Families need to stop demonising women for not falling pregnant. It's not always the womans fault. Maybe the trauma and insults she suffered prior to having children played a role in how she raised her children. I think some people can't cope with motherhood. This was hard to listen to. "God is able to give you a new character" well said sisi. Congratulations on your book. I'll get a copy.
I agree with you 💯. Our culture has always been so oppressive towards women and its unfortunate that even today that is still continuing. As men we should also really learn to love our women and stop promising them heaven and earth only to break their hearts
This is so sad. Your mother was broken but she didn't know how to deal with brokenness, so she broke everyone else around her. So painful to watch. I need to purchase your book mama.
Some mothers or Dad suffered from mental illnesses or bipolar . Its difficult to get diagnosed or any sort of help when people are not made aware of such illnesses. I feel sorry for both her and the mother.
Hurt people hurt others..I can relate.One of the worst things was when I had struggled to get into WITS University and was asking my mom to sign a NSFAS form for me.She refused and said she wished I could fail and get expelled from the university.She also said that she wished I could get mad and go about picking papers in the street like a mad person,I was shattered.BUT GOD is awesome I managed to finish record time.Today I raise children with love and they are successful because I encourage them and pray for them.My daughter is 22 and finishing her Master's degree in Environmental Science at WITS...To GOD be the glory!What meant to hurt me...made me STRONG
This is sad, but there are still plenty mothers who still abuse their children. Nobody admits it, nobody talks about. Thanks mama for telling your story.
One reason why we don't talk about it is that society judges very harshly. They say a parent is always right. People attack us for not forgiving. It's sad and it hurts like crazy.
There is a woman in our hood who we know she specialist with calling social workers if you mistreat your child, quietly you will see social workers paying you a visit today I have a great respect for her.Now I understand why she is doing that .I wish mmeThelma had neighbours like her.Let us not turn a blind eye lets report these to social workers .As black people let us normalise going for counselling now almost all villages have clinics go and ask they will help. Not being able to bear children should not devalue you as a woman ,these name calling has sent many to early graves cos you see and feel like a failure.Thank you for sharing mmeThelma God bless you and may your book do well evn internationally.
Thelma is really smart to recognise the part that unaddressed trauma plays in the repetition of cycles of abuse. I'm glad she sought therapy for herself and is advocating for others who have been through similar to do the same. God bless her!
@@mrsnoma1422 she will never change , I'm also going through the same ran away from home twice but everytime I came back she would be worse than before. You can help her but at a distance , visit her and stay not more than 2days
Oooh no! It’s heartbreaking to learn how trauma and pain can be passed on to other people if one doesn’t heal. I am so glad that mama Thelma found her own healing, I wish more parents could listen to this. Sending love and light to everyone who is walking with pain🌻
They tried to break you but all they did was build a strong resilient fighter! I dont know your full life story and all your traumas but from the ones youve shared with us today its obvious that your life has not been easy and it makes it even more amazing to listen to you because you exude such a calm and kind energy despite what youve been through. Thank you for sharing your story , praying endless blessings into your life.
I have been through the most with my mother too. Thank you so much for this I really do need therapy and I'm going to book it because my husband and kids don't deserve this❤️
offence pain and bitterness rejection left without being dealt with can turn someone into a witch... This mother was a victim of all these and she started victimizing the people she was supposed to love
Now I know why I don't want to go through labour 😔 because the abuse from my mother💔.. I love children so much but the idea of giving birth and a child to come and go through what have been through just doesn't sit well with me💔💔 I need help 😢 Thank you for your story mama❤️
Mme Thelma's mother's words reminds me of the importance of speaking words of Life and not words of death. May our communication with one another be loving, tactful and kind.
So sorry to hear what you and your mother gone through, she had depression and losing two young kids, that was too much for her, please forgive your mother My sister
I am so sorry that you had to go through this kind of life. I pray the holy spirit comforts you and heals you. Sending you much love and strength. Be still and know that God is for you
Just the intro made me burst into tears YEYI ❤️❤️❤️🙏😭 Mme Thelma Dlamini, God's love, healing, peace, protection, blessings and light to you and anyone who's endured hardships and trauma 🙏✨🙏✨🙏you are loved, you matter
This is heart breaking...im really sorry u had to go through that as kids, in the hands of a person who should be protectiong her kids....i think your mom went into deppresion, everything she went through changed her...the bitterness and anger...ohhh im really sorry...hugs❤
True.He didn’t even defend his wife when she was abused by the in-laws and went on to cheat and left all the kids to be her responsibility .After he comes back ,he wants to be treated like a King??Everything is on the wife’s shoulders .There’s no way she was not gonna be bitter yoh 💔After all the abuse.But she was wrong to take her bitterness on her kids💔🤕
We need to educate ourselves about mental health, mental wellness and Let go off the stigma around mental health. Her mom was not ok, Im sorry you had to go through this mama.
I'm crying because we tend to ignore how our mothers can be abusive and it's just sad because it was all because of how she was also abused .. imagen being laughed by kids and being called names .. with this, I've seen the importance of counseling
Woooo this story is so sad 😭 Even watching this I can’t finish this story 😭😭. There’s no excuse of a mother acting like this!!! She’s a monster herself and the father is the worst for not being man enough to stop it!!!
I can relate to this story... I know how it's like to be raised by a mother who's full of anger nd be a punching bag up until u not scared of being beaten
May the Good Lord intervene here because there are so many families going through this but with this corrupt world who is a councillor without gain. Because even churches are fake😢😢
Indeed mother you've been through the most but a beautiful ending .I'm so happy that you are receiving counseling.This is the hardest story I've ever heard..May God continue to be a healer in your life
😭😭😭your story is so heartbreaking and I love that you recognize that your mother was herself a victim of trauma and abuse bu others. May God continue to heal you and heal others through you.
Hi Thelma that was my grandma's name and ithought she was the only lady with that name ..I haven't listened to your story ..your name caught my attention 🤩😍😍😍😍
And it took you so long to talk about this,yet still remember every detail so sorry you had to go through all that ma😢😢❤your mom was so broken that she ended up bleeding on her kids,very sad.. All she needed was help
Thank you, Ma Thelma. Did your mother ever apologize? Did you guys manage to mend your relationship, I wonder. Also, can we PLEASE address the rape culture in SA! So many speakers on this channel are rape survivors. What the heck is wrong with our men?!
I doubt the mother apologised... Because of all the trauma she went through... Mother became narcissistic... Narcissists never apologise as they are in broken consciousness...even if they see they are wrong... Their ego will not allow them. She will justify her actions and say coz l am the elder and wena ungumntwana... So I can do whatever l want with you. Mentality of abantu abadala.
This is very bad. Its very clear that her anger towards you and your siblings was a direct result of physical abuse she received from the community. She failed to seek counseling and it later on had a huge impact on her. The physical abuse which she directed towards you and your siblings was just a way of her to experience a short healing and comfort.
This is very touching. Not only our parents but also our grandparents had to carry on with life as if things were okay; mental health was unheard-of back then. We are grateful for such stories because they show and teach us to forgive them as Christ forgives and extends his grace to us daily 💕.
This is heartbreaking. I'm glad you have now received counselling and recognise that you didn't give your children what you didn't have. I hope they also get counselling so that the cycle does not continue. God bless you all!
The saddest story from this channel l am in awe of what was going on in that household...mama your voice is still breaking as you're narrating and it's breaking my heart too, reliving your childhood is still traumatic for you... psychological scars and traumas are real...may God continue healing you.. sending you love from Zimbabwe
This is heartbreaking. I pray you heal and forgive and always remember hurt people hurt people. God is all that, find peace in him, as much as you are healed you are still scarred. I'm sorry for what you went through ❤🥰
I want to watch the whole video but it hurts too much coz i can relate. I'm glad she's healed but i have not. My mother took my life. All that's remaining is a Zombie.
May the healing power of God restore the pain u going through may God almighty lift ur spirit up so u can leave according to the purpose he had for you he loves you and he has great plans for you. ❤❤❤❤
This story taught me a lot about King David and Absalom his son, Often times I blamed David for the way Absalom turned out, because had David solved that rape issue concerning Tamer Absalom would not have became a monster that he was. You see the root of bitterness killed him( silent for two long years) now it's all absalom😢.
@@precious5106 yes, he stayed there for three years then came back. But after some time he challenged the throne of his father and battled with him and was killed during the battle. 2 samuel chapter 13 to chapter 18.
Yho yho Thixo wamaZulu yhini trauma engaka eyenziwa ngulomama ebantwaneni 😢😢hayi Nkosi some women are cruel I don't care how hurt you were but taking out on your children is drawing the line no😢
Wow this is so painful. I can relate to a certain degree, my mom knocked my tooth out while beating me. But at least she has change now . However I still do feel the pain sometimes when I think about how she used to treat me. Although I never got sn apology from her for mistreating me, I am glad that I chose to forgive her and move on.
Oh my God if you see a mother abuse her biological children than you must know that there is something bad what she went through a mother is mean to be a caring person your mom went through a lot and was jst pouring her stress and anger upon you all but God is faithful I realy feel her pain as a mother even the loss of her kids is realy too much but you guys you must forgive her and love her show love to her most let her release the pain out her heart and you guys mst receive Jesus He is a peace giver than all will be well with your family thanks
Yhooo this is heavy and painful.. To those who know different, let's help other moms get the help they need to raise children without hurting them because they were hurt and never healed. This is painful to hear about and an eye opener. Some people will ridicule you for saying your mother abuses, because a mother should be the one to protect you. These things are still happening in 2021.. Lord, help us be a blessing to each other 🙏 I pray for mama for her testimony to help many families heal and may she find healing she needs in Jesus name, Amen.
@@LM-he7eb share such content with her, that's how I indirectly influence biblical behavior with my circle. Unfortunately she might not even notice the abuse she is causing. Pray for her and also find moments to gently bring awareness
Families need to stop demonising women for not falling pregnant. It's not always the womans fault. Maybe the trauma and insults she suffered prior to having children played a role in how she raised her children. I think some people can't cope with motherhood. This was hard to listen to. "God is able to give you a new character" well said sisi. Congratulations on your book. I'll get a copy.
I agree with you 💯. Our culture has always been so oppressive towards women and its unfortunate that even today that is still continuing. As men we should also really learn to love our women and stop promising them heaven and earth only to break their hearts
Mummy needed counseling. She needed God so much. May God heal the family
This is so sad. Your mother was broken but she didn't know how to deal with brokenness, so she broke everyone else around her. So painful to watch. I need to purchase your book mama.
Most South African parents are broken it is sad
I thought I was the only one who was abused by my mother💔😭
Some mothers or Dad suffered from mental illnesses or bipolar . Its difficult to get diagnosed or any sort of help when people are not made aware of such illnesses. I feel sorry for both her and the mother.
@@jaystan233 askies may God almighty heal you .🙏
Everything and everyone can be against you but when your own mom is against you is another thing!!
Old people moved on without counseling, they gotten so used to it that they call us weak when we seek counseling.
Hi fellow masondo,good to know you.
Hurt people hurt others..I can relate.One of the worst things was when I had struggled to get into WITS University and was asking my mom to sign a NSFAS form for me.She refused and said she wished I could fail and get expelled from the university.She also said that she wished I could get mad and go about picking papers in the street like a mad person,I was shattered.BUT GOD is awesome I managed to finish record time.Today I raise children with love and they are successful because I encourage them and pray for them.My daughter is 22 and finishing her Master's degree in Environmental Science at WITS...To GOD be the glory!What meant to hurt me...made me STRONG
This is sad, but there are still plenty mothers who still abuse their children. Nobody admits it, nobody talks about. Thanks mama for telling your story.
One reason why we don't talk about it is that society judges very harshly. They say a parent is always right. People attack us for not forgiving. It's sad and it hurts like crazy.
This has to be the saddest "I've been through the most" story 😢
I swear
Chillers it's bad dude
Shoooooo 😞
I agree
There is a woman in our hood who we know she specialist with calling social workers if you mistreat your child, quietly you will see social workers paying you a visit today I have a great respect for her.Now I understand why she is doing that .I wish mmeThelma had neighbours like her.Let us not turn a blind eye lets report these to social workers .As black people let us normalise going for counselling now almost all villages have clinics go and ask they will help. Not being able to bear children should not devalue you as a woman ,these name calling has sent many to early graves cos you see and feel like a failure.Thank you for sharing mmeThelma God bless you and may your book do well evn internationally.
💔 i feel like we need a part 2 of this story.
Thelma is really smart to recognise the part that unaddressed trauma plays in the repetition of cycles of abuse. I'm glad she sought therapy for herself and is advocating for others who have been through similar to do the same. God bless her!
Women in our society go through alot of pain and abuse...
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Sadly this sounds like my mother... I can so relate. Now I’m labelled a bad child for not wanting to visit home anymore 💔
Women who suffer abuse suffer mental health issues. It appears this lady’s mom suffered too much until she snapped !
People don't wanna accept that parents can be toxic. I don't blame u instead I pray u find healing and surround yourself with people who love u.
Please forgive her, she also had her own issues and never dealt with them.
@@nompumelelomahlangu360 I have truly but I also cannot act like nothing happened 🌻
@@mrsnoma1422 she will never change , I'm also going through the same ran away from home twice but everytime I came back she would be worse than before. You can help her but at a distance , visit her and stay not more than 2days
Oooh no! It’s heartbreaking to learn how trauma and pain can be passed on to other people if one doesn’t heal. I am so glad that mama Thelma found her own healing, I wish more parents could listen to this. Sending love and light to everyone who is walking with pain🌻
They tried to break you but all they did was build a strong resilient fighter! I dont know your full life story and all your traumas but from the ones youve shared with us today its obvious that your life has not been easy and it makes it even more amazing to listen to you because you exude such a calm and kind energy despite what youve been through. Thank you for sharing your story , praying endless blessings into your life.
As the saying goes "Hurt people hurt people". I'm glad that uMama has healed and is now educating others.
I have been through the most with my mother too. Thank you so much for this I really do need therapy and I'm going to book it because my husband and kids don't deserve this❤️
Thanks for acknowledging that you need help🥺
God is the best therapist out there. Jehovah jireh alone can completely heal and understand us. 1. Peter 5,7
offence pain and bitterness rejection left without being dealt with can turn someone into a witch... This mother was a victim of all these and she started victimizing the people she was supposed to love
Now I know why I don't want to go through labour 😔 because the abuse from my mother💔.. I love children so much but the idea of giving birth and a child to come and go through what have been through just doesn't sit well with me💔💔
I need help 😢
Thank you for your story mama❤️
Mme Thelma's mother's words reminds me of the importance of speaking words of Life and not words of death.
May our communication with one another be loving, tactful and kind.
This is sooooo heartbreaking! How does your own mom treat you like that? this is too much
I struggle to grasp this..what happens to a mother that they treat their own child like this..l just can never understand.
She was broken, angry and never healed
Her mother was broken! Her mother was broken by society, by her husband and by the system
So sorry to hear what you and your mother gone through, she had depression and losing two young kids, that was too much for her, please forgive your mother My sister
I have not even listened to your story but my heart is feeling so sad when I listen to your voice and the anxiety in your body..Be healed mama
I am so sorry that you had to go through this kind of life. I pray the holy spirit comforts you and heals you. Sending you much love and strength. Be still and know that God is for you
Just the intro made me burst into tears YEYI ❤️❤️❤️🙏😭
Mme Thelma Dlamini, God's love, healing, peace, protection, blessings and light to you and anyone who's endured hardships and trauma 🙏✨🙏✨🙏you are loved, you matter
This is heart breaking...im really sorry u had to go through that as kids, in the hands of a person who should be protectiong her kids....i think your mom went into deppresion, everything she went through changed her...the bitterness and anger...ohhh im really sorry...hugs❤
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This is heartbreaking. The trauma that this woman and her siblings experienced. 😭💔 "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
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So articulate mama. I could listen to her the whole day.
Not everyone is meant to be a mother. Broken people destroy people.
Your father also had a hand in destroying your mom, no matter how much you loved him but he did not protect her its like she was alone
And after she gave birth to all these children, she left her with the children.
True.He didn’t even defend his wife when she was abused by the in-laws and went on to cheat and left all the kids to be her responsibility .After he comes back ,he wants to be treated like a King??Everything is on the wife’s shoulders .There’s no way she was not gonna be bitter yoh 💔After all the abuse.But she was wrong to take her bitterness on her kids💔🤕
We need to educate ourselves about mental health, mental wellness and Let go off the stigma around mental health.
Her mom was not ok, Im sorry you had to go through this mama.
I'm crying because we tend to ignore how our mothers can be abusive and it's just sad because it was all because of how she was also abused .. imagen being laughed by kids and being called names .. with this, I've seen the importance of counseling
Your poor mother lost herself. Due to all the abuse and humiliation condemnation she endured
Thats no excuse for her behavior tho she was just evil af
The mother must be strong and protect her children, abuse is not the answer
Woooo this story is so sad 😭
Even watching this I can’t finish this story 😭😭. There’s no excuse of a mother acting like this!!! She’s a monster herself and the father is the worst for not being man enough to stop it!!!
I can relate to this story... I know how it's like to be raised by a mother who's full of anger nd be a punching bag up until u not scared of being beaten
We must accept that mothers can be abusive and monsters. That way we will take harsh steps to deal with them as we would men.
I am glad you went through all of this with your siblings and not alone😭😭I am so sorry you (all) went through all of this
May the Good Lord intervene here because there are so many families going through this but with this corrupt world who is a councillor without gain. Because even churches are fake😢😢
Hugs to you mama
I am glad that you are healed. This is a testimony and a good advise from an experienced mother. Thanks Mamzo
Indeed mother you've been through the most but a beautiful ending .I'm so happy that you are receiving counseling.This is the hardest story I've ever heard..May God continue to be a healer in your life
Yoooh , you have through the Most Mom😭😭😭May God be your strength forever more
😭😭😭your story is so heartbreaking and I love that you recognize that your mother was herself a victim of trauma and abuse bu others. May God continue to heal you and heal others through you.
"I can cannot give what i don't have "
That why there's no love on people's heart
perfect definition of hurt people, hurt people.
Ijooo this is sooo painful....may God heal all of you in Jesus Name Amen
Trauma and mental health among our African community is the number 1 culprit for domestic and substance abuse
Hi Thelma that was my grandma's name and ithought she was the only lady with that name ..I haven't listened to your story ..your name caught my attention 🤩😍😍😍😍
And it took you so long to talk about this,yet still remember every detail so sorry you had to go through all that ma😢😢❤your mom was so broken that she ended up bleeding on her kids,very sad..
All she needed was help
Thank you, Ma Thelma. Did your mother ever apologize? Did you guys manage to mend your relationship, I wonder. Also, can we PLEASE address the rape culture in SA! So many speakers on this channel are rape survivors. What the heck is wrong with our men?!
Please get the book. It is even more detailed.
I doubt the mother apologised... Because of all the trauma she went through... Mother became narcissistic... Narcissists never apologise as they are in broken consciousness...even if they see they are wrong... Their ego will not allow them. She will justify her actions and say coz l am the elder and wena ungumntwana... So I can do whatever l want with you. Mentality of abantu abadala.
This is very bad.
Its very clear that her anger towards you and your siblings was a direct result of physical abuse she received from the community. She failed to seek counseling and it later on had a huge impact on her.
The physical abuse which she directed towards you and your siblings was just a way of her to experience a short healing and comfort.
This is very touching. Not only our parents but also our grandparents had to carry on with life as if things were okay; mental health was unheard-of back then. We are grateful for such stories because they show and teach us to forgive them as Christ forgives and extends his grace to us daily 💕.
This is heartbreaking. I'm glad you have now received counselling and recognise that you didn't give your children what you didn't have. I hope they also get counselling so that the cycle does not continue. God bless you all!
The saddest story from this channel l am in awe of what was going on in that household...mama your voice is still breaking as you're narrating and it's breaking my heart too, reliving your childhood is still traumatic for you... psychological scars and traumas are real...may God continue healing you.. sending you love from Zimbabwe
I salute u.This is very painful n we go through these trauma quietly harming ourselves
Batswadi barena bagobetje 😭😭May God Give you strength to heal Mama🙏
This is heartbreaking. I pray you heal and forgive and always remember hurt people hurt people. God is all that, find peace in him, as much as you are healed you are still scarred. I'm sorry for what you went through ❤🥰
I was abused too and it's really hard to relearn .I am self aware and I try everyday
Thank you, that you became a beautiful soul. Thank you for your testimony 🙏🏽
Oh my God this is sad, how does a mother treats her own biological children in such an inhumane manner
She was physiologically damaged
I want to watch the whole video but it hurts too much coz i can relate. I'm glad she's healed but i have not. My mother took my life. All that's remaining is a Zombie.
May the healing power of God restore the pain u going through may God almighty lift ur spirit up so u can leave according to the purpose he had for you he loves you and he has great plans for you. ❤❤❤❤
Please seek counselling. Uphole sis.
This story taught me a lot about King David and Absalom his son, Often times I blamed David for the way Absalom turned out, because had David solved that rape issue concerning Tamer Absalom would not have became a monster that he was. You see the root of bitterness killed him( silent for two long years) now it's all absalom😢.
Absalom ran to Geshur right?
@@precious5106 yes, he stayed there for three years then came back. But after some time he challenged the throne of his father and battled with him and was killed during the battle. 2 samuel chapter 13 to chapter 18.
Tjo I have never heard of such from your own mother, may God continue to strengthen you 🙏
It was spiritual mama, what you went through needed spiritual intervention. So sad,
Oh my God the story it's so touch
Morena o tseba Mathata a rona...💐
I thought it's only in Kenya where there's tribalism 😭😭
The mother was going through real depression.
It is very rife in south africa
Everywhere in Africa you will find tribalism.
It hurts most when its done by someone who is meant to protect you she was bitter she needed counseling
My mom is currently going through the same thing... I'm crying as you speak
God is not a fool. 😢😭
I wish counseling was normalized for our mothers generation. She would be okay. She has been through so much and it is only coming back now.
God is the only solution, just kneel down and pray for your mother and I know it's not easy to be in that space. With so much love 💖💛❤
Yho yho Thixo wamaZulu yhini trauma engaka eyenziwa ngulomama ebantwaneni 😢😢hayi Nkosi some women are cruel I don't care how hurt you were but taking out on your children is drawing the line no😢
My heart is sore over this story, the saddest to date!
Mmmmh HH Jesus.... I run out of words 🙏🙏🙏
This is exactly why God was sorry He had made man!!!
True
Oh my gosh my heart !!!!😭
Wow this is so painful. I can relate to a certain degree, my mom knocked my tooth out while beating me. But at least she has change now . However I still do feel the pain sometimes when I think about how she used to treat me. Although I never got sn apology from her for mistreating me, I am glad that I chose to forgive her and move on.
This is sad. I am heartbroken for her.
My goodness, I hope your mother got counseling and you have forgiven her ....This is just too much 😢😢 and heartbroken 💔 😥
Broken people break people.
Oh my God if you see a mother abuse her biological children than you must know that there is something bad what she went through a mother is mean to be a caring person your mom went through a lot and was jst pouring her stress and anger upon you all but God is faithful I realy feel her pain as a mother even the loss of her kids is realy too much but you guys you must forgive her and love her show love to her most let her release the pain out her heart and you guys mst receive Jesus He is a peace giver than all will be well with your family thanks
the child was named gogonyana thats not fair
It’s time for us black people to start taking counselling serious 🧐
True...it's important to receive counselling because once you don't heal...you will bleed on other people..
Such an evil mother ohhhh my gossshhh... 😭😢💔💔💔
This is very heartbreaking 💔
Mental illness is the result of unresolved childhood traumas. I wish people can understand the importance of counseling and stop acting strong 🙏
😭😭😭😭 sad story to tell I pray for all to be happy & protracted
It's so sad nd heart breaking
aah Jesus Christ heals you x God bless you my sister x
Reminds me of "Out of the Darkness" by Stormie Omartian
Her mom was evil 🙆🏽😢😢
Painful 😪
Very sad tjo hai...this is too much
I thank God for coming across this channel.Thank you mama Thema for your story it is soo touching. .I would like to buy your book .Where can i get it?
Such a sadness😞
Where can we get the book, please?
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭So sad
Pain changes the person's heart
What a story. Shem nkosi yam
I can relate very well
Oh my God🥺🥺🥺💔
Yhooo this is heavy and painful.. To those who know different, let's help other moms get the help they need to raise children without hurting them because they were hurt and never healed. This is painful to hear about and an eye opener.
Some people will ridicule you for saying your mother abuses, because a mother should be the one to protect you. These things are still happening in 2021..
Lord, help us be a blessing to each other 🙏 I pray for mama for her testimony to help many families heal and may she find healing she needs in Jesus name, Amen.
A mother is the hardest person to correct.
I feel this way about my friend, she abuses her daughter. I don’t know how to tell her.
@@LM-he7eb share such content with her, that's how I indirectly influence biblical behavior with my circle. Unfortunately she might not even notice the abuse she is causing. Pray for her and also find moments to gently bring awareness
@@refilwesehlake I’ll try