Straight woman here, I’m sorry if you felt disrespected and discriminated by other people. But always remember na we love you kahit Ano pa ang trip nyo sa buhay at hanggat wala kayong ginagawang masama sa sarili nyo or kapwa. We got your back. Hugs✨
I and my gay bestfriends are lucky enough that we have straight guys in our circle of friends that respect and accept us. Never sila na iilang na yumakap samin or kami ang yayakap sa kanila.. up until now the friendship we built in high school is still solid. Respect is the key talaga. ❤️
Flamboyance has nothing to do with being effeminate, it is about being showy with your bold character and style. Great topics guys, love your insights into the community.
Ang laki na rin ng progress nung acceptance outside community. Wala nmn cguro tayong hinahabol na deadline na full acceptance because kung meron we will push it too hard na magkakaroon ng resistance outside the community. Wag nating ipilit ung full acceptance sa straight community as long as there is progress. Same thing na wag natin ipilit na mgout ung isang tao.
I think that when they project these toxic traits onto us, they actually are referring to themselves: what they could have been, if they weren't so hard or so fixed on this idea of themselves. Kaya hindi nila napagtatanto na habang ginagawa nila ito sa atin, sinasaktan na rin niya yung sarili nila.
I'm straight woman but I have lots of friends na from rainbow clan. With ranges sa age na high school to adult, and late adult I don't look at them sa kung paano sila manamit o kumilos dun ako nakatingin sa kanila as a human being. Kung paano sila as tao hindi sa panglabas nilang anyo. I tell you they are all amazing at loyal friends. I'm happy kasi sa schools pwede na pala sila magsuot as how they want. Yung kinang at excitement sa mata nila ang ganda. Accept them as they are at mas lalo mong makikita yung beauty they possess.
I love this topic so much as it shows that the LGBT community is comprised of good and bad members and has down sides. Tumpak lahat ng mga sinabi niyo na: •Respect begets respect. (LGBT to straights and straights to LGBT) •Bottomshaming/Femshaming is still rampant. •Outing someone is never okay. •Asking someone's sex position in the gay/trans community depends on the intent of throwing the question. Ramdom wish lang for a collab with all the four of you with Roanne&Tina😅🙏. Love you all, mga mhie!
C Steven 🥺🥰 apaka serious sa ganitong usapan. Ang layo sa mga content na ginhawa Niya. C Miss Deliciousness din, I'm not into your content pero Dito Kita na appreciate 🥰. Chardie and Poca, needs kupa mag subaybay about sa socmed life niyo. Luv u all 💖
More episodes please... I would like to request po yung paniniwala ng mga pinoy na kapag wala kang anak or pamilya hindi ka magiging masaya. What are your thoughts? As a straight girl na hirap magkababy pero happy naman sa buhay bigla ako nababother kahit di ko naman iniisip, maiisip ko tuloy. Kaloka. Sana po mapansin. #FilipinoToxicCulture #QueerfullyYours
Please make an episode and topic like this. Very relevant sya. Sabi nga nila na dpt mag asawa kana or si ganyan. Sinagot ko na wag nyung pwersahin yung tao kapag d pa sya handa or masaya.
Situation naman namin ang hirap huhu, nasa same sex relationship ako ngayon and us2 ko magkaanak while ang partner ko naman ayaw, everytime na oopen topic, pinagaawayan lang 😔 1 must adjust and sacrifice talaga hays
Internalized homophobia is indeed rampant in this community, it's really saddening. I hope people stop being hypocrites and just simply be kind to everyone.
I love you 4 mga mhie. Super duper! I'm pregnant and i want my child na maging ka witty and open nyo. You're all intelligent and may sense kausap while being funny. You're a part of my pregnancy journey. Thank you for making me laugh and understand more about the community ❤️
To gain respect, we don’t really need to demand it from everyone because it is something that we must earn. And this episode is an awakening to all people, not only LGBT community, to be a good steward of our well-being in all aspects of life. Let’s strive to be a better person, little by little, in our best way possible that we could.
Hi! New viewers here and can't help watching all your vids now. I love this topic, coming from a straight (female) community, I have a circle of friends and family member na gay but I believed and couldn't agree to your thought na it all boils down to attitude. Kahit anung gender kapa belong if you don't treat people well, expect the same in return. So, start within yourself if you want to be treated well -in all aspect. Sending love! ❤️
“One person’s preference doesn’t imply as standard for everybody.” Let’s all respect each other’s preferences any gender pa yan lets be sensitive ba sa mga sinasabi hehe -girly fan here! From palawan Hehehe 💕
Somehow can relate dun sa ahasan, sa toxic crab mentality within the community and the typical stereotyping. Meron pa nga akong experience, sinabhan ako ngkung di ka lang ganito or di ka lang ganyan. Siguro... Or yan lang naman dahilan bat bibabalik balikan kita eh. Been there, good thing i found someone that i can loves me completely.
maganda kayo panoorin marami ako nalalaman at natutunan from your community. btw i am a straight woman but enjoying how your podcast discussing many things that even straight genders can relate.
I can relate dun sa part na Hindi ka nag-out jina-jidge na agad. Sasabihin pa nila ang fem naman Nia "Hindi Yan bi eme-eme lang Yan... straight talaga Yan" Like gurl ano? Mas Kilala mo ko kaysa sa sarili ko?? Pinangungunahan mo pa ko...I was still in the stage na confused pa ko talaga tapos I feel judged Ng mga taong akala ko magiging kakampi ko... It's just sad and disappointing at the same time. Sana mabago Yung ganto sa community.
"Offensive ba ang question na TOP KA BA OR BOTTOM?" ----- The answer is YES. To me asking if you are top or bottom is similar to asking a person about his preferred sex position. I don't know about us gay people why we are so concerned so much about it. But it's tiring.
I know a lot of us will contest na kasi nga it's vital to know if the person is top or bottom.... Ang sagot ko dyan, TALAGA BA? Sobrang importante na "match"? I don't think so. When you get attracted to someone then you get attracted to someone.
@@supernek0 True ! Actually pag dating naman sa SEX anything can happen. Di naman kailangan sumunod lagi sa label na pag top/bottom ka eto lang gagawin mo kase eto label mo.
True. Nadadamay ibang matitinong members dahil sa ibang di matitino kaka 150 150 and so on and what I'm actually wondering about is what makes them act that way? Is it really just their personalities or does it also have something to do with the environment they're living in? Coz madaming ganyang members sa area namin who always call for cheap shots then seemed like wala silang ibang makuhang mas matitino so I think they end up with no choice but to do those stuff idk.
Always looking forward on your next episodes. I am really happy that there is a podcast that talks about what is really happening and sharing it. Love this topic! very relatable! 🏳🌈
ganyan din ako dati,, ayoko ngpartner ko na mas malambot pa sa akin,, peru nung nag tagal na ,, natanggap ko na kung ano talaga sya,,kung nagmamake up sya or nagdadamit babae ...
The humor seems fading. I love the topic though but what I really look forward is those moments where I can’t stop laughing. Please don’t forget to be as hilarious as your first few eps. More power!
Its understandable if the discrimination comes from outside the community, they don't apprehend what world we have. But, if it is within the community, it is some what mischievous. Remember, we within the community came from the same egg shell, and we ourselves should know what and how it will affect... #goodtalks 😉
Respect is everyone's privilege but how can you be respected if you yourself don't respect yourself? As what Chardie said kailangan din na we will act, dress and talk based on the place and person we are talking about. God bless Next topic: Lifting one queers another.
minsan tlga may mga taong nanghihingi mismo ng respect e, pero sila mismo hindi maibigay sa iba. tulad nung sa flag sa national museum, palitan ba nmn ung flag ng PILIPINAS ng LGBTQ+ flag, binastos mo na buong pilino nun. kahit mismong ibang lgbtq+ nagalit sa gnwa nila.
I feel like, Gender orientation and gender expression is new to most people even sa Queer community. we grew up kasi na ang alam lang sa term na "gay" is homosexual lang, same sex/gender lang yung gusto. kaya everything na outside of that concept is hindi na inaaccept or hindi pa din naiintindihan.
Agree ako kay Chardie regarding sa dressing appropriately. Respect begets respect. If you respect the place/event where you are going to, the people around will also respect you in return.
Regarding the topics of toxic culture and freedom of expression, can you explain how you would defend Pura Luka Vega and identify what aspects of his actions in the video involving Catholic symbolism and prayer are correct? Considering that people often follow influencers regardless of whether their actions are right or wrong, I am curious to know your stance on this matter, given that people also listen to you. I am interested in understanding why there are many supporters who consider the actions of the influencer in question to be art. Do you believe that the negative reaction to her actions is mere related to her gender role? Thank you. and I love your podcast sincerely. You guys make me happy and question my life too :)
I just found this channel but I'm already so thankful. As someone who grew up in a conservative environment, I can't talk to anyone about this aspect of my person. Listening to you guys make me feel safe and seen 🫶
My bestfriends are both gay and i love and respect them so much. Nakita ko po pala kayo sa north tower. Warren, Steven and Christy gusto ko sana mag pa picture kaso nahiya ako 😅but i love these 4. ❤
I felt that way din na dahil lang sa nag mamakeup ka as a drag biglang mandidiri yung taong nagkagusto sayo the way they avoid u and wanted u to change as for who u really are when u already found urself why pretend to be that person for u to be liked diba?
and this person is a part of lgbtq+, and some will ask him what is ur orientation when u say ur gay mandidiri sila kasi they only like people who are bisexual in the end yung nag ask ng orientation mo doesn’t even like females & proceeds to call themselves as bi?pag sinabi nila gay sila the person won’t like them back lmao the toxicity talaga ng queer community
I remember tuloy nung 2 days ago ata I was going to work bihis na bihis ako, I am wearing make up and all that tas naka coat pako then there’s this adult people on the jeep that I was riding too, sabi sakin ng dalawang babaeng matanda ang ganda mo naman ano name mo papaligawan ko anak ko, nag smile lang ako sakanila tas biglang sabat naman ng matandang lalake sa tabi ko, ganda no kaladkaren yan tignan mo may mga tattoo pa. Hearing those words shit parang gusto ko lamunin ako ng lupa, super nabastos ako to the point I was stunned to speak and yung face ko I don’t really know how to react. I was just going to work na pusturang pustura tas biglang sasabihan ka ng KALADKAREN without even knowing me PERSONALLY. It is really hard to earn respect from the other people specially when your from the lgbtqia+++ community. That old man only sees my physical appearance tas ganun na agad na sabi nya sakin, to be honest na hurt ako ng sobra nun, buti nalang to the rescue yung dalwang matandang babae Sabi nila “kuya hindi naman mukhang namang edukada si ma’am, wag naman po kayo ganan” sagot lang ng matandang lalake “kaladkaren yan madami ng pera yan”. So pag mukhang maraming pera kaladkaren na? 🥲 hirap talaga mag earn ng respect within our community tas mga tao sa community natin na mas lalo pang nagpapahirap 😢
I agree sa lahat ng points. Mas grabe yung discrimination sa community lol. Tayo yung humihingi ng acceptance but tayo mismo yung mahilig mag discriminate lol Mas comfortable din ako with straight friends.
I experienced being played by a couple. Crush ko ung isa, alam nia, nagpapadala ako ng foods sa kanya pero sabi nia sakin single raw sha, then when i found out about their little games, sila pa ang galit and acting victims. Hayst. Same community pero nagsisiraan. I don't know what's their deal and what's their goal.
and also yung ibang mga part ng lgbt once na gumawa sila ng mali and napansin ng mga disagree with lgbt pips damay lahat ng lgbt kung ano tingin sa isa ganon na tingin sa lahat.
In my case naman, I am straight, pero kapag kausap ko is isang member ng LGBTQIA+ community, I just ask them, "how do you want me to address you?" eh ma ma'am at sir pa naman ako. kasi may mga straight din, especially women, na medyo masc magdamit kasi mas comfortable sila sa ganun. kapag naman hindi ko maitanong, I just use po or opo.
i have an experience din about sa toxic queer culture kasi i met a guy and dates him until now na ex pala ng cousin ko and the LGBTQIA++ of my cousin's friend one time nagkita kami sa isang resort and ang scenario is greetings lang kahit malayo kami ganon, nagpalitan ng hi hello ganon and they were like asking kung ang hinahanap daw namin kasi andun daw yung pinsan ko na ex ng jowa ko now. They are aware na kami na nitong guy pero the disrespect na ganon padin yung ginagawa in despite of matagal naman nang hiwalay itong si cousin ko and itong guy na dine-date ko. Ang malala pa active na active sila sa mga activities ng LGBTQIA++ sa barangay namin, take note na public servant yung isa dun.
and the fact na hindi lang isang beses na ganon sila, idk kung ang toxic nila or ang insensitive o baka kaya sensitive lang ako pero kasi ang abnormal na ng mga kilos nila eh
sobrang na guilty ako sa part na you ask your friend kng gay or what...hindng hindi na po mauulit, i thot its my way of helping someone to comeout but yeah, tama po kayo, knd di sila ready then wala kang paki! i mean, respect! sorna! :)
I couldn't agree more. Kapwa mo pa mas judgemental kumpara sa mga straight people. Like dito sa probinsya, if people see you as gay, they would expect you to be a cross dresser, an artistic person who can decorate and do make up, and someone who will target guys regardless of their sexual orientation and/or preference and even age. 😅😅😅 Tapos may iba rin dito "bi" pero upon interviewing di pala nagkakagusto sa opposite sex. Dahil din siguro sa discrimination... Puro hay nalang ako lagi.
Maybe the reason why such discrimination comes within your circle is becoz kayo kayo lang ang generally understand what top, bottom, and verse means in your community. Kaya the ordinary girls and boys would never judge you coz they're not aware.
i hope ull have a q&a portion like as for someone who really want to understand the "community" i may have some questions na baka you can answer. just a suggestions.❤🌈
This is relevant to the LGBTQIA++ now adays .. lot's of discrimination under sa Rainbow Spectrum against each other. Kaya ang hirap mag tiwala sa kapwa d mo alam, isang maling kilos mo lang dami ng criticism whether straight or not .. we have different ways to show our gender choice ! Respect nalang sana..
The very reason why I dropped out my college way back 2017 was when our elderly dean would not allow me to enter her class since I had a shoulder length hair during that time and she wanted me to cut it short. After that incident, never na akong tumapak sa university namin and my dream to become a teacher was deprived since I was told I am "different".
Pls don't blame the school.. Alam naman natin na lahat mg stablishent may rules. Why so hard for us to follow.. Exercising ur rights is not applicable all the time. Lahat ng building may rules. If ur not into it they can throw u out. No hate po just I hate the idea of blaming the school. Coz u had a choice. And u made one.
@@fedeliina1693 Our elderly dean was a "pastor" FYI and we already had GAD (Gender and Development program) sa aming school. Even our ROTC let us exercise our rights. I am not blaming the school, it's the mentality of our dean na pino point out ko due to her personal belief.
I think that dean was just implementing school policies, and you can’t condemn her for sticking to her beliefs. I think yan yung sinasabi nila na if you wanna be respected, give respect din. Edi sana you dropped the subject na lang or transferred to a different school. Unfair naman na sakanya mo pinasa yung blame na di mo natupad yung dream mo.
@@elaizzagonda6638 Read my comment again. My Gender and Development program na kami sa university namin during that time. And if I dropped the subject, hindi rin ako papasa since MAJOR subject namin. So unfair sa kanya but not my part? HAHA patawa ka
Straight woman here, I’m sorry if you felt disrespected and discriminated by other people. But always remember na we love you kahit Ano pa ang trip nyo sa buhay at hanggat wala kayong ginagawang masama sa sarili nyo or kapwa. We got your back. Hugs✨
Perfect ng sinabi ni Chardie. Yes that's your preference but do not use this to shame or insult others.
I and my gay bestfriends are lucky enough that we have straight guys in our circle of friends that respect and accept us. Never sila na iilang na yumakap samin or kami ang yayakap sa kanila.. up until now the friendship we built in high school is still solid. Respect is the key talaga. ❤️
Flamboyance has nothing to do with being effeminate, it is about being showy with your bold character and style. Great topics guys, love your insights into the community.
Ang laki na rin ng progress nung acceptance outside community. Wala nmn cguro tayong hinahabol na deadline na full acceptance because kung meron we will push it too hard na magkakaroon ng resistance outside the community. Wag nating ipilit ung full acceptance sa straight community as long as there is progress. Same thing na wag natin ipilit na mgout ung isang tao.
I think that when they project these toxic traits onto us, they actually are referring to themselves: what they could have been, if they weren't so hard or so fixed on this idea of themselves.
Kaya hindi nila napagtatanto na habang ginagawa nila ito sa atin, sinasaktan na rin niya yung sarili nila.
Bottomline is, let’s be kind with each other. 🌈❤️
THIS!
I'm straight woman but I have lots of friends na from rainbow clan. With ranges sa age na high school to adult, and late adult I don't look at them sa kung paano sila manamit o kumilos dun ako nakatingin sa kanila as a human being. Kung paano sila as tao hindi sa panglabas nilang anyo. I tell you they are all amazing at loyal friends. I'm happy kasi sa schools pwede na pala sila magsuot as how they want. Yung kinang at excitement sa mata nila ang ganda. Accept them as they are at mas lalo mong makikita yung beauty they possess.
I love this topic so much as it shows that the LGBT community is comprised of good and bad members and has down sides.
Tumpak lahat ng mga sinabi niyo na:
•Respect begets respect. (LGBT to straights and straights to LGBT)
•Bottomshaming/Femshaming is still rampant.
•Outing someone is never okay.
•Asking someone's sex position in the gay/trans community depends on the intent of throwing the question.
Ramdom wish lang for a collab with all the four of you with Roanne&Tina😅🙏.
Love you all, mga mhie!
Wow! I love this topic. I am learning a lot from your community. na Educate ako. SO much respect for these four and the rest of the community.
This the unspoken truths behind the community, Glad that they discussed this ❤
C Steven 🥺🥰 apaka serious sa ganitong usapan. Ang layo sa mga content na ginhawa Niya. C Miss Deliciousness din, I'm not into your content pero Dito Kita na appreciate 🥰. Chardie and Poca, needs kupa mag subaybay about sa socmed life niyo. Luv u all 💖
I hope everybody learn from this podcast. It's 2023 please stop that toxicity na kapag may bading sa circle mo, gusto ka na agad
Mahal ko ‘tong apat na to 🥰🥰
Same 🥰
More episodes please...
I would like to request po yung paniniwala ng mga pinoy na kapag wala kang anak or pamilya hindi ka magiging masaya. What are your thoughts? As a straight girl na hirap magkababy pero happy naman sa buhay bigla ako nababother kahit di ko naman iniisip, maiisip ko tuloy. Kaloka. Sana po mapansin.
#FilipinoToxicCulture #QueerfullyYours
UP!!!!!!
Relateeee😢
Please make an episode and topic like this. Very relevant sya.
Sabi nga nila na dpt mag asawa kana or si ganyan.
Sinagot ko na wag nyung pwersahin yung tao kapag d pa sya handa or masaya.
Panu naman kaya pag nag iisang anak klng. Pressure!
Situation naman namin ang hirap huhu, nasa same sex relationship ako ngayon and us2 ko magkaanak while ang partner ko naman ayaw, everytime na oopen topic, pinagaawayan lang 😔 1 must adjust and sacrifice talaga hays
Love this blogger have respect,,,all gwapo also
Internalized homophobia is indeed rampant in this community, it's really saddening. I hope people stop being hypocrites and just simply be kind to everyone.
Plus religious trauma from systematic shaming and after life fear mongering.
Straight and natapos ko po episode 1-9. 🫶🏻 Always ko pong inaabangan yung upload n’yo. 🥹 So entertaining at the same time informative! ✨
I love you 4 mga mhie. Super duper!
I'm pregnant and i want my child na maging ka witty and open nyo. You're all intelligent and may sense kausap while being funny. You're a part of my pregnancy journey. Thank you for making me laugh and understand more about the community ❤️
24:25 ang pulot ko dito is, if yung gusto mong itanong ee hindi naman tinatanong sa heteros then don't just ask for it.
I really love you guys🥰 More episodes pa . Inaabangan ko palagi uploads niyo and listening while working
To gain respect, we don’t really need to demand it from everyone because it is something that we must earn. And this episode is an awakening to all people, not only LGBT community, to be a good steward of our well-being in all aspects of life. Let’s strive to be a better person, little by little, in our best way possible that we could.
8:37 - Truer words were never spoken! 👏👏👏👏
Aside kay Nana, Kimje and TP talks , etong grupo na to yung nag babàlance sa mga klase ng mga topics ❤️
Hi! New viewers here and can't help watching all your vids now. I love this topic, coming from a straight (female) community, I have a circle of friends and family member na gay but I believed and couldn't agree to your thought na it all boils down to attitude. Kahit anung gender kapa belong if you don't treat people well, expect the same in return. So, start within yourself if you want to be treated well -in all aspect.
Sending love! ❤️
“One person’s preference doesn’t imply as standard for everybody.”
Let’s all respect each other’s preferences any gender pa yan lets be sensitive ba sa mga sinasabi hehe -girly fan here! From palawan Hehehe 💕
Somehow can relate dun sa ahasan, sa toxic crab mentality within the community and the typical stereotyping.
Meron pa nga akong experience, sinabhan ako ngkung di ka lang ganito or di ka lang ganyan. Siguro...
Or yan lang naman dahilan bat bibabalik balikan kita eh.
Been there, good thing i found someone that i can loves me completely.
This is my comfort podcast channel
buti pinanuod ko ganda pala ng topic and ideas nila. worth listening
maganda kayo panoorin marami ako nalalaman at natutunan from your community.
btw i am a straight woman but enjoying how your podcast discussing many things that even straight genders can relate.
FINALLY ANG PERFECT NA NG AUDIO!!!!!!!
I can relate dun sa part na Hindi ka nag-out jina-jidge na agad. Sasabihin pa nila ang fem naman Nia "Hindi Yan bi eme-eme lang Yan... straight talaga Yan" Like gurl ano? Mas Kilala mo ko kaysa sa sarili ko?? Pinangungunahan mo pa ko...I was still in the stage na confused pa ko talaga tapos I feel judged Ng mga taong akala ko magiging kakampi ko... It's just sad and disappointing at the same time. Sana mabago Yung ganto sa community.
OMG juicy ng topic!!! Siguro dami na namang mag-re-react. Bato bato sa langit! 🙈🙊
Wait is over 😂 wait ulit next epi.
Listening with hubby
"Offensive ba ang question na TOP KA BA OR BOTTOM?" ----- The answer is YES. To me asking if you are top or bottom is similar to asking a person about his preferred sex position. I don't know about us gay people why we are so concerned so much about it. But it's tiring.
I know a lot of us will contest na kasi nga it's vital to know if the person is top or bottom.... Ang sagot ko dyan, TALAGA BA? Sobrang importante na "match"? I don't think so. When you get attracted to someone then you get attracted to someone.
I don't want my individuality as a gay person to be downsized to a sex position.
@@supernek0
True ! Actually pag dating naman sa SEX anything can happen. Di naman kailangan sumunod lagi sa label na pag top/bottom ka eto lang gagawin mo kase eto label mo.
❤❤❤❤❤ I been waiting for. A week na, can’t wait to hear this one
gusto kong maging tropa mga ateng na to, pero sa gilid or likod lng ako tapos tatawa lng, feel happy with them.
Falling in love with this podcast. Super relate!!!
True ....relate Ako dito
Can't wait! Avid fan here..
True. Nadadamay ibang matitinong members dahil sa ibang di matitino kaka 150 150 and so on and what I'm actually wondering about is what makes them act that way? Is it really just their personalities or does it also have something to do with the environment they're living in? Coz madaming ganyang members sa area namin who always call for cheap shots then seemed like wala silang ibang makuhang mas matitino so I think they end up with no choice but to do those stuff idk.
Yey may bagong upload 👏👏👏
more episodes plsssss
Always looking forward on your next episodes. I am really happy that there is a podcast that talks about what is really happening and sharing it. Love this topic! very relatable! 🏳🌈
Jusko lahat ng sinabi nyo naka relate ako hahaha at tama kayo sa mga advices..
Hinintay ko to.😊🥰
ganyan din ako dati,, ayoko ngpartner ko na mas malambot pa sa akin,, peru nung nag tagal na ,, natanggap ko na kung ano talaga sya,,kung nagmamake up sya or nagdadamit babae ...
This is the reason why i love u guys ❤❤
The humor seems fading. I love the topic though but what I really look forward is those moments where I can’t stop laughing. Please don’t forget to be as hilarious as your first few eps. More power!
This is so educational.. ilovethis☺️
You cannot give what you don't have and you cannot have what you can't give 😊
wahhhh been waiting for this!
Its understandable if the discrimination comes from outside the community, they don't apprehend what world we have. But, if it is within the community, it is some what mischievous. Remember, we within the community came from the same egg shell, and we ourselves should know what and how it will affect... #goodtalks 😉
Meron pa nga minsan sinasabi nila "UI, MERONG NAGLALAKAD NA PERA" nakakasad pagnaririnig...
Respect is everyone's privilege but how can you be respected if you yourself don't respect yourself? As what Chardie said kailangan din na we will act, dress and talk based on the place and person we are talking about. God bless
Next topic: Lifting one queers another.
8:57 SO TRUE.
minsan tlga may mga taong nanghihingi mismo ng respect e, pero sila mismo hindi maibigay sa iba. tulad nung sa flag sa national museum, palitan ba nmn ung flag ng PILIPINAS ng LGBTQ+ flag, binastos mo na buong pilino nun. kahit mismong ibang lgbtq+ nagalit sa gnwa nila.
Commented about this from EP2 and here we are!!!
Hindi naman namin naiintidihan ung comfort nila kaya nakakalito talaga,
I feel like, Gender orientation and gender expression is new to most people even sa Queer community. we grew up kasi na ang alam lang sa term na "gay" is homosexual lang, same sex/gender lang yung gusto. kaya everything na outside of that concept is hindi na inaaccept or hindi pa din naiintindihan.
agree Minsan mas okay pa straight kasi sila yung hindi judgemental.
Agree ako kay Chardie regarding sa dressing appropriately. Respect begets respect.
If you respect the place/event where you are going to, the people around will also respect you in return.
Regarding the topics of toxic culture and freedom of expression, can you explain how you would defend Pura Luka Vega and identify what aspects of his actions in the video involving Catholic symbolism and prayer are correct?
Considering that people often follow influencers regardless of whether their actions are right or wrong, I am curious to know your stance on this matter, given that people also listen to you. I am interested in understanding why there are many supporters who consider the actions of the influencer in question to be art. Do you believe that the negative reaction to her actions is mere related to her gender role?
Thank you. and I love your podcast sincerely. You guys make me happy and question my life too :)
I just found this channel but I'm already so thankful. As someone who grew up in a conservative environment, I can't talk to anyone about this aspect of my person. Listening to you guys make me feel safe and seen 🫶
I love your videos. Malapit ko ng matapos lahat ng episodes nyo 🫶 I'm listening while working at night ✨
ginagawa ko na po kayong pampatulog huhu
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Inaabanga ko na to weekly
My bestfriends are both gay and i love and respect them so much. Nakita ko po pala kayo sa north tower. Warren, Steven and Christy gusto ko sana mag pa picture kaso nahiya ako 😅but i love these 4. ❤
Sana you can get a guest phiv para mas maraming ma educate
I felt that way din na dahil lang sa nag mamakeup ka as a drag biglang mandidiri yung taong nagkagusto sayo the way they avoid u and wanted u to change as for who u really are when u already found urself why pretend to be that person for u to be liked diba?
and this person is a part of lgbtq+, and some will ask him what is ur orientation when u say ur gay mandidiri sila kasi they only like people who are bisexual in the end yung nag ask ng orientation mo doesn’t even like females & proceeds to call themselves as bi?pag sinabi nila gay sila the person won’t like them back lmao the toxicity talaga ng queer community
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I remember tuloy nung 2 days ago ata I was going to work bihis na bihis ako, I am wearing make up and all that tas naka coat pako then there’s this adult people on the jeep that I was riding too, sabi sakin ng dalawang babaeng matanda ang ganda mo naman ano name mo papaligawan ko anak ko, nag smile lang ako sakanila tas biglang sabat naman ng matandang lalake sa tabi ko, ganda no kaladkaren yan tignan mo may mga tattoo pa. Hearing those words shit parang gusto ko lamunin ako ng lupa, super nabastos ako to the point I was stunned to speak and yung face ko I don’t really know how to react. I was just going to work na pusturang pustura tas biglang sasabihan ka ng KALADKAREN without even knowing me PERSONALLY. It is really hard to earn respect from the other people specially when your from the lgbtqia+++ community. That old man only sees my physical appearance tas ganun na agad na sabi nya sakin, to be honest na hurt ako ng sobra nun, buti nalang to the rescue yung dalwang matandang babae Sabi nila “kuya hindi naman mukhang namang edukada si ma’am, wag naman po kayo ganan” sagot lang ng matandang lalake “kaladkaren yan madami ng pera yan”. So pag mukhang maraming pera kaladkaren na? 🥲 hirap talaga mag earn ng respect within our community tas mga tao sa community natin na mas lalo pang nagpapahirap 😢
sana next horror stories/experience naman
Tagal ng one week pag may inaantay!!!
I agree sa lahat ng points. Mas grabe yung discrimination sa community lol. Tayo yung humihingi ng acceptance but tayo mismo yung mahilig mag discriminate lol
Mas comfortable din ako with straight friends.
superlove these four❤💋
I experienced being played by a couple. Crush ko ung isa, alam nia, nagpapadala ako ng foods sa kanya pero sabi nia sakin single raw sha, then when i found out about their little games, sila pa ang galit and acting victims. Hayst. Same community pero nagsisiraan. I don't know what's their deal and what's their goal.
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and also yung ibang mga part ng lgbt once na gumawa sila ng mali and napansin ng mga disagree with lgbt pips damay lahat ng lgbt kung ano tingin sa isa ganon na tingin sa lahat.
In my case naman, I am straight, pero kapag kausap ko is isang member ng LGBTQIA+ community, I just ask them, "how do you want me to address you?" eh ma ma'am at sir pa naman ako. kasi may mga straight din, especially women, na medyo masc magdamit kasi mas comfortable sila sa ganun. kapag naman hindi ko maitanong, I just use po or opo.
i have an experience din about sa toxic queer culture kasi i met a guy and dates him until now na ex pala ng cousin ko and the LGBTQIA++ of my cousin's friend one time nagkita kami sa isang resort and ang scenario is greetings lang kahit malayo kami ganon, nagpalitan ng hi hello ganon and they were like asking kung ang hinahanap daw namin kasi andun daw yung pinsan ko na ex ng jowa ko now. They are aware na kami na nitong guy pero the disrespect na ganon padin yung ginagawa in despite of matagal naman nang hiwalay itong si cousin ko and itong guy na dine-date ko. Ang malala pa active na active sila sa mga activities ng LGBTQIA++ sa barangay namin, take note na public servant yung isa dun.
and the fact na hindi lang isang beses na ganon sila, idk kung ang toxic nila or ang insensitive o baka kaya sensitive lang ako pero kasi ang abnormal na ng mga kilos nila eh
Daming matututunan talaga dito! 😍😊
I'm curious on how you guys met & meron dn sanang madagdag sa group nyo or kahit mag guest lang that are les,bi,trans man,etc.
Ang top and bottom ay issue lang sa booking, sa mga nag papabayad at nagbabayad, kc sa totoong relationship ay hnd issue ang top or bottom
Feeling ko daming magrereact dito.😅✌️🤭
lah ako gaano react sesss ksi inuunawa ko lang sila😊
sobrang na guilty ako sa part na you ask your friend kng gay or what...hindng hindi na po mauulit, i thot its my way of helping someone to comeout but yeah, tama po kayo, knd di sila ready then wala kang paki! i mean, respect! sorna! :)
I couldn't agree more. Kapwa mo pa mas judgemental kumpara sa mga straight people. Like dito sa probinsya, if people see you as gay, they would expect you to be a cross dresser, an artistic person who can decorate and do make up, and someone who will target guys regardless of their sexual orientation and/or preference and even age. 😅😅😅
Tapos may iba rin dito "bi" pero upon interviewing di pala nagkakagusto sa opposite sex. Dahil din siguro sa discrimination...
Puro hay nalang ako lagi.
Worse yung comment na “bottom pala, SAYANG”.
Maybe the reason why such discrimination comes within your circle is becoz kayo kayo lang ang generally understand what top, bottom, and verse means in your community. Kaya the ordinary girls and boys would never judge you coz they're not aware.
Hi what can you say about Pura Luka Vega who portrayed a religious image? Ibhope you can give insights
Its high time na alisin ang mentality na pag bakla dapat ganto ka lang gumalaw, nanamit, etc. Pag di ka pasok sa box, di ka bakla.
I just love you podcasts 😊
i hope ull have a q&a portion like as for someone who really want to understand the "community" i may have some questions na baka you can answer. just a suggestions.❤🌈
love this episode. Respect begets respect.
Nakakatawa di man ako part ng community. Namamalayan ko na lang na napapatango ako sa mga topic na relate much 😂😂😂😂
This is so true. Toxic Masc is something that we need to fix. Sila talaga. 😂😂😂
This is relevant to the LGBTQIA++ now adays .. lot's of discrimination under sa Rainbow Spectrum against each other. Kaya ang hirap mag tiwala sa kapwa d mo alam, isang maling kilos mo lang dami ng criticism whether straight or not .. we have different ways to show our gender choice ! Respect nalang sana..
The very reason why I dropped out my college way back 2017 was when our elderly dean would not allow me to enter her class since I had a shoulder length hair during that time and she wanted me to cut it short. After that incident, never na akong tumapak sa university namin and my dream to become a teacher was deprived since I was told I am "different".
Pls don't blame the school.. Alam naman natin na lahat mg stablishent may rules. Why so hard for us to follow.. Exercising ur rights is not applicable all the time. Lahat ng building may rules. If ur not into it they can throw u out. No hate po just I hate the idea of blaming the school. Coz u had a choice. And u made one.
@@fedeliina1693 Our elderly dean was a "pastor" FYI and we already had GAD (Gender and Development program) sa aming school. Even our ROTC let us exercise our rights. I am not blaming the school, it's the mentality of our dean na pino point out ko due to her personal belief.
I think that dean was just implementing school policies, and you can’t condemn her for sticking to her beliefs. I think yan yung sinasabi nila na if you wanna be respected, give respect din. Edi sana you dropped the subject na lang or transferred to a different school. Unfair naman na sakanya mo pinasa yung blame na di mo natupad yung dream mo.
@@elaizzagonda6638 Read my comment again. My Gender and Development program na kami sa university namin during that time. And if I dropped the subject, hindi rin ako papasa since MAJOR subject namin. So unfair sa kanya but not my part? HAHA patawa ka