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29 ki age baad, dost sab lagbhag shadi kar chuke hote hain, bahar jake party karne ki ichcha khatam ho gayi hai, ghumne firne se man bhar chuka hai, daru aur bahar ka khana shareer reject karne lagta hai, aur office ke baad sara time health maintain aur household chores mein chala jata hai. Weekends pe na bahar jane ka man karta hai aur ghar pe bhi man nhi lagta. This is all from personal experience. Many of my friends who are bachelors live with their parents, but that feels infantilising, thats how life becomes around 30 years of age as a bachelor. And if someone is trying to project a different image of bachelor, believe me, they are fooling you, bike uthake weekends mein pahadon mein ghumna fun nhi hai, majboori ho jata hai.
@@humbleboy3322 It's not so bad, life mein tension nhi hai par koi strong motivation ya purpose bhi nhi hai. Nayi cheezein seekhne ke liye bahut achcha samay hai par usmein bhi koi end goal nhi hai. Finally money itself is just a means to an end, end purpose is being valued by you close ones, making close relations with people that sustain. Office colleagues and college friends are acquaintances at best, strangers you are forced to interact with.
atleast koi to sach bolra h!!! logo n itna jayada glorify kia hua h bachelorhood ki apne sath doosro ko bhi le kar doobre h... Single life sirf unki sahi h who are High Income Individual.. une ghar k kaam n krne pdte ( maid h), office/job n jate ( passive income/business)... and they have no one to take care of (like parents)... vo log outliers h... don't think every single person can be like them...
@@rahulgupta021 brother situation is even worster than you think, CE ME EE guys are doing Software courses to get a job, CDAC placement is also going at its lowest, Huge Gap is there in Demand and supply.
We are of 80-85 generations... If we would careless about money in our earlier time then we would also not be able to buy house in current situation.... Thankfully we have done.
We at 40+ can understand what you are saying and absolutely right... problem is majority of 20-30 years old can't understand you. They are not ready to listen you.. they are waiting for their 40s. When they will start understanding and going to marry
Gen X people and millenials spent their whole lives paying emi and now they got 2nd flats despite not needing them. They never had fun in life and now flats are in short supply and gen Xers are using their retirement money to buy even more flats. So we have to pay crazy high for small homes because of reduced supply.
It's the same in every city ard the world. London, Sg, Shanghai its much worse. It cost 14cr for a flat in Shanghai. My frenz say they will nvr be able to afford even if they work lifetime. Best is to buy now. For us Indians, we only hv 7 metros. And ppl are buying left right centre
Youth kab se property khareedne lag gaya, Zeb me 500, muh me captain, haath me kingfisher, khopdi me naukri ki tension.....aur property khareedni hai 😂😂😂
@@Yippee342 I agree and we already own a house in Bengaluru and generating rent which is increasing 5% every year. I can leverage these facilities provided by my parents and grandparents.
@@prajwalspouthamash it's great your parents have made very good arrangements for you and loved the fact that you're admitting it and being humble😊😊 all the very best for your dreams 🙏🏻💝
@@deepikabali9199but I think everyone has different story Har kisi ke karam alag hai Aur ham sab apne karmo ka phal bhugat rahe hai If someone has got something from his family or daddy ye uske pichle janam ke ache karam hai I think people are jealous from other people's wealth jo ki galat hai
@@Hd4321jain haa woh bhi hai lekin jealousy me energy waste karne se acha hai apni health aur wealth generation par focus kare.. kya hi karenge kisi se jal kar? Better channelise the energy in the right place ❤️❤️ Hare Krishna 🙏🏻😀
As a gen-z I hope more people of my generation adopt such gullible beliefs, more options for me. Btw the term "Carbon Footprint" originated from BP (British Petroleum) as a PR campaign aimed at shifting responsibility from major oil companies to individuals, encouraging people to blame themselves for environmental issues.
The term carbon footprint was first used in a BBC vegetarian food magazine in 1999, though the broader concept of environmental footprint had been used since at least 1979.
In 2005, fossil fuel company BP hired the large advertising campaign Ogilvy to popularize the idea of a carbon footprint for individuals. The campaign instructed people to calculate their personal footprints and provided ways for people to "go on a low-carbon diet
Only in foreign service? You have no idea bro. Read poetry of Emily Dickinson. She was single. I think a single woman is the most dangerous creature on this planet. So Don't loose heart.
Exactly. Ye boomer logon ki baat sunoge to 2 cr ka loan loge, divorce me 498a lagega and wo 2 cr ka ghar ex wife ke paas jayega aur zindagi bhar emi dete rahoge😂
Let me know if I am wrong here: The person started saving in 24 and invested in the stock market making 20% CAGR is good or person buying a home in early 20s is good? The same rule can't be applied to all the people. Yes, those who park their money in FDs should buy a house as early as possible, because your money cannot beat actual inflation. But the person making 18-20% CAGR in the stock market can wait up to 35-40 years of age. The wealth created in the first 15 years will be massive if you have little risk appetite. Home buying at an early age is for those who can't take risks.
Are bhai bear market bhi aayega , best part is you dont get leverage in market as you get to buy RE remember 2018-2020 small caps were butchered , every say was pain, so avoid recency bias future has already been mentioned in video itself
@@harshawardhantalegaonkar9162 Exactly, the Bear market only lasts for 2-3 years. Fundamental strong companies are going to recover with massive returns.
Zen z will suffer because of zen y & x greed who has increased land cost so much that almost everything is out of reach.. specially who works to increase property prices by influencing peoples...
Mere ko Sadi se koi personal dusmani nahi hain ... but main mera terms / criteria ko comprise karke shadi karne se bachelor marna pasand karunga ... Partner Sahi na ho toh zindagi ka har din narak ban jaega ... Ye baat koi nahi bolta hain bhai ... Maine ek do Aisa case dekha hua hain ...
@@alokebanerjee1990 bhai bilkul meri bhi yahi soch hai bas society se dar lagta hai , society apko shaadi na karne par napunsak samajhti hai , aur old age me dar lagta hai kaun dekhbhal karega beemar hone par, apni to job bhi sahi nahi hai. ap kya job karte ho?
True that 1995 - 2003 born kids will have tough time but it’s ok they will make it out & it’s a life cycle. One thing I noticed is common-sense is missing which need to be taken care and rest should be fine.
अगर ऐसा होता तो ईश्वर माथे पर लिख के भेजता की तुम शादी करो नहीं तो जीवन नीरस हो जाएगा। जैसे खाने के बिना जीवन नही है ठीक उसके उलट शादी के बिना जीवन संभव है। अंकल आप गृहस्थ हो, सबको आप जैसा नहीं बनना , अगर आप खुश हो तो रहो। पर यह बोलना गलत है की जो अकेले है वो खुश नहीं।
Instead of fearing a backlash from Indian federation of the doctor why don't you create a video and very very important message related to corruption in Indian hospital marker and how to safe guard against this
What to do when maa baap also dont have their own home. They are living in rented apartments and are dependent on their kids for their old age expenses. They also dont have money for their sons marriage. How a son can handle all of this things alone? I want you to make video on this. I am getting panic attacks.
Then you are the first of their generation who may buy a house. If you target that aim, you should do marriage in mandir. Good ways to minimise panic attacks.
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow He can target his home for later. He cannot afford it today but key is to keep patience till the time he is ready. He will have to live on rent for that period. And minimise his marriage expenses. Please don't stay without marrying at your right age.
India mai richer becoming more rich and poor becomes more poor. As taxation system, reservations sucking people without any healthcare and education support systems.
Why genz will not be able to buy home in india? Ans: GenZ doesn't want to get married. I was expecting more financial and economical explanation. I am afraid all his videos tend to end up in marriages. Life long bachelors were there before also, now also and forever will be there also but that doesn't mean that those who had come on earth to marry will change their plans to marry. This man is unnecessarily creating a fear that bachelors will cause whole world to become bramhacharis.
I am 93 born.. and still finding it difficult to buy a home...emis and stuff... I see my batchmates all buy sedans with loan...and i feel isolated as i took a different decision.
👌👍very nice sensible helpfull video. Everything from every angle u explained in a nice way. In a very sweet way u said ek bar toh ker hi leni chaiye nahi chali toh dusri bar bhi n tesri bar bhi 😂 Overall it's a vry nice video.. U make the video on both relationship n selfishness n sensitive. Please give the clarity on this n clear the confusion.. Being selfish n sensitive. I have seen selfish people r enjoying n sensitive r left far behind by being kind n sensitive. Then it feels like take an oath never to b sensitive n good to b selfish atleast for ur own self. Please make a video on this to clear the confusions. You said about various topics of ur consultation u explained it in a very nice way. To b like a child while playing with a child..this is also like a being happy therapy. Having ur own child is the biggest happiness. Thankyou.
Great video sir, muje childhood me parents ka pyar nai mila kabhi as they were extra strict with us, par ab main apne bete ko wahi sab deti hu joh maine bachman me nai paya, aur sach me main bht bht satisfied feel karti hu ki muje nai mila kam se kam mera bacha toh ye sab problem face nai kar raha... Merko padna nai mila ye keh k ki age toh shadi hi karni he, kahin bahar gumne nai mila kabhi.. kabhi kabhi zayada hasne p bhi tok dete the ki itni zayada hasegi toh fir rona padega ek din, dhire dhire meri hassi bhi band ho gayi... Bas yahi sikhaya ki chup chap sara din ghar ka kaam up-to-date rakhne ka, ghar ki ek chiz yaha se waha nai honi chahiye... Sorry to say main ab kisi ki burai nai kar rai hu, par ye batein andar andar khati gayi aur aj hum is mind set se bahar ana chahte he, bht koshish karte he par fir dimag me negativity ajati he , ki nai ye tu nai kar sakti, aisa nai kar sakti, ghar ganda rakh k aram nai kar sakti 😢😢
Old houses are available but looking at it will make you vomit. You need to spend a lot on a renovating company. There is no space left to buy a land and build a fresh house in a decent urban neighbourhood.
अच्छा जीवनसाथी मिलने पर ही शादी करनी चाहिए, अन्यथा जिंदगी बेहतर होने की जगह जिंदगी झंड भी हो सकती है। भगवान ने एक ही जिंदगी दी है,इसे अपने अनुसार शांति, सुकून और सहज भाव से जीना चाहिए। व्यर्थ की प्रतिस्पर्धा से दुःख ही मिलता है। अधिकांश मनोरोगों का मुख्य कारण पारिवारिक या सामाजिक समस्याएं ही होती हैं।
Excellent video especially for modern generation! I fully agree with you and it is as though you are speaking my mind. I have practically done whatever u have advised regarding owning a house many many years back. Also built a house for my son years later so that he will not become homeless due to skyrocketing prices of real estate. Now both of us are happy with our families leading an independent life. 🙏🙏
Truly grateful that somehow I ended up coming across your channel some 18-20 months back sir 🙏 Have received a lot of clarity on life from all your channels A lot of my personal doubts got cleared here Completely subscribe to your view
Sir main thing is mahilaaon ko shaadi shayad isliye karni pad jaati hai ki yadi woh akeli reh gai to log usey public property samajhne lag jaate hain. Saare purush nahi hote aise par haan bohot hai yeh sankhya bhi.
Isliye bhi krni padti hai k maa baap k baad Bhai kuch ni dete behno ko to pati ka ghar lena aasan hai par baap ka ghar lena mushkil hai Indian ladki k liye
@@dilpreet63 Is vishye mein koi debate chidni hi nahi chahiye kyunki kai baari to bhai ke pass hi kuch nahi hota dene ke liye aur jinke pass jitna zyadaa hota hai woh utna hi khud sametne ki sochte hain. It all lies in the intention . Plus rahi baat pati ke Ghar ki to usmein rehne ko milta hai na ki Ghar ki ownership on paper mil jaati hai aur uske badle bohot kuch ladki deti bhi hai. Jo ladkiyaan kamaa rahi hoti hain woh aur zyaada deti hain kai baari. Phir wahi baat aa jaati hai bhai ho ya pati sab depend karta hai neeyat par . Isliye apni financial suraksha to atleast apne hi haath mein rakhni chahiye kisi aur par depend nahi hona chahiye iske liye.
@@shalkiseth2893 ji bilkul sahi but ek baat Maine dekhi rishte khrab hone pe patni alimony k liye zaroor try karegi aur itni asani se give up nahi karegi but inheritance k liye aaram se Bhai ko sign kr k de deti hai NOC chahe khud k bacho ki financial condition khrab ho and Bhai crorepati ho
@@dilpreet63 meri mom aaj takk ladh rahi hain inheritance ke liye apne tareeke se without going to the court. The thing is inheritance ke liye parents ka support bhi zaroori hai aur society ki mentality bhi change honi chahiye .
@@dilpreet63 and moreover alimony ke liye ladhna and all is sheer waste of time for women too. Simple sa Funda hai apna ki you support me in my endeavors and I support you in yours. Ab aap kahein ki ek ladki ke hisse saari responsibility hi aaye chaahe pati ka ghar ho chaahe maayka to yeh baat sahi nahi. Rahi baat salary ghar laane ki ya ghar mein rehne dene ki to dono mata pita bhai aur pati ko yeh gyaan hona chahhiye ki salary sirf meri Betii behen maa ya patni sirf khudpar nahi udhaaa rahi balki salary laana meri khud ki bhi zaroorat hai isliye salary ghar main apne liye bhi la raha hoon .
Nice video and great advice, its just that - aache parents, apani samajhdari aur understanding partner milna jaruri hai, but I agree, to see how lucky we get first we have to buy the lottery ticket, there is no point in not trying and just fearing imaginary situations.
Wife ko bhi kaho ki paise kamaye...not necessarily ki 9 to 5 job se hi earning ho... Ek do saal earning ke other sources pr research krenge to job se much better option milenge hi... If already earning then work hard n smart to make other source of income
Overall I felt at the age of 54 that whatever anyone lectures is not absolute. One should take only things from that which eases your pain & problems and make you understand yourself with respect to your environment surrounding you. That’s all. Jio apne tarike se.
Guruji,aapke family tree pe video banaye....25 generations back, starting from ahmedshah abdali time....bada interesting hoga aur aaj ke zen generation ko motivation milega population karne me
Gen z k parents ne b nhi kharida acchi sarkari nokri dono pati patni kr rhe h 25-26sal se. But ma pita k sath hi rah rhe h wife working woman h fir b uski life narak bni hue h. Husband sharvan kumar bna hua h. Bhe bahan k baccho ki b marriage study m help kra. Aaj khud k bacche k lia na ghar kharida na kuch savings h kal ko kharid k de b nhi sakate. Gen g k parents ne b koe great kam nhi kr diye h. Es generation ka koe dosh nhi h. 1990 k bad india ekdum india ki economy change hoe gen g k fathers ne hi maje kiye h best clothes watches. Shoe .....extra... Kharche kre bachho ko English medium m dal k lakho rupees spend kre ab kah rhe h jhan ye rhega ghar kharid denge. Acchi colonis m ghar k bagar marriage b na ho rhi. Gen z bhot dabad m g rhi h 😢 esme inka koe dosh ni h
Your father took responsibilities of his siblings... That's a good thing .. but kam se kam Ghar toh koshish karke Lena chahiye tha Do you live on rent? Don't you have plots in village? Nothing like that? No property whatsoever???
Sir pls make a clarity video on the societal statement that "jo hota hai achche ke liye hota hai"... Society aur families ne ye statement bol bol kar aisa mindset bna diya hai sbka ki hm kbhi bhi self audit nhi karte.. na hi is cheej ko monitor krte hai ki agar hmare sath kuch galat hua ya hme gaslighting ki gyi to aisa kyu hua.... I personally think that its a wrong statement... Pls make a video providing more clarity on this that jo hota hai jruri nhi ki wo achche ke liye hi ho...!!
Which one is better for end use / investment orchid petals @ 17000 or godrej aristocrat @ 23000. Orchid is 20 year old with some seepage issues and also need renovation. Both are in sector 49 where all facilities are in the nearby vicinity.
Even the earlier generation, 50s, 60s, 70s born ke ne bhi bohot struggle kiya hai , pehle job ke liye aur phir ghar, household appliances kharidne etc. ke liye bhi. Un generation ke logon ne pehle chota ghar kharida like affordable houses or 1 bhk etc. Phir baad me kuch saalon ke baad, pehla ghar bechke , next thoda aur bada ghar le liya of course sab loan leke. Toh iss generation bhi ye sab kar sakte hain, of course parents, if they have money can help them in buying a small house, also they should learn to save money also, it is said that ' money saved is money earned'.
Sir aaj kal to partners b credible nahi bache hai. Shaadi karte b dar lagta hai. Iska kya kare? Main issue is about the person who comes to our life and could make our life hell.
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow sir when your partner is neither want to live with you nor wishes to give you a divorce, this is the point which you have not discussed and most of the people scared of getting married. What is you say on this?
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow the partner is physically and mentally unwell and is not capable of maintaining a relationship. I doubt she would be having any extra marital but her ego and mental instability are the things which is making it difficult to work and thus not getting a divorce.
You are just speaking out extreme & harsh truth, listening to you sometimes removes all the optimism and dreams, ha ha : ) I am not saying in a bad way, but that is reality striking And finally all I think is I need more money. I fall in the same salary brackets that you mentioned, no home so far, and many more life complications But all said, I am not going to give up, there should be some way out
And its not about mentality and thinking ,lots n lots of surveys in india and in abroad countries has shown the single ones are happy n leading a better life n waise shaadi karna n bache paida karna is a personal choice it can not be imposed on anybody ,bechara inki beti ya beta is so unlucky
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29 ki age baad, dost sab lagbhag shadi kar chuke hote hain, bahar jake party karne ki ichcha khatam ho gayi hai, ghumne firne se man bhar chuka hai, daru aur bahar ka khana shareer reject karne lagta hai, aur office ke baad sara time health maintain aur household chores mein chala jata hai. Weekends pe na bahar jane ka man karta hai aur ghar pe bhi man nhi lagta. This is all from personal experience. Many of my friends who are bachelors live with their parents, but that feels infantilising, thats how life becomes around 30 years of age as a bachelor. And if someone is trying to project a different image of bachelor, believe me, they are fooling you, bike uthake weekends mein pahadon mein ghumna fun nhi hai, majboori ho jata hai.
Thanks for telling this. Thoda dar lag rha hai. I am 26
@@humbleboy3322 It's not so bad, life mein tension nhi hai par koi strong motivation ya purpose bhi nhi hai. Nayi cheezein seekhne ke liye bahut achcha samay hai par usmein bhi koi end goal nhi hai. Finally money itself is just a means to an end, end purpose is being valued by you close ones, making close relations with people that sustain. Office colleagues and college friends are acquaintances at best, strangers you are forced to interact with.
atleast koi to sach bolra h!!! logo n itna jayada glorify kia hua h bachelorhood ki apne sath doosro ko bhi le kar doobre h...
Single life sirf unki sahi h who are High Income Individual.. une ghar k kaam n krne pdte ( maid h), office/job n jate ( passive income/business)... and they have no one to take care of (like parents)... vo log outliers h... don't think every single person can be like them...
Right I am at 29 experiencing the same.
Bhi same problem hai india
80,90k salary is very high for other engineering branches except IT CS in this age.
Reality is 30-35k for core branches.
Is it...!! 30-35 k me kya hi hota hai...!!
@@swaatigautam111 actually core branches engineers are preparing for junior engineer job after completing M TECH From iit's too.
@@A1re128yubvBro are you from IIT? Core branches me bhi theek thak hi placement lag jaata hai
IIT me achi branch se masters krke achi hi job lgti hai.... Dont listen to the negative comments.
@@rahulgupta021 brother situation is even worster than you think, CE ME EE guys are doing Software courses to get a job, CDAC placement is also going at its lowest,
Huge Gap is there in Demand and supply.
Ghumi-ghumi has a separate fanbase 😅
We are of 80-85 generations... If we would careless about money in our earlier time then we would also not be able to buy house in current situation.... Thankfully we have done.
In one word .... marriage is an option .... not compultion ....
We at 40+ can understand what you are saying and absolutely right... problem is majority of 20-30 years old can't understand you. They are not ready to listen you.. they are waiting for their 40s. When they will start understanding and going to marry
Its not the problem of genz the real estate prices are overly inflated
And it will always be bro!
Gen X people and millenials spent their whole lives paying emi and now they got 2nd flats despite not needing them. They never had fun in life and now flats are in short supply and gen Xers are using their retirement money to buy even more flats. So we have to pay crazy high for small homes because of reduced supply.
It's the same in every city ard the world. London, Sg, Shanghai its much worse. It cost 14cr for a flat in Shanghai. My frenz say they will nvr be able to afford even if they work lifetime. Best is to buy now. For us Indians, we only hv 7 metros. And ppl are buying left right centre
Youth kab se property khareedne lag gaya, Zeb me 500, muh me captain, haath me kingfisher, khopdi me naukri ki tension.....aur property khareedni hai 😂😂😂
I'm a GEN Z but i am opposite to many genz's. My primary goal is to buy plot and construct home in Bengaluru.
Only possible with generational wealth bro.. or you're that one IITian who bagged 1.25 Cr package.
@@Yippee342 I agree and we already own a house in Bengaluru and generating rent which is increasing 5% every year. I can leverage these facilities provided by my parents and grandparents.
@@prajwalspouthamash it's great your parents have made very good arrangements for you and loved the fact that you're admitting it and being humble😊😊 all the very best for your dreams 🙏🏻💝
@@deepikabali9199but I think everyone has different story
Har kisi ke karam alag hai
Aur ham sab apne karmo ka phal bhugat rahe hai
If someone has got something from his family or daddy ye uske pichle janam ke ache karam hai
I think people are jealous from other people's wealth jo ki galat hai
@@Hd4321jain haa woh bhi hai lekin jealousy me energy waste karne se acha hai apni health aur wealth generation par focus kare.. kya hi karenge kisi se jal kar? Better channelise the energy in the right place ❤️❤️ Hare Krishna 🙏🏻😀
As a gen-z I hope more people of my generation adopt such gullible beliefs, more options for me.
Btw the term "Carbon Footprint" originated from BP (British Petroleum) as a PR campaign aimed at shifting responsibility from major oil companies to individuals, encouraging people to blame themselves for environmental issues.
Spreading Ted Ed new video knowledge great work 💯💯😁
The term carbon footprint was first used in a BBC vegetarian food magazine in 1999, though the broader concept of environmental footprint had been used since at least 1979.
Aadha adhura gyan bhad mein gaya vigyan
In 2005, fossil fuel company BP hired the large advertising campaign Ogilvy to popularize the idea of a carbon footprint for individuals. The campaign instructed people to calculate their personal footprints and provided ways for people to "go on a low-carbon diet
Gen Z ke paas supportive parents hai. Sabse worst GenZ ke parents ke 50 - 60s ke parents hain
That's millenials
I am Gen Z magar mere papa toh 60s ke hai
No marriage, no child, no Home, No Loans.
Khao, Peeyo, Aish karo😅
@@gayatri2081kya guarantee hai tu budhape tak jiyega😂😂
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@@gayatri2081 aaj ke lie jio ... kal kisne dekha ... kya pata next saal ka aaj ka date dekhna bhi nasib na ho ....
You're a done case.
Kyu nhi..yoga se possible hai@@SandeepTudu-p2t
Sir, in foreign service, single female boss are worse than single male boss
Applies for every sector in India too
Only in foreign service? You have no idea bro. Read poetry of Emily Dickinson. She was single. I think a single woman is the most dangerous creature on this planet. So Don't loose heart.
In India too. I would like Medusa as my Boss but not a single female as a Boss. 😅
After hearing news of layoffs everyday, you will think twice before taking loan of high amounts
True.
I wholeheartedly agree.
Exactly. Ye boomer logon ki baat sunoge to 2 cr ka loan loge, divorce me 498a lagega and wo 2 cr ka ghar ex wife ke paas jayega aur zindagi bhar emi dete rahoge😂
Education cost , car cost , children miscellaneous cost which our parents saved
very good video sirji
The previous generation was very corrupt and purchased 4 - 5 properties using that money.
Then it is advantageous for the present generation who will inherit these properties.
😂
Now they want indexation benefits from tax payers money on those properties.
Old generation me buying power jyada tha or bo lifestyle pe Kharcha ni krte the uss smy incomes ke hisab se inflation tha 😊
Absolutely...
Let me know if I am wrong here:
The person started saving in 24 and invested in the stock market making 20% CAGR is good or person buying a home in early 20s is good? The same rule can't be applied to all the people. Yes, those who park their money in FDs should buy a house as early as possible, because your money cannot beat actual inflation. But the person making 18-20% CAGR in the stock market can wait up to 35-40 years of age. The wealth created in the first 15 years will be massive if you have little risk appetite. Home buying at an early age is for those who can't take risks.
Are bhai bear market bhi aayega , best part is you dont get leverage in market as you get to buy RE
remember 2018-2020 small caps were butchered , every say was pain, so avoid recency bias
future has already been mentioned in video itself
@@harshawardhantalegaonkar9162 Exactly, the Bear market only lasts for 2-3 years. Fundamental strong companies are going to recover with massive returns.
Buy a home in outskirts of a tier 2 city 20 lakh ke aas paas hi mil jaayega badhiya ground level par 2bhk
@@shubhamjoshi8762 TIER 2 KE BHI OUTSKIRTS ME
Zen z will suffer because of zen y & x greed who has increased land cost so much that almost everything is out of reach.. specially who works to increase property prices by influencing peoples...
पुराने ज़माने में बचों को assets माने जाते थे.. इसलिए ज्यादा बच्चे पैदा करते थे.. अभी की generation बचों को liabilities समज रहे हैं
34 years ... man .... not married .... Currently happy .... Let's see what happens
Bro aage ka hi dar hai after the age of 50-60 . Btw what are you doing right now?
Mere ko Sadi se koi personal dusmani nahi hain ... but main mera terms / criteria ko comprise karke shadi karne se bachelor marna pasand karunga ... Partner Sahi na ho toh zindagi ka har din narak ban jaega ... Ye baat koi nahi bolta hain bhai ... Maine ek do Aisa case dekha hua hain ...
@@alokebanerjee1990 bhai bilkul meri bhi yahi soch hai bas society se dar lagta hai , society apko shaadi na karne par napunsak samajhti hai , aur old age me dar lagta hai kaun dekhbhal karega beemar hone par, apni to job bhi sahi nahi hai. ap kya job karte ho?
@@alokebanerjee199020 year baad baat krte hai bhai. Let us see who will be more happy.😅
@@MINATOYELLOWFLSH2005 are bhai shaadi ke baad guarantee thode nhi h khus rahne ki
BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING RICH VS LOOKING RICH.
True that 1995 - 2003 born kids will have tough time but it’s ok they will make it out & it’s a life cycle.
One thing I noticed is common-sense is missing which need to be taken care and rest should be fine.
Could you please elaborate further on what common sense you are talking about,like can you give examples???
Kuch bhi kaho. Sango sir ki saari videos jeevan ki sachchai bataati hai.
Bro still watches Sandeep Maheshwari video after watching this fact
अगर ऐसा होता तो ईश्वर माथे पर लिख के भेजता की तुम शादी करो नहीं तो जीवन नीरस हो जाएगा।
जैसे खाने के बिना जीवन नही है ठीक उसके उलट शादी के बिना जीवन संभव है। अंकल आप गृहस्थ हो, सबको आप जैसा नहीं बनना , अगर आप खुश हो तो रहो। पर यह बोलना गलत है की जो अकेले है वो खुश नहीं।
Instead of fearing a backlash from Indian federation of the doctor why don't you create a video and very very important message related to corruption in Indian hospital marker and how to safe guard against this
What to do when maa baap also dont have their own home. They are living in rented apartments and are dependent on their kids for their old age expenses. They also dont have money for their sons marriage. How a son can handle all of this things alone? I want you to make video on this. I am getting panic attacks.
Then you are the first of their generation who may buy a house. If you target that aim, you should do marriage in mandir. Good ways to minimise panic attacks.
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow He can target his home for later. He cannot afford it today but key is to keep patience till the time he is ready. He will have to live on rent for that period. And minimise his marriage expenses. Please don't stay without marrying at your right age.
India mai richer becoming more rich and poor becomes more poor. As taxation system, reservations sucking people without any healthcare and education support systems.
You are on spot on... Very true😊
Aapke vicharo mein bahaut clarity hai I am enlightened....aaj ke youth ko ye clarity chahiye hi chahiye
Why genz will not be able to buy home in india? Ans: GenZ doesn't want to get married.
I was expecting more financial and economical explanation. I am afraid all his videos tend to end up in marriages.
Life long bachelors were there before also, now also and forever will be there also but that doesn't mean that those who had come on earth to marry will change their plans to marry. This man is unnecessarily creating a fear that bachelors will cause whole world to become bramhacharis.
Very grateful for teaching to Indian Genz for North Indian Haryanavis sacrifices
I am 93 born.. and still finding it difficult to buy a home...emis and stuff... I see my batchmates all buy sedans with loan...and i feel isolated as i took a different decision.
1993-1999 born Zellenials - combination of Millennial & Gen Z facing this issue...😢😢😢
👌👍very nice sensible helpfull video. Everything from every angle u explained in a nice way. In a very sweet way u said ek bar toh ker hi leni chaiye nahi chali toh dusri bar bhi n tesri bar bhi 😂
Overall it's a vry nice video..
U make the video on both relationship n selfishness n sensitive.
Please give the clarity on this n clear the confusion.. Being selfish n sensitive.
I have seen selfish people r enjoying n sensitive r left far behind by being kind n sensitive. Then it feels like take an oath never to b sensitive n good to b selfish atleast for ur own self. Please make a video on this to clear the confusions.
You said about various topics of ur consultation u explained it in a very nice way.
To b like a child while playing with a child..this is also like a being happy therapy.
Having ur own child is the biggest happiness.
Thankyou.
Great video sir, muje childhood me parents ka pyar nai mila kabhi as they were extra strict with us, par ab main apne bete ko wahi sab deti hu joh maine bachman me nai paya, aur sach me main bht bht satisfied feel karti hu ki muje nai mila kam se kam mera bacha toh ye sab problem face nai kar raha...
Merko padna nai mila ye keh k ki age toh shadi hi karni he, kahin bahar gumne nai mila kabhi.. kabhi kabhi zayada hasne p bhi tok dete the ki itni zayada hasegi toh fir rona padega ek din, dhire dhire meri hassi bhi band ho gayi... Bas yahi sikhaya ki chup chap sara din ghar ka kaam up-to-date rakhne ka, ghar ki ek chiz yaha se waha nai honi chahiye... Sorry to say main ab kisi ki burai nai kar rai hu, par ye batein andar andar khati gayi aur aj hum is mind set se bahar ana chahte he, bht koshish karte he par fir dimag me negativity ajati he , ki nai ye tu nai kar sakti, aisa nai kar sakti, ghar ganda rakh k aram nai kar sakti 😢😢
आपने दोनों जेनरेशन को बहुत अच्छे से समझाया🎉🎉🎉🎉
Old houses are available but looking at it will make you vomit. You need to spend a lot on a renovating company.
There is no space left to buy a land and build a fresh house in a decent urban neighbourhood.
Most people don't like to get married because economics conditions are to uncertain . You never know when you are thrown out of job .
अच्छा जीवनसाथी मिलने पर ही शादी करनी चाहिए, अन्यथा जिंदगी बेहतर होने की जगह जिंदगी झंड भी हो सकती है। भगवान ने एक ही जिंदगी दी है,इसे अपने अनुसार शांति, सुकून और सहज भाव से जीना चाहिए। व्यर्थ की प्रतिस्पर्धा से दुःख ही मिलता है। अधिकांश मनोरोगों का मुख्य कारण पारिवारिक या सामाजिक समस्याएं ही होती हैं।
Excellent video especially for modern generation! I fully agree with you and it is as though you are speaking my mind. I have practically done whatever u have advised regarding owning a house many many years back. Also built a house for my son years later so that he will not become homeless due to skyrocketing prices of real estate. Now both of us are happy with our families leading an independent life. 🙏🙏
Truly grateful that somehow I ended up coming across your channel some 18-20 months back sir 🙏
Have received a lot of clarity on life from all your channels
A lot of my personal doubts got cleared here
Completely subscribe to your view
2 baar 3 baar krni chahiye aur sab ladko ko 498A lgana chahiye… aur apki consulting leni chahiye…
Sahi business h guruji 😂
@@NitinKumar-ln3owyahi toh main bhi soch Raha tha. 3 shadi se Alimony lo aur life enjoy karo. 😂😂😂
You should convince people about why they should not get married. The situation of the current times is worse than ever😢
Business kaise chalega chacha ka😂😂😂
kya ho gya tere sath bhai
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa! 🥲🥲🥲🥲
Sir you are always great and salute to you 🙏
Sir main thing is mahilaaon ko shaadi shayad isliye karni pad jaati hai ki yadi woh akeli reh gai to log usey public property samajhne lag jaate hain. Saare purush nahi hote aise par haan bohot hai yeh sankhya bhi.
Isliye bhi krni padti hai k maa baap k baad Bhai kuch ni dete behno ko to pati ka ghar lena aasan hai par baap ka ghar lena mushkil hai Indian ladki k liye
@@dilpreet63 Is vishye mein koi debate chidni hi nahi chahiye kyunki kai baari to bhai ke pass hi kuch nahi hota dene ke liye aur jinke pass jitna zyadaa hota hai woh utna hi khud sametne ki sochte hain. It all lies in the intention . Plus rahi baat pati ke Ghar ki to usmein rehne ko milta hai na ki Ghar ki ownership on paper mil jaati hai aur uske badle bohot kuch ladki deti bhi hai. Jo ladkiyaan kamaa rahi hoti hain woh aur zyaada deti hain kai baari. Phir wahi baat aa jaati hai bhai ho ya pati sab depend karta hai neeyat par . Isliye apni financial suraksha to atleast apne hi haath mein rakhni chahiye kisi aur par depend nahi hona chahiye iske liye.
@@shalkiseth2893 ji bilkul sahi but ek baat Maine dekhi rishte khrab hone pe patni alimony k liye zaroor try karegi aur itni asani se give up nahi karegi but inheritance k liye aaram se Bhai ko sign kr k de deti hai NOC chahe khud k bacho ki financial condition khrab ho and Bhai crorepati ho
@@dilpreet63 meri mom aaj takk ladh rahi hain inheritance ke liye apne tareeke se without going to the court. The thing is inheritance ke liye parents ka support bhi zaroori hai aur society ki mentality bhi change honi chahiye .
@@dilpreet63 and moreover alimony ke liye ladhna and all is sheer waste of time for women too. Simple sa Funda hai apna ki you support me in my endeavors and I support you in yours. Ab aap kahein ki ek ladki ke hisse saari responsibility hi aaye chaahe pati ka ghar ho chaahe maayka to yeh baat sahi nahi. Rahi baat salary ghar laane ki ya ghar mein rehne dene ki to dono mata pita bhai aur pati ko yeh gyaan hona chahhiye ki salary sirf meri Betii behen maa ya patni sirf khudpar nahi udhaaa rahi balki salary laana meri khud ki bhi zaroorat hai isliye salary ghar main apne liye bhi la raha hoon .
Kyunki saari properties par to buddho ne kabza kar rakha h… lakho m rent Ara h 😂
Its funny that all your conservation end on house buying. But punchline was " ek baar to kar hi leni chahiye"
ekdam sahi pakde hai....par guruji baki batein ekdam barabar sikhate hai
Nice video and great advice, its just that - aache parents, apani samajhdari aur understanding partner milna jaruri hai, but I agree, to see how lucky we get first we have to buy the lottery ticket, there is no point in not trying and just fearing imaginary situations.
Jiski marriage ho chuki h ...age 30 ho ab vo kya kre .. solution batao aap
😂😂 ...grihasti bnao...aur money 💰 kamao
Wife ko bhi kaho ki paise kamaye...not necessarily ki 9 to 5 job se hi earning ho...
Ek do saal earning ke other sources pr research krenge to job se much better option milenge hi...
If already earning then work hard n smart to make other source of income
You're in job or business ?
@@Yippee342 job
@@Yippee342 job
Overall I felt at the age of 54 that whatever anyone lectures is not absolute. One should take only things from that which eases your pain & problems and make you understand yourself with respect to your environment surrounding you.
That’s all.
Jio apne tarike se.
You are the uncle every gen z needed. Thank you!
Salute uncle.. Salute.. every gen z needs to listen to this every morning.
The Four Ashrams- Brahmachari, Grihasta, Vanaprashta, Sannyasa -
complete the beautiful mosaic of life
... pick and choose is not allowed.
Guruji,aapke family tree pe video banaye....25 generations back, starting from ahmedshah abdali time....bada interesting hoga aur aaj ke zen generation ko motivation milega population karne me
Your worst advice....,,, high population is very dangerous for every country.... 😮
Aur kitni population karni h. No. 1 par toh pahuch gye😂
Very rightly said Guruji 🎊
"Spiritual person writing a nasty comment"😂😂 very well said sir
All your videos are a father's advice I missed from my father. Thank you guruji.
Absolute clarity from you as always. 👏
"we only die once" - great line
Gen z k parents ne b nhi kharida acchi sarkari nokri dono pati patni kr rhe h 25-26sal se. But ma pita k sath hi rah rhe h wife working woman h fir b uski life narak bni hue h. Husband sharvan kumar bna hua h. Bhe bahan k baccho ki b marriage study m help kra. Aaj khud k bacche k lia na ghar kharida na kuch savings h kal ko kharid k de b nhi sakate. Gen g k parents ne b koe great kam nhi kr diye h. Es generation ka koe dosh nhi h. 1990 k bad india ekdum india ki economy change hoe gen g k fathers ne hi maje kiye h best clothes watches. Shoe .....extra... Kharche kre bachho ko English medium m dal k lakho rupees spend kre ab kah rhe h jhan ye rhega ghar kharid denge. Acchi colonis m ghar k bagar marriage b na ho rhi. Gen z bhot dabad m g rhi h 😢 esme inka koe dosh ni h
Your father took responsibilities of his siblings... That's a good thing .. but kam se kam Ghar toh koshish karke Lena chahiye tha
Do you live on rent?
Don't you have plots in village? Nothing like that? No property whatsoever???
Exactly 💯
Sir all your points are valid 🙏🏻
Yes,it is truth ,because real state contiomtion is increasing the property rate.
Very powerful and impactful video.
Terrific Guruji! काफी दिनोंके बाद आपका video देखा, good perspective, appreciate it
Rightly said sir...loved the video❤
Sir pls make a clarity video on the societal statement that "jo hota hai achche ke liye hota hai"... Society aur families ne ye statement bol bol kar aisa mindset bna diya hai sbka ki hm kbhi bhi self audit nhi karte.. na hi is cheej ko monitor krte hai ki agar hmare sath kuch galat hua ya hme gaslighting ki gyi to aisa kyu hua....
I personally think that its a wrong statement...
Pls make a video providing more clarity on this that jo hota hai jruri nhi ki wo achche ke liye hi ho...!!
ispe jarur hona chahiye
ye line pandemic ki tarha hai
Beautiful explanation
Which one is better for end use / investment orchid petals @ 17000 or godrej aristocrat @ 23000. Orchid is 20 year old with some seepage issues and also need renovation. Both are in sector 49 where all facilities are in the nearby vicinity.
Your perspective of seeing things ❤
Very realistic topic . Guruji thank you for this.
I Could say that thiis video is one of your 👌 videos!!!❤
Even the earlier generation, 50s, 60s, 70s born ke ne bhi bohot struggle kiya hai , pehle job ke liye aur phir ghar, household appliances kharidne etc. ke liye bhi.
Un generation ke logon ne pehle chota ghar kharida like affordable houses or 1 bhk etc. Phir baad me kuch saalon ke baad, pehla ghar bechke , next thoda aur bada ghar le liya of course sab loan leke.
Toh iss generation bhi ye sab kar sakte hain, of course parents, if they have money can help them in buying a small house, also they should learn to save money also, it is said that ' money saved is money earned'.
Very good video guru ji ❤❤
Sir aaj kal to partners b credible nahi bache hai. Shaadi karte b dar lagta hai. Iska kya kare? Main issue is about the person who comes to our life and could make our life hell.
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow sir when your partner is neither want to live with you nor wishes to give you a divorce, this is the point which you have not discussed and most of the people scared of getting married. What is you say on this?
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow kindly guide for the proper procedure as I have consulted an advocate but he is telling that minimum 1.5 years time it will take.
@@NitinKumar-ln3ow the partner is physically and mentally unwell and is not capable of maintaining a relationship. I doubt she would be having any extra marital but her ego and mental instability are the things which is making it difficult to work and thus not getting a divorce.
what a great content.. thank you sir
Shaadi hi himmat nhi hai kyuki divore ke baad monthly alimony ka fine boys ko hi lagta hai.... Girls toh enjoy karti hai
Bro, thoda Pooja path karo, bhagwan pe vishwas kro. Sb accha hoga.
Right ly said @@dakshitagaur6212
Kya usse gender biased laws khatam ho jayega. Ya phir khud ko dhoke me rakh loge.@@dakshitagaur6212
Bhut achi baat khi h aapne
Bahut acchi video thi sir, i agree with everything you have said
Great analysis sir. Deep respect
हमारे माँ बाप का consumer durable.. Mobile phone के.. 4 wheeler ka koi kharcha nahi hota tha isliye ghar bana पाए
Practical advice 😊
SELFISHNESS & SENSITIVE DONE
Govt should encourage investment for home loans for less salary class .instead encouraging take home max salary and invest in shares to take risk.
Family is the only Constant / Truth.
Very sensitive talk
Eye-opening video
You are just speaking out extreme & harsh truth, listening to you sometimes removes all the optimism and dreams, ha ha : )
I am not saying in a bad way, but that is reality striking
And finally all I think is I need more money. I fall in the same salary brackets that you mentioned, no home so far, and many more life complications
But all said, I am not going to give up, there should be some way out
We had 2 flats in Mumbai, both are sold without reason now we are struggling to pay rent even in the outskirts of Mumbai
17:20 Guruji Rocks, Everyone shocks😂😂😂
Be the father you always wanted
Why Gen Z cant afford? Because govt now works on infinite money printing or now digital currency out of thin air.
And its not about mentality and thinking ,lots n lots of surveys in india and in abroad countries has shown the single ones are happy n leading a better life n waise shaadi karna n bache paida karna is a personal choice it can not be imposed on anybody ,bechara inki beti ya beta is so unlucky
Nice video🎉
Sir please don't demotivate Gen Zs. They are the smartest lot. Araam se le lenge. Anyone looking to buy in Gurgaon, please get in touch.
1] BECHAARE GEN Z KI FOOTI KISMAT
2] GEN Z PLUS MIDDLECLASS ; WORST COMBINATION
3] GEN Z KA GHAR LENE KA JUGAAD
4] GEN Z INVEST IN MUTUAL FUND , GHAR GYA MR
You are real no 1