Born Sexy Yesterday
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This video essay is about a gendered trope that has bothered me for years but didn’t have a name, so I gave it one: Born Sexy Yesterday. It's a science fiction convention in which the mind of a naive, yet highly skilled, girl is written into the body of a mature sexualized woman. Born sexy yesterday is about an unbalanced relationship, but it’s also very much connected to masculinity. The subtext of the trope is rooted in a deep seated male insecurity around experienced women and sexuality.
Note that Born Yesterday isn't meant literally. Born Sexy Yesterday can be written literally but it doesn't have to be. If media uses a "fish out of water" plot to frame an adult woman as an inexperience child then it fits the trope.
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FOOTAGE USED
• Tron: Legacy (2010)
• The Fifth Element (1997)
• Born Yesterday (1950)
• Splash (1984)
• My Stepmother is an Alien (1988)
• Sheena (1984)
• Chobits (2002)
• Outlaw Star (1998)
• Enchanted (2007)
• Forbidden Planet (1956)
• The Time Machine (1960)
• Planet of the Apes (1968)
• The New World (2005)
• Stargate (1997)
• Star Trek: The Original Series (1964)
• Star Trek: Voyager (1999)
• Cloud Atlas (2012)
• Sarah Connor Chronicles (2009)
• Pleasantville (1998)
• Big (1988)
• Starman (1984)
• Blast From The Past (1999)
• The Mighty Peking Man (1977)
• Sleeper (1973)
• Demolition Man (1993)
• Mr. Peabody and the Mermaid (1948)
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I've been asked hundreds of times about whether or not I think Diana’s origin story in the new Wonder Woman movie fits into the Born Sexy Yesterday trope. Here are my thoughts on that: www.patreon.com/posts/13186089
The reason why I think Diana doesn't fall into this trope is because she is a adventurer in her own and her unfamiliarity to the foreign world doesn't hold her back. Steve is her equal someone she choose to be with for his qualities.
^^ I agree! Diana is naive about this new, foreign culture, but she's still an _adult_ and she's framed in that way mentally and emotionally, unlike the other women who fit the trope.
@@NomadicSage is so cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@@weronika8815 thanks 😊
Thank you for that video. As a woman who Looks sexual and has noticed from an early age that if she doesn't act innocent all the insecure misogynistic sick men would label her a wh@re, that was so ingrained in me that I almost made myself stupid.
I liked how well you have grasped the whole concept. Allthought it was hard and very triggering to watch. I know now that I am older that the power is within me to not care about those sick men and act like who I truly am. It is still a little bit hard thought, but I am on it! I have been through a lot and I have wasted a lot of time and energy on that trauma... it was hard to get over it (all the disgusting comments, harassments, bullying and critisism from grown men, and worst men my own age, just because I have a curvy body and I look confident) and also mourn my old self and the time wasted.
I am sorry for all that deep sharing.... :)
“Since he’s the first and only man in this woman’s life he gets to be the best by default.” You hit the nail right on the head.
As with sports cars, this trope definitely targets men with PP size issues.
@@TheNefastor bruh this is not at all accurate. What tf are you on about
@@TheNefastorBecause nobody wanted a sports car because they like cars and nobody ever wanted to bang an android only to say they did it?
@@sticc3978you sound like you took that a lil personal
As someone who is into Hifi i can relate to that ;D
“Cowboy Bebop” played this amazingly. Faye wakes up out of her cryogenics experiment, and naively falls for a man who was just using her to dump debt onto her. After that, she hardened up, trusted no one, and became a bounty hunter. It shows a woman actively breaking free of this trope and giving it the biggest middle finger. I love that.
omg i just realized this
except she loved spike until the very end, before he goes running for his true love
omg cowboy bebop mentioned
At the same time, it also shows that the whole experience stunted her maturity. She manipulates everyone & has almost no concept of loyalty because some of her earliest memories (she can't remember anything from before she got frozen) are of being betrayed by that one man, which basically forced her into a life crime where most of the people she meets genuinely shouldn't be trusted.
@@giisellegaalvan1996 that's fine though, as she met Spike years later after the awakening and Spike never forced anything on her (or even alluded to anything at all)
Personally, the most disturbing thing, to me, about this trope is how easily and often the male protagonist tricks a the born sexy yesterday girl into sexual acts, like saying that kissing is a custom required for health. NO! That's creepy!
And it's being shown as "romantic" 🤢
beyond creepy, full on sexual assault :( being informed is part of consent
You're absolutely right. I feel like the Venn diagram between the type of power-hungry sociopathic monsters that tend to rise to the top of power structures (f*** you, Harvey Weinstein) and the type of people who lack the empathy, self-awareness, and conscience to date a grown woman is a near perfect circle.
Yall do know that in 1956 romance itself was different and speaking on it now as “creepy” is undermining the difference in time period. In those times women were assumed strictly housewife’s and a strong man was all a woman wanted
@@TacoMan99 dude most of these ppl dont know what its like to not have a cell phone for a week, much less think for themselves. I wonder if they are using the app, showing the 12k dislikes.
I've noticed that whenever the born sexy yesterday character is a man, the female in his life tends to act motherly towards him.
Almost as if the psychology of men and women are different
@@ronmka8931 or the social expectations are different
@@Lizzehmeh I don't think it's a social expectation. I think it's what people are attracted to... Women generally want men on their level. They don't want to have to raise them up. They're not attracted to men they have to raise. They mother them.
However in Tron that's what "Flynn" was doing, well fatherly, not motherly. Sam and her never had a relationship. He might have had an interest, she's obviously attractive, intelligent, and he gets to see the world in her eyes, but he never makes a move.
@@timthorson52 Couldn’t agree more. They never even flirted. People just expect attractive people in films to hook up.
It’s kind of weird how the film really avoids including a romantic angle.
I'm honestly shocked how this video never even uttered the phrase "infantilization of women" in which this trope is clearly a part of. Amnesia also commonly pops up in this trope.
good point, if you take amnesia into account there are so many more examples!
The point e we rent over your head I hope 7 years later it finally caught up
@@Roxy_richWhat? What point?
Whats weird is that on the surface, Tarzan and Jane are the trope with Tarzan as the naive one, but if you think about it, in the context, Tarzan is still the mote experienced one for the environment
That’s because Tarzan is the protagonist.
It seems like “Born Sexy Yesterday” trope is bad when the ingenue isn’t the lead.
He also isn’t childlike.
@@JuniperGal-ek2pu True, since a child wouldn’t be able to defeat a leopard that killed his parents.
Tarzan knows the ways of the Jungle, but not the ways of the English (which now that I think about it sounds racist; although considering “Tarzan” was written by a man who had never actually been to Africa, and who later wrote a book about a former Confederate soldier who goes to Mars, the racism and imperialism aren’t by accident).
@@gengarvenom1180 That’s because he’s lived in the jungle all his life. If he lived outside the jungle, he would struggle to adapt.
Similarly Jane who’s lived outside the jungle has to constantly be saved by Tarzan because she can’t survive on her own.
"Children won't realize you're inadequate." -Lost Girls
Is this from the Peter Pan type story in the pornographic comic Lost Girls by Alan Moore?
Anyone else find that sandwich scene kind of terrifying? He literally intimidates her into eating food, which apparently is not natural for her species, and he looks and sounds ready to beat her up if she doesn't obey.
Toshimi1043 also that sandwich looked disgustingly limp and unappetizing
Toshimi1043 yes, it's disgusting and he is so scary
It is. He's not only looming over her menacingly and basically threatening her into eating (seriously, the 'or else' can be heard loud and clearly), but he's also holding a bottle of booze which makes the whole experience 99 times more terrifying. Guy looks a bit like a slightly unfocused copy of any Drunk Husband Hits Wife scene ever. But hey, it was the 80s, where guys showing their machoness by literally throwing women around and forcing them into doing things 'for their own good' and being generally menacing and rough with them was considered socially acceptable and even Sexy. A "man putting a woman in her place", or whatever. The whole 'women treated as disobedient children' thing is extremely old. Doesn't change the fact that it's always been fucked up, we've just been taught that that shit is Terrifying and Not Sympathetic Character material thanks to all the murder mystery tv shows showing us the results of abuse, I assume (which, thank fuck for that. I don't even want to think about all the abused women who must've lived AND seen this shit on tv back in the day and still were told it was a 'desirable' trait to their faces.)
Toshimi1043 I REMEMBER THIS BIT FROM WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND THIS SCENE JUST SOLIDIFIED THE FACT HE'S A MASSIVE DOUCHE. Who gets into anyone's face and intimidates them to eat? There's so much that just feels wrong about the scene I don't understand how anyone thought it was okay.
Stephanie Chang "disgusting limp and unappealing" for a second I couldn't tell if you were describing the sandwich or the man. 😂
'profoundly naive and unimaginable wise' reminds me of "very mature for your age" and both are red flags of grooming
It's also a complete oxymoron.
Mature for your age fits a lot of situations, usually not related to grooming, but occasionally possibly so. A 20yo being told they are Mature for their age simply implies they probably aren't out partying hard and are focused on career instead. Alternatively, Mature for your age is often said to people who have been through a variety of trauma that has shattered the childhood illusion that the world is a safe and kind place.
@@colinjohnston9824Calling a 21-year-old woman “mature for her age” is different than calling a 10-year-old girl “mature for her age” because the 21-year-old woman is a LEGAL ADULT in terms of her *owning a gun, voting, graduating from college, driving a car, having sex, getting a job, drinking alcohol, and smoking.*
Legally, a 10-year-old girl can’t do any of those things.
A 21-year-old woman may be immature due to her brain still developing and her limited life experience, but she is NOT a child.
@@beethovensfidelio I agree, but in the context of the movies there is never any ambiguity about how old the women are, they are all clearly early 20's to 30's. Comparing the movies in this video to child grooming is just inflationary and farcical. It would be different if we were talking about Leon the Professional, where the actress was literally a minor playing a minor, but Leon wasn't giving into her advances so even then it doesn't really play into the child grooming narrative. I just think we should avoid diluting the seriousness and horror of child grooming by comparing it to a cinema trope.
I've heard both of these from girls older than me. It's the most flattering thing, but leaves you dependent on others estimation of yourself.
"Perhaps that because most grown women don't find the idea of dating an inexperienced adolescent boy all that appealing" oooooof
I think that wording is unfair. Both men and women tend to have somewhat of a saviour complex, naivety doesn't necessarily mean childlike. There's plenty of female fantasy tropes that are as equally laughable but also understandable.
@@parallelfinn🤢
@@twosunies 😂
@Mœrs hey Moers have you ever heard of this little film called Avatar? When the naive man gets taught by the knowledable Navi woman?
Didnt someone go to jail for that last yesr...
there's so many issues about informed consent in this trope, and it's so disturbing. watching male characters lie about kissing and not explain the implications is awful
It basically sounds like grooming.
I really disagree with a lot of the "this trope exists because men secretly want to be pedophiles" or "the trope only exists due to insecure men," as the trope itself is a combined inversion of three of the Feminine Monsters; the Temptress and the Castrator, except reversed.
The Born Sexy Yesterday character is often tempting for more pure reasons- I think a lot of the discomfort around the archetype comes from american culture's view of sex as inherently "impure," hence why the trope is still more common in, say, Japanese media. Drive (2011) is a good example of the female love interest being a "key to happiness," so I feel that this aspect of the trope is more misinterpreted intent.
But THE SECOND that dishonesty for personal gain is introduced into the equation, the entire thing is gross and difficult to look at in any way other than the least charitable interpretation. Hence why I think it is still a useful trope to have in your toolbelt, if you have the tact to use it correctly.
This is such a big thing used in Anime. Totally naive, innocent yet sexy and experienced "waifu"
Yep, anime is for creeps.
@@luk11c4I promise not all anime is bad! You just need to watch out for some of them 😅 it’s only one particular medium of expression from one particular country, and like any medium (as seen in this video, most of the examples are American films!) there are upsides and downsides…
A lot of anime isn't bad, it's interesting while the video makes it clear it was a sci-fi trope to begin with, when sci-fi anime are shown as examples, it's because anime is the problem instead of it being a problem with sci-fi.
@@luk11c4categorizing a whole genre because a sun-genre is bad makes YOU part of the overall problem
But I mean almost always these waifus are less than 16 years old so it's possible to be innocent but still look sexy without the character itself thinking they are doing anything sexy. In addition the protagonist is also almost always less than 16 years old innocent boy.
The not innocent ones are always the authors and the readers putting these kids in unsavoury situations.
I wish you had mentioned George of the Jungle (1997) ! I think that movie is so great because it very accurately parodies the "born sexy yesterday" trope but with a man, and is very self-aware in how it is using the trope
Brendan Fraser, again.
And its never creepy.
He does it again in cave man @@solidsnake58
@@jenni4claire It helps that “George the Jungle” was co-written by a woman: Audrey Wells.
@@jenni4claireyou just have double standards
I am astounded by the fact this might be the least toxic comment thread in youtube history...it's all just constructive criticism and dialogue
I've been doing some heavy moderation to try to keep it constructive and to weed out all the name calling from angry dudes etc.
I was wondering about this too. Most feminism-oriented discussion online gets bucketloads of crap, I can't imagine it would be very different without comment curation on this video. That's one hell of a moderation job you did!
Agree! Thank you so much for the video and for the moderation!
+Pop Culture Detective: I was gonna make a comment about how sadly people just don't tend to search out things that don't challenge them if it's not on the front page, but your moderation is VERY MUCH appreciated.
Just discovered you today. Keep up the excellent content.
RE: Weeding out the angry dudes - thank you.
I can imagine that would not be a quick few minutes of work ...
I think the grossest thing about this trope is the idea that the BSY character is almost paradoxically sexually pure while constantly making herself available to be oogled at and touched sexually (as seen with moments like them being nude in front of men.) It's extremely disconcerting that this trope makes the ideal woman out to be one that 1) cannot exist irl in any healthy capacity and 2) logically degrades the second a man that desperately wants to have sex with her actually does so, at least consensually.
there is something else thats odd though. i think there is a relief in that character not sexually judging you, perhaps the flip side of "you dont have to compete" is that you are freed from the very field of social pressure
that they later recompine sexually perhaps indicates the instability of this, that despite being free their enjoyment is still reliant on it: the sexual relation later confirms "ah, you really did have the social value".
the Ops comment at the end expresses this dilemna: Experience is sexy, innocence is not. This encourages valuation of womens agency and so on, good, but hang on: doesnt is double down on social sexual competition and so on? That women who arent powerful, dont know it all, etc. arent desirable?
Perhaps that is a good thing, since it encourages people thus to give women this, rather than withold it from them: but it can backfire painfully. For men, for example, the idea "they are mediocre and dont have to compete" explicitly announces that mediocre men arent enough, that if you arent the sexiest and hardest working you arent worth love. Same with women. Not so simple then.
@@OsirusHandle So esentially, this trope was created to cater insecure men.
@@OsirusHandle Firstly, women should learn about sex before they have sex. To be a virgin doesn't equate necessarily with "innocence". If someone has knowledge about sex and about the world in general then they don't fit into the "born sexy yesterday" trope. If someone doesn't know about sex and is generally unaware of the most basic human customs then there should be more concern and less arousal.
Secondly, "Born Sexy Yesterday" appeals to men who aren't "mediocre". It appeals to men whose only "positive" trait is being a human who lived on Earth. Obviously, you don't need to be the sexiest or hardest working to be worthy but I hope that your only redeeming quality isn't "I am a human who lived on planet earth. If you want people to date you then you need to provide something.
@@michaelagarner1282 It’s hard for women to learn about sex when sex education classes in the USA push for abstinence and erase female pleasure.
Unless virgin women are learning about sex through masturbation, porn, or erotic novels.
What creeps me out the most about this trope is how it associates childish traits with sexual overtones, thus sexualizing traits of children. It's a nasty pedophillic undertone.
Infantilization in any form is rather gross, just take a look at Anime nowadays.
ilikeceral3 yes yes yes, never could place my finger on what these tropes were or why they made me uncomfortable- its so subtle and kind of insidious
yup its so gross. it's almost like men like naive, innocent, pure women. I think something else that could be added to this would be the appearance of the female body. They almost always show them exclusively as hairless and nymph like, nothing like an actual woman looks like.
@@avidreader2316 But they show real woman there, not painted.
In most cases the attraction is towards youth, not children. There is a difference between a young woman and a girl.
The idea of wanting a child in a grown woman's body is so deeply disturbing. It's steeped in control, power, ego, and pedophila.
I'm so glad this comment has so many likes.
Isn't pedophilia the attraction to a child's body? While these characters are mentally children, I don't know that it's necessarily pedophilia. The people writing these fantasies want the characters to be grown adults without the experience to say no.
Pedophilia doesn't have much to do with personality. It seems purely physical in nature. No? Your comment doesn't make sense.
Men just want a mature woman who will respect and appreciate their strength and leadership. Modern women too often reject this in the name of some misguided concept of equality.
Men and women are as equal as football players and basketball players. They can both be great, but only in their respective specialized sports.
You apparently don't understand men. If you are a woman, that makes sense.
@@FACTBOT_5000 ok you fucking weirdo
Let me guess, you have blue hair..
The trope is basically an adult man dating a 16-18 year old girl.
True, since some grown men will think any woman over 25 is old!
Looking at you, Leonardo Di Caprio! 😤
There’s a difference between a 26 year old woman dating a 40 year old man, and a 16 year old girl dating a 40 year old man.
Women in their 20s are able to give consent!
Women in their 20s aren’t children!
More like a 12 yo girl. With a mature body.
Jerry Seinfeld.
More like a toddler
Well a lot of guys like young 18 yo women. Nothing wrong with it as long as she wants to.
feminists have been saying all this for decades and constantly gotten shit for it, so i appreciate how you delineate it clearly and concisely for a general audience. something i realized during the video is that the shift towards white ideals and "purity" in this trope is really just an extension of that old racist colonialist background.
She held up the most basic sandwich in the world and called it exquisite. Then this man actually bragged about it.
What? Bro you ever ate dry bread? This would for sure be fucking exquisite in basically any third world country
@@theshushu7940 I ate dry bread for dinner last night and I live in America, New England to be precise. I could really go for some ham and cheese rn 😩
it looked like a pretty damn good sandwich to me
@theshushu7940 well then you have bo concept of other cultures. Culunary skill is not a developed nation idea, india had better food than the UK when the UK took it over. Now an indian dish is one of the most popular in the UK
@theshushu7940 Lmao, clearly you’ve never been to a third world country.
When i finished watching Poor Things, the first thing that came to my mind was this video essay
Glad I’m not the only one
Yeah same here, but poor things felt like a sort of reinvention of this trope, where her empowerment and self-discovery take center stage, which I appreciate, even if it still exploited something icky.
But its commentary on both the trope and the reality of men fetishizing female innocence (at least thats how it felt to me). It was meant to make you feel uncomfortable, and the ridiculousness of Mark Ruffalos character and his decline as he realises he can't rely on her stupidity to make her love him is presented as comedy rather than tragedy. I thought it was great and valid use of the trope.
@lilwaffleiron7845 its the same thing acting like it not the same
Isn’t she supposed to be a child in the book?
This is making me realise how incredibly creepy the whole thing is.
I've been directed here from a subreddit. Notice that when there's a kiss scene, the guy always initiates it and moves to put his hand on the woman's face/neck, tilts her head, strokes her hair etc, while the woman just stands there like a statue. Guys act; women only react. In Wonder Woman from 2017 that is not the case: when Steve touches Diana's face, Diana touches his face too; they both lean in to kiss. This shows that a female character can be done well when her innocence is no longer her defining trait. Forever grateful for Patty Jenkins
I've seen in old movies where the man is kissing the woman so hard that her head is tilted back as far as it can go. That can't be comfortable for her.
@@sophieruby5893Blame the Hays Code for that!
Curb it with the antisemitic remarks.
@@sophieruby5893 Blame the Hays code for that!
@youreANnpc. There's a difference between taking the lead and being a creep, and that difference is called "consent".
I’m an asexual dude so it doesn’t apply to me so much but all of my female asexual friends have had dudes try hit on them but when finding out they’re ace tell them that they can “fix them” I think this trope could be supporting that idea that women have to be taught how to love
so like you dont get horny?
I think it has more to do with "the right to have sex" as an intrinsic toxic male idea. So that the only reason for a woman to not have sex (with them personally) is a lack of knowledge.
So basically the trope is "Sexy, infantilized woman learns love through mediocre man"?
Yeah. Then idea is if she's never seen another man before, she doesn't have anyone to compare you to, anyone who may prove to be a more impressive specimen be it through looks, skills or brains. So she latches on to the first guy she sees like a wandering child with no frame of reference, and the guy doesn't even have to try to be exceptional. He becomes the focal point of her entire world because her world is very small. To be fair, some of the worldly male protagonists in these stories are genuinely decent guys who wouldn't take advantage of them for that... but you also see some examples of guys who clearly do. And as for the audience? >shudders
More like, "mediocre man gets sexual validation through an infantilized and objectified woman"
@@NickonPlanetRipple “As for the audience,”what? What do you mean? What are you implying with that?
@@NickonPlanetRippleWhat audience? If you’re talking about men, that makes sense since those movies are male fantasies!
But women watch those “male fantasy” movies too (“Tron: Legacy”, “Fifth Element”, “Splash”, “Enchanted”)
So you're not allowed to be an average guy? And if you're an average guy you don't deserve anything good? Give guys a break.
I wanna make a movie where two people meet and they both think the other is all naive but it turns out they just don't have overlapping areas of expertise.
This hits the same note as the male obsession with female virginity.
Yeah a Pederass note.
“Male obsession with female virginity”= not wanting a clapped out 240z for a gf
@@redmarble5624
If you want a virgin, then be a virgin. Don't be a hypocrite.
It _is_ exactly the male preference for female inexperiencedness (which will safeguard fidelity, at least increase the chance).
It goes far beyond virginity. There are two sides to that interest in virginity. One is the desire not to have a high body count on your partner, with the attendant risk of STDs and other complications, including, by some accounts, emotional/hormonal bonds with past partners leaving something of a trail of wreckage. But some women have these concerns about men also. The other is the desire to be the only one in your partner’s life. If you as a man are also saving yourself for the right person, this comes from a place of veneration and cannot be called unpleasant. But if you as a man have been doing whatever you please, this seems hypocritical, and also carries the odor of desire for control. And this trope plays into that latter dynamic about as hard as possible, going way beyond mere interest in bodily chastity.
This is why "nice guys" are shocked that all girls aren't tripping over each other to be with him
No, that's because girls blather on endlessly about how all they want is a nice guy, even though what they really want is a bad guy to be nice to them.
I don't see how that really applies here. It's also such a lazy comment that bad boy chasers always use to deflect.
@@Bubba__Sawyer “Nice guys” aren’t really nice since they just pretend to be nice in order to get into a girl’s pants.
Women aren’t obligated to date a guy just because he’s nice to her.
Niceness is the bare minimum.
“Nice guys” have nothing to offer outside of their niceness like charm, good sense of humor, assertiveness, good looks, or talent.
@@beethovensfideliowouldnt even accredit them the niceness, its the bare minimum with the idea that that means they get the girl. because they dont treat girls/women equally, just their love interest, thats why they arent succesful
@@beethovensfidelioMotto: If you have to say you’re a nice guy, you’re probably not. (I’m using the Royal “you.”)
Wow, yes. So well explained. It's the ultimate participation trophy: get a gorgeous, wise, and sweet woman who adores you as her hero and savior without any bothersome personal development, maturity, or relationship skill.
An honorable mention is the female robot (can't remember her name) in Ex Machina, who manipulates - not only the characters in the story with her "sexual innocence" - but also tricking the audience into thinking she is a Born Sexy Yesterday character.
Ava if I remember correctly
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@@kierancawley3990You are correct!
She doesn't manipulate, she learns the true colors of the protagonist.
Well, I agree with the second half of your statement, @@lolusuck386
But if what she does is not manipulative, then I don't know what is.
I feel like I knew this subconsciously, but never really realized it until now. Very cool video!
Same here, and every time I'd watch something new with this trope in it I'd be like "Oh, I see, it's one of these"
Yep, the video gave a name to something I've been seeing for a while now, particularly in anime. This along with the childification of female characters is something that's been bothering me, turning me away from a lot of series.
I hadn't realized just how pervasive this trope is in movies. It's why I had so much contempt for Chobits. Everyone was into that manga/anime and I was like, why? She's literally a robot puppy dog with no inner thoughts or desires of her own. She's there to be cute and innocent to some boring dude and nothing else.
The Chobits bit reminded me how much "born sexy yesterday" overlaps with how female robots are portrayed vs male robots in science fiction. With female robots, almost all of them are naive, completely submissive, and in some cases, literal sex toys. Most male robots, on the other hand, have the opportunity to be exceptionally cunning and dynamic, even if they were originally built to be servants themselves. All too often one can see misogynist men gloating about how they "wouldn't need women anymore" if robot women became reality. I can see the parallels such a statement has with what you said about how men construct this woman-child fantasy to avoid the fear of rejection or lack of control.
tl;dr
Seriously, when was the last time you've seen a human-looking male robot accidentally walk out of the house without any clothes or be childish in nature?
Yes of course, those stories are written by men for men.
Which is why it's totally valid to ask for more female writers 👍🏼
Nverdis Chobits is actually created by Clamp, which is a team of women. Doesn't make this any less problematic though. That manga is toxic.
This is another reason why I really like the character Bishop from Aliens. Although he isn't a sex object, he definitely includes components of innocence that we usually find exclusively in female bots.
And even if the female robots weren't like that they'd most likely be a foe in the story or generally formed to be dislikeable. Probably only by the time they'd change and "admit to their weakness" or some bs like that they are presented as likeable and/or desirable.
Sorry for the double comment, but as someone who was groomed and infantilized, this trope has made its way into real life. I’ve seen it happen to friends, too. I didn’t recognize it until it happened to me and then I was married to my abuser and couldn’t get out.
Innocence is not sexy.
You know something is wrong, but you don’t know why. Your objections are being ignored, so you just go along with everything. Then you gain emotional maturity, and you learn to properly understand and properly object, only now your objections get punished.
I hope you got out of this situation safely. I wish you the best and I'll pray for your well being
@@YaminiBerbi thank you
I can't stop thinking about this video.
I freaking love Seven. I've never seen Cloud Atlas but looking forward to it.
@@tessaviolet born sexy yesterday sounds fun in the span of a movie.. but would be so annoying in practice.
As a wise woman once said "i like the idea of you"
@@thebatman6201It depends on the gender.
Men “born sexy yesterday” would become an annoyance to women in the long run because women are tired of being the “mommy” in the relationship.
Women “born sexy yesterday” wouldn’t become an annoyance to men in the long run, unless the woman starts to gain autonomy, in which the creepy, insecure guy gets mad and violent.
@beethovensfidelio I don't see how that would matter at all. Men would get tired of being the parent in the relationship, too..
And there are plenty of angry insecure women.. I'm just not sold on your theory. Sorry
Don't. It's a bunch of nonsense trying to pathologize a normal male phantasy which is played for laughs. We're talking about someone who takes a comedy way too serious. That should tell you everything.
Ex Machina seems to have realised this as well, and really plays around with this trope
And now we have "Poor Things" as well. It might be a criticism of the idea, but on the other hand, I am not even sure whether it criticizes this notion or rather romanticizes it even more...
It sounds more like it’s a subversion where it plays the trope straight AND deviates from it.
A subversion is different than an aversion.
I am confused too. While I think it turns the trope on its head, I feel the movie is just portraying a different male fantasy and hiding behind a “critic” to sexism…
@@aljaroiba it would explain the 500 sex scenes
@@aljaroiba yeah, I have the same feeling
Was looking for this comment. It felt like watching SA happen to a child for two hours. Awful. Even if it wanted to be a subversion of the trope, the way Bella’s reactions were written and how the “””sex””” scenes were portrayed made it feel like the whole thing was a fantasy brought to the screen. And some clever dialogues mocking Mark Ruffalo and the “happy “ ending do not take this feeling away AT ALL. There’s so much to unpack in this movie… it’s a shame, and I so wanted to love this movie and had been waiting for it for months ..
When I was little I always thought kisses in movies are all staged (as in characters don't really touch each other's lips but it's an editing skill) because despite the film plots I couldn't believe the actresses would willingly kiss the gross older men they're usually coped with.
Then you grew up and realized that for most women, actresses especially, if it's what they have to do to get paid, they'll kiss just about anybody, and a whole lot more than that. Thank goodness we now have a social movements that allow them to claim they didn't have a choice...
@Myles Leggette
wow! it’s so amazing how you completely missed the point of the original comment!
I bet you never watched movies with sex scenes where actors ... have real sex! imagine that!
@@teacherfromthejungles6671 You mean, porn?
@@mylesleggette7520 it must be exhausting spending so much time under one UA-cam channel crying about how you as a man don’t have it good enough
As a young, cynical virgin this trope is hilarious. If a guy found out I was inexperienced and he expected some timid, naive, waif he would be disappointed.
Imagine if Buddy the Elf was sexualized.
I cannot
I can. For a millisecond before forgetting.
it's funny because the characters who are female and usually knowledgeable or smart are seen as the 'ugly' unwanted geek. or the "quirky girl" who's constantly seen as maternal and/or best friend, until she finds another geek of equal "brain capacity" to love her.
It's the same with male intellectual characters on media. Often called the Nerd & unattractive. It's not just a Gender thing. Intelligent people are often misunderstood & tend to focus more on things rather than people tending to be more socially awkward.
people, especially men feel threatened by an intelligent creative woman
Also, usually her lack of an internalized emotional experience makes it so he has nothing to emotionally compete with. He just "wins" and "gets" her with no pushback. The biggest gross male fantasy - a woman who is somehow incapable of truly saying no because there aren't any emotions within her to protest, OR instead, a programmed need to emotionally please and be a pleasure to be around, which agrees with his wants.
Isn't competing kinda gross too though? It's not like you're replacing something ick with something perfect. It's just different kinds of ick.
@@dhirajpallin2572 i feel like it's not about "competing vs complying", but about the woman actually having an opinion about the man's advances and her having the freedom to choose either to reject or accept them... or to punch him in the face when needed.
@@dhirajpallin2572Having an opinion and being able to set boundaries is not competing, it's called being an autonomous human being.
It's OP's words not mine.@@QueenyBunny
@@dhirajpallin2572 She didn't use the right words, but the message is still the same. I don't know what you were trying to argue about. Maybe I didn't understand your comment.
I hate how this trope is how some men perceive autistic women and think we act like this irl
It screams "male insecurity" all over the place and I couldn't agree more with a video/creator.
It is not male insecurity it is a male preference for purity. Much like a women's preference for a partner that is is successful.
@@arthurkineard7356 Why are these recent comments so creepy? The Tate cult has really been a bad influence on you kids.
Perhaps you're right, but maybe 'male insecurity' indicates something about our society and shouldn't be dismissed in pathological terms. There is a tendency to write off certain behaviours and groups with language that trivialises them; meanwhile, the reoccurrence of this particular trope (along with others) tells us something about what it is to be male in modern society. When we trivialise the experience of men we are no better than anyone else who has sought to dismiss the experiences of a group as not worth bothering about.
@@thefuturist8864someone needs to make a video exactly about what you said, that yes, these tropes are mostly wrong and strange, but maybe the issue isn't the trope itself or the target audience, but rather why it works. After all, if there wasn't a problem, men wouldn't have these insecurities. The point is, men wouldn't have this fantasy of finding a pure and innocent woman if they didn't have issues with mature women because this fantasy arises from an insecurity, a problem, which shouldn't be seen as solely a one-sided problem (only the man's). If the guy is normal, polite, and generally quite average, I don't think he should be ostracized by more mature women, but this happens quite a bit, which intensifies this fantasy. Someone needs to make a video about this.
@@arthurkineard7356 The "male preference for purity" itself is rooted in insecurity, more specifically the fear of being compared to previous partners (other men) and feeling inadequate. You can't be found lacking if your partner has nobody to compare you with.
"OK, just stand here and spin around with this leopard on your shoulders!"
The internet needs more content like this: less angry ranting, and more actually educated pieces with valid thought-provoking observations that open discussions rather than flame wars.
female characters are written so terribly in most movies/tv shows. they always have to be sexy, and they alwaaaaays have to fall in love with the main character.
It amazes me when I try to explain this to men and they're like "Ugh, it's just a movie! Get over it". But when men are portrayed as total idiots or womanizing douches in movies they get annoyed... like "Hmph, NOT ALL MEN!".
It's almost as if they're people with their own beliefs, feelings and experiences, right?
This reminds me of the Barbie movie discourse with the Ken’s (even though their depiction was fairly forgiving considering what took place 😅)
I know this was written four years ago, but it really deserves to be said, that these two examples of media portrayal are in no way comparable.
The thing is, it’s very easy to pick on any tropes in movies and analyze it to reveal an unflattering truth about the viewer. For instance, I’m sure most women wouldn’t be terribly keen to explain why r*p* fantasies really get them going (weirdly common, which is perhaps why so many of them were turned on watching Game of Thrones), or why most people (male and female) absolutely adore watching gratuitous physical violence. If we’re to be as charitable as possible here, the trope just reveals the preponderance of men who find themselves wishing for something nearly impossible: that a beautiful woman thinks he’s special. How horrifying? The trope in its most innocent form is just meeting that need, which although indeed pathetic, isn’t any more pathetic than how chick flicks play up the trope of “win over the rich dude despite initially rejecting him and eventually become a pretty pretty princess” and how it reflects on their desire for unearned wealth and to be prized with much fanfare for their physical appearance.
Now yes, when the male character starts acting sleezy, that feels gross. But in a lot of these the male character doesn’t take advantage even though he could, which makes me more willing to put it in the “harmless fantasy about someone who thinks I’m special” category
And yeah, in case you’re about to attack me for it, I’m an experienced woman, so hardly one who enjoys a trope like this personally
@@justsomenobody889 You are an absolute angel for giving a reasonable breakdown of this. It's highly fashionable these days to break down any male fantasy, or trait of male attraction and pessimistically deconstruct it into some innately evil, and harmful thing akin to murder, or R8pe, or pedo, or anything similar. It's a terribly destructive fad, that is highly damaging to male female relationships, and honestly needs to be called out for how unnecessarily negative and destructive it is.
I think it's interesting that when the roles are reversed and the man is naive and childlike, the woman usually takes on the role of the mother. When women are "born sexy yesterday," it is sexualized and she is taken advantage of... how gross.
True, and the irony is that women taking on the mother role is what causes them to dump immature men in the first place because they understandably find that being a lover AND a mother is just too much work (hence why Lucille Austero broke up with the immature Buster Bluth in “Arrested Development”).
Who remembers _The Island_ where BOTH main characters were born sexy yesterday, Ewan McGregor and Scarlett Johansson, both completely clueless of the world around them and together discovering and exploring. That was tender and sweet and didn't have that strange and frankly creepy power dynamic that the trope so often includes.
YES loved that movie 😭
@youreANnpc. ?
@youreANnpc. I am talking about the trope talked about in the above video. I am perfectly willing to have a civil and genuine conversation with you if you are also willing but I don't appreciate name calling and the like.
So, to clarify my question, what did you mean? Are you questioning the existence of a power dynamic or a power imbalance?
@@littlemissmello it's not worth talking to him. He's obviously a troll. Let him talk with himself
@youreANnpc. between the born sexy yesterday character and the experienced leading character you mean? Within the trope this whole video is about? I am just asking for more clarity on your question since this video explains very clearly, which is why I am confused about your query.
This video is so good. This is another thing I've recognized, but didn't have a name for. Love this video.
Kat Blaque! :) huge fan, got here from the link you shared on facebook actually
Your videos have really opened my eyes to a lot of tropes that have been - for me - more subtle forms sexism, abuse, etc. I’m now seeing these everywhere in movies, video games, and media everywhere.
Thanks so much for making these videos - they’ve helped me be more aware and a better person.
Good analysis! One of the weirdest things is that these women aren´t just unfamiliar with our world but immediately become wide-eyed and childlike; one could assume they know a lot about their own homeworld and could think "ah, at home we have things and here we have other things" but instead they go "OMG, they have things here!!!" And I'm not very familiar with these movies but it feels like the skills the women do naturally have (except for combat/plot-demanded skills) are there to be kind of quirky and to weird the man out?
You said a whole lot there without making any point in the end. I'm surprised it's gotten so many likes.
@@Bubba__SawyerThe point she’s making is that there’s a difference between having childlike innocence because everything is new to you and simply being in a different environment.
In “Crocodile Dundee”, Mick Dundee may be unfamiliar with New York City life, but he’s not a helpless ingenue because in his native Australia, Mick Dundee knows how to take care of himself.
"Perhaps that's because most women don't find the idea of dating an inexperienced, adolescent boy all that appealing."
Probably because it's morally wrong and feels entirely icky?
Great video, once again.
Inb4 comments from people of the manosphere.
Probably because they have no money or resources to share.
Probable because woman search for someone who will take care of them like for child, because they will want to check if they will be a good fater of your child 😮
@@kennyg1358 Finally a man among an echo chamber of wannabe ladies. 😊
Probably because girls do not want to love a boy they want to love money. 😊
@@luk11c4 oh it's sounds so gross. World is crazy
The "I taught you how to smile" scene gave me a bodily reaction. 💀
This analysis is excellent. However, the final reminder that "innocence is not sexy" and "experience is sexy" is just as problematic for me because it still centres men's desires as the deciding factor in how to plot a story, and puts what men find sexy (or should find sexy) as what matters. The fact that stories are centered around male point of view exclusively is the problem. Creating a Mrs. Dalloway, who exists to give the inexperienced male protagonist experience, is just as bad, in my opinion. Instead, create stories from female points of view, or from a balanced point of view in which both female and male characters have authentic arcs (not one existing to prop up the other). Unfortunately, movies with a female point of view or which appeal to female sexuality are extremely rare. Even movies with female protagonists are often written by men and centre a male gaze.
Yeah, I'd like it if there was more movies that would appeal to couples out on dates, or even just single people of all genders. a little something for both genders.. eyecandy for the woman, eyecandy for the man, etc. Instead of dividing it into "romcoms for ladies" and "fun adventure movies for dudes".
Good points and very useful criticism. In my mind I was thinking of those last few lines of the video as applying to characters of any gender but I'm realizing I needed to state that explicitly and didn't which makes it sound like I'm centering male desires. So thanks for the comment. Gonna keep this in mind for future videos.
Would not a better conclusion have been that equal relationships are sexy rather than experience being sexy? Everyone has to start somewhere and I fully believe it is healthier to do so with someone equally inexperienced.
You can add an annotation under your last statement in the video. :)
Excellent analysis !
This trope has bothered me for a long time now. The way that the girl is often depicted as being child-like makes it creepy. I wish Japan would calm down with this trope and use it less.
Yet this trope has been used in American and European films, so if anything, the patriarchal obsession with female virginity is a global problem.
@@beethovensfidelioIt's a non-problem, promiscuity is a bad thing
@@EC-qz2kw not being a virgin doesn’t equate to being promiscuous 😂
Growing up is realizing that Persephone from Lore Olympus is the born sexy yesterday trope
Yep, which just goes to show the trope has existed long before the invention of cinema.
Thank you for voicing this! I remember when I recognized this trope. It was in the same instance that I realized how much it was hurting how I, as a girl, viewed myself. Then I began to understand how much it was influencing the way men treat me. Because of my physical features, I apparently give off an initial impression that matches this trope. It causes men to treat me as naive or childlike, often in a sexual manner, and then become disinterested or outright disgusted when I turn out to be an actual human being with thoughts and opinions. It still confuses and hurts me and has fundamentally changed things about the way I dress and speak so as not to "confuse" men. I wrestle daily with finding the balance of being myself and avoiding these situations.
I'm glad that you grew up enough to learn that social cues and presentation are important. It's too bad that you were so poorly guided in that process that you feel hurt and confused about such basic aspects of existing in human society.
@Myles Leggette
She's talking about how she looked. I was the same way when I was young. I looked younger than what I was and therefore appeared like I was innocent and naive, which I wasn't. People make assumptions based solely on looks.
@@mylesleggette7520 ?
You should tour and give seminars at every comic con
Just saw Poor Things, and I can't stop thinking of how much it fits into this trope
Omg yes. I just watched Poor Things as well and it made me think about this UA-cam video 🥲
I just wanted to say that, Bella is such a great example
I thought so too but by the end of it´s more of a subversion of the trope.
No, more like a subversion of the trope. It's what the men around Bella try to accomplish, but ultimately, fail. Bella's far too independent, intelligent, and self-centered to stay as their BSY doll.
Poor Things inverts the trope. Like the Star Trek Voyager or Cloud Atlas examples, it takes a "born sexy yesterday" character and focuses on her character development rather than her relationship with men. The male characters who are attracted to Bella's "innocence" are portrayed as predators and eventually punished for it.
This made me think about Rocky from The Rocky Horror Picture Show, who is the only male I can think of to fit this convention. He's created to be beautiful but naive, and he's simultaniously childlike and hugely sexual.
However, the more I thought about the more I realised that he does gain his own autonomy and riles against the advances of his creator, only to learn about sex and love from someone (almost) as inexperienced as him. Still an interesting counterpoint though, especially since his lack of consent is almost always played for laughs.
I was about to say the same thing
@@dreamingscarlettm5415 The one thing that makes it different than the usual born-yesterday trope, is how Rocky isn't meant to be a romantic fantasy, it's a blatant joke and mockery. I prefer to say this show is the best middle finger to the movies like the fifth element, there's nothing wonderful or poetic in this trope, it's just an absurd fever dream fabricated by messed-up people😂
Avatar. Game of Thrones. Many examples of naive leading males with much more experienced females. Maybe not as obvious and completely tropey sexual, but still.
Mike and Eleven's relationship in Stranger Things. They even do the disrobing thing.
the fact that they're literally children makes it more weird tbh
THANK YOU FOR BRINGING THIS UP!! I couldn't put my finger on why I always found their relationship weird
@@lj2659yea she didnt know what a friend was but he just kisses her then they get together she dumps him then gets back w him and he didnt talk to her about her bullying or anything mike is way more experienced than her and Els adoptive dad was right to keep them apart she should’ve been his friend frs and not a girl he thought was cute so he put his entire town in danger over her damn near died 😭😭multiple times
the idea of 'innocence is sexy' is gross itself. being attracted to a girl because she's innocent is big red flag.
WTF
definitely not
@@tynj4173 How so?
@@beethovensfidelio How would it be? It means you’re getting a pure unweathered/untainted soul. If you’re perfectly fine with a girl that’s been ran through a million times over an innocent girl you’re a walking red flag.
@@tynj4173 it doesnt make your case better. It sounds a lot like "if she's inexperient, she cant compare me with anyone andwont know if i'm not a good partner". But, sure, whatever helps you sleep at night
You avoided mentioning how the trope implies sexual gratification for men without being involved in a relationship of any kind. It's saying that a man can be around a beautiful woman without any kind of courtship or friendship or anything.
It's just a really ugly trope.
I find that there's a bit of a parallel with the vampire trope. Now this trope is made for women, but there's something similarly creepy. It's men who are over 100 years old in love stories with teenage girls, "but it's okay cause he's sexy".
“Twilight” in a nutshell!
Well, they’re 100 years old as in time but in human years they’re relatively the same age. Like they aren’t actually that old mentally and physically. So, I think it’s not that bad. Using ridiculous age to defend something as lolis is a whole lot worse tho.
My best friend is an autistic girl, so she's a bit naive on social stuff and may looks overly excited for things of her interest sometimes. She's gifted in building things, coding etc, things that usually perceived as boys' interests. She didn't get into romantic relationship till 25-year-old, and her first relationship looked exactly like the ones depicted in your video. Horrible, my god, I'm astonished how accurate it is.
honestly i never noticed this being a theme that spanned accross different stories.
Fun ways to subvert this trope:
The Born Sexy Yesterday girl then finds a guy that is a bit better and leaves the protagonist's ass.
The protagonist end up finding the Born Sexy Yesterday girl boring because they have nothing to relate to.
The protagonist gets convicted of rape or pedophilia. "Yes, this woman may be physically 30 years old, but her actual numerical age is 8 so your going to fucking jail".
The Born Sexy Yesterday girl finds out she's asexual.
The Born Sexy Yesterday girl finds out she's a lesbian.
The Born Sexy Yesterday girl accidentally injures the guy during sex because of her naivety.
The Born Sexy Yesterday girl ends up having sex with so many guys/ girls after the protagonist taught her what sex was, because he didn't mention monogamy or commitment, thus thinking that Sex was just a fun thing that people did.
The guy who's trying to take advantage of the Born Sexy Yesterday girl is the bad guy.
and there's probably more that I'm not thinking of.
genius brilliant incredible 🕶
People who subvert tropes usually do so because they do not have an understanding of the deeper universal themes the trope embodies that lead to it becoming so common that it is a "trope" in the first place. They seek novelty and surprise at the expense of a rich exploration of the human experience. Your suggestions are a great example of this: the way they address subverting the trope are shallow and juvenile, and show that you do not understand why this trope exists or what it is about.
you took the ideas right out of mind. thanks a lot!
These are awesome
The Born Sexy Yesterday girl ends up having sex with so many guys/ girls after the protagonist taught her what sex was, because he didn't mention monogamy or commitment, thus thinking that Sex was just a fun thing that people did.
This but unironically
6 years later I’m back here right after watching “Poor Things”
Another example might be William Shakespeare's The Tempest has Miranda - a Princess that has lived her entire life on an island with her father. She then falls head over heals in love with the first male she sees. It's not exactly the same as this trope, as she wasn't physically born yesterday - but she's naive to the world except for the island.
In fact, Forbidden Planet is a sort of sci fi remake of The Tempest to begin with.
John Grayson That's what I was thinking -- this trope is way older than science fiction. You can probably credit Ovid for originating it in literature with Pygmalion & Galatea in Metamorphoses (borrowing from earlier sources but I don't think those are known.) I wonder if Miranda is a comment on the trope as I read her "Oh Brave New World!" Line as kind of "Oh, Ferdinand's cute but he's not the only one out there after all!"
It basically panders to narcissists who can't be bothered to put real effort into a relationship and think women should be happy to lower their standards enough to settle for them. There's so many angles that just make the trope worse and worse.
I think Milo and the princess of the disney movie Atlantis have desconstructed this trope. He is a "modern man", she is a primitive princess that doesn´t know about our earthy costumes, but because Milo is in her world and not the other way around, they are in a more equal footing.
Also, can we include Fifity Shades on this? Christian is literally the only man Ana is ever with, but we are supose to see him as just the best there is without allowing any comparison and everything about sex (and consent and their relationship itself) is always taught by him, not her.
Ironic since in the direct to video sequel “Atlantis: Milo’s Return”, Kida goes to Milo’s world.
Also, how are Milo and Kida on equal footing if Kida is relying on him to translate Atlantean because for some reason Kida and her people can’t read?
White savior trope much, movie!
But I agree with your second paragraph!
interesting thing about the fifty shades thing is that its that exact trope but from a womans perspective and shes massivley into it (the creator and women watching it as well). so the trope isnt even that one sided
@@edwin7834 Yes, but from Christian’s perspective, Anastasia Steele embodies the trope, which is why he preys on her.
Why would a handsome rich billionaire go for a virginal plain Jane unless he wants some sort of control over her life?
Basically, “Fifty Shades of Grey” is an incel fantasy for women.
What if a loser woman manages to attract a gorgeous rich man?
It’s similar to the stories of loser men attracting gorgeous women.
Just because Anya “enjoys” it doesn’t change the fact that Christian Grey is abusive and violates her consent during BDSM, so no, it’s not averting the “Born Sexy Yesterday” trope because Christian still harms her.
He’s not a nice guy who treats a virginal woman with respect and assurance.
If anything, “Fifty Shades of Grey” teaches women that it’s romantic to have a partner who controls and owns you. 🤮
@@beethovensfidelioYeah thats what im talking about. in the video it's mostly that men enjoy that trope, because of the societal norms, so natrually the stories are mostly written by men and enjoyed by men. Fifty shades on the other hand is written by a woman and mostly women fantasize about it and enjoy it. The one thing different which makes it into a "born sexy yesterday" women enjoy is that christian is rich. My point being, considering the circumstances the Born sexy yesterday isnt an entirely male fantasy and women seem to enjoy it aswell (because the genderroles society pushes on men and women are kind of the softer version of the trope)
After watching Poor Things i had to watch this video again
hahah i just watched the movie too and omw home knew i needed to find this analysis video again. poor things really diasppointed me :(
@@punkiimi If the film is that vague about the message and still flaunts the born sexy yesterday themes, then I reckon it failed in its efforts. I can imagine people that enjoy this creepy fantasy would enjoy “poor things” despite whatever subtle message it wants to push about the trope
I don't remember that trope in Star Trek TNG.
Edit: In fact I just remembered an episode in which Born Sexy Yesterday is featured, but subverted and thus corrected. It's called "The Perfect Mate", and features an alien woman designed to perfectly adapt to her partner's every need, and who falls in love with Picard. Instead of taking advantage of her naivete, he talks to her about free will, independence, self-knowledge, and seeing her own qualities and intrinsic value instead of subjecting to men's will.
I wish The Shape of Water was released around the time you were making this video! I'd have loved to see your take on it.
That movie also plays on a trope Lindsay Ellis coined as "my monster boyfriend". It's interesting to see the blend of the two tropes into one character- how he can act like a wild animal at times, but this behaviour is innocent due to his inexperience, and he is also capable of compassion. He is also physically unsexy so the woman's attraction to him is born from an emotional bond rather than a physical one.
Mediocre woman rapes a fish in a bathtub he can't leave without dying. I can't believe you gross fucks would lecture anyone about consent and power dynamics. I fucking love it. The real yous, oozing out from under the door. All the layers of bullshit stripped bare.
despite being 6 Years old this essey looks like a modern top fresh video. I love it.
Ohh yeah, I remember seeing it years ago and now I went back here after knowing Emma Stone won an award
For her role in "Poor Things". Same trope but it's supposed to be about female empowerment? Coming of age? I don't know, gross nonetheless
I am crying this video is so good and people in the comments are genuinely concerned with this trope, instead of berating people for pointing out misogyny in pop culture. I am impressed at how coherently you were able to put a thought that's been bugging me into words. This is a great video, thank you.
this trope is basically what drove me away from binging random anime because it's literally all over the place there but shit there are so many characters that fit i hate it
17:09 he looks old enough to be her father, it's ridiculous
I had an interesting thought about why this trope is less appealing to women: Women have more often real experience with raising a child(-ish person) (at least more than men statistically in an average Hollywood audience (or is this bullshit? please say if)), so maybe they tend to less romanticize and fetishize it.
That's what I was thinking too!
Also, male virginity isn’t fetishized and idealized like female virginity is.
Male virgins are perceived as emasculated losers.
I realized a lot of times when I see this trope occurring I think that the man will become a father figure! But right when I see the way he reacts to the woman I’m like “ahhh geez.”
just saw poor things (2023) and couldnt get this video out of my head the entire time
While browsing Netflix, I noticed the movie Orbiter 9 that was just released. “A woman who’s been alone on a spaceship her whole life...” falls in love with a man who, “upends her whole universe.” As a Netflix original, they paid someone to make this recently. Here I thought this concept was dying out
It's extremely well made ! Good and clear statement to follow along and even more important: You back your statements with clear examples.
I think your work is important, and it's a shame so few can witness it.
Thanks so much!
Can't stop thinking about that disgusting fucking sandwich
Anime has this trope ALOT.
It seems this is mostly due to the trope that "every woman in media must be sexy". Even the ones that are considered "ugly" are actually beautiful women that are merely dressed awkwardly, have bad hair, and wear dorky glasses; their transformation into the Homecoming Queen is as simple as getting contacts, getting their hair done, putting on makeup, and wearing a nice dress. When you start adding sci-fi into the mix, it becomes all to easy to handwave some kind of idealistic "female perfection" where she has been engineered to look that way.
When mentioning sci-fi and anime, I feel it's important to mention Rei from Neon Genesis Evangelion. Despite being deliberately designed as an inversion of this trope, meant to be disgusting instead of sexy (she's literally a physical clone of the protagonist's mother), she became a poster-girl for it. Many viewers find her attractive and "pair" her with the protagonist, which is deliberately missing the point.
This reminded me of the Silicon Valley episode - a creeper has made an AI lady bot who loves him but the guys hook her up to the internet and she figures out that he’s actually gross 😂
Ugh, I hate watching this trope! The fact that the woman's ineptitude is considered "sexy" is incredibly insulting... Thank you so much for so eloquently putting this idea into words! (and putting it in its place)
I love the framing of this trope in terms of men's needs for understanding and adulation--makes us think about objectification for the purposes of fulfilling the objectifier's desires. It seems obvious to make this kind of analysis but it's so rarely attempted and never with as much thought and clarity as on your channel. Thanks for another great video! X KC
"Nothing so personal, just a kiss" made me cringe so hard that is such a creepy line
Definitely!
It’s one thing if he was giving her a kiss on the cheek, which is inherently non-sexual, but the fact that he’s giving her a kiss on the LIPS and saying it’s not personal is some creepy nonsense.
Why would you kiss someone on the lips if you weren’t in love with them?
Yes, in some cultures, people kiss to express greetings, but it’s not done under creepy sexualized circumstances.
Omg omg omg can we say Cat Valentine from Victorious falls into this trope.
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Omg yes!
I would argue that Wonder Woman subverts this trope. The thing I remember while watching the movie was feeling relief at key moments in the film when I braced myself for a tropey moment or line of cheesy dialog that never came. Wonder Woman had never seen a real live penis before, but she wasn't ignorant of them, nor did she mount Chris Pratt in the bathing chambers the second she saw it. That moment on the boat when she practically confesses to lesbianism highlights her knowledge of carnal pleasure and lack of need for a man to satisfy her. In that moment, we understand that she has sexual experience, and she is less doe-eyed because of it. And while it is true that Wonder Woman's origin story follows this trope very much to the letter, I give props to the director and writer of the movie for circumventing it's cringiest elements.
It’s ironic since the screenwriter Allen Heinberg admitted to “Entertainment Weekly” to being inspired by Disney’s “The Little Mermaid” and “Splash”, both of which play the “Born Sexy Yesterday” trope straight.
Also, when she tries to undress in the dressshop, instead of getting naked in public, she is stopped by the male lead before that can happen, which shows a lot more respect towards her as a character than how it's played usually
@@beethovensfidelio No. The Little Mermaid isn't this. Because it's about Ariel's discovery of the world and attraction. She is loved by Eric in *spite* of her naivete. He also doesn't take advantage of her and she wants him and he's not mediocre and I could go on.
@@PolarPhantom Unlike the animated film, the fairy tale that “The Little Mermaid” is based on averts the “born sexy yesterday” trope because the prince’s attraction to the naïve little mermaid is strictly platonic, hence why he ends up marrying someone else.
The prince loves the little mermaid like he would a small child. The prince also treats her like a pet as evidenced by the little mermaid sleeping on a velvet cushion outside of his door.
The prince may not be a monster, but he does come across as condescending to the little mermaid.
Then again, the whole point of the story is to show that the little mermaid is better off without the condescending prince because she doesn’t need to marry him to gain an immortal soul.
The little mermaid can instead gain an immortal soul by becoming a philanthropic air spirit.
@@PolarPhantom You’re right that Eric doesn’t take advantage of Ariel but that’s because he’s obsessed with his mystery girl without realizing that Ariel is his mystery girl.
He’s not doing it out of the kindness of his heart.
If Eric wasn’t obsessed about an imaginary woman who saved him, he could’ve easily taken advantage of Ariel.
It’s the inverse of women telling men that they’re married to avoid harassment.
7:40 that part is fucked.
On another note, ever since I watched The Tale Of The Princess Kaguya I have never been able to respect this trope. Because Kaguya brings such a level of humanity to the premise of a woman suddenly being brought into the world, that every other movie is revealed to be blatant wish fufillment.
This is an excellent break down of the trope! I'm surprised it didn't have a name already - 'born sexy yesterday' is perfect!
It's great to see a channel focusing on the way the media presents masculinity. :D Love your videos!
Thanks for posting this. It's a very thoughtful and revealing exploration into this somewhat disturbing scifi trope. Us ladies have known about this stuff for years and try not to get angry or annoyed by it when seen in films and television over and over again, because guys usually don't get why we would be angered and annoyed by it. So as you can imagine, I'm particularly impressed that it was gent who put it all together.
Agreed!!!
One of these days i want the girl in one of these stories to realize that this dude’s nothing special and leave to have her own adventures
I really hate this video, but it is in every aspect so true. Actually I don't hate this video, I just hate myself after watching this and probably can rewrite my whole science fiction book I am working on.
So what ended up happening with that book?
@@Bubba__Sawyer well, it has been 5 years and by this point and I figured out I just cannot write women.
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Don’t feel bad. People are pretending This idea is just a male fantasy. It’s also a female fantasy. Romance novels mirror this trope..
Women openly state they want a confident experienced man.
Statistics show this to be true as well .
A small percentage of men have relations with the majority of women. Women actively seek those men and Ignore the less experienced men.
The hypocrisy from women here is astounding.
@@st0oxlmao rip but mad respect for being able to admit it
Write a good character instead of a woman. Then put a gender into it.
actually just start to see woman as people first and woman second. Thats the first step
6:16 Jesus Christ guy it’s sandwich why are you yelling
WHATS 3 X 7?!!!!!!
Lies about kisses 💀
This is exactly how I was being tricked at 5 years old, I don't understand how anyone could find this sexy
I assume you’re talking about the movies “Forbidden Planet” and “My Stepmother is an Alien”.
If so, yeah, the scenes of the men lying to the women about kissing are gross.