You can see that these two STILL love each other. I love the way over time in the conversation they started opening up towards each other- more eye contact, touching, moving closer, hubby hand over the chair behind his wife, body language start opening up for sure. God is going to restore this marriage. Godspeed to both of you.
This is the testimony of many couples, lost my wife after 19 years, and it help me grow up and take a look at my life, seeing how I was a provider for so many years and not a emotional and spiritual provider. But God!!! after 3 years of divorce and growing from both 3 months after the divorce papers where settled we are dating again and learning who the new people we are.... And for me God is first..... The most powerful thing that I heard from this podcast is that If God can resurrect then the divorce is a small thing....
Married only a couple months yet just separated. I remember watching this earlier this year before I even met my husband. I kept remembering this episode I feel like God sent me back here for a reason; my marriage will not end. We will come out victorious and I will be the wife God has called me to be to get that change I deserve to see in my husband & myself ❤
Even when we act outside of God's will, He has the ability to clean up our mess. I like how this relationship to marriage to separation is so transparent and honest.
Did you have an understanding of why their marriage is in trouble? With all the transparency about what they lacked I didn't hear clear communication of I need and what this.... even when they were planning the 20yr vow renewal I heard a railroading to move forward with it absent anything to resolve the issues. Were pretenses more Important? Why have a vow renewal if your marriage if you really wanted out?
My husband talked to a divorce lawyers and paid the money and everything and I was supposed to sign the papers and I didn’t, when I saw he had went that far it did something to me, but he call his lawyers and said we are going to work it out, and from watching your podcast it has open my eyes, the episode with Tony Evans son and wife cause me to see so much and how powerful a woman words can break or make a man, marriage, so I started listening to God and he will tell me , let me deal with him, you just watch , listen and be careful with your words and seek me. Now my husband marriage has gotten better, but we working on it everyday, God is so Good, I love your show.
At 1h30 when she says her prayer is 'God, bless my husband with a new wife and let her be me' and his arm moves around her. He can't even do anything about it. It is the Holy Spirit moving through him and the corners of his lips relax. His heart opens. Like he feels safe. And he can trust something ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏 Thank you Lord Jesus for this podcast 🙌 Thank you, Laterras Whitfield ❤
Thank you God for Tavia and Jewel May they consistently pray for their marriage and all God’s children will too! As they stay together in Jesus Name. Amen Amen ❤️🙏🏽❤️
So many marriages are suffering and ashamed to reach out for help. Your test is already an amazing testimony. Praying for total restoration for your marriage. Nothing is to hard for God!!! 🙏
This is such a powerful testimony so similar to what my husband and I experienced after being married for 27 years we were separated and on the brink of divorce but God said no we reconciled and will be celebrating 36 years in November. It was God and him only that brought us back together. I will be praying for the Whitlowe's to stay together.
Especially after this podcast, it is vital for Tavia to give him time and just enough space to allow him the opportunity to choose her and their marriage from a pure place. Praying for both of them 🙏🏾
I'm up here balling after LTs prayer for the couple. Tavia is committed to the marriage. It appears that Jewel is still working through things. When she prayed "Lord bless my husband with a new wife and let it be me" my mouth dropped. My God! I agree with Laterras. God is pursing Jewel through Tavia. I don't know if the purpose is to for marriage but I do believe it's to reach Jewel and heal him through Tavia's unwavering commitment. He jokingly said she's stalking him. Well God is too. That's why it's intense. God will come for you through anything or anyone. This was a great episode and everyone needs to see this. This is real and not the fairytale. Hopefully marriages are restored when both parties willing submit to the leading of the spirit.
I'm watching this for the second time after it initally aired and I literally teared up when she said that this time! Geeeez! They've actually been featured a second time and they are reunited! I pray they are still going strong!!!!!!
One day he is going to sit back and just say… Thank you for never giving up on me, for hitting your knees and praying and seeking God’s face and never letting go, for trusting the process even when it gets hard. #ThatsTrueLove
He seems like he is working out his insecurities with himself and his wife is standing by him. Love the fact that they are communicating now. The video of them renewing their vows priceless.
I agree with Karen. I really commend this guy for seeing the need to work on himself AND her for focusing on making her own self improvements. I truly believe that if they continue to do this that their marriage will be healed.
I was trying to understand where the husband was with his marriage as well. I truly can see he's still growing with his emotions n his insecurities. But after seeing the wedding ceremony n the words he spoke to his wife, it was refreshing to see a change of heart. Hopefully, the counseling n his walk with God will help him seek the wholeness that he deserves to thrive in his marriage. Wishing this beautiful couple all the best! ♥️
He looks tapped out, but still loves her. It appears that the enemy is trying to destroy this beautiful union but it shall not be so in Jesus name. I pray that God heals them in their brokenness and restores them 100 fold!! They are honest and real...and I loveeee it.
This broke my heart so much, I found myself praying for Tavia and Jewel, in the midst of the episode. the Lord who restores has done it. We decree and declare that He will be glorified through your union, remain victorious in Him in Jesus Name, Amen.
She said she prayed for him to get a new wife and that it would be her. Man my allergies 🤧 are acting up. I started praying for them 35 mins into this one. And after hearing them, when you played that video I broke!!!! I can't wait to see there part 2, cause they gonna make it!
Absolutely...profound. Pride makes us afraid of the work. Ego takes the integrity out of the fight. Pain gives " giving up" guardianship over " trying". ......but God.
When Tavia said the part about “God is going to tell you what’s going to happen and then gives you the grace period to change it” (Dr Tony Evans) I literally stopped in my tracks.
Coming from a rocky marriage myself…..They belong together ‼️ I can tell by the glow of BOTH of their skin ✨✨💕💕💕 They are so connected and God is working on them… as He does for my husband and myself 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Father God restore this marriage. Bring strength to this husband inner being. Give him grace to carry his wife on this journey. 🙏🏾🙌🏾 I believe they’re going to see your Goodness on the land of the living. ❤️
When God finishes with him, all that rejection we see him throwing her way, is gonna be honor and admiration. He is going to serve, carry AND cover her whole heartedly in the perfect LOVE of CHRIST! Glory to God! Thank you father for what your doing in them. Thank you for her faith and demonstration of Love! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💕
I wonder where they are now. I hope that’s what’s happening now. I have 20more minutes of the episode but after 1.5hrs in my heart hurts for her and any other women in a relationship like this. I am a believer and I know God can change situations that seem impossible. I really resonate with her story. It’s so unfair and exhausting to pour and pour and pour into a person who won’t reciprocate and will continuously reject you in secret and public. It’s tough to fight alone. It hurts to be committed to long suffering and sacrifice for the sake of your partner and they can’t or won’t do the same, even after years of begging for scraps. She said she didn’t shut down right away but after years of this treatment she did. I know her suffering won’t be in vain with or without him. But I hope she gets the desires of her heart, a new, vibrant, love-filled marriage with the man she gave her heart to.
Words from a women's lips can build or kill. No wonder men aren't vulnerable with us. This episode spoke to me and uncovered so many things that occurred in my marriage. I will not make those missteps again. The vows must be fully understood and embraced.
@@desij.7487 So right Andrea....Men have to realize they have that same power. I pray nothing but good things for this marriage. I was definitely blessed by this.
Man, I'm going through 2 podcasts a day, to work backwards to day one. Even though I I've been hurt multiple times, I still have a strong desire to have another wife. One to grow with deeper in God, to enjoy the outdoors with, to laugh til we cry relationship! Thank you for allowing the Lord to steer you..
Wow.... We pray God restore them /Heal their marriage. God is able! The mere fact they were able to sit together and tell their story-God is going to do it for them. Bless you Latteras!
This is the VERY FIRST podcast from this series, this channel,that I have seen...I have never seen my emotions,my situation so clearly reflected in another person..hearing Tavias heart to stand for her marriage, hearing Jewell's reluctance...it's like I was watching the current situation with my husband and I play out in front of my eyes...Lord you move mountains no one else can move.You make all things new my Lord, I lift up the Whitlowes,and pray for a beautiful restoration in You ,and through You. Thank you so much for this content!! God Bless you!!
I think this was their first counseling session together on the podcast before they even start it officially. God was definitely speaking on here. I even saw the change throughout the episode.
A whole year later and Holy Spirit used this podcast to speak to me! I have been up day and night asking God to restore was is seemingly a failed marriage on the verge of this divorce. This episode is like watching me and my husband (split image). This is a clear example of pain/suffering being used to glorify God!! I have been losing all hope but this message has restored the little I had left. I pray that this marriage has been restored beyond it's original foundation. I pray that Tavia knows all that she's endured and trusting in God to restore their marriage was not in vain b/c it has truly blessed me and given me hope in my own situation. To God be the Glory!!!
Take aways for me: The grace period, the bless my husband with a better wife and let her be me, the couples hand shake and just the work they are knowingly and unknowingly putting . I am not married but this was something for me to put in my bag for wen I am . I don't know this couple but will keep them in my prayers as I do with all of my friends and loved ones. #seeing God's beauty thru others
She obviously trusts him but I’m not sensing the same trustworthiness. All these trips out of time and living separately? He wants a divorce … but he never cheated? 🤔
Laterras another job well executed. You were born for this your God devine purpose might be delayed but cannot be denied. Walk in your calling bros God bless you as you continue to be a blessing to others.🙏🏽
Someone shared this video with me. In listening to this I felt like my story was being told. The same experiences that the Whitlows were going through, my husband and I went through the exact same thing. But God is so good our marriage has been restored through an unconventional way. Thank you for courage to tell your story to help millions. Octavia
Yes divorce IS the worst that could happen to a marriage. It's the ultimate breakdown and separation of two people who have vowed to stick it out w each other. That's not detrimental to you??? If you in a marriage that's draining you, that can be fixed; divorce cannot.
@@DearFutureWifey Isn't this the first time you've had a separated or possibly divorcing couple? We need a follow-up on them. After that prayer/sermon you popped up and gave, I wouldn't be surprised if they reawakened and stayed together.
Yes, this was phenomenal!!! You got full before your letter. That was beautiful. 😢🙏🏽Mr. Whitfield, you sounded like a trained, certified counselor! I like how you let the Spirit lead you. ❤️
This episode really got to me and the last few year’s I hardly ever cry, but this brought tears to my eyes. I am so glad I watched it all the way through because at times his transparency came off a little strong. But I know without full transparency and honesty you can’t fully heal. I love the community and support they have around their marriage. You all have a beautiful family. I pray that more and more people single or married watch this episode. The 20 year vowel renewal was so beautiful and brought tears of joy. When they told the story of going to celebrate with mutual friends and he bought her a drink. I knew that he was dating her all over again and didn’t know it at that time. God I pray that you cover this family and their marriage. 🙏🏾
I loved the transparency and how Laterras is a cheerleader for this couple's union, and how he also draws people out of the shadows of their truth with grace. I love and admire Tavia's fight for her marriage and also how when she said "I do, she meant, "I do." I love how God speaks through him and how he'll stop the conversation to pray a beautiful prayer to our Savior. Your show is truly a safe space, keep up thrle great work🤗
This episode and the whole series is just emphasizing to me that marriage isn't easy. It can be hard hard. After 24 years, I'm sure challenges and changes occur. I pray happiness upon the two. Laterras you're an A1 friend.
This video brought tears to my eyes! This was beautiful! I don’t even have the words to express the emotions I felt while watching this! Mr. Whitfield you truly are walking in your calling!
I was so resistant to watching this podcast. It kept popping up and finally I decided to watch the episode regarding abstinence with Pastor Conway. As I had just started going to this church-I watched. Being single and really struggling for the past 10 years-I say this in tears, your videos have brought healing, hope, and a renewed commitment to being God’s daughter as I wait for my future hubby. Thank you so so much.
GOD uses Laterrias is a mighty way. When they started out they were both talking harshly and I was scared for them. Then I started to hear Tavia's heart. Her language to GOD for her husband is so genuine that she can expect GOD to do a mighty work and give her the desires of heart. And that is to give Jewel a "new" wife and it shall be her! This episode was phenomenal, it touched my heart in a mighty way. Marriage is beautiful and they will make it another 25yrs. PERIODT
“Crazy faith says: I know how you feel but I know what God can do.” “She was saying, “My husband is dead. I can say rise, come forth Lazarus. She can speak this dead marriage back to life. She can speak you back to life…Her faith isn’t predicated on your decisions. Her faith is predicated on what God said to her.” “This marriage the way it is, it had to die.” “You both said that this marriage can’t continue the way it is. So, you’ve got to kill that thing and resurrect something beautiful, resurrect something new, resurrect something that’s whole, resurrect something where you have trust and vulnerability in the relationship.”
Yes! Latteras is so insightful and so vested in these relationships. When I saw him get so emotional and teary eyed at the end I felt for him and them both because he loves them and want to see them win with each other. But he also recognizes that the process is hard. I hope they know it's worth it.
Ms. Tavia, I appreciate your transparency. I went through so many similarities to what you described when you had your come to "Jesus" moment and began to intercede for your marriage. The enemy had me in such an emotional fog that I also felt and thought I didn't love my husband of 24 years. But my realization was too little too late and I actually believed I was doing The right thing and I chose to divorce my husband. It has been THE BIGGEST MISTAKE of my life! BUT GOD!!! We are actually dating again and it's all because I stopped trying to navigate my own way and I truly decided to let go of the past and surrender my present and future to God. Thank you both for sharing your hearts 💝
"Jewel & I aren't together RIGHT NOW." showed hope. Jewel as you were speaking about a man's tribe & what's available to women, I saw it clearly...there's room for YOU to start what you need. During my shoot with Tavia, you encouraged me when you saw how uncomfortable I was, being photographed. You asked what would I need to hear to make me feel comfortable in the moment. I saw something in you then, that those around you & those assigned to you have need of. The two of you possess so much greatness. Tavia has a way of making women feel so safe when they're in her presence. Praying for you both individually & collectively. God is able! Great segment Laterras!
The Whitlows are a beautiful couple. This is one of the most transparent episodes I've watched and each one is transparent. This is truly a lesson of letting go and letting God, trusting, obeying and building hope one step at a time. I could go on. This is an amazing experience. I'm watching again and this time I'm taking notes. Thank you.
As usual, I am always left speechless with each and every episode. My heart breaks for all couples that are enduring instead of enjoying their marriages. I pray for restoration of the Whitlowes marriage. God is faithful. Love and hugs to them.
As a single woman this episode taught me so much! I appreciate the transparency. Thank you Witlows for being so LIT! Thank you Latarase for bring obedient.
Mr Whitefield, I really appreciate you and this body of work! I am gleaning so much from it as I'm sure others are. There are some nuggets that hits like oooofff!
"God is pursuing you through your wife".....my God, my God, that is powerful. "When she hugged you, He was hugging you"...these words just blessed me.💙❤️💙
I am divorced twice and am in the healing process. Thank you for embracing a heart and mind of obedience to God for this podcast. The strongholds that are being lifted for every listener are beautiful to see and read. I am especially thankful for this one. I love seeing the love and encouraging couples around me to remember and never lose sight of the specialness that brought them together as they grow throughout life together. God is speaking thru you. Keep letting him lead the way. ❣
Wow!!!When you asked them to close their eyes and imagine themselves without one another, you could see that it made them visibly uncomfortable, to know that this could be a reality. I’ve never been married ,but this episode showed me what it means to have the fruit of the spirit, long suffering. I pray that patience has it’s perfect work in their union. May they give each other the grace that’s needed to endure in this marriage. This particular letter hit a little different. Blessings to all three of you.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
After listening for 2 hours I never heard WHY they’re considering divorce. I hope they’ll stay together because they love each other. This is a beautiful couple.🙏🏽
Communication issues, shutting down, instead of fixing issues and not being able to work together.... They get mad at each other he shuts down and she argues
You can really tell how strong she is in the Lord to deal with his years of punishment & rejection. It's abusive, yet she still wants to rebuild. May God perfect all things concerning them.
Let me tell you the worse thing he’ll feel or see is if they divorce and then she gets married again and he sees her living her best life with her new man who PRAYS, and treat her like a woman of God whom is bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh. That’ll hit him harder than he’s ever been hit before. All this I don’t want to talk I will speak with you when I want to type BS if he doesn’t get close with God he’ll loose a phenomenal woman who knows him best and vice versa
This episode was BOMB! The honesty and rawness. And the video had me crying TEARS OF JOY. So blessed to have been able to catch this, and blessings Infinitus to this couple. They are REAL🫡👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👍🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰
This is what it looks like when God covers your marriage. He will use everything and everyone to speak to you and your union. I pray the Whitlowes are still married, healed and flourishing ❤️🙏🏾
He Still Refers to her as wife, and she looks at him with so much connection. May God continue to bless this marriage. They seem like two great people who needed to just step back restore.🙏
Wow. I really wish them the best. I hope that they work it out and love each other so deeply!! 🙏🏾🎈 God be with them!! This almost put tears in my eyes.
Sheeesh. I felt Holy Ghost FIRE throughout my entire body starting at 1:26:18 🔥🔥🔥 God pursues us through other peoples actions and prayers. “When she hugged you, God hugged you…When she prayed for you, God prayed for you…”🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Never in my life have I heard a demonstration of God’s pursuit and love for us explained in this way… so beautiful! 😭 Thanks Laterras! 🙏🏽♥️
The entire episode I saw hopefulness all over Tavia’s face. I feel like I’m in a season where I’m finally taking God at His word and not being afraid to trust & believe that His promises will come to pass. So I fully understand how she’s standing firmly on what God spoke to her and continues to speak! I’m standing with you Tavia!! We need to go to counseling but we also need to go to the closet about things. I’m believing God for miracles, signs & wonders particularly this month and idc who is on the receiving end (doesn’t have to be me) I just wanna see God move so I will be in prayer for this marriage! Like you said Laterras they don’t even have the power to dissolve it, it’s not up to them!! Let this be a seed I sow into their marriage as I desire to reach the 25 year mark in my future marriage. Hopefully they’ll be back with an update eventually. ❤️
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"Divorce is the most painful thing you will ever go through in life" I remember saying that to a few of my friends. This remains true for me. Hopefully I never have to experience that kind of pain (or worse) ever again.
The ending had made me tear up…Thank you to the couple for being open and transparent about their struggles I pray that God heals them individually and as a union. Great job Laterras for bringing some things into perspective for them and pouring into them.
This couple was meant to be together. I love how Tavia if fighting to save her marriage and that man love his wife trouble would always come but Joy comes In the morning. I pray God bring In fresh oil In this marriage and may it be the best experience ever in y'alls marriage. God bless u both👏🏿♥
How can two such beautiful people, that are so funny, want a divorce😂. I love when he said "She's not gone let you go". I pray that they are still together. ❤️
Such a wonderful and authentic episode. I am praying for Victory within Jewell's and Tavia's covenant. Laterras please bring them back on when your Holy Spirit informs you too. I would love to see them in a later episode and stating that they stayed together and are filled with Joy. 🙏🏽
As I watch this couple I'm not watching them run the race but I see them already at the finish line. Both seem aware of their part , both seem willing and now God can do the molding into the original intent of this relationship. This was not an episode on brokenness but on the power of agreement. If both husband and wife come in agreement with God's purpose there is nothing and I mean nothing that they can't achieve. I envision this power couple updating this episode and telling others how they won.
I had to stop shacking and join the family! This podcast has been blessing my life in so many ways. I'm not only gaining tools for my marriage but I am also seeing the love of God and how He pursues us. It's been a beautiful journey! Thank you for including us!!
I pray that God restored love and respect that they need to have for each other y'all spend along time with each other growing older together both of y'all still look good work that out it ain't nothing else out there these days but trouble renew your vows and have y'all a beautiful Gathering
This video is so deep! Man, I feel like he's punishing her for something he feels he didn't receive from her. I feel like she was so focused on work she neglected him (quality time). My only thought is where is I Corinthians 13 in all of this .. he seems really checked out. 🙏🏾
I felt that too. I think they may have gotten married with expectations of each other. They were young. Maybe projecting an image of what they want(ed) on each other instead of accepting each other as they are. I pray God works in their marriage. I really feel and hope and want it to work. God bless you guys. There's a whole global community praying for you. All the best ❤️❤️
Very good point Elornah. Getting caught up in the idealism of a person and imposing that on them is dangerous. It hinders that person from growth as well as having the opportunity to share who they are in their entirety. The question one must ask themselves is do they want the fake person or the real person. For me, I’d rather have the real person & go from there.
I cried watching this. I've only been married 3.5 years and it's been hell. My husband is just off in his own world. I cry night after night because I feel so alone. I want my marriage to work so bad but it's seriously looks like we are heading for divorce. We need HELP!!!! PLEASE
Sending prayers to you. I can tell you if you both put in the work it can and will get better. The first few years were absolute hell for us. But God! Sending love and prayers to you guys!
I married my HS SW and it was only 7 years but was only together for 3 of the years. Spirituality doesn’t save everything but it’s a strong foundation which we didn’t have. Make sure you two have that. One thing I had that my ex didn’t was the desire to make it work. If only one of you desire to make it work it may not work out
Marriage is a spiritual institution and would take a Divine God who created the institution to hold it together. I am so please that Tavia interceded for their marriage. Jewel was interceding too in his own way. God has the final say in the outcome of this union.
Their vulnerability was very refreshing! I really enjoyed that both of them confessed their insecurities. God is all over this marriage! That prayer at the end sealed the deal! May God bless them for many years! I love love, but Black love is just magical!
I'm just watching this and it's been a year since this aired. The body language at the start was hard to endure but I was so wanting them to fix it. I waited to til the very end then ran to go look up the couple to see if they worked it out. Seeing that prayer and faith in hard times still work really did my heart some good. I bless God for this couple. Jewel was checked all the way out but God restored and looks like they got what they prayed for, a new spouse with each other. I ❤️ this so much.
Wow wow, I’m literally in tears 😭 speaking as a divorcee, when you started this podcast I wasn’t sure where the talks were leading to with this couple as it felt like it was hard to get into the discussion: but God being God, I have learnt so much that an act of obedience (you Laterras getting the vision to starting this podcast) was an act of obedience as I have watched many versions of them, however I felt that tonight your platform was used by God as an instrument to help in speeding up restoration of a couple’s marriage! I pray a special covering upon your life and your podcast and pray complete restoration in this couple! Wow what a ministry and they completely allowed themselves to be vulnerable and sure healing is already in operation but praying for complete healing. Feeling blessed and encouraged🙌🏾 thank u all 3!
Her faith is not predicated on what he is saying to her it’s predicated on what God said to her, and that’s what she is believing and standing on😭 This is me😭 This episode has read me like a book from cover to cover🙌🏽
LRW, This PODCAST was the most LIT and profound one that I have seen yet. Thank you Mr&Mrs W. Y'all kept it 100%Real . LRW, you were dropping some serious gems as well. The questions you ask are always on point. Beautiful Couple inside&out. This Union was definitely Built To Last til Death do them apart. LRW, You just keep getting better and better with each episode. DOPE Content👍💖
I love the way you interacted with this couple. It was powerful. What a blessing to see them near the end of the session. I have been counseling over 25 years and you are one of the best as a coach to facilitate hope in a troubled relationship.
Literally reached my hands out to my tv screen and prayed over their marriage. 😭😭 Praying they see that 60+ years of marriage.
AMEN. Your Prayers help save their Marriage
You can not put a price on this type of fresh, live, and raw wisdom!
You can see that these two STILL love each other. I love the way over time in the conversation they started opening up towards each other- more eye contact, touching, moving closer, hubby hand over the chair behind his wife, body language start opening up for sure. God is going to restore this marriage. Godspeed to both of you.
I see the same thing!!! I haven’t finished the video and I see the love, I see the connection, and I see restoration! ❤
For real! Too cute
Are they still married ? It really got me in tears
@@teresalopes5460yes, they are! ❤❤
Amen the love is too strong to break!!!
WOW!!! “Bless my husband with a new wife and let her be me.” WHAT A WORD!!!
Yaaas, what a WORD❤
@@sherylpenn4032Exactly!!! That was sooooo powerful 🙏🏾
That totally stuck with me!
@@feliciacrosby9657 That actually happened because they are so happy again together!
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This is the testimony of many couples, lost my wife after 19 years, and it help me grow up and take a look at my life, seeing how I was a provider for so many years and not a emotional and spiritual provider. But God!!! after 3 years of divorce and growing from both 3 months after the divorce papers where settled we are dating again and learning who the new people we are.... And for me God is first..... The most powerful thing that I heard from this podcast is that If God can resurrect then the divorce is a small thing....
Amen!!!! But God!!!! Any situation can be turned around.
Praise God!! May our Heavenly Father bless you both with life lasting unconditional love and happiness ❤
Married only a couple months yet just separated. I remember watching this earlier this year before I even met my husband. I kept remembering this episode I feel like God sent me back here for a reason; my marriage will not end. We will come out victorious and I will be the wife God has called me to be to get that change I deserve to see in my husband & myself ❤
Amen sis. I am in the same boat. I am sending prayers ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ hope all is well sis.
How’s things going?
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Speak it 🙌🏽
Even when we act outside of God's will, He has the ability to clean up our mess. I like how this relationship to marriage to separation is so transparent and honest.
Agreed
Exactly 💯 God always pull you back
Did you have an understanding of why their marriage is in trouble? With all the transparency about what they lacked I didn't hear clear communication of I need and what this.... even when they were planning the 20yr vow renewal I heard a railroading to move forward with it absent anything to resolve the issues. Were pretenses more Important? Why have a vow renewal if your marriage if you really wanted out?
Hallelujah! Sound words.
An update on this couple would be awesome!
There was a part 2 a year ago...ua-cam.com/video/ZxLe9I5Yivk/v-deo.htmlsi=BytpO_1pnRk9MFZ_
Thriving! I just checked her IG lol
Theres a video update that was done 1yr ago
What’s the IG?
The Whitfields are still married 2024❤
My husband talked to a divorce lawyers and paid the money and everything and I was supposed to sign the papers and I didn’t, when I saw he had went that far it did something to me, but he call his lawyers and said we are going to work it out, and from watching your podcast it has open my eyes, the episode with Tony Evans son and wife cause me to see so much and how powerful a woman words can break or make a man, marriage, so I started listening to God and he will tell me , let me deal with him, you just watch , listen and be careful with your words and seek me. Now my husband marriage has gotten better, but we working on it everyday, God is so Good, I love your show.
I’m so happy to hear this 🙏🏽
hallelujah! this is awesome
Good for you. But it takes two.
Glory Hallelujah
Powerful
At 1h30 when she says her prayer is 'God, bless my husband with a new wife and let her be me' and his arm moves around her. He can't even do anything about it. It is the Holy Spirit moving through him and the corners of his lips relax. His heart opens. Like he feels safe. And he can trust something ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏
Thank you Lord Jesus for this podcast 🙌
Thank you, Laterras Whitfield ❤
Thank you God for Tavia and Jewel May they consistently pray for their marriage and all God’s children will too! As they stay together in Jesus Name. Amen Amen ❤️🙏🏽❤️
So many marriages are suffering and ashamed to reach out for help. Your test is already an amazing testimony. Praying for total restoration for your marriage. Nothing is to hard for God!!! 🙏
This is such a powerful testimony so similar to what my husband and I experienced after being married for 27 years we were separated and on the brink of divorce but God said no we
reconciled and will be celebrating 36 years in November. It was God and him only that brought us back together. I will be praying for the Whitlowe's to stay together.
Praise God!!!!! 🙌🏽🥰🙏🏽
I am happy GOD restored your marriage! I love it when the enemy is defeated. May you and yours continue to be blessed by THE BEST. Take care.
“Her faith in no longer in you but in God”
That is exactly where we should be from the beginning GOD knows how to get us there
Especially after this podcast, it is vital for Tavia to give him time and just enough space to allow him the opportunity to choose her and their marriage from a pure place. Praying for both of them 🙏🏾
I'm up here balling after LTs prayer for the couple. Tavia is committed to the marriage. It appears that Jewel is still working through things. When she prayed "Lord bless my husband with a new wife and let it be me" my mouth dropped. My God! I agree with Laterras. God is pursing Jewel through Tavia. I don't know if the purpose is to for marriage but I do believe it's to reach Jewel and heal him through Tavia's unwavering commitment. He jokingly said she's stalking him. Well God is too. That's why it's intense. God will come for you through anything or anyone. This was a great episode and everyone needs to see this. This is real and not the fairytale. Hopefully marriages are restored when both parties willing submit to the leading of the spirit.
Amen.
God is Real
I pray that the lord will continue to bind your marriage
while you both continue trust him. God bless you both.
Well said
Great comment!!!
That touched by soul.
When she said she felt “empty” when he left… that really tugged at my heart. I pray for restoration for their marriage. 💜
I'm watching this for the second time after it initally aired and I literally teared up when she said that this time! Geeeez! They've actually been featured a second time and they are reunited! I pray they are still going strong!!!!!!
@Enisha Adams glory to God
Just watching this and I prayed they stayed together .
Amen
Jesus!!!!! This is my marriage 😭😭😭😭Wow I'm so confused about what to do
One day he is going to sit back and just say… Thank you for never giving up on me, for hitting your knees and praying and seeking God’s face and never letting go, for trusting the process even when it gets hard. #ThatsTrueLove
I kept hearing the entire episode "The God that restores". I'm declaring full restoration for their marriage. In Jesus name!
Your prayers were answered.
He seems like he is working out his insecurities with himself and his wife is standing by him. Love the fact that they are communicating now. The video of them renewing their vows priceless.
I agree Karen, but I think she is fighting a losing battle. Let him go and find himself.
Yessss, Karen! I agree!
I agree with Karen. I really commend this guy for seeing the need to work on himself AND her for focusing on making her own self improvements. I truly believe that if they continue to do this that their marriage will be healed.
I was trying to understand where the husband was with his marriage as well. I truly can see he's still growing with his emotions n his insecurities. But after seeing the wedding ceremony n the words he spoke to his wife, it was refreshing to see a change of heart. Hopefully, the counseling n his walk with God will help him seek the wholeness that he deserves to thrive in his marriage. Wishing this beautiful couple all the best! ♥️
I’m standing in agreement with the prayer at the end. God is a restorer.
He looks tapped out, but still loves her. It appears that the enemy is trying to destroy this beautiful union but it shall not be so in Jesus name. I pray that God heals them in their brokenness and restores them 100 fold!! They are honest and real...and I loveeee it.
The devil will not win, in Jesus' Name.
@@DearFutureWifey In Jesus name 🌷
How are they doing today
@Regina Wheeler I saw neither comment said they reconciled . I hope that's the case.
@@nikkyshamz2696 It's true. There's an episode of them reconciled here at Dear Future Wifey.
This broke my heart so much, I found myself praying for Tavia and Jewel, in the midst of the episode. the Lord who restores has done it. We decree and declare that He will be glorified through your union, remain victorious in Him in Jesus Name, Amen.
Amen!
In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen.
Im here hoping they find that sparkle again. I can feel there's love between the two.
Amen Sis 🙏
Amen!
Amen
She said she prayed for him to get a new wife and that it would be her. Man my allergies 🤧 are acting up. I started praying for them 35 mins into this one. And after hearing them, when you played that video I broke!!!! I can't wait to see there part 2, cause they gonna make it!
When she said she's able to trust his character! That right there! That trust and security is a must.
Absolutely...profound.
Pride makes us afraid of the work.
Ego takes the integrity out of the fight.
Pain gives " giving up" guardianship over " trying".
......but God.
When Tavia said the part about “God is going to tell you what’s going to happen and then gives you the grace period to change it” (Dr Tony Evans) I literally stopped in my tracks.
Coming from a rocky marriage myself…..They belong together ‼️ I can tell by the glow of BOTH of their skin ✨✨💕💕💕
They are so connected and God is working on them… as He does for my husband and myself 🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Father God restore this marriage. Bring strength to this husband inner being. Give him grace to carry his wife on this journey. 🙏🏾🙌🏾 I believe they’re going to see your Goodness on the land of the living. ❤️
Amen
Amen
Amen
When God finishes with him, all that rejection we see him throwing her way, is gonna be honor and admiration. He is going to serve, carry AND cover her whole heartedly in the perfect LOVE of CHRIST!
Glory to God!
Thank you father for what your doing in them. Thank you for her faith and demonstration of Love! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💕
I wonder where they are now. I hope that’s what’s happening now. I have 20more minutes of the episode but after 1.5hrs in my heart hurts for her and any other women in a relationship like this. I am a believer and I know God can change situations that seem impossible. I really resonate with her story. It’s so unfair and exhausting to pour and pour and pour into a person who won’t reciprocate and will continuously reject you in secret and public. It’s tough to fight alone. It hurts to be committed to long suffering and sacrifice for the sake of your partner and they can’t or won’t do the same, even after years of begging for scraps. She said she didn’t shut down right away but after years of this treatment she did. I know her suffering won’t be in vain with or without him. But I hope she gets the desires of her heart, a new, vibrant, love-filled marriage with the man she gave her heart to.
Amen. That was a beautiful prayer.
@@KeyonnaD They made it back onto the podcast. God is good! ua-cam.com/video/ZxLe9I5Yivk/v-deo.html
@@KeyonnaD Same here! I 100% agree with you! I always wonder if it was the other way around would he stay and fight? Unfortunately, I doubt it 😞
Words from a women's lips can build or kill. No wonder men aren't vulnerable with us. This episode spoke to me and uncovered so many things that occurred in my marriage. I will not make those missteps again. The vows must be fully understood and embraced.
Love this!!!!!
@@desij.7487 So right Andrea....Men have to realize they have that same power. I pray nothing but good things for this marriage. I was definitely blessed by this.
@@Me-px7js Yes, words equally from men and women can build or burn down the bridge.
Man, I'm going through 2 podcasts a day, to work backwards to day one. Even though I I've been hurt multiple times, I still have a strong desire to have another wife. One to grow with deeper in God, to enjoy the outdoors with, to laugh til we cry relationship! Thank you for allowing the Lord to steer you..
Wow.... We pray God restore them /Heal their marriage. God is able! The mere fact they were able to sit together and tell their story-God is going to do it for them. Bless you Latteras!
This is the VERY FIRST podcast from this series, this channel,that I have seen...I have never seen my emotions,my situation so clearly reflected in another person..hearing Tavias heart to stand for her marriage, hearing Jewell's reluctance...it's like I was watching the current situation with my husband and I play out in front of my eyes...Lord you move mountains no one else can move.You make all things new my Lord, I lift up the Whitlowes,and pray for a beautiful restoration in You ,and through You. Thank you so much
for this content!! God Bless you!!
I think this was their first counseling session together on the podcast before they even start it officially. God was definitely speaking on here. I even saw the change throughout the episode.
Isn't God amazing?
I thought so too!
I’m single, never married, childless-52 years old- still preparing for marriage. This show is transparent and blessing for others.
Real people, real life situation. God bless this couple and their marriage.
When she said "my marriage is my heart." I felt that tears came to my eyes.
God is truly intentional in his pursuit of his children, especially in our brokenness.
A whole year later and Holy Spirit used this podcast to speak to me! I have been up day and night asking God to restore was is seemingly a failed marriage on the verge of this divorce. This episode is like watching me and my husband (split image). This is a clear example of pain/suffering being used to glorify God!! I have been losing all hope but this message has restored the little I had left. I pray that this marriage has been restored beyond it's original foundation. I pray that Tavia knows all that she's endured and trusting in God to restore their marriage was not in vain b/c it has truly blessed me and given me hope in my own situation. To God be the Glory!!!
Take aways for me: The grace period, the bless my husband with a better wife and let her be me, the couples hand shake and just the work they are knowingly and unknowingly putting . I am not married but this was something for me to put in my bag for wen I am . I don't know this couple but will keep them in my prayers as I do with all of my friends and loved ones. #seeing God's beauty thru others
Thank you @nikistinnett
She obviously trusts him but I’m not sensing the same trustworthiness. All these trips out of time and living separately? He wants a divorce … but he never cheated? 🤔
One of the takeaways for me as well
May God fix his awareness to NEVER say “hes out” or “wants a divorce” EVER again.
Laterras another job well executed. You were born for this your God devine purpose might be delayed but cannot be denied. Walk in your calling bros God bless you as you continue to be a blessing to others.🙏🏽
Someone shared this video with me. In listening to this I felt like my story was being told. The same experiences that the Whitlows were going through, my husband and I went through the exact same thing. But God is so good our marriage has been restored through an unconventional way. Thank you for courage to tell your story to help millions. Octavia
Divorce is not the worst thing in a marriage its staying in a marriage that drain mentally, physically, emotionally spiritually.
100% Accurate!!!
@@Iamblessed-ob3cn facts.....thank goodness that doesn't seem to be the case with this marriage. I'm definitely praying for them to make it.
@@Me-px7js me too!!!! I like them so much just from this video. May God keep His divine hands on their union!
True...
Yes divorce IS the worst that could happen to a marriage. It's the ultimate breakdown and separation of two people who have vowed to stick it out w each other. That's not detrimental to you??? If you in a marriage that's draining you, that can be fixed; divorce cannot.
I was brought here for this testimony. My marriage is more complicated and I don’t know how it will turn out but only God will restore it.
He did it again... Great episode!
Nobody but God. This "Marriage Vow Series" is all God. Thank y'all for kicking it off.
Yes he did
@@DearFutureWifey Isn't this the first time you've had a separated or possibly divorcing couple? We need a follow-up on them. After that prayer/sermon you popped up and gave, I wouldn't be surprised if they reawakened and stayed together.
Yes, this was phenomenal!!! You got full before your letter. That was beautiful. 😢🙏🏽Mr. Whitfield, you sounded like a trained, certified counselor! I like how you let the Spirit lead you. ❤️
@@atlantasfaithsmom they are dating each other again. It's so nice to see.
This episode really got to me and the last few year’s I hardly ever cry, but this brought tears to my eyes. I am so glad I watched it all the way through because at times his transparency came off a little strong. But I know without full transparency and honesty you can’t fully heal. I love the community and support they have around their marriage. You all have a beautiful family. I pray that more and more people single or married watch this episode. The 20 year vowel renewal was so beautiful and brought tears of joy. When they told the story of going to celebrate with mutual friends and he bought her a drink. I knew that he was dating her all over again and didn’t know it at that time. God I pray that you cover this family and their marriage. 🙏🏾
I love the openness & transparency. For some reason I hope they go for that marriage counselling together and start re-building their forever.
I loved the transparency and how Laterras is a cheerleader for this couple's union, and how he also draws people out of the shadows of their truth with grace. I love and admire Tavia's fight for her marriage and also how when she said "I do, she meant, "I do." I love how God speaks through him and how he'll stop the conversation to pray a beautiful prayer to our Savior. Your show is truly a safe space, keep up thrle great work🤗
This episode and the whole series is just emphasizing to me that marriage isn't easy. It can be hard hard. After 24 years, I'm sure challenges and changes occur. I pray happiness upon the two. Laterras you're an A1 friend.
This video brought tears to my eyes! This was beautiful! I don’t even have the words to express the emotions I felt while watching this! Mr. Whitfield you truly are walking in your calling!
The fact that they both showed up let’s me know they’ll make it! I pray for God to continue to provide them with what they need.
Exactly. God is so good.
I was so resistant to watching this podcast. It kept popping up and finally I decided to watch the episode regarding abstinence with Pastor Conway. As I had just started going to this church-I watched.
Being single and really struggling for the past 10 years-I say this in tears, your videos have brought healing, hope, and a renewed commitment to being God’s daughter as I wait for my future hubby.
Thank you so so much.
GOD uses Laterrias is a mighty way. When they started out they were both talking harshly and I was scared for them. Then I started to hear Tavia's heart. Her language to GOD for her husband is so genuine that she can expect GOD to do a mighty work and give her the desires of heart. And that is to give Jewel a "new" wife and it shall be her! This episode was phenomenal, it touched my heart in a mighty way. Marriage is beautiful and they will make it another 25yrs. PERIODT
Blessings January 20th
Tavia and Jewel, your wedding vows renewals brought tears to my eyes. Just keep going strong.
“Crazy faith says: I know how you feel but I know what God can do.”
“She was saying, “My husband is dead. I can say rise, come forth Lazarus. She can speak this dead marriage back to life. She can speak you back to life…Her faith isn’t predicated on your decisions. Her faith is predicated on what God said to her.”
“This marriage the way it is, it had to die.”
“You both said that this marriage can’t continue the way it is. So, you’ve got to kill that thing and resurrect something beautiful, resurrect something new, resurrect something that’s whole, resurrect something where you have trust and vulnerability in the relationship.”
Yes! Latteras is so insightful and so vested in these relationships. When I saw him get so emotional and teary eyed at the end I felt for him and them both because he loves them and want to see them win with each other. But he also recognizes that the process is hard. I hope they know it's worth it.
You hit the nail on the head.
@@resilience4680
Sis, I was right there with you.
My exact thoughts and sentiment.
Ms. Tavia, I appreciate your transparency. I went through so many similarities to what you described when you had your come to "Jesus" moment and began to intercede for your marriage. The enemy had me in such an emotional fog that I also felt and thought I didn't love my husband of 24 years. But my realization was too little too late and I actually believed I was doing The right thing and I chose to divorce my husband. It has been THE BIGGEST MISTAKE of my life! BUT GOD!!! We are actually dating again and it's all because I stopped trying to navigate my own way and I truly decided to let go of the past and surrender my present and future to God. Thank you both for sharing your hearts 💝
"Jewel & I aren't together RIGHT NOW." showed hope. Jewel as you were speaking about a man's tribe & what's available to women, I saw it clearly...there's room for YOU to start what you need. During my shoot with Tavia, you encouraged me when you saw how uncomfortable I was, being photographed. You asked what would I need to hear to make me feel comfortable in the moment. I saw something in you then, that those around you & those assigned to you have need of. The two of you possess so much greatness. Tavia has a way of making women feel so safe when they're in her presence. Praying for you both individually & collectively. God is able! Great segment Laterras!
You stated nothing but facts.
We need the follow up to this beautiful couple’s story.
The Whitlows are a beautiful couple. This is one of the most transparent episodes I've watched and each one is transparent. This is truly a lesson of letting go and letting God, trusting, obeying and building hope one step at a time. I could go on. This is an amazing experience. I'm watching again and this time I'm taking notes. Thank you.
As usual, I am always left speechless with each and every episode. My heart breaks for all couples that are enduring instead of enjoying their marriages. I pray for restoration of the Whitlowes marriage. God is faithful. Love and hugs to them.
As a single woman this episode taught me so much! I appreciate the transparency. Thank you Witlows for being so LIT! Thank you Latarase for bring obedient.
@Dear Future Wifey: THANK YOU for mentioning/discussing THIS couple at the Stellar panel. Blessings! Can’t wait to watch the “part 2”.
Mr Whitefield, I really appreciate you and this body of work! I am gleaning so much from it as I'm sure others are. There are some nuggets that hits like oooofff!
"God is pursuing you through your wife".....my God, my God, that is powerful.
"When she hugged you, He was hugging you"...these words just blessed me.💙❤️💙
I was not expecting this. Waw Latteras you coming through with transparency in your episodes 😱
I am divorced twice and am in the healing process. Thank you for embracing a heart and mind of obedience to God for this podcast. The strongholds that are being lifted for every listener are beautiful to see and read. I am especially thankful for this one. I love seeing the love and encouraging couples around me to remember and never lose sight of the specialness that brought them together as they grow throughout life together. God is speaking thru you. Keep letting him lead the way. ❣
Wow!!!When you asked them to close their eyes and imagine themselves without one another, you could see that it made them visibly uncomfortable, to know that this could be a reality. I’ve never been married ,but this episode showed me what it means to have the fruit of the spirit, long suffering. I pray that patience has it’s perfect work in their union. May they give each other the grace that’s needed to endure in this marriage. This particular letter hit a little different. Blessings to all three of you.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
After listening for 2 hours I never heard WHY they’re considering divorce. I hope they’ll stay together because they love each other. This is a beautiful couple.🙏🏽
Just from listening sounds like her job came first. My husband of 27 yrs has told me the same thing so I had to rearrange my priorities!!
Communication issues, shutting down, instead of fixing issues and not being able to work together.... They get mad at each other he shuts down and she argues
I’ve been divorced for 11 years now this was truly a blessing!!! There’s healing for them I can see it!!!!
I have not stopped crying watching this!!! I pray that God Bless them TOGETHER in Jesus name
You can really tell how strong she is in the Lord to deal with his years of punishment & rejection. It's abusive, yet she still wants to rebuild. May God perfect all things concerning them.
Let me tell you the worse thing he’ll feel or see is if they divorce and then she gets married again and he sees her living her best life with her new man who PRAYS, and treat her like a woman of God whom is bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh. That’ll hit him harder than he’s ever been hit before. All this I don’t want to talk I will speak with you when I want to type BS if he doesn’t get close with God he’ll loose a phenomenal woman who knows him best and vice versa
This episode was BOMB! The honesty and rawness. And the video had me crying TEARS OF JOY. So blessed to have been able to catch this, and blessings Infinitus to this couple. They are REAL🫡👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾👍🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰
This is what it looks like when God covers your marriage. He will use everything and everyone to speak to you and your union. I pray the Whitlowes are still married, healed and flourishing ❤️🙏🏾
This is what i'm going through , and this has help me. In tears thank you
Praying for the Whitlowe"s in JESUS Powerful name!
He Still Refers to her as wife, and she looks at him with so much connection. May God continue to bless this marriage. They seem like two great people who needed to just step back restore.🙏
Wow. I really wish them the best. I hope that they work it out and love each other so deeply!! 🙏🏾🎈
God be with them!!
This almost put tears in my eyes.
Sheeesh. I felt Holy Ghost FIRE throughout my entire body starting at 1:26:18 🔥🔥🔥 God pursues us through other peoples actions and prayers. “When she hugged you, God hugged you…When she prayed for you, God prayed for you…”🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Never in my life have I heard a demonstration of God’s pursuit and love for us explained in this way… so beautiful! 😭 Thanks Laterras! 🙏🏽♥️
The entire episode I saw hopefulness all over Tavia’s face. I feel like I’m in a season where I’m finally taking God at His word and not being afraid to trust & believe that His promises will come to pass. So I fully understand how she’s standing firmly on what God spoke to her and continues to speak! I’m standing with you Tavia!! We need to go to counseling but we also need to go to the closet about things. I’m believing God for miracles, signs & wonders particularly this month and idc who is on the receiving end (doesn’t have to be me) I just wanna see God move so I will be in prayer for this marriage! Like you said Laterras they don’t even have the power to dissolve it, it’s not up to them!! Let this be a seed I sow into their marriage as I desire to reach the 25 year mark in my future marriage. Hopefully they’ll be back with an update eventually. ❤️
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"Divorce is the most painful thing you will ever go through in life" I remember saying that to a few of my friends. This remains true for me. Hopefully I never have to experience that kind of pain (or worse) ever again.
The ending had made me tear up…Thank you to the couple for being open and transparent about their struggles I pray that God heals them individually and as a union. Great job Laterras for bringing some things into perspective for them and pouring into them.
This couple was meant to be together. I love how Tavia if fighting to save her marriage and that man love his wife trouble would always come but Joy comes In the morning. I pray God bring In fresh oil In this marriage and may it be the best experience ever in y'alls marriage. God bless u both👏🏿♥
How can two such beautiful people, that are so funny, want a divorce😂. I love when he said "She's not gone let you go". I pray that they are still together. ❤️
Such a wonderful and authentic episode. I am praying for Victory within Jewell's and Tavia's covenant. Laterras please bring them back on when your Holy Spirit informs you too. I would love to see them in a later episode and stating that they stayed together and are filled with Joy. 🙏🏽
As I watch this couple I'm not watching them run the race but I see them already at the finish line. Both seem aware of their part , both seem willing and now God can do the molding into the original intent of this relationship. This was not an episode on brokenness but on the power of agreement. If both husband and wife come in agreement with God's purpose there is nothing and I mean nothing that they can't achieve. I envision this power couple updating this episode and telling others how they won.
I had to stop shacking and join the family! This podcast has been blessing my life in so many ways. I'm not only gaining tools for my marriage but I am also seeing the love of God and how He pursues us. It's been a beautiful journey! Thank you for including us!!
I pray that God restored love and respect that they need to have for each other y'all spend along time with each other growing older together both of y'all still look good work that out it ain't nothing else out there these days but trouble renew your vows and have y'all a beautiful Gathering
I am watching this episode now in 2023 and this is one of my favorite episodes. I pray they were able to repair their marriage!
Yes, I'm with you I pray they are still working on their testimony ❤
They are !!
This video is so deep! Man, I feel like he's punishing her for something he feels he didn't receive from her. I feel like she was so focused on work she neglected him (quality time). My only thought is where is I Corinthians 13 in all of this .. he seems really checked out. 🙏🏾
I felt that too. I think they may have gotten married with expectations of each other. They were young.
Maybe projecting an image of what they want(ed) on each other instead of accepting each other as they are.
I pray God works in their marriage. I really feel and hope and want it to work. God bless you guys. There's a whole global community praying for you.
All the best ❤️❤️
Very good point Elornah. Getting caught up in the idealism of a person and imposing that on them is dangerous. It hinders that person from growth as well as having the opportunity to share who they are in their entirety. The question one must ask themselves is do they want the fake person or the real person. For me, I’d rather have the real person & go from there.
I need a follow up episode with them this made me so emotional
I’m enjoying this podcast. Transparency seems to be something else.
God is a way maker. I pray for all couples struggling...
I cried watching this. I've only been married 3.5 years and it's been hell. My husband is just off in his own world. I cry night after night because I feel so alone. I want my marriage to work so bad but it's seriously looks like we are heading for divorce. We need HELP!!!! PLEASE
Pray and fast. Let the Lord tell you what to do. Continue to be his wife. 😊
Sending prayers to you. I can tell you if you both put in the work it can and will get better. The first few years were absolute hell for us. But God! Sending love and prayers to you guys!
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I married my HS SW and it was only 7 years but was only together for 3 of the years. Spirituality doesn’t save everything but it’s a strong foundation which we didn’t have. Make sure you two have that. One thing I had that my ex didn’t was the desire to make it work. If only one of you desire to make it work it may not work out
Praying for you both! How are things now?
Marriage is a spiritual institution and would take a Divine God who created the institution to hold it together. I am so please that Tavia interceded for their marriage. Jewel was interceding too in his own way. God has the final say in the outcome of this union.
Their vulnerability was very refreshing! I really enjoyed that both of them confessed their insecurities. God is all over this marriage! That prayer at the end sealed the deal! May God bless them for many years! I love love, but Black love is just magical!
I'm just watching this and it's been a year since this aired. The body language at the start was hard to endure but I was so wanting them to fix it. I waited to til the very end then ran to go look up the couple to see if they worked it out. Seeing that prayer and faith in hard times still work really did my heart some good. I bless God for this couple. Jewel was checked all the way out but God restored and looks like they got what they prayed for, a new spouse with each other. I ❤️ this so much.
That 20yr anniversary video was the breakthrough they needed ❤
Wow wow, I’m literally in tears 😭 speaking as a divorcee, when you started this podcast I wasn’t sure where the talks were leading to with this couple as it felt like it was hard to get into the discussion: but God being God, I have learnt so much that an act of obedience (you Laterras getting the vision to starting this podcast) was an act of obedience as I have watched many versions of them, however I felt that tonight your platform was used by God as an instrument to help in speeding up restoration of a couple’s marriage! I pray a special covering upon your life and your podcast and pray complete restoration in this couple! Wow what a ministry and they completely allowed themselves to be vulnerable and sure healing is already in operation but praying for complete healing. Feeling blessed and encouraged🙌🏾 thank u all 3!
Her faith is not predicated on what he is saying to her it’s predicated on what God said to her, and that’s what she is believing and standing on😭 This is me😭 This episode has read me like a book from cover to cover🙌🏽
LRW,
This PODCAST was the most LIT and profound one that I have seen yet. Thank you Mr&Mrs W. Y'all kept it 100%Real . LRW, you were dropping some serious gems as well. The questions you ask are always on point. Beautiful Couple inside&out.
This Union was definitely Built To Last til Death do them apart.
LRW, You just keep getting better and better with each episode.
DOPE Content👍💖
Thank you. To God be the glory
I love the way you interacted with this couple. It was powerful. What a blessing to see them near the end of the session. I have been counseling over 25 years and you are one of the best as a coach to facilitate hope in a troubled relationship.