@@noahsmiley3099 Darn, keep forgetting men in college don't cheat or ever get arrested and they NEVER commit any type of embezzlement or money laundering... keep forgetting!! We need to let the ppl in Flint know that it WASN’T college educated ppl that decided to contaminate their water, and they still have crap water to this day. Darn!
She has been through a lot in a short period of time...true, a lot of it was brought on by herself, but I do pray she will make better choices because I believe she is a good person who deserves so much better.
Look,I'm all for participating in the relationship but quit looking to be these men's mama and wanting to "take care of them" ,get a functioning adult that can actually be a part of your peace smh
These women think they can "change or fix" a man and instead these women need to work on getting higher standards and NOT settling for any ole thing!!!🙌🙌
Yup agree, since you’re a straight woman, I get why you mention men only. But since I’m a straight man, I go through all the bs that girls (not woman) put me through so I am also done, luckily for me I have no kids or no attachments with any of them. It’s both sides that are fked up. Times has changed. Both side are getting more ruthless then ever before. Stay stay away enjoy your life yall, don’t have to get involved with someone because your friends are or ppl saying “you’re gonna be alone forever loser” lol good, if I’m happy and no stress wit that drama I’m good. When ppl tell me that I remind myself they are not happy with their own life or hatin that I’m a free bird.
@@shanewinchester8466 listen here... I'm give credit where credit is due. On the bottom of the shirt its gonna say words to live by Judge Marilyn Milan🤣🤣
She is hurt but she doesn’t even realize that she has put herself through this pain by continuing to deal with the plaintiff. I believe she knew that he was already in a relationship and continued to deal with him. He was heavy in them streets and she still dealt with him. She is angry at herself😔 She can only blame him so much before she also holds herself accountable for allowing him to get away with it. I believe she did that to his car and she admitted it when she said “I paid for his car to be fixed the first time when it wasn’t my fault.” I hope that she heals and stop giving her heart to men who don’t earn it.
The audience was laughing the whole time but honestly with the cheating, abortion and gunplay this case is disgusting. Just a couple of kids trying to play adult. This is why you think about consequences before you wanna play grown-up games.
It's seriously gross as all hell. This is America. Sex, cheating, abortions, destruction of property and in a lot of cases murder. People laugh, but they are one argument from a fun fight
@@sudhakhristmukti1930 THIS is what I am trying to understand. If there was no proof that he stole the car, and there's no proof that she hit his car (and no witnesses/witness statement), then how did he win this? Very strange..
@@Luver4lyfe Umm, he was the witness. She never saw him do anything and he wasn't charged. The car is damaged, he said she did it and her story isn't believable. Pretty easy.
She only dealt with that drama because of her poor choices in men. You can find a great partner and experience the beauty of a healthy relationship. Best of luck!🧡
Now SIR. I'm all for natural, gravity-defying hair but I know you had a hair band to tie it back for court. This case got more drama than a Telenovela.
I came to say the same thing. do people not have any shame anymore? there should still be boundaries and times when to show respect for things. at least pull the hair back into a pony tail.
@@ambermarie6763 He should be ashamed of his natural hair? That’s how it grows and he chooses to wear it like that. Boundaries and times when to show respect? He doesn’t have to alter his hair to accommodate you. There’s much more important things to take away from this case than his hairstyle.
I feel for the defendant. I went through a similar situation when I was 19. Yeah I was young and naive, I believed his lies and it enraged me when he let me down. Toxic men will poison a good woman, and make her act crazy. Find a good guy, a nice one, that respects you.
ive been in relationships and i fell for the lies and put up with the abuse simply cause i loved them. last women i went out with lied to me all the time. got drunk a lot and beat the crap out of me. when she was pregnant with my son she threw me out after selling my car when i was in bed asleep as i worked nights and emptied my bank account and moved to another part of the country a couple of months after my son was born to stop me seeing my son. that was 16 years ago and still trying to find out where she went so i can find my son. havnt even looked at another woman since. im 62 and only been in 5 relationships and all 5 lied to me stole from me and abused me. they all cheated on me but ive never cheated in my life. research done show that women abuse their men a lot more than the other way round but most men dont report it. same research showed that about 10% of men cheat while 80% of women cheat. but all u hear from women is men cheat and lie. lie dectoctor tests have provved womenm r vey good liers as most pass a lie dector test even when they lie all the way through where as men tend to fail when telling the truth.
Personally I just think she felt like she got her opportunity to speak about her feelings sounds like she hasn’t been heard ever in her life even after the court case she said a lot
I know I made mistakes when choosing partners when I was young, like most. But at some point people, women in particular, must hold themselves accountable for who they choose. This young lady needs guidance, therapy, and maturity. The plaintiff is absolutely no prize and I have zero sympathy for him. But people will only do what you allow. I see comments expressing how relieved they are to be single because they don't want to deal with things like this. But in all reality, relationships are supposed to be beautiful and add value to your life. One of the biggest problems is not vetting partners properly. People get so caught up in physical attraction, popularity, or money. Ignoring all the flashing warning signs. Sounds like this young lady needs a better support system and better self esteem. Best of luck to her and those in similar situations.
Very well said. I feel sorry for this girl. That dude obviously put her through a lot of pain, and you can hear the hurt in her voice. But as adults, at the end of the day we have to look at ourselves in the mirror. Shes the one who kept putting up with his shit and she still went back to him. Finally it all boiled over and she smashed up his car. Shes lucky he didn't call the police. Looking at the damage...if he was in the drivers side it looks like she tried to kill his ass. She coulda went to prison over this.
"Shes lucky he didn't call the police. Looking at the damage...if he was in the drivers side it looks like she tried to kill him." Nah. She's got vagina privilege. Cops won't lift a finger. If the roles were reversed, though, he would have had 4 cops with knees on his back, and facing serious charges.
@@tommyjones6866 I agree. I feel sorry she doesn't have the guidance or support of someone with sense. I imagine the people around her are just as dysfunctional based off her testimony. I hope life experience will help her mature and seek the help of a professional to heal any traumas causing her to choose men like the plaintiff and react the way she has.
It's hilarious how men and women have different definitions of their time together and how long they were in the SAME relationship or whatever they're calling it.😂 🤣 😅
This poor lady needs some serious counselling. The mess with the relationship was enough but the abortion has really rattled her and the sadness and guilt she feels are so unfair and she needs to know that. She made the decision she had to make. She is a broken person who can still be saved.
@@merdynes I thought she was very hurt that he didn't help her when she needed to get an abortion. He turned his back on her when she needed him. That is what I got from her.
Judge Milian: “Did you crash into his car?” The defendant: “It all started when I was born…” It was a yes or no question… We didn’t need to know your entire life’s story 😑
"I fixed it the first time when it wasn't my fault.." I think that's the quote that tipped that evidence in his favor. Since she fixed it the first time and it wasn't her fault, then it sounds like she's saying since this is her fault tell his new lady to fix it. That may not be it but it sounds suspicious. She's definitely scorned and I can see the crazy she's hiding. She did it and her mouth did her in.
@@journey7315 people that act like clowns, behave like savages, have no remorse for their selfish acts shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. Dogs make better parents, he was going to leave her up shitz creek with that baby and didn't give two fux. I think you knew what I meant, you wanted to make this about race and it's not, and to top it, I'm black, my mother taught us not to behave like savages though.
This is what toxic men will do to you. The lies, the gaslighting, the abuse will have you acting like someone you've never been before. I hope she's doing OK. Although my relationship like this went on for almost a decade, it took me years to recover and realize I'd turned into a different person.
At some point, you can't blame the other person for the BS that they put you through. Once you see who you're dealing with, you make the decision to leave or stick around for it. She's the type of person that enjoys the drama then cries about it.
That means that you allowed it to continue for a decade, although I'm glad you finally left. The only people I really feel for are the ones seriously worried that they'll be killed (by their spouse) if they leave, and, of course, the children who make no choices. You make their choices for them. I've been involved with people in abusive relationships, and usually, they don't WANT to leave. It's a twisted co-dependant relationship.
My heart broke for the defendant. She needs emotional support and therapy. Someone who she can talk to. She hurts. He is not a bad guy. He is over her. He is not emotionally involved enough with her to help her with her feelings. This was a sad case. I'm praying that they will both be ok.
Lol...she chose this "bad boy"for yrs!so spare me your pitty!she thought like all you ladies do,that she'd be the one to tame the tiger! But guess what? It never works!
He is a bad guy. He pointed a gun at her. Not only that, but he took her car key which his friends used for robbery (she, unfortunately, did not emphasize this enough for the judge to understand, otherwise the plaintiff could have lost). The plaintiff has an ongoing case for illegal gun possession.
We must not be looking at the same brother😂 he's not charming he's a waste man and wears it like a badge of honor. Anyone what lays up with him is making a choice to have a 💩 life. I hope his next girl has enough common sense to use 2 methods of birth control
@@nikkib6604 not true at all. my nephews and cousins are downright good looking guys, educated and charming responsible loving mem….All are happy with their wives, partners and vice versa. try not to generalize, please.
His hair looks so crazy to me. I don’t know how someone can be taken seriously and she seems emotionally unstable. Like she needs therapy and hell he does too
Legit laughed out loud. I had to stop watching Mathis b/c it feels like they only have people with "some background" to share that takes up half the time of the case.
I was feeling a little sorry for her at first and was thinking she didnt do it. However, she kept talking lol. Also, when JM gave her verdict and the young lady had zero reaction... I was like "yeah... she did it for sure"
I'm not even to the end yet, but knew she did it when she replied to the Instagram post, 'let that other girl you're laying up with fix it' and kept saying she fixed it the first time. I bet she was like, "you're not going to see some other B in the car I fixed!"
I can tell their both not angels. He clearly has his flaws + abusive ways & I definitely feel sorry for her but she probably has a crazy side too and needs to heal. No one forced her to entertain his toxicity so long & add to it
I don't think she was ever in really serious danger if she left. People who are afraid their spouses are going to hurt or kill them if they leave, don't piss them off even more by totalling their car, and almost killing them.
"The first time when it wasn't my fault." She hit that car. And if she thinks she wasn't a full participant in that BS, then she will repeat it. She's young, hopefully she learned.
This case is like a soap opera. She know she did it but def don't feel bad for him. I was hoping the judge would say you don't have enough proof and I can't find in your favor. But the judge didn't let the sad story sway her verdict
She needs to do so much better than that. He is such a nobody, such a subtractor from anybody else's life. What's with these women who devalue themselves like this?!?
Poor young lady needs self love & to value herself more. Sounds like she had a really great job working at a University, but is subjecting herself to bottom tier males who live a life of crime, disrespecting women, carrying illegal weapons, & are of no value to the community. I pray she gets counseling, stay clear of ppl like him, & learns her worth🙏🏽💜
The agreement if you conceived was to split the cost of an abortion??? 😳 The Damage to your body mentally and physically will have you in therapy…please seek counseling and try birth control or plan b or pull out or tubal ligation or ovulation calendar etc
@@maryadams3357 Indeed, 'after the fact is NOT birth control' but at least she was able to get an abortion....imagine if they had had a child. The abortion is the only positive thing in this case.
It’s sad that some young women don’t find value in themselves and let little boys like this dictate their lives and terminating pregnancies. I hope she heals and finds strength in who she is.
Clearly you live in a different world. When all you’ve known is struggle, chaos, and no accountability, your suggestion sounds preposterous! Have a conversation with someone who has an impoverished mindset. It would be a complete culture shock.
I love how you people like to throw around safe sex, like you can't get pregnant. I'm pregnant now from safe sex. Yes, I am married but wanted to wait until next year, life happens. The only thing that's 100% is abstinence/celibacy.
@@therob827 Actually, taking the birth control pill is 100% as long as you remember to take it. It's true there's no such thing as safe sex however there is safer sex and it puts the odds in your favor.
Did you notice the defendant didn’t answer the judge’s question whether she rammed his car? All she said was “No, I am over it!”…then went into a long and emotional tale of leaving the state, difficulties with the abortion, resigned from her new job because she was “sick”, and then returned home. I feel badly for her…he seems to be a real piece of shit; however, she needs to learn how to control her emotions; she could have killed him!
@@adolfogreencastle7928 - And then she said she "paid for his car the first time when it wasn't her fault," meaning that this time it was. She did it.
I really really feel for the defendant. She does need serious counseling. I’m sorry she got pregnant however, is there not a lot of birth control options? The plaintiff is also crazy. I’m not sure he does have a conscience.
I say this as a man. Sometimes…when we mess over a female they tend to go a lil aggressive and do things like…tear up your vehicle or property bc they cannot say beat the living piss out of you. Women love HARD! Men don’t often understand this and some will deal with whatever drama you put them thru and STILL be there for you. As a man I can say a lot of women do not get treated right by guys and end up going fatal attraction and us men think it’s entertaining until it’s not. Sad shit all the way around. We as men need to treat our women better but also…some females do go cray cray cuckopuffs
She let her ramble because she wanted to see how much hurt and anger was there… that is very telling to a judge. Then she would be able to assess the likelihood of her actually damaging the car. The ramble believe it or not kinda sealed her faith.
@@drknow1997 true, however Judge Judy would’ve only listened to what was related to the case. She immediately cuts them off when they get off topic. And this young lady really needs to speak to someone who can help her heal that hurt.
@@AmyLeeAngelLove ...to South Central while Drinking your Juice in the Hood Yeah, that's it 🤣🤣🤣 That one movie was a spoof to at least 4 other films. Ooh, you took me back 🤣
I don't think he was completely honest with her about the other woman either. This was a very toxic relationship I'm glad they both have moved on hopefully they will learn something from this and make better choices.
No it’s crazy that she rammed his car it doesn’t matter if he sleeping with somebody else that’s not his wife and that doesn’t give you the right to damage somebody property or quite possibly kill them I’m pretty sure the baby in that picture with you don’t have a daddy because you think that stuff like this is acceptable smh
Ok how is Jay-Z or the weekend hairstyle much different. Only by $$$. So please leave the hair out of it. That particular style isn't my cup of tea but I don't see the relevance to this case.
“To do me”. The best line I’ve ever heard on Peoples Court 😂😂
What I love is that she said it like a real boss. No cockiness or arrogance, just straight up and down boss.
I’m the guy she was doing in west Palm beach
@@jameywallace5133 😭 Savage
Straight face and all 😂
Ayyyyeeee my response to everything from now on!!!!
She says she's "over it" and then proceeds to rehash the whole relationship through tears. ...poor girl. I hope she finds healing
She needs therapy
I think she meant more so over it like having to keep dealing with his shenanigans. Poor girl
She has options of engineers doctors men in college this what she chooses and gets mad
She could be just over dealing with him and not the actual emotional pain.
@@noahsmiley3099 Darn, keep forgetting men in college don't cheat or ever get arrested and they NEVER commit any type of embezzlement or money laundering... keep forgetting!!
We need to let the ppl in Flint know that it WASN’T college educated ppl that decided to contaminate their water, and they still have crap water to this day.
Darn!
Best Advice I ever heard: When things don't add up, Subtract Yourself!!.🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️
Love that!
Oohhh, I love that. I'm 100% telling my kids this!!
They were together for no more then 9 months and had this much drama!? My goodness! 🤦🏽♀️
Because she was dealing with a low life.
Yeah right. Just crazy. Both of them
She said 3yrs
@A Bi did she? I thought he said 3 months and she said 9 months 🤔
@@kbrowne7 i think they’ve been dealing with eachother on and off for 3 years but were in a proper relationship for 9 months
Gosh she broke my heart. She is foolish, but you can hear the pain she is in. God bless her wherever she is.
@@sudhakhristmukti1930 Holding someone accountable for their actions and the situations they get themselves into is not shaming!
She had me crying.
She has been through a lot in a short period of time...true, a lot of it was brought on by herself, but I do pray she will make better choices because I believe she is a good person who deserves so much better.
@@sudhakhristmukti1930 SHE TRIED TO KILL HIM!!! She's hardly a victim.
@@DavidKen878 Women love nothing more than to sympathize with a supposedly shat-upon sister.
Sis, look at his face - no remorse, no concern, nothing. Stay a clear of men who demonstrate this degree of insensitivity.
If a man did this to woman for cheating on him,he be under the jail,because she's a woman everybody feel sorry for her typical
@@yungcalio345 Nah, ain’t nobody saying all that. Also, comparisons like that are so cheap and indicative of basic thinking. Lol
@@yungcalio345 she didn't go to jail because he never called the cops when she did it
What you mean blk women love bad men in AMERICA SHE had options of great men. She most likely is a bad person as well
@@beamhigh207 His comment was 100% true. Your cheap and basic ad hominem attack doesn't change that.
Look,I'm all for participating in the relationship but quit looking to be these men's mama and wanting to "take care of them" ,get a functioning adult that can actually be a part of your peace smh
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These women think they can "change or fix" a man and instead these women need to work on getting higher standards and NOT settling for any ole thing!!!🙌🙌
Those aren’t men, they’re overaged clowns.
Yup agree, since you’re a straight woman, I get why you mention men only. But since I’m a straight man, I go through all the bs that girls (not woman) put me through so I am also done, luckily for me I have no kids or no attachments with any of them.
It’s both sides that are fked up. Times has changed. Both side are getting more ruthless then ever before. Stay stay away enjoy your life yall, don’t have to get involved with someone because your friends are or ppl saying “you’re gonna be alone forever loser” lol good, if I’m happy and no stress wit that drama I’m good.
When ppl tell me that I remind myself they are not happy with their own life or hatin that I’m a free bird.
So be a lesbian or a dog trainer to a malleable male.
He didn’t call the police because of the life he was living, and the things he was into.
SO true!!
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Bingo!!!!
That part I’m happy judge Milian understood 😂💯💯
@@Janniyahodge right
When Judge Milan said to the Defendant "You gotta tuck in your crazy just a lil". I was too done...I'm gonna get that saying on a shirt!!
That is the funniest shit I ever heard. But if we did that would it be trademark issues ?
@@shanewinchester8466 listen here... I'm give credit where credit is due. On the bottom of the shirt its gonna say words to live by Judge Marilyn Milan🤣🤣
@@delenareed9731 Milian
That was my favorite line in all this. I’m going to use that from now on.
@@delenareed9731 hell yeah. You go girl
She is hurt but she doesn’t even realize that she has put herself through this pain by continuing to deal with the plaintiff. I believe she knew that he was already in a relationship and continued to deal with him. He was heavy in them streets and she still dealt with him. She is angry at herself😔 She can only blame him so much before she also holds herself accountable for allowing him to get away with it. I believe she did that to his car and she admitted it when she said “I paid for his car to be fixed the first time when it wasn’t my fault.” I hope that she heals and stop giving her heart to men who don’t earn it.
💯shes traumatized
Here here. 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 I’m taking notes in your class
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I believe that he told her he was already in a relationship when they got together. That is why he feels no responsibility for her broken heart.
Well stated...on point!!
She is the pain
The audience was laughing the whole time but honestly with the cheating, abortion and gunplay this case is disgusting. Just a couple of kids trying to play adult. This is why you think about consequences before you wanna play grown-up games.
It's seriously gross as all hell. This is America.
Sex, cheating, abortions, destruction of property and in a lot of cases murder.
People laugh, but they are one argument from a fun fight
Yeah. For real. That baby is the only actual victim of this mess.
Exactly
I don't know the people behind her at 5:21 look horrified one guy looks teary eyed.
@@LetsScareTiffanyToDeath I'm 11:00 in but I'm gonna skip to the end! A bit too much!!!
This poor defendant has very low self-esteem. She seems to love the plaintiff more than she loves herself.
She really needs to wipe her hands clean of that pos and move on!
I cant help but to feel bad for this girl. Such a toxic relationship
A toxic relationship that she *willingly* chose to contribute to.
@@wadilotus I agree but damn. He did her so dirty lol she needs to find her self worth
How did the judge 'know' she did that to the car...?! Where is the evidence?!!!
@@sudhakhristmukti1930 THIS is what I am trying to understand. If there was no proof that he stole the car, and there's no proof that she hit his car (and no witnesses/witness statement), then how did he win this? Very strange..
@@Luver4lyfe Umm, he was the witness. She never saw him do anything and he wasn't charged. The car is damaged, he said she did it and her story isn't believable. Pretty easy.
That woman's story makes me so glad that I'm single. I couldn't imagine dealing with all that drama.
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She only dealt with that drama because of her poor choices in men. You can find a great partner and experience the beauty of a healthy relationship. Best of luck!🧡
@@kimberlyadorno280 Yup soooooooomuch better experiencing life with someone else that’s a good person and on your level! 😁🤷🏽♂️
@@dennissmith7214 LOL these two are on each other's level.
it's good to be single and it's also good to be in relationship but it's knowing how to conduct yourself and knowing when to back off.
Now SIR. I'm all for natural, gravity-defying hair but I know you had a hair band to tie it back for court. This case got more drama than a Telenovela.
Right 🤣
Something in Florida. I really think these people doing magic.
That’s definitely a Florida thing. It’s called free form locs
I came to say the same thing. do people not have any shame anymore? there should still be boundaries and times when to show respect for things. at least pull the hair back into a pony tail.
@@ambermarie6763 He should be ashamed of his natural hair? That’s how it grows and he chooses to wear it like that. Boundaries and times when to show respect? He doesn’t have to alter his hair to accommodate you. There’s much more important things to take away from this case than his hairstyle.
This relationship should be a cautionary tale. Ladies, this is exactly what you get when you want these dudes who are about them streets.
Pookie
True!
Yep.
Imagine being on tv crying over somebody who looks like he’s been electrocuted🤦🏿♀️
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Noooooooo hahahahahah I cannot
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I know right? 😂
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I feel for the defendant. I went through a similar situation when I was 19. Yeah I was young and naive, I believed his lies and it enraged me when he let me down. Toxic men will poison a good woman, and make her act crazy. Find a good guy, a nice one, that respects you.
Facts
We have to stop falling for men who are not responsible.
You are so right!
ive been in relationships and i fell for the lies and put up with the abuse simply cause i loved them. last women i went out with lied to me all the time. got drunk a lot and beat the crap out of me. when she was pregnant with my son she threw me out after selling my car when i was in bed asleep as i worked nights and emptied my bank account and moved to another part of the country a couple of months after my son was born to stop me seeing my son. that was 16 years ago and still trying to find out where she went so i can find my son. havnt even looked at another woman since.
im 62 and only been in 5 relationships and all 5 lied to me stole from me and abused me. they all cheated on me but ive never cheated in my life.
research done show that women abuse their men a lot more than the other way round but most men dont report it. same research showed that about 10% of men cheat while 80% of women cheat.
but all u hear from women is men cheat and lie. lie dectoctor tests have provved womenm r vey good liers as most pass a lie dector test even when they lie all the way through where as men tend to fail when telling the truth.
Always the man’s fault…….
Oh she definitely did that to his car. The way she rambled in about how he hurt her told it all
On and on and on. Jesus Christ
Personally I just think she felt like she got her opportunity to speak about her feelings sounds like she hasn’t been heard ever in her life even after the court case she said a lot
That doesn’t mean she hit his car.
She def hit the car.
Yes!!!that said it all.
I know I made mistakes when choosing partners when I was young, like most. But at some point people, women in particular, must hold themselves accountable for who they choose. This young lady needs guidance, therapy, and maturity. The plaintiff is absolutely no prize and I have zero sympathy for him. But people will only do what you allow. I see comments expressing how relieved they are to be single because they don't want to deal with things like this. But in all reality, relationships are supposed to be beautiful and add value to your life. One of the biggest problems is not vetting partners properly. People get so caught up in physical attraction, popularity, or money. Ignoring all the flashing warning signs. Sounds like this young lady needs a better support system and better self esteem. Best of luck to her and those in similar situations.
Very well said. I feel sorry for this girl. That dude obviously put her through a lot of pain, and you can hear the hurt in her voice. But as adults, at the end of the day we have to look at ourselves in the mirror. Shes the one who kept putting up with his shit and she still went back to him. Finally it all boiled over and she smashed up his car. Shes lucky he didn't call the police. Looking at the damage...if he was in the drivers side it looks like she tried to kill his ass. She coulda went to prison over this.
"Shes lucky he didn't call the police. Looking at the damage...if he was in the drivers side it looks like she tried to kill him."
Nah. She's got vagina privilege. Cops won't lift a finger. If the roles were reversed, though, he would have had 4 cops with knees on his back, and facing serious charges.
she's not young. but i do agree with you.
@@tommyjones6866 I agree. I feel sorry she doesn't have the guidance or support of someone with sense. I imagine the people around her are just as dysfunctional based off her testimony. I hope life experience will help her mature and seek the help of a professional to heal any traumas causing her to choose men like the plaintiff and react the way she has.
@@kyoto32001 I didn't say she was young. I just mentioned my poor choices when I was young to get in front of any "well she's young" comments, lol.
"To do me!" 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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It's hilarious how men and women have different definitions of their time together and how long they were in the SAME relationship or whatever they're calling it.😂 🤣 😅
When you’re dealing with multiple people at the same time, it’s hard to remember.
@@corporateraider77 🤢
Right
I'd be so embarrassed putting out all my dirty laundry like this - and I'm not readily embarrassed.
I'm actually surprised JM let her give that much background info.
@@lamontjohnson5810- She's nosey and likes her job.
She said "when he needed me, I was there" but how about "you being there for yourself"
Never trust a guy who hair is suspended in mid air
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Lmao @ suspended
This poor lady needs some serious counselling. The mess with the relationship was enough but the abortion has really rattled her and the sadness and guilt she feels are so unfair and she needs to know that. She made the decision she had to make. She is a broken person who can still be saved.
I thought the same thing in regards to the abortion. It has contributed to her emotional state and tears.
I seriously think she had something to do with his damages🤦
Did she say how many months she was pregnant when she decided to seek an abortion?
@@merdynes I thought she was very hurt that he didn't help her when she needed to get an abortion. He turned his back on her when she needed him. That is what I got from her.
Why should we feel sorry for her murdering her baby
She unloaded toooo much
she seems like a great girl tbh
way too much, this stopped being good after her admission.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂riiiiiite. Smh
She said flat out "I fixed it the FURST time when it wasn't MY FAULT"! BAAHAA SNITCHED ON HERSELF NO ONE CAUGHT ON.
Thank you! She’s a problem. Talking about all that nonsense. Get to the point.
I think the Judge did, she just didn't want to humiliate her any further because she seems so unstable.
Many people caught on, including the judge.
I am praying for this young lady.. this serves as a reminder for me-as a parent to a young girl
Don't ever look to these losers as any reminders.
She is a murder tho
same
Ain’t no way I would’ve went up there and told all my business like the defendant did.. shew
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The D ain’t that good. Girl was doing too much. Why did you put up with this?
Aint no D in this world worth ur peace of mind!
Lol! For real.
Obviously the D was good. That's why she's so crazy. Your comment makes no sense
good thing she got the abortion when she did.
@@lokita6192002 oioo
She slipped up! She said “I fixed it the first time when it wasn’t MY fault” 😂😂
Ok
I thought I was the only one who knew peeped that 😂 I was searching for this
This case was like watching a lifetime movie!!!😱😱😱😱
No. They're always PERFECT situations. This is like a Tyler Perry movie. DRAAAAAAAAMA!!!
@@carriejustice7433 Perfect storm of both.
Judge Milian: “Did you crash into his car?”
The defendant: “It all started when I was born…”
It was a yes or no question… We didn’t need to know your entire life’s story 😑
I burst out laughing! I was waiting for Judge Judy to yell, but realized it was a different show!
Bruh 😂😂😂😂😂
She def destroyed that car cuz she didn’t answer that directly at first 😂
😂🤣 and from that moment on I knew she did it
Tuck in your crazy a little. That had me 💀💀💀
"I fixed it the first time when it wasn't my fault.." I think that's the quote that tipped that evidence in his favor. Since she fixed it the first time and it wasn't her fault, then it sounds like she's saying since this is her fault tell his new lady to fix it. That may not be it but it sounds suspicious. She's definitely scorned and I can see the crazy she's hiding. She did it and her mouth did her in.
Exactly!! She told on herself!! She should have did less taking
That’s the only way I knew she did it…. 🤦🏽♀️
He sounds like a gem. And she sounds too emotional. The defendant shouldn't waste her energy on him. They both are crazy.
@@faith9150 That was not love…….she’s just crazy! 😒🤷🏽♂️
And people are advocating for reproductive rights of these animals.
@@peryole wdym by that?🤨
@@journey7315 people that act like clowns, behave like savages, have no remorse for their selfish acts shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. Dogs make better parents, he was going to leave her up shitz creek with that baby and didn't give two fux. I think you knew what I meant, you wanted to make this about race and it's not, and to top it, I'm black, my mother taught us not to behave like savages though.
@@peryole you sound like you have a great future🙏✨
This is what toxic men will do to you. The lies, the gaslighting, the abuse will have you acting like someone you've never been before. I hope she's doing OK. Although my relationship like this went on for almost a decade, it took me years to recover and realize I'd turned into a different person.
she was toxic too, cant always fall for crocodile tears
How did you turn into another person
Toxic men? Ah, women can be very toxic, too.
At some point, you can't blame the other person for the BS that they put you through. Once you see who you're dealing with, you make the decision to leave or stick around for it. She's the type of person that enjoys the drama then cries about it.
That means that you allowed it to continue for a decade, although I'm glad you finally left. The only people I really feel for are the ones seriously worried that they'll be killed (by their spouse) if they leave, and, of course, the children who make no choices. You make their choices for them. I've been involved with people in abusive relationships, and usually, they don't WANT to leave. It's a twisted co-dependant relationship.
She should get therapy. I wish her the best
No, she should be in prison for trying to murder her baby
She needs to go to jail
My heart broke for the defendant. She needs emotional support and therapy. Someone who she can talk to. She hurts. He is not a bad guy. He is over her. He is not emotionally involved enough with her to help her with her feelings. This was a sad case. I'm praying that they will both be ok.
Lol...she chose this "bad boy"for yrs!so spare me your pitty!she thought like all you ladies do,that she'd be the one to tame the tiger! But guess what? It never works!
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She needs to be in prison. She is a bad influence to society and will turn men into savages. Im sure she takes her hate out on educated good men
Mine didn’t she did it to us up
He is a bad guy. He pointed a gun at her. Not only that, but he took her car key which his friends used for robbery (she, unfortunately, did not emphasize this enough for the judge to understand, otherwise the plaintiff could have lost). The plaintiff has an ongoing case for illegal gun possession.
Oh wow!!!! So Jamal snitched on her cousin! Jamal is a handsome in the face, well-spoken, charming, conniving snake.
I am not feeling his hair style but he is fine AF. Good looking brothas are nothing but headaches .
We must not be looking at the same brother😂 he's not charming he's a waste man and wears it like a badge of honor. Anyone what lays up with him is making a choice to have a 💩 life. I hope his next girl has enough common sense to use 2 methods of birth control
@@nikkib6604 not true at all. my nephews and cousins are downright good looking guys, educated and charming responsible loving mem….All are happy with their wives, partners and vice versa. try not to generalize, please.
She’s a big person to so wholeheartedly say she forgives him and wishes him/his daughter the best. It touched my heart.
His hair looks so crazy to me. I don’t know how someone can be taken seriously and she seems emotionally unstable. Like she needs therapy and hell he does too
You’re the 1st person that said he needs therapy too. Men need to learn don’t put up with crazy too. His hair screams I don’t have a job!!
It looks crazy but it actually fits him.
@@wildfiregirl1556 Exactly cause he’s crazy 😂
I agree with he needs therapy too.
Its called dreads, its meant to look nappy
The paper work for Judge Mathis and Peoples Court must have got mixed up.
Lol!!!
Legit laughed out loud. I had to stop watching Mathis b/c it feels like they only have people with "some background" to share that takes up half the time of the case.
Funny, one of Judge Mathis’ cases led me to this case.😂🤣
😂😂😂😂
I actually "LOL" 🤣🤣
I was feeling a little sorry for her at first and was thinking she didnt do it. However, she kept talking lol. Also, when JM gave her verdict and the young lady had zero reaction... I was like "yeah... she did it for sure"
I thought the same thing. She didn’t look angry, outraged or anything by the verdict.
I’m the same. But I truly am not sure she did it. Sounds like many others could have. Seems like he would need more proof.
At 4:12 She did it! bc at first denied it. However, at 4:48 not even 2 minutes later she said she fixed it with her check
It was when she said "I fixed the car the first time when it wasn't my fault" that's when I knew she did it lol
I'm not even to the end yet, but knew she did it when she replied to the Instagram post, 'let that other girl you're laying up with fix it' and kept saying she fixed it the first time. I bet she was like, "you're not going to see some other B in the car I fixed!"
"I fixed it the first time, when it wasn't my fault." She Told on herself!
I can tell their both not angels. He clearly has his flaws + abusive ways & I definitely feel sorry for her but she probably has a crazy side too and needs to heal. No one forced her to entertain his toxicity so long & add to it
they're* (they are) both not angels
@@jennross6466 Thanks for the correction grammar police. You're right
@@qirlswaqq2010 You're free to go. 🙂
Nah she sound toxic too. Is he a good guy ? Nah but she was moving to Texas because she didn’t wanna she him with another girl
This is one of my favorite cases along with the sad case about the couple harboring a minor fugitive.
Which episode was that? Lol like what’s the title?
@@geelan5954 I wish I knew. That was a crazy episode. Very memorable. I’m going to look it up.
@@geelan5954 the title of the case is “Hiding a Fugitive”
I love that one too!! I also love the one with the blind guy enabling the blind minor girl to run away from home
@@armynurseshark What’s the name of that case? I don’t think I saw that one 🤔
Judge Judy wouldn't listen to this story
If you’ve left him because you’re running away, stay away. If you’re so scared. You made it out safely, the first time
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OKAY!!! I know that’s right
I don't think she was ever in really serious danger if she left. People who are afraid their spouses are going to hurt or kill them if they leave, don't piss them off even more by totalling their car, and almost killing them.
She's a beautiful crazy lady! But, I think if she higher her standards of herself she could find a better match.
"The first time when it wasn't my fault." She hit that car. And if she thinks she wasn't a full participant in that BS, then she will repeat it. She's young, hopefully she learned.
ok!!! it's giving "How to Get Away With Murder" with you noticing that staement. That was goooddd!
He should have went to the police and charged her.
ALL that for a great value coolio? Oh baby noooo😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
How do criminals just come to court... AND ON TV. I'd be ashamed!
Both of them need HELPPPPP!!!!!!!!
Sickening. Both individuals are young good looking people. The insanity here makes me sad.
This case is like a soap opera. She know she did it but def don't feel bad for him. I was hoping the judge would say you don't have enough proof and I can't find in your favor. But the judge didn't let the sad story sway her verdict
her sob story was hilarious. anyone feeling bad hasn't met a manipulative person apparently
Exactly! Had nothing to do with the tea in China
This relationship is so toxic! Too much drama in such a little time! The plaintiff is a Bum, the defendant has low self esteem and needs therapy…SMDH!
0:04 The girl in the green does a double take and it's EVERYTHING 🤣
Chile, and he got the nerve to bring her to court.
He did the right thing. Most time men cover for the BS women do.
@@tyaartis669 exactly cheating or not you damage property you pay for it simple
@@tyaartis669 Not as mich as women do
She needs to do so much better than that. He is such a nobody, such a subtractor from anybody else's life. What's with these women who devalue themselves like this?!?
That's a sad story but that has NOTHING to do with the case.. .
What the hell is happening in this episode
Why did the judge let her go on and on about nothing like that? 🤣
Poor young lady needs self love & to value herself more. Sounds like she had a really great job working at a University, but is subjecting herself to bottom tier males who live a life of crime, disrespecting women, carrying illegal weapons, & are of no value to the community. I pray she gets counseling, stay clear of ppl like him, & learns her worth🙏🏽💜
The agreement if you conceived was to split the cost of an abortion??? 😳 The Damage to your body mentally and physically will have you in therapy…please seek counseling and try birth control or plan b or pull out or tubal ligation or ovulation calendar etc
yall be tryna to trap bm,.... yall need to seek professional help. i see no yts doing this to there man... only yall messing wif us bm
Crazy. I think she uses abortion as birth control, and sees nothing wrong with it.
They're both so incredibly messed up.
Here y’all go. I’m glad she got one !
Seriously. There are so many option available to prevent pregnancy. After the fact isn't birth control.
@@maryadams3357 Indeed, 'after the fact is NOT birth control' but at least she was able to get an abortion....imagine if they had had a child. The abortion is the only positive thing in this case.
“The first time when it wasn’t my fault”…said it ALL!
The women are all looking at his hair like what the hell did she ever see in him 💯
Doubt it. Most women like his hair.
If a person can judge somebody by have their hair look if they're going to be with them or not then they are the ones that's f***** up
The horn noise they used to bleep the lady on the street. And she commented that she shouldn't say the curse word while saying it again 😂😂😂
Baby girl that man just didn’t care about you.
It’s sad that some young women don’t find value in themselves and let little boys like this dictate their lives and terminating pregnancies. I hope she heals and finds strength in who she is.
Have they never heard of birth control? Alot cheaper and painless opposed to abortion.
These people never heard of birth control or safe sex? SMH!
If they don’t even have common sense about life matters what makes you think they’re going to be responsible
@@k.lorraine That's so true!
Clearly you live in a different world. When all you’ve known is struggle, chaos, and no accountability, your suggestion sounds preposterous! Have a conversation with someone who has an impoverished mindset. It would be a complete culture shock.
I love how you people like to throw around safe sex, like you can't get pregnant. I'm pregnant now from safe sex. Yes, I am married but wanted to wait until next year, life happens. The only thing that's 100% is abstinence/celibacy.
@@therob827 Actually, taking the birth control pill is 100% as long as you remember to take it. It's true there's no such thing as safe sex however there is safer sex and it puts the odds in your favor.
"Ya gotta tuck in your crazy just a little". Say what?????? 🤣🤣🤣
Did you notice the defendant didn’t answer the judge’s question whether she rammed his car? All she said was “No, I am over it!”…then went into a long and emotional tale of leaving the state, difficulties with the abortion, resigned from her new job because she was “sick”, and then returned home.
I feel badly for her…he seems to be a real piece of shit; however, she needs to learn how to control her emotions; she could have killed him!
She answered that question 3 times saying “no”
I don’t feel bad for her at all. She’s delusional. She’s a problem.
@@adolfogreencastle7928 - And then she said she "paid for his car the first time when it wasn't her fault," meaning that this time it was. She did it.
I really really feel for the defendant. She does need serious counseling. I’m sorry she got pregnant however, is there not a lot of birth control options? The plaintiff is also crazy. I’m not sure he does have a conscience.
He talked her into giving him money to repair his car, you don't think he could also talk her into having unprotected sex?
Look at the guy.. he is going nowhere fast
Judge" where did you go"?
Defendant" West Palm beach".
Judge " to do what"?
Defendant " TO DO ME"!!
I say this as a man. Sometimes…when we mess over a female they tend to go a lil aggressive and do things like…tear up your vehicle or property bc they cannot say beat the living piss out of you. Women love HARD! Men don’t often understand this and some will deal with whatever drama you put them thru and STILL be there for you. As a man I can say a lot of women do not get treated right by guys and end up going fatal attraction and us men think it’s entertaining until it’s not. Sad shit all the way around. We as men need to treat our women better but also…some females do go cray cray cuckopuffs
Menatw just as capable of doing the same thing..
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“to do what?” “to do ME” 😂😂😂
"I fixed the car the first time when it wasn't my fault"
So that means this time it was her fault
I heard it too
To do what? "to do me" had me in stitches 😂
Ladies you need to love yourselves more than you love anyone else.
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I don't think this is what Coolio had in mind when he invited you along on a fantastic voyage, Lakeshia.
This poor girl…. No judgement, I just want to hug her.
Tuck in your crazy 🤣 that was the best part
that and "to do ME!"
OMGGGGGGG….Judge Judy would’ve NEVER let her ramble like that…she needs to do all that rambling to a therapist!!!!!
She let her ramble because she wanted to see how much hurt and anger was there… that is very telling to a judge. Then she would be able to assess the likelihood of her actually damaging the car. The ramble believe it or not kinda sealed her faith.
@@drknow1997 true, however Judge Judy would’ve only listened to what was related to the case. She immediately cuts them off when they get off topic. And this young lady really needs to speak to someone who can help her heal that hurt.
His hair 🤯💀
Defendant: "I left Miami..."
Ohhh he's from Miami...that explains it! 😅
Thasss iiiit
This is a crazy case.
Hahahahahaa he looks like the statue of Liberty. 🤣
😂🤣 Reminds me of Marlon Wayans in that movie, Don't Be a Menace.. something something something. I can't remember the rest of the title.
@@AmyLeeAngelLove
...to South Central while Drinking your Juice in the Hood
Yeah, that's it 🤣🤣🤣
That one movie was a spoof to at least 4 other films. Ooh, you took me back 🤣
3:26 He almost said blah-say blah-say 😜 lol but he just said whatever.
Whew this case made me dizzy! They need to stay FAR away from one another!
Why do people want to look like this plaintiff?
Looking just like Sonic the Hedgehog smh
Contraception is easier and a hell of a lot more cost effective. Relying on abortion for contraception is reprehensible.
Amen
You're idiots. Sometimes contraception doesn't work. 84-94 percent effective is the most you can expect. Grow up.
I don't think he was completely honest with her about the other woman either. This was a very toxic relationship I'm glad they both have moved on hopefully they will learn something from this and make better choices.
I think he actually was, because she never contradicted him.
She really going to be crazy now after the case
Her pain is very real. I truly hope she can move on. That hair is crazy 🤪
He look like a cartoon character
It’s crazy that he treats her like crap the entire relationship but when she reacts to his foolishness, he runs to the courthouse. 🤦🏾♀️
No it’s crazy that she rammed his car it doesn’t matter if he sleeping with somebody else that’s not his wife and that doesn’t give you the right to damage somebody property or quite possibly kill them I’m pretty sure the baby in that picture with you don’t have a daddy because you think that stuff like this is acceptable smh
@@Utriedit215 by your name I can tell you ratchet. Enjoy your day sweetie (and BLOCKED)
The Defendant is very attractive & needs some counseling to set her on the right path.
What is so attractive about her? Very attractive? She is not ugly but definitely not attractive.
@@devianadkar7969 I like her skin tone. She looks very healthy.
I don't see what you're seeing at aaaall. 🤦
Ok how is Jay-Z or the weekend hairstyle much different. Only by $$$. So please leave the hair out of it. That particular style isn't my cup of tea but I don't see the relevance to this case.
It actually fits him. He is handsome with it.