Just A Housewife || Being Her! - | Sara Asif | Youth Club
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- Опубліковано 15 сер 2021
- Full-time mothers are often looked down upon and made to feel guilty about their choices and priorities of raising a family over pursuing a career.
How are these selfless mothers contributing to this society? Isn't raising responsible individuals necessary for building a bright future?
Here's an insight into being just a housewife!
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The best among you is the one who is best to his wife.
~ Prophet S.A.W ~
Of course dearr
S.A.A.W ❤❤❤
beshaq. ..
ALHAMDULILLAH! I'm blessed to be a daughter of such mother who has sacrificed her youth and education to give her children best of the best upbringing. Now she is a "house maker" as well as an economics scholar for she resumed her studies after a long pause. ALHAMDULILLAH I'm so proud of her.
Ma sha allah Really Proud of you and Your mother May Allah Bless you both
May Allah bless u and ur mother sis.
Actually she has not sacrificed her education for you but she proved she got real education in reality ❤️
قرآن کی بہترین دعائیں
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*اگر صالح اولاد چاہتے ہو تو*
رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِنْ لَدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ
رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ
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*اگر تمہیں اس بات کا خوف ہو کہ تمہارا دل گمراہ ہو جائے گا*
رَبَّنَا لَا تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِنْ لَدُنْكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْوَهَّاب
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ تمہیں شہادت جیسی سعادت میسر ہو*
رَبَّنَا آمَنَّا بِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ وَاتَّبَعْنَا الرَّسُولَ فَاكْتُبْنَا مَعَ الشَّاهِدِينَ
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*اگر کسی بڑی مشکل اور پریشانی میں گرفتار ہو تو*
حَسْبِيَ اللَّهُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
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*اگرچاہتے ہو آپ اور آپ کی اولاد نماز کی پابند رہے تو*
رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلاةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِي رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاءِ
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ آپ کی بیوی اور اولاد آپ سے ہمیشہ وفادار رہیں تو*
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
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*اگر اچھے گھر کی تلاش میں ہو تو*
رَبِّ أَنْزِلْنِي مُنْزَلًا مُبَارَكًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْمُنْزِلِين
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ شیطان تم سے ہمیشہ دور رہے تو*
رَبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَات«الشَّيَاطِينِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَنْ يَحْضُرُونِ
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*اگر جہنم کے عذاب سے ڈرتے ہو تو*
رَبَّنَا اصْرِفْ عَنَّا عَذَابَ جَهَنَّمَ إِنَّ عَذَابَهَا كَانَ غَرَامًا
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*اگر اس بات کا خوف ہو کہ اللہ تعالی تمہارے اعمال قبول نہیں کرے گا تو*
رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
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*اگر پریشان حال ہو تو*:
إنما أَشْكُو بَثِّي وَحُزْنِي إِلَى اللَّه
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اپنے دوستوں اور احباب کو ان قرآن دعاؤں سے مطلع فرمائیں، شاید کسی کی مشکل کا حل انہی دعاؤں میں سے کسی ایک دعا میں ہو---🌾🌾
MashaAllah. May Allah protect you and your mother from every evil eye Ameen yaa Raab 🤲
I miss my Ammi. 😭
if you upload even a 10-hour lecture of her on anything I will definitely listen to her.
Yeah i also do❤️
Same here😊
Yes me too I love her voice and presence of mind
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Exact story of my wife. Hats off to all the mothers. Lord bless them. Amen
It's my story and I am proud that i choose to be just a housewife!
😍😍😍may Allah bless u
Appreciated...
May Allah Pak Blessed you..!
قرآن کی بہترین دعائیں
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*اگر صالح اولاد چاہتے ہو تو*
رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِنْ لَدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ
رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ
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*اگر تمہیں اس بات کا خوف ہو کہ تمہارا دل گمراہ ہو جائے گا*
رَبَّنَا لَا تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِنْ لَدُنْكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْوَهَّاب
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ تمہیں شہادت جیسی سعادت میسر ہو*
رَبَّنَا آمَنَّا بِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ وَاتَّبَعْنَا الرَّسُولَ فَاكْتُبْنَا مَعَ الشَّاهِدِينَ
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*اگر کسی بڑی مشکل اور پریشانی میں گرفتار ہو تو*
حَسْبِيَ اللَّهُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
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*اگرچاہتے ہو آپ اور آپ کی اولاد نماز کی پابند رہے تو*
رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلاةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِي رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاءِ
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ آپ کی بیوی اور اولاد آپ سے ہمیشہ وفادار رہیں تو*
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
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*اگر اچھے گھر کی تلاش میں ہو تو*
رَبِّ أَنْزِلْنِي مُنْزَلًا مُبَارَكًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْمُنْزِلِين
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ شیطان تم سے ہمیشہ دور رہے تو*
رَبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَات«الشَّيَاطِينِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَنْ يَحْضُرُونِ
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*اگر جہنم کے عذاب سے ڈرتے ہو تو*
رَبَّنَا اصْرِفْ عَنَّا عَذَابَ جَهَنَّمَ إِنَّ عَذَابَهَا كَانَ غَرَامًا
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*اگر اس بات کا خوف ہو کہ اللہ تعالی تمہارے اعمال قبول نہیں کرے گا تو*
رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
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*اگر پریشان حال ہو تو*:
إنما أَشْكُو بَثِّي وَحُزْنِي إِلَى اللَّه
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اپنے دوستوں اور احباب کو ان قرآن دعاؤں سے مطلع فرمائیں، شاید کسی کی مشکل کا حل انہی دعاؤں میں سے کسی ایک دعا میں ہو---🌾🌾
I guess it's everyone's story.
Alhamdulillaah for being, #justahousewife
God bless you. You are the one who may raise Heroes
Excellent. Really just few days back me and my wife was talking about that , my wife is doctor but she left her job for our son Harris, I told my wife that we should tell our society that we need good human beings…. Thank you sister you told the words of our heart. Thank you. May Allah bless you.
This clip bought tears to my eyes .And now I am content to be Just a housewife Allhumduliah.
I can't explain how much this reminder motivate my soul
It Touched Straight my Heart....I Loved the way she Conveyed her message
True
yess
Mother with positive mindset contribute by her positive generation in society
Exactly...need a positive mindset
Alhamdulillah I am a housewife and I’m expecting. It’s a huge blessing from Allah.
It's also my story and i Also feel proud that i choose to be just a house wife Allhumdulillaha ♥️♥️
A matter of fact the west like England has an up and running Islamic law like NHS, a welfare system, human rights, children, animals, women and mens rights, west even following monogamy from Prophet Muhammed pbah marriage with Khadijah, All the laws we have in England are from Islam because they have Islamic books that's why England is up and running! Remember prophet Muhammed pbah wife Khadijah was a business woman!
Sister your speech about Islam is very important for each and everyone please come with more and more lectures about Islam
Yes
True
Problem starts when husband doesn't give respect to girl's decision of becoming just a house wife....
no one does
@@afsahfarooq710 you haven't been living in the same society I see.
"Just a housewive" is the hardest thing ever. Like this sister said... "On call.24/7".
problem tub shruu hoti ha jub insan ki jagah paise ko preference dii jaati ha
jub paise ko izzat smjha jata ha
boy k case me b
girl k case me b
Syef naz I agreee
It was an Epic speech!
Just how it’s a dialogue in the film Ki & Ka, “Meri Maa ghar bethti ni thi, ghar banati thi”
Wow ma'am....you made my day...i am a converted muslim....a graduate...a science person....sometimes thoughts come n my mind ke maine galat kia housewife choose karke but aaj aapko sunke...i feel proud k mera decision galat nahi tha...aur aaj apne bacchon ko dekh ke to perfect ho gayaa k waqee mera faisla sahi tha...they are good people today...alhumdulillah ...ye sab mere Allah ka faisla hai...jazakAllah khair for this motivation...jazakAllah khair
She seems very well educated MashaAllah, and wise MashaAllah. Doing what she's doing is a choice and it's a respectable choice. She gave up her career to raise her children MashaAllah. May Allah allow her children grow up to be beautiful people, with great character.
Ameen
Ameeen
Ameen
Very appreciable sister that you are standing up for for what you believe in, that you are proud to be just a mom for your kids. A mother is the world for her children. Imagine the world going out to look after another world. Does that make sense ? Not to me at least. A home maker certainly contributes to society more than anyone can imagine. I'm a working woman and a successful one but if given a chance I can give it all up at the drop of a hat just to be at home for my kids. Love the choice you made 👍
It's not easy to say such beautiful words when you are educated and criticized by society. We are so proud of you.
Being a good house wife and mother is the biggest contribution to the society. Salute to you for speaking up on this important topic.
RrresZ. Abhffedd ko o
ua-cam.com/video/11CZhA7BKWQ/v-deo.html
Most women work in the west, yet they have produced the most honest nations. Compare it with Pakistan where majority of women are housewives, and yet pakistan is among the most dishonest, corrupt nation. Where kam tolna, milawat, rishwat, intolerance, indiscipline, uncleanliness, is at it’s peak. There are places in Switzerland and Germany where there are no shop keepers. People are honest enough to pay. Can anyone imagine this in Pakistan. Is this the biggest contribution of housewives, raising a morales, value less nation? I am a house too but I have respect for both working women and housewives. You cannot demean the other or say yours is the biggest contribution. Many women work, not only for financial need but for emotional needs too. Most housewives take care of in laws in joint family system, face emotional abuse and have mental problems, depression. They need to get out of that toxic environment. A emotionally healthy woman can raise emotionally healthy children.
Imagine a woman with no male members in the family having to go to a bank and finding no females, but all men staring at her.
So comment with some responsibility and facts.
How can you not appreciate the contribution of the maid, you wait for every day who is a working mother, yet comes to clean your house.
What about the doctor who helped bringing your children into this world .
What about the teachers you send your children to get education in a school.
And what about the roti , grain , flour that comes to you because of that women working in the fields.
How can you think the contribution of these women is lesser? Can you do without any of these women?
Imagine a woman with no male members in the house, going to a bank with all men staring at her, and no female present to help her.
Being a house wife or working is a personal need and choice, and all contribute to the society. No one is better than the other. But a woman saving a human life as a doctor is far better than a woman sitting idling at home spending all time either shopping, or gossiping, or throwing parties, or even doing ibadat all the time. I am sure the former would make Allah happier than the latter.
@@mahnoorqureshi3281 Actually, you are giving the wrong comparisons. But it will be a long debate.
I can say only one thing, the western countries are now suffering from the side effects of all working woman community. And therefore the government and individuals are already funding ways to keep the family system and the future of children safe. Work from home and online work are becoming popular.
Some of them are now calling the house wives "the home makers".
But of course, its your life. Do whatever you want to do and beliefs whatever you want to believe.
😊😊😊
It's exactly my story 😊 and I feel proud of myself for being just a housewife but sometimes iit hurts when people under estimate me for i left my career behind ...I feel proud to be truthful to allah instead of people. thanks for the video motivating every house wife and their contribution towards society.. may allah bless you mam jazakallah khair
ماشاءاللہ دل چھو لیا آ پ کی باتوں نے ۔۔۔۔۔♥️♥️
Mera sapna hai ki mai ek deen daar doctor banu doctor banne k saath saath ek deen daar aurat housewife b banu ❤️
Insha Allah
Please pray for me
I request to all brothers and sisters 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Same here but tension bhi bahut hoti h ke dono saath me manage kis tarah honga or agar manage nhi hua to apna career chodne pr kucu gunah to nhi honga bahut tension me hu plz kuch suggest kare
Ya rabb apko bhot acha ajar de sister
ماشاء اللہ جزاک اللہ خیرا
How humble you are mam! I adore you ❤️
Extremely appreciatable... Extra Ordinary... Mind blowing Fantastic... Respect🙌... Respect🙌... Respect 🙌
Fantastic speech👍 mam
Jazak Allahu Khairan for these beautiful messages. May Allah reward you for all the goodness that you're spreading, Aameen! Much love and blessings.
Bahot hi Umda. How she easily said that "Main duniya ek aisa insan de jaau'n jiski is duniya ko kami hai" woww. Jazak-Allah
Agree! I was a housewife lekin ird gird k logon ko dekh ker mjhe bhi shok hua Keh I should also earn. And so I started UA-cam and insta. I have a son and as soon as I started all this, he was getting neglected until one day he burned his finder due to my negligence and that was the day I started to think seriously as a responsible mother. Being a mother is the greatest selfless contribution to the society agar apnay aapni aulaad ki tarbiyat Deen k mutabik ki aur wo bhi Allah ki Raza k liay. Yes there will be hurdles and people will make fun of you but ignore it it's just a noise you have to ignore... You must!
So if you are confused Keh Kya choose kerain ? Career ya Ghar? I would say... Ghar... Apnay bachay aur unka future... Aur unki aakhirat. Kionk humse sawal hoga in sabk baray main. Aakhrat ki manazil BHT Hain and I want to cross all those steps in peace. May Allah grant us all the courage to stay on the right path aameen
Exactly 💯
MashaaAllah ✨
All mothers are BLESSING from Allah Almighty ❤️
I just wanted this bayan and it comes at the right time on my UA-cam feed. Alhamdulillah
Really needed to hear that Ma'am, thank you
I still choose to be a housewife even after my degree because I know I can’t do justice with both the things (A job and Maternity) simultaneously. Women are lucky who are blessed with hardworking husbands but my sincere prayers for those single mothers who are helpless.
Engr salman aftab ko bhi sune very motivating and authentic scholer on youtube 👍
I'm 17yrs nd Mayne bs 5th grade tk padha hey due to financial problems so afters so many years I joined a Islamic school where they teach Arabic, fiqh, tafseer, nd aqeedah, nd quran...
Mujhe yeh sonch kr humesha duk hota tha ke im uneducated nd can't do anything for my future kids cz nowadays schools are not really schools...!
@@ammatullah6421 Sis you’re lucky, MashaAllah. Aj kal barhay se barhay afsar or bht se parhi likhi khatoon ko quran parhnay ko smjhnay ki Allah ne taufeeq na dee. Bachon ko beshaq english bh aani chahea magar ussay pehle deen.
@@yumnamehkari
This is all from Allah سبحانه وتعالى.
Beshaq...
@@ammatullah6421 I appreciate❤ ur thoughts being a good house wife
Masha Allaah. You just inspired me. I was really worried about doing nothing to society. Now after listening you am really satisfied Alhamdulillah. JAZAKALLAAHU KHAIRAN.
Please upload more and more videos of her lectures. She has such a great sepeaking power. Just love to listen to her always. May Allah guide us all to the righteous path. Ameen
This is exactly what I want to listen from You maam .....women' is the queen of house 🏠and a queen never goes to earn money 💰........💚
Education doesn't mean to contribute to the society through corporate sector It's a sick mentality came from West that we need to change
Thats really true
True brother
It is penetrated in our society.by media
@R ISLAM ya so called feminism a tool to use woman
قرآن کی بہترین دعائیں
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*اگر صالح اولاد چاہتے ہو تو*
رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِنْ لَدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ
رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ
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*اگر تمہیں اس بات کا خوف ہو کہ تمہارا دل گمراہ ہو جائے گا*
رَبَّنَا لَا تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِنْ لَدُنْكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْوَهَّاب
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ تمہیں شہادت جیسی سعادت میسر ہو*
رَبَّنَا آمَنَّا بِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ وَاتَّبَعْنَا الرَّسُولَ فَاكْتُبْنَا مَعَ الشَّاهِدِينَ
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*اگر کسی بڑی مشکل اور پریشانی میں گرفتار ہو تو*
حَسْبِيَ اللَّهُ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
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*اگرچاہتے ہو آپ اور آپ کی اولاد نماز کی پابند رہے تو*
رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلاةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِي رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاءِ
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ آپ کی بیوی اور اولاد آپ سے ہمیشہ وفادار رہیں تو*
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
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*اگر اچھے گھر کی تلاش میں ہو تو*
رَبِّ أَنْزِلْنِي مُنْزَلًا مُبَارَكًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْمُنْزِلِين
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*اگر چاہتے ہو کہ شیطان تم سے ہمیشہ دور رہے تو*
رَبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَات«الشَّيَاطِينِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَنْ يَحْضُرُونِ
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*اگر جہنم کے عذاب سے ڈرتے ہو تو*
رَبَّنَا اصْرِفْ عَنَّا عَذَابَ جَهَنَّمَ إِنَّ عَذَابَهَا كَانَ غَرَامًا
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*اگر اس بات کا خوف ہو کہ اللہ تعالی تمہارے اعمال قبول نہیں کرے گا تو*
رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
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*اگر پریشان حال ہو تو*:
إنما أَشْكُو بَثِّي وَحُزْنِي إِلَى اللَّه
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اپنے دوستوں اور احباب کو ان قرآن دعاؤں سے مطلع فرمائیں، شاید کسی کی مشکل کا حل انہی دعاؤں میں سے کسی ایک دعا میں ہو---🌾🌾
Beautifully explained! JazakAllah. ❤️
Salute to u for selecting such a wonderful yet amazing speech.
such a positive mindset you have
loved listening to you❤
Your words ❤ connected direct to the heart, 100% true....👏👏
Masha ALLAH... Huge respect n a honour to hear such great words from ma'am
Jazakallah Khair sister for boosting our confidence ❤️
Golden words... Great respect for you sister❤️
Its so sad sister sara that you had to go through all this.
Whatever u had to go through, Allah TALA will reward you here and in the hereafter.
Infact you are rewarded in this world by this platform.
Really appreciateable,,topic, jazakallah.
Sara, I must say u are amazing and the topic chosen by you are constantly incredibly necessary in our society.
i was literally finding something which could prove what worth a sincere housewife has... and i strongly believe it should be considered an amazing profession because it demands alot of sacrifices and efforts to carry on... i respect all those women who are giving there all attentions to their kids,husband and family
I'm unmarried... teaching in a private school...but this is my thinking...I have prepared such kinda mindset for my future...in sha Allah.... Nurturing ur generations in a sunnah is far better than doing any government job... May Allah Swt guide us all...ameen
MashAllah ... Jazakillahu khairan for guiding all of us in a better way.. Yc is doing excellent job..
MashaAllah Ur voice and way of delivering touch my heart and want to listen u again and again May Allah keep all of us on the right path ameen
Just a🏡 house wife I am proud of myself🌹 Allhumdulillah
Growing up with a feeling to being independent and contribute in a good way to society...to grown up become an independent docotor.....i feel something missing...something which i want.... and this video helps me....to find that empty place within me....thank you may Allah rewardu for this!
Assalamu alaykum
I wanna ask you that I am on the road of studying. I also wanna grow up as the best female doctor. I want to serve my country in this way, but is it hard to do so? I am just in 9th standard, but with big and clear dreams of becoming a doctor. My family respected my decision, but all others said it's difficult to be a female doctor and then you have to study so hard and for so long.
Can you please guide me through this. It actually discourages me.
@@hadiaieman1205 walikumasalam
MashAAllAh I'm glad that you have thid aim
I will tell you something about me which you will be able to relate
And it's all bcz of Allah that right now I am doing doctor of physiotherapy in 2nd year
So it's about 9th class when my teachers told my father that your daughter is a failure she won't be able to have good marks in science subjects and doctor dour ki BAAT .. but idk bcz of Allah I passed my exams
Then I passed my fsc but as I couldn't pass entry test so my own brothers (they wanted good for me ofc ) they said to me : medical is so difficult and you won't be able to pass exams too if you fail once then it will be difficult
And no doubt ITS IS DIFFICULT and every other FIELD too ..so saying that a person won't be able to do something just because others are saying is totally WRONG and never ever HEAR WHATOTHERS SAY .. don't listen to them but ask ALLAH to Help you because He just has to say KUN faya Kun and even if in later you try your best and still won't pass entry test then don't fell disheart bcz what Allah has planned will be best for you InshAAllah 💜
Just like now I'm doing DPT alhamdoulillah I'm glad I didn't go into MBBS
So start reading different Duas before studies and 2 nafil hajjat
And whenever people say that YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO DO SOMETHING THEN DON'T LET THEM DEFINE YOU AND GET AFRAID BCZ OF THAT ..
May Allah be with you hadia and may you become a beautiful humble loving doctor and even if you can't May you become something which Allah has written for you InshAAllah 💜
If u have any other questions please do ask
@Khadija Tuz Zahra
Thank you so much. It was so motivating and inspiring to read all that you have written. May Allah be always with you and help you in every difficult time, and may you prosper more.
Actually I have a clear and strong dream of becoming a great doctor one day. May Allah help me and make my dreams come true.
Do you have any idea about entering into medical field after doing O and A levels, as I am currently in 9th standard of O level.
جزاك الله خير آختي
You are the bravest woman sister
Masha Allah apne mere dil ki baat ker di Allah paak aap k naike makshad ko pura kerne mein aaki madad krein ameen 💖
I choose to stay at home to look after my mother and household work after my education bt it really hurts when someone visits our home and says why you have studied? If you don't want to job.
I studied for becoming a good human being not for job. It doesn't mean everybody studied just for earning money.
You made best the decision... sister.
Proud of you... don't dishearten with the words of people who themselves are in darkness.
Allah will surely reward you....be patient:)
Engr salman aftab ko bhi sune very motivating and authentic scholer on youtube 👍👍
Kya aap mere ek sawal ka jawab denge
Of course housewives work. They work so much and the recognition is sooo little which is really sad. Some men unfortunately put forward the narrative"tum ghar pe kya hee karti ho" and stuff, denying the loads of chores a housewife!!!! But yep, in current circumstances women prefer to be financially independent because of the increasing disloyalty in marriages sadly 😭😭😭😭
Or khuch shohr biwi ko khrcha tk ni dyty lykin Kam Sara kra lyty tb orat ko feel hta h
I agree
Not just disloyalty.The husband can get unemployed or can even pass away.Or what if he’s an abuser?Allah rahm karey
In these times there is a lot of focus on weirdly knowledge but the knowledge of religion which acts as a guide for a girl or a boy is not concerned important because of which then people face unresolvable issues. If people try to understand the religion, Qur'an - which is the speech of Allah swt, and Ahadeeths which are the explanations to the practicality of Islam, definitely they will have all the amicable solutions to all sorts of problems in their lives, all the how to and all the duas and everything needed at all. Understanding the religion and acting upon it is the greatest blessing one can attain in this life, a gateway to peace, security and success in both lives. If your trying to become a house wife, then I'm sorry to say that your chances of a blissful life is not guaranteed.
Patta nhi kahan ki stories sunna rhi hay...? Housewives ko kahan time hay bachon ki tarbiyat ka? Un k paas baat to kia ser khujaanay ka time nhi. Subah sab k naashtay, bertan, kitchen, dusting, cleaning, mopping, laundry, sorting and ironing, bedding, lunches and clearing and then dishes. Same for dinners. If she has babies, their feeding, bathing plus entertaining husband and his guests. No time at all to even talk to young kids. Just giving them instructions throughout the day. Wake up, clean up, have breakfast, take bath, finish homework, say prayers, do quran lesson, tuition, go to bed. Plus doing groceries, school and tuition runs if she drives. She can only do good tarbiyat of kids if she has responsibilities of just kids and has got help in and around the house. and that is possible in well off families.
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Very Well Said! Good Mother's are the True Mentor's for our society. Very Well Said sister Sara
Listening once to all your speeches is not enough. I feel like listening again and again till it enters and registers in the mind. Masahallah sister love from India
Asalamu Alaikum, MashaAllah your lectures are always best.Every women should listen to your lectures.I recommend your videos to my mother and grandmother but most of the times they are unable to understand as you use English in between. So i request you whole heartedly that please deliver these lectures only in urdu as these are mandatory to listen to for a women.JazakAllahu Khair.
It's look so beautiful when she talks in any language
im in africa and would love to hear her in english because i dont understand the other words in between...lol....this video popped up and i clicked to watch,maybe subtitles will help because i believe she is sharing gems
Prophet Muhammed pbah wife Khadijah ra was a big business woman who had dealing with men to do with her business! Gaslighting and Manipulating sisters to stay at home, wear hijab, making babies when the divorce rate is so high in the Muslim ummah today! Astaghfiullah
Being house wife is toughest job... Caring for kids, training them and growing them is not easy task... In my opinion.. Job woman spends less time with kids that results in poor parents kids bonding later in life.. Allah knows best..
Of course dearr
those women who spend 24/7 on their children produce humans with zero intellect. Bachon k sath quality time guzarein. it's always quality over quantity. Eik ma agr 24/7 bhi apni aulaad k sath rahay toh achi parwarish nahi kar sakti aur agar eik working mother apni aulaad ko quality time de toh uski aulaad ki parwarish eik full time mom ki parwarish se laakh darja behtar hai.
@@Kekkazed it's hard to convinc when you have already made up ur mind... Any how mothers always give quality time... No tuitor, school or madrsa can teach what mother can... Even father can't do... I am pediatrician and my wife is radiologist... We both are working... I share my experience... Its very hard for woman to work like machine, and provide so called quality time to kids..
@@asimsheikhh8513 i could say the same. It's hard to convince when you've made up your mind.
@@asimsheikhh8513 why don’t you help your wife with chores around the house and take care of the children so that your wife can get some rest?the father is equally responsible for the tarbiyah of children
Ur convincing power is so strong apko sun k muji aik sukoon sa mel jata hai thank you so much. I am a newly married and following all your lectures trying to develop positive good relation with my hubby and in laws your voice has a very strong positive impact on my life Allah bless you ameen
Wow!! I am amazed in what beautiful manner you conveyed your message.. just in awe of your presentational skills.
Homemaker is the appropriate word , we should avoid the word housewife….
Problem starts when the husband says fullfill your needs on your own i won't give you money.
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Then truly someone is refusing to fulfill their role as husband but u are right I have friends who it happened to ans she is an engineer so she went back to work left daughter at childcare
Masha'Allah. our society needs your voice sister👍..
You are the best contributor to the society.
Respected sister...so sweet u r. But u know aj kal ladies govt jobs k lye boht zada willing hoti hain. Lecturership me 4 hour working k bad ghar ko pora tym. Majority of women try for this aur na mil sakay to behad disappoint hoti hain. Meri field medicine ha,but me bacho ki waja se 9 to 5 ki job nhe kr saki. Mujy afsos hota ha boht lekin me sochti hu Allah ki behtri hoge. Me parday aur namaz ki paband hu ,otherwise severe Depression me rehti. Beshak! Allah ki yad me dilo ka chain ha. Hatsoff sara baji.🙋
why do people think education/career is in contest with marriage? kya ap aurton se dono cheez manage nahi hoti? kya ap aurtein itni incapable ho?
Ap mardon se to aik cheez manage nai hoti aur auraton ko incapable keh Rae ho.what a joke.
@@Kekkazed sara baji ne bataya ha k child birth se related process boht hectic ha. Its exertion of long time. Mard hazrat ne bachay paida nhe krne hotay.
@@DrMaryamTahir Mind you, i'm a daughter of a working woman.
@@Kekkazed double responsibilities to mard puri nhi kr paate to phr hr aurat kaise krskti hai? Agr sb kch ek hi gender ne krna hota toh phr Allah ek hi gender bnata...
Thanku. Sara auntyyou help me alot...beacuse...i really need this type of motivation....lots of duaa
Loved to hear you❤... May Allah bless you and all of us...who are Just A Housewives
Much needed... thank you so much... i needed this ....
Being "just a house wife" is the best career indeed😊
Alhamdulillah... I am a full time mother & a housewife
Kitni khoobsurti sy apny byan kiya hai Ma'am,Ma Sha Allah♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Islamic teachings are the best MashaAllah MashaAllah .
Beautiful lecture
When in laws (mother in laws)especially, husband's, relatives,society start appreciating housewives little more then women will love being at home and being a housewife.
Engr salman aftab ko bhi sune very motivating and authentic scholer on youtube 👍
Ye baat mere dimaagh mein kaafi time se chal rhi thhi but it was incomplete.. Aaj mujhe ye baat kaafi achhi trah se clear hogyi hai.. All thanks to Sara Asif 💛
Even a housewife contributes to the society at a great level!!!!
Wow. Spot on. May Allah raise your ranks in Jannah sister.
No doubt mothers are the SUPER heroes of our society. Best ever talk
Respects from Canada.
Subhan ALLAH Sister... 🌸 حَسْبُنَا اللَّهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيلُ ... لا الہ الا اللہ ... اللہ اکبر 🌸JazakALLAH 🌸 ... #SaraAsif #YouthClub #YC
Guys try to fit in as much Quran as possible in your heart. Star with the small surahs. Fit in as much Quran in ur heart and in ur life as possible. Like if u could take as many jewels from a treasure chest before you leave take as much Quran with you before you leave this planet
And understand it and apply it's teachings in your life as it is guidance for mankind from the Lord of the Worlds. And how can one be guided without asking for it from Him and without understanding the Speech of Allah (Qur'an) and the sayingd of our beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam?
Excellent work, please keep it up, we need educated women like you to help the society.
Mam apne bilkul sahii kaha is qoom ko is wakt sb se zyada achiii maan ki zroorat he❤❤
mashaALLAH mashaALLAH 👍
If there's appreciation in the household for being a housewife, less women would want to go out.. guaranteed
so true 💯
Totally agree. Women work not just for financial need but for emotional need too. Most housewives suffer from depression, looking after in laws and facing emotional abuse. They have no sense of identity of their own.
Yes. That's true. Their work is considered an easy job ane they aren't given credit for the work they do. I love you mama for always being there and raising us. ❤️ ❤️
True
Simply true.the whole philosophy in a few words.this is what actually we need
Sister, you are so well spoken. Listening to you is so calming, thank you for your contribution to society! The type of contribution you are doing is the biggest one to society!
I am shocked, that other sisters would not understand your feelings, may Allah SWT guide sisters that think differently.
Please continue to come out with lectures. Many many duas to you and your family🤲🏻
The hour seemed too near for her
As she panicked and prayed
And the skies shattered above her
As the earth trembled below her
And her memories had clouded
As the eruption of unimaginable pain
Seemed never ending
Till she believed she was surely to die
Then the mercy of Allah descended
Exactly as the pen had written
At the precise time of decree
And the miracle was born
Helpless and weak
To the joyful relief of the father
And she kindly held the newborn
Close to her heart
With the purest of love
Overlooking the suffering and pain
As though she had never experienced
Then do you still wonder
That Paradise doth lie
Under the feet of your mother?
Indeed
Allah has promised her
And kept secret
Such bounties of joy
That no eye have ever seen
No ears have ever heard
And no eye could ever imagine
For the pain that a mother endures at childbirth
Take good care of your mother
And guard your entry into Heaven
By looking after your father
Who is indeed
Your door to Paradise
And without him
You would not exist
Ma'am please share that how should a women manage her deen and duniya ??? . Plzz plzz ma'am and team YC
Mashallah I had that question in my mind how to create a balance between both
May Allah guide you and make it easy for you in both deen and dunya
@@Syedafathima12005 same pinch!! Thank you sista and I wish you the same. May Allah guide us all.
Only solution to not only read Quran Pak but also understand our Holly Book. Practise Quran Pak and Sunna
Select any 2 hours daily for yourself means for study of our Deen. Our Deen will guide us to balance our dunya .
@@naziarafique1125 exactly you are right we should understand what we read even while offering namaz this makes us to build kushoo and gives better understanding...❣️
Masha'Allah
Absolutely right, Society needs a people like what you mention. Allah Bless Us
Jazakallah khair sister. ...
Maam i really apreciate your lecture ....i wish mard apni biwi k haqooq ko samjhe ..othrwise kisi b wife jo shouk nai hota job ki
السّلام وعلیکم dear Marina Gul only best mothers can provide best husband to the society actually our new generation is underestimating to be good house wife infact a good housewife is queen of her house only she can give best husband, father, and mothers to the society stay blessed اور ہر قسم کے وسوسے جھٹک دیں کامیابی صرف آپ کےلئے ہے ،thanks to consider
There was always a chaos in my mind about the thing u described.You are just more than exceptional.
More power and love to you♥️
Your accent is so inspiring, it literally touches heart.
Youth club, Thank you for existing🤍
I appreciate your mentality n thoughts, your thinking reflectes ur mature nature n mind too, Allah has not only blessed u with Hidaya but Intellectual ability too.Which is pinnacle of Everything..... May You live long, Aameen
ameen
With health
Sitting in a luxurious house, wearing a branded abaya, I wish she had the courtesy to acknowledge the hard work of the numerous maids, who she must have hired to clean and maintain her lavish house. Those maids are working mothers. They can’t afford to sit in air conditioned rooms giving lectures on how perfect , they are as housewives.
@@mahnoorqureshi3281 No matter the housewives situation we still have to do our best as mothers. It's her fate to be where she is.
@@worshipthecreator9081 Yes, but she doesn’t have to gaslight one to praise the other. Housewives and working women, both can be good mothers. It’s entirely the prerogative, choice, need of different women to decide for them themselves. You can not say one is better than the other.
I am a doctor and im doing a part time job now .I can now spend so much more time for my son .I am earning less but i am a much satisfied person inside Alhamdulillah .I can give time to my baby boy easily now.
JazakAllah khairan for a such an excellent talk..
I am here again ❤ Please Pray for Afghanistan...
Now Afghanistan is in good hands
Afghanistan is safe now
Be happy now
@@mdsohaib3465 brother I'm an Indian muslimah.. I don't know the exact picture..but as a human and the videos have seen are just killing me deep inside ..All those Afghani people are my brother and sisters...Flees away because of Taliban...may I know why are saying that it is good???
@@afzalsiddiqui1631 the moderate muslim flees away... And the western puppet... Don't believe whats the western media show.... And one more thing try to know whats real Islam is... As there are not many haqq schooler in india except zakir naik.. So try to learn real Islam
@@rahatamin1873 Allah knows better infact the best.. May Allah guide us all..
...Asalamualykum to everyone...education sirf job k liye nii hai...aik woman k liye kaafi hai ki wo ghr ko sambaal sakhe...bachoun ko sambaale...baaki sb zimadari mard ko hotii hai..kamani ki
JazakAllah for such amazing words 🌸
Excellent, and this is the most important role prescribed by the Creator for women.