I get so annoyed with the baby questions you guys get. you guys are beautiful young people who are barely married. don't feel pressured by the baby questions. enjoy being married as long as you can! there is no rush, everything's best in gods timing. a baby will change everything! lol
It’s up to them and it’s their choice if they want to answer those questions, sometimes I feel people forget that you tubers like to keep some things personal x❤️ No offence to anybody, just my opinion
Gabe can I just make a suggestion? This is probably going to be lost in the comments but guys please like this because I have a cool idea and I need them to see this! Gabe is literally lost in his direction and constantly getting into slumps. Can I just suggest something? I think it would be awesome if u use your platform to teach guys about your point of view and values when it comes to dating, faith in the Lord, being loyal to a significant other, chivalry and how it's not dead, how to understand women better, etc. Being homeschooled was your advantage because your values are solid and family orientated, sadly most of the guys don't have that situation so they dont have the same values. But your values are golden and you need to teach them about this! I believe this can be a great path to take and you will be able to help guide the youth of today and will definitely give you a sense of accomplishment! please take this into consideration because you are a good Godly man and we need more of you in this world!
To add onto that ... it's definitely refreshing to see a young Christian guy who isn't too weird and is also silly and driven and kind and cute AND still genuine and cool. It's the kind of combination that lends near-immediate credibility and puts you in the prime position to be a great role model--a legitimate Christ-loving bold young man who respects women and isn't overly afraid to be vulnerable. Like Nadelyn said, we need more men of God like you in the world. If not via your channel, maybe a special-guest podcast with Sebastian, igtv, or the like ... I'd love to know how you ended up with the values you have! P.S. Random side note Jess never forget you are always beautiful without makeup, to us, Gabe, and God (although I love your makeup too!) and Gabe God is so proud of you for resisting 'the slump' and stepping up into who He has called you to be! Your UA-cam fam will always be here for you guys, so if you need prayer don't hesitate to mention it in your vids! Much love to you both + Milo!
I’m a teenager and guys my age don’t see the right way of how to treat women(if that makes sense). Seeing you and how you are with Jess is amazing. I do have a bf and he is amazing but I agree that if you use your channel and platform for things like this, then you can further God’s kingdom. You two are so very good with keeping God in the center but teaching others who are still learning would increase the amount of young, loving, and Godly men out there.
My all time favorite bible verse is Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you declares the lord, plans to prosper you, and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." I also really love Roman's 8:18 "The pain you have been feeling can't compare to the joy that's coming." I love how you talk about God and how you are so open about your faith in your videos. It is very refreshing to see since you see so many people denying him and being so negative. So thank you.
I love that Roman's one, so motivational. My favourite one is 2 Corinthians 12: 9-10 *But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.*
@@asii1682 wow i was really in need of these bible verses and then i read your comment. maybe no one asked but God speaks to people in ways that are unpredictable so maybe no one asked but i needed it. thank you.
I’m really proud of you Gabe. Not many straight males seek for therapy mainly because of the fear of being judged. Next month I’m going to be putting up a program for my university that focuses on Toxic Masculinity. Men have emotions and the stigma of “machismo” needs to change.
I just have to say,... you two have grown so freaking much since I started watching your videos..I can really see it in on Gabe in this video - he seems so much more calm and genuinely ready to be more open
Jess and gabeeee, don’t feel pressured to have a baby! I hate how many people ask about you guys having a baby because ahhhh it’s up to you guys! I say this with love, I love you guys.
I agree don’t feel pressured to have a baby but I don’t think people are trying to pressure them I just think they want to know if they want a baby right now.
@@tiana7710 keep asking questions like "are you gonna have a baby" "when are you gonna have a baby" etc. equals putting pressure on them and these questions have been asked since the beginning already so I'd definitely call it pressuring :)
Yea agreed! People need to leave them be a baby changes your whole life going forward no to mention changes and hardship in relation ship's that can come with miscarriage etc
I am so grateful for how you two represent Christ on UA-cam. Gabe, you shared so much solid biblical wisdom in this video and I was very encouraged! I know I don't know you personally but even in this video I can tell that God has been growing and maturing you recently. As a Christian it's so cool to see other believers making Christ known to such a wide audience. Keep doing what you're doing! 1 Thessalonians 4:1 💘
Most couples won’t discuss controversial topics because they are afraid of what people would think of them, & I’m proud of y’all for speaking on those things. I have so much respect for y’all even more now than I did. Thank y’all for standing ground with what the Bible says and sharing it with others. Seriously my favorite Christian couple 💕
Hi Jess & Gabriel! I’ve been in a three year relationship and I’ve dealt with cheating within those years. And within those years, I lost hope for myself because I felt like I wasn’t enough and I ended up hurting myself along the way (punching walls, cutting, etc.). I completely lost myself. When I watched your videos one night, I finally understood what true love is. I realized that I must value myself as an individual because I cannot love others if I don’t love myself first. I’m glad I’m out of that relationship and found a person who loves and puts God first as well. Continue being a blessing to other people because through this platform, you both led me back to loving myself and have my relationship back to God. I love you both! 😊❤️
I love how you guys are SO open with your faith. For me as a growing Christian teen, it's so inspring and encouraging and such a good witness to so many people 💓
I have been watching you guys since you were dating, and I cannot tell you how much I love watching you guys. I am muslim and our religions are so similar, and therefore your values and way of life resonates with me. You guys are my favourite couple of on youtube, very down to earth and kind. Your marriage is something to aspire.
This was such a lovely, mature q&a! Love when answering questions is more than just what’s your favourite colour! Can’t wait to see what you both achieve in 2019 💛
all the best for your therapy, Gabriel! the word REST may be short, but it sure gives a long effect in our physique, mental and spirit. God bless you, The Contes! excited to see the things the Lord has in store for you as individuals and as a family. ✨✨✨
Your relationship with God has inspired me to work on mine. I grew up Catholic and then I slowly started to walk away from my religion. Watching your videos has inspired me to go back to it. You guys somehow manage to bring me to think about God in every single one of your videos, especially this one. Thank you for being such an inspiration and having this positive influence on my life. ❤️
Can I just say I applaud you for coming back to Christ?! Chase after the Lord. This race is not easy. I'm running it & it's sometimes frustrating. It's so so easy to lose faith, my friend but keep reading the Bible EVERY single day (no matter whether you're tired, sad, angry or happy) & pray EVERY single night. Talk to Him like He's your friend (bc ofc He is!) & never EVER let go. As James says "Draw close to God & He will draw close to you.'' Sending you much love. xx
I felt the same way! I really drifted away and didn’t prioritize going to church even though my local church is just down the street. At the beginning of December our family lost a friend and I realized how much I had turned on my religion. I went to religious education on Sunday’s because my parents want me to make my conformation (I make it in spring) but I was so upset and angry I blamed god, and I wondered if there was a god why didn’t he help. I went to church the next Saturday, I don’t remember what urged me to go but when I went in and sat down for the first time in a couple months I felt relieved. I felt like there was someone there helping me, I prayed for the family, and I felt so much better. I felt like due to my prayer hopefully something in someway made their healing a little easier. I’ve been making time to go to church every Saturday since then. I’ve been making time to read the Bible and pray before I go to bed, I try to make time to thank god for giving me a loving family and a happy healthy life. I feel like a new person now, I have someone to talk to and help me through my rough spots. I’m so glad and proud of myself I’ve allowed myself to get back into Christianity and make time to be with god. This ended up being really long sorry whoops but your comment really related to me.
How do you lose fate actually? Is it something which happens out of it's own? I am not religious myself even though I've stood open for it. But I've never been able to convince myself of a god. Sorry for my Englisch, it is not my native language.
Autumn Rose you actually can’t lose faith because no one can take you from God once you are saved but you can think you were saved but really weren’t or you are saved but struggling with a sin
Gabe, you’ve seemed a little bit down over the past few months and I just wanted remind you that God has a plan for you and even though it’s hard to see what it is sometimes, trust in him (Jeremiah 29:11) God is with you always, wherever you go, even in the low times in our lives (Joshua 1:9). If you’re ever struggling with how your life right now could be God’s plan, you should watch the film Soul Surfer, it really helps you re-evaluate your life and see where your priorities are. Praying for you Gabe and I really hope Jess gets her residency soon xxx
I don't think Gabriel can cheat with Jess because I can feel that he is very genuine about his feelings toward her. The sweetest words that I've ever heard was when he said, " She's the only one that matters to me."
Thanks for inspiring me to drink water, for beating me at rock, paper, scissors, for being this amazingly honest people out there, for sharing your believes and openly talking about God on social media and UA-cam, which not everybody does, so hands down, guys! You're awesome, I love you and your work!
It’s really encouraging to see you guys being BOLD in your faith. You are such a light, especially in the “UA-cam world”. True disciples of God. Love you guys! And also, love the new intro!
I feel like you've answered the baby question so many times. People should just respect your answer and stop asking. I think it's very clear at this point. You want to travel before you start consciously trying, but ultimately it's up to God. I think that's perfectly clear and a great way to go about it. People need to stop pestering you two about it.
love your relationship with God😍 Since I found you and watched your videos I started believing more in God and that made me so happy😊 I feel better now and I believe that God has a plan for me and that I should not stress that much😘 Huge thank you❤ When I grow up I want a partner like Gabe and a strong, good relationship
I think it's awesome when we have influencers that can have positive effects on our lives, Congratulations on your growing relationship with God❤️❤️ ~a fellow believer God bless
You guys are so so inspiring. I love how open you are about everything, like starting therapy, or talking about your relationship with God, etc. I appreciate that you guys aren't afraid of "controversial" topics, and you both really inspire me to be open about those kinds of topics as well and to grow in my faith. So much love for the both of you
@@Jake-oc3vx I want a relationship like them, sweet and loving, where war doesn't continuously come more than love (basically my relationship before) ❤
I'm sure that I'm not the only one who loves the new intro and thinks that Gabe is so talented 💛 also, they are such an amazing couple and they inspire me every day!!
I love that you're working on memorizing verses! It's so special to have those things tucked into your heart and to be able to call God's Word to mind in any given moment. There's actually an app called "Verses" that helps with scripture memorization, but I also will sometimes just put a sticky note in my planner and write out the verse, then fold it upwards and write just the first letter for every word in the verse and try to memorize it that way. (:
Gabe, try reading The Big Leap if you have the time - gave me so much clarity on why I kept falling into these horrible slumps and I can safely say it has made a huge difference since!
hey thanks guys for standing your ground Biblically with the advice on being equally yoked. it's not easy to have an unpopular opinion or advice that may be discouraging to some people
Psalm 4:8 ; I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone oh lord make me dwell in safety. I memorised that verse about 5 years ago when i really struggled with sleep. Saying that every night has really helped
Philippians 4:6 is one of my promise scriptures because throughout any season I may go through it’s a constant reminder that God will be there every step of the way so why should I worry if God has everything under control love you guys
That’s awesome! I hope you can find someone in your area or online that you can explore the Bible with. There’s so many cool things in the Bible that really apply to life
There's a free app, called the Bible app, and it has tons of translations, which are all very similar, but some make it easy to understand, and some are great for if you want to really study it.😊 Best wishes! The Bible is hands-down the most amazing book I've ever read. I read it every day, and I can tell you from experience over the last 8 years- it will completely change your life for the better, no matter how many times you read it.💛
You should do a video about the process of marrying a non US citizen. My boyfriend is a UK citizen and the process is intimidating. I love your relationship you guys are the cutest!
My favorite bible verse is psalms 9:1-2 I will give thanks to the lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of your wonderful deeds.I will be glad and exult in you; I will sing praise to your name,O Most High.
Gabe’s answer to the question about being financially stable for marriage was so good 🙏🏼 such good advice for people who are in that situation, like myself 😊
I don’t believe in god. But I value the same things as you (about cheating, relationships, sharing the same values, etc) and the part about being equally yoked really echoed in me. Even though we don’t have the same faith, I think we share values, points of views and maybe opinions about life. I learned lots of things about Christians and the Bible, which made sense to me, even if I don’t believe in the bigger concept. Anyway, I just wanted to thank you for your openness and everything your taught me. I hope I wasn’t being offensive with the way I wrote my sentences (English isn’t my native language and it’s kind of hard to express my way of thinking on this topic with the correct words). Love you both, keep being inspiring for your UA-cam community ❤️
Wow, I love your authentic comment here. What you said really resonated with me and I appreciate that you are willing to share your values and opinions and be open to learning from what they do. I think that the world, and even christians can learn from being open to the ideas and faith of others, and be loving to each other. As christians, we can appreciate and learn from people like you. Thanks for sharing your take on this!
Wow, you're so me!! I don't believe in God either but share many values Christians have, it's so interesting! Just for curiosity, where are you from? Because you said English is not your first language... I'm from South America, we should talk!! 😍
Hi guys! First of all, thank you all for your comments and sorry I didn't respond earlier, I'm kind of bad with UA-cam notifications haha @Stefanie and Caleb: in a perfect world, we'll all respect each others ways of thinking without judgment ^^ unfortunately it is (yet, I'm optimistic) not the case, but I feel that Jess & Gabe's community is very respectful and I love that: we're all different, from everywhere (to answer to you @Anabella Santana I'm from Switzerland :)) and having different faiths. But Jess & Gabe are so kind and open about this topic that here people are a reflection of them and it is what I love about this channel. I think that it is a great value that we can so respectfully exchange and share our opinions. This multiculturalism is a wealth that we should preserve because it opens us to the world, other ways of thinking and to more acceptability.
Ur definition of cheating made me happy. Cause I feel like a lot of people don’t agree with me. Nice to know people high up in the social ladder believe the same.
Idk if your a Christian but, I totally agree with you girl our mindsets are just very differently compare to others and can cause affliction but, I love your comment. ❤️
Your love of God is admirable. Keep touching the hearts of many people and bring them close to God. Praying for both of you! Fixed your eyes on God and He will never ever abandoned you. God bless both of you!
Really cool video! I'm a Christian girl and my boyfriend is Pagan. We've been together for more than 3 years now and we're convinced we're soulmates. I could never love anyone like I love him no matter the religion. Luckily even if our religion are different we share the same values and we love to talk about these things together. It's still soon for kids but rn we're leaning toward the idea of raising them christians. Ultimately love can win any difference; if you have a good communication with your loved hardly any ostacle could stop you. Love always wins 💜 just my two cents! God bless you 😘
Nnn Kkk i noticed and it’s kinda sad but I’m sure he noticed as well and is going to therapy for that reason as well as he’s in the middle of finding himself again. I really hope that’s what it is♥️
My church does these holy hours. This one couple sings for it (like that’s holy hour- a quiet time to connect with god, but with music so it’s more fun). I could see Jess and Gabe doing something like that. Whenever I go to it it actually brings me closer to god... like I cry sometimes while singing along
I'm 3 years into marriage and we have a baby and I'm still not really financially stable... but it's been great for us to work through financial issues together. I think there's pressure for some people to feel like they need to wait until they have their life together before marriage and for those people I encourage you to consider tackling life's challenges - including financial ones - alongside the person you love. Everyone is different though and has to decide for themselves
I commend you for talking about starting therapy so casually!! I'm starting my Masters program for Counseling tomorrow and it's so encouraging to see people promote the mental health culture! :)
Thank you SO much for being bold enough to share about being equally yolked🙌🏼🙌🏼 so many Christians dance around the subject and I was literally dancing with joy when you said it😂❤️
15:14
*Gabe smiles at jess*
Jess:”why are you smiling like that?”
Gabe: “ I just love you”
If that isn’t couple goals I don’t know what is
Ikr! Soo cute!!!
Yeah it was cute , but it made me feel even more lonely
I realize I'm kinda off topic but do anybody know a good place to stream newly released tv shows online?
@Kaden Cooper I watch on FlixZone. You can find it by googling :)
@Jake Zander yup, I've been watching on flixzone for months myself =)
THE NEW INTRO IS SOOOOO GOOD 🙌🏼😍
Couldnt agree morw
More*
what’s the song name for it??
I was so sure this would be the first comment when I went down
WHAT was that vlog intro?! I’m SHOOKETH
Savannah Lewie it’s DOPE!!!
Check gabriels insta
I love you guys 😘😘😘
Me tooo
IT WAS AMAZING
*LOVE your relationship so much! You two are so loving and kind!! You’re a huge blessing!*
❤❤❤
Alicia Lee 💛💛💛
awww i couldn't stop looking at how gabe holds jess' side. so sweet.
Ellie Wood it’s so sweet!!!
I was watching that too!!! I thought I was the only one🤣.
Ellie Wood yesss🥰🥰🥰🥰 they are just too cute
“Why you smiling like thaaat”
“I just- I just love you”
OKAY OKAY MY HEART
What time is that?
Imagine how perfect their babies will be
I get so annoyed with the baby questions you guys get. you guys are beautiful young people who are barely married. don't feel pressured by the baby questions. enjoy being married as long as you can! there is no rush, everything's best in gods timing. a baby will change everything! lol
lol im sorry if i annoyed someone i asked the question.. ehh i feel badd! 🙃
@@khadeejahhussain9867 no I didn't mean it as if you were annoying. just the question it self is annoying.
@@Gsharr11 yea cause they're like still REALLY young so I get what you're saying
@@Michelle-if4he exactly! I don't see why they should rush.
It’s up to them and it’s their choice if they want to answer those questions, sometimes I feel people forget that you tubers like to keep some things personal x❤️
No offence to anybody, just my opinion
The new intro!!! 😍❤️😍❤️
Mafalda Teixeira it’s insane!!!
Mafalda Teixeira the. Guy that helped him create it was my neighbor when I was in elementary school
15:10
*Gabe looking at Jess smiling*
Jess: why you're smiling like that ?
Gabe: because I just love you"
THIS WAS SO CUTE😻😻😻
Gabe can I just make a suggestion? This is probably going to be lost in the comments but guys please like this because I have a cool idea and I need them to see this! Gabe is literally lost in his direction and constantly getting into slumps. Can I just suggest something? I think it would be awesome if u use your platform to teach guys about your point of view and values when it comes to dating, faith in the Lord, being loyal to a significant other, chivalry and how it's not dead, how to understand women better, etc. Being homeschooled was your advantage because your values are solid and family orientated, sadly most of the guys don't have that situation so they dont have the same values. But your values are golden and you need to teach them about this! I believe this can be a great path to take and you will be able to help guide the youth of today and will definitely give you a sense of accomplishment! please take this into consideration because you are a good Godly man and we need more of you in this world!
YES
To add onto that ... it's definitely refreshing to see a young Christian guy who isn't too weird and is also silly and driven and kind and cute AND still genuine and cool. It's the kind of combination that lends near-immediate credibility and puts you in the prime position to be a great role model--a legitimate Christ-loving bold young man who respects women and isn't overly afraid to be vulnerable. Like Nadelyn said, we need more men of God like you in the world. If not via your channel, maybe a special-guest podcast with Sebastian, igtv, or the like ... I'd love to know how you ended up with the values you have!
P.S. Random side note Jess never forget you are always beautiful without makeup, to us, Gabe, and God (although I love your makeup too!) and Gabe God is so proud of you for resisting 'the slump' and stepping up into who He has called you to be! Your UA-cam fam will always be here for you guys, so if you need prayer don't hesitate to mention it in your vids! Much love to you both + Milo!
Kaylan Fomby yes yes! This is exactly my point, that's why I really really want him to realize this! He doesn't know his potential !
Yeeeessss
I’m a teenager and guys my age don’t see the right way of how to treat women(if that makes sense). Seeing you and how you are with Jess is amazing. I do have a bf and he is amazing but I agree that if you use your channel and platform for things like this, then you can further God’s kingdom. You two are so very good with keeping God in the center but teaching others who are still learning would increase the amount of young, loving, and Godly men out there.
My all time favorite bible verse is Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you declares the lord, plans to prosper you, and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
I also really love Roman's 8:18 "The pain you have been feeling can't compare to the joy that's coming."
I love how you talk about God and how you are so open about your faith in your videos. It is very refreshing to see since you see so many people denying him and being so negative. So thank you.
I love this comment, I just want to say thank you.
I love that Roman's one, so motivational. My favourite one is 2 Corinthians 12: 9-10 *But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.*
no one asked
This comment s awesome thank you
@@asii1682 wow i was really in need of these bible verses and then i read your comment. maybe no one asked but God speaks to people in ways that are unpredictable so maybe no one asked but i needed it. thank you.
Who else loves the new intro??!! 😍😍😍
Its amazing!
iman 56 oh my word he’s so talented
its so lit
Me!!!!!!!!!
The way Milo looks at Jess and Gabriel 18:20
His definition of cheating is absolutely perfect
Adeline Anaya what Minute
So good!! These two are so good at breaking down these questions.
@@rufuscamara6056 4:24
Form a Christian perspective I totally agree!
Mat 5:27-28. I know its very late, but i dont know, i am starting to watch their videos so this One just popped up😂
That new intro though is AMAZING
Is it just me or does it sound like Gabriel is picking up on Jess's accent a little? Haha
I was just saying that to myself....
YES
I think he just does it for fun 😂😂but idk
He does it on purpose most of the times heh
No it’s just you haha
obsessed with the new intro!
Landry Noel ME
I’m really proud of you Gabe. Not many straight males seek for therapy mainly because of the fear of being judged. Next month I’m going to be putting up a program for my university that focuses on Toxic Masculinity. Men have emotions and the stigma of “machismo” needs to change.
Gisela Ayala so good Gisela. Thanks for sharing!!!
Thats awesome you should explain that masculinity is not wrong at all but when it starts affecting others and yourself is when there is a problem😃👍
Jess: "why are u smiling like that?"
Gabe: "just, because I love you"
OMG MY HEART AHHH😍😍
I can’t stop looking in the mirror throughout the whole video😂😂
Same
Same here
Literally same😂
SAMEEEEEE
Oh no u made me look
I just have to say,... you two have grown so freaking much since I started watching your videos..I can really see it in on Gabe in this video - he seems so much more calm and genuinely ready to be more open
Sonia DoubleG agreed I think the therapy he mentioned in the video is helping too for him maturing self discovery changes so much
Anyone looking at Milo in the mirror?He's so cute😍😂
bxlxnxd xy ADORABLE
I am hes so cute
*Where can I find myself a Gabe because I need one*
Church
There is one gabe available
Me everytime I watch Gabe and Jess Videoo... Like E.V.E.R.Y. S.I.N.G.L.E.T.I.M.E
One day. One day.
Ya beat me Gabe. Mainly because I’m Australian and the whole “shoot” thing confuses me and I just end up doing scissors in my panic.
MY FAVORITE MARRIED UA-cam COUPLE 🥰🥰
Yeah they are the best
Me too
They are so good together. I love how they always seem to have a united view on things in their lives.
Jess and gabeeee, don’t feel pressured to have a baby! I hate how many people ask about you guys having a baby because ahhhh it’s up to you guys! I say this with love, I love you guys.
I agree don’t feel pressured to have a baby but I don’t think people are trying to pressure them I just think they want to know if they want a baby right now.
@@tiana7710 keep asking questions like "are you gonna have a baby" "when are you gonna have a baby" etc. equals putting pressure on them and these questions have been asked since the beginning already so I'd definitely call it pressuring :)
Yea agreed! People need to leave them be a baby changes your whole life going forward no to mention changes and hardship in relation ship's that can come with miscarriage etc
Was I the only one that was only looking in the mirror behind them?
Fatima Sobalvarro Nope!
I did!!
Fatima Sobalvarro I wasn’t until I read this comment 😂
Kharina Pineda same😂
nope i was too
I am so grateful for how you two represent Christ on UA-cam. Gabe, you shared so much solid biblical wisdom in this video and I was very encouraged! I know I don't know you personally but even in this video I can tell that God has been growing and maturing you recently. As a Christian it's so cool to see other believers making Christ known to such a wide audience. Keep doing what you're doing! 1 Thessalonians 4:1 💘
Most couples won’t discuss controversial topics because they are afraid of what people would think of them, & I’m proud of y’all for speaking on those things. I have so much respect for y’all even more now than I did. Thank y’all for standing ground with what the Bible says and sharing it with others. Seriously my favorite Christian couple 💕
I CANT GET OVER HOW GOOD THE NEW INTRO IS
That new intro is amazing!!
Such a healthy relationship, growing with each other, understanding, literal goals.
Asking when they’re gonna have kids is sooo personal like let them decide when to make a baby... 🙃
Hi Jess & Gabriel! I’ve been in a three year relationship and I’ve dealt with cheating within those years. And within those years, I lost hope for myself because I felt like I wasn’t enough and I ended up hurting myself along the way (punching walls, cutting, etc.). I completely lost myself. When I watched your videos one night, I finally understood what true love is. I realized that I must value myself as an individual because I cannot love others if I don’t love myself first. I’m glad I’m out of that relationship and found a person who loves and puts God first as well. Continue being a blessing to other people because through this platform, you both led me back to loving myself and have my relationship back to God. I love you both! 😊❤️
U are a beautyfull babeeee ❤️❤️❤️
Miriam Julsing Thank you, you are too!!
YES NEW INTRO IS LITTTTTT
the way u looking at Jess is really heart melting!
Sheanesie Pearl I thought I was the only one who noticed it❤️😌
I love how you guys are SO open with your faith. For me as a growing Christian teen, it's so inspring and encouraging and such a good witness to so many people 💓
Alyssa Tony I couldn’t of said it better!
yessss! i agree
Gabriel I really appreciate your honesty and vulnerability sharing that you started going to therapy! You guys are awesome!
haileykatelynn why is he going?
@@mishkalee563 He said that this past year he fell into a "slump" twice, so he wants to make sure it doesn't happen again!
haileykatelynn what (slump ) means ?
i actually played rock paper scissors with you gabe
Mira A we all did😂😂✅
I did that too ahaha and I won just one...
same here, 2:1 win haha
Me too😂😂
Me too
I have been watching you guys since you were dating, and I cannot tell you how much I love watching you guys. I am muslim and our religions are so similar, and therefore your values and way of life resonates with me. You guys are my favourite couple of on youtube, very down to earth and kind. Your marriage is something to aspire.
Same
SAME OMG
honestly, same
This was such a lovely, mature q&a! Love when answering questions is more than just what’s your favourite colour! Can’t wait to see what you both achieve in 2019 💛
Authentically Ami yes. They get right into the good stuff!!
Y’all are a beautiful representation of what marriage is supposed to look like!!
This couple is the definition of true love
Catherine Pina they are awesome!!
amen !!!
Jess: Why are you smiling like that?
Gabriel: I just love you
MY HEART 💕💕
The way Gabe look at Jess, I just want someone who will look at me in that way😕❤
me too
I loved the way you said giving emotion that you shouldn’t be giving to someone else!!! that’s a perfect explanation & i completely agree!
all the best for your therapy, Gabriel! the word REST may be short, but it sure gives a long effect in our physique, mental and spirit. God bless you, The Contes! excited to see the things the Lord has in store for you as individuals and as a family. ✨✨✨
Did anyone notice at 12:17 when Jess sneezed Milo turned and smiled at her? THAT WAS ADORABLE
Your relationship with God has inspired me to work on mine. I grew up Catholic and then I slowly started to walk away from my religion. Watching your videos has inspired me to go back to it. You guys somehow manage to bring me to think about God in every single one of your videos, especially this one. Thank you for being such an inspiration and having this positive influence on my life. ❤️
Can I just say I applaud you for coming back to Christ?! Chase after the Lord. This race is not easy. I'm running it & it's sometimes frustrating.
It's so so easy to lose faith, my friend but keep reading the Bible EVERY single day (no matter whether you're tired, sad, angry or happy) & pray EVERY single night. Talk to Him like He's your friend (bc ofc He is!) & never EVER let go. As James says "Draw close to God & He will draw close to you.'' Sending you much love. xx
I felt the same way! I really drifted away and didn’t prioritize going to church even though my local church is just down the street. At the beginning of December our family lost a friend and I realized how much I had turned on my religion. I went to religious education on Sunday’s because my parents want me to make my conformation (I make it in spring) but I was so upset and angry I blamed god, and I wondered if there was a god why didn’t he help. I went to church the next Saturday, I don’t remember what urged me to go but when I went in and sat down for the first time in a couple months I felt relieved. I felt like there was someone there helping me, I prayed for the family, and I felt so much better. I felt like due to my prayer hopefully something in someway made their healing a little easier. I’ve been making time to go to church every Saturday since then. I’ve been making time to read the Bible and pray before I go to bed, I try to make time to thank god for giving me a loving family and a happy healthy life. I feel like a new person now, I have someone to talk to and help me through my rough spots. I’m so glad and proud of myself I’ve allowed myself to get back into Christianity and make time to be with god. This ended up being really long sorry whoops but your comment really related to me.
How do you lose fate actually? Is it something which happens out of it's own?
I am not religious myself even though I've stood open for it. But I've never been able to convince myself of a god.
Sorry for my Englisch, it is not my native language.
You are amazing!!!
Autumn Rose you actually can’t lose faith because no one can take you from God once you are saved but you can think you were saved but really weren’t or you are saved but struggling with a sin
Gabe, you’ve seemed a little bit down over the past few months and I just wanted remind you that God has a plan for you and even though it’s hard to see what it is sometimes, trust in him (Jeremiah 29:11) God is with you always, wherever you go, even in the low times in our lives (Joshua 1:9). If you’re ever struggling with how your life right now could be God’s plan, you should watch the film Soul Surfer, it really helps you re-evaluate your life and see where your priorities are. Praying for you Gabe and I really hope Jess gets her residency soon xxx
I don't think Gabriel can cheat with Jess because I can feel that he is very genuine about his feelings toward her. The sweetest words that I've ever heard was when he said, " She's the only one that matters to me."
And reverse-wise
Thanks for inspiring me to drink water, for beating me at rock, paper, scissors, for being this amazingly honest people out there, for sharing your believes and openly talking about God on social media and UA-cam, which not everybody does, so hands down, guys! You're awesome, I love you and your work!
It’s really encouraging to see you guys being BOLD in your faith. You are such a light, especially in the “UA-cam world”. True disciples of God. Love you guys! And also, love the new intro!
I feel like you've answered the baby question so many times. People should just respect your answer and stop asking. I think it's very clear at this point. You want to travel before you start consciously trying, but ultimately it's up to God. I think that's perfectly clear and a great way to go about it. People need to stop pestering you two about it.
love your relationship with God😍 Since I found you and watched your videos I started believing more in God and that made me so happy😊 I feel better now and I believe that God has a plan for me and that I should not stress that much😘 Huge thank you❤ When I grow up I want a partner like Gabe and a strong, good relationship
I think it's awesome when we have influencers that can have positive effects on our lives, Congratulations on your growing relationship with God❤️❤️
~a fellow believer
God bless
Wow!! That’s so awesome.
God has a plan for everyone
I’m so happy for you may God bless you 💞
You guys are so so inspiring. I love how open you are about everything, like starting therapy, or talking about your relationship with God, etc. I appreciate that you guys aren't afraid of "controversial" topics, and you both really inspire me to be open about those kinds of topics as well and to grow in my faith. So much love for the both of you
I was just watching a different video of your guy's!! Jess, you're hair looks gorgeous in this!! (It always does) love you both!!
The new intro tho 😱❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 great like always
Jess: Why are you smiling like that?
Gab: Because I love you
Me: 😭😭😭😭😭
Rewatching this after seeing their pregnancy video. So glad it did work out like they wanted it to
1. We drew
2. You won
3. I won
We need a rematch mate
1.) You won
2.) You won
3.) We drew 🤦🏻♀️
1. You won
2. I won
3. I won 😁
That was a surprise to me 🤣
@@rlizamilagros3217
1. We drew
2. I won
3. He won
I need a rematch as well:)
Hana M HA
1. You won
2. You won
3. I won
I just want a boyfriend like Gabe.. ❤️
Yeah and I want a girl like Jess (hope that doesn't sound wierd🤣)
What about a relationship as sweet as theirs?
@@Jake-oc3vx I want a relationship like them, sweet and loving, where war doesn't continuously come more than love (basically my relationship before) ❤
Love this so much!!
the way gabriel looks at jess
they really love eachother and that makes me so happy
Hey Jess and Gabe! I feel like it’s been forever since the last video! I’m so happy to see you back again this year♥️♥️♥️
I'm sure that I'm not the only one who loves the new intro and thinks that Gabe is so talented 💛 also, they are such an amazing couple and they inspire me every day!!
OMG THE NEW INTRO IS SO CUTE 💙💙
I love that you're working on memorizing verses! It's so special to have those things tucked into your heart and to be able to call God's Word to mind in any given moment. There's actually an app called "Verses" that helps with scripture memorization, but I also will sometimes just put a sticky note in my planner and write out the verse, then fold it upwards and write just the first letter for every word in the verse and try to memorize it that way. (:
Gabe, try reading The Big Leap if you have the time - gave me so much clarity on why I kept falling into these horrible slumps and I can safely say it has made a huge difference since!
hey thanks guys for standing your ground Biblically with the advice on being equally yoked. it's not easy to have an unpopular opinion or advice that may be discouraging to some people
Psalm 4:8 ; I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone oh lord make me dwell in safety. I memorised that verse about 5 years ago when i really struggled with sleep. Saying that every night has really helped
Omg the way Gabriel looks at Jess with so much love 😍😍❤️❤️😭 so precious
Philippians 4:6 is one of my promise scriptures because throughout any season I may go through it’s a constant reminder that God will be there every step of the way so why should I worry if God has everything under control love you guys
Marisa Celaya that is so true. Thank you for that.
Olivia McCleary romans 8:28 💛 He will work everything out, always hold onto that!
Marisa Celaya thank you so much. That came at the best time. And that is so true and encouraging and gives me peace.
Your relationship with the Lord as well as with each other is so beautiful and inspiring! Love you both, keep up the good work ♡♡
Im a hindu but you guys are so connected to bible like i really wanna read im so curious now
me too
That’s great! GOD BLESS EVERYONE ❤️❤️❤️
That’s awesome! I hope you can find someone in your area or online that you can explore the Bible with. There’s so many cool things in the Bible that really apply to life
Please do
There's a free app, called the Bible app, and it has tons of translations, which are all very similar, but some make it easy to understand, and some are great for if you want to really study it.😊 Best wishes! The Bible is hands-down the most amazing book I've ever read. I read it every day, and I can tell you from experience over the last 8 years- it will completely change your life for the better, no matter how many times you read it.💛
You should do a video about the process of marrying a non US citizen. My boyfriend is a UK citizen and the process is intimidating. I love your relationship you guys are the cutest!
jess is so pretty omg.. i have to look at her all the time
i got so excited when "we" played rock,paper,scissors. I lost the 1st, it was a tie in the 2nd and i won the last lol.😂
lol same 😂😂😂
Miss Cute i had the same 😂
Mendes Army ❤️❤️
Miss Cute I won first then drew the last two
Same!
Yooooo.....the intro is just epic! I replayed like 5 times!!! Haven't see their vids in a minute
My favorite bible verse is psalms 9:1-2
I will give thanks to the lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of your wonderful deeds.I will be glad and exult in you; I will sing praise to your name,O Most High.
LOVE THE INTRO
I so respect you both for being so open and honest as Christians! The Lord will bless your openness so much :)
Loving this mature and grown up version of you guys, definitely you must passed a lot things to get to this point. Blessing on 2019
Gabe’s answer to the question about being financially stable for marriage was so good 🙏🏼 such good advice for people who are in that situation, like myself 😊
I don’t believe in god. But I value the same things as you (about cheating, relationships, sharing the same values, etc) and the part about being equally yoked really echoed in me.
Even though we don’t have the same faith, I think we share values, points of views and maybe opinions about life.
I learned lots of things about Christians and the Bible, which made sense to me, even if I don’t believe in the bigger concept.
Anyway, I just wanted to thank you for your openness and everything your taught me.
I hope I wasn’t being offensive with the way I wrote my sentences (English isn’t my native language and it’s kind of hard to express my way of thinking on this topic with the correct words).
Love you both, keep being inspiring for your UA-cam community ❤️
Wow, I love your authentic comment here. What you said really resonated with me and I appreciate that you are willing to share your values and opinions and be open to learning from what they do. I think that the world, and even christians can learn from being open to the ideas and faith of others, and be loving to each other. As christians, we can appreciate and learn from people like you. Thanks for sharing your take on this!
Mel I do believe in God but I also agree about the cheating, and everything else :)
Wow, you're so me!! I don't believe in God either but share many values Christians have, it's so interesting!
Just for curiosity, where are you from? Because you said English is not your first language... I'm from South America, we should talk!! 😍
Hi guys! First of all, thank you all for your comments and sorry I didn't respond earlier, I'm kind of bad with UA-cam notifications haha
@Stefanie and Caleb: in a perfect world, we'll all respect each others ways of thinking without judgment ^^ unfortunately it is (yet, I'm optimistic) not the case, but I feel that Jess & Gabe's community is very respectful and I love that: we're all different, from everywhere (to answer to you @Anabella Santana I'm from Switzerland :)) and having different faiths. But Jess & Gabe are so kind and open about this topic that here people are a reflection of them and it is what I love about this channel. I think that it is a great value that we can so respectfully exchange and share our opinions. This multiculturalism is a wealth that we should preserve because it opens us to the world, other ways of thinking and to more acceptability.
@@MelanieGregori That's so great! Find me on Instagram anabella_santana so we can chat! If you'd like to, obviously 😘
Idk why I was so excited to play Rock Paper Scissors
Because! Its the best game ever!! 😜👍
Ur definition of cheating made me happy. Cause I feel like a lot of people don’t agree with me. Nice to know people high up in the social ladder believe the same.
Idk if your a Christian but, I totally agree with you girl our mindsets are just very differently compare to others and can cause affliction but, I love your comment. ❤️
(Don’t @ me I know its a year later) 12:16 me and Jess sneezed at the exact same time
I felt like I was in a rollercoaster when I read the title!!
I read babies and I got excited 😆
Then I read cheating and I almost started crying 😭
So true, I was like YES! NO! AHH!! 😂😂
Lol
wait why was i watching milo the whole time lol
Now I can't stop watching him too😂
through the mirror lmaoo
I'm glad I am not the only one!! 😂❤❤
he's too cute
Same haha
Your love of God is admirable. Keep touching the hearts of many people and bring them close to God. Praying for both of you! Fixed your eyes on God and He will never ever abandoned you. God bless both of you!
Psalm 4:8 was the prayer my mom would pray with my brothers and I and that just made me super happy !
Really cool video! I'm a Christian girl and my boyfriend is Pagan. We've been together for more than 3 years now and we're convinced we're soulmates. I could never love anyone like I love him no matter the religion. Luckily even if our religion are different we share the same values and we love to talk about these things together. It's still soon for kids but rn we're leaning toward the idea of raising them christians. Ultimately love can win any difference; if you have a good communication with your loved hardly any ostacle could stop you. Love always wins 💜 just my two cents! God bless you 😘
Is Gabrial ok?.. he seems a little tired or like.. emty , idk
AGREED! I left a comment saying the same...glad I'm not the only one picking up on this. He seems VERY off to me... :/
Probably super sleepy lol
Nnn Kkk i noticed and it’s kinda sad but I’m sure he noticed as well and is going to therapy for that reason as well as he’s in the middle of finding himself again. I really hope that’s what it is♥️
My church does these holy hours. This one couple sings for it (like that’s holy hour- a quiet time to connect with god, but with music so it’s more fun). I could see Jess and Gabe doing something like that. Whenever I go to it it actually brings me closer to god... like I cry sometimes while singing along
I'm 3 years into marriage and we have a baby and I'm still not really financially stable... but it's been great for us to work through financial issues together. I think there's pressure for some people to feel like they need to wait until they have their life together before marriage and for those people I encourage you to consider tackling life's challenges - including financial ones - alongside the person you love. Everyone is different though and has to decide for themselves
Amy Hughes I’m 21 years old and a virgin is that a bad thing.
Ramon Muniz nah man. Everything happens in life for a reason. Don’t hurry it will happen eventually which will make it so much more meaningful
FINALLY, I’ve been wondering where this video was. Love the new intro Gabe you’re so talented 💜💜💜
I commend you for talking about starting therapy so casually!! I'm starting my Masters program for Counseling tomorrow and it's so encouraging to see people promote the mental health culture! :)
gabe im so proud of you for being open about going to therapy. i go to therapy too, and im so glad that you are open about it
Cindy T what therapy was he talking about??
Thank you SO much for being bold enough to share about being equally yolked🙌🏼🙌🏼 so many Christians dance around the subject and I was literally dancing with joy when you said it😂❤️
I agree. It is such an important part of marriage, love that they bring this up and share their hearts!
I love the new introoo