It's very true what Aliet said, that things don't go wrong, they start wrong. Most married people will tell you they saw all the red flags but ignored them hoping the person would change. Unfortunately, marriage doesn't change people, it can actually accentuate the negatives.
Jacob spills nothing but the bitter reality, made me focus on myself in my mid 20's coz damn I must cultivate my own value as a young man. Good job Dr.Kingori
I grew up in the 80's but my siblings are much older than me. We're kikuyu and my brother married a Kisii, my sister is married to a Luo and both those relationships are successful , and both sides of the families get along very well. I think it all comes down to principles and chemistry. Tribal original shouldn't be a barrier.
Thank you for having me King with your amazing crew. Professional and accommodating. I learned so much and major perspective shifts on my end. To my seniors in this space I am inspired! My loving friends Venus, Burale and great to meet Jacob. Reading all the comments and taking in what I can adjust especially the corrections made with love.
Give direct answer without necessarily being cheeky especially in this kind of a setting,I love your outspoken personality though, Don't feel bad that you're not dating or rather not dating just relax dear one, your answers are so tensed and personal.Rem you are a leader.
Here for jacob Aliet. His book UNPLUGGED really changed my perspective on relationships. I am more self aware and handle relationships way better. Credits to this man.
@@akinyiokeyo4618 For real , I know what Kagiri stand for as a believer but her presentation did not do well, she is smart but I guess she didn't prepare very well, even gospel as a product ,you have to present it with diligence in my opinion she could have done better than that thank you.
i dont want to spoil it for kerry , but when she stood up against Aliet on age factor and failure of modern marriages at 30, brought out the point jacob said "OPINIONATED" clearly. and that makes it hard to reason with them. Just airing my observation. #SpreadLove #NoRoomForHate #WeAreAllOne
Asante. Citing that there are happy marriages that she can approve of....I coiled inwards...people can put up a face just so she thinks they are cool. She is at a point where with time she will get to know what life is...
I have lived long enough to see that most of this cultural and religious standards about relationships like submission and leadership are a scam and were based on expected roles in those cultures that developed them.The natural make up of a man is protection and women naturing,both complement each other.From there you simply relate as partners based on mutual respect. Otherwise if those marriage standards were so good ,we wouldn't have the kind of messed up society we have today.
Shout it Lucy...way back some years ago,there was a rabbi who was hosted on Hope FM...he was perplexed that a people would take to other people's culture so wholeheartedly of which even them they don't fully ascribe to
Today. Venus is a completely different "Venus"today her points a very well articulated and she is talking like a a real marriage counselor ulike last time.
Yeah, today she was thinking out the idea without knee jerks ... But she jumped on Jacob kidogo that one time, the quickly realized and reframed the disagreement in a better way 😂😂😂
How old is that Kerry? She says she's a millennial? Aren't we millennials supposed to be a little more mature. Anyway not to water down the conversation. It was a great show and quite informative. Good stuff King'ori
Kerry is so cheeky but she should breathe in and out before responding to any questions and with all due respect practice turn taking and composure. The interview was a round table not calling each other out. If something isn't well with you, address it well we aren't perfect. Again, Jacob is 100% correct about the fertility of women even doctors encourage women to give birth before 30 because of their bodies and stuff (not quite accurate but it's true)
I almost thought we were on route 104 show on Hope FM. Her sentiments have shocked me and to be put among mature minds like the three...Daktari asijaribu tena.
Sometimes women can't find a mate until their late 20's or early 30's, especially if we pursue higher education. It happened to me but I've more than made up for it. I had a healthy pregnancy and I'm financially stable
@@bensfordombongi8412 I guess they could have checked it on dictionary so that their on the same level...otherwise is kinda it meant different thing to some of them.
KERRY,Encounted Her For the first time today Kwa show but I find her to be Very weird & Not very articulate while responding shouting doesn't bring the point home,BURALE,ALIET & VENUS are way AHEAD of KERRY,KERRY Should learn not to interrupt others while still talking pissed me off😬😬but Great work Dr King'ori,enjoyed the Episode except KERRY'S Part🤭🤭🤭🤭
I am in my late 30s...never had sexual intercourse of any sort by choice. so let's not make assumptions. Secondly, I own my own homes and cars facilitated by God through good, international jobs
Fionya, stop paranoia....what they are suggesting applies to the majority of the cases, and of course, there are exceptions , such as you. In a way our decision making and way of life is influenced mostly our environment ... If by chance you were one of those jobless n idle, you could have turned out differently ... Your job has literally kept you out of "trouble", but equally it has created other challenges
@vee8564 thank you @ vee, But I feel in my opinion ,Kingori might have reached but am not sure how it would have looked like between him and Aliet , without each other subotaging their career ..Aliet content most of it is sociological acceptable not necessarily biblical ... For Zulu he amplifies phileo love not agape love in marriage and based on secular approach he is right but biblically we are called to agape not Babylon love ...but I would have wanted that set to have Zulu and see how it would look like ..but they really had a civil dialogue, Kelly loop holes would have been filled very well by Benjamin Nzulu coz he thinks fast and smart and he have done his homework well , but I did love this conversation thank you very much guys🎉
Marriage traditionally men deliver women are receivers. Two people become one but with different personalities, characteristics and deliverance. We all have our boundaries to make things work. Nothing is perfect in life marriage is not different
The girl in a pink or red jacket shouldn’t be in this conversation. She is not mature enough for it and she is too opinionated. She needs to get some experience. The rest are calm, mature and collected 😊
It's very true what Aliet said,
that things don't go wrong, they start wrong. Most married people will tell you they saw all the red flags but ignored them hoping the person would change. Unfortunately, marriage doesn't change people, it can actually accentuate the negatives.
Jacob spills nothing but the bitter reality, made me focus on myself in my mid 20's coz damn I must cultivate my own value as a young man. Good job Dr.Kingori
The cap guy need to be in the show once per week, am sipping his words line fine wine
I grew up in the 80's but my siblings are much older than me. We're kikuyu and my brother married a Kisii, my sister is married to a Luo and both those relationships are successful , and both sides of the families get along very well.
I think it all comes down to principles and chemistry. Tribal original shouldn't be a barrier.
Yoooooh, why am I soooo happy, the excitement in me after seeing this particular video...I'm locked for the next 3hrs 10mins. Nisipigiwe simu plz
Loved Venus, Jacob and pastor Burale's input. Very mature and worth of my time!
Mature educative discussion….all three very inspiring speakers…well done folks….awesome
Venus is giving points so well...well composed
Thank you for having me King with your amazing crew. Professional and accommodating. I learned so much and major perspective shifts on my end. To my seniors in this space I am inspired! My loving friends Venus, Burale and great to meet Jacob. Reading all the comments and taking in what I can adjust especially the corrections made with love.
You have a great personality.
Very true, get deeper on the subject perspectives before dispensing it out.
Give direct answer without necessarily being cheeky especially in this kind of a setting,I love your outspoken personality though, Don't feel bad that you're not dating or rather not dating just relax dear one, your answers are so tensed and personal.Rem you are a leader.
I like how you argue .It can be fun talking to you .Uko na mutu?
I like Robert burale he is wise and matured ❤🎉this is the best convo for all of you to join and teach young couples out here 😊
Here for jacob Aliet. His book UNPLUGGED really changed my perspective on relationships. I am more self aware and handle relationships way better. Credits to this man.
Absolutely!
Where can I get the book
This show , Aliet did it very well, I love Kelly Kagiri a great woman of God but kwa hii set amechoma, but life is a learning process.
Mmmhhhhhh....sisemi kitu
@@akinyiokeyo4618 For real , I know what Kagiri stand for as a believer but her presentation did not do well, she is smart but I guess she didn't prepare very well, even gospel as a product ,you have to present it with diligence in my opinion she could have done better than that thank you.
True
@martincyril4881 alright...but am of a different opinion respectfully so....
she has watered down what was to be an informative conversation
a very balanced conversation,zippy na jagero wangeongezwa hapa ingekuwa a plus.
Jagero is an interviewer omera, not so much of an opinionated guy .
Can we clap for Dr. Kingori his excellence in handling this interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Definitely 👏🏾
kabisaaa
Na tufute his barber kazi😂😂😂😂 nkama alimnyoa na deni😂 ama stima zkapotea
i dont want to spoil it for kerry , but when she stood up against Aliet on age factor and failure of modern marriages at 30, brought out the point jacob said "OPINIONATED" clearly. and that makes it hard to reason with them. Just airing my observation.
#SpreadLove #NoRoomForHate #WeAreAllOne
Asante. Citing that there are happy marriages that she can approve of....I coiled inwards...people can put up a face just so she thinks they are cool.
She is at a point where with time she will get to know what life is...
She talks too much... Plus stereotyping men. Luo men are not the wealthiest in Kenya 😂😂😂 many live on loans
And she lushes out violently ,thus complimenting Aliet statements.
Aliet jacob nailed it very raw facts
Bring jacob and Robert again and again, I would love to consume more of their wisdom "
Jacob Aliet......brilliant mind, please buy his books guys...Great content King'ori
This information is gold.........thank you crew
I have lived long enough to see that most of this cultural and religious standards about relationships like submission and leadership are a scam and were based on expected roles in those cultures that developed them.The natural make up of a man is protection and women naturing,both complement each other.From there you simply relate as partners based on mutual respect. Otherwise if those marriage standards were so good ,we wouldn't have the kind of messed up society we have today.
Shout it Lucy...way back some years ago,there was a rabbi who was hosted on Hope FM...he was perplexed that a people would take to other people's culture so wholeheartedly of which even them they don't fully ascribe to
Thank you “go for a man you are able to submit to” this resonates!
Venus uko sawa unasema ukweli. You have a very decent dress code. Impressive🎉
Culture is extremely important for a cohesive society....
We are here to stay. Show ni moto kama pasi😂😂
High value men on deck!
Jacob makes so much sense i think he is the real mhenga here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I find the kerry woman with alot of kiherere🙆♀️
Thank you all speakers
Hii nayo inakaa kua fire. Acha niwatch nitarudi badae
Dr king'ori, I cherish your charisma in interviewing these great men and great woman. The other woman is just but.....
Weeh Pastor Robert Burale, indeed patterns never lie
Respect!
Burale n this other gentleman
Wisdom
Next time leta pastor T
Kerry akiongea mpaka nakuwa anxious.Whatever is coming out of her mouth 😂😂😢😢Mngecut
A very mature conversation. Kudos Kingori, wewe ni G.
As much as Robert Burale is so knowledgeable on matters relationship, I must admit that he is also a football fan on another level.
Thank your.Aliet and Venus for insightful and objective discussion
Nko kwa comments n bado sijaona 😢 anyway daktari amepeana best subscription 😂❤🎉
Kerry is chaotic. She is not articulating her views well. Probably she could be in ovulation period.
Exactly 💯
Men should financially work on themselves and have some or all his wealth under his control, MARRY FOR PROCREATION WHEN READY.
Enyewe Jacob is the GOAT
Today. Venus is a completely different "Venus"today her points a very well articulated and she is talking like a a real marriage counselor ulike last time.
Yeah, today she was thinking out the idea without knee jerks ...
But she jumped on Jacob kidogo that one time, the quickly realized and reframed the disagreement in a better way 😂😂😂
The way burale is uneasy as Kerry speaks😂😂😂
She was quite Mismatched in this panel.
Bring Kagiri after 3yrs....
Make it 10yrs 😅
How old is that Kerry?
She says she's a millennial?
Aren't we millennials supposed to be a little more mature.
Anyway not to water down the conversation. It was a great show and quite informative.
Good stuff King'ori
I can’t stand her😮
Kerry is so cheeky but she should breathe in and out before responding to any questions and with all due respect practice turn taking and composure. The interview was a round table not calling each other out. If something isn't well with you, address it well we aren't perfect. Again, Jacob is 100% correct about the fertility of women even doctors encourage women to give birth before 30 because of their bodies and stuff (not quite accurate but it's true)
I almost thought we were on route 104 show on Hope FM. Her sentiments have shocked me and to be
put among mature minds like the three...Daktari asijaribu tena.
Respect sir pastor Robert Burali Very intelligent 🧠 ❤ thanks 🙏
Loved the Conversation!!!Would Love for it to continue with an added input of Benjamin Zulu.Otherwise the conversation is so informative.
Sometimes women can't find a mate until their late 20's or early 30's, especially if we pursue higher education. It happened to me but I've more than made up for it. I had a healthy pregnancy and I'm financially stable
Kerry Kagiri has a luvly bubbly vybe... luving the interview 😍😍😍
The kind of stare kelly got from Bulale, and kingori covering up kelly and kelly not catching it 😂❤
Bring Benjamin Zulu the coach himself 🎉🎉
Hii conversation inataka Amerix. Kindly leta Amerix
Amerix should have taken Kagiri's place....si kwa ubaya
Amerix would have killed the show. Nevertheless, Jacob Aliet together with Burale has maintained the show.
Am first to comment❤❤❤ sending love to all Kenyans.. however things are right now, we'll make it through to the other side
❤❤❤ niptie pia
Bishop ako top. The time stamps, the links also 47:15 sound management 😅etc. Good job Bishop
For the first time nimeona Jacob akicheka kwa show ...
Me too 😂
Benjamin Zulu,Pastor T next time don’t miss out
Dr Kingori next bring them too 🥂
Wakuje kufanya nini?
Zulu apana ..... We don't want loud mouths .... We need intellectuals
The word "control" has triggered emotions. Speaks volumes!
@@bensfordombongi8412 I guess they could have checked it on dictionary so that their on the same level...otherwise is kinda it meant different thing to some of them.
Much love from Uganda... am loving this guys podcasts eh...
Culturally,mashetani za kwa akina mtu huamaka immediately one gets married
Please do these live to consider our comments as viewers juu hao naona hawa maximize their thinking capacity
😅
Uliza hapa hio swali nikujibu
@@josephbarasa and I guess your the constant 😆.
The best convo to grace the year 🎉
Dope interviews for sure
I've been waiting for this set,, sharpening our minds 🤌
😂.i just love her drama Kerry
KERRY,Encounted Her For the first time today Kwa show but I find her to be Very weird & Not very articulate while responding shouting doesn't bring the point home,BURALE,ALIET & VENUS are way AHEAD of KERRY,KERRY Should learn not to interrupt others while still talking pissed me off😬😬but Great work Dr King'ori,enjoyed the Episode except KERRY'S Part🤭🤭🤭🤭
Wow today's show❤❤❤, i love Jacob's honest convo , it makes sense
I am in my late 30s...never had sexual intercourse of any sort by choice. so let's not make assumptions.
Secondly, I own my own homes and cars facilitated by God through good, international jobs
Congratulations dear
What is your point flonya? That you are an independent virgin rich woman?
Ama ulikua unataka kumean aje?
🎉🎉🎉 continue with that spirit until you choose once and right
Fionya, stop paranoia....what they are suggesting applies to the majority of the cases, and of course, there are exceptions , such as you.
In a way our decision making and way of life is influenced mostly our environment ...
If by chance you were one of those jobless n idle, you could have turned out differently ...
Your job has literally kept you out of "trouble", but equally it has created other challenges
Proud of you
You attract who you are
God grant you a good man cos they arr good men marriage is beautiful love is beautiful
How about a weekly show with Jacob Aliet?
They could have brought Benjamin Zulu in this set.
I agree
@vee8564 thank you @ vee, But I feel in my opinion ,Kingori might have reached but am not sure how it would have looked like between him and Aliet , without each other subotaging their career ..Aliet content most of it is sociological acceptable not necessarily biblical ... For Zulu he amplifies phileo love not agape love in marriage and based on secular approach he is right but biblically we are called to agape not Babylon love ...but I would have wanted that set to have Zulu and see how it would look like ..but they really had a civil dialogue, Kelly loop holes would have been filled very well by Benjamin Nzulu coz he thinks fast and smart and he have done his homework well , but I did love this conversation thank you very much guys🎉
Motooo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Sulphuric acid 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😅😅😅huyo mjaaamaa namuaminiaaa...
I loved this one 🔥❤
Had really waited for this video, here from tiktok😊
Ni Sarah Kabu...Leo kwa trends girl
You should have added Silas to this conversation this would be more 🔥🔥🔥am touched ,good job DR.
I need the pastor
coz i feel like he is givinv my story when he talks of dating some one for seven years
"You were not his wife" is diabolic😂
The title has Venus twice instead of Kerry Kagiri....
Excessive love( Smothering) is actually very overwhelming even babies don't like it....from experience.
Pastor T how did you miss 🙃
Good conversation,I lovedthe men
I can't believe Venus chimed in on the control bit
A good Evening 🌌. Let me hear this master of masculinity Mr Aliet Ndiko
is there a way i can subscribe twice cause wueh!...this conversation is lit💯💯.Lakini Burale wachana na defense ya Manchester united 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Marriage traditionally men deliver women are receivers. Two people become one but with different personalities, characteristics and deliverance. We all have our boundaries to make things work. Nothing is perfect in life marriage is not different
Sasa Kama Mimi sina any friend and it's not my choice people are looking for perfect people to marry
@ there’s no such thing as perfection dear have faith one day you will get someone to be together
@@Sushi-m3vI also don't have friends neither am I married but God is with me
@@Sushi-m3vwhat's your age?
Where do you live?
Where do you hang out?
I am watching this right now.
Control is encapsulated in culture,politics,religion Kagiri....get it
Best show 2024 😂😂😂😂😂
Vile Jacob ametulia first few minutes😂 wisdom loading....
As a writer,..you get alot by listening
It's called detachment then rule
"The Pastor approves continue" 😂
Bamboo and Kevin Ewing on this topic please
But the ones from Nyeri don't joke....
I wish it was kalekye Mumo who was here as a single woman
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I love Jacob ❤️
Yes sara called his husband lord 1st pet 3:6
Am glad Bulale has captured, He who finds a wife bible verse well for Jacob Aliet to understand , in his book he got it wrong.
Don't judge
This was supposed to be live😢
Dr. Kingori, you look very handsome today, nakucheki 😅😅
Cool down your libido. I am tempted to think that your focus was on Kingori.
Kerry Kagiri ni mwanafunzi leo🤣🤣
Kerry please mature up. Please
As a mother, we need to empower our children. It was embarrassing to listen to her sentiments.
The girl in a pink or red jacket shouldn’t be in this conversation. She is not mature enough for it and she is too opinionated. She needs to get some experience. The rest are calm, mature and collected 😊
Men ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. A man who loves his wife, loves himself. Eph 5:28
Huyu Kagiri....
Kerry😂😂😂 kerry ameenda kudebate na wazazi😂😂😂 wanampea chance ya “play kid play” toa yote😝😝😝😝😝😝😂😂😂 kerry🙈🙈🙈