I really want to know how the couples handle relationships with in-laws, because I think the relationship is not just the couple. Other significant people in the couples' life also have a huge impact on their life.
Everybody feels insecurity at one point. When you’re in a relationship together, u have to reassure the other person so that they won’t feel insecure. People talk only to reply not to understand 🌝
I don’t mean any malice towards Dew but what he described about the way he deals with conflict is to “be alone and Shuts everyone out” and “ignoring his gf’s insecurities” is a very serious issue called “stonewalling”. And this is a defensive or coping strategy learnt in childhood and it can cause serious emotional harm to an adult relationship. Where communication and understanding is needed. Unfortunately, by doing this the problem would not go away and would in turn make the other partner be more anxious and insecure because they are not receiving any feedback or solution from their partner and they would feel trapped in their issue. I think Dew is a great person and host but he probably needs to look into the way he deals and resolves conflict or else it would be very hard for him to be in a emotionally healthy relationship
Always a fan of real talk episodes and i love how Dew and John made the talk more casual and it’s just really nice!! Just wondering, if it’s possible to include the “questions” of the particular topic of the video on the description so that it’s easier for us to refer HAHA
Can u guys discuss about how sometimes men doesn't show their affection but they believe what they did is for the future of the relationship but if she's the one she would probably understand it without u telling a words and she's gonna support u instead of fight with u of not giving enough attention
Always enjoying watching every episode. Next episode probably can talk about whether is your love's one family background matters and how to handle and overcome in-laws
Tbh theres a lot of different ways to solve or deal with problems, if you simply object the way the other person deals with things and you cannot stand it, just don’t be with that person la, if not the same argument will always occur again and again. For example, Im totally like dew, i hate it when i want to be left alone when i see no end to the fight and the other party keeps probing which makes me even more annoyed instead. Thats just how diff people deal with their problems, it may not be the best, but if you are unable to compromise then simply don’t be with the person. Most importantly, to people who are very insecure, you need to take yourselves seriously first before anyone else can take you seriously. For example, if you see your bf flirting with other girls and he says theyre just friends, you have to do the objective judgement yourself whether theres really nothing going on. If your bf is really flirting, I don’t even understand you you’re with that person ah. But if theyre just friends and youre jealous, or you know the girl might like your bf but he definitely doesnt like her back, then just be confident and face your rival head on (not fight or scold please just mark your territory politely) This will definitely not start a fight and also not spoil any relationships :) Fighting!!
John’s intermittent fasting joke is under appreciated
hashy becoming more talkative but hoping she can talk more loud 🤣btw I love her outfit ❤️❤️
I swear ur editor deserves a pay raise
It takes a secured man to not cause his other half to feel insecured. And maturity and knowing what matters in life most will make a person do that.
last time I was this early saffron was still here
"Why must u hug , now got virus " HAHAHA I FUCKING DIED THERE 5:20
Dew is the biggest anti-simp of the century.
Hahaha
“Why must you hug? Now got virus!”
Dew: Win liao lor
I really want to know how the couples handle relationships with in-laws, because I think the relationship is not just the couple. Other significant people in the couples' life also have a huge impact on their life.
Ignoring is the worst way to deal with a problem. Like actual worst
for real guys this series needs to go on forever
I agree with dew. When ignoring angry people, it really work out for me. Less stress, happy life.
Nicole: Why must hug? Now got virus!
-End of discussion-
😂😂
Nobody:
Hashy: *cries* 😭
Can tell that John is a smart guy leh, from the way he talks about Stockholm syndrome and how to end fights and stuff lol
Everybody feels insecurity at one point. When you’re in a relationship together, u have to reassure the other person so that they won’t feel insecure. People talk only to reply not to understand 🌝
So glad to see Hashy speaking out more often. Hope you see this and feel encouraged!
Omg guysss are you able to post more frequently?? Haha. Have always enjoyed listening to you guys!!!!!
“he used to beat me up”
dew: wow
this video should be renamed "Real Talk Crew Fighting for 11 Minutes Straight" HAHA
I don’t mean any malice towards Dew but what he described about the way he deals with conflict is to “be alone and Shuts everyone out” and “ignoring his gf’s insecurities” is a very serious issue called “stonewalling”. And this is a defensive or coping strategy learnt in childhood and it can cause serious emotional harm to an adult relationship. Where communication and understanding is needed. Unfortunately, by doing this the problem would not go away and would in turn make the other partner be more anxious and insecure because they are not receiving any feedback or solution from their partner and they would feel trapped in their issue. I think Dew is a great person and host but he probably needs to look into the way he deals and resolves conflict or else it would be very hard for him to be in a emotionally healthy relationship
Heyyy yoooo hashy and nicole looking good in this episode!
They like represent the four different zodiac signs 🤣
Hashy - water sign
Nicole - air sign
Dew - fire sign
John - earth sign
Suggestion topic : Easily triggered by love ones compared to friends
Nicole has the same crackhead energy as Saffron! love it love her love this episode! keep it up guys
What killed me was the Why the guy even try?Dew so handsome😂😂😂
1:56 Omg when John kicked Dew's sacais I held my breath
Love Nicole, she seems like a very comfortable person to be around
9:25 Hashy started to defend herself but no 1 listen 🤣. So cute la Hashy
Always a fan of real talk episodes and i love how Dew and John made the talk more casual and it’s just really nice!! Just wondering, if it’s possible to include the “questions” of the particular topic of the video on the description so that it’s easier for us to refer HAHA
1:58 dew's 500usd shoe gets kicked xD
john hit dew and dew’s soul left for a solid minute HAHAHAH FricK
Never have i tapped so fast to a video!
Hashy is so shy and cute
Always a pleasure watching this. thank you for continuing the show despite of all these gloom.
I lost it at 2:14 HAHAHAHAHAHHA PAT DOES A MATING CALL AFTER A FIGHT HAHAHAHAHAH (btw Dew, daaaamnnnn you look hot papi!)
is it just me or does dew look like some private investigator
Nicole: Why must you hug now got virus
Dew reaction: Win liao lor
Can u guys discuss about how sometimes men doesn't show their affection but they believe what they did is for the future of the relationship but if she's the one she would probably understand it without u telling a words and she's gonna support u instead of fight with u of not giving enough attention
Ayyy new episode. Made my day! Keep up the great work!💯
at 2:03 did nicole say “at least she don’t fart” 😂
Yay new episode!!!
love this series so much, please do more relationship advice stuff!!
Always enjoying watching every episode.
Next episode probably can talk about whether is your love's one family background matters and how to handle and overcome in-laws
I died when dew did that bird hoot
I really relate with Hashy’s coping mechanism hahaha cry then think about what’s happening then face the situation after that
Our prayers have been heard, NICOLE is back!
Now we just need to pray for more episodes 🙏
Yes after so longgggg
during this whole video hashy was just like 🥺🥺🥺
Why does Hashy sound like a pisces or a cancer horoscope LOL
Dew is so right it's funny. The light hearted girl is entertaining and Hashy's the best
Hashy getting more talkative!! I like it 😁😁
you should try intermittent fasting then you'll only cry twice😂😂😂😂
John's matte black cup looks so damn cool!!
Is it from starbucks??
4:32 yooo john is such a good friend tho
John: wah you still got ulti ah
😂
New respect for Dew!!!
Damn y’all got to make part 2 of this episode
i agreed the one with fight comes with sex later. yes it feels forgetting the fight n love closer each other. maybe insecure or something
Wa when John kicked Dew's white Sacai Waffles 😫
Yo huge props to your vid editor, so funny la!
Wow awesome channel! great work
Nice guys.. Frequent episodes will be great guys... Hope you guys may consider.. Great content..
hashy’s dress is so cute
Can I know where Hashy got her dress 🥺
Dew literally made the girls shut up when it comes to girls starting a argument looool fcking KING la wei😂
Hashy is so relatable
LOL i had to turn on the CC to comprehend the 'zao xia'
Enjoyed this~
Dew is the real one 🤩👍🏻
HAHAHAHA when Dew kept trying to get an answer out of the girls but Nicole kept avoiding answering
Hashy is my favourite 🙃
Tbh theres a lot of different ways to solve or deal with problems, if you simply object the way the other person deals with things and you cannot stand it, just don’t be with that person la, if not the same argument will always occur again and again. For example, Im totally like dew, i hate it when i want to be left alone when i see no end to the fight and the other party keeps probing which makes me even more annoyed instead. Thats just how diff people deal with their problems, it may not be the best, but if you are unable to compromise then simply don’t be with the person. Most importantly, to people who are very insecure, you need to take yourselves seriously first before anyone else can take you seriously. For example, if you see your bf flirting with other girls and he says theyre just friends, you have to do the objective judgement yourself whether theres really nothing going on. If your bf is really flirting, I don’t even understand you you’re with that person ah. But if theyre just friends and youre jealous, or you know the girl might like your bf but he definitely doesnt like her back, then just be confident and face your rival head on (not fight or scold please just mark your territory politely) This will definitely not start a fight and also not spoil any relationships :) Fighting!!
Nicole is damn good. Pls keep her haha
Does anyone know where hashy’s dress is from? Looks amazin’
Topic about: What you have to do, to be ready to get married?
out of all the episodes, I've never seen Dew so angry :O
me and my bf argue bcuz of food more than 10 times, sometimes we argue until we end up going home and eat cup noodles instead ... .-.
Fuck laa I keep repeating this 5:20 part sia so funny ah Nichole 😂😂
Omg Nicole and Hashy really so pretty!!!!!
so sad that real talk is being discontinued...
the bird sound kill me hahaahahahhahaha!!!!
Hashy is starting to fit in more in the convo...
Dew and John are hilarious lol
Never easy to close an episode, dont pressure Hashy!
5:23 why hug I can get virus, damn joke bape'si*l 🤭 hahah
I'm loving Nicole. KEEP HER FOREVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Next topic want talk about, "Independent at work"? Does everyone feel stress? Responsibility is on you. Simple mistakes cannot be repeated.
hashy is my spirit animal
Send love from Malaysia
Nicole is so funny HAHHAH want to see her more on the show
Hi Dew, Where you buy your sunglasses? Damn nice
All looking good
I wish your could talk about national athletes or the local sports scene! It would be so cool and relatable to me!
toxic rellationships up nex please!!
Nicole is a great addition to the cast
I’m like hashy, I cry hehe
Nicole quite cool. A bit like sot sot one but good addition.
NEXT EPISODE TALK ABOUT FASHION!!!! SURE GOT A LOT STUFF TO TALK
cutie hashy !!