The only person you should marry || Jacob Aliet, Venus Kyengo, Robert Burale & Kerry Kagiri

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  • Опубліковано 14 гру 2024

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  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 8 годин тому +12

    It's very true what Aliet said,
    that things don't go wrong, they start wrong. Most married people will tell you they saw all the red flags but ignored them hoping the person would change. Unfortunately, marriage doesn't change people, it can actually accentuate the negatives.

  • @bobericmurimi3494
    @bobericmurimi3494 6 годин тому +8

    Jacob spills nothing but the bitter reality, made me focus on myself in my mid 20's coz damn I must cultivate my own value as a young man. Good job Dr.Kingori

  • @MainaMbatia
    @MainaMbatia 7 годин тому +9

    The cap guy need to be in the show once per week, am sipping his words line fine wine

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 5 годин тому +4

    I grew up in the 80's but my siblings are much older than me. We're kikuyu and my brother married a Kisii, my sister is married to a Luo and both those relationships are successful , and both sides of the families get along very well.
    I think it all comes down to principles and chemistry. Tribal original shouldn't be a barrier.

  • @Thejournalingjune
    @Thejournalingjune 12 годин тому +10

    Yoooooh, why am I soooo happy, the excitement in me after seeing this particular video...I'm locked for the next 3hrs 10mins. Nisipigiwe simu plz

  • @ruthn9381
    @ruthn9381 6 годин тому +3

    Loved Venus, Jacob and pastor Burale's input. Very mature and worth of my time!

  • @freemark5849
    @freemark5849 5 годин тому +3

    Mature educative discussion….all three very inspiring speakers…well done folks….awesome

  • @mrfred3619
    @mrfred3619 3 години тому +2

    Venus is giving points so well...well composed

  • @KerryKagiri
    @KerryKagiri 3 години тому +5

    Thank you for having me King with your amazing crew. Professional and accommodating. I learned so much and major perspective shifts on my end. To my seniors in this space I am inspired! My loving friends Venus, Burale and great to meet Jacob. Reading all the comments and taking in what I can adjust especially the corrections made with love.

    • @ChristlifeStudios
      @ChristlifeStudios 3 години тому

      You have a great personality.

    • @patrickmusyoka6629
      @patrickmusyoka6629 3 години тому

      Very true, get deeper on the subject perspectives before dispensing it out.

    • @soniawainaina
      @soniawainaina 3 години тому

      Give direct answer without necessarily being cheeky especially in this kind of a setting,I love your outspoken personality though, Don't feel bad that you're not dating or rather not dating just relax dear one, your answers are so tensed and personal.Rem you are a leader.

    • @adventurecoach101
      @adventurecoach101 25 хвилин тому

      I like how you argue .It can be fun talking to you .Uko na mutu?

  • @shizdequeen
    @shizdequeen 10 годин тому +11

    I like Robert burale he is wise and matured ❤🎉this is the best convo for all of you to join and teach young couples out here 😊

  • @BradleyImbwaka
    @BradleyImbwaka 7 годин тому +5

    Here for jacob Aliet. His book UNPLUGGED really changed my perspective on relationships. I am more self aware and handle relationships way better. Credits to this man.

    • @FredMugone
      @FredMugone 7 годин тому

      Absolutely!

    • @Tujuh-54
      @Tujuh-54 Годину тому

      Where can I get the book

  • @martincyril4881
    @martincyril4881 10 годин тому +14

    This show , Aliet did it very well, I love Kelly Kagiri a great woman of God but kwa hii set amechoma, but life is a learning process.

    • @akinyiokeyo4618
      @akinyiokeyo4618 10 годин тому

      Mmmhhhhhh....sisemi kitu

    • @martincyril4881
      @martincyril4881 10 годин тому

      @@akinyiokeyo4618 For real , I know what Kagiri stand for as a believer but her presentation did not do well, she is smart but I guess she didn't prepare very well, even gospel as a product ,you have to present it with diligence in my opinion she could have done better than that thank you.

    • @graceoketch5937
      @graceoketch5937 9 годин тому

      True

    • @akinyiokeyo4618
      @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому

      @martincyril4881 alright...but am of a different opinion respectfully so....

    • @digitalwriter6561
      @digitalwriter6561 9 годин тому

      she has watered down what was to be an informative conversation

  • @mainageorgewanjau1288
    @mainageorgewanjau1288 8 годин тому +4

    a very balanced conversation,zippy na jagero wangeongezwa hapa ingekuwa a plus.

    • @design_tipps
      @design_tipps 8 годин тому

      Jagero is an interviewer omera, not so much of an opinionated guy .

  • @brianndege5331
    @brianndege5331 8 годин тому +13

    Can we clap for Dr. Kingori his excellence in handling this interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @itsfyah1
      @itsfyah1 8 годин тому

      Definitely 👏🏾

    • @sammymbuguanganga
      @sammymbuguanganga 7 годин тому

      kabisaaa

    • @bettybeth1395
      @bettybeth1395 Годину тому

      Na tufute his barber kazi😂😂😂😂 nkama alimnyoa na deni😂 ama stima zkapotea

  • @higher_enlightenment
    @higher_enlightenment 10 годин тому +16

    i dont want to spoil it for kerry , but when she stood up against Aliet on age factor and failure of modern marriages at 30, brought out the point jacob said "OPINIONATED" clearly. and that makes it hard to reason with them. Just airing my observation.
    #SpreadLove #NoRoomForHate #WeAreAllOne

    • @akinyiokeyo4618
      @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому

      Asante. Citing that there are happy marriages that she can approve of....I coiled inwards...people can put up a face just so she thinks they are cool.
      She is at a point where with time she will get to know what life is...

    • @23livelovemanifest
      @23livelovemanifest 8 годин тому

      She talks too much... Plus stereotyping men. Luo men are not the wealthiest in Kenya 😂😂😂 many live on loans

    • @silvoreigns4429
      @silvoreigns4429 8 годин тому

      And she lushes out violently ,thus complimenting Aliet statements.

  • @tiberiusmaiko743
    @tiberiusmaiko743 4 години тому +3

    Aliet jacob nailed it very raw facts

  • @jossymulinge
    @jossymulinge 5 годин тому +2

    Bring jacob and Robert again and again, I would love to consume more of their wisdom "

  • @rufusnganga1118
    @rufusnganga1118 9 годин тому +3

    Jacob Aliet......brilliant mind, please buy his books guys...Great content King'ori

  • @erineachieng4830
    @erineachieng4830 5 годин тому +2

    This information is gold.........thank you crew

  • @lucymaina2869
    @lucymaina2869 11 годин тому +14

    I have lived long enough to see that most of this cultural and religious standards about relationships like submission and leadership are a scam and were based on expected roles in those cultures that developed them.The natural make up of a man is protection and women naturing,both complement each other.From there you simply relate as partners based on mutual respect. Otherwise if those marriage standards were so good ,we wouldn't have the kind of messed up society we have today.

    • @akinyiokeyo4618
      @akinyiokeyo4618 11 годин тому

      Shout it Lucy...way back some years ago,there was a rabbi who was hosted on Hope FM...he was perplexed that a people would take to other people's culture so wholeheartedly of which even them they don't fully ascribe to

  • @tushiyakey9677
    @tushiyakey9677 13 годин тому +5

    Thank you “go for a man you are able to submit to” this resonates!

  • @addahabungu102
    @addahabungu102 8 годин тому +3

    Venus uko sawa unasema ukweli. You have a very decent dress code. Impressive🎉

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому +5

    Culture is extremely important for a cohesive society....

  • @Paulshevs
    @Paulshevs 6 годин тому +4

    We are here to stay. Show ni moto kama pasi😂😂
    High value men on deck!

  • @evanske790
    @evanske790 10 годин тому +20

    Jacob makes so much sense i think he is the real mhenga here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nginakatono7546
      @nginakatono7546 9 годин тому +3

      I find the kerry woman with alot of kiherere🙆‍♀️

  • @Mr_Chr1S_0
    @Mr_Chr1S_0 7 годин тому +2

    Thank you all speakers

  • @MajorMaina_M
    @MajorMaina_M 14 годин тому +9

    Hii nayo inakaa kua fire. Acha niwatch nitarudi badae

  • @patrickmusyoka6629
    @patrickmusyoka6629 2 години тому +1

    Dr king'ori, I cherish your charisma in interviewing these great men and great woman. The other woman is just but.....

  • @MWALIMUJEYEMENCOMPUTERS
    @MWALIMUJEYEMENCOMPUTERS 10 годин тому +6

    Weeh Pastor Robert Burale, indeed patterns never lie

  • @nginakatono7546
    @nginakatono7546 11 годин тому +8

    Burale n this other gentleman
    Wisdom
    Next time leta pastor T

  • @j.j8566
    @j.j8566 8 годин тому +6

    Kerry akiongea mpaka nakuwa anxious.Whatever is coming out of her mouth 😂😂😢😢Mngecut

  • @anthonykamau540
    @anthonykamau540 11 годин тому +3

    A very mature conversation. Kudos Kingori, wewe ni G.

  • @Pkcnc
    @Pkcnc 11 годин тому +3

    As much as Robert Burale is so knowledgeable on matters relationship, I must admit that he is also a football fan on another level.

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 10 годин тому +1

    Thank your.Aliet and Venus for insightful and objective discussion

  • @diduckxx1903
    @diduckxx1903 14 годин тому +8

    Nko kwa comments n bado sijaona 😢 anyway daktari amepeana best subscription 😂❤🎉

  • @peterkioko6477
    @peterkioko6477 13 годин тому +18

    Kerry is chaotic. She is not articulating her views well. Probably she could be in ovulation period.

  • @evanske790
    @evanske790 11 годин тому +6

    Men should financially work on themselves and have some or all his wealth under his control, MARRY FOR PROCREATION WHEN READY.

  • @gregkipkirui2331
    @gregkipkirui2331 2 години тому +1

    Enyewe Jacob is the GOAT

  • @kevinmuchiri4569
    @kevinmuchiri4569 11 годин тому +10

    Today. Venus is a completely different "Venus"today her points a very well articulated and she is talking like a a real marriage counselor ulike last time.

    • @wayando
      @wayando 9 годин тому

      Yeah, today she was thinking out the idea without knee jerks ...
      But she jumped on Jacob kidogo that one time, the quickly realized and reframed the disagreement in a better way 😂😂😂

  • @kruger001
    @kruger001 6 годин тому +5

    The way burale is uneasy as Kerry speaks😂😂😂

    • @KADIMO_
      @KADIMO_ 2 години тому

      She was quite Mismatched in this panel.

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 8 годин тому +6

    Bring Kagiri after 3yrs....

    • @KADIMO_
      @KADIMO_ 2 години тому

      Make it 10yrs 😅

  • @britonabuga5056
    @britonabuga5056 6 годин тому +6

    How old is that Kerry?
    She says she's a millennial?
    Aren't we millennials supposed to be a little more mature.
    Anyway not to water down the conversation. It was a great show and quite informative.
    Good stuff King'ori

  • @elisabethwangu3979
    @elisabethwangu3979 10 годин тому +19

    Kerry is so cheeky but she should breathe in and out before responding to any questions and with all due respect practice turn taking and composure. The interview was a round table not calling each other out. If something isn't well with you, address it well we aren't perfect. Again, Jacob is 100% correct about the fertility of women even doctors encourage women to give birth before 30 because of their bodies and stuff (not quite accurate but it's true)

    • @vivianachieng6781
      @vivianachieng6781 9 годин тому +1

      I almost thought we were on route 104 show on Hope FM. Her sentiments have shocked me and to be
      put among mature minds like the three...Daktari asijaribu tena.

  • @mugishajeanclaude2949
    @mugishajeanclaude2949 10 годин тому +3

    Respect sir pastor Robert Burali Very intelligent 🧠 ❤ thanks 🙏

  • @theonekamaa
    @theonekamaa 3 години тому +1

    Loved the Conversation!!!Would Love for it to continue with an added input of Benjamin Zulu.Otherwise the conversation is so informative.

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 9 годин тому +4

    Sometimes women can't find a mate until their late 20's or early 30's, especially if we pursue higher education. It happened to me but I've more than made up for it. I had a healthy pregnancy and I'm financially stable

  • @georgesaiah
    @georgesaiah 6 годин тому +1

    Kerry Kagiri has a luvly bubbly vybe... luving the interview 😍😍😍

  • @martincyril4881
    @martincyril4881 9 годин тому +2

    The kind of stare kelly got from Bulale, and kingori covering up kelly and kelly not catching it 😂❤

  • @makaualvis002
    @makaualvis002 2 години тому +3

    Bring Benjamin Zulu the coach himself 🎉🎉

  • @SamNdege-zz8je
    @SamNdege-zz8je 9 годин тому +4

    Hii conversation inataka Amerix. Kindly leta Amerix

    • @akinyiokeyo4618
      @akinyiokeyo4618 8 годин тому

      Amerix should have taken Kagiri's place....si kwa ubaya

    • @peterkioko6477
      @peterkioko6477 8 годин тому +1

      Amerix would have killed the show. Nevertheless, Jacob Aliet together with Burale has maintained the show.

  • @joyojoyo5323
    @joyojoyo5323 14 годин тому +7

    Am first to comment❤❤❤ sending love to all Kenyans.. however things are right now, we'll make it through to the other side

  • @kennethmwaura9879
    @kennethmwaura9879 13 годин тому +5

    Bishop ako top. The time stamps, the links also 47:15 sound management 😅etc. Good job Bishop

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому +2

    For the first time nimeona Jacob akicheka kwa show ...

  • @judwmbiyu
    @judwmbiyu 9 годин тому +6

    Benjamin Zulu,Pastor T next time don’t miss out
    Dr Kingori next bring them too 🥂

    • @wesleyken9267
      @wesleyken9267 9 годин тому

      Wakuje kufanya nini?

    • @keziahmanthi
      @keziahmanthi 8 годин тому

      Zulu apana ..... We don't want loud mouths .... We need intellectuals

  • @bensfordombongi8412
    @bensfordombongi8412 11 годин тому +1

    The word "control" has triggered emotions. Speaks volumes!

    • @martincyril4881
      @martincyril4881 8 годин тому

      @@bensfordombongi8412 I guess they could have checked it on dictionary so that their on the same level...otherwise is kinda it meant different thing to some of them.

  • @FrancisKayuza
    @FrancisKayuza 12 годин тому +1

    Much love from Uganda... am loving this guys podcasts eh...

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому +3

    Culturally,mashetani za kwa akina mtu huamaka immediately one gets married

  • @josephbarasa
    @josephbarasa 13 годин тому +5

    Please do these live to consider our comments as viewers juu hao naona hawa maximize their thinking capacity

  • @vincentagini3282
    @vincentagini3282 13 годин тому +1

    The best convo to grace the year 🎉

  • @victoroduori7964
    @victoroduori7964 22 хвилини тому

    Dope interviews for sure

  • @alekiichamshi7742
    @alekiichamshi7742 10 годин тому

    I've been waiting for this set,, sharpening our minds 🤌

  • @DoubleT847
    @DoubleT847 6 годин тому +1

    😂.i just love her drama Kerry

  • @footballmace
    @footballmace 7 годин тому +2

    KERRY,Encounted Her For the first time today Kwa show but I find her to be Very weird & Not very articulate while responding shouting doesn't bring the point home,BURALE,ALIET & VENUS are way AHEAD of KERRY,KERRY Should learn not to interrupt others while still talking pissed me off😬😬but Great work Dr King'ori,enjoyed the Episode except KERRY'S Part🤭🤭🤭🤭

  • @Rena10005
    @Rena10005 6 годин тому

    Wow today's show❤❤❤, i love Jacob's honest convo , it makes sense

  • @flonya1334
    @flonya1334 11 годин тому +19

    I am in my late 30s...never had sexual intercourse of any sort by choice. so let's not make assumptions.
    Secondly, I own my own homes and cars facilitated by God through good, international jobs

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 11 годин тому

      Congratulations dear

    • @MuneneArnolds
      @MuneneArnolds 10 годин тому

      What is your point flonya? That you are an independent virgin rich woman?
      Ama ulikua unataka kumean aje?

    • @shizdequeen
      @shizdequeen 10 годин тому +1

      🎉🎉🎉 continue with that spirit until you choose once and right

    • @samoguda7308
      @samoguda7308 10 годин тому +1

      Fionya, stop paranoia....what they are suggesting applies to the majority of the cases, and of course, there are exceptions , such as you.
      In a way our decision making and way of life is influenced mostly our environment ...
      If by chance you were one of those jobless n idle, you could have turned out differently ...
      Your job has literally kept you out of "trouble", but equally it has created other challenges

    • @judwmbiyu
      @judwmbiyu 9 годин тому +2

      Proud of you
      You attract who you are
      God grant you a good man cos they arr good men marriage is beautiful love is beautiful

  • @harrisonmarex
    @harrisonmarex 23 хвилини тому

    How about a weekly show with Jacob Aliet?

  • @martincyril4881
    @martincyril4881 12 годин тому +6

    They could have brought Benjamin Zulu in this set.

    • @vee8564
      @vee8564 10 годин тому +1

      I agree

    • @martincyril4881
      @martincyril4881 10 годин тому +2

      @vee8564 thank you @ vee, But I feel in my opinion ,Kingori might have reached but am not sure how it would have looked like between him and Aliet , without each other subotaging their career ..Aliet content most of it is sociological acceptable not necessarily biblical ... For Zulu he amplifies phileo love not agape love in marriage and based on secular approach he is right but biblically we are called to agape not Babylon love ...but I would have wanted that set to have Zulu and see how it would look like ..but they really had a civil dialogue, Kelly loop holes would have been filled very well by Benjamin Nzulu coz he thinks fast and smart and he have done his homework well , but I did love this conversation thank you very much guys🎉

    • @MichaelAdamba
      @MichaelAdamba 10 годин тому

      Motooo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @MichaelAdamba
      @MichaelAdamba 10 годин тому

      Sulphuric acid 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😅😅😅huyo mjaaamaa namuaminiaaa...

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 13 годин тому +1

    I loved this one 🔥❤

  • @angelella3104
    @angelella3104 12 годин тому

    Had really waited for this video, here from tiktok😊

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому

    Ni Sarah Kabu...Leo kwa trends girl

  • @fentonatinda9316
    @fentonatinda9316 8 годин тому

    You should have added Silas to this conversation this would be more 🔥🔥🔥am touched ,good job DR.

  • @charlesnjuguna9584
    @charlesnjuguna9584 Годину тому

    I need the pastor
    coz i feel like he is givinv my story when he talks of dating some one for seven years

  • @Clevixbahati
    @Clevixbahati 9 годин тому +1

    "You were not his wife" is diabolic😂

  • @Eve_la_dj_254
    @Eve_la_dj_254 13 годин тому +5

    The title has Venus twice instead of Kerry Kagiri....

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 11 годин тому +1

    Excessive love( Smothering) is actually very overwhelming even babies don't like it....from experience.

  • @judwmbiyu
    @judwmbiyu 9 годин тому +3

    Pastor T how did you miss 🙃

  • @villamaggy5603
    @villamaggy5603 12 годин тому

    Good conversation,I lovedthe men

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому

    I can't believe Venus chimed in on the control bit

  • @jesseshadrack9326
    @jesseshadrack9326 13 годин тому

    A good Evening 🌌. Let me hear this master of masculinity Mr Aliet Ndiko

  • @kingstonechurchilltech
    @kingstonechurchilltech 8 годин тому

    is there a way i can subscribe twice cause wueh!...this conversation is lit💯💯.Lakini Burale wachana na defense ya Manchester united 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @amourmtungo623
    @amourmtungo623 12 годин тому +2

    Marriage traditionally men deliver women are receivers. Two people become one but with different personalities, characteristics and deliverance. We all have our boundaries to make things work. Nothing is perfect in life marriage is not different

    • @Sushi-m3v
      @Sushi-m3v 11 годин тому

      Sasa Kama Mimi sina any friend and it's not my choice people are looking for perfect people to marry

    • @amourmtungo623
      @amourmtungo623 11 годин тому

      @ there’s no such thing as perfection dear have faith one day you will get someone to be together

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 11 годин тому

      ​@@Sushi-m3vI also don't have friends neither am I married but God is with me

    • @MuneneArnolds
      @MuneneArnolds 10 годин тому

      ​@@Sushi-m3vwhat's your age?
      Where do you live?
      Where do you hang out?

  • @peterkioko6477
    @peterkioko6477 13 годин тому +3

    I am watching this right now.

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому

    Control is encapsulated in culture,politics,religion Kagiri....get it

  • @keziahmanthi
    @keziahmanthi 8 годин тому

    Best show 2024 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @josephngugi6267
    @josephngugi6267 13 годин тому +3

    Vile Jacob ametulia first few minutes😂 wisdom loading....

  • @Mustard_Eagle
    @Mustard_Eagle 11 годин тому +1

    "The Pastor approves continue" 😂

  • @Rinah-g1e
    @Rinah-g1e 20 хвилин тому

    Bamboo and Kevin Ewing on this topic please

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 9 годин тому +1

    But the ones from Nyeri don't joke....

  • @vee8564
    @vee8564 11 годин тому +2

    I wish it was kalekye Mumo who was here as a single woman

  • @joywambui9013
    @joywambui9013 9 годин тому

    I love Jacob ❤️

  • @Jfirstseeds
    @Jfirstseeds 10 годин тому +1

    Yes sara called his husband lord 1st pet 3:6

  • @martincyril4881
    @martincyril4881 12 годин тому +1

    Am glad Bulale has captured, He who finds a wife bible verse well for Jacob Aliet to understand , in his book he got it wrong.

  • @kennethmwaura9879
    @kennethmwaura9879 14 годин тому +2

    This was supposed to be live😢

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 9 годин тому

    Dr. Kingori, you look very handsome today, nakucheki 😅😅

    • @peterkioko6477
      @peterkioko6477 8 годин тому

      Cool down your libido. I am tempted to think that your focus was on Kingori.

  • @CJRESOURCEHUBTV
    @CJRESOURCEHUBTV 9 годин тому

    Kerry Kagiri ni mwanafunzi leo🤣🤣

  • @RAFIKI2029
    @RAFIKI2029 8 годин тому +3

    Kerry please mature up. Please

    • @ruthn9381
      @ruthn9381 6 годин тому

      As a mother, we need to empower our children. It was embarrassing to listen to her sentiments.

  • @ivachristie6802
    @ivachristie6802 6 годин тому +2

    The girl in a pink or red jacket shouldn’t be in this conversation. She is not mature enough for it and she is too opinionated. She needs to get some experience. The rest are calm, mature and collected 😊

  • @mukulimalimited1030
    @mukulimalimited1030 11 годин тому

    Men ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. A man who loves his wife, loves himself. Eph 5:28

  • @akinyiokeyo4618
    @akinyiokeyo4618 8 годин тому +1

    Huyu Kagiri....

  • @bettybeth1395
    @bettybeth1395 17 хвилин тому

    Kerry😂😂😂 kerry ameenda kudebate na wazazi😂😂😂 wanampea chance ya “play kid play” toa yote😝😝😝😝😝😝😂😂😂 kerry🙈🙈🙈