17 i was pregnant .....take your time dear ....i never enjoy my childhood...because i was young mum knowing nothing...my son is 19 and am not planing for another child
@@funkejames7482 I hear you. I think one is a good number for the times we’re in ❤️ you have the rest of your life to enjoy. The best thing with having a mum who was young is that we got to be friends as well ❤️
Hi gilda i know that no parent hates their child but you have to realise that there is passed on trauma and i dont think it si fair on how this mother is treating the child yes there are healthy mother daughter relations but you have to realise its not always the childs fault . i truly dont get why the mother would compress the childs emotions even though situation the mother should be reasonable and raise a child who has a healthy self esteem not apologising to the boyfriend and poke her head she should be atleast supportive at times how you guys responde to this was kinda leaning on the parents side wat about the child who was made fun of and raised herself
Sometimes being surrounded by negativity can really have a huge impact. I grew up with people that constantly commented negatively on my weight and it really affected my esteem. I finally met a partner that constantly assures me and complements me and I feel like a heavy burden has been lifted off my shoulders. I am still going through therapy to forgive the trauma that all the negativity caused to try and forgive them but it's hard.
@@mercychepngenoh4029 it sucks that we enter adulthood having to heal from our childhood and no one ever tells you that. If you’re lucky you figure it out on your own and do the work. If not you repeat the cycle. I feel like our generation is the generation that will break the cycle. And that means more work. You just need one person in your corner and I’m so glad you have that in your partner. That’s a blessing because as ladies we know most men are horrible. So don’t stop pouring love into yourself your very worthy of that love ❤️
Pride,you are suffering from pride, pray for deliverance,then you won't hurt anymore, ppl hurt us severely, very close people,but its all for our own growth
Dear girl,you need to be delivered from the curses of your mother, getting pregnant while at parents home, marrying the wrong people,you must break away from that and look unto God for directions
Mama you are 54?? Wow!! 54 looks phenomenal on you!! Who else here is pleasantly surprised by her age? Mama you have done great taking care of yourself. Please share mama’s health lifestyle.
@@ronnahwandera6679 she really looks great. She loves herself and takes care of herself and doesn’t like stress. She does Rhumba and drinks a lot of water and most important she really minds her own business and enjoys life to the fullest. From my observation that’s what I think it is ❤️
I love this conversation. I just quit my 8 to 5 to be a Stay at home mom...and I couldn't have it any other way. I appreciate my husband for having to take up all the bills as i stay home and raise Our baby. No regrets. Bring esther again.
@@marymackori-wd3hz see, this is what I want. And thank you for sharing that it is achievable in this day and age. Having a supportive husband is key. I’m sure it allows you to be a more present mother and I love that for you 💕 my mum will be on all the episodes. 😀😀 it’s something we’re doing together to talk about our life ❤️
@@lydianyambura3118 thank you!! I’m noticing that a lot of other women can relate which feels good to know I’m not alone. We can make it a safe space for us ❤️
Thanks so much for the wonderful conversation, i have learnt a lot and looking forward for more ,as a person who grew up without a mother ,this will help in the near future.
@@lorineodawa4005 thank you so much for watching. When I thought about starting this podcast I really had you in mind. I thought how tough it must’ve been to do this life without a mother and sometimes you just wanna what your mother would say or how you would interact so thank you for tuning in and you are always welcome back I’m so happy you’re here ❤️
Exactly,,,most young people live in the future and with so much fear,, negative expectations, negative projections and so much pessimism,, i bet we don't really see ourselves aging well!!!
From that short story of mother and daughter, the mistake that the mum did was comparing her with others and having greater expectations! We should never compare kids to their friends, cousins etc.
Yes.. that comparison thing is painful.. it puts the idea on their head that you prefer to have someone else as your child.. that’s when insecurities about not being good enough start to form
Doing well, Gilda. Occasionally you're interrupting before mum finishes. Listen more and interject where and when necessary, gal. Keep up as you grow in the same. More grace
@@charlesmarando4520 thank you so much for your feedback. Im not doing it intentionally. My mum knows the way I communicate. When I have a thought sometimes it’s hard for me to not say it then and there or I lose it. I’m chaotic because my mind runs a mile a minute.but with her I’m free to have faults around her. That’s the beauty of having a parent that accepts what others would deem “flaws”.The reason why people cant talk openly to their parents is because barriers and boundaries are put up. You have to approach them in a certain way or a “right” way. When I talk to my mum she lets me be myself and she listens. The last thing I would ever be is disrespectful to my mother. In the description you will see I said I’m not perfect and I’m not trying to be. I’m understood and accepted and I’m being my authentic self. We don’t judge in girl talk 😄
@@vivianawour1941 I have other responsibilities in my life. My work, my home and well-being but I will admit I was spoiled a lot so maybe that’s why I don’t mind being happy alone. I’m loved at home
Esther is right. men dont want to commit. i have a man over 40, never married, no babay mama but mgumu kama mahindi imekauka. mko tu hataki uende ukae nayeye, hataki uende kwao. uselezz
Me and Gilda same WhatsApp group, in my head in 3rd floor I’m still a child 😂😂😂😂 You have represented many of us, we’re going through similar scenarios 😅
@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 I feel you Hunny, I wish they were much outspoken, koz they have lived more than us, thus have more knowledge of what exactly is coming hence preparing our little minds... Poor us...😭😭😭
I relate to you 100%...we millenials came at a time where everything we touch,,its danger,,so we developed a protective mechanism to scrutinize everything and if we sense abit of danger,we out!!.....its worrying yes,,but what do we do and its the men who changed us...i guess we should pray more and believe that there mayb good guys left and ask God to guide us to them especially if as a woman,you a good person.. I really waited for this interview,,have really enjoyed it,,thankyou so much finally its here...and yes dear,,vitovu bado havijapona..😂😂😂😂
@ I hear you. I cannot afford to be casual with anything in my life because the repercussions are too high. Not the same as it was for our parents. It feels like they had a lot of protection from God. Or maybe fortune favors the bold and we should be more bold. Im definable trying to try 😂 but let me know what other topics you would like to see I want to create a small community for us through this forum
Thats so true....okay dear,,i hope one day i will share my story too,,its a bitter sweet but guess thats how it is for everyone..waiting for more conversations,,your mom is soo witty and i would love to learn more from her and you guys as a family....Thankyou so much .
The only thing I differ with Gilda is focusing on the negative while getting into a relationship. I agree with your mom- just get into a relationship with an open mind and see how it plays out because if you focus on the negative you’ll end up out looking the little positive sides. Because is like coming out of a breakup and getting into a relationship but assuming that the person is going to do the same things that were done to you earlier/ breaking you.~~~But I also understand what you mean at the same time 😊
I also don’t agree with your mom when she says that “if you have a child with someone by mistake “ you shouldn’t see the child as a mistake. Well children are blessings from God but honestly even me every morning I pray that I’m so glad I didn’t have a child with a particular person because if I ever did; I would have been miserable right now. So yes you can see a baby and the baby ends up reminding you of your worst mistake you ever did and that will greatly affect even how you raise that child and the emotions towards the child and at the end of the day that will also psychologically affect the innocent child. So yes I agree Gilda I’m glad too I never did.😅
I LOVE YOUR MOM THOUGH!!! You guys are having a real honest Mother - Daughter conversation and I’m jealous 😢I wish my mother was still alive 😢so I could have such conversations with her 😢
But I must admit you two are so beautiful 🤩 The convo was beautiful 😍 I just subscribed and can’t wait for more 😅But you’re so funny when you ended by telling your mother that atleast I know that you’re worried now 😅❤😅
@@marygoretyawino326I’ve loved all your feedback. It’s true i need to stop entering things looking for red flags nuts someone killed that innocence in me I really wish I could have it back. Also about the children thing I’m glad you feel the same. I’m so sorry you to hear about your mum. I know how much we need our mothers when we get older I wish I could give you a hug. But she lives through you. You keep her alive everyday ❤ thank you for subscribing we have a lot more to talk about ❤❤
30 yr old wemen bilieve they are still 20. i have a 30 yr old childless and husbandless cousin who is on my neck ati zaaa uko 35. beach thinks she very young
@@Rinahandle13824 I’m grown yes. And I have grown responsibilities but I’m don’t think I’m at the stage to take on the physical and mental load of a child. I want to be the best version of myself first
That's very good but imagine you will be shocked your mom is still finding new things about herself .you stop growing oupon death @@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446
@@jacklinemukudi5417 us children can be so selfish at times. There are things I’ve done that I’ve come to regret. I know this is so painful and I’m sorry on her behalf. I hope she comes to realize how much she needs you in this life. There’s no replacing the love of a mother. Even material things will fade.
Please turembo let me be honest with you ,,you are not young imagine..pateni tutoi ..mambo huflow tu ..don't again wait for too long aki juu you don't know about kesho
@@MyJOSE2013 sa zingine you dont blame yourself for not having a partner.. it's not an achievement as much as your soul reminds you to have one.. we have divorcees at 25 and we have happily married at 40
@@nimosupdates4364 don’t bring this nonsense to my page. If God has blessed you with a low IQ find some pages that you can relate to my dear. This one is not for you!😊
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17 i was pregnant .....take your time dear ....i never enjoy my childhood...because i was young mum knowing nothing...my son is 19 and am not planing for another child
@@funkejames7482 I hear you. I think one is a good number for the times we’re in ❤️ you have the rest of your life to enjoy. The best thing with having a mum who was young is that we got to be friends as well ❤️
Hi gilda i know that no parent hates their child but you have to realise that there is passed on trauma and i dont think it si fair on how this mother is treating the child yes there are healthy mother daughter relations but you have to realise its not always the childs fault . i truly dont get why the mother would compress the childs emotions even though situation the mother should be reasonable and raise a child who has a healthy self esteem not apologising to the boyfriend and poke her head she should be atleast supportive at times how you guys responde to this was kinda leaning on the parents side wat about the child who was made fun of and raised herself
This was a good conversation. Can't wait for more episodes
@@esthermusila1970 me too mama 💕
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Sometimes being surrounded by negativity can really have a huge impact. I grew up with people that constantly commented negatively on my weight and it really affected my esteem. I finally met a partner that constantly assures me and complements me and I feel like a heavy burden has been lifted off my shoulders. I am still going through therapy to forgive the trauma that all the negativity caused to try and forgive them but it's hard.
@@mercychepngenoh4029 it sucks that we enter adulthood having to heal from our childhood and no one ever tells you that. If you’re lucky you figure it out on your own and do the work. If not you repeat the cycle. I feel like our generation is the generation that will break the cycle. And that means more work. You just need one person in your corner and I’m so glad you have that in your partner. That’s a blessing because as ladies we know most men are horrible. So don’t stop pouring love into yourself your very worthy of that love ❤️
Pride,you are suffering from pride, pray for deliverance,then you won't hurt anymore, ppl hurt us severely, very close people,but its all for our own growth
Dear girl,you need to be delivered from the curses of your mother, getting pregnant while at parents home, marrying the wrong people,you must break away from that and look unto God for directions
Waoh! Interesting conversation mummy n daughter
@@serahmwaura6781 thank you ❤️
Mama you are 54?? Wow!! 54 looks phenomenal on you!! Who else here is pleasantly surprised by her age? Mama you have done great taking care of yourself. Please share mama’s health lifestyle.
@@ronnahwandera6679 she really looks great. She loves herself and takes care of herself and doesn’t like stress. She does Rhumba and drinks a lot of water and most important she really minds her own business and enjoys life to the fullest. From my observation that’s what I think it is ❤️
You got that right 👏🏻👏🏻
She is about positive vibes. I love her. Has inspired me bigtime
@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446she loves God
@@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446she is real
This girl is very respectful,she was raised well❤need more of this ❤❤❤
@@DencyDee thank you ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story especially when you said you sacrificed your career to be a stay at home mum ❤❤
I too hv sacrificed since 2012....my last is 11yrs now.
@@martharinebiseko1457wow you are good people. I know that is a huge sacrifice. I hope your children realize how big that is ❤
I love this conversation. I just quit my 8 to 5 to be a Stay at home mom...and I couldn't have it any other way. I appreciate my husband for having to take up all the bills as i stay home and raise Our baby. No regrets. Bring esther again.
@@marymackori-wd3hz see, this is what I want. And thank you for sharing that it is achievable in this day and age. Having a supportive husband is key. I’m sure it allows you to be a more present mother and I love that for you 💕 my mum will be on all the episodes. 😀😀 it’s something we’re doing together to talk about our life ❤️
Good job Gilda......@esther I love the way you respond❤ tuned in for more episodes
We can talk forever 😂😂😂😂 thank youuuu and welcome ❤
Thanks have liked it very inspiring episode new member
Good to have you here Gladys and thank you ❤
Such a beautiful conversation. Loved watching every bit of it. Thank you Gilda. Much love from 🇺🇬
Oh wow. Thank you 😍 much love to Uganda and much love to you ❤❤ I really appreciate you 💕
Thanks, Gilda & Esther for the insight...This generation needs such.
I know.. we really do 💕
This poped while scrolling 🥰🥰🥰 i love this conversation... Esther my role model..you got a new subscriber babygirl 😘
@@swtlady499 hi mama♥️♥️♥️ thank you and welcome 💕💕
Here I am have already watched episode 2,, waiting for episode 3😊😊
Awww thank youuuuu. Episode 3 will be out very soon 💕
I kept saying "Exactly!" To all your points Gilda 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 such an informative discussion from both mom and daughter. I've learned alot.
For real??? Thank you!! I have found my tribe, 😂 this is a safe space for you 💕
Esther what a wonderful woman of God. Gilda baby girl congratulations.
@@summerrose8439 you’re so sweet. Thank you ❤️
What a nice conversation ,,keep up girl
@@irenekawiraithanya6507 thank you so much 💕
Woow 😍 This is so educative 👏🏾👏🏾
Need more of these mammah❤ as we wait to arrive there😊
@@youngfortuneofficial thank you for watching. stay tuned we have a lot to talk about 😀😀
@@youngfortuneofficial thanks my darling.
I really feel you girl. Most of the points you are making, it's like you were asking them for me.
@@lydianyambura3118 thank you!! I’m noticing that a lot of other women can relate which feels good to know I’m not alone. We can make it a safe space for us ❤️
I feel the same too
Nice conversation, i have change the way of thinking 😮thsnks for hosting your mum
@@officialjourneywithsarahk thank you. We’ll be back very soon
This is beautiful! Great lessons ❤
Glad you think so!
Thanks so much for the wonderful conversation, i have learnt a lot and looking forward for more ,as a person who grew up without a mother ,this will help in the near future.
@@lorineodawa4005 thank you so much for watching. When I thought about starting this podcast I really had you in mind. I thought how tough it must’ve been to do this life without a mother and sometimes you just wanna what your mother would say or how you would interact so thank you for tuning in and you are always welcome back I’m so happy you’re here ❤️
Great and candid conversation, congratulations Esther 👏👏 you have done a great job trough this girl life ❤
Thank you. Am humbled
@@Daniellagat-js5lt thank you. She is my greatest gift in life
Exactly,,,most young people live in the future and with so much fear,, negative expectations, negative projections and so much pessimism,, i bet we don't really see ourselves aging well!!!
@@mwangiloise7164 I hear you
Wow wow wooow!!!!!
Good job Gilda...mom daughter episode....
Good job mama G for supporting your daughter ❤
I'm inspired by this keep it up 🎉❤
Thank you
@@wamsufitness3217 thank you so much we have a lot of topics to discuss. Stay tuned ❤️
@judymulewa9302 done ✔️ 🙌 keep it up
Such an open convo.
I love it🥰🥰
Keep up.
Thank you so much 🤗
Beautiful conversation
Very true, Esther. we did not look hard enough ,we followed the flow.
@@rickiejohn9251 I’ve seen that following the flow has not been a bad decision for my mum im just scared that for me kitaniramba 😂
From that short story of mother and daughter, the mistake that the mum did was comparing her with others and having greater expectations! We should never compare kids to their friends, cousins etc.
Yes.. that comparison thing is painful.. it puts the idea on their head that you prefer to have someone else as your child.. that’s when insecurities about not being good enough start to form
Lovely mother daughter convo❤
@@roxysunshine641 thanks Roxy. Keep coming back. Your always welcome
Very good conversation. well done Gilda
i love this Amazing mum and daughter i have learnt alot woooooow bless you😍😍
Done nipitie pia
Doing well, Gilda. Occasionally you're interrupting before mum finishes. Listen more and interject where and when necessary, gal. Keep up as you grow in the same.
More grace
@@charlesmarando4520 thank you so much for your feedback. Im not doing it intentionally. My mum knows the way I communicate. When I have a thought sometimes it’s hard for me to not say it then and there or I lose it. I’m chaotic because my mind runs a mile a minute.but with her I’m free to have faults around her.
That’s the beauty of having a parent that accepts what others would deem “flaws”.The reason why people cant talk openly to their parents is because barriers and boundaries are put up. You have to approach them in a certain way or a “right” way. When I talk to my mum she lets me be myself and she listens. The last thing I would ever be is disrespectful to my mother. In the description you will see I said I’m not perfect and I’m not trying to be. I’m understood and accepted and I’m being my authentic self. We don’t judge in girl talk 😄
@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 I get it. It is well. Keep winning.
Good conversations ❤❤❤
@@elizabethnzioki7627 thank you ♥️
This is so great Gilda 👏👏
@@puritynelima5616 my super producer. Thank you so much ❤️ 💕💕💕
❤❤❤❤we want more of this
@@Waenifmbwika coming very soon 💕
Wow,,,,,nice talks 😊,,,, waiting for more 🎉
@@kakisap thank you. It’s on the way ❤️
Very educative 💯
Thank you 💕💕💕
❤ beautiful mom daughter conversations.
@@janecasey5177 thanks Jane 💕
Wow 😅😅😍 such a sweet video
@@winfredmuendi9839 thank you Winfred ❤️
Very educative and interesting conversation ❤
@@chepkoriragnes2784 thank you
I love how this family relates❤❤❤
@@jacquelinemuthoni366 aww thanks Jackie 🥰
So proud of Esther and the daughter.
Thank you so much
Love the conversation....do more of this
Done nipitie pia
@@DEE_AMUNGA coming soon
Waow mum and dota... good conversation 🎉🎉
Thank you ❤❤
I love her thoughts
New subscriber fron Guardian Angel
Hiiiiii. Welcome ❤
This is nice conversation, have learned something be blessed
@@EuniceAnyangu thanks Eunice I really appreciate that! Keep coming back you’re welcome here 💕💕
Shida ya watoto wadosi,ati at 30 you think you are still a child weuh okay
Much love❤
baby not child
I Love Gilda
@@zippyvaati1450 and I LOVE YOU Zippy ❤️
good vibe indeed
Thank youuuu ❤
Am 32 had my 3kids by 30 i work it all depends on what you can handle as a person
Am loving this
Do a episode with guardian angel??
I love your bonding ❤
@@marykitemeoloo6033 thank you ❤️
❤❤❤❤Good job gal
Nice topic
Done nipitie pia
New sub here...... Love your mum🥰
@@Naishoi98 thank you. You are very welcome here 💕
Awesome Conversation😍... Cant wait for the next episode...🔥🔥🔥
@@djblue_ke thank you so much 💕
Done nipitie pia
At 30 young but not a kid hehhehehheh .....hii generation people are too babied till they are afraid of responsibility my take.
@@vivianawour1941 I have other responsibilities in my life. My work, my home and well-being but I will admit I was spoiled a lot so maybe that’s why I don’t mind being happy alone. I’m loved at home
Esther is right. men dont want to commit. i have a man over 40, never married, no babay mama but mgumu kama mahindi imekauka. mko tu hataki uende ukae nayeye, hataki uende kwao. uselezz
@@MyJOSE2013 😂😂😂 I feel you. We have new generation of men who are not as responsible
Mkuria huyo
I gave birth at 19 years,am always very sacred to get another baby.
Me and Gilda same WhatsApp group, in my head in 3rd floor I’m still a child 😂😂😂😂
You have represented many of us, we’re going through similar scenarios 😅
Am grateful this conversation speaks for many girls of your age...
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My Mum talking "Vumilia."😭
@@mutukuivy1686 😭😭😭😭😭 my mum says that knowing very well my next move is to crash out 😭😭
@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 I feel you Hunny, I wish they were much outspoken, koz they have lived more than us, thus have more knowledge of what exactly is coming hence preparing our little minds... Poor us...😭😭😭
The difference in mentality is just bewildering....we are cooked
@@kenstoudamire7366 the difference in men is also bewildering. Adapt or die 😂
@gildanaibeiloveandlifestyl7446 we are trying 😂...but i love the Gems you were dropping on the young lady.
@@kenstoudamire7366 this is the young lady 😂😂 this is my account😀😀. But I’ll pass the message on to my mum 🙏🏾
Am 33...na sina haraka,,i feel like am 13..the thought of a kid gives me soo much anxiety,,lemne take my take,,hata kitovu bado haijapona,,😂😂😂
@@nanadeechannel7276 ati kitovu haijapona 😂😂😂😂 I’m stealing that because fr. Im just a baby. 😂 thank you so much for watching ❤️
I relate to you 100%...we millenials came at a time where everything we touch,,its danger,,so we developed a protective mechanism to scrutinize everything and if we sense abit of danger,we out!!.....its worrying yes,,but what do we do and its the men who changed us...i guess we should pray more and believe that there mayb good guys left and ask God to guide us to them especially if as a woman,you a good person..
I really waited for this interview,,have really enjoyed it,,thankyou so much finally its here...and yes dear,,vitovu bado havijapona..😂😂😂😂
@ I hear you. I cannot afford to be casual with anything in my life because the repercussions are too high. Not the same as it was for our parents. It feels like they had a lot of protection from God. Or maybe fortune favors the bold and we should be more bold. Im definable trying to try 😂 but let me know what other topics you would like to see I want to create a small community for us through this forum
Thats so true....okay dear,,i hope one day i will share my story too,,its a bitter sweet but guess thats how it is for everyone..waiting for more conversations,,your mom is soo witty and i would love to learn more from her and you guys as a family....Thankyou so much .
Pata katoto my dea.imagine Mungu huwezesha mtu kulea
The baby sounds like a Ugandan.
Beautiful interview
😂😂 I say “me I” alottt. Thank you
The fears and concerns Gilda mentioned are my exact ones too😢😢 But this 2024-2025 I said that let it be- kitachafuka hapa mbele 😅I have to risk it😂
The only thing I differ with Gilda is focusing on the negative while getting into a relationship. I agree with your mom- just get into a relationship with an open mind and see how it plays out because if you focus on the negative you’ll end up out looking the little positive sides. Because is like coming out of a breakup and getting into a relationship but assuming that the person is going to do the same things that were done to you earlier/ breaking you.~~~But I also understand what you mean at the same time 😊
I also don’t agree with your mom when she says that “if you have a child with someone by mistake “ you shouldn’t see the child as a mistake. Well children are blessings from God but honestly even me every morning I pray that I’m so glad I didn’t have a child with a particular person because if I ever did; I would have been miserable right now. So yes you can see a baby and the baby ends up reminding you of your worst mistake you ever did and that will greatly affect even how you raise that child and the emotions towards the child and at the end of the day that will also psychologically affect the innocent child. So yes I agree Gilda I’m glad too I never did.😅
I LOVE YOUR MOM THOUGH!!!
You guys are having a real honest Mother - Daughter conversation and I’m jealous 😢I wish my mother was still alive 😢so I could have such conversations with her 😢
But I must admit you two are so beautiful 🤩 The convo was beautiful 😍 I just subscribed and can’t wait for more 😅But you’re so funny when you ended by telling your mother that atleast I know that you’re worried now 😅❤😅
@@marygoretyawino326I’ve loved all your feedback. It’s true i need to stop entering things looking for red flags nuts someone killed that innocence in me I really wish I could have it back. Also about the children thing I’m glad you feel the same. I’m so sorry you to hear about your mum. I know how much we need our mothers when we get older I wish I could give you a hug. But she lives through you. You keep her alive everyday ❤ thank you for subscribing we have a lot more to talk about ❤❤
Im 24 and im ready to have kids 😅,
wimin of 30 yrs today bilieve they are so young, until you hit 33 husbandless and childless. Start accepting men now kama huna
Gilda at 30 you are grown!!!
30 yr old wemen bilieve they are still 20. i have a 30 yr old childless and husbandless cousin who is on my neck ati zaaa uko 35. beach thinks she very young
@@Rinahandle13824 I’m grown yes. And I have grown responsibilities but I’m don’t think I’m at the stage to take on the physical and mental load of a child. I want to be the best version of myself first
That's very good but imagine you will be shocked your mom is still finding new things about herself .you stop growing oupon death
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Gilda my daughter stole 75k from and she still goes round saying I don't understand her
@@jacklinemukudi5417 us children can be so selfish at times. There are things I’ve done that I’ve come to regret. I know this is so painful and I’m sorry on her behalf. I hope she comes to realize how much she needs you in this life. There’s no replacing the love of a mother. Even material things will fade.
As much as you support the men, don’t stay behind. Build you as you build him
@@chogonyadendi1857 yes, thank you. I’ve done the building thing before once and I won’t do it again. Everybody comes built then we move from there 😅😅
@ let’s all meet built! And thank you for this wonderful insightful thread with your momma. In our era, we just fell in love and lived together.
If you build a man make sure the properties are under your name otherwise mmh
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When you look at this generation " i think guardian is included in this generation 😅😅😅
@@winniendinda8435 with your common sense you gathered that when we’re talking about women of our generation he was included??
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At 30 we are young we are still children 😅😅
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Please turembo let me be honest with you ,,you are not young imagine..pateni tutoi ..mambo huflow tu ..don't again wait for too long aki juu you don't know about kesho
@@annkariuki1108 another fact. Thanks but if a man does not come your way
until you hit 33 within no time, without husband and children. utakaskia
@@MyJOSE2013 sa zingine you dont blame yourself for not having a partner.. it's not an achievement as much as your soul reminds you to have one.. we have divorcees at 25 and we have happily married at 40
Gilda is Naibei name a maasai name?
Kalenjin.
Sabaot, to be precise
@@abigaelrono908 yes Proudly. From Mt Elgon!! ❤️
The generation of now they don't want process
Msichana ako sawa but huyu mama tawe
No introduction?
It’s in the caption.
Done nipitie pia
School fees,rent and family expenses and car 🚗 the man.
@@gracemelegance6623 that’s the only way 😂🙏🏾
Girllll, I am 32 and kids are SOOOO scary :'D - I am still a child hahahaha
@@ntmasishi692 I was literally born the other day what do you mean?? 😂😂
you have acquired a new follower @gilda this is nice
@@hadassahayierah6342 thank you 💕welcome!! welcome SANA. Thank you for joining.
The makeup makes Gilda look old otherwise great content less is more
@@Rinahandle13824 I noticed that too. We’re figuring our way through
Tell your mother to leave guardian for you😅😅
@@nimosupdates4364 don’t bring this nonsense to my page. If God has blessed you with a low IQ find some pages that you can relate to my dear. This one is not for you!😊
Too many nuggets to pick from the conversation and you are bringing yr personnel issues here which is a proper reflection of YOU
Stupid .they are in love.why are you bitter?
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