knit & rant with me | life feeling repetitive, comparison, awkward moments, etc.
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- Опубліковано 8 тра 2024
- Comparison and award comments from others are the thief of joy. Join me as I knit and rant so you don't have to do it alone. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Love you, munchkadees!
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Knitting in bed, talking about existential shit, while wearing that pillow is just an absolute VIBE. I think a lot of people need to hear that life can be mundane and repetitive.
Edit: Ma'am, you're hitting a little too close with the bit about having hobbies as a kid.
Yes, this is so real
I’m 27 and still at home. I live in constant comparison, self doubt, etc. This video hit me in the chest. I was literally having this conversation with my therapist this morning 😭
Im 27 too and lived at home until few months ago. I only moved out because I felt like I have to because of my age 😅It's great having a home for yourself but I realized that my reason to move out was extremely stupid.
Do not compare yourself to others and go at your own pace. The right time will come.
It's your life and no one elses.
I'm 42 and I live at home. There's nothing wrong with me. I'm an artist. 🎉
I’m 27 and exactly the same, I feel like I could’ve written this
21 no money no job and toxic parents
"I just went to get my bangs fixed not for a roast" hahahahah!
Im crying right now. I'm 18 and I look up to you so much. I know that I dont see or know about your whole life, but your videos bring me great comfort and I i always look forward to watching your videos. I used to be in a depressive state and had trouble with my hygiene and self care because of depression, and your get ready with me's and other videos helped motivate me and take confidence in myself to get out that rut. I thank God that you are here and I'm sure that many more people agree with that you are not boring and you change many people's lives everyday. Thank you and love you! ❤ I wish you the best!! I wish to be like you growing up haha 😊
Shes doing what makes her happy and i think thats amazing
that pillow is insane
You have no idea how bad I needed to hear this right now. I’m 25, I’m in my last year of college, I took an entire year off first, I just felt so burnt out and tired. I needed the silence, the time to be alone. But now I feel like I’m so boring and I’m not productive or successful. That I’m too old to be in college, I should have a career by now. I needed to be reminded it’s okay to slow down, because that’s how I got here in the first place- I pushed myself so hard for so long
okay but if you ever want to continue this -- knitting in bed and chatting.
like this is a vibe
cheer up dear there's better days a head & don't say you're not interesting & never call yourself a failure, there's over a million (& counting) of us who would beg to differ.
One of my favorite lessons in life has been learning to sit with myself, as well as slow down and live in the present day. It’s been so hard to do, but genuinely rewarding and has brought me so much peace and introspection.
This video is such a vibe and so relatable. I’ve been focusing on connecting with old hobbies/ passions/ the outdoors and less on social media and it’s refreshing🩷
Hi um.. This may be an out of place comment but when I watch you're videos/shorts I feel a sense of comfort. You have such a great presence and are truly someone that is a treasure (even tho I don't know you personally lol). I've been having some of the same feelings minus the part where I tell myself that it's ok. Comparing myself to others in both looks and personality and wishing things were different when in reality someone might be thinking the same way about the way I look or my lifestyle. Anyways I love your content and you're absolutely stunning. 💛
Loved this!! This is what the world and social media need more of. Love your honesty & vulnerability with your audience ❤❤❤
Knitting in bed, and talking is so fun and cozyyy ❤❤
watching this while in the state of burnout is just.. honestly i'm motivated to meet my goals, but at the moment i just feel like i wasn't working effective enough and that i was wasting my time 😔
SHE IS AN ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING ON THE INSIDE AS WELL AS THE OBVIOUS OUTSIDE!!! LOVE HER❤!!!
I’m super young 15, but I really enjoy your videos! It’s like a breath of fresh air! You are relatable, funny, and just calming! Thank you for your content and I’m very happy that I found your videos. Hope you are happy and are enjoying just life in general ❤️
Thanks for this, I feel like not enough people talk about these things and I appreciate you being real❤️
Omg I love your videos so much you are hilarious 😂😂 You always brighten my day ❤
Needed this, literally crying while watching so thank you ❤. I’m in my final week of uni and I’m so tired and a burnt out I’m struggling to finish my project I have so much to do but last push then I am not doing anything for at least a year. I’m gonna get therapy somehow and take care of me then pursue my art career. I just want to make my weird little stop motions and needle felted work and have cute little art shows and knit at home with a cup of tea or a glass or wine preferably in a garden or balcony with a good view 😂. Sometimes I look at my friends and I get so jealous of how fun they are, they go to parties and raves and are out every night living these wild lives and I’ve tried so many times to do that but it’s not me I like a night out every now and then but with the night people. It’s ok to prefer a chill life we’ve been through a lot in our lives already think we need a worldwide holiday and that hairdresser can bugger off they always make me feel like shit about my hair it’s their job like plastic surgeons, your highlights look fab 🫶
Gab, it's okay to have a slower paced life. Many people who have the fast paced crave to slow down a little bit. The thing is, you owe it to yourself to practice your hobbies to figure out what you still like of them, and what you don't like as much anymore. It's okay to change taste in hobbies, and it's okay to have new ones and doing that too. Try out different stuff and see what makes you happy.
Thank you for this video, I needed it too.
Yes girl! I am LOVING ALL OF THIS. Allowing to not feel okay, and that a pregnancy pillow is necessary
Thank you for inviting me to knit and rant 😂😂
I felt that about being more interesting/interested when younger. I think as we grow up we are overwhelmed by so much that we naturally have to lose some hobbies. Adulting is hard work, we don’t have as much time for them! But it’s amazing to still make time for them!
Please don't worry about where you stand compared to your age. I'm 27 too turning 28 this year and I don't feel like an adult either. More like a child paying taxes 😅 You seen and done more stuff than many other people. It's your life and you will go your own path in your own pace.
Also keeping your inner child is nothing bad. Keeps life exciting ❤
Love you and thx for the much needed reminder to slow down ❤❤❤
i watch this once a week i feel like i relate to everything and being told its okay to be boring is nice
I'm literally in the same boat as you gabrielle (we're even the same age) we're simultaneously both mature but we also still feel so childish and like we have so much more to learn and to do it just gets so overwhelming and crazy
Its so crazy because I was feeling so confused and slow last night and just this morning I wake up to this talk. I just want you to know that this really helped me realize that you don't always have to have it figured out. We love you! ❤
You are greatly appreciated. Thank you for sharing yourself with us.
OMG SHES FINALLY BACK
I think it's difficult for many of us to slow down because all we're seeing these days is the glorification of "hustle" culture. To the person reading this (if anyone is): It's not about being productive all the time. Please don't forget that we are human💚 Let your body and mind get the rest that it needs. The world won't end tomorrow just because you decided to take a break today.
I love your videos ❤❤❤
Awesome Gab 😊🎉😂😂❤
Loved this so much! Please another episode of the knitting session😍🙆🏼♀️
I already loved you for you, but hearing you talk like this makes me love you so much more. Your raw and honest feelings being so thoughtfully expressed is not only so wonderfully refreshing in this world but so relatable. I HATE the quiet too.
I remember I despised being unemployed for eight months (not by choice) and despite living with the most supportive partner, I felt extremely lonely. And I thought I’d finally have to time to restart all the hobbies I lost interest and time for back when I had a job I didn’t realise I hated (loved the people but the job in hindsight was awful). But I never did because I felt so lost and unwanted and silenced. And no matter how much my partner tried to convince me to take up more hobbies on my time at home, I simply didn’t have the interest in my interests anymore. I kept myself busy in attempt to ignore the quiet but it was never what I would call a “beloved hobby or activity”. I simply sank into the quiet and felt awful.
But now I’ve been working at a job I absolutely adore for a year now, like I get excited to go in. And I’ve finally started reading again. I started playing piano again. Having my life be fuller has made me want to ensure that all my free time is full of things I love doing too, things that make me feel human 🩵
sorry, to ramble, I just…. your video kinda made my day. Your content always does. Thank you for being an amazing person in the public for young people to look up to and relate to 🥰
Im 17 and I relate. Thank you for the reality check that this is a common experience😂
Thank you for being so real and honest online, it takes courage to be this vulnerable and you are helping a lot of us with thesevideos. Best wishes gab
Thanks for posting this. It’s hilarious & also frank. I think a lot of us grew up with the mentality that you always need to be productive, doing something, doing more. But you also have to allow yourself time for the calm. (Also the pregnancy pillow lmao!)
7 seconds!!! You should do a how to knit video I really want to learn !!!
Luv u ❤ Ty for this. Shining ✨ in the pregnancy pillow btw. Needle work looks lovely
1:56 you are not boring!!! Whenever I have a bad day i go to your channel and i watch your videos so much!!
I whish you all the happiness in the world too you totally deserve it💌 thank you for making me feel like im not alone🎀
Hiiiiiii luv your videos
I adore you❤I relate to this so hard❤I'm 29 and feel like I used to be so interesting and I miss my old hobbies but I have no energy to do them😢we got this, everyone...life goes on
one hearted comment from you would turn my sad day into a very happy day ❤
Omg Gabby you are WAAAAY more interesting than a lot of other “influencers” you are a lot more “real.”
I feel just like this and you talking about it made me feel not alone thank you ❤
Thank you so much i needed this!! 😊
i love your long videos sm and youre my favorite influencer
Omg I love this way of hanging out with you, it's so relaxing and I feel like I'm having a chill conversation with a friend. Please make more of these videos, with the calm music and just talking about the things that are on your mind❤
she’s so relatable
Love that maternity pillow... Looks comfortable ❤
I needed this video so bad. I’ve been feeling like my life is so mundane lately and I’m just going through the motions. This video was so refreshing.
help why is this so relatable
I feel the way you say you feel drained and not having the interest in doing anything about of the time. ❤
This is the most calming thing I've ever watched! The music just makes it a masterpiece! 🤌😂
So like…this is therapy to me tysm ilym
Ily sO much gurl. U make me want to do makeup(usually I’m very lazy and don’t bother cuz I have less patience w it) and deal w myself and the struggles that come my way, lookin up to u. U have a very heartwarming vibe about u, idk if that makes sense but I want u to know that u r strong and very good at putting me at ease by these vids, discussions and advices, this way I don’t feel alone at all and I want u to know that I support u so so so much. Wish u all the very best in life and again love uu! Waiting desperately to see u smile brightly as the sun again in ur next yt shorts ❤❤❤😊
I loved this video! Thank you for being so vulnerable and open, it rly helps!
Gabs is my spirit animal
Your videos make me feel so good💖 you have a lot to offer to the world. 🌿
This video was so nice❤ and it was needed😞
i want more videos like this it made my day
I literally compare myself to people who do things completely different to me. Like last year at a sports prizegiving at my school I was envious of people gaining awards for sports that I don’t even play💀💀💀 Regardless of whether it’s realistic/relevant or not, I just compare myself to these people because its like “why aren’t I achieving on the same level as them🙁”
This was so sweet, you are beyond fabulous, never let anyone's stupid words make you think any different (I know, easier said than done👍). I've been told that some people say mean shit to feel better about themselves. I don't understand that at all. I've been taken a back by comments like "do you really like that outfit on yourself because it's not doing you any favors", oooooookay. Or they'd say something so unkind then say " don't you dare cry". It's beyond weird to me how unkind they can be. Last year someone hurt me so bad I stopped trusting everyone, I guess I had to go through the hard stuff because I'm stronger from all that happened and have set boundaries. It's beyond me why people are the way they are but someone told me the other day, you are here, you got to be born which makes you unique/amazing to start with. Nobody has your eyes or smile or heart". I'm so happy you're here, truth gurrrrrl! Happy weekend ✨✨✨❤✨✨✨
I been there in my life for the past 2 years. I don't replay know if it's comparaison but I feel so like in a repetitive state and it is not how I want to live my life. But I can't bring myself to have interest for my hobbies anymore. It's so hard but you are not alone.
Omg hi I love your videos and your hair!❤😊
I think I've been feeling similarly and knitting the same thing. Like exactly. Like I think I'm currently using the same giant soft baby blue skein that is HUGE.
When i lack confidence i come to u or spencer. Ur vedios make my dayyy❤️❤️❤️
luv u girl !!!
So excited to discover another fellow knitter.
That's it. I'll start knitting
Great video, where can you buy the pink thing around your neck?
I'm sorry you're feeling like this I started watching your aunt videos a little more today and I've been thinking you should be my aunt but I wasn't thinking you may need someone too you seem so genuine if you ever need someone me or any of your other fans are here for you
I literally like you so much and this video is great. Love that you knit. I read books before too, but now I don't find it that interesting. I want to like reading tho. And be really smart and stuff, but right know I wanna play Sims 4 and I have to feel that it's okay. I wish you all the happiness in the world, too! ❤ Thank you so much for your existance. ❤
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hey i LOVE YOUR VIDEO AND YOU ARE AS WEIRD AS ME 😀😀
My pillow feels inadequate
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Will you make an hour version of this? And like every week? Just saying. It’s more relaxing than Nidra yoga
Vibiessssss😭✋✋🎀🎀🎀
You spoke
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❤❤❤ 38 secs
Am I commenting bc your my secret UA-cam crush? Hundo P. But here’s something that I’ve learned and wanted to share. Fear, especially the debilitating, paralyzing kind always seems to signal that deep down inside you functionally don’t believe that God’s grace and His sovereignty is bigger than you, your lack of accomplishments, lack of relationships, or whatever uncertainty pervading your thought life. He is good, exceedingly good, and He is sovereign. Rest in that. Just keep knitting… He will provide the thread. Looking forward to more goofy vids Gabs.
I also like to be alone I love the silence in my room I hate people I don't like living with them they stare at me all the time I don't like people looking at me
Hi Gabrielle wow Gabrielle those words touched me that's exactly how I feel towards other people you are very intelligent, and skillful knitting buried in the middle of that cushion is a Incredible thing it feels like a monster is swallowing you, you are a beautiful and wonderful girl I love you so much Gabrielle 👩❤️👨
Slay
First also love you 😍
Don't pay attention to those mean words that this woman said about your hair, this woman is bad, Gabrielle, this woman will one day pay for this, you are a beautiful girl, Gabrielle. 😢
Didn't notice she posted video 4 Days ago....
AWW I love u gab!❤❤Pin?
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Day 131 of asking for you to please give us a of all the jewelry you wear and where they are from 🫶🏼
Okay girl but what if you're 36? I'm screwed
I can design logo for you if you want
People who talk like that are haters! Your hair always looks fabulous! 😍 People think i have a nade job but i literally have $2 in my account. A nose job? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I wish i could afford a taco!
👇Under 10 mins
Girl I love you, and remeber you're not even half through you life so there is no tiem for a midlife crisis okay? go and live you best live, if you want to lay down in a pregnacy pillow, do it, but if you don't then don't.
Are you AI?
watched ur whole makeup tutorial as a guy so stop saying ur not entertaining or fun to watch ty