Breaking Free: Confronting Toxicity Within Yourself | Venus Williams
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2023
- In this video, we are going to talk about how to deal with toxicity if you are the toxic person. Toxicity can come from anything from our relationships to our environment. In this video, we are going to look at some ways to deal with toxicity and how to recognize when it is happening.
part 1: • The Secret to Eliminat...
part 2: • Defeating Toxicity: Ve...
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#lifecoachvenus. I really appreciate and respect the way you have handled such a touchy topic, without harsh judgment, hard tones, or negative criticism. You are easy to listen to, easy to relate to, and have a positive demeanor! You are reaching people on multiple levels, and I wholeheartedly support your mission ❤😊
shame is a tough one. i wish people knew how debilitating it really is. ive met people that cant set goals because they are so afraid of the shame they feel if they fail. its harsh to see. failure is such a normal part of life. thank goodness for good friends.
This was a refreshing nugget about self-awareness, thank you, Venus,❤
Glad it was helpful!
So incredibly proud to see not just you but anyone address this topic - which is the dysfunction within oneself - makes sense and athlete would be self aware and self honest. 👏🏿💥
Oh, Lord. I can certainly relate to the expecting the worst outcome. I am recovering from a 3-year health journey that brought about a lot of catastrophizing and fear avoidance in physical movement. It's a process to be sure.
I love that you are like 'hey if you're toxic that's ok.'
The good news for me is that i have no toxicity in my personality and thats why i try to treat all people with respect and friendship. Of course im not perfect, but i do try my best. I love you Queen V!🥰
what's interesting about this vid to me (the part that spoke to me) is about the negativity and how it translates to sport (for me). I'm on a new journey, learning to compete in triathlon. And it's amazing to me how much of it is mental. You can train all day. But the reality is, each race day is different. And no amount of training can fully prepare you for that day (no two race days are the same). And to make it, no matter the conditions, just how strong your mental game has to be. And that means, to focus on the goal (completing the race) and obtaining your personal best (running your race and ignoring what everyone else is doing). That is hard, especially when you're competitive. And it's not a naturally learned skill (at least for me). And it's got me thinking about how my mentality (judging myself and expectations of myself), impacts me in other areas of my life. What I find is, when i'm going thru it (aka competing) and things aren't going as planned, I am my most negative. And when I'm in it, I STRUGGLE to find the positivity. Eventually, I'm able to find something to finish the race. But, as I go thru it, I wonder if I could conquer the mental game, would my performance be better?
thanks so much for sharing
Thank you for this Venus! I never thought of myself as toxic, but dang… a few of these do apply to me.
Focus on my self and serving others . How to get there ? Thank you Venus! We admire you 💓
Venus Williams The Therapist lol…love it. Great job V! Long time supporter since the late 90s. 🌅
Love you Queen for daring to address this on your channel. Always wishing the best for you and your family! ☺️
Love this. You're a great mentor, Venus.
I appreciate that!
Hola Venus, I am glad to watch your video and agree with many facts mentioned. We have to look deep within ourselves and find the reason we might feel a certain way. I missed the chance to meet you the other day when you visited the Kingdom Hall in San Juan. My daughter Ana Sophia said you were very kind (and tennis is her favorite sport!). Keep sharing your knowledge and we send our love from Puerto Rico.
Luis Polar
I really appreciate you sharing your wealth of knowledge on this subject. A lot of great insights 🙏🏽 Thank you❤️
Good Share...
Amazing wisdom Venus, you’re so great on and off the court!
Thank you so much, dear Venus, for this series! I cherish these types of vidoes that you make. Big love ❤️!
I'm so glad!
Thank you. I really needed to hear this. Much appreciated Venus❤😢 👍
Love this video. Thanks for posting Venus!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I appreciate you for your all videos.I have been watching your tennis lessons for a while and then I saw this serie.I watched this video and I admired your perspective.I took some notes from your talk.You're very nice and sprightly person I think.Please maintain to take videos.
Love from Turkey💓
This is Gonna b so Insightful VW🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Friday😀….
Thank you Regina Venus for your advices.A big hug from Georgia -Caucasus.
Good stuff that I can use...once again you're a 'sage' Venus.
You're amazing thank you for sharing this!
Glad you enjoyed it!
big wisdom coming from you V :) self-awareness, empathy, values, focusing on yourself and what YOU can do - these are the keys :) big ass 14 minutes video - that's what i like :D thanks you for this, waiting for more life experiences :)
Venus Much ❤ TO you And For Helping me get out of some toxic relations Wish you Good Health and Much Happiness ❤
Thank you for sharing this meaningful message!
Glad you liked it!
Hello Venus
Very good information and advicer.
❤ thank you ❤
This is awesome advice! Glad I stumbled upon your channel☺️
Glad it was helpful!
First off you should have your own talk show 👍👍 Now after listening to you I am the toxic one..I wanted to live my dream through my daughter and then when it started to slip away and it did😢😢I pretty much through a fit like a child…now I’m having a hard time winning her back.. now I’m blaming everyone else when I’m the one who started it😢😢😢 I will say this I’m slowly working my way back slowly👍👍👍 here’s one more problem I have. I don’t have patience when I want something I want to right now.😥😥 but I have realized I caused this toxic mess and it cannot be fixed overnight!!!! how does that saying go? Patience is a virtue. also, someone told me time heals. you are very right it’s not forever. It just seems that way.👍👍👍.
Thank you Venus
You taught me that I finally have to wake up and smell the coffee ❤❤❤❤
Thanks always Venus ♥️ Always love and so look forward to all your videos! Always great words and advice.. it really is relevant for me atm, love what you're saying and guess it's definitely so good to not only look at how relationships have left you feeling but also how your own actions and behaviour may have affected others around you aswell 🙏 thank you for your great content and wonderful positive words.. Love and blessings to you and your family from London! 🙏🤗♥️
You're the best!
@@VenusWilliams DITTO Venus!! 🙏♥️🌞
Hi Venus. This was just so beautifully said. Thank you. It was enlightening and informative. Made me think of myself and my own behavior and the people around me.
Glad it was helpful!
I do not liste to tv news and negative people ...I have alway liste to my heart intution love compassion and love to God !!!
hi there VENUS,
please post a tennis
tutorial video on how to hit a proper DROP SHOT
and also how to hit a proper LOB in TENNIS.
thanks very much VENUS!!
much love!
Good Luck at your next tennis tournament in
October 2023! ❤
ok Dr. Venus
Thank you, Setena. While I disagree with the term itself, this was insightful and helpful. Thanks for sharing your experience and faith with a hint of scripture. I really appreciate you talking about topics outside of tennis that I can also relate to as an average joe. Blessings to you. ❤
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks
Find the roots of the wounds within yourself that attract toxic ppl. Once these are cleared how you are in this reality changes. Meditate on a connection to the divine can bring love to these wounds
Bless! 🙏🙏❤️. 😁
Yeah that scripture is on point.
Nice..
It's lovely watching talk about the things that have happened in your life and that have made you the wonderful person you are...love ❤️ from 3:40 Auckland
Thank you so much!
👌Venus forever ❤
Thank you, i would like to know how to hold a steady basis with the values that are important, yet grow in new ways that is beneficial, that may go ( completely - seemingly ) against our previous perceptions about the things (( and how we think )) we guard and protect the things we value • if this makes sense.. ie how to grow in the best way and follow the universal( ly best ) wisdom.. or in other words how to see the best route before understanding what it is or can be = how to recognize what to follow to learn to improve myself the best -> and then create the best state in and of existing to and for all through that ( and keep steady with that )
Vee is not only the GOAT at Tennis, but also at life coaching!
I was also wondering if she can get in contact with the singer Joy Villa so that Joy can show her how to go live on YT
I think I'll start playing Tennis in the first quarter of 2024. I could use a new set.
Enjoyed it and thanks 🫂
Love this!!!…❤️ Now if I can just get my butt back on the Tennis Court!😩🤔🎾🎾🎾
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My mother is so toxic especially now with her illness
You look amazing!!!! 💝💝💝
Thank you!!
I really appreciate this advice, how would you apply the “avoid drama” to leadership positions, people who are focused on moving a team forward usually have to deflect the most drama from their group, which can lead to toxicity
Are we addressing the 2010 US Open Semi Final with Clijsters or the 2018 US Open Final against Osaka in this video. Or maybe some other embarrassing moment in tennis history. Plenty to talk about.
How to develop self control in ourselves?
Venuptuious!!!
I loves me some Venus.
You’re so intelligent and wise on top of everything else! Is there anything you can’t do? Be my life coach?
I’m not toxic and I hate drama but I am my own worst enemy. I played today and went 0 for 6 on games that went to deuce 🤦♂️ I got in my own head. How do you figure that out?
7:49 Matthew 7:3
This is a very important topic, and a big problem in relationships. Job well done with this video, but I think that first part of the presentation where Serena says if that is what a person chooses to be in their life , then its okay is not right,not correct. There is a clear case of morality here and we do not want to approach the subject as if we are not sure about what the right thing is. Toxism is bad and has to be called out and dealt with openly.
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The Queen Goddess Herself #QueenVenus 👑💗💚🎾✨️😍 #Love ✨️ so in love with you Venus always dropping Gems❤️⚘️💎
this title looks promising
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Hi what do you think of having meghan on a episode to pick her brain an ask her questions I think this subject of toxicty is important especially meghan with her family issues an meghan finally have to let go of things or possibly toxicity that jump in her in the mist of her family an media an harry family drama. I would to hear from her to see how she been processing all this an things she learned that works an don't work an lesson she learned from choices she felt that was right from her sn an how the growth sn hope she has for remaining sn upcoming year an if she has reconnected behind the scenes she lost touch with her friends circle if learning anything from her friends to help her to navigate family situations. An I would love to see more of meg an Serena an you too do things together but I know everyone mom now an can't do what they 6 years ago but finds ways to have fun privately an sometimes oppnly I loved see the support of them too I miss seeing there laughs together an haven't seen yet there children hang together lol. I hope one day they all meg an harry Serena an your family with the kids all hang out or vacation somewhere family friends fun day. Hopefully we will see the gang out next year enjoying themselves . I think Serena is a good wise support system frirnd meghan would benefit from dur g the high an low an keeps it real an alex can be brotherly to harry go hang out .I rooting for love an against all the odds. If you can tell meg an harry one of theee supporters are rooting for them for love an respect an honor within themselves an for others will conquer all an there love for each other shall prevail for each other an the will continue to find balance an work an family life sn friends an fight for their love through all they face sn continue to grow their love an make the beautiful moments for their family. I know how it is to have a toxicity family controlling . I had to cut ties an space an people judge me for the choice I decided to make for my mental health an my kids mental health an heart to not bring expose kids to it. I get it with meghan especially when she did a totally cut off. I do hope she can speak to her dad one before it to late can do a phone call or video to attempt it. But I also get the trust things of leaking of calls recorded worried about that since he leak a letter once. But I don't want her to have the last moment of not hearing from him an not speaking to him all if God forbid he passes away but it is meg choice on her time sn when she feel comfortable with it an safe an secure. I hope that happens for her an her dad . That her dad be a father a man an reach out to her speak to her an not leak it regardless if he doesn't like what been said to him I am rooting they meg an her family will have some I
Of mutual respected line that want. be cross an have a talk. Now her siblings is a different story they really need Jesus. Lol.
ive never seen witnesses with unnatural hair colors like that.. Must be a new thing...
🫶🏾👏🏾 thank you
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