To the sister telling this story, you should have taken in your mom instead of complaining about your sister in law. Everyone has their side of the story and it's not easy taking care of an elderly parent let alone parents. All children need to take turn taking care of their parents instead of leaving the burden to one child. I know how it feels and yet none of the siblings raised a hand to help. It's even harder when you're family still holds the shamanistic ways. Every time the elderly parents ua neeb, hu plig, the person they live with carries the burden and none of the other siblings see it.
Your mother gave all the money to the evil son and his wife so she didn’t want to move out. This is what happens when you love only 1 child out of the 10. Your other siblings offered her a place but she refused to live with them. She was willing to put up with the evil Nyab because of her favorite son. She shouldn’t have played favoritism, then she would had a better place to die. People, love all your kids equally and don’t give all your money to one child. 🤦♀️
You kawg! This is what happens when parents only love 1 kid and birthed 10. They give their all to their favorite but now the favorite child married someone who don’t like them. And now she’s embarrassed to go live anywhere else because she wants die with her favorite child. Also this store is too exaggerated!
You don't understand. If the muam said anything, the nyab would raise hell on her. What I want to know is where were the other 3 sons, while the youngest son's wife was torturing their mom? A lesson learned for the parents. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket...meaning don't give all of your money to one son or one daughter. This is what will happen.😢
@@nkaujmoobleegI don’t hear her bashing on her brothers like her Nyab….i am not on neither side but just saying her mom was literally venting and asking for help…..on the cold cold night, had she gone to help, her mom would’ve stayed alive
So many stories like this. Hmoob people are so set in their own ways. Someone outside looking in but it’s hard being responsible for a elderly especially when they have a lot of kids. Everyone should take turns out taking care of the elderly parents. Y’all on the outside and complain but when it really comes down to the work is the one they live with. No judgment towards the nyab. But just my opinion. 2 sides to this kind of stories.
@thestoryofmylife6979 i have 5 children, full time employee and also my husband, no siblings want to take care of them when they become unhealthy, I used their SSI MOney to paid for their funeral, at the end no one have to come out of pocket for no funeral expenses, and I still can do it no complaints, not saying I am a good nyab, I have my up and down raising my children and still I can do it...why complaints ,they paid you for their son, they paid you to love them when they are old, do your nyab job...
Why do you guys blame the nyab? You and your siblings are all to blames. Hate this whole Hmong things that it have to be the nyab responsible for the in laws? To this lady. Can your own husband go take care of your parents? Why can you go take care your own parents?
Cov neeg uas tsi txaus siab rua tej zaj neej neeg li no pheej hais tej muam na yog leej twg ua rau nej los yog nej tus neeg es nej puas txaus siab thiab so sad even tej coj li tus nyab no los tsi need nej yuav hais cov muam vim yog lawv niam mob lawv siab nawv yog lawv ua rau nej niam los nej yeej kawg mob siab ib yam thiab😢😢
Why didn't the daughter do anything to help the mom when she called and inform her. Everyone knew and yet nobody did anything to help, why? Because of the stupid old ways of thinking oh if you guys love her why don't you come take her to live with you? NONE OF KIDS LOVED HER. NOBODY WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER. Everyone can point the finger but didn't do shit to help so idk why complaining now. It stop with the stupid 1975 mindset. If it's your parent and you love them and nobody else want them then go take them to come stay with you or put them in a proper place for them to live. Better then letting them suffer like that.
Do you realize that even old people make their own choices? If they refuse to move in with their daughters, there is nothing the daughters can do about it
Koj niam Yog ib tug neeg coj ncaj kawg. Nws paub tias nws hlub thiab ncua nyiaj rau tus tub tus nyab twg ntau tshaj, nws yuav tsum nrog tus ntawv nyob. I hate in laws who throw all their life savings to their favorite tub and nyab but expect the everyone to carry the responsibility the same.
Why didn’t the sister take her in? I’m so confused at this. Sister complains but didn’t do anything about it. Seems like everyone is in the same Blame Game. No one wins and mom suffered.
Did u not listen to the story? The sister asked to take in the mom but the mom refused. And if u know hmong elders, they will not live with their daughters no matter what. They will only live with their sons.
Guess you missed the whole story. Also, as a married daughter, you cannot take your parents in and live with you and your husband. Know your culture! Smh
I agree! If you are going to complain this much, take your mom in! Who cares about the Hmong culture. If you love her enough you'll take her in. Don't sit and complain. I take care of my in laws and no matter what I do people complain. Yet they can't even take their parents in or do as much as me. So less talking and more doing please if you're gonna complain so much.
Since they believe in karma then they should only blame the grandmother. The grandmother must had been a bad person to deserve all karma was giving her.
Why is the blame always with the daughter in law? Where is her son in all of this? If he is still alive and allow all of this to happen then the blame should start with him!
Yes, It started with son. He has no backbone. But keep in mind he was in a position where he couldn't turn too. If he said anything to his wife, then she would make him choose between them. And also would want a divorce too. So, he didn't want his marriage to fail bcuz of his mom. So, that's why he kept his mouth shut n said nothing n do nothing. He should have asked his other 3 brothers for help rather than letting his wife torture his mom to a point where karma is smiling on them.🤦♀️
Txawj ua niam pog txawj hlub tej nyab ces tej nyab thiaj hlub thiab hos yog tsis hlub tej nyab tsis txawj ua niam pog ces tej nyab tsis hlub los txhob tu siab.
As a Nyab and maum myself know your position and where you stand. As a Nyab, it is your position to support your husband but its not your role to oversee/ over take all full duties. You need to ensure that “he” put work and effort into taking care of his parents too. A lot of Hmong men’s fails to get their hands dirty from their own parents and expects Nyab a to do A-Z, yet this is what caused a lot of resentments towards the in laws. As a maum, don’t speak ill towards your Nyab as everyone has their own capabilities. If they can’t do it, you yourself volunteer to come take care of your own parents per you claim your love for them. If you love your brother/sibling you should’ve offer a helping hand and tag team into taking care of y’all parents. Not real love when yall left one sibling to take care of an elder one alone. Yall parents did not birth him only but all of yall. 🤦🏻♀️ But overall in this story, no one gets an A+ and everyone failed their mom.
Idc what anyone says, blaming the kids for not taking care of the mom instead or what not. The fact that at the end the nyab got karma says it all. I rest my case.
That's murder. Elder abuse. It's sad she had called for help, and no one did anything. Someone should have called the police for a welfare check on her.
Uas cas muaj ib cov ntxhais mus uas nyab es yuav siab phem tag npaum li os yog yus tej nyab uas li rau yus niam los yus uas maum yeej yuav mob siab ib yam
We live in America 🇺🇸 If ya don’t get along, don’t live together. However if you don’t like your in laws don’t use their money and treat them like shit. I’d want to owe no one anything if I hate anyone that much.
Koj tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj hai thiab os. Koj niam twb yug tau koj es hu rau koj hmo ntawv tia no no ca koj hos tsis tuaj coj os. Nyob deb los nrhia neeg tuaj coj los pob! Kim koj niam lub zog yug koj tus ua yog tus ntxhai. Twb yog koj niam koj twb hlub tsis tau ua ca koj hos yuav yuam kom koj tus nyab hlub na.
She called you the night before and plus you knew all of this, why not go get your mother. Why not call elderly neglect? You can call the county and report anonymously.
The wife is evil because the husband allows it. They’re both evil, it’s just that the husband lets the wife do the dirty work. I love how karma plays out.
Me niam tais aw!! Cas koj yuav tuag txomnyem ua luaj li os txaus hlub dhau yus tawm mus nraum zoov ntev me nris txias ntev zog xwb yus twb yuav txhav li os txhob ua phem rau yus niam yus txiv thiaj tsis npam os
Will, the mom, have more than 1 son. The daughter even told her to go live with another son, but she chose to stay with the evil nyab and stupid son. She would rather live in that situation. Some old OG are very stubborn and will not leave to live with other.
Oh zoo tshaj nplaws cov nyab siab ces npam ntag yus ua neeg siab phem nas zoo tshaj qhov no ces tsis li lawm zoo rau cov neeg siab phem phem li tus poj niam hmoob siab phem phem no
Cov niag laus no phem dhau lawm nrog tus twg nyob es tseem npav foom tus ntawv xwb uas cas cov uas nws tsis nrog nyob no nws ho tsis foom lawv cov uas nws tsis nrog nyob nas nws twb tsis tau noj lawv ib pluag mov hos tsis tau pw lauv ib ces kaum tsev li nws ho tsis foom es lawv ho cia li dim dawb dim do tseem tau lub koob npe zoo thiab tsis mag foom thiab hos tus ua nws nrog nyob nas yus twb mus nrog luag nyob nrog luag noj luag haus mus pw luag ib hoob txaj mus ua luag vaj tsev qias neeg mus tab kaum luag npaum li cas es tseem cem tseem xyav luag lub koob tsis zoo ho tseem foom tus ntawv npaum ub npaum no thiab ntshe yuav tsis tau luag cia peb tej ntxhais mus ua nyab hmoob lawm tsam mus tau cov niam pog txiv yawg npav foom yus tej ntxhais li no os lawv. Nws cov tub cov ntxhais no nws ho tsis foom thiab nws ho qhuas qhuas thiab es nws ho foom tus nyab nkaus xwb. Yog yus yuav nyab rau yus tej tub es yuav foom npaum ntawv cev txhob mus yuav luag tej ntxhais los foom lawm yus 2 niam tub cia li ua kiag li nom pov xyooj nkawv 2 niam tub lawm xwb nawb lawv aw. peb hmoob mas yeej phem tshaj li luag tej lwm haiv neeg.
Another nyab bashing story. I'm not saying what the nyab did was right. If the nyab was as evil as you claim her to be, why not divorce her? I'm just saying don't expect an outsider to love you when you have your own children to love you. You are burdening your nyab to take care of your mother when you won't. Shame on you!! Your whole family should be scared to get cursed cause you were the ones she gave birth to and none of you will take her in.
why isn't this txim tua neeg? it should be but how can the daughter of this story KNOW and SEE that the mom is sleeping in a shed outside and NOT do anything about it?? Even if the mom refused to leave i would drag the mom out of that cold shed! shame on everyone!!!
Koj tus nyab muab phem dhau cai ntawm 1 tug nyab .hos koj niam los cas yus muab yus pob nyiaj 6 tub ntxawg tag nro .nej coob baum koj es nej ho cia koj niam tuag ti no kiag nram shed .kuv thab qhuas nej thiab nej tsuas zoo zog nyab xwb
Hold up hold up, why blame de nyab n not your brother. His fault, he should run the house, come on now, you sure you aren’t adding more spices to the bowl of pho hea lol😂 sumone is not telling de truth
There is 4 sides to the story, yours, your mother, theirs, and God’s. God doesn’t believe in Karma. One thing I’ll say is you are not a good sister for enjoying what is going on it your brothers life. It’s so unfortunate that there are sisters like you out there.
Why is it always the sis (muam) that always complaining about the nyab and brother. Us muam have to learn to let the brothers do their thing and if the muam decide to help then help with a heart and stop talking shit about your brothers and nyab.
Ya females listening to this story, ya know it’s about ya too..ya doing the same thing to your MiL…that’s why ya complaining why is it the sister always telling the story, ya should have a open mind that the sister is telling the story to warn ya Nyab not to do the same thing
Cov niag nyab phem nyab vuag tsuab psycho nyab narcissistic li no ces peb envision yog liberal "sT0nG InDepEnT" cringe xwb os. Thov kom xa cov nyab li nov mus nyob nkuab kom tag.
What country do you live in because something doesn't add up. If the doctors said she froze to death, it needs an investigation but looks like no steps was taken to find why she froze. I think you're exaggerating. Plus, you're all at fault too. If the abuse/neglect was as severe as you described and you and her brother didn't informed the authorities, you're to blamed too.
To the sister telling this story, you should have taken in your mom instead of complaining about your sister in law. Everyone has their side of the story and it's not easy taking care of an elderly parent let alone parents. All children need to take turn taking care of their parents instead of leaving the burden to one child. I know how it feels and yet none of the siblings raised a hand to help. It's even harder when you're family still holds the shamanistic ways. Every time the elderly parents ua neeb, hu plig, the person they live with carries the burden and none of the other siblings see it.
Yes! Say it louder for the people in the back to hear. Too much talking and not enough actions.
Your mother gave all the money to the evil son and his wife so she didn’t want to move out. This is what happens when you love only 1 child out of the 10. Your other siblings offered her a place but she refused to live with them. She was willing to put up with the evil Nyab because of her favorite son. She shouldn’t have played favoritism, then she would had a better place to die. People, love all your kids equally and don’t give all your money to one child. 🤦♀️
Exactly
You kawg! This is what happens when parents only love 1 kid and birthed 10. They give their all to their favorite but now the favorite child married someone who don’t like them. And now she’s embarrassed to go live anywhere else because she wants die with her favorite child. Also this store is too exaggerated!
To the sister ‘Muam’ in this story, You are just as evil..your mom told you everything yet you did nothing to help her…shame on you
You don't understand. If the muam said anything, the nyab would raise hell on her. What I want to know is where were the other 3 sons, while the youngest son's wife was torturing their mom? A lesson learned for the parents. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket...meaning don't give all of your money to one son or one daughter. This is what will happen.😢
@@nkaujmoobleegI don’t hear her bashing on her brothers like her Nyab….i am not on neither side but just saying her mom was literally venting and asking for help…..on the cold cold night, had she gone to help, her mom would’ve stayed alive
I heard many stories like this. Low key glad we are the middle children who our parents don't love. We get ignored so less drama and responsibilities.
So many stories like this.
Hmoob people are so set in their own ways. Someone outside looking in but it’s hard being responsible for a elderly especially when they have a lot of kids. Everyone should take turns out taking care of the elderly parents.
Y’all on the outside and complain but when it really comes down to the work is the one they live with.
No judgment towards the nyab. But just my opinion.
2 sides to this kind of stories.
@thestoryofmylife6979 i have 5 children, full time employee and also my husband, no siblings want to take care of them when they become unhealthy, I used their SSI MOney to paid for their funeral, at the end no one have to come out of pocket for no funeral expenses, and I still can do it no complaints, not saying I am a good nyab, I have my up and down raising my children and still I can do it...why complaints ,they paid you for their son, they paid you to love them when they are old, do your nyab job...
Why do you guys blame the nyab? You and your siblings are all to blames. Hate this whole Hmong things that it have to be the nyab responsible for the in laws? To this lady. Can your own husband go take care of your parents? Why can you go take care your own parents?
For realz!
But does the nyab have to be this mean to her mil? She doesn't have thr right to be mean just because she's caring for her mil.
@@maivang8730 the daughter probably make up some stuffs too who’s know
Were you there? Miss Nosey?
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Cov neeg uas tsi txaus siab rua tej zaj neej neeg li no pheej hais tej muam na yog leej twg ua rau nej los yog nej tus neeg es nej puas txaus siab thiab so sad even tej coj li tus nyab no los tsi need nej yuav hais cov muam vim yog lawv niam mob lawv siab nawv yog lawv ua rau nej niam los nej yeej kawg mob siab ib yam thiab😢😢
lawv kv tsua hnov hmoob mekas thiaj txawj sib foom tiag2 li ho lawv thov tseg thiab nawb ❤❤❤q
Why didn't the daughter do anything to help the mom when she called and inform her. Everyone knew and yet nobody did anything to help, why? Because of the stupid old ways of thinking oh if you guys love her why don't you come take her to live with you? NONE OF KIDS LOVED HER. NOBODY WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER. Everyone can point the finger but didn't do shit to help so idk why complaining now. It stop with the stupid 1975 mindset. If it's your parent and you love them and nobody else want them then go take them to come stay with you or put them in a proper place for them to live. Better then letting them suffer like that.
Do you realize that even old people make their own choices? If they refuse to move in with their daughters, there is nothing the daughters can do about it
Koj niam Yog ib tug neeg coj ncaj kawg. Nws paub tias nws hlub thiab ncua nyiaj rau tus tub tus nyab twg ntau tshaj, nws yuav tsum nrog tus ntawv nyob.
I hate in laws who throw all their life savings to their favorite tub and nyab but expect the everyone to carry the responsibility the same.
Why didn’t the sister take her in? I’m so confused at this. Sister complains but didn’t do anything about it. Seems like everyone is in the same Blame Game. No one wins and mom suffered.
Did u not listen to the story? The sister asked to take in the mom but the mom refused. And if u know hmong elders, they will not live with their daughters no matter what. They will only live with their sons.
@@maryly09 wow someone got their feelings hurt. I did. And should have tried harder like reporting elder abuse..🙄
Guess you missed the whole story. Also, as a married daughter, you cannot take your parents in and live with you and your husband. Know your culture! Smh
@@supervong1 i know my culture. And again this is America. Know your rights to protect.
I agree! If you are going to complain this much, take your mom in! Who cares about the Hmong culture. If you love her enough you'll take her in. Don't sit and complain. I take care of my in laws and no matter what I do people complain. Yet they can't even take their parents in or do as much as me. So less talking and more doing please if you're gonna complain so much.
Why blame the nyab, tim niag tub dev ntawv xwb mas, yog nws hlub nws niam tiag ces niag nyab yeej ua tsis taus dab tsi.
I know right. They didn’t do anything yet complaint
@@lovetoplaywithyou3530 all of them siblings didn’t lift a finger
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Since they believe in karma then they should only blame the grandmother. The grandmother must had been a bad person to deserve all karma was giving her.
I wonder what the grandma did to deserve a daughter in law like that.
Koj niam twb hu koj cas koj ho tsis mus tos nws los nrog koj pw hmo ntawv. Koj twb tsis hlub koj niam thiab.
Why is the blame always with the daughter in law? Where is her son in all of this? If he is still alive and allow all of this to happen then the blame should start with him!
Yes, It started with son. He has no backbone. But keep in mind he was in a position where he couldn't turn too. If he said anything to his wife, then she would make him choose between them. And also would want a divorce too. So, he didn't want his marriage to fail bcuz of his mom. So, that's why he kept his mouth shut n said nothing n do nothing. He should have asked his other 3 brothers for help rather than letting his wife torture his mom to a point where karma is smiling on them.🤦♀️
Txawj ua niam pog txawj hlub tej nyab ces tej nyab thiaj hlub thiab hos yog tsis hlub tej nyab tsis txawj ua niam pog ces tej nyab tsis hlub los txhob tu siab.
That’s such a sad story
Sorry i know some nyab can't accept or love their husband mom. But they loved their side unconditional 😢😢
Wow!!😢. Karma do come around.
No one should be tortured. If you know you can no longer care for the elders, don’t take their money. Money doesn’t grow on trees! Don’t be stubborn!
The fault lays on you guys.
Tsis hlub cov laus. Npam tiag tiag
As a Nyab and maum myself know your position and where you stand. As a Nyab, it is your position to support your husband but its not your role to oversee/ over take all full duties. You need to ensure that “he” put work and effort into taking care of his parents too. A lot of Hmong men’s fails to get their hands dirty from their own parents and expects Nyab a to do A-Z, yet this is what caused a lot of resentments towards the in laws. As a maum, don’t speak ill towards your Nyab as everyone has their own capabilities. If they can’t do it, you yourself volunteer to come take care of your own parents per you claim your love for them. If you love your brother/sibling you should’ve offer a helping hand and tag team into taking care of y’all parents. Not real love when yall left one sibling to take care of an elder one alone. Yall parents did not birth him only but all of yall. 🤦🏻♀️
But overall in this story, no one gets an A+ and everyone failed their mom.
Ces npam lawm los mas
Xav hnov tus Nyab sab thiab vim 1 zaj dab neeg muaj 2-3 sab
So what if I you’re the daughter, F take care of your mom!
Kuv tsis to taub hais tias twb muaj koj es koj ho tsis hais thiab cov mus tu
Siab phem yeej npam tiag2 nawb yeej pom muaj los lawm
Xyov yog Nyab phem Los muam phem ne
Idc what anyone says, blaming the kids for not taking care of the mom instead or what not. The fact that at the end the nyab got karma says it all. I rest my case.
Yom npam sai kawg nkaus lo nawb
That's murder. Elder abuse. It's sad she had called for help, and no one did anything. Someone should have called the police for a welfare check on her.
Uas cas muaj ib cov ntxhais mus uas nyab es yuav siab phem tag npaum li os yog yus tej nyab uas li rau yus niam los yus uas maum yeej yuav mob siab ib yam
Why did any of you speak up or call social services to save your mom? In USA there are so many things you can do.
li cas lo kv g hais li o tab sis yog niam pog quav yeeb quav tshuaj nees npam nees cem neeg tav tog rau ub rau no ces g hlb lo tau li o lv aw
We live in America 🇺🇸
If ya don’t get along, don’t live together.
However if you don’t like your in laws don’t use their money and treat them like shit.
I’d want to owe no one anything if I hate anyone that much.
Koj tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj hai thiab os. Koj niam twb yug tau koj es hu rau koj hmo ntawv tia no no ca koj hos tsis tuaj coj os. Nyob deb los nrhia neeg tuaj coj los pob! Kim koj niam lub zog yug koj tus ua yog tus ntxhai. Twb yog koj niam koj twb hlub tsis tau ua ca koj hos yuav yuam kom koj tus nyab hlub na.
She called you the night before and plus you knew all of this, why not go get your mother. Why not call elderly neglect? You can call the county and report anonymously.
Why you guys are daughter doesn't take a look your mom too? And take your mom with you? I know all you guys didn't love your mom either 😢😢.
Did you miss the story? As a married daughter, you cannot take your parents in and live with you and your husband. Know your culture!
The wife is evil because the husband allows it. They’re both evil, it’s just that the husband lets the wife do the dirty work. I love how karma plays out.
Then that new daughter in law will have the same problem. And it just keeps going. Thats curse.
Where is your brother in all this abuse? How sad. Why was your nyab not reported and put in jail?
Es yog yus tsis ua rau niam pog es niam pog ua rau yus ti txa nkaus ne ho yog li cas thiab.😢
What’s go around will come around?
Yog vim li cas nyab tsis hlub cas cov muam hos tsis mus hlub na
Me niam tais aw!! Cas koj yuav tuag txomnyem ua luaj li os txaus hlub dhau yus tawm mus nraum zoov ntev me nris txias ntev zog xwb yus twb yuav txhav li os txhob ua phem rau yus niam yus txiv thiaj tsis npam os
Story sounds like it’s missing parts here and there…
Good story
What a evil daughter in law
Will, the mom, have more than 1 son. The daughter even told her to go live with another son, but she chose to stay with the evil nyab and stupid son. She would rather live in that situation. Some old OG are very stubborn and will not leave to live with other.
Ca twb yog koj niam thiab e koj ho tsi coj mu nrog koj nyob ma
Oh zoo tshaj nplaws cov nyab siab ces npam ntag yus ua neeg siab phem nas zoo tshaj qhov no ces tsis li lawm zoo rau cov neeg siab phem phem li tus poj niam hmoob siab phem phem no
Cov niag laus no phem dhau lawm nrog tus twg nyob es tseem npav foom tus ntawv xwb uas cas cov uas nws tsis nrog nyob no nws ho tsis foom lawv cov uas nws tsis nrog nyob nas nws twb tsis tau noj lawv ib pluag mov hos tsis tau pw lauv ib ces kaum tsev li nws ho tsis foom es lawv ho cia li dim dawb dim do tseem tau lub koob npe zoo thiab tsis mag foom thiab hos tus ua nws nrog nyob nas yus twb mus nrog luag nyob nrog luag noj luag haus mus pw luag ib hoob txaj mus ua luag vaj tsev qias neeg mus tab kaum luag npaum li cas es tseem cem tseem xyav luag lub koob tsis zoo ho tseem foom tus ntawv npaum ub npaum no thiab ntshe yuav tsis tau luag cia peb tej ntxhais mus ua nyab hmoob lawm tsam mus tau cov niam pog txiv yawg npav foom yus tej ntxhais li no os lawv.
Nws cov tub cov ntxhais no nws ho tsis foom thiab nws ho qhuas qhuas thiab es nws ho foom tus nyab nkaus xwb.
Yog yus yuav nyab rau yus tej tub es yuav foom npaum ntawv cev txhob mus yuav luag tej ntxhais los foom lawm yus 2 niam tub cia li ua kiag li nom pov xyooj nkawv 2 niam tub lawm xwb nawb lawv aw.
peb hmoob mas yeej phem tshaj li luag tej lwm haiv neeg.
Cas koj ho ua tsis taus niam thiab koj ho tsis coj los nrog koj nyob naw!!?
Another nyab bashing story. I'm not saying what the nyab did was right. If the nyab was as evil as you claim her to be, why not divorce her? I'm just saying don't expect an outsider to love you when you have your own children to love you. You are burdening your nyab to take care of your mother when you won't. Shame on you!! Your whole family should be scared to get cursed cause you were the ones she gave birth to and none of you will take her in.
Her own children didn’t even lift a finger, but expected that 1 nyab to bare their responsibility. Funny as F.😂
I wonder if your own nyab feels the same way about your parents. You may be a nyab so u dislike nyab bashing stories, but u are a muam too.
Twb paub hais tsis zoo ua li cas ho tsis pab txhob quaj os siab phem heev li..tsis qhuas leej twg li os
Zoo tas tas
why isn't this txim tua neeg? it should be
but how can the daughter of this story KNOW and SEE that the mom is sleeping in a shed outside and NOT do anything about it?? Even if the mom refused to leave i would drag the mom out of that cold shed!
shame on everyone!!!
What happened to the rest of her kids? Why no one said anything and do anything…? The son is not the only child.
Tiv ta koj lm pab tiv ta rov qab thb os niam lau ❤
Ua neeg phem2 rau tej laus ces npam ntag lauj….
Koj tus nyab muab phem dhau cai ntawm 1 tug nyab .hos koj niam los cas yus muab yus pob nyiaj 6 tub ntxawg tag nro .nej coob baum koj es nej ho cia koj niam tuag ti no kiag nram shed .kuv thab qhuas nej thiab nej tsuas zoo zog nyab xwb
Hold up hold up, why blame de nyab n not your brother. His fault, he should run the house, come on now, you sure you aren’t adding more spices to the bowl of pho hea lol😂 sumone is not telling de truth
There is 4 sides to the story, yours, your mother, theirs, and God’s. God doesn’t believe in Karma. One thing I’ll say is you are not a good sister for enjoying what is going on it your brothers life. It’s so unfortunate that there are sisters like you out there.
Koj tus nyab tus nus los yeej phem kawg, koj niam los yeej tsis zoo thiab, sib phim xwb os.
Why is it always the sis (muam) that always complaining about the nyab and brother. Us muam have to learn to let the brothers do their thing and if the muam decide to help then help with a heart and stop talking shit about your brothers and nyab.
For reals
Wow so means you 2 are like the nyab on this story treating the mother in law… can’t believe that you both are one this bad nyab lol 😂
Because as the muam, you have to advocate for your mom when your brothers doesn't and just let his wife step all over the mom
If u mad then it's about you.... lol
It depends how the situation who's doing wrong. If you know or see your nyab& bro abusing your parents, you going to ignore 🤐 shut your mouth?
Ruam hais lus ruam xwb
Too boring stop listening after 10 minutes 😴
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Ya females listening to this story, ya know it’s about ya too..ya doing the same thing to your MiL…that’s why ya complaining why is it the sister always telling the story, ya should have a open mind that the sister is telling the story to warn ya Nyab not to do the same thing
Cov niag nyab phem nyab vuag tsuab psycho nyab narcissistic li no ces peb envision yog liberal "sT0nG InDepEnT" cringe xwb os. Thov kom xa cov nyab li nov mus nyob nkuab kom tag.
Kuv tsis paub, cas cov muam hais npaum ub npaum no tsis pom cov muaj tuaj saib thiab tu 1 pliag los 1 tsam
Mam haj ham txav deb hos😂
What country do you live in because something doesn't add up. If the doctors said she froze to death, it needs an investigation but looks like no steps was taken to find why she froze. I think you're exaggerating. Plus, you're all at fault too. If the abuse/neglect was as severe as you described and you and her brother didn't informed the authorities, you're to blamed too.
hais dab neeg xwb txhob seev suab ntev ntev cuag li hais kwv txhiaj os ua li mas xu siab na !
CAs hlub koj niam ua luaj os
Hlub ua dab tsi na, pog laus nws cav tsis hlub nws as
Koj los yeej tsis yog ib tug ntxhais zoo thiab txhob muab tuaj piav2