Yeah there's a lot of heart breaking stories of husbands as well...I'd argue even more...your point ?....are you seriously trying to make this issue gender specific
@@ahmedcheikh3082 Yes we are. Husbands are for worst than wives. All over the world it is mostly men who physically abuse their wives. And cheat on them constantly.
@@ahmedcheikh3082 Not to mention leave them with cooking, housework, child rearing. Growing up I looked at my father and the men in my family and it was in shock. Aside from bringing in a salary, they were mostly useless. The women did everything.
Recite ya awwal for 1000 times for 40 days will help you in getting child. It's amazing name my sister it will help you, it has helped many people that I know and try to eat healthy and reduce stress always be happy because anxiety kills our health and that prevents us from getting child . Always speak with your doctor about it. Do some home remedies for health. Pray about it and recite that inshallah you will be blessed with a child in no time. Sister everything is possible in life you just have to trust Allah he is listening . May Allah bless you and every sister ameen.
A Wife/Husband can make any mistake in marriage and forgive each other but cheating crosses the red line, better to walk away than suffer, Allah gave every human being a brain and self control over themselves, cheating happens when someone willfully does it knowing what he/she is doing, its never a mistake nor can anyone force u to do it, so that person faces the consequences for it, thats why if u follow Quran and Sunnah Properly then its impossible for you to be in that situation from day 1. May Allah guide Us and Protect Us.Ameen
If my husband cheats on me and regrets bcs I cought him only I cannot stay with him. I was trying openly to talk and he was always denying no matter the proofs of how many he had. I could never be relaxed with him so I have chosen my inner peace and walked away.
I am also going through the same thing, it is difficult because we have 2 young children. It is destroying me inside but what do i do as my children love there father.
@@nursemargs1780 my story was same too. Recently had proof too. I was shattered. Made him confront in front of my family and his family. Now i have forgiven him as made it very clear that i will walk away along with my kids if things remain like this. I feel he is really guilty and won't repeat this again
@@andleebaziz5213 I had proof of his wrongs, and he denied everthing until I showed him the proof and he could not say anything. Its been 4 weeks since this happened and he has finally admitted his wrongs. I have forgiven him now but made it clear that I will leave with the kids if it happens again. This has been a 10 year battle for me, I am tired of it. It will be my last.
Dear sheikh! I love u for Allah. may allah protect us from unfaithful spouses. mistakes can be forgiven u r right. when it comes major like cheating or doing zina beside spouses, those things cannot be accepted. He/ she has a right to forgive or divorce. May Allah protect us from those kind of situations.
Thank you Mufti, your teachings are very inspirational to me personal. May Allah bless you and give you the many more years to guide his people. All praises be given to Allah
Sister I pray for you and it is very emotional too see all Muslim women suffer life like this I hope all the very best for you and I hope your husband does speak too you cos no women out their deserve a life like that hope too god you be bless and good luck for your future
Brothers and sister, please make dua for my married, my husband lost trust to me I want my married to be back, I want to be better wife for my husband 🤲🤲🤲🤲
That's right .when my husband make me angry I used to first say thavakkalthu alallah then only I will respond.everything will change.my respond will be very different after that.and the ending will be a lovely and a happy ending. it's a miracle.at the time I can understand my mind itself is even with Allah's control.i feel that a small decision making is only with us.may be wrong.
Brothers and sister, please make alot of dua for me. I am going through a severe trial and I have really hurt my wife with my words which I did not mean, which I could not control at that time due to other pressures. I let things bottle up and then said things to her. We both love each other but I feel she needs a lot of time away from me as I have hurt her badly with these words. Please ask Allah SWT to forgive me, to soften my wife's heart, to allow me to control my anger and to be the best husband I know I can be for her, I really want to fight for her. Ameen.
@S F it's important to know where u go wrong and I really appreciate the fact that u hurt her and trying hard to make up your mistake. Unfortunately many men in Asian countries do not even realise that they went wrong let alone correcting them. May Allah SWT grant immense love and respect in your marriage. Ameen. U r a true man to acknowledge the mistake. I really appreciate that.
My father has secret family and my mother doesn't know about this he's trying to give hints to us but it's like mental torture and due to evil magic by the other women now he hate us...but I cannot hate him back even if I want to I love my father so much... but he think I'm a very rude arrogant heartless person I'm very depressed and sad I don't know what to do please pray to Allah to help me😭
If there was ever a time for us, as a peoples, to show selflessness, forgiveness, and compassion, it’s now. We need to give each and everyone an opportunity to see these practises in a practical and why they work. In this manner we learn to value one another and the rest will become automatic, given time and patience
My husband never forgives me, he said he does but all the time he brings back memories the past. Now we are divorcing because he order me not to text him or call him when I'm with my family, I did send him a picture for we laugh together later. Now he said I disobey him ( usually I made this kind of little mistakes ), if you found forgiveness between your couple, you are blessed person's
I'm suspecting my spouse and I can't find proof. It's been 3 months and I'm going crazy. Anyone whose spouse admits they are wronged and are remorsefull, you are very lucky. I would forgive my husband in a heartbeat, if he would confess and put an end to it. Not knowing for sure is the worst. May Allah grant me evidence so we can move forward. Please make dua for me. I need it a lot.
I agree. May Allah swt give us the right path to understand each other. Pray for me. I love my wife and kids more than myself but my wife didn’t understand it. Ya Allah please forgive us.
Don't cry.... May be u deserve someone better than him... My advice for u... Be strong n don't cry for him.. I know it's not easy but u have to do it.. Insha Allah u will definitely get better than him... One thing he don't love u if he really loves u.. He never broke up
Se it as a rehma, u should never make dua foe him to come back, but make dua if hes khair for u then let him come otherwise dont. For maybe allah hears ur dua, but later divorce becz maybe he wasnt khair for u.
13 years to my marriage got cheated on 10 time I've got three kids I've got nowhere to go to every time it happens I cry to Allah and ask for help may Allah protect all the girls from men's Like him I am tired fighting with this every time may Allah make it easy for me😞😢
I can feel your pain 💔 it's like living with a totally stranger person. May Allah Azzawajal give you strength to face this trial. And bless you and children with happiness, prosperity and peace of. Mind and heart. And hidyat to your husband. Ameen suma ameen
Salam My husband left me we are separated, I've got 4 kids and it's very hard to lookafter my own I can't drive too, I've got no one here but he's got all his family supporting him, please pray for me i want at least he lookafter kids
I gave my husband one too many chances because I didn’t want to go through the divorce but his behavior became worse and worse every day he became abusive I had to leave him before he hurt me
Is it possible after 8 years you both are together suggeat me its been 3 months and i am not in contact with my husband we faced a lot of problems for being togther but now my husband doesn't listen me not feels my emotion for him what should i do can you suggest .
May Allah give us Taufeeq to stay close to Quran. O Allah put khair in what I m about to do and choose it for me, May Allah turn my painful tears into tears of joy, Ya Allah please remind me that Your goodness will always be greater than my mistake
Please pray for me...i desperately want to live in peace with my husband in this world n the hereafter too.....may Allah help us all.. ameen yaa Rab ul alamin
My husband lie to me and cheated on me.. I caught him with a girl doing something very very wrong.. I am trying to forgive him it is very very hard... MayAllah help me.
@@reemasuzana6086 i am sorry this happens to you. Stay strong and if your husband is sorry and he want to change then forgive him if he is not sorry then leave him..
omg my husband does not forgive very fast I keep always begging and feel rejected like a dog at the end 😢 my days are black then until he forgives and even though he knows it was also his mistake. Its most of the time me asking for forgiveness and when I ask him why you take so long he tells me well 'Iam the man'. I hate this answer so much. Like isnt a man taught to forgive also, is it always the woman? I hate culture, because this was taught by culture not by Allah. I hate those days so much that I wish I was never married. Its enough that he doesnt show feelings a lot, but not forgive fast is to much for me.
I had the same issue. I always seek forgiveness and was shown as if it was always my mistake. When I found he is taking this for granted, whenever he did wrong, I asked him to apologize. Not even a single time, he is never ever sorry and at the end of the discussion, I was made to realize that I was the one who started fights and that I always fight, so If I want to live peacefully, I should not say anything whatever he does, neither to him nor to anyone. And I cant live peacefully with this. If u do 100 of good things to someone, there will be a point, when u also expect just one good thing from the other side, and it never happens and I always feel like trash, lost my job, lost my confidence. His family, relatives everyone humiliated me, as he never defends me and blame me in front of them. I dont understand what was my fault. I fought with my parents to marry this guy whose family has this haram tradition of exploitating money from bride's family. Looks like this is the azaab of going against ur family. I thought he is not like his parents but no, he has their blood..
@@muneeramalik5111 Sister there is nothing to worry as far as we have Allah by our side, pull yourself towards almighty. I listen to mufti menk and find peace in his words. And you are welcomed to talk, ping me @shab.extreme@g
There is no remorse or repentance from my husband for any of his actions which I won’t expose so I choose to walk away after over a year of trying to keep together a marriage that is one sided. May Allah forgive his short comings and give him good in this life and the next.
I’m sorry to hear it sister. Sometimes men are slow, they really don’t know how hurtful they are, they are emotionally void of feelings. I really don’t understand men.
May Allah forgive us all for making mistakes. None of us are perfect especially the women in the comments bashing the men. We all need to forgive, forget and be better.
I love my husband more than myself. I hate when I make him angry. Now he wants each other to be on our own, and Im looking forward to give up to food and water, donate my things, feed the animals in the remaining time. I can't live without him. He is the man I love and for whom Im ready to sacrifice anything. Im willing to drop out of school and leave my Mother, because she is a woman who had many men in her life and I dont have her in my heart as I had her when I was little. I would do anything, just to be his wife here and in the Hereafter. Tommorow I will take the train and go to see him. Please pray for me
Today, my husband left me because of his mother, we were in a relationship for 8 years and now married for 6 months. He suddenly turned so bad for his mother. Please pray for me to overcome this hardship
Same happened with me i was in a relationship since 10years and we faced alot of problems for being together but just after marriage he turned really bad .what should i do .i live with my mother not in contact with him since 3month
Sumya Sayed! You look like a Muslim. If yes! How come you were in relationship? It's totally Haram. Marriage only makes two persons living together Halal. You should sincerely repent and pray to Allah and ask for forgiveness and mercy. He will bring peace in your life. In Sha Allah
I converted from Hindu to Islam my wife is Muslim we have 1 daughter. I am trying my best to become better Muslim. I made some mistake I seek forgiven to Allah. I apology to my wife. Please pray for my family. My wife want to divorce.
Recently I have hurt my wife with my words, I have done it before and I have done it this time, now I am feeling the lowest person of the world. I don't deserve forgiveness. Smile on my wife's face has vanished. I believe I have made a grave mistake. I really don't know what to do now.
Salam Aleikum dear brothers and sisters. (Peace be upon you beautiful people) Let’s make Dua together and SAY AMEEN 🤲🏻 May Allah bring relief to every creature that is going thru hardship. Ameen 🤲🏻 May Allah protect all families from separation or divorce. Ameen 🤲🏻 May Allah help all animals in the world. Ameen May Allah help our dead hearts to soften up and humble our selves before Allah. Ameen May Allah have mercy on us and cleanse our hearts from evil. AMEEN YA ALLAH 🤲🏻 May Allah not take our souls until He is pleased with us. Ameen 🤲🏻 May Allah grant us all Jannatul Firdaus. Ameen 🤲🏻 May Allah protect us all from the devil. Ameen 🤲🏻
Brothers and sisters pls pray for me . Am gng through a very tough time.. fight between me and my husband. Mistake is mine. He is not ready to forgive me.he says he don't want me and don't wanna continue his life with me. Pls pray to Allah (SWT) to save my marriage. I love my husband and wanna live my life with him. Pls include us in your Dua.. I beg u brothers and sisters
@@fazminacassim408 am losing my hope day by day sister. Yesterday my husband said he doesn't wanna live with me. He hate girls now. He will live alone and said ne also live alone. I said I won't give divorce. He said not to give
I really don't know what happened between you two.but I'll tell you something it takes fraction of a second Allah to change a person's mind.keep praying it has happend to me and I know that.I have gone through a lot as well.loss hope depressed crying sobbing everything.but next think you know is it was big nightmare and you r happy.that's Allah.pls have Faith..I'll make dua inshallah.
My husband is a good man. Alhamdulillah. It's been 7 months till our marriage. But recently he is being very rude to me. I know he is under some pressure but he was in pressure before too but he wasn't this rude! Recently I felt like he is comparing me with one of his niece and making me feel low to her or i don't know... I'm not sure! Although I started the topic but how can he say "why don't you tolerate her(the niece)"? In a way of warning me that don't think about saying a bad thing about her! But I didn't like her honestly! I wouldn't say bad thing but I was only saying don't put me on low in front of her please and that was it! I don't want to think he is a bad person...
Please pray for me, my husband and I had a fight and he wants to end our marriage. I hit him in anger. I apologized many times. Please pray that he forgives me and comes back to me. I believe in Allah SWT.
U cant forgive him when have been cheating on u .right?when u left Everything for him,U left your mother and father and siblings,U accepted things that kills for him,when u have been trought the worst thing a woman can experience because of him,when he was the best Thing in your life,U would give him your heart if his stops beating,when u were living 24 hours of your life just to make him happy,when all your life it was about him. U cant forgive,
Still Allah forgive everything of spouse whatever or whoever committed mistake, in last all should be together, with happiness, we should forgive our spouses also . If we can forgive them, how Allah will forgive us.
still forgive him. one day we all will need Allah's forgiveness. today we forgive just think how much Allah will be happy from us. and this forgiveness will bring positive change in ur life
If a decent preacher like Mufti Menk can be banned by Singapore for flimsy reasons, Muslim countries should also ban Singaporean personalities too for whatever reasons. That's fair.
I just found out some huge news from my husband about his past, I felt sad but I'm more afraid will he be the same? It's only been 2 months of our marriage!!! Will we be able to be together? I am sooo scared! I don't know what to do! I don't want to loose him, ever! Please pray for us!
I have wronged my partner by not cheating but by lying. I lied to him about a person. I did the mistake but i lied so that our relation will not get destroyed. I m asking for his forgiveness but he is hurt. Plz for Allah sake pray for me that he to forgive me. I m seeking Allah's forgiveness. From that day my heart is aching. Suggest me how can i get my spouse back.
I’m 17 me and my husband been married for a couple months now we got into two weeks ago and he keep saying he’s going to divorce me we barely speak anymore and I feel horrible for disrespecting him but it was all out of anger I was having a bad day and he added onto it I been begging him to stay and it’s breaking my heart bc ion think he will please make dua for me brothers and sisters
My husband made me abort a child because his sister was barren at that time.now he wants a child after his sister has got one..and I am not able to forgive him till now.
How can it be possible if his sister was barren how can he order you to abort your child is this joke to him to abort a child just because his sister i thought this only happens in drama but this is reality sad for you .keep sabr and let Allah do his best for you forgive your husband and move on sometimes mind doesn't goes with heart and this happens shaitan force a human to do such sins .
What if you have been trying to work on things for so long and in the process you have no feelings left for them.Now they are not living me and still they are not providing for their children but think they should be let back in.
Alhamdulillah i have a good and understandable wife but due to some reason I can't control my evil act which resulted in voilence. I want to apology from my bottom of my heart and in accordance to sunnah. Please guide me the correct way. In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Asalam aleikum plz make dua for me we had an argument with my husband 2wks ago n until now he has been quite he has not spoken to me for 2wks.I hve tried cling n texting him but no response.Am rely stressed.
Okay what abt when you asked your husband for forgiveness because you hurts him deeply and he forgives you, then after some tymes he keeps on reminding you and saying he can't trust you again,,,, pls help
Everyone pray for me Allah give my husband back He is the best man I didn't gave the value to him before Allah give him back to me again InshAllah Ameen Prayers needed Whoever read my comment Please pray for me from Allah subhanathAllah
Mufti menk I have doubt that everyday I miss Dhur Salah because I'm going to school. After finishing the school and after coming to I used to pray immediately the Halah of dhur is this a right way Mufti Menk
Salam my brother I have been trying for 36 years but unfortunately unfortunately this man is so so stubborn my adult children have also tryed with no result before they blamed me now they know what he's like, u have to live with the person to know what they're like only Allah SWT know"s how much I have tried
I'm so upset. I live in aborad with my wife and daughter. It has been almost 5 years, and we are married. I take care of my wife and fulfill all her needs. Give her pocket money. But we cannot understand each other. she is so disrespectful to me and always thinks negatively about my parents. My parents live alone in Pakistan. I visit them every year. She doesn't like it and doesn't want to go to Pakistan. Even her parents are living in Pakistan. She never accepts her mistake, never says sorry first. 2 days ago, she disrespected me again. I said I don't want to talk to you anymore. she said ok, as you wish. :(. I don't know what I should do.
My name is Naikyll my wife name is Destiny, Can my brothers and sisters pray for us bc the devil trying so hard to break up what Allah have put together
@@alimamohammed8771 sister it's not cheating. It's past Allah has told not to reveal something that he has concealed. Don't u think that ur husband too had a past. He's just being clever by hiding it
my wife cheated on me for last couple of years I divorced her coz my family involved... I have to kids going through very hard times of my life please pray for me... that LORD show me the right path..
Why you divorced her because of your family. You your wife your kids are suffering now not your family. You would have sit calmly and discuss the things I know it's hard but you have to accept the situation. Kids will suffer alot in this situation not only now but in future also. I am a counselor. Thank you
After reading so many heart wrenching stories of struggling wives i now understand that why the prophet muhammad saw asked men to be kind to women.
Yeah there's a lot of heart breaking stories of husbands as well...I'd argue even more...your point ?....are you seriously trying to make this issue gender specific
@@ahmedcheikh3082 Yes we are. Husbands are for worst than wives. All over the world it is mostly men who physically abuse their wives. And cheat on them constantly.
@@ahmedcheikh3082 Not to mention leave them with cooking, housework, child rearing. Growing up I looked at my father and the men in my family and it was in shock. Aside from bringing in a salary, they were mostly useless. The women did everything.
Please make dua for me nd my hasbund that Allah grant us children ameen
Ameen
AMEEN
ameen
Nazila Shigival may allah bless you with a pious children ameen😊
Recite ya awwal for 1000 times for 40 days will help you in getting child. It's amazing name my sister it will help you, it has helped many people that I
know and try to eat healthy and reduce stress always be happy because anxiety kills our health and that prevents us from getting child . Always speak with your doctor about it. Do some home remedies for health. Pray about it and recite that inshallah you will be blessed with a child in no time. Sister everything is possible in life you just have to trust Allah he is listening . May Allah bless you and every sister ameen.
It shouldn’t just be about the children it should be about the spouses too. We deserve happiness/peace/security/love.
You are so right.
Should be about all of us.
We all deserve happiness.
A Wife/Husband can make any mistake in marriage and forgive each other but cheating crosses the red line, better to walk away than suffer, Allah gave every human being a brain and self control over themselves, cheating happens when someone willfully does it knowing what he/she is doing, its never a mistake nor can anyone force u to do it, so that person faces the consequences for it, thats why if u follow Quran and Sunnah Properly then its impossible for you to be in that situation from day 1. May Allah guide Us and Protect Us.Ameen
True
I always forgive my husband and he always forgive me what ever happened between us alhamdulillah 😇💑
MA SHA ALLAH
mashAllah ♥️
Allah huma barik laha, Mashallah, may Allah bless u and all other couples with happiness and peace,
Ameem sum ameen
Maa shaa Allah
Masha Allah
Plz make dua for me and my husband..may Allah make our relationship with our spouses strong.. more and more..
If my husband cheats on me and regrets bcs I cought him only I cannot stay with him. I was trying openly to talk and he was always denying no matter the proofs of how many he had. I could never be relaxed with him so I have chosen my inner peace and walked away.
I am also going through the same thing, it is difficult because we have 2 young children. It is destroying me inside but what do i do as my children love there father.
@@nursemargs1780 my story was same too. Recently had proof too. I was shattered. Made him confront in front of my family and his family. Now i have forgiven him as made it very clear that i will walk away along with my kids if things remain like this. I feel he is really guilty and won't repeat this again
@@andleebaziz5213 I had proof of his wrongs, and he denied everthing until I showed him the proof and he could not say anything. Its been 4 weeks since this happened and he has finally admitted his wrongs. I have forgiven him now but made it clear that I will leave with the kids if it happens again. This has been a 10 year battle for me, I am tired of it. It will be my last.
@@nursemargs1780 he had been cheating for ten yrs?
@@nursemargs1780 MaShaAllah may Allah swt reward you for all of your struggles and hardships abundantly
May Allah bless you mufti menk
Ameen
Aameen 🤲
Dear sheikh! I love u for Allah.
may allah protect us from unfaithful spouses.
mistakes can be forgiven u r right.
when it comes major like cheating or doing zina beside spouses, those things cannot be accepted. He/ she has a right to forgive or divorce.
May Allah protect us from those kind of situations.
Ameen
plz pray for me , my husband is not talking to me for a long time in anger . may allah forgive us and help us.
Do u know what is the problem?
Aameen 🤲🤲
May Allah bless with all happiness in this world and aakhirah too aameen🤲
R u guys k nw
May god reunite your family and reunite mine as well. Pray for both us.
I always cry 😢 listening too mufti menk cos he amazing
I wish my husband will be like him🌙 insha Allah….he is so understanding subhan Allah🌙
Thank you Mufti, your teachings are very inspirational to me personal. May Allah bless you and give you the many more years to guide his people. All praises be given to Allah
May Allah bless us to learn to forgive 🙏🏽inshallah
Masha ALLAH may ALLAH bless you mufti menk
Never will I leave Fatma she is a star for me. I love her so much
Ally Walid leave her
Sister I pray for you and it is very emotional too see all Muslim women suffer life like this I hope all the very best for you and I hope your husband does speak too you cos no women out their deserve a life like that hope too god you be bless and good luck for your future
Brothers and sister, please make dua for my married, my husband lost trust to me
I want my married to be back, I want to be better wife for my husband
🤲🤲🤲🤲
InshaaAllah
Ameen
Then you deserve it...let him go...he deserves better
What did you do?
That's right .when my husband make me angry I used to first say thavakkalthu alallah then only I will respond.everything will change.my respond will be very different after that.and the ending will be a lovely and a happy ending. it's a miracle.at the time I can understand my mind itself is even with Allah's control.i feel that a small decision making is only with us.may be wrong.
Brothers and sister, please make alot of dua for me. I am going through a severe trial and I have really hurt my wife with my words which I did not mean, which I could not control at that time due to other pressures. I let things bottle up and then said things to her. We both love each other but I feel she needs a lot of time away from me as I have hurt her badly with these words. Please ask Allah SWT to forgive me, to soften my wife's heart, to allow me to control my anger and to be the best husband I know I can be for her, I really want to fight for her. Ameen.
@S F it's important to know where u go wrong and I really appreciate the fact that u hurt her and trying hard to make up your mistake. Unfortunately many men in Asian countries do not even realise that they went wrong let alone correcting them. May Allah SWT grant immense love and respect in your marriage. Ameen. U r a true man to acknowledge the mistake. I really appreciate that.
Praying for you brother 🙏
May Allah swt make it easy for you brother and grant you what’s best. JazakAllah Khair for sharing.
My father has secret family and my mother doesn't know about this he's trying to give hints to us but it's like mental torture and due to evil magic by the other women now he hate us...but I cannot hate him back even if I want to I love my father so much... but he think I'm a very rude arrogant heartless person I'm very depressed and sad I don't know what to do please pray to Allah to help me😭
If there was ever a time for us, as a peoples, to show selflessness, forgiveness, and compassion, it’s now. We need to give each and everyone an opportunity to see these practises in a practical and why they work. In this manner we learn to value one another and the rest will become automatic, given time and patience
My husband never forgives me, he said he does but all the time he brings back memories the past. Now we are divorcing because he order me not to text him or call him when I'm with my family, I did send him a picture for we laugh together later. Now he said I disobey him ( usually I made this kind of little mistakes ), if you found forgiveness between your couple, you are blessed person's
are you both happy now?
Are you divorced now?
May Allah bless you brother more and more everyday.
Mufti menk please do dua for all off the Muslim women out their who are having problem with their marriage 🙏😢🙏🤲
I'm suspecting my spouse and I can't find proof. It's been 3 months and I'm going crazy. Anyone whose spouse admits they are wronged and are remorsefull, you are very lucky. I would forgive my husband in a heartbeat, if he would confess and put an end to it. Not knowing for sure is the worst. May Allah grant me evidence so we can move forward. Please make dua for me. I need it a lot.
I agree. May Allah swt give us the right path to understand each other. Pray for me. I love my wife and kids more than myself but my wife didn’t understand it. Ya Allah please forgive us.
Please pray brother and sisters
May Allah heals me and everyone 😭
Please make dua for my fiancee as he broke up two weeks before.. And i just want him back as soon as possible.. 😭😭😢😢😢😢 i am really in need of dua
ELy JacE ELsa MraZz Allah soon get him back Insha Allah
Allah apki madad kare
May Allah's blessings on you
Don't cry.... May be u deserve someone better than him... My advice for u... Be strong n don't cry for him.. I know it's not easy but u have to do it.. Insha Allah u will definitely get better than him... One thing he don't love u if he really loves u.. He never broke up
Se it as a rehma, u should never make dua foe him to come back, but make dua if hes khair for u then let him come otherwise dont. For maybe allah hears ur dua, but later divorce becz maybe he wasnt khair for u.
13 years to my marriage got cheated on 10 time I've got three kids I've got nowhere to go to every time it happens I cry to Allah and ask for help may Allah protect all the girls from men's Like him I am tired fighting with this every time may Allah make it easy for me😞😢
I can feel your pain 💔 it's like living with a totally stranger person. May Allah Azzawajal give you strength to face this trial. And bless you and children with happiness, prosperity and peace of. Mind and heart. And hidyat to your husband. Ameen suma ameen
Insha Allah, my Allah grant you the security you need
Brothers and sisters please pray for me as I am praying for forgiveness from my spouse for my mistakes 🙏🙏🙏
He clearly says " forgive ur spouse"
He slept with prostitutes in the past. I was a virgin. It's not fair, it's not easy to forgive even if he repented
Iam sorry for you sister,but atleast now he has become a good muslim man?
Salam
My husband left me we are separated, I've got 4 kids and it's very hard to lookafter my own I can't drive too, I've got no one here but he's got all his family supporting him, please pray for me i want at least he lookafter kids
May Allah make it easy sister be patient and rely on Allah SWT. In sha Allah this life is short may Allah make us among jannah people ameen
May Allah ease your hardships sister.
So basically sister your saying you want your back only bcz of you have four children and you can't afford things my allah help you
It's his duty to look after kids
I gave my husband one too many chances because I didn’t want to go through the divorce but his behavior became worse and worse every day he became abusive I had to leave him before he hurt me
Thank you Mufti menk for your words of wisdom I needed to hear you 2 day
Marshallah marshallah beautiful talk mufti menk may god grant you ameen
I can’t forgive my husband anymore I’ve been doing it for the past 4 years and I can’t do it anymore our marriage is falling apart 😞
I have forgave my wife after 8 years of break up now we are back together its because of Allah and my child i do. Mashallah
Is it possible after 8 years you both are together suggeat me its been 3 months and i am not in contact with my husband we faced a lot of problems for being togther but now my husband doesn't listen me not feels my emotion for him what should i do can you suggest .
@@manishrathore9685 leave him sister if u are independent
MashaAllah miracle happens
Trust Allah Sabr is a strong weapon sister. He will come back to you InshaAllah
May Allah give us Taufeeq to stay close to Quran.
O Allah put khair in what I m about to do and choose it for me,
May Allah turn my painful tears into tears of joy,
Ya Allah please remind me that Your goodness will always be greater than my mistake
Please pray for me...i desperately want to live in peace with my husband in this world n the hereafter too.....may Allah help us all.. ameen yaa Rab ul alamin
May Allah bless us this wonderful reminder make me.......
Please do pray for me.
I lost my loveliest relationship 🥺🥺
Going through badtime..
My husband is SO mean but I love him I hope May Allah make your wife to stay with you and for me to stay with my husband.
@@sababajwa93 do dua for me...
@@sababajwa93Ameen. And May ALLAH restore my marriage too! Ameen SumaAmeen 😞😭
@truth "May Allah make it easy for you and help you" , Aameen 🤲....
My husband lie to me and cheated on me.. I caught him with a girl doing something very very wrong.. I am trying to forgive him it is very very hard... MayAllah help me.
Humzah Malik may Allah give you peace in this world and paradise in the next life inshallah
Ameen...Thank you.
Humzah Malik did you forgive?my husband did same thing..that too within 2 months of wedding ..what I’m I supposed to do ?
@@reemasuzana6086 i have 3 kids with him i forgive him for Allah and my kids.
@@reemasuzana6086 i am sorry this happens to you. Stay strong and if your husband is sorry and he want to change then forgive him if he is not sorry then leave him..
omg my husband does not forgive very fast I keep always begging and feel rejected like a dog at the end 😢
my days are black then until he forgives and even though he knows it was also his mistake. Its most of the time me asking for forgiveness and when I ask him why you take so long he tells me well 'Iam the man'. I hate this answer so much. Like isnt a man taught to forgive also, is it always the woman?
I hate culture, because this was taught by culture not by Allah.
I hate those days so much that I wish I was never married.
Its enough that he doesnt show feelings a lot, but not forgive fast is to much for me.
Sister u r are a real wife material every good man looks for
I had the same issue. I always seek forgiveness and was shown as if it was always my mistake. When I found he is taking this for granted, whenever he did wrong, I asked him to apologize. Not even a single time, he is never ever sorry and at the end of the discussion, I was made to realize that I was the one who started fights and that I always fight, so If I want to live peacefully, I should not say anything whatever he does, neither to him nor to anyone. And I cant live peacefully with this. If u do 100 of good things to someone, there will be a point, when u also expect just one good thing from the other side, and it never happens and I always feel like trash, lost my job, lost my confidence. His family, relatives everyone humiliated me, as he never defends me and blame me in front of them. I dont understand what was my fault. I fought with my parents to marry this guy whose family has this haram tradition of exploitating money from bride's family. Looks like this is the azaab of going against ur family. I thought he is not like his parents but no, he has their blood..
@@ShabsQui i feel your pain sister i am in the exact same position
@@ShabsQui sister do you want to talk i am here as i did love marriage as well and same exact situation
@@muneeramalik5111 Sister there is nothing to worry as far as we have Allah by our side, pull yourself towards almighty. I listen to mufti menk and find peace in his words. And you are welcomed to talk, ping me @shab.extreme@g
Sometimes spouse think that forgiveness is her/his weakness!
My husband has cheated on me he is totally neglecting me and our son I want someone to pray for us
There is no remorse or repentance from my husband for any of his actions which I won’t expose so I choose to walk away after over a year of trying to keep together a marriage that is one sided. May Allah forgive his short comings and give him good in this life and the next.
I’m sorry to hear it sister. Sometimes men are slow, they really don’t know how hurtful they are, they are emotionally void of feelings. I really don’t understand men.
Brothers and sisters pray for me and my wife we are going through a tough time and need to forgive
Please make dua for me for my husband to treat me better Ameen
May Allah forgive us all for making mistakes. None of us are perfect especially the women in the comments bashing the men. We all need to forgive, forget and be better.
Forgiveness is divine
Please pray for me that my wife forgives me for Allahs sake...
Aameen 🤲🤲
Please make dua for me, please make dua that Allah accepts my duas. May Allah bless you more and more ameen.
I love my husband more than myself. I hate when I make him angry. Now he wants each other to be on our own, and Im looking forward to give up to food and water, donate my things, feed the animals in the remaining time. I can't live without him. He is the man I love and for whom Im ready to sacrifice anything. Im willing to drop out of school and leave my Mother, because she is a woman who had many men in her life and I dont have her in my heart as I had her when I was little. I would do anything, just to be his wife here and in the Hereafter. Tommorow I will take the train and go to see him. Please pray for me
Hope my wife forgives inshaallah .ive hurt her really badly
Syed Shah the self realization is biggest forgiveness from Allah, may Allah soften your wife heart for u, she forgives u, ameen
yes its huge that you recognized it already thats really a big step keep going to get her heart back
Plz brother in Islam, plz plz plz for the sake of ALLAH SWT, never ever betray her..... U may loose her
I hope she does.
C
Pray for me... I'm trying to get the things better.
Today, my husband left me because of his mother, we were in a relationship for 8 years and now married for 6 months. He suddenly turned so bad for his mother. Please pray for me to overcome this hardship
Same happened with me i was in a relationship since 10years and we faced alot of problems for being together but just after marriage he turned really bad .what should i do .i live with my mother not in contact with him since 3month
Sumya Sayed!
You look like a Muslim. If yes! How come you were in relationship? It's totally Haram. Marriage only makes two persons living together Halal.
You should sincerely repent and pray to Allah and ask for forgiveness and mercy. He will bring peace in your life. In Sha Allah
@@rizwanwasi7019 I’m sure she’s already aware of that. That’s not what she’s asking for
@@rizwanwasi7019 y u are commenting on a woman's comments. That's also haram
Please make dua that me and my husband come back to eachother, insha'allah 🤲
I converted from Hindu to Islam my wife is Muslim we have 1 daughter. I am trying my best to become better Muslim. I made some mistake I seek forgiven to Allah. I apology to my wife. Please pray for my family. My wife want to divorce.
Mashaallah may allah swt bless you
Aameen
Jazak Allah kairan, Mufti Menk
WAllah I've tried to be critical towards him
His virtues break the chains
Recently I have hurt my wife with my words, I have done it before and I have done it this time, now I am feeling the lowest person of the world. I don't deserve forgiveness. Smile on my wife's face has vanished. I believe I have made a grave mistake. I really don't know what to do now.
Any kind of abuse is not allowed,, also Verbal abuse its not allowed in islam. There is a lecture about it ,
Try to go to marriage counseling. Find out why are you behave this way.
what to do if husband keeps doing same sins and not repenting
Salam Aleikum dear brothers and sisters.
(Peace be upon you beautiful people)
Let’s make Dua together and SAY AMEEN 🤲🏻
May Allah bring relief to every creature that is going thru hardship. Ameen 🤲🏻
May Allah protect all families from separation or divorce. Ameen 🤲🏻
May Allah help all animals in the world. Ameen
May Allah help our dead hearts to soften up and humble our selves before Allah. Ameen
May Allah have mercy on us and cleanse our hearts from evil. AMEEN YA ALLAH 🤲🏻
May Allah not take our souls until He is pleased with us. Ameen 🤲🏻
May Allah grant us all Jannatul Firdaus. Ameen 🤲🏻
May Allah protect us all from the devil. Ameen 🤲🏻
Brothers and sisters pls pray for me . Am gng through a very tough time.. fight between me and my husband. Mistake is mine. He is not ready to forgive me.he says he don't want me and don't wanna continue his life with me. Pls pray to Allah (SWT) to save my marriage. I love my husband and wanna live my life with him. Pls include us in your Dua.. I beg u brothers and sisters
I will do duwa for you..InshahAllah evetything will workout for you.
@@saramalik274 inshallah..
Keep asking dua inshallah Allah will help you and show you the right path.
@@fazminacassim408 am losing my hope day by day sister. Yesterday my husband said he doesn't wanna live with me. He hate girls now. He will live alone and said ne also live alone. I said I won't give divorce. He said not to give
I really don't know what happened between you two.but I'll tell you something it takes fraction of a second Allah to change a person's mind.keep praying it has happend to me and I know that.I have gone through a lot as well.loss hope depressed crying sobbing everything.but next think you know is it was big nightmare and you r happy.that's Allah.pls have Faith..I'll make dua inshallah.
My husband is a good man. Alhamdulillah. It's been 7 months till our marriage. But recently he is being very rude to me. I know he is under some pressure but he was in pressure before too but he wasn't this rude! Recently I felt like he is comparing me with one of his niece and making me feel low to her or i don't know... I'm not sure! Although I started the topic but how can he say "why don't you tolerate her(the niece)"? In a way of warning me that don't think about saying a bad thing about her! But I didn't like her honestly! I wouldn't say bad thing but I was only saying don't put me on low in front of her please and that was it! I don't want to think he is a bad person...
May Allah bless you with all happiness and success in this world and aakhirah too aameen🤲
Please pray for me, my husband and I had a fight and he wants to end our marriage. I hit him in anger. I apologized many times. Please pray that he forgives me and comes back to me. I believe in Allah SWT.
Has he come back ?
How much time you both had a fight can you tell me i am suffering from same pain
Why you hit him to even begin with?
U cant forgive him when have been cheating on u .right?when u left Everything for him,U left your mother and father and siblings,U accepted things that kills for him,when u have been trought the worst thing a woman can experience because of him,when he was the best Thing in your life,U would give him your heart if his stops beating,when u were living 24 hours of your life just to make him happy,when all your life it was about him.
U cant forgive,
Yeah same here i still dont know what to do
Still Allah forgive everything of spouse whatever or whoever committed mistake, in last all should be together, with happiness, we should forgive our spouses also .
If we can forgive them, how Allah will forgive us.
still forgive him. one day we all will need Allah's forgiveness. today we forgive just think how much Allah will be happy from us. and this forgiveness will bring positive change in ur life
If a decent preacher like Mufti Menk can be banned by Singapore for flimsy reasons, Muslim countries should also ban Singaporean personalities too for whatever reasons. That's fair.
Are there any " Muslim countries" in the world? Plz sit back and think about it. Yaum al Qiyaamah approaching fast
maitangni of course.
Az Zukhruf 61 Luqman 34 Maryam 33 34 Al maidah 68 Ali Imron 45
I just found out some huge news from my husband about his past, I felt sad but I'm more afraid will he be the same? It's only been 2 months of our marriage!!! Will we be able to be together? I am sooo scared! I don't know what to do! I don't want to loose him, ever! Please pray for us!
May Allah bless you with all happiness and success in this world and Aakhirah too Aameen🤲
@@shagaffaridi1530 ameen
Beautifully expressed 🙇🙏
I have wronged my partner by not cheating but by lying. I lied to him about a person. I did the mistake but i lied so that our relation will not get destroyed. I m asking for his forgiveness but he is hurt. Plz for Allah sake pray for me that he to forgive me. I m seeking Allah's forgiveness. From that day my heart is aching. Suggest me how can i get my spouse back.
please sheik share this in ur facebook page I want upload it and send to my husband to be in sha Allah, May Allah bless you sheik Ameen
May Allah foegive us and makes things easier for us
Jazakallahkair brother
I’m 17 me and my husband been married for a couple months now we got into two weeks ago and he keep saying he’s going to divorce me we barely speak anymore and I feel horrible for disrespecting him but it was all out of anger I was having a bad day and he added onto it I been begging him to stay and it’s breaking my heart bc ion think he will please make dua for me brothers and sisters
My husband made me abort a child because his sister was barren at that time.now he wants a child after his sister has got one..and I am not able to forgive him till now.
How can it be possible if his sister was barren how can he order you to abort your child is this joke to him to abort a child just because his sister i thought this only happens in drama but this is reality sad for you .keep sabr and let Allah do his best for you forgive your husband and move on sometimes mind doesn't goes with heart and this happens shaitan force a human to do such sins .
What if you have been trying to work on things for so long and in the process you have no feelings left for them.Now they are not living me and still they are not providing for their children but think they should be let back in.
Then he is proving he really doesn't want the marriage and is not willing to do the work. Allahu Alim. Jazakah Allah Khair.
Alhamdulillah i have a good and understandable wife but due to some reason I can't control my evil act which resulted in voilence. I want to apology from my bottom of my heart and in accordance to sunnah. Please guide me the correct way. In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Asalam aleikum plz make dua for me we had an argument with my husband 2wks ago n until now he has been quite he has not spoken to me for 2wks.I hve tried cling n texting him but no response.Am rely stressed.
Now he his ok with you
please dua for me and my hudband too
Okay what abt when you asked your husband for forgiveness because you hurts him deeply and he forgives you, then after some tymes he keeps on reminding you and saying he can't trust you again,,,, pls help
Why you hurt him?
Everyone pray for me Allah give my husband back
He is the best man
I didn't gave the value to him before
Allah give him back to me again InshAllah
Ameen
Prayers needed
Whoever read my comment
Please pray for me from Allah subhanathAllah
Pls make Dua for my wife and I to reunite
Mufti menk I have doubt that everyday I miss Dhur Salah because I'm going to school. After finishing the school and after coming to I used to pray immediately the Halah of dhur is this a right way Mufti Menk
Salam my brother I have been trying for 36 years but unfortunately unfortunately this man is so so stubborn my adult children have also tryed with no result before they blamed me now they know what he's like, u have to live with the person to know what they're like only Allah SWT know"s how much I have tried
Pl pray fr me brothers n sisters i m going through a hard time with my husband
Hope everything workout with u and ur husband
Prayers for you. May Allah Azzawajal bless you happiness and peace. Ameen suma ameen
May Allah bless hwith all happiness and success in this world and Aakhirah too Aameen 🤲🤲
I'm so upset. I live in aborad with my wife and daughter. It has been almost 5 years, and we are married. I take care of my wife and fulfill all her needs. Give her pocket money.
But we cannot understand each other. she is so disrespectful to me and always thinks negatively about my parents. My parents live alone in Pakistan. I visit them every year. She doesn't like it and doesn't want to go to Pakistan. Even her parents are living in Pakistan. She never accepts her mistake, never says sorry first. 2 days ago, she disrespected me again. I said I don't want to talk to you anymore. she said ok, as you wish. :(. I don't know what I should do.
Asalamoalikm everyone…
Please make dua for me , I m going through a difficult phase in my married life .
ُوٙ عٙليكُم السٙلام وٙرٙحٙمٙةُ اللّهِ وٙبركاتُه
Allah make it easy
Please I need your dua. My marriage is shaky and I love my husband and want my marriage to work
Please Everyone Dua for me, My wife do forgive me and we Can start our life together again.
Ameen🤲
I hope too god you and your husband can start talking I know how you feel
So what happens when the person cheats more than once? Just call it a 'mistake' & let them do it again, live with it I see.
My parents want me to divorce my husband over my mistake but they think it’s his mistak but I wanna go back to him even if I have to leave my family 😭
sarah shazad I am going through the same thing sister. May Allah guide us
I know of a man who helped me
Get my husband back
sarah shazad I know of a man
sarah shazad that helped me
My name is Naikyll my wife name is Destiny, Can my brothers and sisters pray for us bc the devil trying so hard to break up what Allah have put together
what about if u sin before marriage.... and now ur husband didn't forgiving.... what to doo
You pray and have sabr
Y did u talk abt it to ur husband
@@raees140 because i dont want to betray him
@@alimamohammed8771 sister it's not cheating. It's past Allah has told not to reveal something that he has concealed. Don't u think that ur husband too had a past. He's just being clever by hiding it
my wife cheated on me for last couple of years I divorced her coz my family involved... I have to kids going through very hard times of my life please pray for me... that LORD show me the right path..
Ameen brother InshahAllah things will get better
Why you divorced her because of your family. You your wife your kids are suffering now not your family. You would have sit calmly and discuss the things I know it's hard but you have to accept the situation. Kids will suffer alot in this situation not only now but in future also.
I am a counselor.
Thank you
Maashallah great advice
Plz I want to convert my wife to become a Muslim plz I need my brothers and sisters to pray for me,for God tu make it easy for me!
Ameen
you could've just married a muslim.