Love Languages Are Fake Says New Research | The View
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Joy is such a great moderator. She was a teacher, she knows how to get people engaged in civil conversation. I love Fridays.
Joy is getting better at it. She was so good 😊😊😊
I thought Alyssa had it right: it's not about matching, but understanding the other person's needs.
The others didn't have it right?
_"You get nothing done if you don't service them once in a while."_ 🔑
I love it when Joy is the moderator! they have so much fun every Friday.
Yes lol
Especially when they're talking about relationships.
Well said 👍
The collective sigh in the room after Sarah said, “Baptist Minister,” got me 🤣🤣🤣
LOLLLL!!
Right! They were all like "Ohh... So maybe it IS fake!"
😂😂😂😂
Took me out lol
I had to rewind it and watch it two more times! 😂😂
Ana Navarro to Sara Haines "let me ask you this again you got all that from this?" 😂😂😂😂
Sunny Hostin "right" 😂
love languages are not fake. learning about them made me understand myself, my partners, friends, family and much more so much more. people value different things and measure love in different ways. if my love language is a gifts and I buy you a gift and you are ungrateful that can ruin a relationship, but learning maybe that person values quality time together, then I understand we need to spend time together and vice versa.
I agree
Some people FEEL loved more when you pick up the dish towel and dry while they're washing, more than someone buying flowers.
Someone might feel more loved when their partner reaches out and takes their hand in public rather than saying it's okay I'm going home with you.
Some people might doubt everything until they hear the words I love you.
I think it's important to understand your partners "Love language" so you know what they need from you to feel secure and appreciated.
Great segment. You ladies are on a roll today. Make future Fri's fun like this. I can't stop laughing....
Right 😂
Looking forward to every Fridays…
Whoopi Goldberg if she was on the show today "I'm single so I'm good" 😁😁😁😁
Everybody on the panel was in such a good mood today, love to see it!
Friday is always delightful and hilarious. Joy is a fun moderator and all the other hosts agree. .
Sara has the most thoughtful responses!!
I like how Joy actually explains the topic/is interested compared to Whoopis uninterested mumble jumble.
Love Whoopi ❤
Whoopi is great. shutup..
Sara really has good comic timing now.
Sara Haines is such a joy and such a joy on the show😂❤️🫶🏾💯
Ok Ladies, it’s been a NY minute but I’ll say this segment and the Elmo segment had me screaming laughing!! Bravo! It’s just what we need. 😂😂😂
Love it when Joy moderates. She really gets involved unlike Whoopi.
The members of this panel know how to have fun! 😭😂😂😂
😂 I disagree with Alyssa on this. It is terrible misconceptions to say that men's love language is only physical touch. Men love acts of service, gifts, quality time etc. Honestly I am dissappointed with the women's answers. They really don't know much about men
The love language can convert to any relationship in your life including work, school, siblings etc
All types of men have different types of service saying all men just crave sex is just inaccurate
Joy is de best. I cherish her
I love Alyssa she is such a good addition.
Nice segment😂❤
It’s always a person going to redit to complain
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I still believe in the Love Languages! It works!! It makes sense!!
Fun segment!
It’s also good to know how you can show love to a particular child.
They have no idea God hears and sees every word they say
They are all having such a good time today on the show and everybody seems happy and in a good mood 💯
This group of the ladies has good chemistry! With Joy moderating.
Friday ep is so fun, wonder why??! No whoopi…
She's rarely ever there on Fridays. It's part of her contract. It's been like this for years. Joy is moderator when she's not there, usually Fridays. Sara moderated once when both of them were out.
Sara Haines at 3:21 "to soon Joy" 😂😂😂😂
They all seem to be getting along good today 💯
Sunny looks STUNNING! That red lipstick is amazing on her
So the fact that Gary Chapman, a minister who counselled thousands of couples, has been on the New York Times Best Seller list multiple times and garnered the data from notes kept over the years renders this non-scientific. What an insult to a tremendous, albeit helpful body of work. Shame on the producers and hosts for misrepresenting the stealth of this work.
My language of love only revolves around when a top meets a bottom 🤷
Two bottoms can bump purses btw💁🏾♂️
@@itstheboyajimagine my frustration being a top always getting stuck with versatile guys who want what they can’t get. 😒
Let's not forget sides
@@mykoniichistorychannel there are so many bottoms out here how do you keep getting stuck with versatile guys😭
This is what we need more on the View! These are fun segments that I really enjoy. I’m so exhausted about trump. The world is so crazy and divided and these are great segments
They talk about abortion and other political topics not just about Donald Trump.
Perhaps you should only watch The Talk if you want more of the light segments
This false fabrication of men only care about sex nonsense is too overbearing! This needs to stop in 2024. Women read sex novels, watch sex on TV & film, go to sex therapists, and talk about sex with friends in much greater detail and at a much higher rate than men do. Men love sports & sex, yes we do! When we get it, because most men can't get it as easy or often as women can, we want to keep getting it. Simple
Straight men love physical touch, but words of affirmation and quality time go along way with me
Also, possibly, straight men are socially discouraged from appreciating other forms of affirmation. I remember a paper I read of how gender is indoctrinated at birth as baby boys are less fussed over than baby girls, and this could conceivably condition people to respond to different kinds of interactions differently.
Edit: in concert with other conditioning as the child grows older of course.
I know what video that was with the Gorilla 😂😂😭
The way I see it, most people give the love language they want to receive rather than discovering their partner’s love language and giving them that. If you truly love your partner and want to express your love in a language that is meaningful to them, learn their language and hopefully they will do the same. I’ve seen many couples where one person doesn’t feel loved because the other one is not ‘speaking’ their language
That is what the book is about. Learning your partner's love language. Not your own.
The 5 love languages was written by Dr.Gary Chapman a Ph.D holding counselor who happens to be a minister as well. I think the host need to double check before making claims .
What a naughty show yesterday was 😂 love it
Love language doesn't find your soulmate. It tells you the way in which your partner wants love.
That's just 1 aspect of a relationship.
Also no not all men want physical touch. And touch doesn't just mean sex. Includes cuddles hugs kisses etc.
Mine as a man is quality time
One time this guy I met on an app made me take a love language test. We had the exact same languages and were 100% compatible on paper. We didn't last one month! IT was terrible and he was emotionally abusive and controlling (him making me take a stupid test should've been a hint). That's why I do't believe in the love languages theory.
Love these ladies.
So do I
This is the best panel chemistry in a while
No one is coming to save you. This life is 100% your responsibility.
OMG..That is freaking hilarious! 😂😂😂😂😂
Sara looks pretty today.
This is what I love the most about the View. Lol 😂😆😂😆
A lot of men have physical touch (hugs, massages, kisses) as their love language because a lot of men are starved of physical touch growing up among their family and their friends. So it's no wonder they want a lot of it when they're adults. Hug your men!
Correct. If a woman really wants a man to lock into her. She has to bring the Physical to the table.
What a beautiful point! I was really sad to see they and the audience all believed this.
I really don't like this. They talk about wanting men to elevate themselves yet they say these things? Don't know if they're joking or being serious but not my cup of tea. There are men who need other things and not necessarily with ulterior motive. Unfortunately a lot of times it's based on how you were raised and did or did not receive love.
Alyssa, you are not fooling anyone that knows better with your comment regarding men and love languages. Alyssa believes that a man should only have acts of service as a love language.
I'm not that much of a fan of Alyssa being on the show either besides her being the same zodiac sign as myself but give her a break in this segment they are just having fun it's Friday 💯.
Wait…so it’s fake? I read that book along time ago. I kept saying that my love language is gift giving and it’s true.
Someone wrote an article saying it is fake. But I don't agree. Just because a Preacher wrote it does not negate its findings. Pastors and Preachers counsel couples before and during their marriages. He probably started noticing things about couples and wrote a book about it. People are motivated by different things.
Yeah, I think the ultimate love language is to take the time and effort to understand how your partner wants to receive love and give that to them.
3:00😂
The segments are uploaded kind of odd today 🤔.
Love languages makes sense. When you understand your partner it makes for a better relationship. When you know what makes them happy, how can that be a bad thing?
That is so sexist, 😢
I’m distracted by that thing on Sarah’s shirt……
Love Languages. LOVE.
So happy Alyssa was chosen. The View has returned to being fun and silly and having girls talk.
Alyssa is 100% Right!!
I agree with Anna.
Ana Navarro to Sara Haines "let me ask you this again you got all that from this?" 😂😂😂😂
These women are hilarious!!
What an ignorant thing for Alyssa to say.
How so?
@@sheldoncole7276That men only do things for the ones they love for the sole purpose of having sex. That cheapens so much of the actions of men. It's kind of a tired troupe IMO.
Ana put it all together! :)
We already knew it was "fake", its just a tool to help us understand ourselves by categorizing ourselves.
So much fun! 😂
This was a good one and hilarious 😂
Sara started to touch on it when she said the original author was a Baptist minister, but I have been hearing lately that the book isn't as openhearted and giving as the media has portrayed it all these years. Apparently the book can be interpreted to be somewhat emotionally manipulative in that it says that a woman owes her husband sex even if she doesn't feel like it because otherwise she's a bad wife. (It's like how the Quran encourages marital rape.) I think most of us agree that in any relationship, it's going to take respectful communication to understand how to make your partner feel loved, and you are going to have problems if you dismiss loving gestures because you don't recognize them. Having not read the book, I thought that's what it's about, based on hearsay. Now, knowing it was written by a religious figure instead of a psychologist or a marriage counselor, the whole room groaned because they know it means there are all sorts of religious edicts in there that don't really have anything to do with expressions of love.
Science doesn’t need to explain or understand everything. The love languages make sense but it’s ridiculous to think those are the only ways of communication or to understand your partner, which the book highlights too
Why would a scientist write a book about relationships?
Everyone is so happy, when Whoopi is not there!!!
Whoopi does not even try to have something valuable to add to the conversation when Whoopi is not interested in the topic.
Cooking is my love language and let me just say: people respond very positively to that.
Did the flower on The green dress.actually belong on sonny's dress.
Just look how much fun they are having every Friday, without Whoopi there to kill the mood.
I love Fridays it’s so much more fun without Whoopi brining the segments down
Agree and disagree
If Whoopi is not interested in discussing a topic, Whoopi tries to make it so no one else at the table enjoys discussing the topic. It is a flaw of Whoopi’s as the moderator of The View.
This is so henny and cute 😂
Love Sarah. She doesn't take anything personally. Joy and Whoopi show their age (not physically bc both look great) by being more rigid, but I love that Sarah and Alyssa don't take offense from their elders' opinions.
Y’know. I think AFG is probably the best permanent conservative member they’ve had on the panel since probably Jed or Abby. She’s very personable from what I’ve seen so far. Which is a nice change since the last time I watched the show about 3 years ago ☕️🐸👀
My partner and I have different languages. He wants words of affirmation. I prefer acts of service. Men want all things too!
Thinking men primarily want sex is so narrow minded to me. This segment is so disappointing. 🙄🙄
This is why Ann Navarro is on the show, keep cutting her the check abc.
If only Meghan McCain was still on the show I wonder if she would of eventually lightened up and how would the relationship with the other co-host be like 🤔?
No more her yuck
To say it’s “not true” is stupid 😂 I don’t think there’s ONLY five ‘love languages’ or anything…but people do show love in different ways & sometimes if it’s not in the way that person wants…you will have issues 🤷🏾♀️
Imagine Meghan having this convo smh
So was most of Freud's research
Throw the whole book away
Is it just me or is there a lightness to the panel without Whoopi?
Ana is the BEST!!
No kidding!
They definitely don't understand men
Now that I know that it was developed by a minister, I am no longer interested in it.
Joy to the World 😂
I love it when they talk about sex 😂
Producers-- Please LET JOY MODERATE more! She is phenomenal at it and the the discussions are so vibrant!
Foolish reaction because most Christian marital/relationship counselors are actually really awesome! Many have benefitted