11 WEEK MISSED MISCARRIAGE | MY EXPERIENCE
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- Опубліковано 15 лис 2015
- this was a lot more difficult to share than i thought it would be, but it was also more healing than i thought too... i started this channel the month after baby July would have been born in 2013, so thank you for being a part of my life & if this helps even 1 person then it's all worth it -- 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God."
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im 11 weeks pregnant & I dont know why I watch videos like this but im so fearful of this happening to me because whos to say it wont im no different from the rest, right? that was so emotional for me to watch & I think your so strong to be able to share that. at least you have two beautiful healthy children & you seem like a wonderful mother
Me too I just hit 11 weeks : (
+Vanessa Weather How is the pregnancy going? have your anxieties settled?
I know I'm super late on this comment but I'm 28 weeks pregnant now and I used to do the same thing early on in my pregnancy and would stress myself. At one point I just had to pray and stop watching and go with the flow .. how is your pregnancy going now? I hope well
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I know i'm late but I had a beautiful pregnancy & a very healthy 6 month old baby boy now
No matter how small it was still a baby and a life.
+noahsark1962 amen
So sorry for your loss. no matter how far along. There was a baby that had a beating heart. you have every right to mourn. You're so strong. 💜
+Simple Living Mom thank you for that sweet comment
I am so sorry for your loss. My husband and I just lost our first baby at 7 weeks after trying for several years. Your video brings me comfort and helps me to know that I'm not alone in how I feel.
it takes so much strength to talk about things like this cos when you go through a miscarriage you feel completely alone, you just have to surrender because nothing you did or didn't do caused this little jellybean to pass! I had double miscarriage few years back and like you look at two yr olds I look at twins the exact same way....always the what if!!! But I am so grateful for the two healthy little hooligans I do have they brighten my days so much. Fair play for being so open, honest and strong xxx
+The Shuiligans ((hugs))
I think those lil momentos you have from baby July are beautiful. a loss is never easy...but they will always be a part of your family
+DainaG23 always
Heidi - you are so so so strong, and such a wonderful mom. To share your story in such an open and vulnerable way is so hard - I can't even imagine - but I know you will reach someone, touch someone's life that is going through a loss as well. I have been blessed with two pregnancies, and thankfully both are with me today. My mother, and several of my close friends have gone through losses as well - and though time does help, your feelings, the memories, the grief and the love that you had for baby July will still be there. It is ok to feel whatever you're feeling - let your emotions in and don't be afraid to talk about them. Sending you love, strength, and a blessing for your family xox
+Kayleen Weaver thank you kayleen!
Oh Heidi, i totally get the whole feeling like there are people worse off and that maybe you shouldn't be as upset as them ( i feel like that about myself just hearing your story), i think it's an incredible thing sharing these stories that we don't always talk about (sometimes not even in our private lives), so thank you for sharing all that, even the whole what actually happens in the process etc, it's very brave putting all your thoughts and feelings out there like that. I have been so slack commenting these days, but really felt the need to write something on this video. So sorry for your loss, it'll be forever in your hearts xox
+Jen And Zoe thank you so much jen, reading your comment meant a lot to me
You are so sweet and so STRONG to post this. I'm sorry for your lost and I'm sorry about being late on this. I don't know you but this video made me cry. I hope everything has gotten better for you.
thank you
Thank you for sharing. I don't think that your grief can and should be compared to another's mama's. A loss is a loss. I feel like each situation is individual, just as each child is. God is good! And He is looking after your Baby July and you will all be together one day!!
+Elizabeth Ritter thank you! so looking forward to meeting that little one
Oh wow, I am so sorry y'all went through this. We know this struggle and it's just...there's a lot of emotions and such. Holding you and your fam close and sending our love
+TheGallavloggers thank you
I'm so sorry for your loss sweetie. Miscarriages are so incredibly painful and my heart goes out to you. I am watching this with tears running down my face as I'm just recovering from my 2nd miscarriage this year and it's all still so raw. You are so brave for sharing your story and by doing this you are helping so many women going through the same thing. xx
big hugs. your story made me cry. you do not need to apologize for your feelings, or ramblings, or emotions. it was real and heartfelt. I've had 3 losses, after my first and only child and can completely understand the complex emotions. we are currently discussing options with our OBGYN and trying to figure out if a fertility specialist is the right way to go. thank you for sharing this often taboo and secretive subject.
+skyluna611 thank you so much for your comment, i'm feeling the hugs now
just found this video and seeing how yoz have 4 instead of 2 kids now is proofing all the amazingness that's possible even as a miscarriage. thank you so much 💖💖💖 and all the very best for your future life together as a family 😊 💖 👪 🙏 🙌
thank you so much for sharing that. you are a very strong woman, and I am sure many people will be blessed by you sharing. My mom had 5 miscarriages, and I can't wait to meet them in heaven. I cannot imagine going through that experience, but I know it is something that a lot of women don't share. Our prayers go out to you that you will continue to feel peace and cleansing. thank you.
I know how you feel. They told me wk9, but my body thought I was still pregnant, I had all my symptoms. Then week 11 horrible pain and cramps. Went to the ER, and they did a pap and said I think we see the sack, then they scrapped and got out my baby and some clots. But the best thing that the doc did was ask me if I wanted to see my baby, and I was at peace looking at my gastational sack holding my precious baby still protected inside. I said a prayer and was able to start healing. It's weird hearing a doc say that you aren't pregnant anymore when the baby is still in you, or that the baby passed cause there's no heartbeat but the baby is still in you. My baby is named boba, it was the nickname my hubby gave the baby💕❤️
thank you for sharing your story ❤️ baby boba & baby july are together in Heaven ❤️❤️
Although I wish this journey upon No one I have found comfort in hearing others stories... thanks for sharing!!!
I loved your video and thank you so much posting! I am a sister of 3 sisters and my youngest sister has two children of her own and a stepson, she also had a miscarriage at 14 weeks and it was so hard on our whole family!!! Now that the holidays are rolling in it makes it more difficult because we just wanted that newborn to spoil and my and my sisters boys to have another cousin. Lots of Hugs to you and I hope your Thanksgiving is wonderful!!!! Talk about it as much as you need to and don't be afraid to cry not one bit!!!! It heals the soul and makes it that much easier to smile about that sweet angel baby💜💙
+cjtbc1 i took some time to come back & comment back because it was too difficult for me to do right away, but i want you to know that your comment helped my heart tonight, thank you!
You are so ridiculously strong. Thank you for sharing your story momma
+Amelia EverythingBabyNames
I really appreciated hearing this. Thank you for sharing it.
+bitsandclips
A loss is a loss regardless of days and weeks .. I know that now myself losing a baby at 12 weeks. U still plan and dream. It still has meaning . To anyone out there thinking that your early loss is not as hard and can't compare to someone at 15 weeks it all the same and we are all in pain. So glad you posted this .it needs to be spoken about more xx
louisestockill83 I agree. I also lost my baby at 12 weeks in February. It was so painful. I'm
Thankful for people who speak out about it. Makes me feel less alone.
I've followed you on and off for some time, but had no idea you had gone through this. It broke my heart to watch, but I'm glad you are healing.
+Sarah Dunwald i kept putting off making this video, but the timing felt right & it was very healing for me to do
:)
We went through this too, it is tough but I agree it is important to share with others not only to help them but to heal yourself. Hugs to you
+Jones Family Travels i finally came back to read more comments, it was kinda tough to read them right after sharing, but i wanted to thank you for sharing your loss with me
Thank you for sharing your story with all of us.. Everyone is different and I'm glade you shared your feeling on this. Baby August and baby February are always with me.. Hugs
+Lesley andNatalie
Thank you so much for this. You make complete sense through your ramblings/processing and you made me feel less alone. ❤️
+Reneevee133 that's all i ever wanted
Thanks for sharing your story. Im going through the same thing right now. and totally get every word and emotion that your saying. I am heart broken. My body is still havnt processed it through and it is hard each day. Praying yoy find healing over time. even though i dont think you wont get over it. im sorry for your loss!!
Good luck miss, we are with you.
I'm so sorry I hope that you have healing. God loves you and so sorry you went through this xx you're a beautiful woman
I am currently 11 weeks pregnant after a missed miscarriage earlier this year. I just had to tell you how much I admire you for making this video. I cried with you, watching this video. I still cant talk about my own loss but hearing what you went through made me feel not so alone. Thank you for this.
thank you so much for sharing with me! i so hope that you have a rainbow baby soon ❤️
Thank you for sharing - it makes perfect sense. I’m 5 weeks along and I’m possibly miscarrying I’ll know for sure tomorrow - i understand those feelings of not being able to express how you feel 🙏🏼
how are you now? hoping for good news in response.
Aww this story totally made me cry reminded me of my two losses :/ Thinking of you regardless of how far along it was or when it happened:/
+The Stauffer Life Thank you for sharing i love how open you are this is so sad but so special at the same time! I have experienced two loses and i love them and I think about them from time to time. So I have two rainbow babies and some times I give them extra squeezes for the baby i lost:)
+The Stauffer Life thank you myka
My mom lost my little brother. His name would have been Taylor. I grew up as an only child and remember my mom crying, missing my brother. My mom mourned him and probably still mourns him. A few years ago, my mom bought a tomb stone and had his name and dates engraved. She has it on her doorstep. I feel like it was her way of remembering him and creating a memorial. She always felt like she worked too hard and it was her fault. We lived on a farm and she blamed herself for working too hard. My mom even put a new roof on a house when she was pregnant with me. Very hard working lady but she should not have blamed herself.
Over the years, I didn't talk about *it* and only more recently realized how common miscarriages and still births are. I'm glad you made this video and feel ok about sharing your story. My beautiful cousin Katie (who homeschools her four children), has a blog called I Choose Brave. She shared her story as well at www.ichoosebrave.com/when-plans-change-my-story-part-1/
+LadybugGirlShow thank you so much for sharing a bit of your story! i feel for your mom so deeply & wish that i could hug her right now!
+While They Were Napping Her current posts are happy but the post I linked to tells her personal story. I'm proud of you and my cousin for telling your stories. It does help others. ((hugs))
Thank you for sharing. I had a missed miscarriage a week ago and opted for dnc. I was supposed to be 8 weeks pregnant but my baby’s heart stopped beating at 6 weeks and a few days. It is so hard! Hope you and me and all moms get the healing up e need and the baby we want. God bless
I'm 11 weeks pregnant and I want to thank you for your video. If I lose my baby I will feel stronger after hearing your experience. Thank you
I have a baby August....I understand. it feels somedays, that there will never be official closure. Some days I think of my loss with peace and heavenly thoughts and other days are filled with unexpected grief. My heart is with you.
+honeypickle39 ((hugs)) to you mama!
Aww, we love you guys! :) and thank you for sharing this! :)
+Calen Smith
sorry for your loss love.. i just lost my baby this past Tuesday.. i was 10 weeks. . it was the most devastating and painful experience in my life by far. . im so sad and emotional because this was my first baby and i really wanted to be a mom sooo bad. . i don't know how long it takes to feel better but i hope soon because i really hate this feeling. . i really feel your pain and i hope everything works out for the best... i hope my day comes again soon but for now i just wanna shake this feeling 😢😢
+BeYOUtiful Queenz you will always miss & love that baby as i do mine... but there is healing that happens both emotionally & physically
so sorry mama. Thanks for sharing your heart.
thanks +ShayleeDaily
I can definitely relate to your story. We told our families about our pregnancy on Christmas last year and I found out I had had a miscarriage on a routine ultrasound at the beginning of January (in week 13, but the baby's size was week 9). It was so horrible. It also tainted the holidays for me so this year I really had to fight to stay happy and not constantly think about the ultimate happiness that I had felt the Christmas before. I also totally understand that feeling that "I shouldn't be so sad, at least I wasn't further along", but your loss is your loss! I feel like you have to allow yourself to grieve in YOUR reality. You can't compare your sadness or your situation to others'.
Such an emotional watch. Thank you for sharing!
+TyrionVlogs "grieve in YOUR reality" loved that! absolutely
im sorry that this happend to you sending you lots of love...i have a 2 yr old who was born July 19th..i found that i was pregnant November 33rd. All my love from Australia 💖💖💖
+Danielle Elizabeth aw congratulations!!
You once told me that if you don't know what to say then send hearts ❤️❤️❤ ️❤❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘 I love you! Sister!!!
+Tiffany Potratz i got all of those hearts sister & i squeezed each one tightly! i love you so much!!
Thank you so much for sharing your story.
It has helped.
Sending a warm hug
+Cateye Curios thank you! hugs right back to you!!
I cried right along with you through this entire video. I had a miscarriage in May and I felt like I understood every feeling you're experiencing, even the ones you couldn't verbalize. Thank you so much for sharing your story. This last week I just found out I'm pregnant again and it's hard not to be scared of a similar outcome. Trusting in God's plan and counting our blessings. Again, thank you so much for sharing this. I related so much.
+Tracy Eilers Congrats on your pregnancy....what a blessing. Sending all my best wishes to you and baby.
+Erin E thank you so much!!!!
Congrats. I pray for a healthy pregnancy and delivery!
+While They Were Napping thank you so much. I truly appreciate it. :D
Ashley Rivera thank you!!!
Awww Heidi. Hugs to you. Thank you for sharing your story.
+Karen King thank you karen
sorry my friend i lost my first baby at 14 wks it was so hard he was a boy i called andrew ryan i still think if him today hes in my heart always. u and nw both will meet iur babies one day in gods kingdom so take comfort in knowing that. your a beautiful lady and i am glad you are my friend. god bless.xx
+CHERRYL EL HALABI yes very true. thank you
Heidi!
+Nermeen Mounir thank you so much
I lost my first baby today. 8.5 weeks no heartbeats. It's so heartbreaking, I understand you and sorry about your lost. May God give to all women healthy pregnancy and babies. 😢Crying all day
praying that you have your rainbow baby soon ❤️
I empathize with so many of the feelings you expressed in this video. I suffered a missed/silent miscarriage at 11 weeks in August of this year and it was my first pregnancy. I just feel so torn with so many different emotions and my husband and I have started trying again, hoping for a "rainbow" and our first child.
praying for your rainbow baby now ❤️
stay strong Heidi!
+Lauren Ryan there is strength is vulnerability
Thank your sharing this your such a strong person!
+MaKayla J
I'm very sorry for your loss. Very touching story. My wife is 38 weeks now and to this day I am still scared. I constantly feel her stomach. The day is getting closer and closer. I recently got out of the Marine Corps and am dedicated to being a stay at home dad while wife is working. I guess it's normal for me to being scared, nervous? Your beautiful baby is in heaven with our wonderful father and savior, baby July is your angel. You will most definitley meet baby July one day ☺️ thank you for your story, very touching and God bless you, very strong woman.
+Anton Pro congratualtions i'm guessing you've had your baby by now? :)
+While They Were Napping thank you! And yes:) was born 02/19/2016 weighing 9.6 pounds!
Anton this is making me cry
I'm new to your channel. Thank you for sharing this. I've never experienced a miscarriage and my daughter just turned one (today!) and the whole time I was prefer ant with her I was terrified. Any ache and pain I felt I would freak out. I experienced some bleeding a few into it and it was so scary. But thank God, she was perfectly healthy & I had a great pregnancy.
Pregnant with her*
+Ashley Rivera i had a few clots & bleeding with Quinn & she's perfect, it's amazing how each & every pregnancy is so different! happy belated 1st birthday to your daughter
+While They Were Napping thank you ! :)
My heart breaks hearing your story. I was 11 weeks with our 4th, when we found out at our 2nd appointment. baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks. I had no signs of my body passing baby. We found out this year the day before thanskgiving. We went for a D&C, for many reasons. I had to wait a week and still had the pregnancy symptoms. Any pregnancy at any stage is hard and your grief is allowed for however long you need it.
I just had a miscarriage last week. i was supposed to be 10 weeks but baby died at 8 weeks, it was due in July as well. so my time frame is very similar to yours. i opted for the d&c because I could not mentally handle the idea of keeping my dead baby inside of me and having to wait especially with my daughter's birthday and Christmas coming up. it was all very traumatic but the d&c was I think kind of healing for me. I had a dream the night before my d&c that the baby was a boy, so i think he was. I've been going through all the emotions and I'm so glad I was able to watch your video, it has helped me alot. I like hearing everyone else's experiences. we all had different experiences but the pain and loss is the same.
TwoBabyBoos ((hugs)) here's to a beautiful 2017, wishing you all the best 💕
Thank you so much for this video
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Thank you! You give me hope
Staci Ann ❤️❤️
I had a spontaneous miscarriage which is the worst thing ive ever been through and I was 11 weeks and the saturday before my emergency scan I passed my baby at home and it was painful in every way emotionally and physically. Hearing someone else who knows what its like makes me feel like im not alone thank you so much
you are never alone & your baby is never forgotten ((hugs)) ❤️❤️
Hey I just wanted to tell you that I know everything you have fell in my heart because I was 11 weeks and it was also my first appointment with my doctor and everything you described described my situation extort this would be my first child and my husband and I have been trying for the years but anyway i know the pain emotionally off the emptiness its one of the most painful emotional things to go through but anyways this just happened to me like literally a week ago and I've still cried over my lost baby but I just wanted you to know that I feel your pain literally and please try not to feel that alone feel I my because it makes thing harder to deal and im so sorry for your loss buti will pray it gets better for you
Chelsie Monroe thank you! ((hugs)) take care 💕
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I watched this video when you originally posted it. I came back because we just learned we lost our baby and I'm waiting to miscarry. It is so hard and I have those same feelings. Am I allowed to mourn? When people have lost babies further along? Idk. I'm so sorry you went through this. But I'm thankful for this video. ❤
You beautiful mama. Thank you for sharing your story.
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Oh Heidi. I'm so sorry. I miscarried my baby at 12 weeks in February. It was the most painful thing I've ever experienced emotionally. It was so SO hard. I'm now 11 weeks pregnant and everything is looking good, but this week I'm scared! I'm trying to just trust God and remember it's all in his hands, but it's hard.
how are you now? ❤️ i'm sorry i missed this message. youtube doesn't always alert me when this video gets a new comment.
I was watching some of your family videos and I came across this one. My heart sunk and I got more than a little choked up. My wife and I miscarried a few years ago and I realized a few months ago how much it was still affecting us and our family members because its not really something that people like to talk about and it has significant religious questions associated with it that unfortunately too many churches don't talk about. So I made a video from both my parent and pastoral perspective. I encourage you to check it out its one of my most viewed videos so it is pretty easy to find on my channel.
thank you 💛💛
i can understand everything you went through i lost my baby at 9 weeks its so hard at times but i will never forget my baby
Marian Carmody never. ❤️
i feel your pain I wish I could hug you...to make you feel better..
Big hug for you 😘
You're so beautiful thank you for sharing your story ❤️❤️❤️❤️
+Olivia A
I think you had the right to feel like you lost a child/a baby because you did. But its also good that you didn't mention it much to the boys since they were so little, they just get confused they may think that always happens when you get pregnant.
+Ashley Murphy they knew i was pregnant, but when we told them that i had miscarried they accepted it very easily because they have a beautiful child-like faith & know that baby july is in heaven
I completely empathise with u this happened to me 2 yrs ago it was my first baby An I got told on my first scan there was no heartbeat I was meant to be 12 weeks but bubs measured around 7 weeks I to went home An let nature take its course which wasn't till a fortnight later I wouldn't wish it on anyone u feel so betrayed by your body it's such a cruel thing. X
Jenna Hubbard a very cruel thing indeed 💔 ((hug))
Awesome job
I came across this video because I am bleeding at 11 weeks ..I have loss 3 babies already and I am praying that I don't loose mines now.i am scared and I don't know wat to do.
I am so sorry for your loss. I have had a miscarriage and am now pregnant again. I am 9 weeks 4 days. I can't wait until I pass the 13th week mark where the chances decrease. I am still nervous even though I saw my baby last week with a HR of 174.
Nancy Lee how are you doing now?
While They Were Napping
Hi, we are doing well. Thank you so much for asking. I am 29 weeks. How are you?
I am so sorry for your sad news godbless you both
I completely understand everything you're saying. I started miscarrying 5 days ago and it was an excruciating 5 days. This was my first pregnancy and I was scared every day that this would happen. I went in to the doctor's at 10 weeks after some light bleeding and cramps and after the ultrasound, they told me the baby had stopped growing at 5 weeks. All that time I had been walking around excited that after 7.5 years, my husband and I would be starting a family, and the baby wasn't even alive. We've been so devastated. And I know it's not great right now to think about the future, but I am so scared to get pregnant again for fear of this happening again. It's like I touched a stove and got burned and here I am want to reach my hand out again. It's just so hard. Physically. Emotionally. I am so sorry for your loss. I appreciate you sharing your story.
Joyce Wible all the very best for your and that you'll have your baby too 💖💖
Jackie N. Thank you so much, Jackie. It was a really tough loss. We're not going to give up, though. We're going to try again when I'm ready.
Joyce Wible yes and it'll work out when the times right. it'll get better and amazing. i miscarried 1 week ago and tho i grieve..i really want to try as soon as my body is ready
Joyce Wible all the very best
While They Were Napping Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. It's been six months since the miscarriage, and we started trying again two months ago, but to no avail yet. I have trouble conceiving, so I'm worried we won't get pregnant again. It's an emotional time, so I deeply appreciate your comment so much. I'm wishing you healing on your journey as well, my friend.
I just went through this myself. I was 2 days shy of 11 weeks. Baby measured 9weeks 6 days and I had already seen baby’s heartbeat at my first appointment. I had no signs of miscarriage so it was absolutely a shock that the baby’s heart had stopped. For a week my baby had been dead inside me and I was oblivious. I chose to miscarry at home with medication. I’ve had 6 children before so the doctor felt like I would easily pass this baby and she was right. Within 2 hours of starting the medicine the cramping and light spotting started. Within 5 hours I had delivered baby and placenta as well as some large clots then bleeding slowed down. About 2 hours later I started to bleed very heavy and have some extreme contractions. I went through 4 of the largest pads I could buy in just under an hour so I called my doctor, he said based on the time line of starting medication and ha I gotta the baby and placenta I would probably bleed heavy like that for about another hour. He was right. About an hour and a half later, it stopped. I basically was barely spotting the next 4 days then on the 5th day something changed. I started cramping ( contracting ) again. My lower back was hurting extremely bad and I started to bleed heavier than I had the previous 4 days. All a sudden I felt this weird pop inside of me. Blood starting rushing out of me so fast I knew I was in bad shape. Within minutes my husband was in the phone with 911 and shoving towels between my legs. I started to go into shock pretty fast and memories of what happened after get very sketchy, then I passed out. Got to the ER where my hemoglobin was already down to 7. The ER almost let me die. They were so consumed with trying to send me to a hospital an hour away where my OB/GYN was at, they didnt put a rush on my blood for a transfusion and since I have special antibodies in my blood hours went by. I was bleeding and passing massive clots and had passed out numerous times. 6 hours went by. I only survived because of the prayers of my family and friends and church family. Shift change took place. I lost consciousness again. My hemoglobin was down to 5. I was now unstable. After begging for hours to see an OBGYN on call where I was at and them refusing and hours of being told they were going to give me a blood transfusion, the new shift came in, sent off for emergency blood and was squeezing it into my IV within 20 minutes, they had an OB doctor in my room in less than 20 minutes. He was so angry that no one had called him my husband said he made the statement “ She has been here all day like this and no one called me”? They had started 2 more IV’s and pumped me full of fluids and medications. The OB doctor told my husband I was too unstable to surgery but without surgery I wouldn’t be stable, they had to stop the bleeding. I felt myself slipping away. All I could feel was sadness that my children would be motherless. That my family would bury me on Mother’s Day. Within 15 minutes in the OR he had the bleeding stopped. I was out of surgery and my vitals and blood level were headed in the right direction. An emergency D&C fixed everything and to think the initial Nurse and PA that were cari g for me almost let me die because they were determined to transfer me an hour away. I would have died in that ambulance. No doubt. Doctor came to see me the next morning. The bleeding had almost stopped. My hemoglobin was almost to an 8, ( not perfect but better than 5 ) and he told me “there wasn’t any wiggle room left for you and you didn’t hear these words from me, but you should file a complaint. He said my uterus was still full of tissue and gunk. I already knew it was because the ultrasound that I had within an hour of being in the ER. The ultra sound tech told me my uterus was full and she said “ you’re nowhere near close to being done with this” I just can’t believe that I was in a hospital equipped with the ability to care for me, but they chose to do nothing. I shouldn’t have survived what I did, God saved me! A long story. It’s still so fresh. I’m just 3 weeks out from the day of miscarriage. It’s still very fresh for me. I’m still very emotional. I’ve struggled to gain back my strength! I opted not to do the Fed D&C initially because with this pandemic I wanted to be home with my husband, I ended up having a D&C anyhow and almost died. If you read through this. Thank you. Please keep me and my family in your prayers as this has been incredibly emotional on me and my kids and my husband. We were so excited for our baby. The kids had nicknamed baby “tie breaker” because we have 3 boys and 3 girls. We weren’t trying g for a baby, God surprised us, but I think we have decided to try again, we had prepared for another baby. We will see what happens.
Thank you for sharing g your story and giving others the strength and a platform to share theirs!!!
I am so sorry to read this. especially now after so long... that was heartbreaking. how are you now? did you have another child? God bless you & your sweet family!
@@WhileTheyWereNapping I had two more miscarriages. One last September. At around 5 weeks and one this august that I would say was a chemical. I am pregnant, again, I’m 10 weeks today and terrified. Waiting for something bad to happen. Miscarriages Rob you of the joy of pregnancy. I am hopeful that this baby will thrive. That I will carry this baby to term. I bought a fetal Doppler. I listen to baby every morning and every evening. Not sure if this is a good or bad idea but for now, it’s bringing some peace.
Thanks for your video! Do you remember how long did it take to have your first period after MC? 4 weeks or 6 weeks? Thanks.
i got mine at the normal time after, so about 28 days
my prayers go out 2 you xx
+Anyia Wass thank you
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I don’t feel symptoms anymore can anyone tell me that what is going on I never had an obgyn appointment either
symptoms can come & go with whatever trimester you're in. what i've found throughout my 5 pregnancies is to not overthink each symptom. at some point an appointment with an OBGYN or Midwife will be necessary. i hope all is well. take care!
Your so brave. Thank you for sharing your storyxx💙
+Maddie Stewart
Thank you.
I'm so sorry
lost my baby at 5months sorry for your lost
oh my, that's so heartbreaking to read... i am really so sorry :'(
Hedi...don't feel silly about felling heartbroken...and people are wrong, no matter if it's a miscarriage of a stillbirth, it is still your child and you would still feel the loss, believe it or not you don't have three children you have four
yes you are right +Jazz Umbre i absolutely do have 4
and now 5 ❤️
+while they were napping- my auntie had a still birth. She went to bed one night and she tried to check the heart beat at home with a Doppler and she was searching around and she couldn't find a heart beat and she went to the hospital and they couldn't find the heartbeat and the nurses said your baby dies. She was going to have a little girl named grace and she was born in October. She got to dress her little girl and she took some pictures and then she got her ashes and we engraved her name and birthdate on a necklace for my auntie and yeah. That is my story of my auntie's still birth and it's still hard for her to talk about it but she has a beautiful little boy named Finley.
beautiful name. i am so sorry that happened in your family. ((hug)) ❤️
I'm 10 weeks. My doctor could not find a heart last week at my appointment.. my baby is still inside me right now I'm going to go back Monday to talk about our options. I am so sad :(
just hearing about your appointment send me right back to that day. my heart hurts for yours. praying for you now ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear! I hope all the best for you. I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks 5 days ( Oct 7th 2018 I passed the baby and had it cremated so I can have it with me always )I went for a ultrasound and found there was no heartbeat. I was heartbroken because I had no symptoms otherwise. I chose to wait it out and let it happen on it's own. So I was like you and walking around knowing it had passed away but still inside, its soul crushing! It took 3 days to start happening and around a full 2 weeks to pass everything. I'm hope you are ok as I know how hurt you feel right now. People say it gets easier with time but I cry very often still!
i had a miscarriage at 14 weeks but the baby was 10 weeks, my water broke and i had to go to the hospital because i was bleeding way too much, i passed the fetus at the hospital but i didn’t want to look or no the gender, i thought that would’ve made things harder, my husband saw the fetus though, i had to have a d&c done because the placenta was still inside
oh paris that's such a tremendous heartbreak!! i am so deeply sorry that happened. praying now for you & your husband.
Same thing happened to me. Please keep faith and everything will work out for you. I was recommended a product called Maca Gold capsules to help me retain a pregnancy and prevent miscarriage. The product is sold on eBay and I’m going to try it. You should do research on the product.
yes i will research that. thank you for sharing your story ❤️
I'm sorry for your loss I had a miscarriage last year I'm pregnant now I'm 11 weeks
((hugs)) & congratulations on your 11 weeks now! :)
thank you
Hi please I want to ask you
How long did you take to have another pregnant after missed miscarriage ? Waiting for your reply 💖
Hanan Mohd after your first period , you can try again.
i'm sorry i missed your comment. my husband & i waited several months because we wanted to heal mentally together before trying again.
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+Meg SmartieAndSteveo
6 weeks pregnant and I cannot stop thinking about miscarriage :( my appointment with ob is not until im 12 weeks so im so stressed not being able to see whats going on inside me.
how are you doing now? ❤️
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How about keeping some things private? Don’t you guys whomvlog about all of these VERY PRIVATE issues think that perhaps This is COUPLE OR FAMILY ISSUES? It’s just so inappropriate, verging on obscene.
my husband & i agreed that this video would help others through similar heartbreaks. pretty sure you can tell by the responses here that it is a very good thing to share.
i understand if it is difficult for you to watch, so my encouragement to you would be to not watch these videos. take care.
while they were napping You are still helping others in 2019. Thankyou for this. Hope you are better now❤️
You should call it Momday momologue
+babygirl143xoxox mondays will be lots of different things, more than mom topics, but that name is cute! :)
+While They Were Napping I miss you doing these types of videos it feels like it's been forever lol
aw well thanks! i'll get back to it :)
+While They Were Napping good :)
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