I Don’t Identify as Female 🤷🏻‍♀️ | MTF Trans YouTuber

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  • Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
  • I'm Steph a twenty-something MTF Transgender UA-camr.
    This is a short but much needed video discussing why I don't identify as being "Female" and why that's never been my goal! I hope you like it! Quick Disclaimer, I am not looking for advice on how I choose to label myself. This is a video saying that I personally don’t identify as biologically female. It may not be your opinion, but let’s not try and silence another trans persons voice… #female #mtf #transgender
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 58

  • @missycitty9478
    @missycitty9478 Рік тому +5

    I can't tell you how happy it made me to hear you say this. So much respect is being felt for you right now.
    Much love.💙

  • @akbar8477
    @akbar8477 Рік тому +5

    What I have noticed is that those Transwomen that embrace that they are trans and that they still have genetic internal parts that work in them like they do in me is their mental health is 100% better that those that do not like something about themselves. They give off an energy of being okay with the world. Thank you for the inspiration from one human to another.

  • @jaygent2836
    @jaygent2836 Рік тому +8

    Hi Stephanie, after you opening up about all the sh1t you've been through lastyear, it is awesome seeing you return in FEISTY mode! You rock.

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +1

      I have returned more feisty! Good to be back!

    • @unknownninja1
      @unknownninja1 Рік тому +1

      @@stephanielynnette Indeed be your most true and genuine self. That is what made me subscribe to you in the first place. Also please take care and have a great day.

  • @ernestopineda6142
    @ernestopineda6142 Рік тому +6

    Some cis women see us as competitor, I am 63 years, 17 months in transition and despite my age, some cis women see me as the predator that can destroy their family, as you I am only trying to survive. Very often I need to explain that because of the HRT I am not sexually active, also I noticed that men see us as something exotic and try to make contact to me.

  • @decoraborealis
    @decoraborealis Рік тому +9

    This is something that I've spent a long time trying to figure out myself as well. I've always felt uncomfortable when I use spaces labelled as 'female', such as the locker rooms at my work because I am acutely aware that although I know it's the best and safest place for me, I will never truly 'belong' because I am not female and never will be. I am also proud to be a trans woman, and I wear my identity and experiences proudly on my sleeve ❤️🥰

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +1

      Love this comment Maya! Hope you’re doing well!

    • @rabbit3212010
      @rabbit3212010 4 місяці тому +1

      Just my thoughts. If you present as a woman then you are no different to me. You're a biological male, I'm a biological female of course, but we are both presenting and living as women.

  • @RunningActor
    @RunningActor Рік тому +5

    I definitely appreciate what you're trying to say (even if I don't fully agree), but this is nuance that the "GC" movement isn't going to get.

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +5

      I love this, it’s great to be able to appreciate what other’s are communicating despite our own opinion and while the “GC” movement aren’t going to get this, it’s my channel, my space to share my experience with my identity something that differs from person to person 🥰

  • @myratinaro7925
    @myratinaro7925 Рік тому +6

    There was a person saying they didn't want to see cleavage? That has not been my experience, ever.

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +2

      I know right! It was so random! ahaha

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 7 місяців тому

      @@stephanielynnetteMaybe they were being sarcastic?

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  7 місяців тому

      Maybe let's not make excuses for unwanted comments on my body @@stuff1784

  • @aspenhoffman3890
    @aspenhoffman3890 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for saying I. it makes it clear that this is you, and that you don't apply this idea to other trans people. Never feel ashamed to describe yourself in whatever way is true to you

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +1

      I’m so glad that came across! I’m not trying to apply or enforce my own identification on others! It’s just my own personal journey with my identity! Thank you for your kind words! x

  • @laurenemilykoster7362
    @laurenemilykoster7362 Рік тому +2

    Thank you. I think you just articulated what a lot of trans women (not everyone of course) are thinking and feeling but are afraid to admit to themselves. And I will admit I have struggled with this for a long time. But in fact once you realize you aren't really trying to be anyone but yourself, that the 'trans' in trans woman means you're becoming closer to who you are and not becoming female per se, then it's truly liberating. But if you try to become something you can't be, you'll never be yourself.

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +1

      I could not have articulated my point on this better myself! What a beautiful way to have put this. I am so glad you enjoyed the video! Thank you so much for watching!

    • @laurenemilykoster7362
      @laurenemilykoster7362 Рік тому

      You're welcome! And thank you for your kind words.😃 I don't think I said it better than you or any other trans woman, but I do hope that what I said may strike a chord with those who struggle with their feelings and wonder who they really are. I think that makes the journey hard enough. It doesn't have to be made harder by feeling you have to be something you were not born as or feeling that you have to identify with and be accepted as a woman. I have to admit that I still struggle with this so I am inspired by you because you seem so powerfully confident in who you are. Come to think of it, I want that more than I want to be a natal woman!

  • @stellakylie2356
    @stellakylie2356 11 місяців тому +3

    Love You

  • @smon4164
    @smon4164 Рік тому +1

    I'm really happy for you that you are so comfortable with who you are now. I'm at an earlier part of my journey to you, I'm struggling, but I'm so proud of myself, for finally embracing change, and I'm so grateful that I can now empathize with people so much more, because of what I have experienced. Live and let live. Never mind the lifestyle police / jobsworths. 🏳‍🌈🏳‍⚧✊☮🕊🤘

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому

      I love this, it’s such a long journey ahead and I know from personal experience it took me eight years to find comfort in being visibly trans. Keep fighting, I am so proud of you too 💕

    • @smon4164
      @smon4164 Рік тому +1

      @@stephanielynnette Thank you for the videos. Thank you for the positivity x

  • @hatedumb
    @hatedumb Рік тому

    I searched transphobe youtubers right now and for some reason your video popped up. From the thumbail I thought you were going to mock trans but then you were serious about you being trans and I got so confoused. Btw this is the first video of you that I watch. Keep up being you

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +1

      I have no idea how to feel about a comment from someone actively searching for transphobia… I also don’t love that the algorithm is suggesting me for that search 😂

    • @hatedumb
      @hatedumb Рік тому

      @@stephanielynnette Im not transphobic but i was wondering what the transphobic people were thinking about the community. I dont agree with them.

  • @expansive4485
    @expansive4485 Рік тому

    i've struggled with this because, there's enough trans people in my circles that don't think the way you do and trans people who don't actively voice their own opinion. and it has made me uncomfortable to voice my opinion. there was a time where i tried to be male pretty hardcore (*of course there's no trying to be anything, but it's hard to describe that feeling)... but i've calmed down quite a bit and try to find middleground within myself. our bodies dont make us less or more of anything, it's just something about who we are

  • @keisha989
    @keisha989 Рік тому +4

    I'm a Transwoman, I am just being Me

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому

      Me too! ❤️

    • @keisha989
      @keisha989 Рік тому +1

      @@stephanielynnette Just be You

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому

      @@keisha989 I’ll try my best!

    • @keisha989
      @keisha989 Рік тому +1

      @@stephanielynnette I am long past caring what others think of me, I'm Transgender and I love it

  • @junjuncamacho8998
    @junjuncamacho8998 Рік тому +3

    First ❤️

  • @laurence1211
    @laurence1211 Рік тому +3

    Are you sure that wasn't reverse psychology via Instagram? lol. Still interesting video, probably holds true for now, but science waits for no person.

  • @JeremyAvis1978
    @JeremyAvis1978 Рік тому

    I identify as a female velociraptor killed in Viet Nam.

    • @stephanielynnette
      @stephanielynnette  Рік тому +6

      Nice, if you identify as something dead are your pronouns was/here?

  • @rabbit3212010
    @rabbit3212010 4 місяці тому

    I'm a woman and I struggle to understand what these spaces are that trans women are trying to occupy that they "shouldn't."
    Spaces, to me, is just nonsense internet jargon.
    Right now I'm sitting on a chair on my veranda. If I get up for a minute and you jump into my chair you would be in my space.
    If I'm standing in line and you stand to close then you would be occupying my space.
    Obviously gender, biology or anything else has no bearing on either of those scenarios.
    I'm genuinely asking. What spaces are you referring to?

  • @allylenart3099
    @allylenart3099 Рік тому +2

    Good for you girl. 😂