Everyone's trying to be a celebrity with a surface image. It's pretty gross how most people fall for it or go along with it in a struggle to be relevant to others. Getting frustrated by heard-brain ppl is unhealthy though. People are gonna be who and what they are.
@@kareemalmas7580 Perhaps because they are addicted, but think their behavior is normal because everyone is doing it. (The old populous fallacy). Why sheep are sheep.
If you were truly smart you wouldn’t be watching this video saying yep that’s me & those people are below me.. Are you a business owner? Do you have a somewhat successful UA-cam channel, any skills you can impress? Yeah that’s what I though…
@@negvey huh? What? What are you taking about? I said that I am feeling this one. I didn't say anything that alligns with anything you said and there isn't anything negative about this persons video. What is wrong with you??
@@tythedetailer3650 My point is that dont flatter yourself, you are not as smart as you think you are and the people around arent as dumb as you perceive them to be, in other words, your standards of what is smart should be measured not in feelings and expression but by accomplishments
This is not true. Sigma males don't care for validation. They just don't see any point to convince you. They definitely stay if you are worthy.But not so many worth it.
Looks, high IQ, career, wealth, degrees, fame and so on. Off course that can be quite impressive in a shallow way. But still, as a hardcore Sigma male, I'm only genuinely impressed by two things: integrity and character. Sigma Male, always alone, never lonely. Never. The Ronins of the modern world.
Forever Infinity this is the way it is you're right integrity and character forever beats any super trillioner billionaire successful entrepreneur any day anytime anywhere in the universe
This is just like me. Especially on the lost in thought. "NO DAYS UNALERT." It's amazing, I'm a Sigma Male who's loo,ing for homeostasis in my life out in the country, rural area, on a homestead ranch with like minded people. I also become exhausted around crowds or chit-chattting with small talk makes me feel suffocating. I quickly leave.
I thought I was alone by being this way, but for the first time after watching this video I felt much better with a smile from ear to ear. This is so me, all of it. Thank you for sharing n express how we so called Sigma Males are...Thanx again.
This describes me better than I can describe myself. I'm only ever impressed by people who can push their minds and bodies to the edge. Flaunting wealth and status, I see as a weakness and an insecurity.
These videos explained what many people labeled as wrong....yet any group/job/team I left missed me when I was gone. I'd rather be a buried foundation stone than a shiny light on top.
So, I'm a sigma. I'm 32, I love to be alone, but, I have really good social skills if needed, and I'm still single, I haven't been in a relationship since highschool, not that I don't want to, I'm just not impressed with women these days, to the point a lot of women who had interest on me before call me weird or gay, I just can't find them attractive in my eyes, you know, not that I care tho. This may sound like an absurd fantasy, but, I'm waiting for that God fearing woman to just come in my life naturally, a woman that God has prepared for me, if I can't find her so be it. My family and friends were worried about me, but, they eventually gave up, as they could see, I can definitely take care of myself. My business is doing great, I'm rich, I have my hobbies, I love doing sports, I love taking care of my pets, I exercise to maintain good health and a good physique, I play online games to let some steam off, I have a loving family I can rely on, 1-2 good friends to hangout once in a blue moon, my adorable nephews and nieces whom I splurge most of my money, what more could a single man ask for, I'm already happy as it is in my own world. I don't plan on destroying it by marrying a mistake.
I find it funny that you had to mention that you are single, rich and have a good physique. None of that was necessary to mention, yet you did. That right there says a lot about who you are.
@@gusmonster59 How so? Cant that be the truth of it? He lists criteria women might look for in a man, mentions he checks all the boxes and then says he is single dispite all that. He says that to make it clear he is single by choice, unlike some incels perhaps.
@@abdirahman292 I have, traveling is my hobby and I'm in-love with it, aside from the scenery, I travel mostly because of different cuisines, actually, I'm a foodie, and my tongue has a taste for exotics. Really? Might as well try going there, maybe I could finally find my missus, while eating delicious food. Thanks... 😉
I’m a girl but I also resonate with this. I’ve began cutting off unwanted friends and relationships and distanced myself from people. I’m a loner and want to focus on myself and the grind. This isn’t only male specific
@@YouD0ntSay just don’t judge a book by it’s cover boy. So What now? You’re the best sigma out there with the best nickname?😂😂😂😂😂people are so weird nowadays
Boy, I'm an INTJ sigma, and this is exactly on point. I found I have to slow down because it just takes people a while to catch up with where I am instead of just being frustrated at why people don't "get it" when I first roll a concept out. I've already done the thousand permutations, considered the valid outcomes, and made the decision that is optimal, and don't have the energy to regurgitate every little step in my decision making process.
INTP here. I'll say 70% Sigma. I find it's important to learn how to explain any concept so even a child understands it. Ppl working under me thought I thought they were dumb. But they slowly understood that I'm getting the job done with max efficacy (100% completion in minimum time). I sucked at explaining things to ppl before. Now it's easier. Making ppl go wow is well, nothing to me now. It's just how life is. All that said. I do need to talk to ppl more. It's the biggest indicator of success with low effort.
@@arunlsk2271 I can relate... it's just nice when people accept that the product you put forward is comprehensive, although maybe needing some tweaks. And I can see explaining things like that... for me, I'm always asking why people don't listen to me? I say what I mean in very carefully chosen words for a reason. So, it's kind of like walking people through like a child. lol
@@FergusScotchman also dude. I agree with most things in the video. I agree we don't give a rat about idiots. But i also think it's wrong of us. We're in the world and it's up to us to learn how to interact with all of em. (Learn how to control em basically). Cos conversation is how u get success, no matter the skill u have. It's hard but necessary.
this comment section makes me so proud, the fact that we are all helping each other and lifting each other up is pumping me up so Hard, i never comment on anything but this comment section just made me proud, made me shed some tears of Joy to see "lone wolves" lifting their heads high and helping the People that are just starting to find and accept themselves is freaking beautiful, i just want to tell you something you might now believe me but i can tell you that if you channel that sigma energy right, you can achieve anything you want in life, i used to be pretty lonely because i thlught i was just way way way different from anyone else, but as soon as i started discovering, undestanding and accepting myself i started to use that sigma energy toachieve things that i could only dream of when i was "lost", i love you all even if we dont know each other, you can be sure that i understand you, i feel you, i love you just like when i started loving myself and who i am, im proud of every single one of you Kings, and i know we cant wake People up, call me crazy but i think sigmas will be the next laders of humanity, we can thinks outside the box, our king of thibking is needed when things get ugly, keep loving yourselves kings, Hugs from México my brothers
This channel is very good at helping people identify who they are. Which is vital in life, especially for those people who struggle with being accepted. Keep up the good lessons.
I met the most gorgeous girl ever, I let my guard down and persued something I already knew full darn well I'm not compatible with, it's not that I'm not compatible with this person in particular, im not compatible with anyone. I'm a glorified over thinking problem solver, nothing about my programming comes anywhere near close to normal. I think my brain now just stays in this lane and can't be shifted no matter what goes down around or who or what it is. I can appreciate beauty from afar now and be content without pursuit. I have my dog and my loyalty now lies with him. I think I'm done with humans. I just can't relate anymore.
Not sure my perspective helps - but I find bonding//relationship with people who value loyalty works. If my current loyal wife ever passed on, one of my pre courting questions would be getting at "What makes you excited to be alive? I find it is being with people I trust, do you feel this way?"" (Not quite these exact words but....)
This hits the nail on the head 100% with me. I always knew the term “Sigma male” but didn’t really know what it meant. After listening to this I have a weird feeling of relief. Almost like now I make sense to myself. Kinda weird… but I’m glad I came across this video.
I ignore most people, most social events, most things that seem to interest others, etc.....I just tell friends, family, and/or others.....don't take it personally.....I'm just not into it.....
That part about feeling like no one uses their brain is massive. I say that all the time at work and hardly anyone gets it or sees it. Everybody is an NPC or a sheep, and sometimes they can even tell me that, but they definitely don't *see* it the way I do. I'm just glad to have a channel show me that I'm not crazy or alone in my thinking. Lol
A brain is like a super computer. I don't know why people live in NPC mode. Maybe people forget how to use it after a while. It's like a zombie apocalypse.
They are not sheep, they are lemmings. They would run off the edge of a cliff if just one leader did that. Sheep, might be kind of dumb, but they aren't even that bad.
@@qua7771 I think people's lifestyles train them to only think in the lines of survival and servitude to their "bosses" for fear of being in "trouble". And I think this is more common these days.
@@roidwizard2679 Your so right. From birth, and over generations were dumbed down, and for the purpose of servitude in a corporate position. They've rigged the system to make it incredibly difficult to flourish by any other means. If we want independence we have to always be thinking. When conventional means doesn't work we have to be able to improvise via non-conventional means. People do almost everything the wrong way. People are coming out of college with a useless degree, and over 100K in debt. That's were wage, and debt slavery starts. I could go one, but I'm probably preaching the quire.
Just happened upon this video, this is genuinely the first time I have seen my personality described perfectly (not that I have ever looked). I am genuinely shocked as I thought it was just me with these personality traits.
same you are not alone. lmao like I knew I wasn't alpha , and when I am just being my true self instead of a pretend beta. ppl can't stand it... cause they can't understand it
It’s weird because I was driving to a town for my next job and I was thinking about me not being a beta or an alpha and wondering what I really was. First time I ever hear about Sigma. Pretty cool video, it describe me perfectly.
Right on. I'm not impressed by how important a person is, how much wealth a guy has, or how "hot" a woman is. I don't hate anyone personally but human beings in general just suck.
I've always been different from most people. I've only come across very few sigmas who are similar to me but they've all physically moved to another town/state/part of the city. It would be nice to meet other sigmas but there simply isn't enough of us out here. We are rare and usually, not to be arrogant but, are higher intelligence compared to the average person. It feels very lonely and we are usually the black sheep in our own families. Salute to all my sigma brothers 🙏 💯 💪
After so many years I always wondered wtf was wrong with me and why I act so different than everyone else. Then I realized, I'm a sigma empath. All of these videos I watched recently on YT about sigma males, Which I never even knew existed, have educated me on my character and that there is nothing wrong with me. It has given me a definition of how I am and that I should not feel ashamed about it, but empowered.
My main problem is overthinking and jumping into conclusion too easily. 💔 Plus my colleague hates me because they find me less interested during our team building while their sharing their bs life stories.
Good. Let them think that way. You’re not responsible for their thoughts. Like, how you get mad at someone for not being interesting? Does that make sense?
First video like this where literally every point hit dead on with who I am. I'm finally convinced, I'm a sigma. The feeling like everyone is fine with mediocrity and the feeling of not being able to turn your brain. And feeling like everyone around me is boring especially.
Its odd because the 3rd one ... i often am open to always ask peoples perspectives and thoughts on things for information purposes. But i had a girl ask why do i need her validation. Which threw me off because i wasnt asking her for reassurance or like i needed her to approve. I ask her her perspectives so i can learn how to understand a person like her because to this point i dont really have that insight. Im usually closed off because i know people tend to convolute my intentions though because i have divergent motives relative to others
AMAZING !!! It feels like for the very first time of my life, someone understand me understand my behavior, understand my feelings; Maybe it helps me to more understand me too... This might be the very most accurate video I've seen in my life Thank you for your work
Always honored, and respect your UA-cam educational channel, Wise Thinker. Your perspective about sigma males is always intriguing, and insightful. Hope you keep making videos about sigma males on this incredible channel. PS: Huge respect for replacing the original narrator on this channel with Kevin Conroy, the voice of Batman, who himself is a sigma male.
I used to think this was all a bunch of junk, but as I listened to all this my opinion changed. I am shocked that I identify with all these traits, and yet also relieved because I understand now. I get it. This explains so much regarding my life and relationships.
A thing that helps with number 3. I found that breaking down the explanation and explaining it in very linear ways, while very exhausting to say everything step by step, does at times help to get others on the ball with the actual reasoning behind a decision. Sometimes of course it's better to just go get something done and give a brief summary later when everyone else catches up.
I am so happy to find these videos because they help explain so much. I have often thought that I was just anti-social but the truth is that I'm not anti-social as much as I am put off by people's thought process. I have found that few people in life stimulate me mentally. Most tend to drain me.
Sigma men especially once they reach a mature age have sufficient life & people experience to realise that they don’t require the company of others for contentment or validation, but are conversely much better off spending quality time alone either pondering & meditating on how blessed they are & how they can maintain & improve upon their own current life situation. Mature Sigma Males also have learned that the majority of women are Drama Queens who detract from your life & take your precious time & energy with zero qualitative return. We therefore do not entertain the vast majority of women. For me, reading about history, travelling & cultures is far more appealing than spending time validating someone else’s poor opinion of themselves. With a nice tumbler of Tia Maria & a cool satisfying cigar. Super 👍
Interesting video. I've been told I'm weird because I don't talk much. While at the same time, I'm trying to find answers to people's hard questions. I've always questioned everything. Especially given the last few years.
I remember the first time I played a solo round of golf when I was younger, fresh out of high school. It felt weird, but not in a bad way. I understand now that this is what peace felt like and how necessary it was for me to be happy. The moments that stand out most to me in life were the ones where I was completely alone.
Sigma male here to say the term is "Could not care less", if a person 'could care less' obviously means there are levels of care under the level they have as opposed to no room to care any less... Thank You
I'm skeptical about this video. How the hell do they know about sigma males? Where is the data and evidence? Did they put a bunch of sigma males together to study them. I understand that human behavior can be studies scientifically, but who are doing the studies? Are they credible?
Sigma is not a medical term. It's an internet term. And to go wee bit further - it has has shown that the terms alpha, beta sigma do not apply in actual nature.
@@gusmonster59 "I'm an alpha wolf" "wolf packs don't have designated all time alpha wolves they always rely on in every situation. Whichever wolf is the most competent in a situation takes the lead and uh yea it's situational and.." "I AM AN ALPHA WOLF!!!"
Felt compelled to say that all of this is quit true, however I dont want to live in shadow...I enjoy brandishing what I've accomplished...and it may sound narcissistic but thats ok that doesn't define me. Kudos to the ppl brave enough to share. Best of luck to you all 🍻
And here I'm getting fustrated by seeing so many fake sigmas trying to gain attention by commenting things like sigma males, if u really are a sigma u dont need to prove it, u will just ignore the need to prove it or show it. I think u got my point.
I relate to a few things mentioned. Can't enjoy clubs always drinking, I love being outside seeing new areas. I been around a lot of none genuine individuals. I can respect hard work. I used to be naive, and trusted others because they were fellow Marines but now that's changed. I used to hate being alone but now I'm content with it. Can't stand people can't see the flaw in their ways the bad logic.
Are sigma males the way they are through biology or is it a nurture thing? I am cut from a different cloth than other people I think but I always felt that way through some of the experiences in my life as opposed to being born this way. For instance I'm a third child who unfortunately had a bit of an age gap with my nearest sibling so I kind of had to play with myself a lot. I am the only one in my family that talks to themselves. I do it sometimes as a way of fleshing out thoughts. The one aspect that for sure hits me on the head from this video is ignoring people as a means of not being rude and being lost in thoughts. Sometimes I'll just stare into space even amongst people in rare cases and I thought it was something that happened to everyone but I don't believe I have observed that happening to anyone else yet. I used to be more trusting when I was a kid but now not so much. I link it back to a kid I used to play with for one year in elementary school then next year basically just disavowed me to my face. I guess I was pretty hurt from this incident and really only have a small circle of friends. We've been friends for over 20 years now. Unfortunately one of my friends suddenly passed away and I literally dropped everything I was doing to be there with his family. Not doing the same things over and over again is interesting and not sure I fit in that mold. Probably the one thing that does not fit me and maybe it does. I've been at my job for over 15 years doing basically the same job although it is a small company so I wear many different hats doing different things. I've always been a jack of all trades but master of none kind of person so this actually is a good fit for me. However, the part that seems to fit are games that I have beaten. Some people are happy to replay games whereas for me as soon as I feel I have figured something out it is quite boring to do the same thing again. I rarely rewatch movies or tv series. I'll re-watch clips but almost never rewatch unless I feel like I didn't quite understand something and need to rewatch just to satisfy the answer to that question.
@@futuretrunks3158 you can open an embossed book, at least your analyzing skills match your incapacities. Some good criticism can help but it seems you might miss the second sentence as you might bloat with infantile rage, don't forget to wash hands after pooing just to don't put them near your face too much, that's why your head stinks.
I have always described myself, as being antisocail but able person that can do any job if given leave to do it my way. But at the end of the work day do not call me I wont pick up I am home and doing my stuff. I really found your video to hit pretty on key. This video is just wow.
I ignore certain people because it's a natural filter for what I truly want. It's not a negative behavior, rather it's negative to those who can't precieve the notion of it.
Most of this is spot on, the only thing I'd disagree with is the "tune the world out while they're thinking part" I've mastered the ability to think/live inside my head and yet still hear, see and process everything going on around me simultaneously. Don't tune out, tune IN
I absolutely love time to myself and find it totally infuriating when women constantly nag me to go out and do stuff, take them somewhere pointless . I need my space and then they constantly pester me with useless questions about why I want peace and quiet etc. Such inane questions, shallow people always wanting to make you in to something they want but you just want to be alone. It's no wonder i avoid women as much as possible especially on my quiet days. I refuse to go out or have a list of things I need to do so I can use as an excuse that they won't question. I hurt someone real bad once when I was a kid because I was pushed too far by a bunch of pain in the ass alpha guys. I sent him to hospital and he luckily avoided brain injury, that was nearly 50 years ago and had to teach myself to hold my temper in when pushed well beyond my limits. I don't have those issues now . All the above mentioned signs are what I feel all my life.
Most of the time it's insecurity and self-doubt. I've noticed that people who are confident with themselves tend to get along with the Sigma very well. It's the people who have something to prove who seem to clash a lot - i.e. "How can anybody be so sure of themselves?"
As a female who has had several long term relationships with Sigmas, I concur with the number of times the narrator says "that's just how they are. it doesn't mean they are..." As described in the video, they dont come off as, rather they are very much about themselves. They want this, but only under their circumstances. They want to date interesting women, who are feminine, non dramatic, also dynamic, independent and uncomplacent- check. I've found its difficult for them to have healthy, balanced relationships. For ex, the video stated direct communication, followed immediately by ignoring you rather than be direct and honest. That causes a lot of problems, unnecessary drama and confusion. In my experience, they seem aloof. It's great to be confident within yourself, your views, to have high standards, value your time who it's with and doing what, to not need approval or attention and require space to recharge. But they can be quite demanding to be in a relationship with, critical, expect a lot from their partners but again, as stated in video, when it comes to the partners needs, "it's just how they are", in effect a double standard. It can become very one sided, and it takes both people wanting to be there and compromise to maintain relationships. If you want the kind of woman Sigmas want, excuses about unresolved personal issues and that's just how how I am isn't how you keep a woman who has other options. And it is that best effort I put into these relationships for years with a gradual decline of my own needs being met that ultimately ended these 3 relationships. I don't think it's fair to specifically categorize men or women into 3 or 4 profiles either though, we are all whole people with variations of the profile characteristics. For the men who say they cant find anyone they can connect with you might consider that two people make a relationship. Youll never find a woman who checks every box, humans are not perfect, that includes Sigmas. The kind of women they are compatible with are much like them with high standards as well. Its easy to forget that our lovers arent obligated to be there, they likely have options as you do, and we put in that effort for the people we love and to keep the relationship going strong, to keep the value that partner brings to our life experience.. I hope that was helpful to others as insight from a good woman. I say that as a NON-progressive feminist, who supports men as decision-makers, in their endeavors, and regard their needs as important. A little appreciation for a woman who treats you well will go much farther than the attitude of "I don't have anything to prove." I didn't have anything to prove either, This is the essence of relationships. You will have conflict, truth is unpleasant at times, communication makes or breaks interaction, life is complicated and so is maintaining a romance and relationship, more now than its ever been historically. But it's also worth it for those who accept us, flaws and all, and who act act as our anchors and companionship in life. I dates 3 amazing men for 4+ years each, and although they ended, overall it was good.
This is literally what I am 100% when people try to do too much small talk I just don't say nothing, or I walk away from the situation :/ what's the point in learning about the weather when you can just look outside or google it? Also trying to teach others how I think or how I see things is basically impossible they just give up too quickly. Or exaggerate how they don't understand it and I don't feel like dealing with a grown adult acting like 2 year olds.
Absolutely liked this video, describes me right on point. Numerous times had thought there was something wrong with me to say. But watching this was what i needed to understand myself clearly on how an why i operate the way i do. Thank you!
"Never explain. Your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe it anyway." --Elbert Hubbard So, there actually is a name for these behavioral qualities.
As a sigma male since 12 years old, I don’t stare at women or get gushy with them. I have interests that aren’t superficial ( social media, reality TV etc). My biggest thing in life is raising my 3 children
U were born that way..u don't become a sigma male..lol.. basically a sigma male is a Dominant introvert.. its a rare trait bc most introverts are submissive..thats why alpha males hates Sigmas.. I know bc I'm always being challenged because of my quiet nature..i find most ppl boring af. lol.. I'm like u ,I only care about family,that's it..be safe bro
I can relate to most of this but I'm just wondering where the term came from and who coined the term and whether there is actually any credibility behind it. I'm not doubting there are men who exhibit many of these characteristics because I do as well. Apparently the term was coined around 2010 by a Vox Day, so there's not much credibility from a historical scientific perspective. Other people's labels don't change truth, so it doesn't really matter what anyone calls me. If you let people's words affect your emotional "stability" then we give them some measure of control over us. It's not always easy ignoring what people say, but if you think it through, you can assess and correctly deal with negative comments . If the negative comment is even partially true, we can be appreciative that someone may have helped us identify a weakness that we may have been unaware of, and if we work on our weaknesses, we become better in every area which helps everyone including ourselves. Most other people suffer from cognitive dissonance and various lapses in critical thinking which usually results in a boat load of logical fallacies. It can take a long time to unpack and correct someone's poor thinking, so it's easier to let the blind lead the blind and help those who really want to be helped. I'm constantly assessing my own thinking and notice that I can quickly fall into the same critical thinking traps because it's easy ... not to mention lazy. It takes time and effort to think... it's work and can be exhausting at times. From a Christian worldview, none of this personality stuff really affects our responsibilities and our duties. It might help us understand our basic tendencies that we default to, but God gives us power to obey everything He instructs... if we are Christians with the Holy Spirit inside of us.
I only just started looking at personality types recently and never bothered looking intto the whole alpha, beta and sigma societal archetypes. Not really into labels. Watching about sigmas made me stop and listen, it was like the guy was talking about me. I’ve been told that I am alpha a few times but never understood how I could be alpha when I genuinely don’t care about being a sheeple or who likes me. When they started talking about introverted aplha and the meaning of how they take control without the aggression of the alpha and without the need of being popular and accepted it made total sense. The sigma empath can take control without using aggressive tactics to do it. The nice boss that gets respect for caring. For me the biggest part is the alone time to recharge and not needing acceptance and validation.
Ah, no wonder I'm automatically invisible. I love thinking out stories, plans, tactics, and ideas. Know there's a party going on, but will go when the time is right, with supplies. Pays to be a Hawkeye, let no one tell you otherwise.
Being alone is less complicated and I don’t have to deal with annoying people. Yes, I may miss out on the occasional interesting person, but it’s worth it.
Hello, this is the first time I come across the concept of sigma and I feel like 90% of these are things that come out of me... For years I knew that I neither like being a leader nor being led... so you put my mind in order lol
Definitely bro the alpha and the beta categorize in same wave length just the beta is in program mode to become alpha. We don't possess alpha and brta we plan and strategize how we want to move or things we are moved by. The other week I was at the bus stop I had seen probably a Sigma driving a big luxury car, I was impressed by his character, like he achieved what he accomplished, I gave him a wave and he nodded 💯
I never knew what sigma male was never looked into it but this video seemed interesting so I watched little did I know this describes me entirely I always wondered why I felt so alien around everyone. Thanks for the video. I feel like maybe I'm not alone for once. Knowing there's other people like me.
The problem nowadays is that when man is shy, very polite and spread goodness, many people are considering him as weak and try to dominate or manipulate him. You never know, maybe he is checking on you to see if you take his qualities as vulnerability.
I literally live with all these qualities since I could remember. Just another label to take away from actually telling someone who you are. Sure I can now say “I’m a Sigma male”, but who tf really knows what it is? Not many. So I rather continue to tell someone who may be curious about my character in full instead of a simple word.
👍 👍 on the video . The word weird would be thrown a lot but I’d just say no you just can’t believe what I say (or don’t) and how I act towards certain things is of a nonchalant essence . Too bad it just puts many in the category of distant friends and exes but I prefer my one day a week recharge , DND on my phone , and introverted preference . It’s what makes me happy .
I find most things boring now and I am approaching my mid twenties, i find myself bored with games and such so I stop playing for a while. I always liked to talk to people older then me because some had more knowledge then other’s and I could learn valuable lessons, I never liked big crowds and felt lonely because the people around me don’t talk about interesting stuff. I always find myself thinking and spacing out, so yeah thank you for reading if you did :)
I'm 12 and a half minutes in and I can't take it anymore. How are you describing my inner thought processes and how I see the world so perfectly? I'm going to finish now.
Everything is true... Honestly, I never knew the word " sigma male" before hearing this on the internet.. It's interesting because I think this has been a part of me my whole life!.. This might always sound weird to others but I find security in being genuine, rational and truthful.. In a sense being unique as a person and not just typical like everyone else perhaps expects me to be.Most people I talk to talk about themselves or what they do before they ask me how I am or something. But still,ya I do need company and it sure feels good to be with someone I love but I need my space too because it's not everyone or with every type I want to be around with either...I know some only love me because maybe they think I can do something for them or that they expect something from me, so what's the point to be with some certain people? Servitude is not giving,sharing or nurturing, it can never been something that's for me,I love myself too much,I can't reject who I really am and the creator that gave me life and I intend to make it worth it for me and for those I care about. I believe truly part of loving yourself is knowing your self-worth,I know I live in a world where many won't see that about me even despite my best qualities as a person you simply can't please everybody. I feel that I do have to throw a little dirt back to the world sometimes and say fuck off even with hard love otherwise I always feel weak and vulnerable to others... I know personally, I don't owe nothing to nobody nor want anything from anyone either and the good lord knows how I feel inside.. Aside a few I will always hold so dear close to my heart in this life,I don't care if nobody else loves me,I don't care if nobody else understands me or what I'm talking about..For me at least,I accept who I am, I understand who I am,what I am,what inspires me personally,what I need to live and what I want that can me happy.Nothing else matters as much,it's just background in this world for me... Again what's the point,we live in a selfish world where personal entitlements is the reason for every,jealousy,hate or greed I hear about or that I've experienced from others...I think what's most sad ,is that a lot of the crimes in the world we have today have nothing to do with poverty but hate sometimes.. Still even above that,I believe mother earth suffers the worst pain of all... Leaders fail because in the end of the day,real altruism is actually quite rare but that's what's needed I believe to be a great leader,most don't have that..And always following someone,you might as well accept being a slave for somebody else,how can I love myself for being a fool Anyways,meeting all sorts of people is great that's the adventure and it makes things interesting but in the end it's really to be with people only I want to be with,that makes me feel good... I think the notion of Harmony and having so many people around you is overrated ..
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Excellent video,thanks for sharing
Definitely hit the like this is what I am I come to find out thank u idk if it a good thing but this is what I am
Great video
Pretty much me??
I get so frustrated with social media, self absorbed, self entitled people who are fake and portray themselves for validation. Just be genuine.
I tried FB 9 years ago, and didn't get it. It seemed like social manipulation, so I shut it down after I got back in contact with a few people.
Everyone's trying to be a celebrity with a surface image. It's pretty gross how most people fall for it or go along with it in a struggle to be relevant to others. Getting frustrated by heard-brain ppl is unhealthy though. People are gonna be who and what they are.
People look at me weird when I say I don't have social media accounts.
@@kareemalmas7580 Perhaps because they are addicted, but think their behavior is normal because everyone is doing it. (The old populous fallacy). Why sheep are sheep.
Well for me, my relatives are spread out, so it's the only way to reach out to them for free
"I want to find people who are smarter than I am, but it's difficult because most people WANT to be mediocre"
I'm feeling this one
If you were truly smart you wouldn’t be watching this video saying yep that’s me & those people are below me.. Are you a business owner? Do you have a somewhat successful UA-cam channel, any skills you can impress? Yeah that’s what I though…
@@negvey huh? What? What are you taking about? I said that I am feeling this one. I didn't say anything that alligns with anything you said and there isn't anything negative about this persons video. What is wrong with you??
@@tythedetailer3650 My point is that dont flatter yourself, you are not as smart as you think you are and the people around arent as dumb as you perceive them to be, in other words, your standards of what is smart should be measured not in feelings and expression but by accomplishments
@@negvey and I said your point is invalid. Your advice is irrelevant here. I wish that I could delete your comments.
@@axiomunbroken8495
It's not my job to teach another adult to behave like an adult.
But real men understand the value of teaching
@@jackgz2011 I agree. Real men should force another man to behave like an adult and discipline him
@@derekrobertson60388 control freaks do that to look responsible, bordering on abuse.
@@varia6688 Tell that to KL Hudson right above
This is an A, B conversation so C your way out before D jumps over E and F's you up like a "G". 😆
We don’t ignore people because we want to. We ignore people that ignore and don’t value us. In a snap.
Best explanation 👍
Very true
this
This is not true. Sigma males don't care for validation. They just don't see any point to convince you. They definitely stay if you are worthy.But not so many worth it.
Is it really ignoring people or just.. Not noticing them? I rarely notice people unless they say something interesting
Looks, high IQ, career, wealth, degrees, fame and so on. Off course that can be quite impressive in a shallow way. But still, as a hardcore Sigma male, I'm only genuinely impressed by two things: integrity and character. Sigma Male, always alone, never lonely. Never. The Ronins of the modern world.
It's not just Sigma, but most Alpha males are looking for quality like kindness, femininity, caring, empathy, calmness, vulnerability....
Forever Infinity this is the way it is you're right integrity and character forever beats any super trillioner billionaire successful entrepreneur any day anytime anywhere in the universe
Integrity, consistency and truth of your character
You and I both..think I’m a female version of a sigma well almost
@@fireeye33 um... I dont like the character you're building out of those traits.
This is just like me. Especially on the lost in thought. "NO DAYS UNALERT." It's amazing, I'm a Sigma Male who's loo,ing for homeostasis in my life out in the country, rural area, on a homestead ranch with like minded people. I also become exhausted around crowds or chit-chattting with small talk makes me feel suffocating. I quickly leave.
I thought I was alone by being this way, but for the first time after watching this video I felt much better with a smile from ear to ear. This is so me, all of it. Thank you for sharing n express how we so called Sigma Males are...Thanx again.
Yea most these sounds like me too.A nice balance.
Same here 😅
This describes me better than I can describe myself.
I'm only ever impressed by people who can push their minds and bodies to the edge.
Flaunting wealth and status, I see as a weakness and an insecurity.
This is the REALEST Sigma Male channel I've come across to date! Keep up the great work! 👍👍👍
Thanks, will do! Appreciate that!🙏
That's so true 👍
Yep.
Absolutely right!
These videos explained what many people labeled as wrong....yet any group/job/team I left missed me when I was gone. I'd rather be a buried foundation stone than a shiny light on top.
So, I'm a sigma. I'm 32, I love to be alone, but, I have really good social skills if needed, and I'm still single, I haven't been in a relationship since highschool, not that I don't want to, I'm just not impressed with women these days, to the point a lot of women who had interest on me before call me weird or gay, I just can't find them attractive in my eyes, you know, not that I care tho. This may sound like an absurd fantasy, but, I'm waiting for that God fearing woman to just come in my life naturally, a woman that God has prepared for me, if I can't find her so be it. My family and friends were worried about me, but, they eventually gave up, as they could see, I can definitely take care of myself. My business is doing great, I'm rich, I have my hobbies, I love doing sports, I love taking care of my pets, I exercise to maintain good health and a good physique, I play online games to let some steam off, I have a loving family I can rely on, 1-2 good friends to hangout once in a blue moon, my adorable nephews and nieces whom I splurge most of my money, what more could a single man ask for, I'm already happy as it is in my own world. I don't plan on destroying it by marrying a mistake.
I find it funny that you had to mention that you are single, rich and have a good physique. None of that was necessary to mention, yet you did. That right there says a lot about who you are.
@@gusmonster59 How so? Cant that be the truth of it? He lists criteria women might look for in a man, mentions he checks all the boxes and then says he is single dispite all that. He says that to make it clear he is single by choice, unlike some incels perhaps.
@@gusmonster59 I smell discontent and shame coming from your area
Have you tried travelling. You might find those women in counties like Colombia or Thailand.
@@abdirahman292 I have, traveling is my hobby and I'm in-love with it, aside from the scenery, I travel mostly because of different cuisines, actually, I'm a foodie, and my tongue has a taste for exotics.
Really? Might as well try going there, maybe I could finally find my missus, while eating delicious food. Thanks... 😉
I’m a girl but I also resonate with this. I’ve began cutting off unwanted friends and relationships and distanced myself from people. I’m a loner and want to focus on myself and the grind. This isn’t only male specific
Kudos
Friends? I’m the same way 😭
Same girl! Lol
@@thegoddessofsigmapeople6267 Your nickname "Goddess" somehow contradicts that.
Just sayin'....
@@YouD0ntSay just don’t judge a book by it’s cover boy. So What now? You’re the best sigma out there with the best nickname?😂😂😂😂😂people are so weird nowadays
Boy, I'm an INTJ sigma, and this is exactly on point. I found I have to slow down because it just takes people a while to catch up with where I am instead of just being frustrated at why people don't "get it" when I first roll a concept out. I've already done the thousand permutations, considered the valid outcomes, and made the decision that is optimal, and don't have the energy to regurgitate every little step in my decision making process.
Same for me also ENTJ. May I ask what profession you are working in?
@@Alex1s1 Sure, I've had two startups in the medical field, but engineering education.
INTP here. I'll say 70% Sigma. I find it's important to learn how to explain any concept so even a child understands it. Ppl working under me thought I thought they were dumb. But they slowly understood that I'm getting the job done with max efficacy (100% completion in minimum time). I sucked at explaining things to ppl before. Now it's easier. Making ppl go wow is well, nothing to me now. It's just how life is. All that said. I do need to talk to ppl more. It's the biggest indicator of success with low effort.
@@arunlsk2271 I can relate... it's just nice when people accept that the product you put forward is comprehensive, although maybe needing some tweaks. And I can see explaining things like that... for me, I'm always asking why people don't listen to me? I say what I mean in very carefully chosen words for a reason. So, it's kind of like walking people through like a child. lol
@@FergusScotchman also dude. I agree with most things in the video. I agree we don't give a rat about idiots. But i also think it's wrong of us. We're in the world and it's up to us to learn how to interact with all of em. (Learn how to control em basically). Cos conversation is how u get success, no matter the skill u have. It's hard but necessary.
this comment section makes me so proud, the fact that we are all helping each other and lifting each other up is pumping me up so Hard, i never comment on anything but this comment section just made me proud, made me shed some tears of Joy to see "lone wolves" lifting their heads high and helping the People that are just starting to find and accept themselves is freaking beautiful, i just want to tell you something you might now believe me but i can tell you that if you channel that sigma energy right, you can achieve anything you want in life, i used to be pretty lonely because i thlught i was just way way way different from anyone else, but as soon as i started discovering, undestanding and accepting myself i started to use that sigma energy toachieve things that i could only dream of when i was "lost", i love you all even if we dont know each other, you can be sure that i understand you, i feel you, i love you just like when i started loving myself and who i am, im proud of every single one of you Kings, and i know we cant wake People up, call me crazy but i think sigmas will be the next laders of humanity, we can thinks outside the box, our king of thibking is needed when things get ugly, keep loving yourselves kings, Hugs from México my brothers
You can never be found if you were never lost in the first place 😉
Some of them just wants to bring you down. Not everyone is nice,even in this comment section.
This channel is very good at helping people identify who they are. Which is vital in life, especially for those people who struggle with being accepted. Keep up the good lessons.
I appreciate that! Thank you!🙏
Self knowledge and awareness is extremely important in this life
It's not a great thing to try to identify yourself. You are not what you do or say, that is what you are to other people.
My man doesn't know himself? Don't let UA-cam determine who you are. People need to learn how to think for themselves.
Are people watching this serious? Jesus christ😂😂.
I met the most gorgeous girl ever, I let my guard down and persued something I already knew full darn well I'm not compatible with, it's not that I'm not compatible with this person in particular, im not compatible with anyone. I'm a glorified over thinking problem solver, nothing about my programming comes anywhere near close to normal. I think my brain now just stays in this lane and can't be shifted no matter what goes down around or who or what it is. I can appreciate beauty from afar now and be content without pursuit. I have my dog and my loyalty now lies with him. I think I'm done with humans. I just can't relate anymore.
nothing wrong with ya bro....you just think logically over emotions...which is smart !
I have little to no patience for humanity. You are not alone brother.
Not sure my perspective helps - but I find bonding//relationship with people who value loyalty works. If my current loyal wife ever passed on, one of my pre courting questions would be getting at "What makes you excited to be alive? I find it is being with people I trust, do you feel this way?"" (Not quite these exact words but....)
More edge than my ashy elbows
People = drama regardless of sex. I stay in my lane and wait for something decent to come along.
This hits the nail on the head 100% with me. I always knew the term “Sigma male” but didn’t really know what it meant. After listening to this I have a weird feeling of relief. Almost like now I make sense to myself. Kinda weird… but I’m glad I came across this video.
You literally put my thoughts on the matter to paper so to speak.
Same omg
Same this vid read me like 📚
I ignore most people, most social events, most things that seem to interest others, etc.....I just tell friends, family, and/or others.....don't take it personally.....I'm just not into it.....
I sometimes walk around with my headphones in but not on just so people won't talk to me and if they do, I "can't hear them"
same with the headphones but I'm at the age where whenever someone attempts to call me out I say "I can always go get my earplugs if you prefer"
That part about feeling like no one uses their brain is massive. I say that all the time at work and hardly anyone gets it or sees it. Everybody is an NPC or a sheep, and sometimes they can even tell me that, but they definitely don't *see* it the way I do. I'm just glad to have a channel show me that I'm not crazy or alone in my thinking. Lol
A brain is like a super computer. I don't know why people live in NPC mode. Maybe people forget how to use it after a while. It's like a zombie apocalypse.
They are not sheep, they are lemmings. They would run off the edge of a cliff if just one leader did that. Sheep, might be kind of dumb, but they aren't even that bad.
@@qua7771 I think people's lifestyles train them to only think in the lines of survival and servitude to their "bosses" for fear of being in "trouble". And I think this is more common these days.
@@anthonystike6034 Right! I'll start using lemmings as the new example. Lol
@@roidwizard2679 Your so right.
From birth, and over generations were dumbed down, and for the purpose of servitude in a corporate position. They've rigged the system to make it incredibly difficult to flourish by any other means. If we want independence we have to always be thinking. When conventional means doesn't work we have to be able to improvise via non-conventional means. People do almost everything the wrong way. People are coming out of college with a useless degree, and over 100K in debt. That's were wage, and debt slavery starts. I could go one, but I'm probably preaching the quire.
Just happened upon this video, this is genuinely the first time I have seen my personality described perfectly (not that I have ever looked). I am genuinely shocked as I thought it was just me with these personality traits.
same you are not alone. lmao like I knew I wasn't alpha , and when I am just being my true self instead of a pretend beta. ppl can't stand it... cause they can't understand it
It’s weird because I was driving to a town for my next job and I was thinking about me not being a beta or an alpha and wondering what I really was. First time I ever hear about Sigma. Pretty cool video, it describe me perfectly.
We are 2% of the population feeling alone is in the numbers
I can relate
Eldritchian 4 sho!
Now I know that I am a Sigma male 😂 this explained everything I am… and I smile at how accurate everything is.
Same specially @ the work place 😭
Right on. I'm not impressed by how important a person is, how much wealth a guy has, or how "hot" a woman is. I don't hate anyone personally but human beings in general just suck.
And your not one?
And your not one?
It's not about ignoring people, but rather about paying attention to matters of _substance._ It's nothing personal. It's just real.
I've always been different from most people. I've only come across very few sigmas who are similar to me but they've all physically moved to another town/state/part of the city. It would be nice to meet other sigmas but there simply isn't enough of us out here. We are rare and usually, not to be arrogant but, are higher intelligence compared to the average person. It feels very lonely and we are usually the black sheep in our own families. Salute to all my sigma brothers 🙏 💯 💪
That lonely part hit hard. Real hard. It’s so rare to have someone understand me. When it happens though, It’s appreciated. Peace brudda
I'm with you brother
Smarter than the average bear?
@@visaman 🐻
Same here brother. We limin in this ride of life.
After so many years I always wondered wtf was wrong with me and why I act so different than everyone else. Then I realized, I'm a sigma empath. All of these videos I watched recently on YT about sigma males, Which I never even knew existed, have educated me on my character and that there is nothing wrong with me. It has given me a definition of how I am and that I should not feel ashamed about it, but empowered.
Remember guys, to be a sigma you not only need to be honest, but also brave when it’s necessary. Smart will follow.
I don't think you can strive to be a Sigma. I was born this way. I never had to work at it!
My main problem is overthinking and jumping into conclusion too easily. 💔 Plus my colleague hates me because they find me less interested during our team building while their sharing their bs life stories.
Good. Let them think that way. You’re not responsible for their thoughts. Like, how you get mad at someone for not being interesting? Does that make sense?
First video like this where literally every point hit dead on with who I am. I'm finally convinced, I'm a sigma. The feeling like everyone is fine with mediocrity and the feeling of not being able to turn your brain. And feeling like everyone around me is boring especially.
This is one of the best Sigma videos hands down ... 🙂
Big thanks, Henry!🙏
Yup!!!
Its odd because the 3rd one ... i often am open to always ask peoples perspectives and thoughts on things for information purposes.
But i had a girl ask why do i need her validation. Which threw me off because i wasnt asking her for reassurance or like i needed her to approve. I ask her her perspectives so i can learn how to understand a person like her because to this point i dont really have that insight.
Im usually closed off because i know people tend to convolute my intentions though because i have divergent motives relative to others
AMAZING !!!
It feels like for the very first time of my life, someone understand me understand my behavior, understand my feelings;
Maybe it helps me to more understand me too...
This might be the very most accurate video I've seen in my life
Thank you for your work
Wonderful! I appreciate that!🙏
Always honored, and respect your UA-cam educational channel, Wise Thinker. Your perspective about sigma males is always intriguing, and insightful. Hope you keep making videos about sigma males on this incredible channel. PS: Huge respect for replacing the original narrator on this channel with Kevin Conroy, the voice of Batman, who himself is a sigma male.
I used to think this was all a bunch of junk, but as I listened to all this my opinion changed.
I am shocked that I identify with all these traits, and yet also relieved because I understand now. I get it.
This explains so much regarding my life and relationships.
I went through the same
feel you, 1000% me, its so scary, always thought I was different then everyone else, but this all makes us come together to unite.
@@PatrickSchmetzer cool.....not scary
the love of my life was a sigma male...he was murdered sadly I still miss him decades later
Sorry for your loss.😢
A thing that helps with number 3. I found that breaking down the explanation and explaining it in very linear ways, while very exhausting to say everything step by step, does at times help to get others on the ball with the actual reasoning behind a decision. Sometimes of course it's better to just go get something done and give a brief summary later when everyone else catches up.
I am so happy to find these videos because they help explain so much. I have often thought that I was just anti-social but the truth is that I'm not anti-social as much as I am put off by people's thought process. I have found that few people in life stimulate me mentally. Most tend to drain me.
Sigma men especially once they reach a mature age have sufficient life & people experience to realise that they don’t require the company of others for contentment or validation, but are conversely much better off spending quality time alone either pondering & meditating on how blessed they are & how they can maintain & improve upon their own current life situation.
Mature Sigma Males also have learned that the majority of women are Drama Queens who detract from your life & take your precious time & energy with zero qualitative return.
We therefore do not entertain the vast majority of women.
For me, reading about history, travelling & cultures is far more appealing than spending time validating someone else’s poor opinion of themselves.
With a nice tumbler of Tia Maria & a cool satisfying cigar.
Super 👍
Whiskey and Cuban for me. Brandy sometimes.
@@hakuei7530 right on. 👍
Interesting video. I've been told I'm weird because I don't talk much. While at the same time, I'm trying to find answers to people's hard questions. I've always questioned everything. Especially given the last few years.
I remember the first time I played a solo round of golf when I was younger, fresh out of high school. It felt weird, but not in a bad way. I understand now that this is what peace felt like and how necessary it was for me to be happy. The moments that stand out most to me in life were the ones where I was completely alone.
Sigma male here to say the term is "Could not care less", if a person 'could care less' obviously means there are levels of care under the level they have as opposed to no room to care any less...
Thank You
I always just called myself a lone wolf. Well. Now I know what the medical term is.
Howl loud and proud...
I'm skeptical about this video. How the hell do they know about sigma males? Where is the data and evidence? Did they put a bunch of sigma males together to study them.
I understand that human behavior can be studies scientifically, but who are doing the studies? Are they credible?
Sigma is not a medical term. It's an internet term. And to go wee bit further - it has has shown that the terms alpha, beta sigma do not apply in actual nature.
It's not a medical term 👀
@@gusmonster59 "I'm an alpha wolf" "wolf packs don't have designated all time alpha wolves they always rely on in every situation. Whichever wolf is the most competent in a situation takes the lead and uh yea it's situational and.." "I AM AN ALPHA WOLF!!!"
Felt compelled to say that all of this is quit true, however I dont want to live in shadow...I enjoy brandishing what I've accomplished...and it may sound narcissistic but thats ok that doesn't define me. Kudos to the ppl brave enough to share. Best of luck to you all 🍻
And here I'm getting fustrated by seeing so many fake sigmas trying to gain attention by commenting things like sigma males, if u really are a sigma u dont need to prove it, u will just ignore the need to prove it or show it. I think u got my point.
Absolutely brilliantly put together.
So glad you liked it!🙏
Yessir! Great piece.👌🏾🏆
I relate to a few things mentioned. Can't enjoy clubs always drinking, I love being outside seeing new areas. I been around a lot of none genuine individuals. I can respect hard work. I used to be naive, and trusted others because they were fellow Marines but now that's changed. I used to hate being alone but now I'm content with it. Can't stand people can't see the flaw in their ways the bad logic.
Are sigma males the way they are through biology or is it a nurture thing? I am cut from a different cloth than other people I think but I always felt that way through some of the experiences in my life as opposed to being born this way.
For instance I'm a third child who unfortunately had a bit of an age gap with my nearest sibling so I kind of had to play with myself a lot. I am the only one in my family that talks to themselves. I do it sometimes as a way of fleshing out thoughts. The one aspect that for sure hits me on the head from this video is ignoring people as a means of not being rude and being lost in thoughts. Sometimes I'll just stare into space even amongst people in rare cases and I thought it was something that happened to everyone but I don't believe I have observed that happening to anyone else yet.
I used to be more trusting when I was a kid but now not so much. I link it back to a kid I used to play with for one year in elementary school then next year basically just disavowed me to my face. I guess I was pretty hurt from this incident and really only have a small circle of friends. We've been friends for over 20 years now. Unfortunately one of my friends suddenly passed away and I literally dropped everything I was doing to be there with his family.
Not doing the same things over and over again is interesting and not sure I fit in that mold. Probably the one thing that does not fit me and maybe it does. I've been at my job for over 15 years doing basically the same job although it is a small company so I wear many different hats doing different things. I've always been a jack of all trades but master of none kind of person so this actually is a good fit for me. However, the part that seems to fit are games that I have beaten. Some people are happy to replay games whereas for me as soon as I feel I have figured something out it is quite boring to do the same thing again. I rarely rewatch movies or tv series. I'll re-watch clips but almost never rewatch unless I feel like I didn't quite understand something and need to rewatch just to satisfy the answer to that question.
Yep, you are a Sigma, watch terry joel junior on yt for more guidance on your path! Cheers and welcome to the Awakening party, gradually!
Too long didn't read. You're not sigma
@@futuretrunks3158 you can open an embossed book, at least your analyzing skills match your incapacities. Some good criticism can help but it seems you might miss the second sentence as you might bloat with infantile rage, don't forget to wash hands after pooing just to don't put them near your face too much, that's why your head stinks.
I have always described myself, as being antisocail but able person that can do any job if given leave to do it my way. But at the end of the work day do not call me I wont pick up I am home and doing my stuff. I really found your video to hit pretty on key. This video is just wow.
I'm so sigma I watch this with sound off
"me too but with subtiltles in russian while im a "dutch guy" living in france trying to learn english"
😂
Thank YOU !!! Exactly ! As a SIGMA Male this is spot on !
Theres nothing more frustrating for a woman who looks her best and demands attention from a handsome male who doesnt even look her way
I ignore certain people because it's a natural filter for what I truly want. It's not a negative behavior, rather it's negative to those who can't precieve the notion of it.
Stone cold truth.
Most of this is spot on, the only thing I'd disagree with is the "tune the world out while they're thinking part" I've mastered the ability to think/live inside my head and yet still hear, see and process everything going on around me simultaneously.
Don't tune out, tune IN
Most of the time we just want to be left alone in peace. We don’t feel lonely we like to be lonely.
I absolutely love time to myself and find it totally infuriating when women constantly nag me to go out and do stuff, take them somewhere pointless . I need my space and then they constantly pester me with useless questions about why I want peace and quiet etc. Such inane questions, shallow people always wanting to make you in to something they want but you just want to be alone. It's no wonder i avoid women as much as possible especially on my quiet days. I refuse to go out or have a list of things I need to do so I can use as an excuse that they won't question.
I hurt someone real bad once when I was a kid because I was pushed too far by a bunch of pain in the ass alpha guys. I sent him to hospital and he luckily avoided brain injury, that was nearly 50 years ago and had to teach myself to hold my temper in when pushed well beyond my limits. I don't have those issues now .
All the above mentioned signs are what I feel all my life.
Why are people so intimidated by the way we carry our selves?!?!?!
Because in a nutshell humanity is like a social, uniform community of lemmings. Despite having unique personalities
@@manher4335 Instead of being so goddamn intimidated by us,THEY SHOULD BE TAKEN NOTES
Most of the time it's insecurity and self-doubt. I've noticed that people who are confident with themselves tend to get along with the Sigma very well. It's the people who have something to prove who seem to clash a lot - i.e. "How can anybody be so sure of themselves?"
@@michaelsutherland5848 I guess its not easy being sigma,but we sure do make it look like it is!
@@youknow9386 intimidated*
I feel the same way. I'm only impressed by humble people that possess spirituality, honesty, and integrity.
As a female who has had several long term relationships with Sigmas, I concur with the number of times the narrator says "that's just how they are. it doesn't mean they are..." As described in the video, they dont come off as, rather they are very much about themselves. They want this, but only under their circumstances. They want to date interesting women, who are feminine, non dramatic, also dynamic, independent and uncomplacent- check. I've found its difficult for them to have healthy, balanced relationships. For ex, the video stated direct communication, followed immediately by ignoring you rather than be direct and honest. That causes a lot of problems, unnecessary drama and confusion. In my experience, they seem aloof. It's great to be confident within yourself, your views, to have high standards, value your time who it's with and doing what, to not need approval or attention and require space to recharge. But they can be quite demanding to be in a relationship with, critical, expect a lot from their partners but again, as stated in video, when it comes to the partners needs, "it's just how they are", in effect a double standard. It can become very one sided, and it takes both people wanting to be there and compromise to maintain relationships. If you want the kind of woman Sigmas want, excuses about unresolved personal issues and that's just how how I am isn't how you keep a woman who has other options. And it is that best effort I put into these relationships for years with a gradual decline of my own needs being met that ultimately ended these 3 relationships. I don't think it's fair to specifically categorize men or women into 3 or 4 profiles either though, we are all whole people with variations of the profile characteristics. For the men who say they cant find anyone they can connect with you might consider that two people make a relationship. Youll never find a woman who checks every box, humans are not perfect, that includes Sigmas. The kind of women they are compatible with are much like them with high standards as well. Its easy to forget that our lovers arent obligated to be there, they likely have options as you do, and we put in that effort for the people we love and to keep the relationship going strong, to keep the value that partner brings to our life experience..
I hope that was helpful to others as insight from a good woman. I say that as a NON-progressive feminist, who supports men as decision-makers, in their endeavors, and regard their needs as important. A little appreciation for a woman who treats you well will go much farther than the attitude of "I don't have anything to prove." I didn't have anything to prove either, This is the essence of relationships. You will have conflict, truth is unpleasant at times, communication makes or breaks interaction, life is complicated and so is maintaining a romance and relationship, more now than its ever been historically. But it's also worth it for those who accept us, flaws and all, and who act act as our anchors and companionship in life. I dates 3 amazing men for 4+ years each, and although they ended, overall it was good.
You explained this beautifully. I’m dating a sigma male, he sent this to me and you put my thoughts into words, thank you
“Rather be told the hard truth than be lied to”. Hit me where I live.
I watched this video of curiosity & i find it interesting that i see all points on myself...Helped me a little to understand myself
Glad it helped you!🙌
This is literally what I am 100% when people try to do too much small talk I just don't say nothing, or I walk away from the situation :/ what's the point in learning about the weather when you can just look outside or google it? Also trying to teach others how I think or how I see things is basically impossible they just give up too quickly. Or exaggerate how they don't understand it and I don't feel like dealing with a grown adult acting like 2 year olds.
Absolutely liked this video, describes me right on point. Numerous times had thought there was something wrong with me to say. But watching this was what i needed to understand myself clearly on how an why i operate the way i do. Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
"Never explain. Your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe it anyway." --Elbert Hubbard
So, there actually is a name for these behavioral qualities.
Thats how i got 55 with no problems and stil going like that🤣🤣🤣
66 and still going strong !💪
55 myself yup!
This video blew my mind. I didn't know there was a name for how I am. One of the best videos I have ever seen. Scary how precise it was.
As a sigma male since 12 years old, I don’t stare at women or get gushy with them. I have interests that aren’t superficial ( social media, reality TV etc). My biggest thing in life is raising my 3 children
U were born that way..u don't become a sigma male..lol.. basically a sigma male is a Dominant introvert.. its a rare trait bc most introverts are submissive..thats why alpha males hates Sigmas.. I know bc I'm always being challenged because of my quiet nature..i find most ppl boring af. lol.. I'm like u ,I only care about family,that's it..be safe bro
I critique myself a lot which can be bad at times
OMG! You just described me!
Thank you.
The personality traits described in this video also correspond almost 100% to INFJ personality type. One of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types.
I can relate to most of this but I'm just wondering where the term came from and who coined the term and whether there is actually any credibility behind it. I'm not doubting there are men who exhibit many of these characteristics because I do as well. Apparently the term was coined around 2010 by a Vox Day, so there's not much credibility from a historical scientific perspective. Other people's labels don't change truth, so it doesn't really matter what anyone calls me. If you let people's words affect your emotional "stability" then we give them some measure of control over us. It's not always easy ignoring what people say, but if you think it through, you can assess and correctly deal with negative comments . If the negative comment is even partially true, we can be appreciative that someone may have helped us identify a weakness that we may have been unaware of, and if we work on our weaknesses, we become better in every area which helps everyone including ourselves.
Most other people suffer from cognitive dissonance and various lapses in critical thinking which usually results in a boat load of logical fallacies. It can take a long time to unpack and correct someone's poor thinking, so it's easier to let the blind lead the blind and help those who really want to be helped. I'm constantly assessing my own thinking and notice that I can quickly fall into the same critical thinking traps because it's easy ... not to mention lazy. It takes time and effort to think... it's work and can be exhausting at times.
From a Christian worldview, none of this personality stuff really affects our responsibilities and our duties. It might help us understand our basic tendencies that we default to, but God gives us power to obey everything He instructs... if we are Christians with the Holy Spirit inside of us.
Im also a Christ follower and I agree with what you say. For Gods power manifest in our weakness’s.
I only just started looking at personality types recently and never bothered looking intto the whole alpha, beta and sigma societal archetypes. Not really into labels. Watching about sigmas made me stop and listen, it was like the guy was talking about me. I’ve been told that I am alpha a few times but never understood how I could be alpha when I genuinely don’t care about being a sheeple or who likes me.
When they started talking about introverted aplha and the meaning of how they take control without the aggression of the alpha and without the need of being popular and accepted it made total sense.
The sigma empath can take control without using aggressive tactics to do it. The nice boss that gets respect for caring.
For me the biggest part is the alone time to recharge and not needing acceptance and validation.
Ah, no wonder I'm automatically invisible. I love thinking out stories, plans, tactics, and ideas.
Know there's a party going on, but will go when the time is right, with supplies.
Pays to be a Hawkeye, let no one tell you otherwise.
The narrator just explained my life in 13 seconds
This was good and constructive. Thanks!
Glad it was helpful!
I don't typically agree with generalizing anything but this seems to be the most accurate depiction of they subject.
I'm so convinced this describes me , but being a sigma , I have to refute the evidence displayed as some kind of modern day fad
"they have been burned in the past and won't let it happen again" wise words
i like being alone
Same. I do the social thing sparingly. But me, I mostly prefer the company of "myself" and "I"
Betrayal only comes from within, so being alone is the best way for me to be comfortable
Being alone is less complicated and I don’t have to deal with annoying people. Yes, I may miss out on the occasional interesting person, but it’s worth it.
For a sigma,being alone is the best he or she can have all day!!
Hello, this is the first time I come across the concept of sigma and I feel like 90% of these are things that come out of me... For years I knew that I neither like being a leader nor being led... so you put my mind in order lol
Mysterious and egnimatic best describes us sigma's, so don't mess with us or else
Here here! Sigmas in the building 💯
Yes!!
Damm this was spot on 😅You described my personality to a tea . Nice job 😉I’m a Sigma Male. Haha 😇
How is this possible to describe a very selective group of people so well?
This is great…I’m definitely a Sigma.. so much talk about ALPHAS AND BETAS..when the man in the middle is the most complex..dope video
I disagree with your thesis. We don't possess both the qualities of the alpha and the beta. We are free of both and posses neither.
Definitely bro the alpha and the beta categorize in same wave length just the beta is in program mode to become alpha.
We don't possess alpha and brta we plan and strategize how we want to move or things we are moved by.
The other week I was at the bus stop I had seen probably a Sigma driving a big luxury car, I was impressed by his character, like he achieved what he accomplished, I gave him a wave and he nodded 💯
I never knew what sigma male was never looked into it but this video seemed interesting so I watched little did I know this describes me entirely I always wondered why I felt so alien around everyone. Thanks for the video. I feel like maybe I'm not alone for once. Knowing there's other people like me.
Very true
The problem nowadays is that when man is shy, very polite and spread goodness, many people are considering him as weak and try to dominate or manipulate him. You never know, maybe he is checking on you to see if you take his qualities as vulnerability.
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So glad to hear this! Small steps and consistency will lead you to big results🚀
I don't usually get wrapped up into labels but I identified with all the traits especially #5
This is why majority of M G T O W men are Sigma awesome .
Happiest when left alone,I'll engage when i feel like doing so.
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I literally live with all these qualities since I could remember. Just another label to take away from actually telling someone who you are. Sure I can now say “I’m a Sigma male”, but who tf really knows what it is? Not many. So I rather continue to tell someone who may be curious about my character in full instead of a simple word.
👍 👍 on the video . The word weird would be thrown a lot but I’d just say no you just can’t believe what I say (or don’t) and how I act towards certain things is of a nonchalant essence . Too bad it just puts many in the category of distant friends and exes but I prefer my one day a week recharge , DND on my phone , and introverted preference . It’s what makes me happy .
wow....😮 it's like this was written about me, and that's 💯% facts!!!!
I am a wise thinker too.....great video man
I find most things boring now and I am approaching my mid twenties, i find myself bored with games and such so I stop playing for a while. I always liked to talk to people older then me because some had more knowledge then other’s and I could learn valuable lessons, I never liked big crowds and felt lonely because the people around me don’t talk about interesting stuff. I always find myself thinking and spacing out, so yeah thank you for reading if you did :)
I'm 12 and a half minutes in and I can't take it anymore. How are you describing my inner thought processes and how I see the world so perfectly? I'm going to finish now.
Everything is true... Honestly, I never knew the word " sigma male" before hearing this on the internet..
It's interesting because I think this has been a part of me my whole life!..
This might always sound weird to others but I find security in being genuine, rational and truthful..
In a sense being unique as a person and not just typical like everyone else perhaps expects me to be.Most people I talk to talk about themselves or what they do before they ask me how I am or something. But still,ya I do need company and it sure feels good to be with someone I love but I need my space too because it's not everyone or with every type I want to be around with either...I know some only love me because maybe they think I can do something for them or that they expect something from me, so what's the point to be with some certain people?
Servitude is not giving,sharing or nurturing, it can never been something that's for me,I love myself too much,I can't reject who I really am and the creator that gave me life and I intend to make it worth it for me and for those I care about.
I believe truly part of loving yourself is knowing your self-worth,I know I live in a world where many won't see that about me even despite my best qualities as a person you simply can't please everybody.
I feel that I do have to throw a little dirt back to the world sometimes and say fuck off even with hard love otherwise I always feel weak and vulnerable to others...
I know personally, I don't owe nothing to nobody nor want anything from anyone either and the good lord knows how I feel inside..
Aside a few I will always hold so dear close to my heart in this life,I don't care if nobody else loves me,I don't care if nobody else understands me or what I'm talking about..For me at least,I accept who I am, I understand who I am,what I am,what inspires me personally,what I need to live and what I want that can me happy.Nothing else matters as much,it's just background in this world for me...
Again what's the point,we live in a selfish world where personal entitlements is the reason for every,jealousy,hate or greed I hear about or that I've experienced from others...I think what's most sad ,is that a lot of the crimes in the world we have today have nothing to do with poverty but hate sometimes..
Still even above that,I believe mother earth suffers the worst pain of all...
Leaders fail because in the end of the day,real altruism is actually quite rare but that's what's needed I believe to be a great leader,most don't have that..And always following someone,you might as well accept being a slave for somebody else,how can I love myself for being a fool
Anyways,meeting all sorts of people is great that's the adventure and it makes things interesting but in the end
it's really to be with people only I want to be with,that makes me feel good...
I think the notion of Harmony and having so many people around you is overrated ..
This is me. I was never the rah rah guy needing attention like an Alpha nor was I a simp push over like a Beta. Sigma Male rock!