My sister is quite large especially in the tummy. I convinced her to start tucking in her shirt as opposed to a tent like dress. We did a side by side photo and she looked 30 lbs less. I convinced her to stop covering herself up with lots of fabric. She was convinced.
Heather, I always enjoy watching your presentations. You're a beautiful woman,and do a fabulous job selling your clothing items. I look forward to seeing you in 2024. Happy New Year!!! Steve
I don’t really struggle with weight issues, but I feel that we GenXers are more obsessed with being skinny than other generations. Maybe blame Kate Moss, the girls from Friends, etc. I don’t ever hear younger influencers mention dressing to look taller and slimmer. They seem to be more self accepting of their natural body types. Just an observation. 🤔
I think we just didn’t have anyone trying to dupe us with the “body positivity” lies. There is nothing positive about obesity and unfortunately the generations below us have a radically reduced life expectancy than us, thanks to being told it is fine to be inactive, eat unhealthy processed food and wear plus sized clothing, proudly.
Not all body acceptance is a good thing. Promoting morbid obesity and calling sitting on your butt all day eating and watching Netflix “healthy”, is dangerous. There’s a reason why life expectancy is declining and will decline drastically fairly soon. A healthy body composition is a good thing to strive for.
I agree with both of the the other responses, but I also wanted to mention that younger influencers may say something is more “flattering” or “modern” but when you look at why it is more flattering it is because it makes them look slimmer.
The long grey dress almost looked like a different dress after you belted it! It went from loose and bottom heavy to shapely and body- skimming. The crop jacket was the perfect topper to accentuate the waistline.
Hey Heather. I found a satin chocolate brown midi slip dress from Aritzia which, thanks to your video, I now know how to style. You always provide great inspo to look more elevated.
How could you possibly know what it's like to do a front tuck with a belly that isn't slim like yours? I used to rock a front tuck but due to a knee injury, I can no longer do the very exercise that kept my belly tight. Believe me, I will not accentuate a belly and that's what I'm dealing with. I mean no disrespect. I think you are beautiful and I love your channel. Please don't take my comment to be mean. I just don't know if you really understand the plight of having a belly that you aren't proud of. I wish you Happy Holidays and I wish me a flat tummy again!
Unless m going to a holiday party or a sporting event or traveling, I love a big handbag at least 12” wide. Because, inevitably, I need something that I wouldn’t normally carry in a small bag!
Think you look lovely heather ! But your shoe choices aren’t always practical! I’d look & feel very uncomfortable tottering around in high heels doing a weekly food shop or other things normal women have to do ! Going for lunch with girl friends is ok if your a real housewives of Orange County lol not a British woman freezing her ass off in cold grey winter weather 😂 but love your channel it’s a giggle 🙄
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My sister is quite large especially in the tummy. I convinced her to start tucking in her shirt as opposed to a tent like dress. We did a side by side photo and she looked 30 lbs less. I convinced her to stop covering herself up with lots of fabric. She was convinced.
Heather,
I always enjoy watching your presentations. You're a beautiful woman,and do a fabulous job selling your clothing items. I look forward to seeing you in 2024.
Happy New Year!!!
Steve
I just love your channel! Thank you for all your tips.
Excellent tips Heather...thank you! Just went and replaced my large bag with a smaller one I had in my closet!!!🤗
I actually think the black, chunky boot one the “wrong” look, was not only more modern, but functional as well.
I do like the chunky boots . In some outfits it actually gives it a bit of an edge
Great content. My fave was your tip with the white pants and the metallic shoes. That was perfect!
Great tips Heather. Best one was the matching shoes tone to the pants. Fabulous!🤩
Love these tips Heather. Thank you. Jana - Texas
I don’t really struggle with weight issues, but I feel that we GenXers are more obsessed with being skinny than other generations. Maybe blame Kate Moss, the girls from Friends, etc. I don’t ever hear younger influencers mention dressing to look taller and slimmer. They seem to be more self accepting of their natural body types. Just an observation. 🤔
I think we just didn’t have anyone trying to dupe us with the “body positivity” lies. There is nothing positive about obesity and unfortunately the generations below us have a radically reduced life expectancy than us, thanks to being told it is fine to be inactive, eat unhealthy processed food and wear plus sized clothing, proudly.
Not all body acceptance is a good thing. Promoting morbid obesity and calling sitting on your butt all day eating and watching Netflix “healthy”, is dangerous. There’s a reason why life expectancy is declining and will decline drastically fairly soon. A healthy body composition is a good thing to strive for.
I agree with both of the the other responses, but I also wanted to mention that younger influencers may say something is more “flattering” or “modern” but when you look at why it is more flattering it is because it makes them look slimmer.
I loved the slip skirt with the sweater!
The long grey dress almost looked like a different dress after you belted it! It went from loose and bottom heavy to shapely and body- skimming. The crop jacket was the perfect topper to accentuate the waistline.
Nice try on, love your style, thanks for sharing
Hey Heather. I found a satin chocolate brown midi slip dress from Aritzia which, thanks to your video, I now know how to style. You always provide great inspo to look more elevated.
Here's what I learned from watching this video..... it's impossible for YOU to look frumpy. 💕
On look #1 - the chunky shoes are also NOT FLATTERING. Thank you for pointing this out.
I am too shy to wear high heel shoes... but there is options! 🙂
How could you possibly know what it's like to do a front tuck with a belly that isn't slim like yours? I used to rock a front tuck but due to a knee injury, I can no longer do the very exercise that kept my belly tight. Believe me, I will not accentuate a belly and that's what I'm dealing with. I mean no disrespect. I think you are beautiful and I love your channel. Please don't take my comment to be mean. I just don't know if you really understand the plight of having a belly that you aren't proud of. I wish you Happy Holidays and I wish me a flat tummy again!
Loved 2:32 !
10:54 is my favourite !
Do you get paid for each time you say Lilly Silk?
Why are you always holding a phone? Are you calling Lily silk? 😂
I believe she’s filming herself, and also taking verbal notes about what she wants to say about each outfit.
She is taking a picture
Uhm open shoe in the winter? 🥶
She’s in Texas, I believe? We’d be in tights and booties or boots up here in Milwaukee, Wi.
Unless m going to a holiday party or a sporting event or traveling, I love a big handbag at least 12” wide. Because, inevitably, I need something that I wouldn’t normally carry in a small bag!
Think you look lovely heather ! But your shoe choices aren’t always practical! I’d look & feel very uncomfortable tottering around in high heels doing a weekly food shop or other things normal women have to do ! Going for lunch with girl friends is ok if your a real housewives of Orange County lol not a British woman freezing her ass off in cold grey winter weather 😂 but love your channel it’s a giggle 🙄
Omg that hair is tooooo long
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