not being taken seriously! You're so real! Keep doing you!