If didn’t nobody else in this world believe in God, I would. I sat here crying shaking telling myself to let this man go. That I deserve better. That I feel like he is TOLERATING ME and I click onto UA-cam steadily trying to get my mind off him and your video is the 1st in my feed. You used the exact same words! It’s like God himself was speaking to me confirming these feelings I have and it’s mind blowing bc I keep going back keep trying to prove myself and I keep telling myself it’s not mutual! Thank you Tab. Thank you Jesus.
🙌🏾🙌🏾Thank You Jesus for freeing my sister! You are made for greater! I pray you meet someone with great capacity for real True, love, who will seek God on how to love you properly! Only God can teach that, and he will be open to learning. May God heal your brokenness, and make you whole sis💓
I prayed to God to remove all of the draining relationships. He said, “if you turn your desires inward and keep your eyes fixed upon me, I will supply your every need”. Its like one day I just woke up and my desires to chase “family” was just removed. And sometimes, he uses those very people to sever relationships because He knows you can’t in your own strength. Thank you Lord! 🙌🏾
Same here and one day it was like my eyes just opened and realized that none of the family really loved me at all and I had to set some healthy boundaries. It's so sad but it was so necessary
This is for me Tabitha. GOD SPOKE TO YOU FOR ME! I left my house and went to a vacant parking lot to just scream and cry... away from my family. The security guard literally just asked me how much time I needed before I left. 💔 I have made myself available to a man who is not worth my time or energy bc I'm so vulnerable right now. I'm going through an extremely volatile divorce and he knows it. Please pray for my peace and sanity
When you are vulnerable, the users know and prey on you. You don’t have to accept it, you can let go. I know that you don’t want to be alone but find a support group. A volatile divorce is hard enough, no need for additional romantic headaches. Get through your divorce and heal your broken heart before you try to connect with someone else.
Thank you Holy Spirit for leading me here today. This is confirmation for me. I receive this message. May God continue to richly bless you and your ministry. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
My boi chance gotta dig deeper before he lose this queen, time to be softer and let down your guard more. I've been with my wife for 20 years, and we came from the bottom with nothing, that why I love you'll relationship.
Sometimes, it's abandonment issues, trauma that connects a soul tie, fear of phyiscally abuse... it's not always low self-esteem. Sometimes, it's deeper than that. And I empathize with every situation. Even the low self-esteem for some women and men. 💖
So many people are taught to tolerate others, starting with "family" because "we need someone." Well, it does not have to be that person(s) who does not mean you well. There are too many others in the world to tolerate someone who possibly despises you. More importantly, you question why are they there because they add nothing of value to your life.
I just said a prayer for all of you in the comment section that this video hit home. I’ve been their and trust me letting go and finally loving on you is going to change your life for the better. This goes for romantic relationships, friendships, and family. Light and love and Peace to you all.
I LOVEEEEE ❤️❤️🥰🥰😘😘YOU!! Thank you so much for this. I'm one of many this message was for. I was with a man for 10 years. I did everything in the relationship and got nothing in return. 😪Only heart aches & pain. So technically I was alone for 10 years 🤷🏾♀️ to this day I find myself still trying to love him. I know I have to let go, thank you so much Mrs. Tab have a blessed 🌙 🌉 🙏🏾😘
Thank you. This hits different concerning my parents. I’m trying hard not to people please and walk in my truth. Love me deeper. But when it comes to parents it feels like I’m doing something wrong. I was raised to make them comfortable, to not talk about the elephant in the room.
Keep walking in truth. You cannot live for others, they have already lived their life. It’s one thing to show respect but living a lie is another story. Parents usually do not want to address the elephant in the room but also remember that hindsight is always 20/20 but during the present, one’s sight can be very unclear or obstructed.
I struggled with this one day, too, because of the commandment to honor our father and our mother (Exodus 20:12). I was a caregiver to my parents for many years and sometimes there were conflicts, and then one day I sensed God saying that verse ultimately meant to honor Him because He is Spirit (John 4:24), He represents my Father & my Mother. I knew my mandate was to honor Him in how I treated my parents, and all would be well. This took my focus off of me and my parents, and put my focus back on the One Who created me...God. I hope this helps.❤🌹
I've learned this hard truth of acceptance painfully!! This goes beyond opposite sex relationships. It goes 4 ALL relationships, same sex friends, toxic family members. When you really LEARN HOW TO LUV YOURSELF & BECOME AWARE OF HOW OTHERS ARE REALLY TREATING U! I now treat my relationships as 401K's. For me, they are investments. Are my counterparts making the same level of contribution? If not, mk MY ADJUSTMENTS 2 MATCH THEM OR CLOSE THAT ACCOUNT. They are blocking the BLESSED relationship GOD z wanting to bring! His REPLACEMENTS are ALWAAAYzz WAAAAY BETTER! SEEK 2B FULFILLED BY GOD 1st!
I think of how you heard our Father tell you to make videos often. This is why. Everytime I need a little affirmation or confirmation, your videos pop up. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Thank you, Father, for Tab.
I was just lying here with my eyes closed thinking about my situation. God gives you what you need, when you need it. This is just confirmation that I did the right thing by walking away. This person will never love me the way I want and deserve to be loved, because she doesn't know how to, or is just comfortable being selfish. I know I deserve better and will not waste another moment about this. Thank you, Tab ,for accepting the assignment. Unrequited love is unfair! We all deserve a live that's reciprocal. Peace and blessing to us all!
I got out🎉❤🙌🏽 I was in a toxic emotionally abusive relationship and I left overnight🙏🏽 please get out if you’re being abused in any way❤️ stay safe out there
I saw this at the right moment. My heart feels like it has been broken into a million pieces. I know I need to let go and it’s hard but I have no other choice. I pray you all have a wonderful night and day. ❤
I pray that during this process you discover what’s amazing about Dani. We pour everything into others and abandon ourselves. Letting go is so painful but you can do it. Surround yourself with people and passions that you enjoy. Take this time to discover more about you. Fall in love with you! I hope today is the beginning of an amazing journey of self discovery and adventure.
When you take that first step and start putting yourself first you are not going to believe how much you neglected yourself but after you get through that phase your self love and self care is going to change your life in ways you will never have imagined. I send you the spirit of peace , strength and courage on your journey. Just know you are NEVER alone.
Lord knows I need this today at this hour! It’s one thing to date someone you trying to love but being married is so much harder!!!! Something I am now learning is to love me!!!❤ praying for everyone on here!!!
OMG‼️ This Is Me TeTe TAB You’re Talking About Me & As I Sit Here Watching This Video I Had To Mute The TV & Hear What You Was Saying , I’m Literally In TEARS 😭😭 As You Say You’ve Put Too Much Time In This Relationship That Isn’t Working For Me , But I Will LOVE Me & It’s Time To Move On With MY Life Because Life Is Too Short To Be Living In Misery‼️ Thank You For This Message TeTe TAB & LOVE You So Much You’re Such An Inspiration 🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Not just even in romantic relationships, it’s been friendships and it started with my relatives growing up. Coming to that conclusion has truly been my guidance and force me to my self love discovery. These last 10 years has been eye opening. As well as tough! Thank you, Tabitha!!
🥺Thank you. This was hard to hear but I know God is heartbroken seeing me try to reason with my husband of 20 years. I knew I should’ve stopped trying when he walked out 4 months ago and cut off contact to me and the children. And definitely when he moved back in and decided to sleep in a completely different room. I just kept hoping we could fix this before before me and the children moved back home. But last night the questions I asked, let me know I’ve ALWAYS been alone in this relationship and no matter what he will never see or love anything about me that everyone else sees and that there will always be another woman that can do something for him no matter how long I’ve been doing it. 💔💔
Hang in there. Your story resonates with me. After 25 years and 2 children (one with special needs) he walked out came back and did the whole separate room thing too. I too held on to hope. Once he started packing again I helped him finish. It was hard to let go but it has turned out to be the best thing he could have ever done for me and my children. We have been through financial hiccups but with God and a true angel we are living in peace! You have to let people be who they are. Please love yourself enough to say goodbye. Please protect your children. I had to apologize to mine because I wasn't showing them what a loving family was by trying to love someone who didn't love me. ❤❤❤
@@mypeace101 thank you ❤️. I will. I know it’s going to take time and require not only therapy but for me to really start loving myself like I use to. I’m thankful for this lesson and hopefully I and my children can heal like we need to.
This is so beautiful. I will add to my nightly gratitude chat with Him how much I appreciate the love I receive from my husband. I smile when I am doing something like shutting down my laptop and my husband calls for me because he doesn’t want to start the movie or show we are binge watching without me there. I love these moments so much. Our quiet coffee in the mornings, that is our time, and I am so grateful. And we BOTH deserve this love. Anyone in a one-sided relationship, I am heartbroken for you because you deserve more. Thank you for this powerful message, Tabitha.
THIS ONE SHOOK ME OUT OF MY SLEEP ‼️didn’t realize how much it’s been bothering me to get through after this left me feeling out of balance for a while . Thank you for the reinforcement to continue applying this .LOVE & Gratitude from New Orleans 🫶🏽🪷🕺🙌🏽🎨 Remember your Seamoss & vitamin C for the healing 🙏🏽🎩 Rhoc Chef Mc-
Gdeve. @Anna Smith, Yes & amen to wat U said abt GoD & His Holy Spirit using Aunt Tab to help, encourage, give good, sound advice, free up folks from bad, 1 sided, Unloving Relationships, etc.
I don't want to get in the details, but this video had some surreal timing for me. I usually say I don't like to believe in fate (because why should I work out if I'm fated to lose weight anyways?), but my person is from Utah. Maybe that's a coincidence, but regardless, I'll take the hint keep on loving myself more. Thanks Tab
I got a divorce. Paid over $1200 for it. Moved out a few months after it was final. No bad blood. He just never truly wanted me in the first place. I’m super happy now. Lost over 100lbs.
When I unknowingly married a narcissist I was absolutely miserable! I kept thinking to myself that I was happier by myself and I know this is not what Almighty God intended for my life to be like. I didn't even feel he was tolerating me, it was more like I was being completely ignored while he was living his BEST life. So I cried out to the Lord (in prayer) and long story short, He rescued me from that toxic situation that almost killed me. I followed the Lord's leading (through His Holy Spirit) and He protected me from that narcissistic demonic spirit influencing my (now) ex to persistently stalk and harass me, that didn't want to let go.
OMG!!!! This word for me and I absolutely received it! I kept putting my life on pause to accommodate, support and encourage him in hopes to get it in return but to no avail 😔. After all the stress, depletion, depression and tears, I've learned that I can't give what I don't have. I'm free now and I'm pouring that love back into me and then some! Thank you for this beautiful confirmation of restoration. Get well my beautiful Sis 🤗 &may God continue to bless you!
Preach my sister! I'd rather stay single until God sends the right person into my life. I love myself more than to let someone treat me bad. Thank you for this word. God Bless You
So True even with Family also!! Sometimes you love them and wonder why they don’t love you back, I remember that I choose my Friends not my Family!! And I choose so called Friends very wisely!! Thanks for the reminder Tab!! ❤❤
I love you Tab!!! I’m dealing with leaving A LOT of friends who were demonizing my authenticity but using me to be there shoulder cry on when everyone else rejected them. This has been one of the biggest lessons for me as of late!
I wish I had gotten this marriage before I got married. I feel like he’s growing in love now, but it was years of him trapping me in that narcissistic loop of never being enough. Getting only bread crumbs. Thank you for this message.
Tab has been targeting me hard lately🤣😭 Currently going through one sided love from my family and it’s heartbreaking when you suffer from depression and NEED them. God is an awesome God, so I know he’ll get me through this🙏🏿❤️
@TabithaBrown Today is my birthday. I am 33 years old today. 3 months pregnant married with 2 toddlers. I cried listening to this because I know my marriage is over and I’m scared. But I also know that God is with me and that I was meant to listen to this on this special day. Thank you for this truth. It’s hard but very necessary. I have so much love and I’m going to give it to myself for once. ❤ God bless you! I’m a new subscriber. I’ll be starting a channel too. Thank you for inspiring me.
Damn 😐 we are the same age, with the same story that is crazy 😭 I've heard someone say those toddler years are the most vaunrable time of a relationship that's where you truly get to see who you are married to.. If you are carrying the load alone and Him it's even more agonizing. Keep loving on yourself I'm learning to do the same.
Happy Birthday Jada! I hope your day is amazing. Unfortunately, most relationships end once the children arrive and women typically are the ones left to pick up the pieces. Although you feel like this, so not give up on yourself or your babies. Now is the time to build your network of support - people who will support you in different ways during this difficult time. All is not lost. Great things are in your future so don’t give up on you!
@@randommzansi I hope you and Jada keep in contact so you can uplift each other. Don’t believe the doubt that will show up at times, keep believing in yourself and trusting the Creator! Your future is bright and don’t you doubt that. You will look back on this time and be amazed at how strong and resilient it made you.
Thank you for this. It's a semi confirmation for me that I'm on the right path. About the end of last year or so I went on this journey to discover the love of God. His love for me, my love for Him, and consequently how I'm to love others. Before that happened I was the one always trying to somewhat convince others that I'm a good catch. But now I'm finished with trying to convince people. I'll present to you who I am what I'm about and if there doesn't seem to be much reciprocation or the interest isn't the same then I'm koo with backing off.
If didn’t nobody else in this world believe in God, I would. I sat here crying shaking telling myself to let this man go. That I deserve better. That I feel like he is TOLERATING ME and I click onto UA-cam steadily trying to get my mind off him and your video is the 1st in my feed. You used the exact same words! It’s like God himself was speaking to me confirming these feelings I have and it’s mind blowing bc I keep going back keep trying to prove myself and I keep telling myself it’s not mutual! Thank you Tab. Thank you Jesus.
🙌🏾🙌🏾Thank You Jesus for freeing my sister! You are made for greater! I pray you meet someone with great capacity for real True, love, who will seek God on how to love you properly! Only God can teach that, and he will be open to learning. May God heal your brokenness, and make you whole sis💓
My heart is with you beautiful!!🌟🤎
The Lord is my Shepherd I shall not want. He provided exactly what you asked for & needed. Now it is up to you.
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Yes
This isn’t limited to couples. All relationships need to be reciprocal!! ❤❤
Amen! No more one-sided friendships.
@@fdoctor79 Those days are done!🙏🏾
Say THAT!!!
@@S.J.007 ‼️
This part right here.
"The best person for you is you." - Tabith Brown 💞
I prayed to God to remove all of the draining relationships. He said, “if you turn your desires inward and keep your eyes fixed upon me, I will supply your every need”. Its like one day I just woke up and my desires to chase “family” was just removed. And sometimes, he uses those very people to sever relationships because He knows you can’t in your own strength. Thank you Lord! 🙌🏾
Yessssss ❤️
The savage truth
This!
Amen
Same here and one day it was like my eyes just opened and realized that none of the family really loved me at all and I had to set some healthy boundaries. It's so sad but it was so necessary
This is for me Tabitha.
GOD SPOKE TO YOU FOR ME! I left my house and went to a vacant parking lot to just scream and cry... away from my family. The security guard literally just asked me how much time I needed before I left. 💔 I have made myself available to a man who is not worth my time or energy bc I'm so vulnerable right now. I'm going through an extremely volatile divorce and he knows it. Please pray for my peace and sanity
🙏🏽 Praying for you! "This too shall pass." -Author Unknown
When you are vulnerable, the users know and prey on you. You don’t have to accept it, you can let go. I know that you don’t want to be alone but find a support group. A volatile divorce is hard enough, no need for additional romantic headaches. Get through your divorce and heal your broken heart before you try to connect with someone else.
Sending prayers of healing and peace. Also seek counseling as you go through the process. 👃🏾💚
God bless you sis. Peace and many blessings
Praying for your strength....your true King 🤴🏾 Is waiting..just continue to give it to God!!🍃🙌🏾
I’m crying while writing this because I asked GOD for a sign
God sent that message for me You spoke to my soul .. thank you Tabitha
😞me too😪
🙏🏿🫂🫂🫂🙏🏿
Thank you Heavenly Father for giving Mrs Tab this word. It was so for me I had to listen to this twice ❤
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This hurt Tab because I have been with my husband for 14 years and this spoke to how I felt today
Thank you Holy Spirit for leading me here today. This is confirmation for me. I receive this message. May God continue to richly bless you and your ministry. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you for answering God's call. I needed that message right when you posted it.
My boi chance gotta dig deeper before he lose this queen, time to be softer and let down your guard more. I've been with my wife for 20 years, and we came from the bottom with nothing, that why I love you'll relationship.
Unfortunately it’s the lack of self esteem and self love with our women. Wonderful message Tab 💓
Sometimes it's financial reasons too
@@zen_mindset1 rarely
It's not just OUR women.
@@danamardell1209 sure but that’s who I’m concerned about…
Sometimes, it's abandonment issues, trauma that connects a soul tie, fear of phyiscally abuse... it's not always low self-esteem. Sometimes, it's deeper than that. And I empathize with every situation. Even the low self-esteem for some women and men. 💖
So many people are taught to tolerate others, starting with "family" because "we need someone." Well, it does not have to be that person(s) who does not mean you well. There are too many others in the world to tolerate someone who possibly despises you. More importantly, you question why are they there because they add nothing of value to your life.
I needed to hear this and this seems like it came in divine timing. I'm in tears now!!! Thank you Ms. Tab😔🌟🤎
Sending hugs of strength
I feel exactly how you do. Im in years as well
Ditto..she just popped up n I listened..very much how I felt with my girls dad long ago n with newer guy at times..we deserve much better
Hugs 🤗🥰😘
Same
Well this message hit me hard today! God truly is great. Amen.
Yessssss ❤️
I just said a prayer for all of you in the comment section that this video hit home. I’ve been their and trust me letting go and finally loving on you is going to change your life for the better. This goes for romantic relationships, friendships, and family. Light and love and Peace to you all.
Tab say don't go and ph'ck up nobody elses day...in the sweetest way. LOL God Bless You Tab for sharing your soul.
I LOVEEEEE ❤️❤️🥰🥰😘😘YOU!! Thank you so much for this. I'm one of many this message was for. I was with a man for 10 years. I did everything in the relationship and got nothing in return. 😪Only heart aches & pain. So technically I was alone for 10 years 🤷🏾♀️ to this day I find myself still trying to love him. I know I have to let go, thank you so much Mrs. Tab have a blessed 🌙 🌉 🙏🏾😘
This is not just a message for couple love... I felt like Tabitha was talking directly at me.
Yessssss ❤️
Thank you. This hits different concerning my parents. I’m trying hard not to people please and walk in my truth. Love me deeper. But when it comes to parents it feels like I’m doing something wrong. I was raised to make them comfortable, to not talk about the elephant in the room.
Keep walking in truth. You cannot live for others, they have already lived their life. It’s one thing to show respect but living a lie is another story. Parents usually do not want to address the elephant in the room but also remember that hindsight is always 20/20 but during the present, one’s sight can be very unclear or obstructed.
I struggled with this one day, too, because of the commandment to honor our father and our mother (Exodus 20:12). I was a caregiver to my parents for many years and sometimes there were conflicts, and then one day I sensed God saying that verse ultimately meant to honor Him because He is Spirit (John 4:24), He represents my Father & my Mother. I knew my mandate was to honor Him in how I treated my parents, and all would be well. This took my focus off of me and my parents, and put my focus back on the One Who created me...God. I hope this helps.❤🌹
I've learned this hard truth of acceptance painfully!! This goes beyond opposite sex relationships. It goes 4 ALL relationships, same sex friends, toxic family members. When you really LEARN HOW TO LUV YOURSELF & BECOME AWARE OF HOW OTHERS ARE REALLY TREATING U! I now treat my relationships as 401K's. For me, they are investments. Are my counterparts making the same level of contribution? If not, mk MY ADJUSTMENTS 2 MATCH THEM OR CLOSE THAT ACCOUNT. They are blocking the BLESSED relationship GOD z wanting to bring! His REPLACEMENTS are ALWAAAYzz WAAAAY BETTER! SEEK 2B FULFILLED BY GOD 1st!
Whoooo Weeeeee Tab!!! You better Preach up in here 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏽👏👏👏❤️🥳💕🎉🎊
Yes, it’s lonely but so worth it. Peace of mind and body is paramount. You’ll never get back the time💕
I think of how you heard our Father tell you to make videos often. This is why. Everytime I need a little affirmation or confirmation, your videos pop up. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Thank you, Father, for Tab.
Yessssss ❤️
I was just lying here with my eyes closed thinking about my situation. God gives you what you need, when you need it. This is just confirmation that I did the right thing by walking away. This person will never love me the way I want and deserve to be loved, because she doesn't know how to, or is just comfortable being selfish. I know I deserve better and will not waste another moment about this. Thank you, Tab ,for accepting the assignment. Unrequited love is unfair! We all deserve a live that's reciprocal. Peace and blessing to us all!
everytime i hear any of her messages i ALWAYS get teary eyed, I feel like i can relate to all of them, Thank you Lord for such a willing vessel
I got out🎉❤🙌🏽 I was in a toxic emotionally abusive relationship and I left overnight🙏🏽 please get out if you’re being abused in any way❤️ stay safe out there
I needed this tonight. Thank you, Miss Tab 🙏🙏🙏
Ok.
Thank you for allowing God to us you Mrs. Tab… May God Bless you abundantly
This is my situation right now.... I just happen to come across this video. This word is for me... so true and thank you.❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
Me too. Yessssss ❤️
Happy are those who dare courageously to defend what they love.
And sometimes it’s your own family.
So true! Even with friends.
Yikes, this is me right now. I'm in tears!
Me too. Yessssss ❤️
Tabitha this right here is powerful. God has showed me to stop doing too much. I listened ❤
Nothing but the truth! We all need to listen to this.
Yessssss ❤️
I saw this at the right moment. My heart feels like it has been broken into a million pieces. I know I need to let go and it’s hard but I have no other choice. I pray you all have a wonderful night and day. ❤
I pray that during this process you discover what’s amazing about Dani. We pour everything into others and abandon ourselves. Letting go is so painful but you can do it. Surround yourself with people and passions that you enjoy. Take this time to discover more about you. Fall in love with you! I hope today is the beginning of an amazing journey of self discovery and adventure.
@@nicolechan4474 thank you for your kind words Nicole!
Finance has been keeping me back.
When you take that first step and start putting yourself first you are not going to believe how much you neglected yourself but after you get through that phase your self love and self care is going to change your life in ways you will never have imagined. I send you the spirit of peace , strength and courage on your journey. Just know you are NEVER alone.
Lord knows I need this today at this hour! It’s one thing to date someone you trying to love but being married is so much harder!!!! Something I am now learning is to love me!!!❤ praying for everyone on here!!!
Whew Tab brings a warmth and positive spirit that is wrapped in Devine power and spirit
OMG‼️ This Is Me TeTe TAB You’re Talking About Me & As I Sit Here Watching This Video I Had To Mute The TV & Hear What You Was Saying , I’m Literally In TEARS 😭😭 As You Say You’ve Put Too Much Time In This Relationship That Isn’t Working For Me , But I Will LOVE Me & It’s Time To Move On With MY Life Because Life Is Too Short To Be Living In Misery‼️ Thank You For This Message TeTe TAB & LOVE You So Much You’re Such An Inspiration 🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Right on time 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 God bless her💕💯💯
Thanks for your obedience and sincere love Tab we love you!!❤❤❤❤
I left a one sided relationship and am still picking up the pieces, walking around looking like a frightened child (that's how I feel)
Not just even in romantic relationships, it’s been friendships and it started with my relatives growing up.
Coming to that conclusion has truly been my guidance and force me to my self love discovery. These last 10 years has been eye opening. As well as tough!
Thank you, Tabitha!!
Thank you, Tabitha! That was for me! I prayed about that this morning! ❤️
Thank you🙏🏾I really needed to hear that. I feel like you were talking directly to me... and I want you to know I receive it. ❤️
We are hear to learn!!! ❤
🥺Thank you. This was hard to hear but I know God is heartbroken seeing me try to reason with my husband of 20 years. I knew I should’ve stopped trying when he walked out 4 months ago and cut off contact to me and the children. And definitely when he moved back in and decided to sleep in a completely different room. I just kept hoping we could fix this before before me and the children moved back home. But last night the questions I asked, let me know I’ve ALWAYS been alone in this relationship and no matter what he will never see or love anything about me that everyone else sees and that there will always be another woman that can do something for him no matter how long I’ve been doing it. 💔💔
Hang in there. Your story resonates with me. After 25 years and 2 children (one with special needs) he walked out came back and did the whole separate room thing too. I too held on to hope. Once he started packing again I helped him finish. It was hard to let go but it has turned out to be the best thing he could have ever done for me and my children. We have been through financial hiccups but with God and a true angel we are living in peace! You have to let people be who they are. Please love yourself enough to say goodbye. Please protect your children. I had to apologize to mine because I wasn't showing them what a loving family was by trying to love someone who didn't love me. ❤❤❤
@@mypeace101 thank you ❤️. I will. I know it’s going to take time and require not only therapy but for me to really start loving myself like I use to. I’m thankful for this lesson and hopefully I and my children can heal like we need to.
This is so beautiful. I will add to my nightly gratitude chat with Him how much I appreciate the love I receive from my husband. I smile when I am doing something like shutting down my laptop and my husband calls for me because he doesn’t want to start the movie or show we are binge watching without me there. I love these moments so much. Our quiet coffee in the mornings, that is our time, and I am so grateful. And we BOTH deserve this love. Anyone in a one-sided relationship, I am heartbroken for you because you deserve more. Thank you for this powerful message, Tabitha.
A word for the people, I had to learn this.
Yessssss ❤️
I’m in tears. I literally felt the love of God through your words. Thank you. ❤
Me too. Yessssss ❤️.
@@audreyjackson2513 sending you love! ✨
I ALWAYS go where I’m CELEBRATED, and APPRECIATED, & NOT just TOLERATED!💯✌🏾
Exactly 💯
THIS ONE SHOOK ME OUT OF MY SLEEP ‼️didn’t realize how much it’s been bothering me to get through after this left me feeling out of balance for a while . Thank you for the reinforcement to continue applying this .LOVE & Gratitude from New Orleans 🫶🏽🪷🕺🙌🏽🎨
Remember your Seamoss & vitamin C for the healing 🙏🏽🎩
Rhoc Chef Mc-
Crying cause this is absolutely true.. 🥺🥺
Me too.Yessssss ❤️
Tab!!❤❤❤ that’s why I LOVE MYSELF FIRST!!!
Tab, God is really using you… I really hope you read ALL these comments to see just how many people you touch ❤
Gdeve. @Anna Smith, Yes & amen to wat U said abt GoD & His Holy Spirit using Aunt Tab to help, encourage, give good, sound advice, free up folks from bad, 1 sided, Unloving Relationships, etc.
Yessssss ❤️
I don't want to get in the details, but this video had some surreal timing for me. I usually say I don't like to believe in fate (because why should I work out if I'm fated to lose weight anyways?), but my person is from Utah. Maybe that's a coincidence, but regardless, I'll take the hint keep on loving myself more. Thanks Tab
Hey auntie Tab thank you for this message 🙌🏾🙌🏾 really needed to hear this 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾 Blessings to you and your family ♥️🙌🏾🙏🏾
I got a divorce. Paid over $1200 for it. Moved out a few months after it was final. No bad blood. He just never truly wanted me in the first place. I’m super happy now. Lost over 100lbs.
Right on time Tab thank you 🙏 beautiful I needed this appreciate you always
Yessssss ❤️
When I unknowingly married a narcissist I was absolutely miserable! I kept thinking to myself that I was happier by myself and I know this is not what Almighty God intended for my life to be like.
I didn't even feel he was tolerating me, it was more like I was being completely ignored while he was living his BEST life.
So I cried out to the Lord (in prayer) and long story short, He rescued me from that toxic situation that almost killed me. I followed the Lord's leading (through His Holy Spirit) and He protected me from that narcissistic demonic spirit influencing my (now) ex to persistently stalk and harass me, that didn't want to let go.
MY GOD!!!! 😢 RIGHT ON TIME, EVERYTIME!!! 😩😩😩❤️
All truth. Thank you for the reminder 😀
OMG!!!! This word for me and I absolutely received it! I kept putting my life on pause to accommodate, support and encourage him in hopes to get it in return but to no avail 😔. After all the stress, depletion, depression and tears, I've learned that I can't give what I don't have. I'm free now and I'm pouring that love back into me and then some! Thank you for this beautiful confirmation of restoration. Get well my beautiful Sis 🤗 &may God continue to bless you!
Hey Tabitha. Hope you feel better soon 💕. Great message
Feel better aunt tab glad you enjoyed you self …ginger and garlic with wheat grass to knock it out I love you ❤
Preach my sister! I'd rather stay single until God sends the right person into my life. I love myself more than to let someone treat me bad. Thank you for this word. God Bless You
Amen, sister.
So true Tab. Love God and yourself to the fullest. The cup will spill love on those around you. 💞
So True even with Family also!! Sometimes you love them and wonder why they don’t love you back, I remember that I choose my Friends not my Family!! And I choose so called Friends very wisely!! Thanks for the reminder Tab!! ❤❤
I'm listening to you 😭. G-D is truly speaking through you🥰. Thank you. 🤗
What's with the -?
@@AO-wg9ne not so much a ?, but something I needed to hear. She said, "One sided love is not the love I deserve".
My God today! My son needs to hear this today. Thanks for Ur obedience.
Thank You Mrs.Brown 🤗🫶🏽💯And Pleeeeeeeeeeease feel better soon 🙏🏽
I found freedom and peace in my singleness. 🙏🏼❤️
Hey Tab, thank you for all you do!🙏🏽♥️
I love you Tab!!! I’m dealing with leaving A LOT of friends who were demonizing my authenticity but using me to be there shoulder cry on when everyone else rejected them. This has been one of the biggest lessons for me as of late!
Whew chile😩..That message was beautiful 🥲Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Yessssss ❤️
Hey Tabitha, I can’t say anything but Amen!❤❤❤
Thanks Ms. Tab!
I wish I had gotten this marriage before I got married. I feel like he’s growing in love now, but it was years of him trapping me in that narcissistic loop of never being enough. Getting only bread crumbs. Thank you for this message.
A rite on time word !! Conformation!!
Needed to hear this! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen Tab !!!
I love you. The spirit sends you the word i know i needed
Yessssss ❤️
God is speaking....thank you, and God's continued blessings to you!!!!!
Absolutely Tabitha great advice
Yessssss ❤️
Tab has been targeting me hard lately🤣😭 Currently going through one sided love from my family and it’s heartbreaking when you suffer from depression and NEED them. God is an awesome God, so I know he’ll get me through this🙏🏿❤️
That was for ME MRS. TAB!!!!! I woke up and seen this on my phone, THAT WAS FOR ME!!!!!
Me too
Yessssss ❤️
You are speaking to me, that's Tabitha 💖
Anyone else said bye Auntie to the screen?? Just me that felt all that love through the screen???
@TabithaBrown Today is my birthday. I am 33 years old today. 3 months pregnant married with 2 toddlers. I cried listening to this because I know my marriage is over and I’m scared. But I also know that God is with me and that I was meant to listen to this on this special day. Thank you for this truth. It’s hard but very necessary. I have so much love and I’m going to give it to myself for once. ❤ God bless you! I’m a new subscriber. I’ll be starting a channel too. Thank you for inspiring me.
Damn 😐 we are the same age, with the same story that is crazy 😭 I've heard someone say those toddler years are the most vaunrable time of a relationship that's where you truly get to see who you are married to.. If you are carrying the load alone and Him it's even more agonizing. Keep loving on yourself I'm learning to do the same.
In spite of all you’re going through, I pray that you have the most amazing birthday. God bless you. You’ve got this 💞🤗
Happy Birthday Jada!
I hope your day is amazing. Unfortunately, most relationships end once the children arrive and women typically are the ones left to pick up the pieces. Although you feel like this, so not give up on yourself or your babies. Now is the time to build your network of support - people who will support you in different ways during this difficult time. All is not lost. Great things are in your future so don’t give up on you!
@@randommzansi I hope you and Jada keep in contact so you can uplift each other. Don’t believe the doubt that will show up at times, keep believing in yourself and trusting the Creator! Your future is bright and don’t you doubt that. You will look back on this time and be amazed at how strong and resilient it made you.
It's tough especially if you have a financial rut.
100% true!!
“You should feel celebrated, not tolerated.” Auntie tab with the word as always. 💯
Thank you for this. It's a semi confirmation for me that I'm on the right path. About the end of last year or so I went on this journey to discover the love of God. His love for me, my love for Him, and consequently how I'm to love others. Before that happened I was the one always trying to somewhat convince others that I'm a good catch. But now I'm finished with trying to convince people. I'll present to you who I am what I'm about and if there doesn't seem to be much reciprocation or the interest isn't the same then I'm koo with backing off.
That's why I'm moving tf on!
I must say, this woman has such a beautiful lovely sweet spirit. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿💯💯💯💯❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗
THANK YOU!!!!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
🙋🏾♀️THANK YOU! This is EXACTLY where I am 10.5 years …I decided to finally move forward. Spot on Tab!
Tab come on with the word!!! "Celebrated not tolerated" I love you Tabitha Brown a whole blessing ✨️ 💖 I pray that you feel better 🙏🏽 ❤️ soon