Empty Nest Syndrome | A Phenomenon Which Needs To Be Discussed
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I restated my education at the age of 38 after 15 yrs og marriage when my son was in 9th class. I did my MA in psychology n earned many other diplomas in the related fields with specialization now I am a sussessful psychologist empowering women n dealing with family counseling n marriage counseling issues
In Bangalore elders have realised the importance of being ready for the 'empty nest syndrome'. Keeping happily busy is important. We all know we will have to leave everyone and go on our next journey alone. So detached attachment is the key!
I agree, bachhon ko aur pati ko bahut pyar and care Kiya ,ab apne se pyar karne ki Bari hai. Arrey khud se bhi pyar karna seekh lo ab
Kids never leave rich parents that's a fact , other wise detachment is a key😂
Good to listen on this topic. I have gone through this painful situation.
Our family was sentimental family.
Whenever holiday running to our parents ( both sides ) coming back with tears in our eyes. But with time picture has changed , mainly in big cities no one has time.
When l came back in this city ,I asked my neighbour " How do you people pass your time ? One lady told me once in a month Kitty party , every Tuesday enjoy " mata ki chowki " sometime picnic nearby. It was a difficult job for me. I was in govt job work very hard duty for whole life wanted to relax for some time and wanted some engagement but not of this type.
Most painful part of the condition is that people in north India have no raste for litrature
खाते खाते लक्जरी लाइफ जीते जीते मर जाता है।
Sir you are right. Dono bachhe jab bahar chale jatey hai to ek bar to duniya bilkul badal jati hai. But slowly jab apke bachhe achhe settle ho jatey hai tab sab achha lagta hai. Mai to yeh sochti hu , na bachhe n pati,but apne aap ke sath khush rehna seekho.I may be wrong, logon ko dekhta hai Jo jointly rehta hai unki life bhi koi easy Nahi Hoti,Roz Mai Mai Tu Tu. Door rehte hai to sab ek doors se pyar and respect se rehte hai.Mere dono bete ek UK ek USA hai.
This video is for all age groups.
Every word is very true.
When children become independent most women ( not all )choose to spend rest of their life
relaxed by gossiping and gaining weight.
This damages their own health and inturn affects their family members.
This happens because of their low awareness.
Thank you for making such videos.
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Kids never leave rich parents. That's a true.
Kids leave toxic parents
Very Right and Valuable Topic Covered and it is totally TRUE that every female go through this Phase in this stage of Life .
Hi sakshi
How are you?
I m cyrus from bombay
Excellent Amit, Ji! Who doesn't like a comfortable life but every member of the family should pitch in. To gain respect in family & society, one has to work hard & be a contributing member. There is no free lunch in this world.
Plz make video on power dynamic between husband and wife. I have a strong feeling that my wife now after having kids just want to live a relaxed life with both kids and I keep working until 55/60 years of age and then almost done with Life
True. Please upvote!
Good topic
That's okay...but she may go through empty nest syndrome
So true.. I will take care of my mothers mental health 💓
And I really believe if joint family is not possible, then we should try to stay together in one city. Because believe it or not.. But big family is a big back up, avoid that Bitching and gossiping behaviour of your relatives that's it.
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Yes, true menopause is a very difficult time which men don't understand.
I started a home based bakery and my husband joined me after his retirement.There is always a cure to every depression.the people should engage them in some activity..futile mind is the biggest syndrome.
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Dear Guruji,
Once again great video, shared with my mom and sasuji, hopefully it will gain traction and relieve stress for many.
On the other topic -
I heard you in this and many other videos talking about people calling you Male Chauvinist or Feminist.
And I felt by your expressions specifically in this one that it is upsetting you.
Now I’m not attempting to give you gyan of course, but with genuine khalusiyat I want to put this out there.
Don’t bother about those idiots.
They do not understand anything beyond a couple of sentences from your videos.
Forget about deep, layered thinking but I believe they don’t even understand the first, second order of your sentences.
Waise to koi bolta hai ki chaand main bhi daag hai..
aur kisiko chaand bahot khubsurat bhi lagta hai..
In dono bavali buch ko yeh samajh nahi aa raha ke aap woh suraj ho jo chaand ki sachhai clearly dikha raha hai... torch maarke!
Baki jisko jaisa lage woh uska problem..
Pl don’t be disheartened by any such comments, if at all you were, even the slightest.
I personally have befitted immensely by your advices.
I praise your content a lot but I can not say Namaste to content hence Namaste to you!
Keep doing what you are doing. I'm sure there are many like me who are silently watching and trying to follow in your footsteps!!
🙏
Absolutely
Why not feel n enjoy some freedom u getting now with less responsibility of kids! Travel, spend time with aging parents, friends on travel n do things u wanted to do. Also kids need you still.. n ur home too. Prepare your home for next phase. Redo things n make space for new life. Your kids might be needing help with their babies. Make some room for them. Not everyone needs to work for money but u can join hands with some friends n use different talents to do things together. But slowing down has its charm too. U don’t have to busy for the sake of it. Enjoy ur meals , ur tea.. learn something n have activities with friends n hubby. Take care of health n wellness
This should be the spirit
Yes .... balanced approach is the key...
👌👍 Fully agree!
@ Sonal Sharma -fully agree! And in my city old women are enjoying there life,doing d things they had to put away bcoz of responsibility of household work & financial problems during those days.
Excellent...u deserve noble prize
Sir you are awesome insider every society needs
Your videos are very knowledgeable and important for society to shape well. Unfortunately, those who need to see these won't give two hoots to these. They will all remain in their ego trip uptill they ruin everything. 🙏 I still hope that sharing these videos by those who resonate with these will broadcast the seeds 👌 thanku for speaking up.
V practical suggestions.Women need to change their outlook and get active
I am 58 .passing through postmenopause .but since I struggled too much and helped the husband in his business and did social work and cared for own family members so now taking rest and doing housework also and I had planned for this period of life financially and health wise also .I had lot of problems in my life but I have been so strong even passing through all my tough period , i remain ready to help others so never feel alone .my daughters r married ,have children ,they r also hard working and so remain healthy and happy.
Please make a video on the power dynamics between a husband and wife and how to manage it
Great video.. Amit ji. These advice is beyond thanks..
I have gone through this and it's a terrible phase. Thank God I was able to come out of it.
Thanks for taking this issue,I can relate with my Mother
Thank you so much Sir
How to monetize from our skills I have learnt from you.
I always learn from ur videos
God bless
Loved the term Empty Nest Syndrome
100%, though I am into work/business it hit me hard. If i see her room, empty bed i would start crying. After one month i came into terms with lot of motivation videos, understanding etc. Its a time no one can understand. Thanks to notice this and bring into light.
Respect for u mam..n all mothers..talk to ur children timely..
Thank you sir for getting this on main videos will watch on TV with family.
Good topic, what about when family itself is source of unhappiness, four family persons have own self interests, own aspirations, imposing on one another,...........
I totally agree with you but unfortunately i have been single mother, husband was a fauji officer,died on duty, after that brought up tow boys , worked as teacher, children abroad , i don't have purpose to life after i m retired, trying to get involved in some social causes, but difficult to find like manded women.
Sir my humble request to u is prepare a video on the ladies who dtro out of the house to work in the corporate world at elder age and they have to face do many challanges like they r addressed as aunties by their own colleagues and daily u hear that we r aging from the younger boss or colleagues how to overcome this situation and move ahead as i am facing the aging guilt at my work place by the way i am an kawyer
I have prepared myself for this period and left my job when my son went to Bangluru for his studies. We enjoy our time together.
Agree ....Amit ji , it's man's world.......men can handle stress and everything else in a better way than women...
Hi bharti
I m cyrus
Hry
Excellent motivational video! 👌👌🙏🙏
Now my son is away for his b tech past 3 yrs n I am highly productive with my professiiin. He derives lot of inspiration from me n our relationship has improved a lot.
सर्वे गुणाः काञ्चनम् आश्रयन्ति...
One thing i want to tell everyone ..he hv so much knowledge about indian things ..even he knows madhubni paintings,..
That's why its important for elders or parents to know the importance of having some interests...like- reading, writing, music, cooking, or any other Hobbies which keep them not just busy but happy and constructive.
What i notice around me is- all the parents have only one hobby - talking ... Just talking... Matlab baat karni hai isliye bas kuchh bhi bolte jana hai... N wo conversation gossips mein convert hoti hain... Learning kuchh nhi.. Aur aap eventually gossips ke nashe ka shikar ho jatey ho.
Purpose, (1) bacche (2) bacche ka career (3) bacche ki shaadi (4) bacchon ke bacche ... N phir khatam....
Ye ho jaye... To bas aram se rahenge, ghumenge, phirenge... N ye list complete hote hote wo ghumne phirne jaise fit hi nhi rehte...
Very informative
Your videos gives us New perspective in our life
Basically any girl or lady who has not worked towards having any personal/ professional achievements and has not achieved anything beyond the family will feel empty once the kids leave and when she ages.
One can always think for a new start in life. How and what to start this journey of thought will also reduce the empty syndrome
Kya baat hai Sir....Lucky found you in youtube...Thanks Sir..🙏🙏
Sir First of all I would really want to thank you and appreciate you for bringing issues which are still taboo for our society.
But I want to raise one concern, that in your all discussions you talk about housewives are not contributing to the society, which is good that you are pushing ladies towards empowerment. But what about the Indian lazy husbands who does not want to support in household responsibilities. If woman wants to start her career after some break she either needs to study or prepare for interview or put lot of effort in starting business. Or even if she is working Indian lazy husbands don’t take responsibility. ( telling from my and other females who are facing these challenges)
Please share your insights as to change the society women and men both have to change.
Power dynamics of husband and wife video.
Thanks guru ji
I started making Madhu bani painting in covid 50 plus
Sir , I love you aap bahut achse guide karte ho ek dum sahi baat
You are extraordinary sir.
Excellent video
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Sir there are many telegram channels where to find your channel ??
Link plz
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne Sir 👍🏻👍🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Ye bahut acha video hai
Hats off to you sir for your topics each and every words are true
Good advice sir
Plz make video on husband wife dynamics
Your all videos are excellent sir❤
Yes we do need awareness of problems like empty nest syndrome
Sir make video on Power dynamics
Sir kuch business ideas jo ghar pe rehkr kiye ja skte h kam budget me plz make video sir ji.
please make the video on emotional trouble of ladies going through Mena pause
Husband wife power dynamics per video kijiye 🎉
Ye video list me kyu nahi hai? Ye full video show nahi ho raha hai channel me.
Yes it's not coming on main video. We cannot see this on TV
Excellent Sir❤
Sir, please provide the webinar group link.
Nice video sir
They could do things even for non monetary benefits like join some NGO around around their area to keep themselves busy and gratified.
Right sir I m suffering from this situation 😢
Hi sangita
Get busy in something. A hobby or something...
No worries sangita
I m there
Please keep yourself busy somewhere. I had gone through all this and spoiled my health. But I request you to accept it with happy heart.Bachhe bahar bahut khush rehte hai and bahut kutchh seekhne hai. In fact self dependent ho jatey hsi
Very nice sir
sir what is your consultation fee??
Sir ji.🙏
You've always been innovative.
That's why I'm a big fan of you!
No doubt that the women folks would be taking a great gist gift from your videos!!!😂❤
😊 all the best. God bless you! 🙌
Luv❤ sir, very informative.....
Kaha se lau ab purpose sir😮
U are excellent
Yes it's true..I am 45 yrs old and feeling unproductive...
वाह गुरु जी पृणाम
Once again your video great sir thank you sir 🙏
Hi Laxmi
How are you.
I m cyrus
U r absolutely right
Husband wife Power dynamic ka vedio banayo na sir
Sir old tax vs new tax regime mein video banaiye ek
Sir please we want video on power dynamics asap😊😊😊
Super video sir
Very right working women also feel this but some time passes after retirement it is worse
Thanks Sir 👍🙏
That loud laugh I gave out on - "Sutti pai si"
Soo true.only person who is not wereing deception glasses
Why should parents who have worked for 35 plus years work after retirement..... ????
यह बढ़िया नहीं बहुत ही बढ़िया
आंखे खोलने वाला ❤
10/10👍
Too good
Sir, i watch maximum of your videos and they r quite realistic and good. But there is one thing that i dont agree with and rather dislike is your narrative which u r spreading abt home makers and their 'no contribution' towards society or their own family. Sir situation in every family is different,their choices and their budget is different. Agar har ghar ki aurat ki jagah ek maid aa jayegi to maa ke haath ke khane ki aehmiyat khatam ho jayegi. Aur sir har homemaker sirf tv serials and kitty parties per hi focus nhi karti. U cannot find good maids that easily in every city. Keeping maids also is a collective decision specially when u live in a joint family. A home maker sacrifices many things and always keeps herself available for her kids and family. She always gives priority to others rather than herself. There r many good things which u can add for this section of people who r rather declared useless by the society as people r spreading such a narrative. I m a proud home maker who tries to gv time to each and every thing. Be it kitchen work, my kid ,my family, my exercise routine and my learning so that in few years i can build something of my own. Yes currently i dont hv a job but i m focusing on learning a skill which can help me in future to earn . Yes but when people ask me what do u do, despite being so busy and productive the whole day, I hve nothing to say. And that speechlessness kills u from inside that despite doing everything u dont earn that respect from society which a money earning women receives. And this all has happened in recent years. U r an influential person who is followed and listened by many. I think rather than making a home maker feel useless u can encourage them to do something productive or rather bring a woman's abstract contribution towards her family and her child's upbringing to the fore front. Sir sabka kehna hai bache to pal jate hain but I say agar bache maid ko hi palne the to paeda hi kyon kiye. And maid ke saath pale bache and maa ke saath pale bache mein bhaut difference hota hai. Sir yeh society sabhi ke direct and indirect contribution se chalti hai. Bu afsos hai ki sirf paise kamane walo ke contribution ko dekha jata hai.
I don't take it personal, his intention is not that, he wants to raise the level of women contribution to society not only family, this way she will stay balanced n satisfied😊she will not bother r worry about anything what the people say
U r great sir
Sir meri family me mom bhai bhabhi gudia h Or en sb k bawjood main akelepan ki shikar hu yha bilkul mn nhi lgta.. Apni life k failures, goal achieve n kroane ki frustration or apni shadi tootne ki peeda ye sb mujhe man he man khaye jarhe or apne future ki tension muje rhti h k mmy k bad mera kya hoga main kaise jee paungi.. Ek vhi meri h... Or koi nhi sir kafi dino se bht pareshan hu rona ata h muje plzzzz help me . Financially strong v nhi hu
Aap pehle koi job kijiye aur fimancially indipendant baniye.
Same situation meri bhi hai.. mera bhi mom ke siva koi nahi hai.. baaki sab matlab ki duniya hai.. mujhe bgi same yahi tension rehti hai ki kaun meri old age me saath hoga.. na husband, na bachhe..koi nahi.. bhai bhabhi sab matlab ke hote hai.. Maa ke siva koi apna nahi.
This is time for house wives to do some small business like boutique foods crafts etc
Sir thanks
Maja 🎉
I am suffering from this syndrome 😢
Join social, hobby groups. Learn new things. Meet like-minded people. Simple solution. Keep yourself busy. Overrated problem.
True Sir
wou kya hai kai logo ne asman me kudna sikha tha znmd dekne k baad usse pehle wou ji nahe rahe they?