The panic years…

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  • Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 45

  • @NolwaziSibiya_
    @NolwaziSibiya_ Місяць тому +32

    I relate to this soo much , I recently relocated to JHB never been here before , I’m grateful for my job but change is scary/lonely I’m only 22 and I’m just a girl 😭

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      We are just girls 😭😭😭But honestly im proud of you! look at us, doing grown adult things!

  • @Noluthando_M
    @Noluthando_M Місяць тому +18

    "i just feel alone because no one cares!!" i felt that 😞

  • @oreratile_s
    @oreratile_s Місяць тому +27

    Putting God first makes you less overwhelmed and less worried about a lot of things ❤️

    • @thandiwe4971
      @thandiwe4971 Місяць тому +3

      Speak on it 🙏🙏

    • @oreratile_s
      @oreratile_s Місяць тому

      @@thandiwe4971 I will on my channel ❤️

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      Thank you!

    • @oreratile_s
      @oreratile_s Місяць тому

      @@CarolDhlamini I posted a video reacting to yours❤️

  • @keagolda
    @keagolda Місяць тому +11

    Social media also plays a role in portraying this image that we are not doing enough but in reality you are doing what you can with what you have and going offline to reflect and bask in the present will reduce that feeling.20’s for me have been lonely and shocking how school held the friendships together. It’s a lot but we are doing our best

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much Kea, we really are doing our best hey!

  • @esthermosesane8384
    @esthermosesane8384 Місяць тому +7

    Allow yourself to be happy when that moment comes because sadness and anxiety also creates time for itself

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      Yho! This...thank you so much i will try and remember that!❤

  • @reabetswekgobokoe7290
    @reabetswekgobokoe7290 Місяць тому +8

    We've somehow managed to convince each other that everything must happen in our twenties, and we somehow think those experiences will be lesser in our older ages.
    ...Letting go of those ideas is easier said than done when everyone around you is thinking the same thing.

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      So true! So true!

    • @reabetswekgobokoe7290
      @reabetswekgobokoe7290 Місяць тому

      Isn't it crazy how 20 years or so from now you'll only be about 40 years old? You'll still only be around halfway through your life.
      So when my anxiety starts being a little too much, I try to think about whether or not I'll still remember what's currently bothering me 10 years from now. I can barely remember what was on my mind 5 years ago, so🤷🏾‍♂️...Just a little hack I use to get me to the next day at least.​

  • @Sisandangcobo26
    @Sisandangcobo26 Місяць тому +6

    I relate to "Am I doing enough?" The expectations of being in your 20s are just too much yazi. Right now, I feel like I'm not where I want to be but honestly that's life. Love you for being open with us❤

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      Glad i was able to create this space where we can all relate and not feel like we the only ones feeling this way

  • @Noluthando_M
    @Noluthando_M Місяць тому +10

    25k ma'am 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      😭😭WHUUUT! Ive been too much in my own head to even notice.

  • @AthenA-e3c
    @AthenA-e3c 7 днів тому

    The way 2023 doesn’t exist to me because I felt the EXACT same way, crazy times...💀 but I’ve found some freedom in acceptance and letting go of control and I think that may help you a bit as well? Like doing what you can with what you have, e.g your roller skating, it’s simply to do little things that give you happiness and I know you feel like there’s no point to being happy in that moment since the next moment/another point in time you’ll be sad again and what I say to that is, what’s the point in being sad? If you’re going to be sad anyway might as well enjoy the bits of happiness you get when you can because you deserve a break from the doom and gloom (i probably worded it terribly and if I did I’m so sorry😭) but basically yes, you’re going through a lot, allow yourself to indulge in the feeling of happiness when you can, allow yourself to be free from all the heaviness you carry when you can, I heard a saying that goes “flow like water” and ever since I’ve found it easier to deal with... everything and I hope it works for you too and if it doesn’t, may you find what does align with you😊❤️

  • @neoshutterworth9805
    @neoshutterworth9805 Місяць тому +5

    to tell truth almost everyone feels the same way, so they are people and companies that are making a lot of Mney because of people feeling that way, its complex, human behaviour

  • @rosesavedbygrace
    @rosesavedbygrace Місяць тому +4

    God will pull through❤

  • @luyandamavuso
    @luyandamavuso Місяць тому +1

    When you’ve settled with work and everything, consider doing a podcast at side.🙏🏽love how you speak and everything is just so relatable 🤍

  • @lindokuhlemolefe471
    @lindokuhlemolefe471 Місяць тому +4

    not in my 20s but I relate so much!

  • @dimpsseile6306
    @dimpsseile6306 Місяць тому +3

    God cares❤ and so does your mom and loved ones👑🌸

  • @mathapelolisbeth7180
    @mathapelolisbeth7180 Місяць тому +2

    OMG, Carol thank you so much for speaking about this, you are not alone I also suffer from the samething and it's a lot and at some point I even thought that maybe I'm just not normal.😢

    • @CarolDhlamini
      @CarolDhlamini  Місяць тому

      Girl it is so normal and you will be okay!

  • @kwakhanyamayisela7577
    @kwakhanyamayisela7577 Місяць тому +1

    I am in matric and i already feel growing pains, thank you sm for sharing this ❤

  • @rofhiwamulaudzi3075
    @rofhiwamulaudzi3075 Місяць тому +3

    ❤😢I feel you now but with God we shall conquer

  • @thembinkosisijabulile3723
    @thembinkosisijabulile3723 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for this🥺❤

  • @chantelgwebu9400
    @chantelgwebu9400 Місяць тому +2

    Don’t be too hard on yourself ❤

  • @trudysono00
    @trudysono00 Місяць тому +1

    I get you😭😭😭😭❤

  • @t-guytrixy2206
    @t-guytrixy2206 Місяць тому +2

    GOD BLESS💚💙💯

  • @ms.hlubie
    @ms.hlubie Місяць тому +1

    I think venting all this to God will help, at school we had this evulation asking if Christians are allowed to be anxious and I think I support both sides, God cares about you and we as your subbies care, so be yourself and let God know how you feel and watch how you'll feel later on. I guess life is full of mixed emotions, but push through my dear and know that we appreciate everything you've done. ❤

  • @thabiletukuse7935
    @thabiletukuse7935 Місяць тому +2

    God sees you ❤

  • @basaninicole
    @basaninicole Місяць тому +4

    Thank you for sharing
    I think we all feel this way
    Transitions from childhood to adulthood is hard

  • @minenhleminenhle5744
    @minenhleminenhle5744 Місяць тому

    I totally get you 😭

  • @Gwaii.02
    @Gwaii.02 Місяць тому +2

    Notification gang😭😭🥳

  • @neophokontsi7594
    @neophokontsi7594 Місяць тому +2

    You'll be fine Carol❤🤗 be kind to yourself you are doing well and it's perfectly normal to feel that way at times. Keep going it's a journey filled with ups and downs and that is the beauty of life.God's got you❤
    Keep on hoping- Riley Clemmons
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  • @lifewithamanda6238
    @lifewithamanda6238 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @gofaonegareje2085
    @gofaonegareje2085 Місяць тому +2

    No one cares but God does so Pray about it❤

  • @nozinozi8762
    @nozinozi8762 Місяць тому +2

    My name mabatho Love you have video 🤘 your yoooo 💙🥰 vlog Love you