You can tell that poor guy is so devastated. She has crushed this poor man’s soul. The guy is crying and she doesn’t even comfort him?!? The guy is a saint.
John Carter, how can you call her a narcissist when she has repented. She is very remorseful. A true narcissist is Not remorseful. They gaslight you, blame you, accuse you of their sin. Clearly she has turned away from her sin and ask Bob to forgive her. He did. Look us narcissist, it’s completely different from this.
She could have been a little more sensitive in talking about the affair. I can see his distress when she started describing the buildup between her and the guy - a little touch, etc. She seemed to have revisited the moments right in front of him.
She has it sealed in her memory as a joyful pleasures moment. She just didn’t like the feeling of guilt or the consequences. Remember, they never regret what happened, just the aftermath.
I believe he has forgiven, but just hasn't forgotten. As humans we're not created to forget, only God can do that, and reason we need to remember is to know how far we've come, to remember the lesson taught in the particular situation, and for it to not happen again. And yes obviously it still does hurt him. May God comfort him and restore any breach they have within the Marriage.
Spot on Raptor. I was sitting in Bob's chair 10 years ago. Not quite the same as him, my wife never confessed before being caught, and it was multiple affairs over many years. But the emotions, raw and sensitive years later are the same. Forgive maybe, forget never. A decade on the other side, a few truths become revealed... Reconcile or Divorce, you are forever changed. There are 2 types in the world, those that can cheat those that can't. Trust No-One.
“We don’t have any secrets anymore. We trust each other”. No dear. You trust him he does not trust you. You betrayed him in the worst way and had a child from another man that he now raises. He is reminded of your infidelity every time he looks at your son. Yes he is capable of forgiving and even still loving you but the trust you once had is forever gone.
@Iakovos your comment just reflects how broken and weak you are. The strength this man Bob has to forgive his wife after adultery speaks to the power of God. You could learn something from this story rather than judging another man's heart.
@@iamkimbap1 I don't agree with this either. He might have noticed the kid looks nothing like him. DNA would verify the infidelity. Lying is generally not a good idea.
@@mljrotag6343 how do you know they lied? If this video is on the internet do you really think the son doesn’t know the truth? Cmon now try to think a little
If Bob impregnated a teenage girl, Audrey would’ve left him, taken the kids they had together, taken alimony and child support….and the church would’ve rallied around her and talked about how strong she is for leaving and how she deserves better.
So she had an affair and got pregnant by the other man and her husband wanted to keep this child. I don't know if he's the most forgiving man or the most naive.
Nahh...... he simply has the Love of God not all Christians are like him. By that I don't mean he is dumb. He doesn't lack of wisdom, but from the abundance of his heart speaketh the mouth. Very rare to see these last days. If it wasn't for that connection with the Lord? She would have been history. I don't know what to think anymore :/
I wish this was the outcome of my ex-wife affair she had with a christian man. Thank you Bob for showing the world what true forgiveness should look like. My ex-wife got pregnant as well, but she choose to end things and not come back to Christ with me. I was willing but she wasn't. It hurt like no other, but over time my wounds did heal and I got re-married.
@@nickc3856 thanks for the comment, but I must say you should grow and mature. What purpose do you have calling someone a simp? from my perspective you lack a few things in your life.
Aah man this hurts so bad so so selfish of her the biological father will step in one day then how will poor Bob feel like it's happening all over again I would have dumped her and it will not be a Sinn
This is absolutely heart wrenching... I pray that I never ever have to experience this type of betrayal and pain. You can tell that he is still hurting and dealing with the betrayal., and then to name the baby after himself.. wow just wow.. God bless them and their family 🙌🏾
I'm sorry but unless Jesus tells me directly to stay with a person after they have an affair, I'm done. Won't consider staying with that person. Poor Bob.
Cody ... It is your choice, of course. But WE sin against our Holy God EVERY DAY!! We put other things before Him, and the Bible teaches that that is exactly like having an affair against our spouse, and yet if we Repent, God welcomes us with open arms!
What are you talking about? Read the bible. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder. That's not enough? How about Luke 16:18? you need Jesus' audible voice? GOD will never contradict himself. And if you were to hear Jesus tell you to divorce your wife, maybe you should start wondering was it even Jesus who said that.
God got a divorce. It's in Jeremiah. Follow Jesus and don't listen to haters who try to replace him with tradition and one-size fits all dogma. You are his son first
Strong? The guy is weak. He is terrified of what the church would say, terrified of being seen as a failure by Jesus for a divorce, you can tell he still isn’t over it, the wife basically mocks him with her description of her affair it practically brings him down to tears, and he basically gave the worst life lessons to his sons and daughter. Sons, you must forgive poor behavior even the ultimate betrayal because Jesus is watching. My daughter, you can commit the ultimate betrayal and your husband must forgive you or else he isn’t a man of God. Those are the lessons his children have taken from this.
I get mad when people saying god forgave me destroying another persons life and self respect. So by using god as a wild card. It will happen again, and again, and so on.
Please don't act as if you are any better by that statement you made. Maybe it's true but not needed. Even if you haven't done that specifically. There are things she would be morally better at than you. Everyone has strength and weaknesses.
@@joshuamoore2341 well then I will talk for him coz I never cheated on my partner because I hate it so much. And yes... SHE IS NOT A GOOD WOMAN TALKING LIKE CHEERFULLY ABOUT CHEATING BESIDE HER HUSBAND!!!!!!! She is not devoted enough!!! May GOD give the husband strength to the eternity with this narcissistic wife. And to the wife... May GOD do whatever she deserves
@Anna Paula but at least thought can be changed in the future but act is always written in life history. Like once someone did adultery, that someone will be labeled as adulterer for his life even he/she already begged for forgiveness
Not necessarily. Peter was convinced he’d die for Jesus and was probably surprised by his own denial and betrayal. We ought to pray to not fall to temptation and not succumb to the trial
I really believe we should thank God for helping us go through such tough times BUT through this whole video, not even once had she thanked her husband for having such kind of strength. We always blame sin, and the devil for causing it, but the biggest battle is not with the devil, it's with your own soul first.
As much as I admire his forgiveness, this was not something you can just forget about. She has killed him inside for life. That boy will always be a reminder of his wife’s worst action. The devil didn’t make her do it, she wanted to do it, the devil just whispered in her ears. How hard is it not cheat on man you’re married to who is also a pastor and the father of your child??? The devil cannot make you do anything, and she makes it sound like it’s not her fault. I admire this man, so much, as a Muslim. But I know there’s a story behind every action, and you never know why it happened to him, or why she had to commit this sin. God is all knowing!
Still dealing with Forgiveness part now a year after confession of multiple affairs. The hurt, the images, the attacks are intense and persistence as there does not seem to be any repentance, ONLY confession!
Amazing story. He portrayed Jesus so well and she walks as a forgiven individual, as does anyone who has sinned and repented. So easy to judge and condemn others, it's another thing to walk out Matthew 6:14-15. Well done guys.
This man Bob is a true example of God. He reminds me of Hosea. I'm sure behind closed doors it has been tense and painful. The arguing, the silence, the weeping. The root of sexual sin is most times anger and resentment. The role of a pastor is thankless, exhausting, wearisome and anticlimactic. Maybe he was pouring himself into the ministry more so than his marriage and maybe his love toward her was absent. Who can say. But they stood on the word of God. All I can say is their God is my God too and I bless them all the days of their life.
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot No, you're missing the whole point of the story. You're living in the carnality of the flesh, of a person who has no strength, no faith, no power in God. If you are led by anger and self righteous judgment your reward is a cup of poison my boy. If they had divorced it would have wrecked their children's lives as well their lives and maybe even the lives of the church assembly. This couple reconciled. I'm sure it was the hardest thing they had to do but this is a victory. The devil wants to destroy marriages and families but that didn't happen here. The devil lost and a testimony of strength was authored by the hand of God.
@@Metatron141 this is so dumb I can't even... For your information I do not need the strength to tolerate immorality...that is called perversion...and its ironic that I, the one innocent of adultery is the one you are accusing of living "in the flesh"....the people who defend filth like this are the ones living carnally...they seek the tolerance of adultery. The devil did not lose, the devil won. Now everyone thinks that tolerating adulterers like this is what god wants, yet he wants the complete opposite, read his laws. The adulteress won, exactly how the devil wants it...she probably smiles to herself whenever she thinks about her adultery, but of course puts on the sad little face for pathetic morons like you who buy everything she says, typical adulterer/adulteress playbook. You are so dumb it is even so hard to explain. It is so obvious she is just stroking his ego and sucking up to make him feel better about his decision...its called manipulation...narcissists do it. Even I could do it if I wanted to. You are either pretending to be this dumb because you think doing so will let you get away with your sins, or you are just plain dumb. And before you quote any Pauline doctrine nonsense you should know to me Christianity is a false and perverse religion...Jesus did not set out to create a new religion called Christianity. Talking about how the devil has lost...lol. This has played out exactly how the devil wants it. She goes and opens her filthy legs for other men and the husband is of course perverted enough to be OK with it ans treat it as if it didn't happen. This is exactly what the devil wants...that is not a marriage...that is a corruption of marriage...a corruption so disgusting god demanded adulterers be put to death. Do you know what the devil wants? Adulterers getting away with it so much that adultery is even considered "normal"....there is more adultery and filth in the Christian churches in america alone than in the entirety of the U.A.E, Oman, Saudi Arabia and Egypt all put together. Dyu know why....coz of shyt like this. God didn't tell you to treat perversions as normalcy and defend the perverts, thats what the devil wants....do not accuse god of wanting the same
I’m sorry but there’s no way I would have stayed with her and I sure wouldn’t be raising the kid. You can forgive and divorce at the same time. That’s exactly what this guy should have done. You know that every time she steps out the door, it’s in the back of his mind and he’s still heartbroken. I couldn’t live like that.
@@Metatron141 read the entire verse please. The Bible calls us to use wisdom and discernment which is a more powerful form of judgment. The verse is depicting hypocrisy. Do not judge or you will be judged the same way. If I’m a cheater and I call out another person for cheating; I can expect to be called out for it as well. Also, it’s close to a form of Karma. I don’t know where people are specifically getting a “Don not judge” from. We are called to make wise judgments. What the Bible does say we cannot do is to condemn, which ironically a lot of people do.
@Douglas I stick to what I said. Honesty and loyalty is prime. Once lied to and betrayed to this extent, that person is nothing but sub-human trash to me.
His reactions to what she said is proof he should have left. He’s still broken by this. And then to raise an affair baby? His desire to stay in that marriage and put up with that humiliation is costing g him years of his life.
I read their book 'Marriage Undercover' before I got married and then, I gave it to my husband and he loved it! After hearing their testimony, it has brought many changes in my marriage and every single day, I choose to have God's covering over my marriage 💚
“Honey, you have to forgive me. Remember that book we read? It’s your job to forgive me, just ask God.” Here’s what you should know that this woman and many Christians alike fail to remember. YOU ARE A SINNER AND YOU ALWAYS WILL BE. The second temptation enters your mind, remember that you are a sinner and will fall. So many Christians jump on a false high horse thinking the little temptation nibble are not sins because since they accept Christ, they cannot sin. She committed adultery because she didn’t think her temptation nibbles were a big deal since you know she’s a Christian. The nibbles weren’t a big deal until it smacked her right in the face bringing her back down to earth where us sinners live. This guy isn’t over it, it looks like it happened yesterday. And the glow and bump she has when talking about her affair, she either loved it or loves mocking him with it. Remember, at the end of the day we are humans and no matter how hard you try to be righteous, all it take is a little step to fall. Don’t think that following Christ will magically make you pure and self righteous. Following Christ as he lived will be the hardest thing to do, yet will be very rewarding if done with humility and acceptance of what you are.
What a good lesson, basically wives are learning through this its okay to cheat on and get pregnant with another man's baby because the husband will forgive and take care of the child and take the wife bad. Stories like this only embolden bad behavior. She had no remorse nor tears, she's a soulless human being.
Their story has blessed me. I’m going through something similar. Forgiveness is definitely a process and I have to make a concerted effort to do it constantly. I’m trusting in the Lord.
My human response to this immediately was just sorrow for Bob and anger at Audrey.. there's still a bit of that, but I had to realize at the end of the video that Jesus truly CAN take the most damaging of sins and work in peoples lives that allow Him to intervene, this is a picture of JESUS, and that was His intention all along! Truly a miracle.
Yeah, a picture of Jesus. I think according to you he isn't pleased with his work of salvation. He still cries over what he did to obtain our forgiveness. Sorry. That is NOT the Jesus in the Bible, This man is one who has to force himself to forget his torture. That is NOT forgiveness. He is wasting his life on baggage that is slowing him down. He obviously is still tortured just at the mention of her betrayal, so he should have divorced her.
For a moment I was focused on the sin, than the miracle. Indeed Mr/Mrs, you've reminded me that marriage is not salvation and your testimony shows me just how much I shouldn't idolize the "marriage/perfect spouse". Your pain is real (Mr n Mrs) yet your video shows that sinner really hurts themselves more and we can only forgive/love them as our Lord Jesus forgives us and hope/encourage the one to forgive and love themself. Thank you both for your testimony and I will remember you in my prayers. Indeed no one is worthy to cast the first stone. Amazing Grace.
She still holds onto the excitement with the other guy. This is so tragic on so many levels. She would do it again if she’d had the chance. Gehenna is calling…
Poor Bob you should have left her, she played you she ended the affair because she got pregnant, Bob let me tell you something once a cheater always a cheater, it's you who is living on earth not God who is sitting in heaven, you are the one who is going to live with your cheater wife, whenever you look at her or her baby it always reminds you of your wife's infedility, you should have left her and married some one who truly loves you and want to live with you for rest of your lives
Bob, is showing the virtue of grace, just as God has extended grace to us undeservingly. He is a man that should be commended for expanding his heart and love so greatly, and beyond himself. And God is able to change hearts, so it’s also wrong to say his wife is always a cheater, God can heal the voids etc. that can lead people to make such bad choices if that person is surrendered to God. Pray for this family, don’t condemn. Anyone can throw stones.
The father was probably someone in his late teens or early twenties with plenty of hormones. (I hope to God that the AP wasn't a minor.) Hope she got tested for STDs. It's highly unusual to see the cheater and OP in a video. I'm sure they decided not to include a photo of the AP for privacy reasons. Falsifying the birth certificate with Bob as the father is a criminal offense, if Bob did sign it as such. Her indiscretions destroyed their marriage and she should have realized the consequences of her three-week roll in the hay. I really feel badly for Bob, but not for her.
This story is just a symptom of the decay most christian churches going though, if he would be serious about his values or at least be a real men, he would not stay with his cheating wife and even raise a child of the guy who fucked his wife.
Bob,If he were a real man, would have dumped her and shamed her before the world, Then divorce her and put her on the street penniless and destitute... Let God forgive her.
Once a cheater always a cheater. It would be difficult to trust her again wholly. And with a child...its so disgusting watching her talk. I cannot stand this kind of adultery especially those working in a ministry. He should move on with a much worthy woman, so that he could live in peace.
At 2:30 if that female was truly sorry... she'd be crying with him and on her knees in sympathy. But yet.. she's just looking at him like... ah that's a hard thing for you. Sorry y'all... but that woman is an unashamed adultness.
Gotta make a 2nd reply.... if that female was truly truly TRULY.... sorry she'd be showing it. Sorry but I just see a lack of empathy in her. Go to the 2:39 time mark and pause it. Do you see what I see? **IF my wife** did that and showed clear empathy for the situation and temptation of a young man. (I'm also tempted by younger females) ... I'd forgive her and it be "water under the bridge". However if MY WIFE acted like the female in this video... NO. I tell the world a truth... if I were in her situation.. I'd be on my knees begging for forgiveness and inconsolable about the pain I caused. And I'm 99.9% sure I'd not be putting it out on a YT video. To be honest... every time I'd look at her I'd be seeing a female who I could never trust again. For some reason... the spirit in me just says.... she's a leg spreading adultness.
I feel his pain. It must have took a lot to get back with her because my wife recently cheated on me and had a baby by another guy. So for you to even want to stick it out, good for you. It's horrible to hear unfaithfulness happening so much. It's disgusting. He seems he hasn't even recovered. She looks in so much better shape. I feel bad for him.
Galatians 5 [NIV] [vs: 16] So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. You Guys are so brave to talk about your story. Go forward die to your flesh daily, walk away from hypocrisy and walk in the Holy Spirit daily. The flesh will always make you look pack at the plow or sodom! The spirit gives life and makes you walk forward, for were the Spirit of the Lord is there is liberty!
WOULD SHE HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND IF SHE HADN'T BEEN PREGNANT? DID SHE KNOW THAT JUST FLIRTING SHE WAS CHEATING? SHE HURT HIM SO MUCH THAT THAT HE STILL CRIES, AFTER ALL, THIS TIME AND SHE DOESN'T SHOW ANY EMOTION. LIKE SOMEBODY SAID SHE GOT TO HAVE THE CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. SHE WAS CERTAINLY SELFISH, DID FOR 3 WEEKS WITHOUT ANY REGARD FOR HER HUSBAND AND THE GOD SHE CLAIMS TO BELIEVE IN. THE HUSBAND MIGHT HAVE FORGIVEN HER BUT I'M SURE BUT THAT SURE EVERY TIME HE LOOKS AT THAT CHILD AND HER, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY INTIMATE HE'LL SEE HER AND THAT GUY BEING INTIMATE. SHE SHOULD HAVE DIVORCED AND RAISE THAT INNOCENT CHILD WITH HER LOVER!! SHE MAY NOT HAVE A PHYSICAL REACTION FOR ANY OTHER GUY SHE'S ATTRACTED TO BUT WILL STILL HAVE AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR. COULDNT'D SHE AT LEAST USE A CONDOM OR ANY SUCH PROTECTION. DID SHE KNOW OF CONTRACTING AN STD?
Thank you so much for sharing your story and showing the raw emotion that comes with it (even after many years). My Husband and I separated 2 years ago, because he had an affair which resulted in a child. We have recently moved back in together and are trying to let God do is thing in healing our marriage to full restoration. Forgiveness is most definitely a process that you have to do over and over again. I still struggle to feel confident in my choice to say 'Yes' to my marriage, because I am afraid and sometimes I feel embarrassed about the past. I love my Husbands Daughter and I do hope to have a close relationship with her some day, but these early days are hard. Your story does give me HOPE. God Bless you.
This story has made me know that God is a loving God, to believe that God loves me, to believe that nothing is impossible, especially in regards to reconciliation regarding family issues. This is a depiction of God's love in my life, am touched. Bob is a good man. Audrey is blessed that the Lord's love surrounds her. Bob represents the Lord and Audrey His people. God's abundant love for His people. Isaiah 43... Do not fear, for I have redeemed you..When you pass through the waters 1 John 4:7-Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. I can't help but feel immense love of God, even when we think we are unworthy 'How deep the Father's love for us' . Thank you Audrey, for being of good courage and faith as any other married woman would have lied, or would have aborted to save her marriage and to please society and yet abortion is murder and murder is sin. We thank God for this wonderful man and woman of God. God bless you!
That man has the heart of Jesus. He does. I can very easily say this. But... I don't think it would be wrong if someone forgives but chooses to end the marriage because of unfaithfulness. Forgiving to the extent of giving another chance has great rewards in heaven. But I think it wouldn't be biblically wrong to forgive an walk away. Would it?
God definitely restores. There are some comments saying poor Bob. Which yes, this should never have happened, but God restored. Their marriage is solid. Their story is powerful. God used their story at a conference in CA just for me and my husband. The way how people capture this story, the directors direct them to have pain in their face, or smile for hope. But, in person, they are healed and they are moving forward. Just as it is in my marriage. You never forget, but forgiving is an action and takes time.
This is just the pressure put on men under the guise of forgiving like Jesus so you won’t be seen as a failure for your failed marriage. So many Christian men will accept anything because they are terrified God will see them as failures if they divorce. Infidelity is literally the highest betrayal and an absolute breaking of the covenant… oh just forgive and get over it.
Poor guy, probably invested about 7 years of schooling and many years of ministry just to have it destroyed by a treacherous wife. If he got a divorce he would probably not be accepted by most churches. She is a health risk. I would never counsel someone to remain in a marriage after an affair. He needs to count his loses, buy a Harley and get as much distance he can from the witch.
BLAIR STONE I agree it is wrong. Churches are better being more understanding about it than they used to be, but it would a be considerably smaller church.
Poor Bob has just committed himself to living a life of always wondering when his wife will cheat again. Whether he admits it to himself or not. She said once she touched someone else she felt an excitement she will definitely do it again. For weeks she had an affair and definitely Bob was NOT in her thoughts whatsoever while she was sleeping with other man. Wish you well Bob.
@@kblackav8or oh but it is the point of the video. Evangelical Christianity likes to tell these short little stories as if everything in the end got wrapped up in a little bow. The goal is to leave people thinking if they have Jesus everything will work out fine. When in fact, people deal with some real serious stuff. This wasn't a story simply about an affair, this was a story about an affair that produced a child, so unfortunately the storytelling fails when there are major issues not address. And oh usually I don't think it's anyone's business but this couple "chose" to "share their story" but not really. Because even though we're dealing with adult rated material, we all need to keep everything PG! It's the commercialization of Jesus. It's like the movie Fireproof the ultimate message of that movie was that the husband and wife weren't following God and when they started following God things got better. So imagine you're a Christian couple watching that movie, you both already "follow Jesus " yet you cannot make your marriage work, jesus alone isn't fixing it.
@@nikkio.9990 Why don't you go to other interviews of them here on UA-cam and read their book. This is just a snippit. Go find a longer version and see you are not getting the whole story and are trying to fill in the blanks without all the facts. There is a 2 part interview on Focus on the Family.
My God.. poor Bob i feel bad for him ..he was so much in love with her and she killed him and heart him so bad ..you think he is normal now he is damaged man ..wow how could you !? also she looks controlling him and the family
It took A LOT of courage for both him to forgive and for her to share this story. She is putting herself out there but it shows God's awesomeness. How He alone can take brokenness and bring beauty. Thank you for sharing the hope of God's forgiveness, redemption, unconditional love and story of restoration.
@@markteems1108 I never blamed her betrayal on God. But w God is so good that only He could bring healing and restoration to such a hopeless situation and hurt hearts. We've all sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
@@rachaelireland9467 nonsense...god said "adulterers must be put to death"...he wants nothing to do with them...do not accuse him of tolerating them...u are blaspheming...calling god a friend of perverts
I had an affair with my ex wife after we divorced and then I had an affair with her sister . After that I had an affair with her mother ! Then I had an affair with our neighbor . I' need prayer
John 8:7 speaks to all judgement against this wonderful couple AND Ephesians 5:25 is the wisdom and understanding from which Bob understands his duty as a husband.
Very religious minded. But God calls us to joy and peace-- Galatians 5.. If you are doing things out of duty (and his tears shows me that he is) then you missed out on a relationship with the Lord and latched onto a religious duty.
Bob will never get over what she did. One thing that gets me is she says we will never have any secrets anymore but what she doesn't realize is she should have never had any secrets in the first place. I know Bob is religious but he should know that the only time God excepts devorce is in the case of Adultery. Plus her having another mans child would be a complete mairreg breaker for me. I know the child is inecent but the way it was conceived was not and I could not raise another mans child and be reminded of her infidelity every time I looked at the child. I myself just couldn't do it.
Then came the day he took her hiking in the mountains and ooooppppsssseeeee she slipped......."Officer...I tried to grab hold of her but I had been eating chicken and my fingers were greasy"
I'm going through some hard time in my marriage right now , I just hope there is no affair in my marriage from my wife. I will cannot accept FORNICATION through my marriage.
Sir Robert, you've become Hosea of modern times by forgiving. Mrs Audrey I hope you're doing the latter part of John 8:11 loving Bob for the likeness of Christ's forgiveness. I'm not going to praise you but in Bob you're complete and in Christ your both are fulfilled. Kudos
EASY to condemn others while HIDING our own skeletons. This is why Jesus Had to come. My Saviour was repeatedly condemmed by the Pharisees and the Sauducees and others WHO SAW FAULT IN EVERYONE ELSE BUT THEMSELVES. Jesus fogave the woman caught in adultery. Only when we are able to FORGIVE will this world heal. Come quickly Lord Jesus, Amen.
Yeah, there are so many people pointing fingers but what they do not know that they are not in a position to judge! They do not know why Bob forgave her and do not understand the institute of marriage. I also think most of them are coming from a secular point of view.
I'm a Christian, born again and I have to say, this is absolutely painful to the guy. Guys never move on really. Having said that, I got some advice from the most unlikely person; A Hindu priest and this is what he told me, "Eric, there's nothing such as an absolute relationship, except btwn God and man. Therefore, when you get a married, don't be surprised if some of this things happen". It was a sobering statement, but it's so true. Forgiveness is really important and it comes from God. Man cannot forgive this. The good thing is the lady, has a remorseful and repentant heart, some do not, which hurts even more. I wish that God sees them through this most difficult period in their lives. Amen.
Adultery is crushing because it is completely avoidable, as it is always premeditated, and once pursued & consummated can never ever be erased, no matter how much grace is giving by the betrayed spouse. It is always there! That’s the uniqueness of sexual sin of any kind. It stays with you always. People really don’t understand how deceitful their hearts are. Imagine having a marriage that stable and still be susceptible because of a little attention? It’s scary. Bob is a far better man than me. He’s definitely going to heaven😂
You can tell that poor guy is so devastated. She has crushed this poor man’s soul. The guy is crying and she doesn’t even comfort him?!? The guy is a saint.
poor Bob....I felt really bad for him while she was talking...
Michael Mattocks clearly there’s something wrong with her.
@@paullaymon5133 Take a look at her social media. She's clearly a narcissist.
John Carter, how can you call her a narcissist when she has repented. She is very remorseful. A true narcissist is Not remorseful. They gaslight you, blame you, accuse you of their sin. Clearly she has turned away from her sin and ask Bob to forgive her. He did. Look us narcissist, it’s completely different from this.
Michael Mattocks was
@@Justtobewholeagain she's not remorseful she could care less
She lit up when talking about the other guy. You could see the anguish on Bob's face, and she didn't notice.
She knew it because she told her secret to her husband about the affair.
I know, it's hard to watch. This is supposed to be uplifting? Brutal. The guy looks destroyed and she seems excited about it.
She noticed, she doesn't care.
She still gets very wet when she thinks about how she got "the drop" on him
Lol
One time is a “mistake” three weeks is a relationship 🤦♂️
Are you on meth or crack or heroin ?
It's not even a mistake it's a choice. The choice she choose to betray her family.
She could have been a little more sensitive in talking about the affair. I can see his distress when she started describing the buildup between her and the guy - a little touch, etc. She seemed to have revisited the moments right in front of him.
At least a woman with sense.
Think at that moment she got a little, you know....? In that area?
Gosh I thought the same thing.
At least she didn't describe how BIG and POWERFUL and how PLEASING the young buck was. (can you hear my disdain?)
She has it sealed in her memory as a joyful pleasures moment. She just didn’t like the feeling of guilt or the consequences. Remember, they never regret what happened, just the aftermath.
He has not forgotten the betrayal and it still kills him.
I can't agree more!
I believe he has forgiven, but just hasn't forgotten. As humans we're not created to forget, only God can do that, and reason we need to remember is to know how far we've come, to remember the lesson taught in the particular situation, and for it to not happen again.
And yes obviously it still does hurt him. May God comfort him and restore any breach they have within the Marriage.
Spot on Raptor. I was sitting in Bob's chair 10 years ago. Not quite the same as him, my wife never confessed before being caught, and it was multiple affairs over many years. But the emotions, raw and sensitive years later are the same. Forgive maybe, forget never.
A decade on the other side, a few truths become revealed... Reconcile or Divorce, you are forever changed. There are 2 types in the world, those that can cheat those that can't. Trust No-One.
Angela Davis: I don't think he has fully forgiven his wife either. I don't Think he ever will. Forgive/: Maybe Someday. Forget?: never.
Leave her she is trash
“We don’t have any secrets anymore. We trust each other”.
No dear. You trust him he does not trust you. You betrayed him in the worst way and had a child from another man that he now raises. He is reminded of your infidelity every time he looks at your son.
Yes he is capable of forgiving and even still loving you but the trust you once had is forever gone.
exactly, she should've lived with the guilt and taken it to her grave
@Iakovos your comment just reflects how broken and weak you are. The strength this man Bob has to forgive his wife after adultery speaks to the power of God. You could learn something from this story rather than judging another man's heart.
@@iamkimbap1 I don't agree with this either. He might have noticed the kid looks nothing like him. DNA would verify the infidelity. Lying is generally not a good idea.
@@mljrotag6343 how do you know they lied? If this video is on the internet do you really think the son doesn’t know the truth? Cmon now try to think a little
@@danielfuentes5428 Perhaps you should reread my response to a very specific comment.
I’m a betrayed and I have so much understanding of his feelings.
My father cheated too, I know how it feels
just leave.. it will never work
Stay if married, leave if not
@@EricSmyth2Christ my mom stayed but my father is still cheating on her(he is 65 know) !
If you are not married just leave.a cheater is always a cheater.they never change
If Bob impregnated a teenage girl, Audrey would’ve left him, taken the kids they had together, taken alimony and child support….and the church would’ve rallied around her and talked about how strong she is for leaving and how she deserves better.
So she had an affair and got pregnant by the other man and her husband wanted to keep this child. I don't know if he's the most forgiving man or the most naive.
he forgave her because of his faith to GOD . Jesus said forgive 77 times
Nahh...... he simply has the Love of God not all Christians are like him. By that I don't mean he is dumb. He doesn't lack of wisdom, but from the abundance of his heart speaketh the mouth. Very rare to see these last days. If it wasn't for that connection with the Lord? She would have been history. I don't know what to think anymore :/
lilian makori There is no way she stays. How disrespectful.
@@claudiaavilasuriel8455 u must be an idiot or an adulteress s well
Because of money women still with him
I wish this was the outcome of my ex-wife affair she had with a christian man. Thank you Bob for showing the world what true forgiveness should look like. My ex-wife got pregnant as well, but she choose to end things and not come back to Christ with me. I was willing but she wasn't. It hurt like no other, but over time my wounds did heal and I got re-married.
@Douglas Hello,
It's not my place to judge.
you are a simp
@@nickc3856 thanks for the comment, but I must say you should grow and mature. What purpose do you have calling someone a simp? from my perspective you lack a few things in your life.
Congrats!
@@heartfeltscripturesreading235 You are a simp and a weakling. You don't get to lecture others.
no dude. you should have left. She ain’t the one.
You're damn right
Agree
ok boomer
Agree man
Until you learn to forgive someone who has hurt you...you will never be free and you will never truly know God's love.
Poor Bob 😢 she seems to be happy and moved on with her "mistake"
It wasn't mistake for sure it was a choice. The choice she choose to betray his family.
@@separatedsons8947 100%.
Aah man this hurts so bad so so selfish of her the biological father will step in one day then how will poor Bob feel like it's happening all over again I would have dumped her and it will not be a Sinn
This is absolutely heart wrenching... I pray that I never ever have to experience this type of betrayal and pain. You can tell that he is still hurting and dealing with the betrayal., and then to name the baby after himself.. wow just wow.. God bless them and their family 🙌🏾
Lakiesha Townsel praise be to God.. and thank you so much for sharing!
I can see the hurt on his face.
I'm sorry but unless Jesus tells me directly to stay with a person after they have an affair, I'm done. Won't consider staying with that person. Poor Bob.
Cody ... It is your choice, of course. But WE sin against our Holy God EVERY DAY!! We put other things before Him, and the Bible teaches that that is exactly like having an affair against our spouse, and yet if we Repent, God welcomes us with open arms!
What are you talking about? Read the bible. What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder. That's not enough? How about Luke 16:18? you need Jesus' audible voice? GOD will never contradict himself. And if you were to hear Jesus tell you to divorce your wife, maybe you should start wondering was it even Jesus who said that.
Jesus literally says that fornication is a possible way for man to put away his wife no joke
God got a divorce. It's in Jeremiah. Follow Jesus and don't listen to haters who try to replace him with tradition and one-size fits all dogma. You are his son first
That's because you have self respect.
Bob should get a Hall Pass! She belongs to the street. She had to tell Bob because she knew she was pregnant. She had no choice.
That man has a gold heart. Beautiful person.
That's called stupidity he should kick that whoes ass out of his life
@@praveenmandal2491 true
Foolish man
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woman would love a guy like him to play with have it all and still keep the marriage
So she basically got to have her cake and eat it too
Nope maybe in this world but God is going to judge her and she may suffer loss while her husband may have gain in the new earth
Yeah, that's the way I see it as well.
She let her AP blast inside her. Pathetic. This dude is strong. She needs to realize that he’s still shattered from her betrayal
Strong? The guy is weak. He is terrified of what the church would say, terrified of being seen as a failure by Jesus for a divorce, you can tell he still isn’t over it, the wife basically mocks him with her description of her affair it practically brings him down to tears, and he basically gave the worst life lessons to his sons and daughter. Sons, you must forgive poor behavior even the ultimate betrayal because Jesus is watching. My daughter, you can commit the ultimate betrayal and your husband must forgive you or else he isn’t a man of God. Those are the lessons his children have taken from this.
I get mad when people saying god forgave me destroying another persons life and self respect. So by using god as a wild card. It will happen again, and again, and so on.
Bringing god into it is a cop out. Esp when no one has ever had a convo with this god.
He does forgive if the person repents. Real godly sorrow leading to repentance has major outcomes to recognize if it’s real. 2 Corinthians 7:10-11
I am so sorry for bob. He has been brainwashed successfully
If she really was that devoted she would have NEVER done that to poor Bobby
Please don't act as if you are any better by that statement you made. Maybe it's true but not needed. Even if you haven't done that specifically. There are things she would be morally better at than you. Everyone has strength and weaknesses.
@@kevinrodriguez7403 wow!!! you are talking about an innocent baby. you have no right to judge!
@@joshuamoore2341 well then I will talk for him coz I never cheated on my partner because I hate it so much. And yes... SHE IS NOT A GOOD WOMAN TALKING LIKE CHEERFULLY ABOUT CHEATING BESIDE HER HUSBAND!!!!!!! She is not devoted enough!!! May GOD give the husband strength to the eternity with this narcissistic wife. And to the wife... May GOD do whatever she deserves
@Anna Paula but at least thought can be changed in the future but act is always written in life history. Like once someone did adultery, that someone will be labeled as adulterer for his life even he/she already begged for forgiveness
Not necessarily. Peter was convinced he’d die for Jesus and was probably surprised by his own denial and betrayal. We ought to pray to not fall to temptation and not succumb to the trial
I really believe we should thank God for helping us go through such tough times BUT through this whole video, not even once had she thanked her husband for having such kind of strength. We always blame sin, and the devil for causing it, but the biggest battle is not with the devil, it's with your own soul first.
Well yeah, Satan can’t make you sin; you choose to do it.
As much as I admire his forgiveness, this was not something you can just forget about. She has killed him inside for life. That boy will always be a reminder of his wife’s worst action. The devil didn’t make her do it, she wanted to do it, the devil just whispered in her ears. How hard is it not cheat on man you’re married to who is also a pastor and the father of your child??? The devil cannot make you do anything, and she makes it sound like it’s not her fault. I admire this man, so much, as a Muslim. But I know there’s a story behind every action, and you never know why it happened to him, or why she had to commit this sin. God is all knowing!
Still dealing with Forgiveness part now a year after confession of multiple affairs. The hurt, the images, the attacks are intense and persistence as there does not seem to be any repentance, ONLY confession!
Amazing story. He portrayed Jesus so well and she walks as a forgiven individual, as does anyone who has sinned and repented. So easy to judge and condemn others, it's another thing to walk out Matthew 6:14-15. Well done guys.
Another fool
This man Bob is a true example of God. He reminds me of Hosea. I'm sure behind closed doors it has been tense and painful. The arguing, the silence, the weeping. The root of sexual sin is most times anger and resentment. The role of a pastor is thankless, exhausting, wearisome and anticlimactic. Maybe he was pouring himself into the ministry more so than his marriage and maybe his love toward her was absent. Who can say. But they stood on the word of God. All I can say is their God is my God too and I bless them all the days of their life.
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot No, you're missing the whole point of the story. You're living in the carnality of the flesh, of a person who has no strength, no faith, no power in God. If you are led by anger and self righteous judgment your reward is a cup of poison my boy. If they had divorced it would have wrecked their children's lives as well their lives and maybe even the lives of the church assembly. This couple reconciled. I'm sure it was the hardest thing they had to do but this is a victory. The devil wants to destroy marriages and families but that didn't happen here. The devil lost and a testimony of strength was authored by the hand of God.
@@Metatron141 this is so dumb I can't even...
For your information I do not need the strength to tolerate immorality...that is called perversion...and its ironic that I, the one innocent of adultery is the one you are accusing of living "in the flesh"....the people who defend filth like this are the ones living carnally...they seek the tolerance of adultery.
The devil did not lose, the devil won. Now everyone thinks that tolerating adulterers like this is what god wants, yet he wants the complete opposite, read his laws. The adulteress won, exactly how the devil wants it...she probably smiles to herself whenever she thinks about her adultery, but of course puts on the sad little face for pathetic morons like you who buy everything she says, typical adulterer/adulteress playbook. You are so dumb it is even so hard to explain. It is so obvious she is just stroking his ego and sucking up to make him feel better about his decision...its called manipulation...narcissists do it. Even I could do it if I wanted to. You are either pretending to be this dumb because you think doing so will let you get away with your sins, or you are just plain dumb. And before you quote any Pauline doctrine nonsense you should know to me Christianity is a false and perverse religion...Jesus did not set out to create a new religion called Christianity.
Talking about how the devil has lost...lol. This has played out exactly how the devil wants it. She goes and opens her filthy legs for other men and the husband is of course perverted enough to be OK with it ans treat it as if it didn't happen. This is exactly what the devil wants...that is not a marriage...that is a corruption of marriage...a corruption so disgusting god demanded adulterers be put to death. Do you know what the devil wants? Adulterers getting away with it so much that adultery is even considered "normal"....there is more adultery and filth in the Christian churches in america alone than in the entirety of the U.A.E, Oman, Saudi Arabia and Egypt all put together. Dyu know why....coz of shyt like this. God didn't tell you to treat perversions as normalcy and defend the perverts, thats what the devil wants....do not accuse god of wanting the same
I wonder what bob and Audrey's life is like behind closed doors.
OMG this brings tears to my eyes. May Jesus stay with you forever.
I’m sorry but there’s no way I would have stayed with her and I sure wouldn’t be raising the kid. You can forgive and divorce at the same time. That’s exactly what this guy should have done. You know that every time she steps out the door, it’s in the back of his mind and he’s still heartbroken. I couldn’t live like that.
1 Timothy 3:5
“(For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)
😂😂😂😂 yep this is an embarrassment not a good testimony.
Judge not lest you be judged. Check your own imperfect heart before you judge another.
@@Metatron141 read the entire verse please. The Bible calls us to use wisdom and discernment which is a more powerful form of judgment. The verse is depicting hypocrisy. Do not judge or you will be judged the same way. If I’m a cheater and I call out another person for cheating; I can expect to be called out for it as well. Also, it’s close to a form of Karma. I don’t know where people are specifically getting a “Don not judge” from. We are called to make wise judgments. What the Bible does say we cannot do is to condemn, which ironically a lot of people do.
If she were my wife, no-one would have found the bodies.
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@Douglas I stick to what I said. Honesty and loyalty is prime. Once lied to and betrayed to this extent, that person is nothing but sub-human trash to me.
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His reactions to what she said is proof he should have left. He’s still broken by this. And then to raise an affair baby? His desire to stay in that marriage and put up with that humiliation is costing g him years of his life.
I read their book 'Marriage Undercover' before I got married and then, I gave it to my husband and he loved it!
After hearing their testimony, it has brought many changes in my marriage and every single day, I choose to have God's covering over my marriage 💚
Just don't cheat, and you will be fine.
“Honey, you have to forgive me. Remember that book we read? It’s your job to forgive me, just ask God.”
Here’s what you should know that this woman and many Christians alike fail to remember. YOU ARE A SINNER AND YOU ALWAYS WILL BE. The second temptation enters your mind, remember that you are a sinner and will fall. So many Christians jump on a false high horse thinking the little temptation nibble are not sins because since they accept Christ, they cannot sin. She committed adultery because she didn’t think her temptation nibbles were a big deal since you know she’s a Christian. The nibbles weren’t a big deal until it smacked her right in the face bringing her back down to earth where us sinners live. This guy isn’t over it, it looks like it happened yesterday. And the glow and bump she has when talking about her affair, she either loved it or loves mocking him with it. Remember, at the end of the day we are humans and no matter how hard you try to be righteous, all it take is a little step to fall. Don’t think that following Christ will magically make you pure and self righteous. Following Christ as he lived will be the hardest thing to do, yet will be very rewarding if done with humility and acceptance of what you are.
What a good lesson, basically wives are learning through this its okay to cheat on and get pregnant with another man's baby because the husband will forgive and take care of the child and take the wife bad.
Stories like this only embolden bad behavior. She had no remorse nor tears, she's a soulless human being.
Only God knows her heart....❤
@queen bee shut up
@@gretaabdallah1114 Perhaps, but that kid knows two or three other parts of her.
And if they don’t then they aren’t real men and God looks down on them.
Their story has blessed me. I’m going through something similar. Forgiveness is definitely a process and I have to make a concerted effort to do it constantly. I’m trusting in the Lord.
How is it now?
There's forgiveness and then there's not allowing you do commit the same infidelity by breaking up
My human response to this immediately was just sorrow for Bob and anger at Audrey.. there's still a bit of that, but I had to realize at the end of the video that Jesus truly CAN take the most damaging of sins and work in peoples lives that allow Him to intervene, this is a picture of JESUS, and that was His intention all along! Truly a miracle.
Amen Kendra!
Shut yo cheating lying arse don't use gods name to justify your mistakes
No miracle here
Yeah, a picture of Jesus. I think according to you he isn't pleased with his work of salvation. He still cries over what he did to obtain our forgiveness. Sorry. That is NOT the Jesus in the Bible, This man is one who has to force himself to forget his torture. That is NOT forgiveness. He is wasting his life on baggage that is slowing him down. He obviously is still tortured just at the mention of her betrayal, so he should have divorced her.
For a moment I was focused on the sin, than the miracle.
Indeed Mr/Mrs, you've reminded me that marriage is not salvation and your testimony shows me just how much I shouldn't idolize the "marriage/perfect spouse". Your pain is real (Mr n Mrs) yet your video shows that sinner really hurts themselves more and we can only forgive/love them as our Lord Jesus forgives us and hope/encourage the one to forgive and love themself.
Thank you both for your testimony and I will remember you in my prayers.
Indeed no one is worthy to cast the first stone.
Amazing Grace.
There are always guys buzzing around, looking for a weakness in the force. Can't have 'em involved in the inner circle.
She still holds onto the excitement with the other guy. This is so tragic on so many levels. She would do it again if she’d had the chance. Gehenna is calling…
His face broken me...
Poor Bob you should have left her, she played you she ended the affair because she got pregnant, Bob let me tell you something once a cheater always a cheater, it's you who is living on earth not God who is sitting in heaven, you are the one who is going to live with your cheater wife, whenever you look at her or her baby it always reminds you of your wife's infedility, you should have left her and married some one who truly loves you and want to live with you for rest of your lives
Bob, is showing the virtue of grace, just as God has extended grace to us undeservingly. He is a man that should be commended for expanding his heart and love so greatly, and beyond himself. And God is able to change hearts, so it’s also wrong to say his wife is always a cheater, God can heal the voids etc. that can lead people to make such bad choices if that person is surrendered to God. Pray for this family, don’t condemn. Anyone can throw stones.
Poor bob. My heart goes out to him while she tells her story. She is not beautiful. That guy lied to her.
The father was probably someone in his late teens or early twenties with plenty of hormones. (I hope to God that the AP wasn't a minor.) Hope she got tested for STDs. It's highly unusual to see the cheater and OP in a video. I'm sure they decided not to include a photo of the AP for privacy reasons. Falsifying the birth certificate with Bob as the father is a criminal offense, if Bob did sign it as such. Her indiscretions destroyed their marriage and she should have realized the consequences of her three-week roll in the hay. I really feel badly for Bob, but not for her.
This story is just a symptom of the decay most christian churches going though, if he would be serious about his values or at least be a real men, he would not stay with his cheating wife and even raise a child of the guy who fucked his wife.
Bob,If he were a real man, would have dumped her and shamed her before the world, Then divorce her and put her on the street penniless and destitute... Let God forgive her.
I think she left out the part about her lover being underage and deported so unable to ever see his son.
I would really want to take my wife back but I’d never get the thought of her with another man outta my head.
She doesn't even care
i relate to Bob. may God heal and restore you double what you lost!!
i am awaiting my husband to come back to God.
Sorry to hear. Are you ok?
The wife VIOLATED the PROPERTY RIGHTS of Bob.
Once a cheater always a cheater. It would be difficult to trust her again wholly. And with a child...its so disgusting watching her talk. I cannot stand this kind of adultery especially those working in a ministry. He should move on with a much worthy woman, so that he could live in peace.
There's not much worthy women out here bro.
That poor man. Adulterers are very selfish.
It takes an awfully strong man to raise a son thats not his as his own. More strength than i've got.
People r really out here tolerating this evil shyt and calling it godly...smh...false doctrines pervert people to no return
Wow she dodges accountability by putting it on “sin”. Bob should’ve put his hands on her badly and asked for her “forgiveness”😂😂
Must be great to take zero accountability and just blame "sin" what a joke
Yep exactly and smiling🤣
Yeah, I just view as extremely poor behavior (infidelity, lying, betrayal)...but with a huge helping of hypocrisy on top, actually making it worse.
At 2:30 if that female was truly sorry... she'd be crying with him and on her knees in sympathy. But yet.. she's just looking at him like... ah that's a hard thing for you.
Sorry y'all... but that woman is an unashamed adultness.
Gotta make a 2nd reply.... if that female was truly truly TRULY.... sorry she'd be showing it. Sorry but I just see a lack of empathy in her. Go to the 2:39 time mark and pause it. Do you see what I see?
**IF my wife** did that and showed clear empathy for the situation and temptation of a young man. (I'm also tempted by younger females) ... I'd forgive her and it be "water under the bridge". However if MY WIFE acted like the female in this video... NO.
I tell the world a truth... if I were in her situation.. I'd be on my knees begging for forgiveness and inconsolable about the pain I caused. And I'm 99.9% sure I'd not be putting it out on a YT video.
To be honest... every time I'd look at her I'd be seeing a female who I could never trust again.
For some reason... the spirit in me just says.... she's a leg spreading adultness.
@@wydopnthrtl the time stamp literally shows:
“you need to get the f*ck over it, it’s been 17 years….”
“I can’t”
I feel his pain. It must have took a lot to get back with her because my wife recently cheated on me and had a baby by another guy. So for you to even want to stick it out, good for you. It's horrible to hear unfaithfulness happening so much. It's disgusting. He seems he hasn't even recovered. She looks in so much better shape. I feel bad for him.
Sorry to here Justin. I don't think I'd be so strong as to endure what you are facing.
Galatians 5 [NIV]
[vs: 16] So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.
You Guys are so brave to talk about your story. Go forward die to your flesh daily, walk away from hypocrisy and walk in the Holy Spirit daily. The flesh will always make you look pack at the plow or sodom! The spirit gives life and makes you walk forward, for were the Spirit of the Lord is there is liberty!
Finally.... finally I find a story to give me hope.
WOULD SHE HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND IF SHE HADN'T BEEN PREGNANT? DID SHE KNOW THAT JUST FLIRTING SHE WAS CHEATING? SHE HURT HIM SO MUCH THAT THAT HE STILL CRIES, AFTER ALL, THIS TIME AND SHE DOESN'T SHOW ANY EMOTION. LIKE SOMEBODY SAID SHE GOT TO HAVE THE CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. SHE WAS CERTAINLY SELFISH, DID FOR 3 WEEKS WITHOUT ANY REGARD FOR HER HUSBAND AND THE GOD SHE CLAIMS TO BELIEVE IN. THE HUSBAND MIGHT HAVE FORGIVEN HER BUT I'M SURE BUT THAT SURE EVERY TIME HE LOOKS AT THAT CHILD AND HER, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY INTIMATE HE'LL SEE HER AND THAT GUY BEING INTIMATE. SHE SHOULD HAVE DIVORCED AND RAISE THAT INNOCENT CHILD WITH HER LOVER!! SHE MAY NOT HAVE A PHYSICAL REACTION FOR ANY OTHER GUY SHE'S ATTRACTED TO BUT WILL STILL HAVE AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR. COULDNT'D SHE AT LEAST USE A CONDOM OR ANY SUCH PROTECTION. DID SHE KNOW OF CONTRACTING AN STD?
She doesn't care
I can't believe that....I'm speechless
Thank you so much for sharing your story and showing the raw emotion that comes with it (even after many years). My Husband and I separated 2 years ago, because he had an affair which resulted in a child. We have recently moved back in together and are trying to let God do is thing in healing our marriage to full restoration. Forgiveness is most definitely a process that you have to do over and over again. I still struggle to feel confident in my choice to say 'Yes' to my marriage, because I am afraid and sometimes I feel embarrassed about the past. I love my Husbands Daughter and I do hope to have a close relationship with her some day, but these early days are hard. Your story does give me HOPE. God Bless you.
Forgiveness is the key to healing the whole thing and need to forget the past.
Simp
Extremely sensitive situation. Are you improving? I will pray for you.
Do you trust him?
This story has made me know that God is a loving God, to believe that God loves me, to believe that nothing is impossible, especially in regards to reconciliation regarding family issues. This is a depiction of God's love in my life, am touched. Bob is a good man. Audrey is blessed that the Lord's love surrounds her. Bob represents the Lord and Audrey His people. God's abundant love for His people. Isaiah 43... Do not fear, for I have redeemed you..When you pass through the waters 1 John 4:7-Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.
I can't help but feel immense love of God, even when we think we are unworthy 'How deep the Father's love for us' . Thank you Audrey, for being of good courage and faith as any other married woman would have lied, or would have aborted to save her marriage and to please society and yet abortion is murder and murder is sin. We thank God for this wonderful man and woman of God. God bless you!
How does she get a free pass??? Can’t believe he stayed with her.
@Micheal Henry so she gets a free pass...Jesus died so she could commit adultery
I'm surprised she didn't blame her affair on my loving gay monogamous marriage. Christians always blame us. LOL!
That man has the heart of Jesus. He does. I can very easily say this. But... I don't think it would be wrong if someone forgives but chooses to end the marriage because of unfaithfulness. Forgiving to the extent of giving another chance has great rewards in heaven. But I think it wouldn't be biblically wrong to forgive an walk away. Would it?
To forgive is the highest road you can take, I respect him for that. I don't know I have the strength to do the same
Seeing his face is breaking my heart. How can she recap all this in front of him?!
God definitely restores. There are some comments saying poor Bob. Which yes, this should never have happened, but God restored. Their marriage is solid. Their story is powerful. God used their story at a conference in CA just for me and my husband. The way how people capture this story, the directors direct them to have pain in their face, or smile for hope. But, in person, they are healed and they are moving forward. Just as it is in my marriage. You never forget, but forgiving is an action and takes time.
This is just the pressure put on men under the guise of forgiving like Jesus so you won’t be seen as a failure for your failed marriage. So many Christian men will accept anything because they are terrified God will see them as failures if they divorce. Infidelity is literally the highest betrayal and an absolute breaking of the covenant… oh just forgive and get over it.
He is a strong man because he was willing to forgive. However, staying still wasn't the right choice.
Poor guy, probably invested about 7 years of schooling and many years of ministry just to have it destroyed by a treacherous wife. If he got a divorce he would probably not be accepted by most churches. She is a health risk. I would never counsel someone to remain in a marriage after an affair. He needs to count his loses, buy a Harley and get as much distance he can from the witch.
BLAIR STONE I agree it is wrong. Churches are better being more understanding about it than they used to be, but it would a be considerably smaller church.
Paul Laymon Paul you are funny but I hope u are not serious....you do know they are acting for the camera
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He should step down since he cant control his own house
Poor Bob has just committed himself to living a life of always wondering when his wife will cheat again. Whether he admits it to himself or not. She said once she touched someone else she felt an excitement she will definitely do it again. For weeks she had an affair and definitely Bob was NOT in her thoughts whatsoever while she was sleeping with other man. Wish you well Bob.
Too many questions, the bio father just walked away? That's it? doesn't want a relationship with his child?
Not really the point of the video. I am sure there is a story there that can be found elsewhere.
@@kblackav8or oh but it is the point of the video. Evangelical Christianity likes to tell these short little stories as if everything in the end got wrapped up in a little bow. The goal is to leave people thinking if they have Jesus everything will work out fine. When in fact, people deal with some real serious stuff. This wasn't a story simply about an affair, this was a story about an affair that produced a child, so unfortunately the storytelling fails when there are major issues not address. And oh usually I don't think it's anyone's business but this couple "chose" to "share their story" but not really. Because even though we're dealing with adult rated material, we all need to keep everything PG!
It's the commercialization of Jesus. It's like the movie Fireproof the ultimate message of that movie was that the husband and wife weren't following God and when they started following God things got better. So imagine you're a Christian couple watching that movie, you both already "follow Jesus " yet you cannot make your marriage work, jesus alone isn't fixing it.
@@nikkio.9990 Why don't you go to other interviews of them here on UA-cam and read their book. This is just a snippit. Go find a longer version and see you are not getting the whole story and are trying to fill in the blanks without all the facts. There is a 2 part interview on Focus on the Family.
My God.. poor Bob i feel bad for him ..he was so much in love with her and she killed him and heart him so bad ..you think he is normal now he is damaged man ..wow how could you !? also she looks controlling him and the family
I don't have a forgiveness spirit. I am spiteful of am hurt. Good for him.
It took A LOT of courage for both him to forgive and for her to share this story. She is putting herself out there but it shows God's awesomeness. How He alone can take brokenness and bring beauty. Thank you for sharing the hope of God's forgiveness, redemption, unconditional love and story of restoration.
So true!!!
God had nothing to do with her betrayal and cheating...
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I never blamed her betrayal on God. But w
God is so good that only He could bring healing and restoration to such a hopeless situation and hurt hearts. We've all sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
@@rachaelireland9467 nonsense...god said "adulterers must be put to death"...he wants nothing to do with them...do not accuse him of tolerating them...u are blaspheming...calling god a friend of perverts
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot: Audrey you were lucky you weren't living in New England in the 1690s. To See What I Mean, read the scarlet Letter.
woman is acting the role this very moment. ✌️✊ "it was a mistake, accident"
Something feels very fake about her. Don’t believe her for one second
I had an affair with my ex wife after we divorced and then I had an affair with her sister . After that I had an affair with her mother ! Then I had an affair with our neighbor . I' need prayer
You might end up having affair with yourself.
Alpha Male rules.
John 8:7 speaks to all judgement against this wonderful couple AND Ephesians 5:25 is the wisdom and understanding from which Bob understands his duty as a husband.
Ok if this happens to you suck it in and be tell your testimony bro.
Very religious minded. But God calls us to joy and peace-- Galatians 5.. If you are doing things out of duty (and his tears shows me that he is) then you missed out on a relationship with the Lord and latched onto a religious duty.
Yeah she’s not taking any accountability at all. Poor guy, he deserves WAY better
He looks uncomfortable I PRAY that God continue to heal there marriage
So she can have more affairs? She has had another mans love child and this putz has raised it
That's why, you should get married WISELY
I downloaded this video just to watch at my church to help others. As we do not have wifi at church.
what program did you use. I am looking for something other than youtube red
I will say this she has a very strong jaw.
"sin, sin, sin" is a sure fuckin way to dodge responsibility for your actions
Amen
Bob will never get over what she did.
One thing that gets me is she says we will never have any secrets anymore but what she doesn't realize is she should have never had any secrets in the first place.
I know Bob is religious but he should know that the only time God excepts devorce is in the case of Adultery.
Plus her having another mans child would be a complete mairreg breaker for me.
I know the child is inecent but the way it was conceived was not and I could not raise another mans child and be reminded of her infidelity every time I looked at the child.
I myself just couldn't do it.
Then came the day he took her hiking in the mountains and ooooppppsssseeeee she slipped......."Officer...I tried to grab hold of her but I had been eating chicken and my fingers were greasy"
I feel bad for the guy... I really do!!!
Bob should ask God for a new wife. ✝️
I'm speechless.
I refuse to be a cuck.
I'm going through some hard time in my marriage right now , I just hope there is no affair in my marriage from my wife. I will cannot accept FORNICATION through my marriage.
Hope things are well bro. And don't reward there evil with nonsense like this.
Aww forgiveness is powerful.❤
You can forgive someone and still grieve and need healing. The act still is painful and so is the memory. But the forgiveness is there.
Sir Robert, you've become Hosea of modern times by forgiving. Mrs Audrey I hope you're doing the latter part of John 8:11 loving Bob for the likeness of Christ's forgiveness. I'm not going to praise you but in Bob you're complete and in Christ your both are fulfilled. Kudos
I wonder if the biological father is in their lives??
Legally he would have to be.
Bruh how the f can u still be with someone lile this smh
EASY to condemn others while HIDING our own skeletons. This is why Jesus Had to come. My Saviour was repeatedly condemmed by the Pharisees and the Sauducees and others WHO SAW FAULT IN EVERYONE ELSE BUT THEMSELVES. Jesus fogave the woman caught in adultery. Only when we are able to FORGIVE will this world heal. Come quickly Lord Jesus, Amen.
Yeah, there are so many people pointing fingers but what they do not know that they are not in a position to judge! They do not know why Bob forgave her and do not understand the institute of marriage. I also think most of them are coming from a secular point of view.
You took the words right out of my mouth...good word!
What do you know if you haven't walked down the road? NOTHING can prepare or compare to hurt, angry, frustration, images.
We judge every day. God commands us to judge. Get off your high horse.
@Drk RE dude, what's with the anger?? Someone hack your WOW account? The bad vibes you bringing are not cool.
Forgive but don't forget. She'll likely do it again. Once a cheater always a cheater.
She could divorce rape him as many women are doing now a days.
I'm a Christian, born again and I have to say, this is absolutely painful to the guy. Guys never move on really. Having said that, I got some advice from the most unlikely person; A Hindu priest and this is what he told me, "Eric, there's nothing such as an absolute relationship, except btwn God and man. Therefore, when you get a married, don't be surprised if some of this things happen". It was a sobering statement, but it's so true. Forgiveness is really important and it comes from God. Man cannot forgive this. The good thing is the lady, has a remorseful and repentant heart, some do not, which hurts even more. I wish that God sees them through this most difficult period in their lives. Amen.
He will NEVER forget . It is engraved in his brain. This gal is lucky, she doesn't deserve fotgiveness.
I'm surprised she didn't blame her affair on my loving gay monogamous marriage. Christians always blame us. LOL!
Adultery is crushing because it is completely avoidable, as it is always premeditated, and once pursued & consummated can never ever be erased, no matter how much grace is giving by the betrayed spouse. It is always there! That’s the uniqueness of sexual sin of any kind. It stays with you always.
People really don’t understand how deceitful their hearts are. Imagine having a marriage that stable and still be susceptible because of a little attention? It’s scary. Bob is a far better man than me. He’s definitely going to heaven😂