God, I love Todd's attitude at 19:33 ... approaching this with the mindset of a major soccer competition - he wasn't willing to give up after the first hey or even after she probably ignored him, until he got her attention by being loud and approachable "hey .... HEY .... yeah hey... over here hi - how are you?"
0:44 assume the burden 3:00 offer value 4:28 Be present in the moment 6:40 lower your standards for what comes out of your mouth 8:42 put a gun to your head 11:05 Purpose of open is just to open 12:21 be loud! 13:59 have fun 15:10 keep talking no matter what (assume the burden) 16:55 Good body language comes from a good mindset 19:14 some infield (some of these openers are hilarious and it shows they don't matter. he literally said to the girl on the bike "youre way to fast for me on that thing but I had to meet you" LOL)
0:44 assume the burden: “to take on or over the responsibility, position to do something” basically take the initiative to START the conversation assume the burden put in the work of making the conversation start try again say a few more words they respond a little bit then it goes dead again then pull that cord again say a few more words and eventually you'll get to the point where the conversation kind of like just takes light it just goes and then you can sit back and enjoy, and you know you've done your work and now you can enjoy the results you have to do the work upfront understand that the first couple minutes it's your job to assume the burden after that you can sit back relax and enjoy the fruits 3:00 offer value: BRING something to the conversation it's your job to convey your personality in fact that's the whole point of the conversation in the first place is to get any personality that's why you're there remember you're this man with the attractive qualities they don't know it yet conversation is your vehicle for showing them so in order for that to happen you need to actually talk about yourself you actually express your opinions you need to say what you truly feel and believe and you need to kind of bring a party for them to get into as opposed to trying to jump into their party from the start okay so in a tangible sense this means probably telling stories making statements giving your asking a bunch of questions and not letting the conversation go silent 4:28 Be present in the moment 6:40 lower your standards for what comes out of your mouth 8:42 put a gun to your head 11:05 Purpose of open is just to open 12:21 be loud! 13:59 have fun 15:10 keep talking no matter what (assume the burden) 16:55 Good body language comes from a good mindset 19:14 some infield
in short: Assume the burden and start by telling stories, making statements, giving your own opinions on something you find interesting in the interaction or that you experienced recently. Some examples are pointing out that she has a unique looking shirt, making fun of something she said, mirroring what she said back to her but framing it as a question, talk about what you think of her energy - is it high or low? Is she bubbly or not? If not then don't mention it. Give your opinion on what she looks like - hair, nails, lipstick if she's wearing it. Callback humour or mention something you recently heard that she just reminded you of. Funny recent experiences - your opinions on those. Make a statement on how she is carrying herself. Make a statement about the surroundings, maybe you are in a loud and busy spot, talk about if that reminds you of anywhere else you've been to recently that was also loud and busy. Bring up an odd thought you had recently. Talk about a dream you had last night - MAKE SOMETHING UP IF YOU HAVE TO!
Yeah, we should lower our standar of good conversation, but what is the base line, I know we shouldn't be rude, insult people, and I don't want to be weird
make a amazon wishlist or something man. I’m going to bless you this Christmas
Big thanks to the uploader.
Dobrinka You're a girl what the hell are you doing here?
Thank you so much for uploading these videos man! Sergio we all sincerely appreciate it!
Thank you for your efforts Sergio
Milad Amiri LOL
God, I love Todd's attitude at 19:33 ... approaching this with the mindset of a major soccer competition - he wasn't willing to give up after the first hey or even after she probably ignored him, until he got her attention by being loud and approachable "hey .... HEY .... yeah hey... over here hi - how are you?"
0:44 assume the burden
3:00 offer value
4:28 Be present in the moment
6:40 lower your standards for what comes out of your mouth
8:42 put a gun to your head
11:05 Purpose of open is just to open
12:21 be loud!
13:59 have fun
15:10 keep talking no matter what (assume the burden)
16:55 Good body language comes from a good mindset
19:14 some infield (some of these openers are hilarious and it shows they don't matter. he literally said to the girl on the bike "youre way to fast for me on that thing but I had to meet you" LOL)
Another hidden gem. Thanks.
4 years later and I’m still checking in..lol
Cheat codes right here
0:44 assume the burden: “to take on or over the responsibility, position to do something” basically take the initiative to START the conversation
assume the burden put in the work of making the conversation start try again
say a few more words they respond a little bit then it goes dead again then pull that cord again say a few more words and eventually you'll get to the point where the conversation kind of
like just takes light it just goes and then you can sit back and enjoy, and you know you've done your work and now you can enjoy the results you have to do the work upfront understand that the first couple minutes it's your job to assume the burden after that you can sit back relax and enjoy the fruits
3:00 offer value: BRING something to the conversation
it's your job to convey your personality in fact that's the whole point of the conversation in the first place is to get any personality that's why you're there remember you're this man with the attractive qualities they don't know it yet conversation is your vehicle for showing them so in order for that to happen you need to actually talk about yourself you actually express your opinions you need to say what you truly feel and believe and you need to kind of bring a party for them to get into as opposed to trying to jump into their party from the start okay so in a tangible sense this means probably telling stories making statements giving your asking a bunch of questions and not letting the conversation go silent
4:28 Be present in the moment
6:40 lower your standards for what comes out of your mouth
8:42 put a gun to your head
11:05 Purpose of open is just to open
12:21 be loud!
13:59 have fun
15:10 keep talking no matter what (assume the burden)
16:55 Good body language comes from a good mindset
19:14 some infield
Damn that first girls voice is a deal breaker😂
in short:
Assume the burden and start by telling stories, making statements, giving your own opinions on something you find interesting in the interaction or that you experienced recently.
Some examples are pointing out that she has a unique looking shirt, making fun of something she said, mirroring what she said back to her but framing it as a question, talk about what you think of her energy - is it high or low? Is she bubbly or not?
If not then don't mention it.
Give your opinion on what she looks like - hair, nails, lipstick if she's wearing it.
Callback humour or mention something you recently heard that she just reminded you of.
Funny recent experiences - your opinions on those.
Make a statement on how she is carrying herself.
Make a statement about the surroundings, maybe you are in a loud and busy spot, talk about if that reminds you of anywhere else you've been to recently that was also loud and busy.
Bring up an odd thought you had recently.
Talk about a dream you had last night - MAKE SOMETHING UP IF YOU HAVE TO!
Is there any way I can download these videos from you? Great stuff
Google youtube video downloader, copy & paste, download!
I think he noticed the camera at 23:20
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Me when I realize the FBI guy is watching me through the webcam
Totally did.
😂😂😂
Great video we appreciate your effort
Wait wait wait!! Uhhh i see! I just realised, this is probably todd's dating course leaked?! Lol! I guess! M gald though, thanks alot man!
Hahahahhah my man stop a cyclist at a red light 😂😂😂
I swear this hairstyle actually gives him a player-ish vibe, why did he cut it?..😭
What would be the purpose of bowing while walking
it's to get you out of your head by doing something ridiculous because it doesn't matter
Todd with the illuminati hand symbol 👀
🔥🔥🔥
Yeah, we should lower our standar of good conversation, but what is the base line, I know we shouldn't be rude, insult people, and I don't want to be weird
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GUYS TAKE MY ADVICE AND NEVER NEVER DO DAY GAME AGAIN. IT'S A COMPLETE WAATE OF TIME. THE SUCCESS RATE IS EXTREMELY LOW.