You’re not glowing because your pregnant you’re GLOWING because you’ve reached a prime boss point in your life! Girl you’ve got the ring, you’ve got your dream home gym, you got your own line with Gymshark, girl ENJOY your life as it is rn this is an amazing time!! ❤️❤️
Sorry to be off topic but does someone know a way to log back into an instagram account? I was stupid lost the password. I would love any tips you can give me
I think it amazes people that someone would admit to being selfish and people perceive it as selfishness in general which is not the same. this is why people need to mind their own business lol
I’m 29 and I’m still not ready and I’ve been married for over a year now. Are our parents ready for grand babies, yes! But I am very self aware that I’m not ready for that responsibility. And it’s no ones business to tell you when you should be ready.
Yes me too!! I’m 25, in a long term relationship so my fam is always bugging me to have kids and they can not wrap their head around the fact that I just do not want to right now because I like living life my way, not having to worry about a kid right now!
I completely agree w you. Every other fitness influencer makes me envious of their bodies, but when I think of Whitney, I don’t think of how much better her body is, I think about how happy and motivated she makes me feel.
Time stamps: 1:22 Pregnancy 3:00 Wedding plans 4:10 Mental Health Struggles 5:50 Hardest part being a fitness influencer 8:02 Work 11:16 Plastic Surgery 13:28 Relationship arguments 15:48 Going gluten-dairy free 16:42 Cheating 17:48 Swearing 18:36 Short questions . . Thank you for your positivity and opening up Whitney!❤️
Omg for reals!! It is beyond painful when you’re struggling with fertility and people keep asking you like y’all if I could get pregnant I would be please stop ripping the bandaid off every couple of weeks
Preach! So many of mine and my fiancé’s family members keep pressuring us to hurry up and have kids but him and I aren’t ready. We get condemned so much because of that simple answer. So irritating!
When you said “sometimes you just wake up and you’re having a terrible mental health day and you have absolutely no reason why” I felt that 🥺 I love you, Whit and you bring me so much positivity.
I hope to God that the guy that broke Whitney's heart is looking back and seeing how badly he messed up. Not because she is successful, but because you can literally FEEL the pride coming from her knowing how strong she became from situations that have hurt her. You can feel from her videos how much growth she's had. And Whitney, please never stop whispering because every time you whisper it puts the BIGGEST smile on my face!
People need to STOP prying about people’s lives - especially when starting a family is involved. How do you know it’s not a touchy subject. That she can or can’t have kids? It’s not your business!!!
@@palestar828 I mean ok sure it's fine to ask her about her plans for children. But that's a huge difference to assuming a woman will or even assuming a woman can have children. Also whenever someone assumes she is already pregnant because she's "glowing". It is never ok to makes assumptions about someone regardless of if they put their lives on the internet or not.
@@dinannananna I don't think it's appropriate to even ask. In fact, I think it's a pretty rude question. That's a touchy issue for a lot of people, and if someone wants to share, they will do so without being asked.
@@palestar828 Totally disagree. If people want to share about their reproductive lives, they will do so without being asked. Someone may be dealing with infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy complications, etc, and you are sticking your thumb in that wound. It's just not your business to ask.
Your story is so inspiring!!!!! I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and PTSD for ten+ years after beating cancer, having a mom with addiction, and moving across the country for college as well. I got officially diagnosed my freshman year of college when I was kicked out of UCSD due to academic disqualification because my mom attempted suicide the week of finals. I thought my life was over and I had lost everything- the school I worked my whole life to get into was gone, I was in a city alone with NO money, no apt, and no assistance. I could have easily quit, moved back home, and continued to spiral..... maybe it was the self awareness knowing why I was feeling the way I was feeling but I kept pushing. I’m not saying it was perfect and I figured it all out after because it was far from that. I thankfully met my (now fiancé) a short time after that dark spot and he lifted me out of darkness and supported me unconditionally. Five years later we are happily engaged, I’m still going to therapy (3 years strong!!), have two amazing fur babies, and was blessed enough to survive this pandemic healthy, happy (as I could be), and financially safe. I AM BLESSED and so are you. Thank you for shining light on so many issues and being an inspiration to so many! Love you Whit!!!!!
Hearing that you don’t feel safe in places you 1000% should actually breaks my heart 😭 love you so much Whitney, I’m so sorry that’s part of it, it shouldn’t be in anyway xxx
Um, I love the whispering. It's kind of your signature and I HATE that you feel like you can't be yourself because someone made a comment to you. Girl, do whatever you want. Live your best life.
It's really rude to ask someone when they're having kids, especially when you don't know them. Stop rushing Whitney’s life. She will have kids when she decides to have kids. Period.
Seriously. The next step after engagement is not babies for everyone. Ive been dealing with this for a few years from my MIL and a few others so I felt for her so much when she was talking about that
I think it can also be especially harsh, as having kids biologically isn't even an option for so many women. So asking about pregnancy can be rubbing salt into a wound for those who want kids that way but can't.
Also, what if the person is having fertility issues? Now you’re just asking hurtful/upsetting questions without even meaning to. I made the (innocent) mistake of asking a coworker if she had children. She told me she would love to have some, but cannot 🥺 I thought I was being friendly in a moment where we were chit chatting, and I also love to talk about my own kiddo. She was totally cool about it, but I felt like an ass and imagined how many times she’s told people she can’t have kids when they asked about her family 😞
Whitney, Whitney Whitney. The most down to earth easy going person.. we need more Whitneys "Am I doing this for me, or am I doing this for other people"
I almost never comment on videos but as someone who's really been struggling lately, when Whitney said "I believe in you, I need you to believe in yourself" I teared up. Thank you
I've been married for 5 years now and I totally get the "selfish" thing. Like, I want to get up and have a cup of coffee in peace right now. I don't want to get up and have to change a diaper and get a baby dressed and then have 5 minutes to get myself ready, if I'm lucky before I need to run out the door. Right now is the time to be selfish and just focus on you and your relationship. I've told my husband and family that once I'm 30 then I'll consider trying to start a family.
The only time it’d be acceptable is if Whit invited you to a wonderful dinner party 🍝 ... or if you’re Girl Scout selling cookies door to door 🍪 But for real... it’s really messed up how people think that’s ok...
1: please bring whispering Whitney back. 2: thank you for sharing everything you have been “avoiding” we love you whit & support you. You are a queen 💕
“We have created a platform for such amazing men and women” So I’m not the only guy who’s loves Whitney’s channel ☺️☺️ felt like I was the only guy here - but watching her always makes me smile (and my sisters gave me the best gift giver status 🙊)
I’m glad she opens up about her mental health. As someone who is currently struggling with anxiety and gave a testimony because of it, ever since I started watching her videos a month or two ago, I’ve been thankful that she opens up about her mental health.
loved hearing more about your past relationships. just shows how much your self worth has evolved and now you have attracted someone that values you for you
When you said, "I believe in you, and I need you to believe in yourself.", oof my eyes started sweating. I FELT how genuine you were being in that moment, and I respect that so much
Currently recovering from breast augmentation. Thanks for reminding me that it's okay to do something I want for myself. I just wanted to be proportional and I had to fight my own guilt every step of the way.
you’re the most genuine & honest creator. we live in such a superficial, “picture perfect” world but you ALWAYS keep it real 💯 love that for you & the community you’ve created ❣️
it's so rude to ask someone if they're pregnant. especially influencers that you don't actually know.. that can be such a sensitive topic that can also cause body image issues for some women. people really just need to mind their own business...
I really heard Megan the stallion when she said “I’m sick of people trying to tell us how to live” and I’m here for it she said leave judgement in 2020 2021 here we come
It’s such a common thing when a relationship ends for women to blame themselves and wonder what they could have done better and for men to blame the woman (in a heterosexual relationship). Please don’t do this to yourselves ladies! Be kind to yourself! ❤️
I love that you know you’re just not ready for kids. I never realized how selfish I was until I had a kid. Like I literally have no time to do my own things EVER anymore lol it’s very upsetting and overwhelming sometimes for me. But I do love my kiddo.
I see you girl! I felt your light and spirit so strong in this video! You’re going through a shift, I sense it 🙏🏻thank you for being an inspiration! I’m doing it too!
Oh hell no, having someone I don’t know pull up to my house that I don’t know and unannounced, unacceptable! Whitney I hope you have some type of security! I would not play about that!
i have such a similar story with being cheated on/begging for them back/depression after breakup, and seeing you in a happy and healthy relationship and how much you're thriving with your life gives me hope and motivation. thank you for being open and honest about tough subjects like these. love you
Whitney I love how upfront, open and honest you are. You're videos are always so refreshing, like actually having a sit down with a friend! That is something that has defo helped me during lockdown and im sure im not alone in that! Thank you so much for all your content. Starting following you YEARS ago for the fitness, stayed following you all this time for the person you are ❤❤❤
I love how honest you are about having kiddos. I feel like people think that women always have to want kids. I love that you know you’re not ready yet and that’s what will make you a great mom. Thank you for being you
Same! I think it’s hard for people to understand how that kind of thing can shake you to your core and even cause an identity crisis. It’s taken me years to trust my own judgement & figure out who I am again but like you said you end up a better and stronger version of yourself ♥️ you just have to do the work. I love how many times she mentioned being self aware in this video because I really do think that’s so important when recovering from abuse.
I totally feel the “top selfish to have kids” thing. I’m just not ready to sacrifice my entire life for another human yet. It doesn’t make you a bad person, you’re just not ready. Take your time, it’s your life ❤️
Just seeing you get teary eyed makes me so emotional you’re my first ever youtuber that I’ve ever watched & will always be my number ☝🏼& you motivate so much to do better and continue with my goals that took so hard to put into order😓😓thank you Whitney for all of your videos and kindness🥺😢❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Happy Whitmas!!
When you were talking about your toxic relationship and mental health and said “omg why am I getting emotional” ...... I FELT THAT. You’re freaking amazing ilysm ❤️
Keep an eye on the depression. Always reach out to someone if you feel you're in a bad place. I have an anxiety disorder and so thankful to get support when it's much needed
You were so real and authentic in this video! I really enjoyed it! The people who really love you and come to watch you don’t care about you whispering or whatever small thing it is. We’re here for you and love you as you are. You bring so much positivity and joy into my life and I don’t want you to change ANYTHING about what makes you you
This girl is just so empowering. Whitney, you don’t know how much you’ve impacted me as a person. I was struggling with my mental health for a long time. Because of you I’ve learned that you can’t please everyone and to love myself. After doing so, I have not looked back without caring about others opinions. And hearing this q and a, you’re so honest that it touches the bottom of my heart so you keep doing you and thank you for your content. ❤️
For q&a part II, please share - what changed between you and stefan that led you guys to get together after that bad first date? I adore Stefan and I love seeing you two in videos!
Whitney - thank you for always being so upfront, honest, real, and raw. You give people the empowerment to tell the truth, express themselves and love all their insecurities. I lost my daddy a year ago while I was 7 months pregnant and it was the hardest thing I’ve had to go through. Like you, I feel like I cope(d) with my pain through exercising being in the gym and focusing on something I COULD control. I lost my mom when I was 14, my bf at the time was cheating on me the whole 2.5 yrs we spent together, I was just broken. But there is always a way to make it out and see the light. I thank you for helping me see the light. We have similar stories and I appreciate your bravery for coming out and speaking about it. Thank you Whitney, always know I’m here for YOU too 💛
"Am I doing this for me or am I doing this for other people" Girl yes! I'm going to keep that little note in mind going forward with everything in life
LOVE YOU, and how you're so upfront and honest and say words like "vagina" and say you had "depression" instead of just that you went through a "tough period" and I love when you call out us OGs that know about your cute lil ears gal
I just want to applaud you for being able to help such a wide range of people, I'm newly 18 and love your videos and hearing you talk about mothers watching you just made me so aware about how amazingly diverse you are.
I totally back you up when you say that you’re too selfish for a child right now. I had a baby at 21 years old and I NEVER got to be selfish and take care of myself. I struggle daily with it now even 5 years later. I’m so happy that you are so smart and aware of what you truly know is right for you.
I fell off from fitness for a couple of years and I haven't watched in awhile. I'm so happy and proud to see you're doing well Whitney!!! Thank you so much for putting out quality and genuine videos and helping me with my fitness journey TWICE. Praying for your continued success! Now I gotta catch go play catch up on your vids lol
I never knew you had experienced the same situation with an ex. He emotionally abused me, cheated on me, and I would cry and beg him not to leave. I have never been happier since I left him 🙌 Love you Whit ❤
an OG fan here, i knew you meant your ears as soon as you said surgery LOL. I love your attitude and energy. I feel like I can relate to lots of stuff you talk about in regards to mental health. thank you for sharing your journey with us, and putting yourself out there. You always making my day with your videos because your wonderful personality really shines through. WE LOVE YOU ❤️
Your answer about "why you struggle" is beautiful. Someone doesn't have to be in any kind of bad situation to struggle with mental health. What I've learned from loving people with depression, sometimes people feel down and they don't know why. And that sometimes makes it even harder. So no matter what you are (or aren't) going through, your feelings are valid. ❤️
I would love to see a GRWM w/ a Q&A part two 🤩🤩 Whit!! I’m an OG Whitmas watcher over here and this Q&A has been one of my favorites. You shook me in the best way with this one. I love you so much, nothing but kindness & the best for ya 🤍🤍🤍
I want a long engagement too. I want to enjoy being ‘engaged’, it sounds so lovely. I want to savor the whole moment and take my time enjoying that. I live in Utah too, and a lot of people get married after being engaged 3 months. Nothing wrong with that! I just think long engagements aren’t the ‘normal’ thing to do here.
Oh man! Your quirks, whispering and beautiful personality is huge reason why I started watching you years ago🥰never change I'm happy to hear you're taking media breaks and taking care of you❤
When you started talking about your toxic and unhealthy relationship I got a little teary because everything you said happened and how you reacted to the cheating and everything, i was picturing myself because that was exactly me too and it happened when I was in college as well but like you said I now understand why it all happened and I wasn’t meant to be with that person! Thanks for spreading love and positivity in your channel! Love you 💞
When you started getting emotional talking about mental health.....girl...I. Was. Not. Ready. Immediate crying with you. Definitely relate to this. Love you so much. Thank you for all of your positivity and honesty ❤️
Girl, I have followed you for YEARS and this may be my favorite video ever. I can’t imagine how tough it is to get behind that camera and open up about the hardest & darkest parts of your life, but HOLY HECK IN BOB is it a beacon of hope for us still struggling through. Thank you, thank you, for being so open & honest in everything you do. Always there when we need you most. Love you so much. 💕😭
Hell...you are amazing! I just realized I got depression, was hiding it from myself, but at this craziness what's happening right now, I realized, I am not mentally well,fighting and trying to find a way to be busy.... you go girl ♥️ you are inspiration ❣
Asking someone when they’re having kids is such a rude and invasive question. Why does that concern people? You don’t know what someone may be going through or what their desires are. Mind your business 😒
so true...not a good question to ask...EVER,,,, maybe they are trying .., maybe they just had a miscarriage..you never know what people are going through... people ask innocently....but it can definitely be a trigger question
I swear like a sailor but still love the heck-in-Bob! Plus, I feel like it’s a very Utah, thing to say. And I can say this because I also live in Utah! Also, I love the whispering, so please do not stop! Love ya Whit!
Your mental health always comes first!! I am so thankful for you, you have helped me in so many ways, but especially my mental health and I’m so glad you’re taking time for yourself too because I just want you to be happy and healthy! Love you so much!!! Thank you for everything you do for us, we are so blessed to have you.
Thanks Whit, you really inspire me to continue moving on. I'm in a deep depression right now, but somehow I'm trying to stand up and stop going in my own circles. Hope one day to be as happy as you seem to be, enjoy your life, relationship and fitness journey ☺
Girl I feel like we’re the same person. When you started talking about metal health and being in a relationship that wasn’t good and falling into depression laying in bed... I have never related so much!
@@WhitneySimmons I actually run fitness classes and we have a discussion before about how fitness is more than just a workout and I shared the video of your fitness story cause you were the person who inspired me to start my fitness journey love you 💕
I love all your videos but this one hit home. I just love how raw and real you are. Thank you for creating a space where nothing is too personal to ask. I love your honesty and will always be a huge fan.
Sometimes watching Whitney’s videos makes feel so motivated that I will pause the video and make a detailed todo list and map out steps to achieve goals I have. Then I’ll return hours later to finish the video
It blows my mind that people would show up at your house!!! What did they think was gonna happen?? You were gonna invite them in and become BFFs with them? 🥴
Woah. The part where you talk about what's scary as an influencer... holy moly. That's so horrible. THANK YOU for being so open in this vid and creating content, and blessings on blessings for your continued safety!
Please keep whispering! It’s a vibe! It’s a Whitney Vibe! ❤️ I sometimes notice myself whispering while talking to people and I know damn well how influential you are if I start doing it myself and I love it!🥺 just ILYSM 😩
Honestly love all of Whits vids but I think some of the messages in this one are so so important for women. Completely hit home about putting all of your self worth into another individual/man, I think a lot of women have struggled with that, & it just reaffirms that you need to love yourself & find your own strength and worth within yourself.
You’re not glowing because your pregnant you’re GLOWING because you’ve reached a prime boss point in your life! Girl you’ve got the ring, you’ve got your dream home gym, you got your own line with Gymshark, girl ENJOY your life as it is rn this is an amazing time!! ❤️❤️
I couldn't have said it better myself! You hit the nail on the head, girl!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Go Whitney!!!!!
Yes!!! She’s such a light and inspiration to a lot of women! Celebrate life Whitney everyday 💖
Sorry to be off topic but does someone know a way to log back into an instagram account?
I was stupid lost the password. I would love any tips you can give me
I DEFINITELY feel the "too selfish to have kids right now". For some reason, people don't get that lol
I think it amazes people that someone would admit to being selfish and people perceive it as selfishness in general which is not the same. this is why people need to mind their own business lol
I’m 29 and I’m still not ready and I’ve been married for over a year now. Are our parents ready for grand babies, yes! But I am very self aware that I’m not ready for that responsibility. And it’s no ones business to tell you when you should be ready.
Yes me too!! I’m 25, in a long term relationship so my fam is always bugging me to have kids and they can not wrap their head around the fact that I just do not want to right now because I like living life my way, not having to worry about a kid right now!
I feel the same way! I’m 28 and I feel like there’s still so much I haven’t accomplished yet.
Girl same and I'm 28 😬 people always asking me when I'm gonna have kids! Ummmm I don't know maybe never
Whit, you're the only fitness influencer who doesn't makes me feel bad about my body not being perfect. Thank you for being so empowering!
Than clearly you don’t watch Sydney Cummings.
I like her a lot too! Watch Keltie O'Connor! She's really good!
I completely agree w you. Every other fitness influencer makes me envious of their bodies, but when I think of Whitney, I don’t think of how much better her body is, I think about how happy and motivated she makes me feel.
I agree with this!!!!!!!
You should watch Stephanie Buttermore then.
Time stamps:
1:22 Pregnancy
3:00 Wedding plans
4:10 Mental Health Struggles
5:50 Hardest part being a fitness influencer
8:02 Work
11:16 Plastic Surgery
13:28 Relationship arguments
15:48 Going gluten-dairy free
16:42 Cheating
17:48 Swearing
18:36 Short questions
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Thank you for your positivity and opening up Whitney!❤️
Thank you
You the real MVP
Luv this thx!!
I don’t know who still needs to hear this but stop asking women when they’re getting pregnant
Amen sistah !!
PRAISSEEEE
Omg for reals!! It is beyond painful when you’re struggling with fertility and people keep asking you like y’all if I could get pregnant I would be please stop ripping the bandaid off every couple of weeks
Preach! So many of mine and my fiancé’s family members keep pressuring us to hurry up and have kids but him and I aren’t ready. We get condemned so much because of that simple answer. So irritating!
Amen
When you said “sometimes you just wake up and you’re having a terrible mental health day and you have absolutely no reason why” I felt that 🥺 I love you, Whit and you bring me so much positivity.
me toooooo !
@@adriannagattuso5442 this year has been trying on everyone mentally and physically. I hope you are doing well ❤️
@@lillycramer5 thank you. Being apart of positive little communities like this really help. ❤
I love you 😭❤️
Yes, I feel is such an important conversation to have. We struggle and there is no shame
Who could possibly hate whispering Whitney?!??
I’m actually so sad whispering Whitney is gone 😭😭😭
I miss her 😭
@@KrystleMartin same!!! Bring whispering back! And I love prrrrrrrrrra ta ta ta.
Please bring the whisper back.
Seriously. Whitney is the most likeable person ever. How could anyone not like her?!
"Gluten is not bad for you unless you have a disease that tells you otherwise" love you
BRING THE WHISPERING BACK
*whispers* I’ve missed it ❤️
I hope to God that the guy that broke Whitney's heart is looking back and seeing how badly he messed up. Not because she is successful, but because you can literally FEEL the pride coming from her knowing how strong she became from situations that have hurt her. You can feel from her videos how much growth she's had. And Whitney, please never stop whispering because every time you whisper it puts the BIGGEST smile on my face!
People need to STOP prying about people’s lives - especially when starting a family is involved. How do you know it’s not a touchy subject. That she can or can’t have kids? It’s not your business!!!
It's hard for people not to pry when people put their entire lives out on the internet these days 🤷♀️ barely anything these days is private
@@palestar828 I mean ok sure it's fine to ask her about her plans for children. But that's a huge difference to assuming a woman will or even assuming a woman can have children. Also whenever someone assumes she is already pregnant because she's "glowing". It is never ok to makes assumptions about someone regardless of if they put their lives on the internet or not.
@@dinannananna agreed
@@dinannananna I don't think it's appropriate to even ask. In fact, I think it's a pretty rude question. That's a touchy issue for a lot of people, and if someone wants to share, they will do so without being asked.
@@palestar828 Totally disagree. If people want to share about their reproductive lives, they will do so without being asked. Someone may be dealing with infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy complications, etc, and you are sticking your thumb in that wound. It's just not your business to ask.
She not glowing because she’s pregnant. WE HAVE ALL SEEN THAT DEWY, HYDRATED, MAKEUP AND SKINCARE ROUTINE. y’all gotta stop 😭
Right on sistah 🤗
Introverts unite! Separately
😂😂😂🙏🏼
😂🤣 love it!
HHahahahaha
Ha ha good one 🤗
@@WhitneySimmons could you make a good haul 2021. Keep up the good work
Who TF complained about the whispering?! That was hilarious, bring it back👌
For real!!
It’s okay. 2020 is a confusing time for people. 😔 *whispering - shh we won’t judge* 🤣
Exactly!!
Yes! Bring it back. I miss it too.
I lovedddd it too!
Your story is so inspiring!!!!! I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and PTSD for ten+ years after beating cancer, having a mom with addiction, and moving across the country for college as well. I got officially diagnosed my freshman year of college when I was kicked out of UCSD due to academic disqualification because my mom attempted suicide the week of finals. I thought my life was over and I had lost everything- the school I worked my whole life to get into was gone, I was in a city alone with NO money, no apt, and no assistance. I could have easily quit, moved back home, and continued to spiral..... maybe it was the self awareness knowing why I was feeling the way I was feeling but I kept pushing. I’m not saying it was perfect and I figured it all out after because it was far from that. I thankfully met my (now fiancé) a short time after that dark spot and he lifted me out of darkness and supported me unconditionally. Five years later we are happily engaged, I’m still going to therapy (3 years strong!!), have two amazing fur babies, and was blessed enough to survive this pandemic healthy, happy (as I could be), and financially safe. I AM BLESSED and so are you. Thank you for shining light on so many issues and being an inspiration to so many! Love you Whit!!!!!
I'm so happy for you. We have the same mental illness issues btw, and well, life is tough. I've also met an amazing man. Twinning
@@TracyCampanellaThank you for the kind words! Life is tough, but at least we have someone to keep us pushing! ❤️ best wishes to you!
Hearing that you don’t feel safe in places you 1000% should actually breaks my heart 😭 love you so much Whitney, I’m so sorry that’s part of it, it shouldn’t be in anyway xxx
Love you 🥲🥲❤️
Um, I love the whispering. It's kind of your signature and I HATE that you feel like you can't be yourself because someone made a comment to you. Girl, do whatever you want. Live your best life.
It's really rude to ask someone when they're having kids, especially when you don't know them. Stop rushing Whitney’s life. She will have kids when she decides to have kids. Period.
Aja seriously tho!
Seriously. The next step after engagement is not babies for everyone. Ive been dealing with this for a few years from my MIL and a few others so I felt for her so much when she was talking about that
@@megzzk8072 It’s so disrespectful. I’m sorry you had/have to deal with that.
I think it can also be especially harsh, as having kids biologically isn't even an option for so many women.
So asking about pregnancy can be rubbing salt into a wound for those who want kids that way but can't.
Also, what if the person is having fertility issues? Now you’re just asking hurtful/upsetting questions without even meaning to. I made the (innocent) mistake of asking a coworker if she had children. She told me she would love to have some, but cannot 🥺 I thought I was being friendly in a moment where we were chit chatting, and I also love to talk about my own kiddo. She was totally cool about it, but I felt like an ass and imagined how many times she’s told people she can’t have kids when they asked about her family 😞
Thank you for saying that you’re too “selfish” right now, because I felt that 🥺👏🏽 it’s ok to be selfish!
Whitney, Whitney Whitney. The most down to earth easy going person.. we need more Whitneys
"Am I doing this for me, or am I doing this for other people"
THANK YOU for saying "labia" unironically AND correctly. So important to get these terms right and own them, yas!
I’ve booked a labia plasty with a clitoral hood reduction that I’m a little scared 😟 I just want to feel comfortable in clothes
I will never be able to wrap my head around people being rude to you.
jealousy
You’re literally the most relatable woman I’ve ever come across. You make me feel like you’re actually my friend! I adore you 💕💕💕
I almost never comment on videos but as someone who's really been struggling lately, when Whitney said "I believe in you, I need you to believe in yourself" I teared up. Thank you
Lot of love your way sistah 🤗
I've been married for 5 years now and I totally get the "selfish" thing. Like, I want to get up and have a cup of coffee in peace right now. I don't want to get up and have to change a diaper and get a baby dressed and then have 5 minutes to get myself ready, if I'm lucky before I need to run out the door. Right now is the time to be selfish and just focus on you and your relationship. I've told my husband and family that once I'm 30 then I'll consider trying to start a family.
I don't understand how people think it's okay to go to your home. That's just so wrong and disgusting. I'm so sorry you need to deal with that😔
I barely like it when people I know come to my house, let alone random strangers
The only time it’d be acceptable is if Whit invited you to a wonderful dinner party 🍝 ... or if you’re Girl Scout selling cookies door to door 🍪
But for real... it’s really messed up how people think that’s ok...
1: please bring whispering Whitney back.
2: thank you for sharing everything you have been “avoiding” we love you whit & support you. You are a queen 💕
“We have created a platform for such amazing men and women”
So I’m not the only guy who’s loves Whitney’s channel ☺️☺️ felt like I was the only guy here - but watching her always makes me smile (and my sisters gave me the best gift giver status 🙊)
I’m glad she opens up about her mental health. As someone who is currently struggling with anxiety and gave a testimony because of it, ever since I started watching her videos a month or two ago, I’ve been thankful that she opens up about her mental health.
loved hearing more about your past relationships. just shows how much your self worth has evolved and now you have attracted someone that values you for you
One more reason to love Whit 🥳
When you said, "I believe in you, and I need you to believe in yourself.", oof my eyes started sweating. I FELT how genuine you were being in that moment, and I respect that so much
Omg same
Me too 😭😭 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I love how vulnerable you were in this video and the things you admitted just reflect how strong you are. Need you as the bestie
"I can be an extrovert.. when there's nobody around" lol Whitney this is me too
100% lol
Currently recovering from breast augmentation. Thanks for reminding me that it's okay to do something I want for myself.
I just wanted to be proportional and I had to fight my own guilt every step of the way.
Right on sistah 🤗
you’re the most genuine & honest creator. we live in such a superficial, “picture perfect” world but you ALWAYS keep it real 💯 love that for you & the community you’ve created ❣️
it's so rude to ask someone if they're pregnant. especially influencers that you don't actually know.. that can be such a sensitive topic that can also cause body image issues for some women. people really just need to mind their own business...
YES, it's so rude! I had someone ask me when I was "finally going to have a baby" when I had literally had a miscarriage a week before.
Yep. My rule is I don’t bring it up unless she or he does first. Otherwise, it’s potentially a sensitive issue and not my business.
@@leather_bath YES. If someone wants you to know, they will happily tell you unprompted. Otherwise, nobody's business.
Protect Whitney Simmons at 👏 all 👏 costs 👏
It’s crazy how ppl comment negatively on her body. I think she looks amazing. You are literally inspiring
Its crazy that anyone would comment negatively on anyones body.
@@tootsiepop91 agreed smh
As a mom with two young kids, I totally appreciate that you don't swear in your videos, that way I can watch without headphones. 😊
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I love your personality. Even you’re whispering. your so authentic.
Keep up the great work you’re making a difference so many peoples lives
I really heard Megan the stallion when she said “I’m sick of people trying to tell us how to live” and I’m here for it she said leave judgement in 2020 2021 here we come
I live in the same city as you and would NEVER even think about finding your house and coming over like wtf?? Some people are crazzzzzy
It’s such a common thing when a relationship ends for women to blame themselves and wonder what they could have done better and for men to blame the woman (in a heterosexual relationship). Please don’t do this to yourselves ladies! Be kind to yourself! ❤️
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When you said “labia” with no shame you officially became my favourite UA-camr!! ❤️
I love that you know you’re just not ready for kids. I never realized how selfish I was until I had a kid. Like I literally have no time to do my own things EVER anymore lol it’s very upsetting and overwhelming sometimes for me. But I do love my kiddo.
I see you girl! I felt your light and spirit so strong in this video! You’re going through a shift, I sense it 🙏🏻thank you for being an inspiration! I’m doing it too!
This gave me ~chills~ 😭🙏🏼❤️
Me too❤️
Oh hell no, having someone I don’t know pull up to my house that I don’t know and unannounced, unacceptable! Whitney I hope you have some type of security! I would not play about that!
i have such a similar story with being cheated on/begging for them back/depression after breakup, and seeing you in a happy and healthy relationship and how much you're thriving with your life gives me hope and motivation. thank you for being open and honest about tough subjects like these. love you
Whitney I love how upfront, open and honest you are. You're videos are always so refreshing, like actually having a sit down with a friend! That is something that has defo helped me during lockdown and im sure im not alone in that! Thank you so much for all your content. Starting following you YEARS ago for the fitness, stayed following you all this time for the person you are ❤❤❤
I love how honest you are about having kiddos. I feel like people think that women always have to want kids. I love that you know you’re not ready yet and that’s what will make you a great mom. Thank you for being you
I was in a very emotionally abusive relationship too. He broke me to the core, but I'm back. 2.0. Thank you for sharing Whitney, means a lot!
I can relate, but we're stronger now💪
Same! I think it’s hard for people to understand how that kind of thing can shake you to your core and even cause an identity crisis. It’s taken me years to trust my own judgement & figure out who I am again but like you said you end up a better and stronger version of yourself ♥️ you just have to do the work. I love how many times she mentioned being self aware in this video because I really do think that’s so important when recovering from abuse.
Been there, Wendy! We're gonna be okay! Might be rough, but we got this?
@@asana_awakening insane right..? Didn't even know who I was anymore. Really damaging, some people are just so toxic
@@trippysiren7966 Yes we do! Keep it up ❤️
I totally feel the “top selfish to have kids” thing. I’m just not ready to sacrifice my entire life for another human yet. It doesn’t make you a bad person, you’re just not ready. Take your time, it’s your life ❤️
the fact that people think it’s okay to show up to an influencer’s house🤭... honestly so disrespectful
right? I couldn’t imagine how they feel. Talk about an invasion of privacy.
The internet is deprived of wholesome and real people like you! Thank you for being you Whitney ❤️
Who else feels like they just reconnected with Whitney after a long frickin time away?? ❤️
Just seeing you get teary eyed makes me so emotional you’re my first ever youtuber that I’ve ever watched & will always be my number ☝🏼& you motivate so much to do better and continue with my goals that took so hard to put into order😓😓thank you Whitney for all of your videos and kindness🥺😢❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Happy Whitmas!!
So well said!
“I’m too selfish to have babies right now” way too take the words right out of my mouth😫😅
When you were talking about your toxic relationship and mental health and said “omg why am I getting emotional” ...... I FELT THAT. You’re freaking amazing ilysm ❤️
Keep an eye on the depression. Always reach out to someone if you feel you're in a bad place. I have an anxiety disorder and so thankful to get support when it's much needed
You were so real and authentic in this video! I really enjoyed it! The people who really love you and come to watch you don’t care about you whispering or whatever small thing it is. We’re here for you and love you as you are. You bring so much positivity and joy into my life and I don’t want you to change ANYTHING about what makes you you
This girl is just so empowering. Whitney, you don’t know how much you’ve impacted me as a person. I was struggling with my mental health for a long time. Because of you I’ve learned that you can’t please everyone and to love myself. After doing so, I have not looked back without caring about others opinions. And hearing this q and a, you’re so honest that it touches the bottom of my heart so you keep doing you and thank you for your content. ❤️
I can’t stand hearing that people make negative comments on how you look physically because you are GOALS ❤️ Love what you’re doing here on UA-cam.
For q&a part II, please share - what changed between you and stefan that led you guys to get together after that bad first date? I adore Stefan and I love seeing you two in videos!
Whitney - thank you for always being so upfront, honest, real, and raw. You give people the empowerment to tell the truth, express themselves and love all their insecurities.
I lost my daddy a year ago while I was 7 months pregnant and it was the hardest thing I’ve had to go through. Like you, I feel like I cope(d) with my pain through exercising being in the gym and focusing on something I COULD control. I lost my mom when I was 14, my bf at the time was cheating on me the whole 2.5 yrs we spent together, I was just broken. But there is always a way to make it out and see the light. I thank you for helping me see the light.
We have similar stories and I appreciate your bravery for coming out and speaking about it. Thank you Whitney, always know I’m here for YOU too 💛
"Am I doing this for me or am I doing this for other people" Girl yes! I'm going to keep that little note in mind going forward with everything in life
Why are people so obsessed with females having babies. Like it makes people have anxiety if they don't want babies.
LOVE YOU, and how you're so upfront and honest and say words like "vagina" and say you had "depression" instead of just that you went through a "tough period" and I love when you call out us OGs that know about your cute lil ears gal
I just want to applaud you for being able to help such a wide range of people, I'm newly 18 and love your videos and hearing you talk about mothers watching you just made me so aware about how amazingly diverse you are.
I totally back you up when you say that you’re too selfish for a child right now. I had a baby at 21 years old and I NEVER got to be selfish and take care of myself. I struggle daily with it now even 5 years later. I’m so happy that you are so smart and aware of what you truly know is right for you.
I fell off from fitness for a couple of years and I haven't watched in awhile. I'm so happy and proud to see you're doing well Whitney!!! Thank you so much for putting out quality and genuine videos and helping me with my fitness journey TWICE. Praying for your continued success! Now I gotta catch go play catch up on your vids lol
I never knew you had experienced the same situation with an ex. He emotionally abused me, cheated on me, and I would cry and beg him not to leave. I have never been happier since I left him 🙌 Love you Whit ❤
Whit looks like she would get married one lavendar farm. Absolutely breathtaking and fits her personality
an OG fan here, i knew you meant your ears as soon as you said surgery LOL.
I love your attitude and energy. I feel like I can relate to lots of stuff you talk about in regards to mental health. thank you for sharing your journey with us, and putting yourself out there. You always making my day with your videos because your wonderful personality really shines through. WE LOVE YOU ❤️
Your answer about "why you struggle" is beautiful. Someone doesn't have to be in any kind of bad situation to struggle with mental health. What I've learned from loving people with depression, sometimes people feel down and they don't know why. And that sometimes makes it even harder. So no matter what you are (or aren't) going through, your feelings are valid. ❤️
I would love to see a GRWM w/ a Q&A part two 🤩🤩 Whit!! I’m an OG Whitmas watcher over here and this Q&A has been one of my favorites. You shook me in the best way with this one. I love you so much, nothing but kindness & the best for ya 🤍🤍🤍
I want a long engagement too. I want to enjoy being ‘engaged’, it sounds so lovely. I want to savor the whole moment and take my time enjoying that. I live in Utah too, and a lot of people get married after being engaged 3 months. Nothing wrong with that! I just think long engagements aren’t the ‘normal’ thing to do here.
Yes 😭😭🙏🏼💙
When Whitney said she get hate for whispering
Me: *whispers* I got you girl
“I can be an extrovert when there’s nobody around” 😂 So relatable!
"Am I doing this for me or am I doing this for other people?" EVERYTHING!! Also, love that you and Tay are in business together.
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Oh man! Your quirks, whispering and beautiful personality is huge reason why I started watching you years ago🥰never change I'm happy to hear you're taking media breaks and taking care of you❤
When you started talking about your toxic and unhealthy relationship I got a little teary because everything you said happened and how you reacted to the cheating and everything, i was picturing myself because that was exactly me too and it happened when I was in college as well but like you said I now understand why it all happened and I wasn’t meant to be with that person! Thanks for spreading love and positivity in your channel! Love you 💞
When you started getting emotional talking about mental health.....girl...I. Was. Not. Ready. Immediate crying with you. Definitely relate to this. Love you so much. Thank you for all of your positivity and honesty ❤️
I love you 🥲
Whit: “and this one from Jazmine...”
Me: THATS ME. I’M JAZMINE
HI WHIT, ILYSM💙💙💙 I’m so glad the positives outweigh the darker side so much!!!
HI JAZ 🥲🥲🥲❤️
Girl, I have followed you for YEARS and this may be my favorite video ever. I can’t imagine how tough it is to get behind that camera and open up about the hardest & darkest parts of your life, but HOLY HECK IN BOB is it a beacon of hope for us still struggling through. Thank you, thank you, for being so open & honest in everything you do. Always there when we need you most. Love you so much. 💕😭
Hell...you are amazing! I just realized I got depression, was hiding it from myself, but at this craziness what's happening right now, I realized, I am not mentally well,fighting and trying to find a way to be busy.... you go girl ♥️ you are inspiration ❣
When you stop everything you’re doing to watch the video as soon as the notification pops up
Asking someone when they’re having kids is such a rude and invasive question. Why does that concern people? You don’t know what someone may be going through or what their desires are. Mind your business 😒
so true...not a good question to ask...EVER,,,, maybe they are trying .., maybe they just had a miscarriage..you never know what people are going through... people ask innocently....but it can definitely be a trigger question
AMEN!! As soon as I turned 30 everyone started asking me this. My in laws ask me constantly but never ask my husband. So rude
I swear like a sailor but still love the heck-in-Bob! Plus, I feel like it’s a very Utah, thing to say. And I can say this because I also live in Utah! Also, I love the whispering, so please do not stop! Love ya Whit!
True 😭😂😂❤️
Your mental health always comes first!! I am so thankful for you, you have helped me in so many ways, but especially my mental health and I’m so glad you’re taking time for yourself too because I just want you to be happy and healthy! Love you so much!!! Thank you for everything you do for us, we are so blessed to have you.
Thanks Whit, you really inspire me to continue moving on.
I'm in a deep depression right now, but somehow I'm trying to stand up and stop going in my own circles. Hope one day to be as happy as you seem to be, enjoy your life, relationship and fitness journey ☺
Agh this was like hanging out with an old friend! This video content was so good for my mental state. Love you, Whit.
Girl I feel like we’re the same person. When you started talking about metal health and being in a relationship that wasn’t good and falling into depression laying in bed... I have never related so much!
Same!
The second you had the question about plastic surgery I said out loud.. “Yes. Her ears lol” definitely an OG
AN OG 🥲🥲🥲
@@WhitneySimmons I actually run fitness classes and we have a discussion before about how fitness is more than just a workout and I shared the video of your fitness story cause you were the person who inspired me to start my fitness journey love you 💕
I love all your videos but this one hit home. I just love how raw and real you are. Thank you for creating a space where nothing is too personal to ask. I love your honesty and will always be a huge fan.
Sometimes watching Whitney’s videos makes feel so motivated that I will pause the video and make a detailed todo list and map out steps to achieve goals I have. Then I’ll return hours later to finish the video
It blows my mind that people would show up at your house!!! What did they think was gonna happen?? You were gonna invite them in and become BFFs with them? 🥴
Woah. The part where you talk about what's scary as an influencer... holy moly. That's so horrible. THANK YOU for being so open in this vid and creating content, and blessings on blessings for your continued safety!
HUHUHU I LOVE THAT YOU'RE NOT LEAVING UA-cam. PLEASE DON'T :(
Please keep whispering! It’s a vibe! It’s a Whitney Vibe! ❤️ I sometimes notice myself whispering while talking to people and I know damn well how influential you are if I start doing it myself and I love it!🥺 just ILYSM 😩
Honestly love all of Whits vids but I think some of the messages in this one are so so important for women.
Completely hit home about putting all of your self worth into another individual/man, I think a lot of women have struggled with that, & it just reaffirms that you need to love yourself & find your own strength and worth within yourself.