Gender Pronouns: Using ‘THEY’, ‘THEIR’, and ‘THEM’ for a single person in English

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  • Do you notice people sometimes use the plural pronouns THEY, THEM, and THEIR when talking about one person? In this lesson I’ll explain why this is done to avoid specifying male or female gender. I’ll give some example sentences to show how it works, and I’ll include a test that we can do together towards the end of the video. And there’s also a quiz over on www.engvid.com for you to test your understanding: www.engvid.com/gender-pronoun...
    More of my lessons about pronouns in English:
    Learn English: THOU, THEE, THY, THINE • Learn English: THOU, T...
    5-Minute English: WHO, WHOM, WHOSE, WHO'S • 5-Minute English: WHO,...
    In this lesson:
    00:00 The normal usage of they/them/their for plurals
    01:42 How to use they/them/their for male/female singular
    05:31 Preferred pronouns
    08:12 Practice: they/them/their for avoiding gender-specific language

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  • @engvidGill
    @engvidGill  Рік тому +69

    Thank you for watching, everyone! Next, watch some of my other videos about English pronouns:
    Learn English: THOU, THEE, THY, THINE ua-cam.com/video/DH1ADfs0_xY/v-deo.html
    5-Minute English: WHO, WHOM, WHOSE, WHO'S ua-cam.com/video/bash3DXnyWU/v-deo.html

    • @flawyerlawyertv7454
      @flawyerlawyertv7454 Рік тому +1

      Thanks a lot! 💛

    • @aysegulgoknar
      @aysegulgoknar Рік тому +1

      A very productive lesson again, thank You Dear Madam Gill. Wish You a happy week, greetings from Turkey.

    • @cantfindclips
      @cantfindclips Рік тому +1

      “My siblings are coming over next week.”
      “What are their names?”

    • @SoyBillonaria777
      @SoyBillonaria777 Рік тому +2

      I'd spend a whole day listening to your explanations with that lovely accent of yours.
      Thank you, Gill!! 🌷🌷🌷

  • @DekRean9
    @DekRean9 Рік тому +77

    ❤My best teacher 👩‍🏫 ever ❤

  • @offer17388
    @offer17388 Рік тому +58

    Dear teacher Gill, Thanks for your invaluable lessons to your devoted followers on UA-cam. I send you greetings from Veracruz, Mexico.

  • @whiteangel127
    @whiteangel127 Рік тому +30

    Thank you! Finally, there is someone answering my question. I've already thought about how to address it if I don't know the gender of the subject.

  • @TheMakoyou
    @TheMakoyou Рік тому +6

    I never learned the word "hers" in junior high school, so I was shocked to learn it now. I was also shocked to learn that the sentence "This book is his" is correct.
    I thought that "his" always had to be followed by a noun. I had learned it that way.
    However, I learned it 40 years ago, so I checked with my 20-year-old daughter, and she said she had learned about "hers" & "his".
    I don't think I had forgotten about them, because in junior high school I was always at the top of my English class.😅

  • @mou-bobbyfunclub2775
    @mou-bobbyfunclub2775 Рік тому +4

    I am from India. You are one of the best English teachers in the world. I pray that God make you happy and enrich. Being a wise prudent teacher you are adorable and commendable to us.

  • @bixby451
    @bixby451 Рік тому +6

    My favorite English teacher in the world. Thank you Ms. Gill!

  • @abdulkabia8486
    @abdulkabia8486 Рік тому +19

    Hello Mrs Gill .It is good to hear from you in a long time.Thank you for making this educational video.

  • @beatastrawa
    @beatastrawa Рік тому +10

    Despite my age, I am still learning English and unfortunately it is not perfect. These classes and the professor allow me to understand a lot. Thank you very much.

  • @AGabriellbliss
    @AGabriellbliss Рік тому +26

    This goes beyond grammar Gill ✨️we need more acts that promotes understanding among society. Thank you for the awareness !💡

  • @enniruth
    @enniruth Рік тому +3

    thank you for keeping they/them/their in its correct terminology.

  • @abiliosantos1388
    @abiliosantos1388 Рік тому +2

    I really need to say: Gill, you're the best English teacher!

  • @devjanichakraborty6204
    @devjanichakraborty6204 Рік тому +2

    Dear Ma'am Gill,
    I have liked your lesson on Gender Pronoun ! Here,i would like to say that when we mention someone's name,automatically the gender of the person is revealed.Then the gender of the pronoun goes according to the gender of the Proper Noun.
    When we don't mention someone's name specifically,as mentioned in the lesson as 'speaker' or 'cousin' then the gender is not revealed so the pronouns 'they','them' or 'their' can be used.
    Obviously,there is a certain rule about grammar,which one has to follow !
    Thanks 😃

  • @Amramr-rg8ip
    @Amramr-rg8ip Рік тому +4

    Magnificent explanation for the lesson

  • @TheCamillo4ka
    @TheCamillo4ka Рік тому +8

    Thanks a lot, Gill! It’s really useful, now I know how it’s used.
    In Uzbek “u” is gender non-specific he/she/it, “ular” is gender non-specific they. But interestingly, when talking about a person, singular, “ular” is usually used out of respect. And the affix of plurals is added to verbs following “ular”.
    In Russian “he” is used as a gender non-specific pronoun. Rarely “he or she”. “They” is never used,except by some young people that think of themselves as of non-binary, and that are treated by others as freaks, cause not only older people consider it… inappropriate, but also younger people too. Like it’s that gay/gender bullshit, and Russia will not follow Gayrope, blah-blah-blah😒

  • @omboromoreka6731
    @omboromoreka6731 Рік тому +2

    I am from Kenya we use the British English but I have learned alot mostly pronunciation,You the best mum

  • @vaneney8574
    @vaneney8574 Рік тому +3

    Thank you very much for this clear and interesting video! I haven't learned this way of using "they", "their", and "them" in school and I find it to be very useful :)

  • @beaslay8045
    @beaslay8045 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for posting this video

  • @aks721990
    @aks721990 Рік тому +2

    I used to watch ur videos (call me crazy) cuz they calmed me , but somewhere back in my mind i had doubts cuz u know , now i love u even more

  • @bahdanshyshkin7918
    @bahdanshyshkin7918 Рік тому +1

    In slavic languages there’s no such problem in general - nouns change their endings based off the gender - for example the word “cousin” is кузин (male) and кузинА (female). So the implied gender is usually very obvious

  • @davidvieira1
    @davidvieira1 Рік тому +2

    Thank you very much Gill. Greetings from Brazil.

  • @serviceparkjanjak3523
    @serviceparkjanjak3523 Рік тому +1

    We love you, Gill, many thanks to you, the most intelligent person and teacher in the world! From 🇰🇿.

  • @thgr4042
    @thgr4042 Рік тому +1

    Thank you very much for your fantastic lessons, dear Gill! I have recently found your channel. Could you make videos of adjectives, characterising certain objects or a person/people. I have learned many words, but sometimes it is difficult to use them in correct situations or with right nouns or vice versa. You are really a genuine TEACHER!

  • @englishforre.1458
    @englishforre.1458 Рік тому

    Very important lesson where anyone could go wrong. Using they, their, and them for singular is something wonderful!

  • @MariaOrtega-ch5no
    @MariaOrtega-ch5no Рік тому +1

    My Best English teacher ever! Thank you for this lesson it is really helpful. I've been speaking english for so many years and learn this until today, my goodness. Thank you you are wonderful.

  • @worldofNIMEE
    @worldofNIMEE Рік тому +4

    Very helpful

  • @prashantmishra1994
    @prashantmishra1994 Рік тому +1

    Hi Gill! It's always been a wonderful experience to watch your videos.The reason they are great is because your all lessons are interesting and share all relevant information.
    Thanks a lot.

  • @emiliyailieva9094
    @emiliyailieva9094 Рік тому

    Thank you Gill for the fantastic explanation. Have a good week!

  • @JuliaDutta
    @JuliaDutta Рік тому +3

    Most interesting lesson Gill - including gendre in your lesson is very progresdive. I am more with it when we include all gendre on the they ( them. safe and polite I shpild think.

    • @JuliaDutta
      @JuliaDutta Рік тому

      Lots of errors in spelling. Having trouble seeing clearly due to eye operation but cpuld stop from congrayulating on they/them - splendid!

  • @thexcodexofxvulgar
    @thexcodexofxvulgar Рік тому +8

    gill thank you for not only being incredibly sweet and helpful but also welcoming and accepting that languages develop and we might to adapt to them. cheers to you!!!!

  • @a46man1
    @a46man1 Рік тому +3

    Thanks . It is new for me.

  • @Sharky857
    @Sharky857 Рік тому +22

    Having a pronoun that can be used as gender neutral is so helpful! My native language is lacking something like this, so we have to find alternative ways to write gender neutral terms by replacing the final vocals with anything but "A, E, O, or I", and it's usually up to the single persons to replace those vocals with what they find more fitting.
    I usually prefer to use "@" for singular nouns and pronouns (example: "amic@" instead of "amico/a" for nouns, and "un@" instead of "uno/a" for pronouns), while using "*" for plurals or vocals when they are in the middle of the word (example: "L*i" instead of "Lui/Lei").
    On the other hand: despite all, my language remains fully gendered, so all of these "tricks" work only when writing/texting. It's still quite a struggle to refer to someone in a genderless way when talking to them in person. It's not uncommon to see them using "he/they" or "she/they" when they are asked which pronouns would they prefer.

    • @nullinlack585
      @nullinlack585 Рік тому +1

      I know that Portuguese is a gendered language. But not all words are the same.

  • @MarciaLealChannel
    @MarciaLealChannel Рік тому +2

    Thank you very much for your lessons, Gill! I always love it! Greetings from Brazil!

  • @gabriellagirardi4741
    @gabriellagirardi4741 Рік тому +2

    Wonderful lesson, as usual. Thank you very much.

  • @E.g.store2
    @E.g.store2 Рік тому +1

    She is a precious teacher to me.

  • @magotorres9024
    @magotorres9024 Рік тому +5

    Great teacher!

  • @Luigginadeven
    @Luigginadeven Рік тому +1

    This is new for me. Thanks dear Gill

  • @akashkhokhar657
    @akashkhokhar657 Рік тому +1

    It was one of my uncleared doubts, I got it now. Thank you so much respected Gill ma'am.

  • @hastalavista9431
    @hastalavista9431 Рік тому +3

    Thanks a lot, dear teacher! Nice lesson, as usual, but I miss your literature lessons so much! They are definitely wonderful!

  • @franciscojavierveracardena6578

    Thank you very much for the lesson... 🇬🇧 🇨🇴

  • @RURK_
    @RURK_ Рік тому +4

    Thank you so much for this lesson!! 🤗

  • @pilargutierrezgonzalez7043
    @pilargutierrezgonzalez7043 Рік тому +1

    Once more I have to thank you for a lesson.You're a magnific teacher.

  • @IORIYAGAMI32
    @IORIYAGAMI32 Рік тому +3

    Many thanks for this New lesson

  • @muradovaulviyye2345
    @muradovaulviyye2345 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Gill for your lessons. I love them so much.

  • @saturnosring
    @saturnosring Рік тому +32

    Very interesting topic. All languages evolve, and these new uses of the pronouns aren’t often taught in class. So I really appreciate that you explained us how to use them properly in these situations. Thanks Gill!

    • @gcondado
      @gcondado Рік тому +7

      This is not "new", it's found also in Shakespeare

  • @FernandoGomes-dg1po
    @FernandoGomes-dg1po Рік тому +1

    Thank you a lot for such a great explanation. I had never heard about it.
    Living and learning.
    Please keep doing this great job.
    Fernando Filho from Brazil.

  • @RodrigoCostaSilvacruelcdo
    @RodrigoCostaSilvacruelcdo Рік тому

    What a pleasent excent! Love your lessons, by the way. Thank you for sharing!

  • @hamoudawassila6109
    @hamoudawassila6109 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the lesson I hope see you next time

  • @SMokkery
    @SMokkery Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video! It's very helpful 😊

  • @punamutsike1202
    @punamutsike1202 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the useful lesson. I'd been looking for some kind of information about this couple of years ago.

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    @elisadealexandria Рік тому +2

    Thank you my favorite teacher Gill! ❤️🧡💚♥️

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    @VikasKRealtor Рік тому +1

    Best English Tutor ever ❤

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    @alexandraweather4156 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Gill!
    You are the best! ❤

  • @rpmcrc9406
    @rpmcrc9406 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for the excersice and explain. .

  • @yurilaztube
    @yurilaztube Рік тому

    Dear Gill! Thank you for your work! ❤

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    @alvinabinnish7296 11 місяців тому

    Your speaking English is valuable for common people

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    @BrunaMaraWanderley Рік тому +3

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    @sollen261 10 місяців тому

    Your English lecture is the essence of itself for me.

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    @MsBreenna Рік тому

    Thanks , I really appreciate your leson.

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    @Its_alina. Рік тому +1

    thanks a lot for your time and work.

  • @user-zb5ic7fz6j
    @user-zb5ic7fz6j 11 місяців тому

    Hello dear teacher Jill. I missed you and your lessons so much. You are so delicate and elegant.

  • @JuanLuisRubiales
    @JuanLuisRubiales Рік тому

    Thanks so much, it was so clarifying !

  • @fknowlson1987
    @fknowlson1987 Рік тому

    Thanks ! Clearly & helpfully explained

  • @nhungcute8888
    @nhungcute8888 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for your lesson!

  • @Zhardimgali
    @Zhardimgali Рік тому +2

    Thank you! It was informative ❤

  • @elinakovalchuk4159
    @elinakovalchuk4159 Рік тому

    Thanks a lot Jill.. Started learning English. I like how you explain...

  • @KomloGamesPlay
    @KomloGamesPlay Рік тому +5

    It's a wonderful lesson, thank you! ✨

  • @irinakvartalova8226
    @irinakvartalova8226 Рік тому +2

    Thank you very much! It was very interesting!

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    @yunusa9402 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for those useful expressions! I love your channel! 🙏💐

  • @yudyamparoenriquezrosero3615
    @yudyamparoenriquezrosero3615 Рік тому +1

    Great lesson! Thanks Teacher Gill! 🙂🙏🌷

  • @giancarlomaster2535
    @giancarlomaster2535 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for all knowledge

  • @mrmhmd9643
    @mrmhmd9643 10 місяців тому

    Thank u gill. Enjoyed your teaching and accent

  • @Dawlada
    @Dawlada Рік тому +1

    Thank you madam.
    Your lessons are very interesting.

  • @syee797
    @syee797 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much Gill !! 💚

  • @agnesmon4940
    @agnesmon4940 Рік тому +1

    Thanks a lot, you have resolved an old doubt I've got for a long time.

  • @helenchekhovsky2421
    @helenchekhovsky2421 Рік тому +1

    like always , it's a great lesson, thank you

  • @whoknows4432
    @whoknows4432 Рік тому

    Thank you so much ma'am. actually, I have been all the time thinking 🤔 why "they" is used in some singular contexts. Now it's all clear 👍👍👍

  • @allergyboys1817
    @allergyboys1817 Рік тому +2

    勉強になります。nice video.

  • @Etory-m
    @Etory-m Рік тому +1

    Actually it was very useful video. Thank you! ❤

  • @agustinquipildor
    @agustinquipildor Рік тому +1

    Thank you Gill!

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    @koluk6430 Рік тому +12

    The most educative ASMR ever from the most adorable teacher 😀 Love Gill ❤ Many thanks!

  • @ramzgro
    @ramzgro Рік тому +1

    Thank You So Much, Dear Teacher Gill

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    @martasakowska5706 Рік тому

    Thank you! Very helpfull.

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    @luthientinuviel2167 Рік тому +1

    The best teacher!! ❤❤ Thank you!!!❤❤

  • @kritchawanlaxton9478
    @kritchawanlaxton9478 Рік тому

    Thank you Gill❤❤❤

  • @JaneDoe-ci3gj
    @JaneDoe-ci3gj Рік тому +6

    Thank you Gil, a great lesson as always. 😊🌹
    I learnt a lot, especially about they/them/their.
    Thanks for taking about people who want their pronouns to be them/they without judgement!❤️
    Would you please do a lesson about grammar/spelling misstakes that native born English speakers make.
    I have e.g seen a lot of native English speakers having a hard time distinguishing their from they're and there.

  • @janasmyckova4099
    @janasmyckova4099 Рік тому +1

    The first example is already spoken before you give examples. And that is spoken sentence: "So, for example, if someone's talking about a talk that they went to..." 🙂

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    @eusouneto20 Рік тому

    The best english teacher in the entire world! 💞😊🙏🏻

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    @shopartofyarn Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @savitaradhaswami5016
    @savitaradhaswami5016 Рік тому +1

    Hello mam Can you make video about how to understand a novel exactly by reading it.sometimes we don't understand it in first time it's confusing. how actually understand and read a novel .।

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    @gilbertoaraujo3211 Рік тому +1

    The best teacher of world ❤

  • @nadnadya1
    @nadnadya1 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Gill :)❤️

  • @BartolomeuFrancisco
    @BartolomeuFrancisco Рік тому +2

    Hello from Brazil

  • @Eliamrr1
    @Eliamrr1 Рік тому +2

    Thank you teacher ❤

  • @ivanildagomes7314
    @ivanildagomes7314 Рік тому

    Thank you for that class! A hug!

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    @user-tm1ec2on6w Рік тому +1

    Love the saffron colored pashmina.

  • @flawyerlawyertv7454
    @flawyerlawyertv7454 Рік тому +3

    Hii, Ms Gill. 😀

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    @kritchawanlaxton9478 Рік тому

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  • @mistercana4799
    @mistercana4799 Рік тому +1

    Very nice Class Gill. 😉

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    @haythamabbas955 Рік тому +3

    👍 great