Trailer for Episode 3 // Season 3 | Honest Tea Talk
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About Honest Tea Talk
with Aliyah, LaYinka & Sumayah
Inspired by Jada Pinkett-Smith's 'Red Table Talk', 3 Muslim women have set up a platform to speak openly and honestly, giving viewers an unedited insight into the minds and life of Muslim women. Honest Tea Talk brings deep and often unspoken topics to the table to lay down our masks and start much-needed discussions about matters related to Muslim women and the ummah at large.
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Read the Hadith man😃. LaYinka is such a mood
Love her 🤣
Right?
MashaAllah
MashAllah indeed 🤣
An absolute MOODDDDD
You're making me blush! 🙈
I can't wait for this full episode to come out! The fact that men already called girls gold diggers for asking for mehr, just goes to show people are still trying hard to take away women's rights and asking her to do it to prove herself to him as "good". Islam protects women by giving them rights♥️
It's not appropriate to call a sister a gold digger but i think sisters also need to look at the person (man) they want to marry before they set that mahr. I for one believe no amount will ever amount to have someone's daughter but mahr is not for "buying" you
Its a token of appreciation for letting me in ur life and that's why it's unrefundable. it seriously makes no much sense losing someone who truly loved you and am assuming you truly loved him just because he could afford a camry instead of the lamborghini you wanted.
may Allah guide us
Trailers are a test for my character... Patience Na'ima, patience. 🤦🏻
THIS!!! This episode is going to empower soooo many women!! A big JAZAKALLAH KHAIR FOR THIS my sisters. Unfortunately, many brothers manipulate sisters when it comes to mahr. I heard one brother say to a sister; before we begin; "I can't afford any mahr but one day, I will take you to umrah and hajj instead". Bear in mind, this brother has a full-time job and gets £2000 a month. He tried to romanticise his way out of giving this sister her right. Thankfully her father empowered her and explained the importance of Mahr. She didn't go ahead with the brother, because she realised her father was right and he was awfully stingy.
Mahr and Hajj/umrah are two different things and we shouldn't be shy or feel bad to ask for what we want.
I asked my dad a good mehr amount and my dad gave me away cheap.
Demand high mehr..men like a challenge and they always negotiate to lowball you. If your mehr is low then he also let's you go quickly and wont value you. My ex tried to manipulate me into asking lower money than my dad recommend, then brought his dad to convince me. I stood my ground with my original amount.
We married and the next manipulations was the "I am just joking - 2nd wife"...I made clear before marriage I dont want it and then he brings it up during our honey moon.
Men test as far as you let them. We are divorced and he abandoned his kid.
If they manipulate on mehr that's the first thing, then its other aspects of your life.
They love to quote the deen...ask for references. I am not kidding when they try bullshit games and playing you.
They use your lack of knowledge on deen against you.
Thank you for sharing your story sis! You are so right! May Allah grant you rewards for your patience and grant you a happy life with your child. Ameen.
My ladies are back with another video. I can't wait.
What a teaser !!! Monday come speedy bi'itnillaah !!!
I love my sisters, for the sake Allah. May Jannah be granted for you for sharing your thoughts fearlessly with us 💓
If you don’t like how much she’s asking then don’t marry her. And if he doesn’t marry you because you asked for too much then don’t complain.
very very simple you know 😂
A woman who doesn't complain? We must be living on a different planet. Even if you give them the whole world, they will find something to complain about.
This is a really good topic .looking forward to it
Yaaaaas 🙌. Let’s start there😋
My ex increased my mahr from thousands himself and didn't even give me 1p from it. I'm glad that, those who take people's rights, their good deeds, if have any will be transferred on to us on the day of judgement,that's way better than money.
Indeed sis👍👍👍
i think that's the part that makes the narrative "love is blind" true
why would someone do that?? was it to show off or impress you 😔
@@matsikorashid8295 just at the start he acted very religious and I got fooled by that, I assumed he wouldn't wrong me because he was man of God lol, that's why these sisters are so on point. Religion isn't enough to marry someone, he has to have other qualities
@@Anissa19 thank you sis alhamduillah, he was my test in this life something that was painful but I could bear.
@@JH_77 sorry about that and may Allah grant you the best from that experience.
Ofcos deen is important but not everything considering the fact that it's something spiritual.. character/morals are a great deal but usually we assume if one is religious they are automatically rightful. most of us just look religious but on the inside it's different.
may Allah forgive us
I can't wait for this episode yaaaaay!!
Can wait
0:14 "Were is the hadith man?!" Straight from the mesjid!
I hope you all cover the topic of Polygamy as well ❤
Can't wait for this episode from the sisters.
question is how do we define large/ big mahr??
and i think sisters should be the one to set the mahr without external influence.
In my country families see their daughters as a getaway from poverty so for the start the mahr is like a poverty eradication fund but if a sister who really wants to get married and loves the person sets the mahr i think that would be best because am assuming if you know my annual income is $10000 then ur mahr won't be $10000 because after i pay you that then we are starving and homeless all year round 🤣
Unfortunately sometimes the woman doesn't even get her right to even choose her mahar. It is chosen for her by the men
I'm afraid of diving into the whole looking for a spouse process.
SubhanAllah!
Me tooooo .......i just want to live a simple life with no drama
Don't let Shaitan cloud your mind with these fears
Dive into the process with the mindset of having Allah guide you through it. I used to be like that myself until I realized Allah is with me
The process was tough but alhamdullilah I'm now happily engaged to a good man and I hope Allah makes our journey fruitful
why is it so easy for people to face less important things fearless and with so much hope and when it comes to things that really matter then they are scared?
The mere fact that you are scared of getting into marriage triggers negative thoughts and trust me Allah gave the human soul alot of power. many things you feed your soul affect your life
@@Amina-yl7im with hardship comes ease. Going through struggle is what brings an easy life. Marriage to a righteous spouse proves this even more as its the best enjoyment in this dunya. Your loss
@@sisis6395 May Allah join you in a blessed marriage.
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Large MAHR that’s thing keeps girls with out getting marriage for long time
Even if large, some will still dump and not give you. Doesn't matter about how much, but if the guy is a man of his word
My mahr was 50£ and has been taken back from him right after the marriage...
Uhhhh.... Like are you happily married?
that was wrong... unless you voluntarily chose to give it back as far as i know if you didn't cheat on him and he had slept with you then there is no way he was supposed to take it back.. there are circumstances to take it back but Allah at the end says it's better for you if you leave it for her
@@sf6510 what are u trying to say?
@@matsikorashid8295 anything of it... simply after the marriage at the mosque I was asked to get it back straight away to pay the dinner! That sounds sad, right? At the moment I was Christian and I did not really know about mahr but after ages I got informed so I feel quite upset not for the money but for the action...
@@shine9080 I'm shocked that's all. I was just thinking if that was the start of the marriage I wonder what transpired afterwards. May Allah give you someone who treats you well
So you are manhaters? Otherwise why would people say that in Season 1 and 2? What made people come to that conclusion?
Dear sisters, as a man I think women should speak their opinion as you three are doing. But, as a brother of you in Islam, I kindly ask you to stick to the proper way of dressing when getting in front of the camera and dozens of men are watching you. Sometimes some of you three seem to forget this point. May Allah bless you and forgive us all and guide us to the right path in all aspects.
I appreciate your honesty and Naseeha to the sisters. However, I do not see what you mean here....
I don’t see anything wrong with the way they dress. Can you please explain what you mean?
They are dressed modestly, I don't understand this.