How I Handle Hate, Cutting my Own Fringe & Life on a Psychiatric Ward | Vlog
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
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Honestly I just eye ball quantities BUT ingredients wise:
- honeydew melon
- courgette
- greek or greek style youghurt
- spinach
- frozen tropical fruits
- greens powder optional
+ add water for consistency of choice :)
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You don't need to explain or apologize for outsourcing work! We all do it in different ways. We have our house cleaner come every other week and it's been a game changer. And dude- you're a doctor, all doctors should have one!
Fellow professional ADHD girlie here!! Never feel guilty about getting the cleaner. I’ve only done it a few times but it is a life saver when it happens and you deserve it. You work hard! You pay them for their services. It’s ok!! :)
I’m so excited! You look so pretty in the thumbnail as always. :) I’m proud of you for maintaining UA-cam along with your main job 😭
Aww thank you, means a lot! I try be as consistent as poss :) and on the pretty front, I’ll take that because I’m an absolute state in the vlog :))
I was basically a walking garbage disposal for free food left over from meetings when I was a PhD student. When the building manager asked me one morning as I came in if I wanted a bacon sandwich, I was like 'absolutely'. That was basically the science equivalent of a bonus. Food was never binned when there were poor students about!
oh god, like, as a PhD student we're on below minimum wage. We're too poor to say no to free food!
Honestly Faye never feel guilty about getting a cleaner, whilst I was working full time I got a cleaner and even now that I'm thinking of going back full time I may go back to getting a cleaner
In my apartment building, we have cleaners that are included in the rent to clean the communal spaces. Honestly, having to only clean my room and bathroom (which admittedly I don't do as much as I should) is such a game changer. Other than basic everyday cleaning of the kitchen and living room (dishes in the dishwasher, wipe down the counter top after you finished cooking, take out the bins to the rubbish shoot etc), the communal areas get a professional deep clean every week, and basic necessities like kitchen/toilet paper, cleaning supplies etc get stocked. Even if you can afford one day a month/every few months cleaning service, it's so worth it!
Faye we need a 'what I eat in a day as a doctor' kind of video! I'm in my last year of vet, about to start rotations, wondering how am I supposed to survive 10-12h shifts with just one packed lunch 🥲
i think we should normalise trying to make life easier for ourselves where possible! you shouldn't feel guilty for hiring a cleaner, & i think if anything, sharing that you hired someone to clean your flat makes you relatable in a different way because it shows that it's ok to need help sometimes in order to function! sometimes social media can set very unrealistic expectations and make us feel guilty for not being able to stay on top of everything. so you sharing this is actually quite refreshing! yes it's luxury but i dont think it's something you should feel the need to justify in the slightest, especially given that you work two jobs!
The vibing and throwing your fist/knocking an invisible door in the air???? has literally become your signature move and i love it
Babe you are doing great, busy women who work rarely have time to clean or too tired. Besides myself for example if I have time off I don’t want to clean I want to rest. ADHD in women is very hard I suffered for years. Please continue with these natural vlogs it’s real life if people have problems with it, they should stop putting people down and get a life. I’m sick of fake vlogs I really liked a real one like yours. Thank you
Your videos are so comforting. Thank you for what you do!
I like this vlog
Here I am watching this video as I eat my eggs on toast, right before I jump back into cleaning my whole apartment and doing a million pounds of laundry since it’s my only day off to do this stuff 😅😂😅 and I realize as I watch this that we we are truly the same!! What a life 😅😅
The hair cutting segment absolutely sent me 😂😂 so relatable
you such as inspiration from a medical student perspective, there's light in the tunnel at the end haha
Always love your vlogs Faye ❤. They brighten up my day 😊.
Thanks so much! :)
Studying for anatomy exams right now and it’s just so refreshing to see someone else facing similar struggles and hanging in 🧡🧡
Oh i‘m so happy that you will post a new vlog 🥰 I missed it
Hope you enjoy!
Safe journey back to yourself ❤Faye. We appreciate the content
I love your vlogss
Life’s not always pristine
The chaotic the better!!!!
If anyone looks at the amount of work and effort you put into your job and UA-cam and life in general and still feels the need to comment about the cleanliness of your flat, they need a serious reality check !!!
Babe I'm a vascular trainee and I don't even have your UA-cam income and I have a fortnightly cleaner. You literally do not need to apologise for this. It is SOOO hard to keep up with things and honestly, it's so worth it.
I used to have tonsil stones... horrific! So glad I had my tonsils removed in my 20s, it was awful!
i love you faye, all the best. love your vlogs as always and oh my god you are soo pretty. love you x
I really appreciated this vlog because sometimes i think as a med student because all I've ever wanted to be is a doctor, I over romantise what it's going to be like 😅
Watching your videos is always refreshing 🤍
Faye, I wish you luck in your professional development!
I think working in translational medical research also helps to make you not be grossed out by things. I've processed some pretty funky bloods, seen some saliva donations that make me question if the volunteer owns a tooth brush, and I can tell my boss is treating some colon samples as the incubator smells pretty rancid (everyone prey for my poor cultured cell babies having to share an incubator nursery with new stinky roommates)
Can I just say I loooooooved this chaos.
Girlll i have adhd & anxiety disorder. I clean when I'm stressed because I can't stay still lol but if I'm too stimulated then I don't clean, and then I feel so bad about it. It's okay to hire a cleaner once a month or so. It's alright Faye. You work so hard and you are doing the best you can. Thank you for still putting so much work into UA-cam. I love watching your day In the life's ❤ sending love & light your way from here in FL ✨️🌙🌞
banana, strawberry and yogurt is my favourite smoothie combination
OmG the stress I felt from the hair cutting 😂……step away from the scissors Faye…step away!
Chilly’s mugs are not dishwasher safe, check their website. 😢 really annoying considering how expensive they are, that you need to hand wash it
Love your videos,love your personality ❤
Faye...you're pretty
Love from Nigeria... A med student
Thank you! The thumbnail pic is giving I have my life together but the vlog is veryyy different:)))
I loved this vlog, thank you for posting it💗
Loved this vlog Faye!
What a great and realistic video! Thanks for sharing! ❤
loved this video idea even if it's not what you planned
Thank you so much for these videos!! I actually use the body double and the eggs now and it works really well! 😂☠️
Tonsil stones are the absolute worst!!
OMGG FAYE I MISSED YOU ❤❤
I'm not a doctor, I work in tech, work from home, and was recommended this and YOU MADE ME FEEL LESS ALONE. I have adhd and I'm also a hot mess who's cut her own fringe/hair more times than she shoudl've. Thank you for showing such realness. PS: love those fits!!
Hahahaha watching you cut your own hair reminded me of being a first year house officer, having no time and having to cut my hair! 7 years on as a registrar I still have no time... but I'm much better at cutting my hair. Good luck 👍👍
Extremely entertaining. Loved these snippets
I love that pink bag at 08:02 where is it from? Also, such a fun vlog!
Can't wait for the video! is it a long vlog?
18 mins sorry :’) but hope you enjoy!
@@DrFayeBate Don't apologise! Any length of vlog is better than no vlog ❤❤
Tonsil stones too relatable🥲
as a girl who used to have bangs.... dont cut them yourself when they are wet!!! i spent the first lockdown with microbangs... no it was not intended😂😂
I loved this vlog style ❤️
dNothing is as cautiously cuddly as a pet porcupine.
oh i cut my own fringe (well, the hairdresser cut it but they missed a little bit so i cleaned it up) yesterday night because i felt stressed. But i'm lucky so it went well 😆
Do you think you will get back to cycling to work when the weather gets better ?
honestly i think i liked this vlog as much as the others vlogs, so don't put too much pressure on yourself :) love from a french med student
Happy you had a positive experience 🫶🏼🫶🏼 omg my bike got stolen 🥲
Best of luck with med school! And thanks so much for watching the vlog
I love your vlogs so much ❤
Dylan is right you shouldn't feel bad for hiring a cleaning lady. Like yeah it's a privilage, but one you deserve lol you have gotten through medical school, you are a doctor, making good money. You can afford to splurge a little bit.
Thank you
This was fun!!
Haha I get tonsil stones too they are so gross I wish I had my tonsils removed as a child! 😂 love your content keep it up ❤
I love your vlogs! What is the song at 13:41?
`heyyy!! What is the name of the backpack you use for work? :)
What does house boy do all day besides a little cooking?
What kind of blender do you use? I need one!
Hi Faye, any thoughts on ADHD medication?
I’m a big fan, but as a clinical dietitian I have to say… You saying squash reduces the glycemic index in a green smoothie is just no 😩 It’s fear mongering and making it seem like people without diabetes need to worry about glycemic spikes, which are perfectly normal and affected by a million different things 🙃
Hey! Completely agree with the fear mongering about glycemic index in non diabetics. I’ve previously made a video about how I disagree with Zoe suggesting everyone could benefit from monitoring their blood glucose! As someone with a history of disordered eating, I think there’s far too much demonisation of food.
BUTTTT nothing is black and white. Higher glycemic index = quicker release of sugar = won’t keep you full for as long and can lead to inconsistent energy levels throughout the day in non diabetics too.
I LOVE my smoothie because I can get lots of nutrition down me before a long shift BUT blending fruits causes a sharper increase in glucose than eating whole. Hence, adding Greek yoghurt + courgette has been a really really easy way for me to extend the sugar release and keep my energy and mood more stable throughout the day 💁🏼♀️
@@DrFayeBate Thanks for replying! Yes, there is a LOT of food demonisation, and this hype regarding CGM in non diabetics is already causing a massive increase in disordered eating, so thank you for speaking out. Of course glycemic index is real, and of course our blood sugar levels are affected by what we eat. But that doesn’t mean the average person eating a healthy and varied diet needs to worry about it on a daily basis 🙃
Smoothies are indeed a phenomenal way to load up on fruit and veg! BUTTT blending fruit does not cause an increase in glucose levels, this has been disproven 💁🏻♀ Adding squash is great, but my problem lies with your framing - by mentioning glycemic index, you could unintentionally lead someone from your audience down a rabbit hole of harmful “nutrition advice” which can lead to disordered eating… Instead, it might have been more beneficial to mention that “squash is a great source of fibre, which helps keep me full for longer” - thereby emphasising how fantastic dietary fibre is! As healthcare professionals we need to consider how we talk about these things, and as a doctor your word carries a weight to it.
My heart hurts, how can I treat it?
Faye, you lost remarkable amount of weight. Proud of you 😍
im sorry but that is so unprovoked
pmsl at you offering your tonsil stone to your bf to sniff 🤣😂
Can you make a video about the worst comments
1. Wash your hair every day 2. Never cut bangs in your hair again 3. Clean as you go and save the 40 quid
Very cute 😊friends ❤️🇺🇸🎵