I think the biggest difference between an Alpha male and a Beta male is the attitude . Alpha male just think differently than Beta male . I also think that Alpha male don't pursue women , he attracts women because of the person he becomes .
+cybercity1984 men dont need women, women need men that whole "behind every great man is a great woman?" complete hogwash, men become successful whether they have a woman or not
I disagree. If you see a woman you want then go after her. It's all about how you do it. I like to keep it simple. Tell them what I'm looking for up front and that I'm not the type you can friend zone so if she's not interested then..bye. Nobody's time is wasted and it's on to the next.
Hey Corey, I'm 63 and spent 33 of those years married; I grew up with with a father that was a Beta; so I never learned how to be an Alpha. After my divorce, and without a real relationship for the better part of 33 years, I acted so needy that every relationship I was in started out Alpha like but always lead to Beta and then the end of the relationship. I can't tell you how much, you helped me see that I was the problem in every relationship I was in and that was many. I'm very Alpha when I am setting things up for dates and such, but a few dates and I am Beta whipped and so not Alpha. But, I am doing much better now thanks to you helping me to see the real problems is my own lack of stable Alpha tendencies. I may be 63 but it hasn't done anything to stop me. Me and my gal are buying a rv and going traveling for the rest of our lives. I have taken a Alpha roll and she loves it that I am the man in charge. Without crossing the thin line between being Alpha and Asshole. Keep up the great work.
walking away is alpha- if you're not ok being friendzoned then walk away. beta gets caught up in paralysis of analysis Alpha's understand that failure's and overcoming them is a part of life. he liked the girl too much so he started compromising his goals and values. he didn't stand up for himself and what he wanted and it turned her off. you need to be centered and sure of yourself so she can be comfortable and more in her feminine. masculine energy is all about purpose, drive and succeeding. feminine energy is about opening up, receiving, being submissive. when a woman reaches out, assume she wants to see you and make a date. at the end of the date go for the kiss maybe walk her to her door and kiss her.
Corey, I wish you made these videos 20 years ago lol it would have saved me a lot of heartache and frustration. Every one of your vids has helped me out tremendously. I lost my father to cancer when I was just 19, so I didnt have a male role model in my life to teach me the things that I am now learning from you. Keep up the amazing work brother!
12:35 "Women HAVE TO HAVE some way of screening out the less dominant or the non-dominant males from the dominant ones." This helps a man come to terms and sympathise with the reasons a woman tests. Corey, you are inspired by the creator.
omg I LOVE this video. i started crying when you said that she needs a man who is a leader, confident enough so SHE WILL feel safe and be able to let go. i am a very driven woman, but at the same time very feminine and love my femininity. In my previous relationship i always felt like I wanted to let go but could never trust that he would play his masculine role. I kind of felt like I was the one solving all the problems and I tried to have him solve stuff but he never could. its really stressful for a woman to be with a man that is not emotionally inteligent. it really sucks our energy. he didnt even understand his role as a man in bed because he didnt even know that woman need different things to be ready for sex. sorry unloading UAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
PeaceExtreme what does this advise has to do with ne unloading?? unloading is healhty. I learned something from the video. I do not see the problem in doing so.
Mary AannaA it's written anywhere that women need "other things" before sex. I learned that crap the hard way. Women need kissing and touching to warm up and to get exited while man only needs to see a woman naked. Your man was a man. You learn that crap because neither male friends or women themselves tell what they want..women are good at complaining about what they don't like instead of communicating what they like..
Mary AannaA it's written anywhere that women need "other things" before sex. I learned that crap the hard way. Women need kissing and touching to warm up and to get exited while man only needs to see a woman naked. Your man was a man. You learn that crap because neither male friends or women themselves tell what they want..women are good at complaining about what they don't like instead of communicating what they like..
I’ve seen this too where the woman can’t let go and allow a man to lead because his decisions don’t meet her expectations. so she makes the general assumption that he can’t make any decisions, meaning his decisions don’t meet your expectations
Saturday Morning, black coffee, end of a relationship, Tennis in One hour....feeling happy and just enjoying this video.After Marriage , 20 years, 3 wonderful Kids it's seems painfully obvious that trying to meet as many people as possible helps. Letting go of someone too when it becomes hard work. I remember how effortless it was when I met my first wife. Very much in love at the time and I asked NO questions about who , what and why?I wonder if the arrival of smartphones has changed this. A recent failure in a relationship I feel had a lot to do with WhatsApp! Leaving any woman define your relationship via this way of communicating can and will turn any Alpha (good guy) into a miserable wreck. Looking forward to someone new in my life and trial and error is part of the game. Enjoyed the book very much.
You have a good point about the problem with smart phones. The instant availability to contact people cheapens the value of real human connection. It makes relationships more disposable because you can just replace someone very easily at the push of a button. I hope you have moved on to a much better place.
I know what it's like being a beta basically I grew in an unstable family my dad was a weekend dad and very stoic mom a workaholic and my grandma used to be abusive when she was not drunk. I met this chick and I let her walk all over me until I finally stood up and left. Rather than crying about my past I'm doing my best to improve. Thanks for the help coach you don't know how much this means.
11:23 - Bahahaha-yes. "Hey! The fun bus is going This way! Give me a call if you change your mind!!" Bahahahahaha-yes. Corey W, sir - You are awesome. Thanks for all the videos.
I’d replace the word “intimidating” with “inspiring” or “influential”. I’d say there’s a time and a place for everything but intimidating people into following is a weak strategy for a group or a lifestyle in the long run.
Mr Wayne on my 2nd read of your book and have been checking out your videos, have applied your information and i must say you are 100% correct in the things you say about dating and women also about how this can effect other area's of a mans life as well. Getting started on my 3rd read now and yes each time i read it i discover things that i had been doing wrong, this book has been a Godsend so thanks for your work and i am sure the best is yet to come.
My best sexual experiences with women was when I took charge and assumed the Alpha role... since by nature I'm Beta it was a I opening experience. I don't agree everything in this video but take what you can use and discard the rest... thanks for some great free content
I do find it challenging to "assume the alpha role" since I guess by nature I'm more beta as well (can't really help how we are made). I do feel like I'm starting to be more aware of how I behave but still. Got any good tips you picked up that helped you make changes?
This girl was a waste of his time and she had no real interest in him, surely during the date, he would have picked up on some signals but I don't think she ever gave him the vibe there was any romantic and sexual attraction there. It's like Corey says, "when women really like you, they help you". I would have left it at I had a nice time, take care, keep in touch and I would have moved on after that and I have in the past when the girl was boring on a date, they never heard from me again!
John Carpenter The guy begin to have a take it or leave it attitude and that was what he did right but he didn't blow anything cause the girl never had any real attraction or interest in him sustainable enough for him to get out of the friend zone. She basically threw him a bone with no meat on it and it wound up just being a courtesy date.
Coach Corey Wayne Corey, you say it yourself, "attraction is not a choice", nothing in his email indicated she gave him any romantic signs, plus she friend zoned him from the beginning. At 14:40 on the date she tells him, she had a great time in a "friendly, fun sorta way". Maybe she was giving him a shit test and he failed, but yeah, he could have been more aggressive and direct and see how she responded.
Ricardo Oliveira Yeah I think she was shit testing him a bit and he got hesitant and didn't go for what he wanted which is what an alpha male does but along in the date, he needs to be evaluating the flow of it, what her mood is like, is she laughing and possibly touching his arm in playful like ways. Women give off these subtle hints when there's chemistry.We don't know how or what he was like on the date either, was he tense, uncomfortable? Sometimes on these first dates it's an awkward situation cause your out with a person you barely know. I have been on first dates with girls and towards the end, I just went for the kiss and they responded by complying with me, that's what he should have done.
Ricardo Oliveira I have just went for the kiss before and the girl responded back positively by kissing me also, so he should have just kissed her but like you said, he's learning and that will help him next time. Most of these guys haven't been in those situations enough like I had early in my life as well and I was hesitant and shy, but if you just step up to the plate and go for it, some of these women will respond to your strength as long as your not too aggressive and it could have been that maybe he lost her all because he wasn't sure of himself and just went for it.
I did GREATEST mistakes with this Girl who when we met her on the first day want me to come with her to her hostel and requested me and guess what later I screwed so hard that She just said she was busy even if she is not when ever I watch your videos brother I just know where exactly I screwed up PERSUING is the J9b of women we just stay focussed on our mission Again Thanks alot for being our coach
Corey, you're kind of like the Tom Cruise "Seduce and Destroy" character from Magnolia except coming from a way healthier place, less more well-reasoned and not hateful. He's your fictitious arch nemesis, I'm pretty sure.
Sometimes, and I'm speaking from personal experience, holding out is nearly impossible because you sometimes come across a girl that you know in your heart is different and that you just can't stay away from. I don't wanna sound corny but sometimes you come across "the one". I've been with the girl who I think is the one for about half a year now and when I first started pursuing her it wasn't easy and I pretty much did the exact opposite of everything he says to do in these videos. However, I would assert my dominance when talking to her. Even in the beginning, I would never ask her to call me, I'd just tell her to and she'd say something like "can't I'm going to bed" and I'd reply to her with "call me anyway" and she would. Then once I got her on the phone it all came down to my conversation skills and if I could keep her entertained. Then, out of nowhere she started to ignore me and reply late and I thought she might have come across someone she thought was better and to be honest, I never walked away. I kept trying. In the end I got her to fall for me and within a month of us talking she ended up asking me to be hers before I ever asked for her to be mine. She's now my current gf and when we talk about how we ended up together, she says she liked how persistent I was and she was pretty much testing me to see if I would give up or not. So I'm no expert, but my personal advice is that if you don't really know the girl then yea go with what this guy says but if you're in a situation like I was where me and my girl had mutual friends and knew each other a little bit, then just go with your best judgement. I personally decided to be persistent because I would find myself always thinking about her and getting jealous whenever she was around other guys and feeling a way I never previously felt about any other girl so I knew I had to have her.
I guess it's fine to be persistent, as long as it's not in a needy/desperate way. More like a "hey I know you're gonna be mine eventually anyway" kind of persistent :) This is how I got together with my gf of the past 8 years. But sadly I messed up along the way and now it's all but over (though to be fair it wasnt just my fault of course). But glad I found Coach Corey Wayne to show me where I went wrong, even though in my case I think it's too late to fix it.
you probably came across a decent woman who isnt brainwashed into this feminist nonsense. They exist but they are rare. You would have a better chance of getting struck by lightning than find a woman who isnt a toxic thot; a low status female who sucks you dry and bleeds your revenue stream to the point of bankruptcy. Lol
if you can fake the alpha, you’re a real alpha at least in the short-term. Doesn’t matter at all when it comes to the tingles. night stands and short flings beat no intimacy at all
His main advice is to not be feminine and talk about the relationship, just have fun, hang out and hook up. I'm just wondering how this is done with telling a girl that you are not interested in just being friends as that means you are saying you want a relationship.
Guys please understand that your energy level has a HUGE impact on your alpha qualities. If your dieting like I've been dieting for over a year it's had a devastating effect on my alpha nature because my calories are so low. I have very little energy and it's almost destroyed my marriage. I'm just so physically weak that it's basically hurting every part of my life. My wife sees me as a weakling and our relationship is in the toilet. So learn from my mistake and eat enough calories to give you the energy to be a real man.
I met a beta mail and wanted just friendship. He agreed then after 3 dates i started to feel attracted to him; he is nice, kind and funny. So we've been dating 10 weeks and he's put me on this huge pedestal which is great except he keeps pulling away because he dosen't feel good enough. I think he's great and was hoping we had a future. Do i reluctantly walk away or suggest he's gets some help with his self esteem? maybe suggest he watches your videos?
My ex, we both like each other a lot. Had a nasty argument about a month ago (she went cold on me) and i told her to reach out to me when she wants to talk! How do i maintain No Contact when we have same classes together? I have done 1 month of NC so far and university is about to start and i have 2 same classes with her! i cant drop/change those classes since i need them to graduate!
That's perfect. Just have fun and make connections and she'll make herself available. Don't be weird about the fact that she's there. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, and if she's taking herself off your radar then oh well her loss right?
In this one video alone I have become aware of the alpha-beta internal struggle in my own life. When I was dating my girlfriend (later my wife then.....ex-wife), I definitely acted mostly alpha with a little uncertainty about our relationship. One memory sticks out when I went to leave her apartment and she walked me outside her door for a good night kiss. We leaned in and I TOTALLY CHICKENED OUT, like a freaking pussy! She laughed, I laughed, then died a lot inside, but after that moment we continued to call and text each other and stayed together for over 12 years of marriage. Towards the end, I was very stressed and she was very withdrawn from the marriage siting that I was too mean and hateful, and while that is not false she was also mean and hateful and that led to our eventual divorce.... It sucks because I tried to rush into things, she was totally into me and boosted my confidence tremendously, but that rushing I did caused me to put blinders on to red flags that I did not allow myself to realize in the beginning relationship! She was and still is an absolute P.I.G......emphasis on the P.I.G.! Absolute filthy pig, did not clean up after herself nor the kids and I was stuck with it, which was too much for me to handle! I urge all men to evaluate their relationships before they jump into bed with any woman and make DAMN SURE they are with the right woman for them! Take you time, there's no rush at all!
I noticed the guy was being overly aggressive in his stance..which is normal if he just read your book Corey...I know myself I've done the same thing, but I've learned to tone it down abit
I don't know what happened, I've turned into a beta male. I used to fight in the ring, now I'm older and cant, got addicted to drugs, about to lose my wife and I realized, I've been a bitch. Begging, pleading, making promises. No more, I let the drugs turn me into a bitch. My alpha was just sleeping, time to wake his ass up...
What about women who seem to enjoy turning Alphas into Betas. You're describing women who test you a little, make sure you're Alpha, and then comply. But what about those who make efforts to break you?
Those women are narcissists and dominant, get pleasure from seeing a strong man come down in front of her, makes her ego go through the roof! Just stand up and walk away, if that means being labeled weak or a p*ssy fine deep down alphas don't let words affect them!
I'm an alpha male, not a beta male. However, because I'm stuck in a _very_ beta male looking body I necessarily haven't the luxury of operating as the very alpha male that I am. But don't misunderstand me: the fact that I'm not operating as an alpha male doesn't mean that I'm necessarily operating as a beta male. I'm just operating as a male that necessarily would be operating as an alpha male if he had the luxury of doing so. Is the body of the average alpha male larger than the body of the average male? I don't know. But, I think it's a safe bet that the body of the average alpha male isn't smaller than the body of the average male. Unfortunately (for me) my body _is_ smaller than the body of the average male. It isn't nearly of average height. It isn't nearly of average muscle mass. It isn't nearly of average physical strength. Suffice it to say, it's because I'm stuck with _this_ body that I haven't the luxury of operating as the very alpha male that I am. And so I don't try to. If I were to ever try to I wouldn't get very far in being taken seriously by either another male or a female. This is how existentially absurd reality can get for someone like me. NATURE IS THE ULTIMATE BITCH. .
I always love leading never liked following behind anyone. Leaders lead in whatever position they are. I had a supervisor tell me at work thank you for being a leader today because my job is not easy but I don't complain and get the job done. He is so right about Captain of the football team i have always been in sports competing. This is natural Alpha Male is like the Lion among sheep.
Sometimes I don't think the numbers add up. I mean, if only 3% of the population is alpha, the other 97% is beta and most of the men are acting like pleases. Then who are all these great options that this girl has?!
Yes, at least walk her to the door, even if you don't go in for the kiss. Afterall, you're not dropping a carpool buddy off at his house after work. With a kiss attempt, you'll at least get a better idea of her level of interest. James Bond isn't going to drop her off at the curb, then go home and stay up half the night wondering where he stands.
At what age did you stop being beta ? Just wondering I know it’s never too late especially for a man whom prime is late in life. I am 20 and I learned it the hard way. Thanks Corey !
Great Content Thank You Corey Don't overth Fail is the precursor to succ Mk it happ Attit Don't over pursue U r enuff Fun U r not chasing Attract Settone, cert Dun break prom Num game
Ok, now you are not coursing any more, I forgive you :). The previous video was, uhhh, to much coursing. And you are sooooooooooooooooooo right man. Yesss, strong woman is in masculin energy a lot at work, we need to get back in the feminin energy eventually, putting a face mask, anti aging cream, eye cream etc, LOL Finally a guy who GETS IT !!!! GUYS, KEEP WATCHING AND LEARN !!!! :)
Correct me if Im wrong but from my observation, you cant just morph into an alpha male. You were either born one or ur not. Maybe you could embark on a journey to becoming one and you might eventually become one. Commitment is key.
But an alpha male can become a beta male anytime he wants if he views the situation as not important.. But if you put a female that he views as worthy in that situation then he will show her he is the alpha male and we all know the alpha male gets the girl and the girl loves the attention the alpha male shows her...
I'll be damned. Looking at it through this perspective it really is like fishing. Use finesse but don't fuck around with it being too gentle cause that fish will slip off the hook everytime....Unless it's a poor sickly fish that will just reel on in
Hi good vidéo...I am a man with the Alpha temperament that became Sigma because I live according to my own rules, I had a difficult life, I changed and I became very dominant, most dominant than ALPHA..., in my own opinion ALPHA is already registered in the manner of to be, we are from birth and one day we assume ...
When you become a man. A alpha male, when you truly and deeply stop giving a shit. You go to your boss and tell him you want that new position and why you qualify and he/she chooses someone else. Shrug it off and go some where else. A woman tells you lets be friends, you tell her no, you like her and want to be with her romantically and walk away. Do not contact her, stop giving a shit and go after what you want.
Why would alphas get a job working for someone else? There is only one position for an alpha at a company. It is always best for you to let me run things.
I think the biggest difference between an Alpha male and a Beta male is the attitude . Alpha male just think differently than Beta male . I also think that Alpha male don't pursue women , he attracts women because of the person he becomes .
+cybercity1984 yep
Precise! The numbers are in our favor as real men.
+cybercity1984 men dont need women, women need men
that whole "behind every great man is a great woman?" complete hogwash, men become successful whether they have a woman or not
Ice Sledge Exactly! Self made men are just that. ... self made
+Natacus Maximus feels good being the 3 percent doesn't it
A alpha male attracts women, a beta male chases women...
I had a taken lady tell me that she wishes that i pursued her
@The Poetic Mike Tyson if the job you want isnt given to you because they say its not right for you??
@@gabrialblast2007 l know that's right bro. Tell him!
I disagree. If you see a woman you want then go after her. It's all about how you do it. I like to keep it simple. Tell them what I'm looking for up front and that I'm not the type you can friend zone so if she's not interested then..bye. Nobody's time is wasted and it's on to the next.
Even taken women lost interest in me because of the texting buddy nonsense
Hey Corey, I'm 63 and spent 33 of those years married; I grew up with with a father that was a Beta; so I never learned how to be an Alpha. After my divorce, and without a real relationship for the better part of 33 years, I acted so needy that every relationship I was in started out Alpha like but always lead to Beta and then the end of the relationship.
I can't tell you how much, you helped me see that I was the problem in every relationship I was in and that was many. I'm very Alpha when I am setting things up for dates and such, but a few dates and I am Beta whipped and so not Alpha. But, I am doing much better now thanks to you helping me to see the real problems is my own lack of stable Alpha tendencies.
I may be 63 but it hasn't done anything to stop me. Me and my gal are buying a rv and going traveling for the rest of our lives. I have taken a Alpha roll and she loves it that I am the man in charge. Without crossing the thin line between being Alpha and Asshole. Keep up the great work.
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@@patriotliberty3070 Thank you!
Great man.... Keep up the good work 👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌thankz for sharing
“Choose discomfort over resentment”
walking away is alpha- if you're not ok being friendzoned then walk away.
beta gets caught up in paralysis of analysis
Alpha's understand that failure's and overcoming them is a part of life.
he liked the girl too much so he started compromising his goals and values.
he didn't stand up for himself and what he wanted and it turned her off.
you need to be centered and sure of yourself so she can be comfortable and more in her feminine.
masculine energy is all about purpose, drive and succeeding.
feminine energy is about opening up, receiving, being submissive.
when a woman reaches out, assume she wants to see you and make a date.
at the end of the date go for the kiss
maybe walk her to her door and kiss her.
Corey, I wish you made these videos 20 years ago lol it would have saved me a lot of heartache and frustration. Every one of your vids has helped me out tremendously. I lost my father to cancer when I was just 19, so I didnt have a male role model in my life to teach me the things that I am now learning from you. Keep up the amazing work brother!
Yo it woulda been on VHS 20yrs ago lol
12:35 "Women HAVE TO HAVE some way of screening out the less dominant or the non-dominant males from the dominant ones." This helps a man come to terms and sympathise with the reasons a woman tests. Corey, you are inspired by the creator.
i literally banged my headon the table...where have u been man!!!
omg I LOVE this video.
i started crying when you said that she needs a man who is a leader, confident enough so SHE WILL feel safe and be able to let go. i am a very driven woman, but at the same time very feminine and love my femininity.
In my previous relationship i always felt like I wanted to let go but could never trust that he would play his masculine role. I kind of felt like I was the one solving all the problems and I tried to have him solve stuff but he never could.
its really stressful for a woman to be with a man that is not emotionally inteligent.
it really sucks our energy. he didnt even understand his role as a man in bed because he didnt even know that woman need different things to be ready for sex.
sorry unloading UAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
PeaceExtreme what does this advise has to do with ne unloading??
unloading is healhty. I learned something from the video. I do not see the problem in doing so.
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Mary AannaA it's written anywhere that women need "other things" before sex. I learned that crap the hard way. Women need kissing and touching to warm up and to get exited while man only needs to see a woman naked. Your man was a man. You learn that crap because neither male friends or women themselves tell what they want..women are good at complaining about what they don't like instead of communicating what they like..
Mary AannaA it's written anywhere that women need "other things" before sex. I learned that crap the hard way. Women need kissing and touching to warm up and to get exited while man only needs to see a woman naked. Your man was a man. You learn that crap because neither male friends or women themselves tell what they want..women are good at complaining about what they don't like instead of communicating what they like..
I’ve seen this too where the woman can’t let go and allow a man to lead because his decisions don’t meet her expectations. so she makes the general assumption that he can’t make any decisions, meaning his decisions don’t meet your expectations
Its soo hard to get the girl that comes along once every 3-5 years. She destroys you without having to do anything
don't let anyone 'destroy you', keep walking your path.
A thought came to my head. What if I use Corey’s face as wallpaper as a reminder to man up everytime I feel like I’m being a beta male.
I have his voice in my head everytime i do something lazy.
Probably saying "come on man!" ;)
Maybe not as your pfp. People might think that's you.
Until your date sees another man's face as your phone wallpaper. Good luck explaining that lol
This must be the guy who had coreys face over his bed in another video xD
Saturday Morning, black coffee, end of a relationship, Tennis in One hour....feeling happy and just enjoying this video.After Marriage , 20 years, 3 wonderful Kids it's seems painfully obvious that trying to meet as many people as possible helps. Letting go of someone too when it becomes hard work. I remember how effortless it was when I met my first wife. Very much in love at the time and I asked NO questions about who , what and why?I wonder if the arrival of smartphones has changed this. A recent failure in a relationship I feel had a lot to do with WhatsApp! Leaving any woman define your relationship via this way of communicating can and will turn any Alpha (good guy) into a miserable wreck. Looking forward to someone new in my life and trial and error is part of the game. Enjoyed the book very much.
You have a good point about the problem with smart phones. The instant availability to contact people cheapens the value of real human connection. It makes relationships more disposable because you can just replace someone very easily at the push of a button. I hope you have moved on to a much better place.
This 3% paradigm is becoming so addictive. I'm just studying it a for a few days, it takes some work, but somehow, I'm sure I'll get there.
I know what it's like being a beta basically I grew in an unstable family my dad was a weekend dad and very stoic mom a workaholic and my grandma used to be abusive when she was not drunk. I met this chick and I let her walk all over me until I finally stood up and left. Rather than crying about my past I'm doing my best to improve. Thanks for the help coach you don't know how much this means.
11:23 - Bahahaha-yes. "Hey! The fun bus is going This way! Give me a call if you change your mind!!" Bahahahahaha-yes. Corey W, sir - You are awesome. Thanks for all the videos.
Just because she reached back out to him doesn’t mean she was really interested. She was probably bored and wanted attention.
She can get tons of attention from anyone she wants. She chose u! Hence it is important to keep it playful n fun until she falls in love.
Alphas are not only confident, they are also dominant, intimidating leaders.
Not exacly. It would be Assertive rather than Agressive
I’d replace the word “intimidating” with “inspiring” or “influential”. I’d say there’s a time and a place for everything but intimidating people into following is a weak strategy for a group or a lifestyle in the long run.
3:30 What to say to get a position you want
4:45 alpha vs beta males
Mr Wayne on my 2nd read of your book and have been checking out your videos, have applied your information and i must say you are 100% correct in the things you say about dating and women also about how this can effect other area's of a mans life as well. Getting started on my 3rd read now and yes each time i read it i discover things that i had been doing wrong, this book has been a Godsend so thanks for your work and i am sure the best is yet to come.
My best sexual experiences with women was when I took charge and assumed the Alpha role... since by nature I'm Beta it was a I opening experience. I don't agree everything in this video but take what you can use and discard the rest... thanks for some great free content
I do find it challenging to "assume the alpha role" since I guess by nature I'm more beta as well (can't really help how we are made). I do feel like I'm starting to be more aware of how I behave but still. Got any good tips you picked up that helped you make changes?
lol I thought this guy was Lance Armstrong!!
Lmaooooo 😂😂😂😂
I cant unsee this lmfao
Probably the best example using the info from you book!
Awesome advice. Thanks coach. I'm a little tired these days. College is almost over. Time to relax a bit.
Damn, I don't remember ever emailing Coach Corey Wayne. Oh wait, I didn't. His shit is universal and works wonders for everyone. Fuckin' A, man.
This girl was a waste of his time and she had no real interest in him, surely during the date, he would have picked up on some signals but I don't think she ever gave him the vibe there was any romantic and sexual attraction there. It's like Corey says, "when women really like you, they help you". I would have left it at I had a nice time, take care, keep in touch and I would have moved on after that and I have in the past when the girl was boring on a date, they never heard from me again!
John Carpenter The guy begin to have a take it or leave it attitude and that was what he did right but he didn't blow anything cause the girl never had any real attraction or interest in him sustainable enough for him to get out of the friend zone. She basically threw him a bone with no meat on it and it wound up just being a courtesy date.
Rock N nonsense
Coach Corey Wayne Corey, you say it yourself, "attraction is not a choice", nothing in his email indicated she gave him any romantic signs, plus she friend zoned him from the beginning. At 14:40 on the date she tells him, she had a great time in a "friendly, fun sorta way". Maybe she was giving him a shit test and he failed, but yeah, he could have been more aggressive and direct and see how she responded.
Ricardo Oliveira Yeah I think she was shit testing him a bit and he got hesitant and didn't go for what he wanted which is what an alpha male does but along in the date, he needs to be evaluating the flow of it, what her mood is like, is she laughing and possibly touching his arm in playful like ways. Women give off these subtle hints when there's chemistry.We don't know how or what he was like on the date either, was he tense, uncomfortable? Sometimes on these first dates it's an awkward situation cause your out with a person you barely know. I have been on first dates with girls and towards the end, I just went for the kiss and they responded by complying with me, that's what he should have done.
Ricardo Oliveira I have just went for the kiss before and the girl responded back positively by kissing me also, so he should have just kissed her but like you said, he's learning and that will help him next time. Most of these guys haven't been in those situations enough like I had early in my life as well and I was hesitant and shy, but if you just step up to the plate and go for it, some of these women will respond to your strength as long as your not too aggressive and it could have been that maybe he lost her all because he wasn't sure of himself and just went for it.
I did GREATEST mistakes with this Girl who when we met her on the first day want me to come with her to her hostel and requested me and guess what later I screwed so hard that She just said she was busy even if she is not when ever I watch your videos brother I just know where exactly I screwed up PERSUING is the J9b of women we just stay focussed on our mission Again Thanks alot for being our coach
Corey, you're kind of like the Tom Cruise "Seduce and Destroy" character from Magnolia except coming from a way healthier place, less more well-reasoned and not hateful. He's your fictitious arch nemesis, I'm pretty sure.
Sometimes, and I'm speaking from personal experience, holding out is nearly impossible because you sometimes come across a girl that you know in your heart is different and that you just can't stay away from. I don't wanna sound corny but sometimes you come across "the one". I've been with the girl who I think is the one for about half a year now and when I first started pursuing her it wasn't easy and I pretty much did the exact opposite of everything he says to do in these videos. However, I would assert my dominance when talking to her. Even in the beginning, I would never ask her to call me, I'd just tell her to and she'd say something like "can't I'm going to bed" and I'd reply to her with "call me anyway" and she would. Then once I got her on the phone it all came down to my conversation skills and if I could keep her entertained. Then, out of nowhere she started to ignore me and reply late and I thought she might have come across someone she thought was better and to be honest, I never walked away. I kept trying. In the end I got her to fall for me and within a month of us talking she ended up asking me to be hers before I ever asked for her to be mine. She's now my current gf and when we talk about how we ended up together, she says she liked how persistent I was and she was pretty much testing me to see if I would give up or not. So I'm no expert, but my personal advice is that if you don't really know the girl then yea go with what this guy says but if you're in a situation like I was where me and my girl had mutual friends and knew each other a little bit, then just go with your best judgement. I personally decided to be persistent because I would find myself always thinking about her and getting jealous whenever she was around other guys and feeling a way I never previously felt about any other girl so I knew I had to have her.
I guess it's fine to be persistent, as long as it's not in a needy/desperate way. More like a "hey I know you're gonna be mine eventually anyway" kind of persistent :) This is how I got together with my gf of the past 8 years. But sadly I messed up along the way and now it's all but over (though to be fair it wasnt just my fault of course). But glad I found Coach Corey Wayne to show me where I went wrong, even though in my case I think it's too late to fix it.
you probably came across a decent woman who isnt brainwashed into this feminist nonsense. They exist but they are rare. You would have a better chance of getting struck by lightning than find a woman who isnt a toxic thot; a low status female who sucks you dry and bleeds your revenue stream to the point of bankruptcy. Lol
if you can fake the alpha, you’re a real alpha at least in the short-term. Doesn’t matter at all when it comes to the tingles. night stands and short flings beat no intimacy at all
Trying to learn how to become 3% but I am also only 20, so I have some learning
His main advice is to not be feminine and talk about the relationship, just have fun, hang out and hook up. I'm just wondering how this is done with telling a girl that you are not interested in just being friends as that means you are saying you want a relationship.
This truth is surprisingly scary. You have to beat everyone other guy.
This was one of your best video's, Corey .. 👍💪🤙
Your advice is simple yet effective
I'm so glad I found this channel, it's awesome !!!
Guys please understand that your energy level has a HUGE impact on your alpha qualities. If your dieting like I've been dieting for over a year it's had a devastating effect on my alpha nature because my calories are so low. I have very little energy and it's almost destroyed my marriage. I'm just so physically weak that it's basically hurting every part of my life. My wife sees me as a weakling and our relationship is in the toilet. So learn from my mistake and eat enough calories to give you the energy to be a real man.
This is all from Doc Love , he adds to it, but it’s all from him originally
I met a beta mail and wanted just friendship. He agreed then after 3 dates i started to feel attracted to him; he is nice, kind and funny. So we've been dating 10 weeks and he's put me on this huge pedestal which is great except he keeps pulling away because he dosen't feel good enough. I think he's great and was hoping we had a future. Do i reluctantly walk away or suggest he's gets some help with his self esteem? maybe suggest he watches your videos?
You made him feel pretty fortunate
What if you go for the kiss at the end of the 1st date and she turns her head and says no
You make me laugh Corey , your style is entertaining
Thanks Coach. Top content
My ex, we both like each other a lot. Had a nasty argument about a month ago (she went cold on me) and i told her to reach out to me when she wants to talk! How do i maintain No Contact when we have same classes together? I have done 1 month of NC so far and university is about to start and i have 2 same classes with her! i cant drop/change those classes since i need them to graduate!
That's perfect. Just have fun and make connections and she'll make herself available. Don't be weird about the fact that she's there. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, and if she's taking herself off your radar then oh well her loss right?
13:00 -- OOOOO take me to prom ! LOL
In this one video alone I have become aware of the alpha-beta internal struggle in my own life. When I was dating my girlfriend (later my wife then.....ex-wife), I definitely acted mostly alpha with a little uncertainty about our relationship. One memory sticks out when I went to leave her apartment and she walked me outside her door for a good night kiss. We leaned in and I TOTALLY CHICKENED OUT, like a freaking pussy! She laughed, I laughed, then died a lot inside, but after that moment we continued to call and text each other and stayed together for over 12 years of marriage. Towards the end, I was very stressed and she was very withdrawn from the marriage siting that I was too mean and hateful, and while that is not false she was also mean and hateful and that led to our eventual divorce....
It sucks because I tried to rush into things, she was totally into me and boosted my confidence tremendously, but that rushing I did caused me to put blinders on to red flags that I did not allow myself to realize in the beginning relationship! She was and still is an absolute P.I.G......emphasis on the P.I.G.! Absolute filthy pig, did not clean up after herself nor the kids and I was stuck with it, which was too much for me to handle!
I urge all men to evaluate their relationships before they jump into bed with any woman and make DAMN SURE they are with the right woman for them! Take you time, there's no rush at all!
I noticed the guy was being overly aggressive in his stance..which is normal if he just read your book Corey...I know myself I've done the same thing, but I've learned to tone it down abit
The guy who wrote in is right. You should have an abundance mentality. Numbers are in guy's favor.
Thanks Coach Corey you are a big HELP
never text a girl when you are drunk or emotinal , you will just fuck it up. Dont try to fix every thing :)
I don't know what happened, I've turned into a beta male. I used to fight in the ring, now I'm older and cant, got addicted to drugs, about to lose my wife and I realized, I've been a bitch. Begging, pleading, making promises. No more, I let the drugs turn me into a bitch. My alpha was just sleeping, time to wake his ass up...
Amazing videos, thanks so much :D
What if I like myself as a beta male? Why should I change who I am so some girl likes the fake me?
Wow...he really fucked it up at the end of the day.
Great stuff - the way of the supriour man couldnt say it better my self
What about women who seem to enjoy turning Alphas into Betas. You're describing women who test you a little, make sure you're Alpha, and then comply. But what about those who make efforts to break you?
Those women are narcissists and dominant, get pleasure from seeing a strong man come down in front of her, makes her ego go through the roof! Just stand up and walk away, if that means being labeled weak or a p*ssy fine deep down alphas don't let words affect them!
I'm an alpha male, not a beta male. However, because I'm stuck in a _very_ beta male looking body I necessarily haven't the luxury of operating as the very alpha male that I am. But don't misunderstand me: the fact that I'm not operating as an alpha male doesn't mean that I'm necessarily operating as a beta male. I'm just operating as a male that necessarily would be operating as an alpha male if he had the luxury of doing so.
Is the body of the average alpha male larger than the body of the average male? I don't know. But, I think it's a safe bet that the body of the average alpha male isn't smaller than the body of the average male. Unfortunately (for me) my body _is_ smaller than the body of the average male. It isn't nearly of average height. It isn't nearly of average muscle mass. It isn't nearly of average physical strength. Suffice it to say, it's because I'm stuck with _this_ body that I haven't the luxury of operating as the very alpha male that I am. And so I don't try to. If I were to ever try to I wouldn't get very far in being taken seriously by either another male or a female.
This is how existentially absurd reality can get for someone like me.
NATURE IS THE ULTIMATE BITCH.
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I have a lot struggling with women where can I buy you book
I always love leading never liked following behind anyone. Leaders lead in whatever position they are. I had a supervisor tell me at work thank you for being a leader today because my job is not easy but I don't complain and get the job done. He is so right about Captain of the football team i have always been in sports competing. This is natural Alpha Male is like the Lion among sheep.
You are Amazing Brotha!!!! Coach CoreyWayne
Sometimes I don't think the numbers add up. I mean, if only 3% of the population is alpha, the other 97% is beta and most of the men are acting like pleases. Then who are all these great options that this girl has?!
Yes, at least walk her to the door, even if you don't go in for the kiss. Afterall, you're not dropping a carpool buddy off at his house after work.
With a kiss attempt, you'll at least get a better idea of her level of interest.
James Bond isn't going to drop her off at the curb, then go home and stay up half the night wondering where he stands.
Man i keep fucking up this practice is brutal man. Everytime i leave i realize I've made at least 1 mistake it's crazy. Gotta power through. lol
At what age did you stop being beta ? Just wondering I know it’s never too late especially for a man whom prime is late in life. I am 20 and I learned it the hard way. Thanks Corey !
29, right now 😂 stopped being a beta a few weeks ago.
@@thewanderingartists I'm 29 also and I'm no longer a beta male
“Fumbled the football”? Brah if he used that dry lip line you suggested that would have been the ultimate corniest fumble! 🤦♂️
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Don't overth
Fail is the precursor to succ
Mk it happ
Attit
Don't over pursue
U r enuff
Fun
U r not chasing
Attract
Settone, cert
Dun break prom
Num game
Ok, now you are not coursing any more, I forgive you :). The previous video was, uhhh, to much coursing. And you are sooooooooooooooooooo right man. Yesss, strong woman is in masculin energy a lot at work, we need to get back in the feminin energy eventually, putting a face mask, anti aging cream, eye cream etc, LOL Finally a guy who GETS IT !!!!
GUYS, KEEP WATCHING AND LEARN !!!! :)
Cursing* ?
Man always good information coach 😎
Correct me if Im wrong but from my observation, you cant just morph into an alpha male. You were either born one or ur not.
Maybe you could embark on a journey to becoming one and you might eventually become one. Commitment is key.
Its a choice to improve. So yeah everyone AND i mean everyone can become Alpha
But an alpha male can become a beta male anytime he wants if he views the situation as not important.. But if you put a female that he views as worthy in that situation then he will show her he is the alpha male and we all know the alpha male gets the girl and the girl loves the attention the alpha male shows her...
This doesnt work with black chicks
Works with everyone
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@Tommy Gun black girls don't give AF about these games
@@redvelvet757 true
Nonesense
What’s the name of the book please?
always do what makes you happy fo sho man!
I'll be damned. Looking at it through this perspective it really is like fishing. Use finesse but don't fuck around with it being too gentle cause that fish will slip off the hook everytime....Unless it's a poor sickly fish that will just reel on in
This is gold!
I lost it at "Away with you peasant" hahaha!!
The most important lesson is at 13:15
If someone denies when I propose thongs and they reconsider I would not let them do it after the invitation
Take this medicine men he's speaking the real
Coreys old videos are the best until YT put him in jail haha
My biggest problem with CCW "go for the kiss" is "sexual harassment"....
Hi good vidéo...I am a man with the Alpha temperament that became Sigma because I live according to my own rules, I had a difficult life, I changed and I became very dominant, most dominant than ALPHA..., in my own opinion ALPHA is already registered in the manner of to be, we are from birth and one day we assume ...
Ooo take me to the prom hahahaha 😄😄
16:15 Don't tell; SHOW.
So you are saying to go for a kiss on the first meeting? Lets say if she is a totally new wome thaf i dont have history with
i will not give in
This guy is fucking amazing, Awesome work dude
Due to a lack of free will, we can't change who we are.
but who we are can still be changed without free will :)
When you become a man. A alpha male, when you truly and deeply stop giving a shit. You go to your boss and tell him you want that new position and why you qualify and he/she chooses someone else. Shrug it off and go some where else. A woman tells you lets be friends, you tell her no, you like her and want to be with her romantically and walk away. Do not contact her, stop giving a shit and go after what you want.
you are awesome!
soooo busy! love that lol
You get way off topic,
f'in awesome!!
Dude you're saving my fucking life
If I had a quarter for how many times I’ve fucked up, acted like gd BETA, I’d be filthy rich. What you didn’t know then, what you know now.
Why would alphas get a job working for someone else? There is only one position for an alpha at a company. It is always best for you to let me run things.
Your right
Killer truth
I was that Beta
Alpha males don’t try to be alpha males.
alpha beta bullcrap doesnt exist
No
Thumbs up!!
You can’t even keep my attention yet you’re giving advice on being an alpha male. I say you’re not what you preach