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2nd story: He’s still grieving. It wouldn’t matter if it was his sister in law or any other woman. He says he betrayed his dead wife. He may have feelings for his sister in law but until he can get pass “betraying “ his dead wife, it’s not going to work. Time for therapy to help him through his grief.
The second one really isn't a moral question to ask the internet. It's so personal that the decision can only be actually decided by the people themselves I think.
The story on the guy who is attracted to Colombian and Asian women sounds so much like a porn addiction, and thats a whole red flag on its own
I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences but to say that the person you're dating race is unattractive is wild. Like, what If an Asian or Columbian woman come into his life, he's gonna leave her?
@@khina3061 its the way of saying it for me, it screams so much "i look at +18 websites too much"
First story: I notice that she stated off calling him her fiancé but ended by calling him her boyfriend. I think that she made the right choice. This guy is not marriage material. Move on. Second story: Tough one. I imagine that they were both feeling sad about the death, and both were drinking. She felt close to him, and he felt close to her, and she probably reminded him of his deceased wife. I would not say that he betrayed his wife, as she is dead. Since this is bothering him so much, he needs to make sure that it doesn't happen again. Otherwise, if he wants to pursue a relationship with her, he needs to be prepared for other peoples' reactions. Third story: This guy needs to learn to keep his mouth shut, especially when he's drinking. He might have irreparably damaged his relationship with her.
Second story..the fellow shouldn't feel bad.. it's not betrayal, and it's quite understandable for you to develop feelings for your sister in law, as she's been there for you as a friend when you needed one.
I think he should heal and move on first before dating someone else, since it might not work out if he constantly feels like he's betraying his wife.
Agree with both of you. Also, the sister (in law) knew the wife really well, so I imagine that would be a comforting thing in a future relationship with the husband, that he never has to explain anything about his dead wife. But yeah if he feels this bad about it it's doomed whatever way you think about it, some grieving counselling might help them all
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lie id rather have my future husband marry someone the next day after i pass than one of my sisters lolz
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That third story, it just sounds like he's with her until he can find someone he likes better.
That's what I was thinking
The second story it’s tough. I mean personally I would be upset if I were the dead wife. HOWEVER, if a substantial amount of time has passed then I don’t expect him to grieve forever. But I do agree that the relationship does feel “wrong” just because it’s her little sister. While I definitely feel like he can explore what he wants, I also think he should be careful. As you say, it’s very likely they are both just grieving and found comfort in each other. Shared trauma and all that which could be a problem later on
Yeah, it sounds like a trauma bond to me which is very unhealthy
If I was his wife and I truly loved him, yes I could also be upset but in the end I would want him to have a happy life where he can be with the right person without guilt
@@PooSkids it could be, but as he said- they’ve been good friends for a while. And he didn’t go into detail about their happy moments. Just his own guilt and mixed feelings
i get you but you can truly love someone and not want them to get with your sister@@jwideuluisinaein
@@chiomorii Yeah, I understand that but it does look like a trauma bond to me from what was stated tbh.
Wow. These stories throw me off so much. Like, keep uploading them ofc, but I'm aroace, and every time, I'm like, "Well, surely I'm not the only one who thinks these two should stay together." Others are like, "WOAH BREAK UP!" And I just feel so off. Makes sense for me, though, because I'm an aroace person who's never even had a crush and who just thinks love is actually crazy and weird.
For what it's worth I'm not ace and I'm surprised by how extreme a lot of these people's reactions are too 😅
But admittedly I haven't had a lot of experience with romance myself either
As a married straight girl, can confirm... Love is crazy and weird. You're seeing it right, lol.
That "prank" in the first story is so bad it doesn't even register as cruel. It's just so... boring?
The guy's response is a different issue, of course. He's calling her stupid for trusting him.
I'm going to blame Tiktok for this one. Too many people watching clips of pranks without context and they think they can recreate them IRL.
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2nd story, he didn't betray his wife. He can marry her sister and it's morally fine. In some cultures, a man marrying the sister's widow is seen as the right thing to do, to preserve the family.
My culture is one of them but that doesn’t make it right for preserving family or whatever! If they fall in love later that is okay - but cultures making it an obligation is just wrong
@@PratyushaMishra I don't think the OP implied it should be an obligation, just that it's not that big of a taboo.
Culturally right and morally right are not the same thing. In certain cultures it’s okay to kill someone for being gay.
I think OP should heal and move on from his wife's passing before getting together with anyone else, since it's not right for him if it feels like betrayal, especially if it's his sister in law.
In my culture it is seen as wrong to marry your wifes sister. So for me it was an immediate no. But if his culture allows it then thats god for him. Persnally, i think its weird to be with your dead wifes sister.
First story: If this guy/ man was really sorry for 2 weeks or so, and says he will never do this again I would forgive him, but if he does something like that again, I would think about divorce, if I was a girl.
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Second story:
I can definitely see the mixed feelings in this one. For sure, they found comfort in each other due to the loss of their loved one. If the guy didn’t express any remorse, I would think it’s a bit iffy but the fact that he’s just drowning in guilt shows how torn he is and likely loved his wife a lot to be feeling like he betrayed her after she had already passed. It’s been 2 years and he’s been depressed over her passing. Personally I couldn’t imagine doing that with my spouse’s sibling but I also agree that they both shouldn’t be stuck in sorrow forever or put their happiness on hold due to guilt. There will definitely be friends or family who will disapprove, but it’s really only up to the two people involved in the relationship. My best thoughts on this would be to get some therapy and heal from the guilt and passing of his wife first before even getting into any relationship.
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Anyways some thoughts: I’ve read like two stories about such topics where one case had a man lose his arranged fiancée and ended up getting together with his fiancée’s sister. And another where a woman lost her husband and ended up getting together with his best friend 4 years after her husband passed. In both cases they shared happy memories and understanding of the loss they had. They comforted each other as they both understood what they were going through and didn’t feel uncomfortable talking about the loss of their loved on together as opposed to others who weren’t as familiar with them.
For the woman, she was very depressed to the point of wanting to unalive herself, it was the best friend that pushed her to live and helped her get better. They continued to be friends and got together 4 years later. For the best friend, he had actually liked the woman, but resolved himself to never confess out of respect for his friend- it wasn’t until after his passing that he realized he should get his own happiness instead of wasting time regretting.
1st story- it was messed up that he called her stupid, I just don't think their humor matches. I think the prank was chill, but I grew up around this stuff. I don't think he's a complete jerk, I just don't think they match well. I think he thought the prank would go well, but it obviously didn't.
2nd story- Not something many people would do. That seems wrong to me, but in some places, it's fine. So idk man.
3rd story- idk I hear a lot of people saying their celebrity crushes and talking to each other like openly admitting that they'd bang 'this celebrity', and to me this isn't much different, plus he was drunk, and he didn't say she was unattractive, in fact he's said she's attractive, and op said he's always complimenting her, yeah? So what's the big deal?
My aroace perspective probably sounds so off to y'all, sorry.
The first one is too messy. Take time away. I think they might be confusing their new bond through grief with romatic feelings.
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2nd story my mom did the same thing lol, after she divorced dad she got with this guy and was gonna introduce us(her kids) to him after they got engaged but he od'd(i think on alcohol) and is now engaged to his cousin (3.5/4 years later)
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2nd story, i don’t see any wrong if he marries his late wife’s sister. I assume the sister was single when this consentual sex happened.
second story : there is nothing wrong about it and feeling are mutual parents will understand it give it a go .
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Okay #1, being with your late wifes sister, isn't so unusual as it seems. But on the other hand grief is a place to visit not stay. He needs to learn to live with the loss. He is feeling guilty over wanting to move on. There is nothing wrong with that. And his late wife probably wouldn't be that weirded out about it if she saw them. She would want him to be happy. He doesn't think he deserves to move on. He's young, there is no reason he can't move on. Too young to stay in this grief. Put it away, and before anyone thinks, oh you don't understand, yes I do. I've had many losses in my life, including my late husband. But you have to put your past away. It's fine. to move on. You will never ever forget your late spouse. And believe me, you don't think for a moment that the parents can't see what is going on? Come on now. Moms know. So unless you've been in this position DO NOT JUDGE, unless you've walked in his shoes, you do not know. But it's fine for him to move on. He's too young to live alone for the rest of his life.
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first story: that is so sad & cruel honestly they should breakup.
second story: i feel like he should get some therapy. bc he is still grieving his late wife but wants to pursue in late wife sister. i just feel like griving & romantic feelings/situations are just not a good mix.
story 3: it sounds like a p*rn addiction that's so werid & gross why the h*ll would you say that to your gf.
The second story, personally I think it is very much a crappy thing to do, from the sister and from the guy. I would never be able to be with my DEAD sisters husband, especially knowing they’ve done stuff together for one but also like it just seems messed up, replacing all the memories with your wife, with her sister!? If this happened to me and I came back to life and found that out I would be horrified and go no contact.
2nd story: if I were to die I'd love my husband to have someone good and caring like my sister to be with, but my sister's married so a lot would have to happen in order for them to be together. Anyway, I'd be sad if he was alone after I passed 😢 if much rather him be with her, but maybe that's just me idk
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The second story! For thousands of years this was perfectly normal. People getting bent out of shape are selfish. Just let people be happy, they don't need to spend the rest of their lives being in misery because you're gone.
nah i think people are just upset cause its a sibling which i wouldnt say is selfish ngl/nm
Personally i would find it weird ,if i was the sibling ,I wouldn't get together with my sister/brother's spouse .......it seem inappropriate for me and it kinda feels like I'm betraying mu sibling too.
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So i don't think it's selfish honestly
It's just people have different opinions on this .
Second story: I think it's really quite common to fall in love with someone who was close to your lost love, I've read and heard about many cases of widows or widowers later marrying the best friend or sibling of their deceased partner, as people come together in grief and if the new spouse knew the spouse who passed away, it can make it easier to keep their memories alive and for the dead person to still play an important role in the future. People say things like that they don't need to feel awkward about mentioning their dead husband/wife at important life events or milestones, as the new partner also thinks about them at moments like that.
So, if the husband and sister in law really get to like each other a few years after the wife died, I wih them all the best. The issue here is that OP feels so bad about it, not that they have whatever type of relationship.
Personally, if I imagined myself to be the wife's ghost, I'd be happy for my husband to find happiness again with someone I also love(d) a lot, like my sister or best friend.
The second story is sad and I understand that the husband feels terrible, but it's not really wrong because in the Bible, God says that marriage is "until death do you part", and He even says that a man is allowed to marry the sister-in-law. Of course, in some cases if someone does believe that something is wrong for him or her to do, then either of them don't have to do it.
I honestly don't know what I would do because I hope to be with my future husband forever, but I'm not sure if I would want to marry a sibling of my future husband.
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maybe im crazy but like bro THE SISTER ??? you can date anyone else idk i guess yeah there happy but its kinda in poor taste
Story one: My parents are furious because they really believed he was a good guy. They support my decision to break up 100%
Edit: Thank you all very much! I'm going to break up with him and ask my parents for assistance in getting my stuff out just in case he has a tantrum.
Story 2: I’ve read this story before, updates later saying the mother and daughter have been discussing this for 6 months, and the father is fine with it. They end up together, name their new baby daughter after his late wife/her sister.
Story 3: Yeah he's allowed to have his preferences, which is what I said. Almost everyone I know has a type of some sort. But at the same time, it seemed a little objectifying. And when he said he's never seen anyone at all in my nationality attractive (except for me) that hurt. Especially since I look like the stereotypical type of my nationality is.
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3rd story, he was drunk. Drunk people cannot think straight. They just act on impulse. So ... let it slide.
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, now she should be use to this by now because after all she's been with him for three years. She might've been completely hurt because there was no house, but come on he don't seem that advanced to me to afford a houseb on his own anyway. In the second story, I don't know what to say here except they were both grieving, reminiscing about his late wife/her sister, and things just happened but in a loving way though. He's putting way to much pressure on himself for an innocent mistake. Him and his sister in law were both grieving over someone whom they both loved very dearly, and it just happened. In the third story, he is a complete AH for even saying that to her and she needs to leave him right away because he don't love her at all. I love you my friend!! Have a great day, good night from me!! Stay safe!!