4:20 "some relationships are not going to experience your butterfly phase, but were necessary for you to become a butterfly." I rewinded that three times because YES!
She said it “woman are absolutely subservient to men in Latino culture”. It’s called Machismo and it’s a dangerous game we bring our kids into. Teaching girls from infancy them and their bodies have little to no value and especially in comparison to our male counterparts. It is a painful realization as Latinas grow older. Always told you’re doing too much or not enough because your purpose is to serve someone else -a man in whatever way he pleases. Whether it be your cousin, neighbor, family friend. We have to do better.
It’s like that everywhere for women. In Asian countries, women are subservient to their husbands, cuz their a patriarchal society’s. The Middle East, is the same as we all know, how most women are treated in Muslim countries.
Omg when you described the cacoon phase and how some relationships don’t experience the butterfly phase but were maybe necessary in order for you to become a butterfly-thank you for affirming this, this is exactly where I’m at 🦋
Lauren is a sweetheart, I saw her last year when she opened for BANKS last summer and she came out and greeted fans that were hanging around afterwards, she deserves the best!
Her perspective on relationships, feelings and inner knowledge of herself is so interesting, and the way she expresses it in her music and when she speaks makes us connect with her way deeper than just her looks. Love u Lolo
What you said about your body literally physically rejecting them, Shan - That has happened to me in the past too! All of these unexplained issues that went away when it was over.
@@Jay-jb2vr.this is pretty easily disputed by the millions of interracial marriages, namely within Hollywood 💀 the fact that u fixated on that tho is telling of some prejudice..
I think one of the main factors to let her knw that she wasn’t gonna b w/ him forever was the age difference and the fact that he had a whole tween child while Lauren was still like in her early 20s..like yea duh lol I’m getting that she likely viewed him as more of a mentor since she’s spoken abt how influential he was when it came to her songwriting/musical confidence while connecting her to successful artists by association and like he was more of a good time which is fine. Reminds me of the dynamic between J Lopez and Diddy when they dated…
Great interview! I'm really loving these more in-depth conversations and seeing Shan develop into an amazing interviewer. Not sure who Lauren is, but I loved her self-awareness. Clearly an emotionally intelligent and growth-minded person. I definitely resonated with a lot of what she said. Especially the part about your body, or another part of you like your subconscious, knowing it is time to leave a relationship but your mind [or heart] not catching up just yet.
There are many good tips to take away from this as there are many evolved thought-processes expressed throughout that can inform a young woman of what not to accept in a relationship, how to center yourself and your needs and not the other person’s solely, how to have empathy for the other persons shortcomings if it ain’t always malicious and to question whether it is or not etc. Can always expect enlightened approaches from Lauren! Good take-aways..
Didn't he do the same to the woman he lead on for 10 years? (Alycia Bella) To the point where she stopped pursuing her music career as much and supported him instead. And then he left her for Lauren if I'm not mistaken??? What a mess.
@@corablah9809 right, she probably did. This is the kind of stuff she wears. I thought it was cute even though it may have seemed as tho she was sitting a bit uncomfortably 🤷♀️
Yes sometimes you're body really can reject other men. Ty Dolla sign and her were together for forever so I wonder if that's who she's talking about. Also live your life when you're young 18-28 is like party time usually for most not settle time, explore, date other people, humans really aren't meant to settle that's why they say it's hard work when you do in a lot of cases but sometimes it works.
I love you Sharon and your content, however I don't appreciate you putting her ex's name in the title when she never had even mentioned it during the video.
Abuse is how we raise Latino children and countless generations of trauma see no other way of doing it because they’re terrified of the physical and social repercussions. It is a struggle you would not imagine and too many beautiful intelligent woman are treated like possessions like slaves because abuse is engrained through generational trauma. The process to heal, discover self love and then discover that love in a human outside yourself that does not mimic that cycle is questionably the hardest mountain to climb.
Hold up, when did this Becky G episode happen? Also, was there a Jojo one? I could swear there was a sneak peak of them having a conversation in a past episode.
….a pimp? 🥴💀 Lauren mentioned an age gap in which males typically seek to control women that are younger. It is what it is. This doesn’t necessarily indicating “pimping.”
The break up was so long ago now.. 🤔 When she did an interview for like Billboard or whatever explaining the significance behind Always Love when the music video was released last year and mentioned the ex I was like well okay, it has to do w the song she as the performer has the right to discuss the inspiration. But an interview now too to go in depth abt the relationship itself? Idk.. I feel like she’s bringing up old wounds and like this could potentially bring accusations for attention? Like I get introspection and discussing things for enlightenment but maybe it’s the fact that the actual relationship ended so long ago that this seems like a bit much to me. Maybe I’m wrong. Personally, if I was a public figure and had a fan base like Lauren that’s intruded upon and criticized every romantic partner I’d been with or attached to, I wouldn’t b able to go in depth abt these things or divulge details abt a current romance. But people are different; some are open books. I guess she is. But then again she also reads the critiques via twitter and will respond to those that intrude upon her personal life w annoyance…so I guess I just find it odd lol.
@@nspruill3027How do we know they’re friends? Didn’t they unfollow each other after the break up? We don’t rlly knw their situation. I doubt they keep in contact if I were to guess. And it does seem to have been a formative experience, it’s just my observation that she’s using it to promote things and I find it surprising being that she doesn’t like outside opinions re her personal life and bc of the possibility that it may come back to bite her IF Ty ain’t on the same page as her idk.
Lauren mentioning that you gotta b able to sing (which I was expecting bc she’s always been low-key shady in tweets toward non-singers that get all kinds of attention in the industry which I believe Lauren resents) and squeezing in the “withOUT auto tune” part to be asked to do so on the spot while they mentioned Becky G was ironic to me lol bc I don’t think that Becky is a singer as much as she is a rapper..
@@273SRN No I don’t think so either; I just found it ironic bc I personally don’t think Becky is much of a singer without auto tune than she is a rapper and a lot of these performers today that’ve experienced success that “sing” are the same way..they can’t really.
@@SupernaturalLove100 there’s a video of Becky g doing a fun video of rapid questions to songs where she sang all of them acapella. She seems like she is a decent singer but not sure if her label makes her always use auto tune in her songs from the latin songs she sings always uses a lot of it.
@@thatblvckhippie1911never. lol these “fans” are psychotic and have been peddling that lie / conspiracy theory for many years despite Lauren expressing how uncomfortable its made her.
@@SupernaturalLove100 That is so weird I hadn't even hurt it until now. I'm actually realizing I don't know a lot about the 5th harmony girls until more recently which is crazy because the group is no longer together.
No. Yellow diamonds in a line! How you're standing siiiiiiide byyyyy side! As your shadow crosses hers! What it takes to coooome aaaaliiiiiive! It's the way you're feeling, you just can't denyyyyyy!!!
Nope, Lauren is great and she does have a father. You can't be yourself when she's not there! Oh oh oh! La la la la la la - you feel amazing! How are you, how are you?
@@thatblvckhippie1911 simple her words...attitude towards men...the secret to getting a good quality man is respect, loyalty and 🎖 honor.When women present to a man that it cost money to date them(a whore) or telling them their sh!t, hence passportbros.
“Abuse: the inability to tap into the humanity of the other person” … this perspective just changed my life 🤯
My last boyfriend saw me quitting alcohol as a threat. I never looked at him the same again and left him.
My step dad did that with my mom. Started bringing in alcohol after she was sober. Can't get much more toxic than that.
Good for you for walking away, you deserve better
I’m happy you had the strength to realize what YOU wanted and left. Congratulations on your growth.
Never look back. ❤
You definitely leveled up,good for you
“If you’re not okay with my expansion then this isn’t real” …. Lauren… girl… a word. 💜💜👌🏽
Lauren’s emotional intelligence is on a high level!! I love it! Vulnerability is beautiful
4:20 "some relationships are not going to experience your butterfly phase, but were necessary for you to become a butterfly." I rewinded that three times because YES!
Micdrop!
👏👏👏
She said it “woman are absolutely subservient to men in Latino culture”. It’s called Machismo and it’s a dangerous game we bring our kids into. Teaching girls from infancy them and their bodies have little to no value and especially in comparison to our male counterparts. It is a painful realization as Latinas grow older. Always told you’re doing too much or not enough because your purpose is to serve someone else -a man in whatever way he pleases. Whether it be your cousin, neighbor, family friend. We have to do better.
Thisss
It’s like that everywhere for women. In Asian countries, women are subservient to their husbands, cuz their a patriarchal society’s. The Middle East, is the same as we all know, how most women are treated in Muslim countries.
"I wasn't being seen. I was being projected onto." That's the one for me.
Omg when you described the cacoon phase and how some relationships don’t experience the butterfly phase but were maybe necessary in order for you to become a butterfly-thank you for affirming this, this is exactly where I’m at 🦋
Lauren is a sweetheart, I saw her last year when she opened for BANKS last summer and she came out and greeted fans that were hanging around afterwards, she deserves the best!
aw 🥺
I was there too oh my
I have a friend who would get sick every time he slept with a specific person and ultimately took that as a sign to stay away
That was legit me last year! My body was like sis, if you keep refusing to listen to your gut, I'ma forcefully knock some sense into you!
Her perspective on relationships, feelings and inner knowledge of herself is so interesting, and the way she expresses it in her music and when she speaks makes us connect with her way deeper than just her looks. Love u Lolo
This convo was full of gems! Love the way Lauren is able to communicate in such an effective way like her words reach!
Could not agree more
What you said about your body literally physically rejecting them, Shan - That has happened to me in the past too! All of these unexplained issues that went away when it was over.
So much wisdom!!!!! You can tell she has learned so much from therapy too! I’m so thankful for you both sharing this 💓✨
Loved the interview and love Lauren, she has such a beautiful way with words and expressing herself
“Your projection a storyline on to me”
I *REALLY* FELT THAT!
I'd love to hear Ty Dolla Sign's version of the breakup.
Yea cause the age gap is huge lmao
Interracial couples *NEVER* last lol
@@Jay-jb2vr.this is pretty easily disputed by the millions of interracial marriages, namely within Hollywood 💀 the fact that u fixated on that tho is telling of some prejudice..
You’ll never get it
@@Jay-jb2vrThat's a wild and equally untrue thing to say. Just say you don't like dating outside your race and keep it at that.
I think one of the main factors to let her knw that she wasn’t gonna b w/ him forever was the age difference and the fact that he had a whole tween child while Lauren was still like in her early 20s..like yea duh lol I’m getting that she likely viewed him as more of a mentor since she’s spoken abt how influential he was when it came to her songwriting/musical confidence while connecting her to successful artists by association and like he was more of a good time which is fine. Reminds me of the dynamic between J Lopez and Diddy when they dated…
Ty Dollar Sign 💲?
The Latina woman trauma part is so real. As a young woman, I've had to redefine love and partnership for myself.
OMG the fact an ad for Ty Dolla Sign came up during the episode ahahaha 😂
No way
Waiting for the rest of the interview as you promised 😭
Didn’t know they were together, can’t wait to listen to the whole interview 🥰😍
what a pleasant surprise! lauren is so ethereal i love listening to her speak
Great interview! I'm really loving these more in-depth conversations and seeing Shan develop into an amazing interviewer. Not sure who Lauren is, but I loved her self-awareness. Clearly an emotionally intelligent and growth-minded person. I definitely resonated with a lot of what she said. Especially the part about your body, or another part of you like your subconscious, knowing it is time to leave a relationship but your mind [or heart] not catching up just yet.
My love for this woman grows more and more everyday. 💕
This is one of my favorite episodes ever. THANK YOU SHANN AND LAUREN!! ❤
I love Lauren and I knew this was going to be a good conversation 💞
I got so much love and respect for Lauren
Bless my little rainbow heart 🙌🏾🙌🏾 We thank you Shan!
My first boyfriend saw my happiness as a threat. After that I never could look at him the same way again. So I left.
@@whitepatterns8320 yep. If someone can't be happy with you being happy, they're not the one for you.
There are many good tips to take away from this as there are many evolved thought-processes expressed throughout that can inform a young woman of what not to accept in a relationship, how to center yourself and your needs and not the other person’s solely, how to have empathy for the other persons shortcomings if it ain’t always malicious and to question whether it is or not etc. Can always expect enlightened approaches from Lauren! Good take-aways..
I can listen to her forever, she has a beutiful soul
oh my god I love Lauren Jauregui so much
At the end of the day Lauren was 21 and he was 35. It was never gonna work.
🎯 and I’m sure many of the people in her life told her that at the time
@@SupernaturalLove100 who was she dating
I don’t think the age different was a problem, don’t have to be the same age or similar age. To have a normal and healthy relationship.
Sheesh this came right on time 🎯👏🏾
Didn't he do the same to the woman he lead on for 10 years? (Alycia Bella) To the point where she stopped pursuing her music career as much and supported him instead.
And then he left her for Lauren if I'm not mistaken??? What a mess.
We really don’t know unless that’s been confirmed. Fan fodder is merely gossip by fans..doesn’t make any of it fact
Can we watch the full thing anywhere? The link to watch is showing an error
Jail to the stylist!! Made her look so uncomfortable 😔
How do you know she didn't dress herself?😅
*@Nay Sa* But she looks gorgeous and not uncomfortable. Jason Derulo! Let her take you dancing, two-step to the bedroom!
@@corablah9809 right, she probably did. This is the kind of stuff she wears. I thought it was cute even though it may have seemed as tho she was sitting a bit uncomfortably 🤷♀️
Yes sometimes you're body really can reject other men. Ty Dolla sign and her were together for forever so I wonder if that's who she's talking about. Also live your life when you're young 18-28 is like party time usually for most not settle time, explore, date other people, humans really aren't meant to settle that's why they say it's hard work when you do in a lot of cases but sometimes it works.
Yes
Healing with validations and affirmations.
I love you Sharon and your content, however I don't appreciate you putting her ex's name in the title when she never had even mentioned it during the video.
Ok so i thought i was trippin. She def. did not mention him.
Wheres the full videooooo
Love her ❤️
Lauren is queen ❤😊
Has the Becky G episode come out yet? I’m not getting anything when I search it 😩
She said in a different comment that it’ll be in March!!
I was just going to ask the same thing, thank you 😊
Drink every time lauren says "you know?"
Beautifully said 😢❤
Hermosa Lauren ❤
“Latina woman” why do people say this?? Pretty redundant…why are we saying it this way these days? 🤔🥴💀
Is there a way to watch the full interview? I know we can listen on the Podcast app 😊
May you introduce the guest
I was meant to watch this right now. This is me. I understand now.
So excited for the full episode! I love her
Please can you link the Becky g podcast episode. I can’t find it
She commented it’ll come out in March!!
Abuse is how we raise Latino children and countless generations of trauma see no other way of doing it because they’re terrified of the physical and social repercussions. It is a struggle you would not imagine and too many beautiful intelligent woman are treated like possessions like slaves because abuse is engrained through generational trauma. The process to heal, discover self love and then discover that love in a human outside yourself that does not mimic that cycle is questionably the hardest mountain to climb.
Hold up, when did this Becky G episode happen?
Also, was there a Jojo one? I could swear there was a sneak peak of them having a conversation in a past episode.
yeah, i haven't been able to find the Becky G episode either.
February is so so busy for me and I haven’t really had the time that I’d like to for those episodes. March tho!!
He’s a Pimp… He wants to control her…Glad she walked away.
….a pimp? 🥴💀 Lauren mentioned an age gap in which males typically seek to control women that are younger. It is what it is. This doesn’t necessarily indicating “pimping.”
Cant find this playlist on Pandora
podcast
The break up was so long ago now.. 🤔 When she did an interview for like Billboard or whatever explaining the significance behind Always Love when the music video was released last year and mentioned the ex I was like well okay, it has to do w the song she as the performer has the right to discuss the inspiration. But an interview now too to go in depth abt the relationship itself? Idk.. I feel like she’s bringing up old wounds and like this could potentially bring accusations for attention? Like I get introspection and discussing things for enlightenment but maybe it’s the fact that the actual relationship ended so long ago that this seems like a bit much to me. Maybe I’m wrong. Personally, if I was a public figure and had a fan base like Lauren that’s intruded upon and criticized every romantic partner I’d been with or attached to, I wouldn’t b able to go in depth abt these things or divulge details abt a current romance. But people are different; some are open books. I guess she is. But then again she also reads the critiques via twitter and will respond to those that intrude upon her personal life w annoyance…so I guess I just find it odd lol.
She’s also probably about to do a press tour too
@@mollydelfuego344
The music video was released last year tho so I’d think it’s a bit late to do a whole press tour re the song..
They’re friends so I would assume he’s fine with it. It was a very formative experience for her so she feels strongly about it
@@nspruill3027How do we know they’re friends? Didn’t they unfollow each other after the break up? We don’t rlly knw their situation. I doubt they keep in contact if I were to guess. And it does seem to have been a formative experience, it’s just my observation that she’s using it to promote things and I find it surprising being that she doesn’t like outside opinions re her personal life and bc of the possibility that it may come back to bite her IF Ty ain’t on the same page as her idk.
@@SupernaturalLove100 she literally says in the podcast that they’re friends and they had actually hung out the day before this was filmed
im here bright and earlyyyy
Is there a way a marriage can survive in the land of the free and the brave?
They dated?
Lauren mentioning that you gotta b able to sing (which I was expecting bc she’s always been low-key shady in tweets toward non-singers that get all kinds of attention in the industry which I believe Lauren resents) and squeezing in the “withOUT auto tune” part to be asked to do so on the spot while they mentioned Becky G was ironic to me lol bc I don’t think that Becky is a singer as much as she is a rapper..
I don't think she was shading Becky. They are good friends.
@@273SRN
No I don’t think so either; I just found it ironic bc I personally don’t think Becky is much of a singer without auto tune than she is a rapper and a lot of these performers today that’ve experienced success that “sing” are the same way..they can’t really.
@@SupernaturalLove100 there’s a video of Becky g doing a fun video of rapid questions to songs where she sang all of them acapella. She seems like she is a decent singer but not sure if her label makes her always use auto tune in her songs from the latin songs she sings always uses a lot of it.
💜
Yo
I’ve always thought you two look so similar 😍😍
lol what??
Maybe the eyes other than that not really
Damn dolla sign did her so dirty
Damn
Ok but like why is she acting like she never did this to camilia?? What goes around comes back around in all kinds of way.
As if you actually know anything about Lauren… why are you assuming she ever dated Camila lol they were just friends
When did she date her?
@@thatblvckhippie1911never. lol these “fans” are psychotic and have been peddling that lie / conspiracy theory for many years despite Lauren expressing how uncomfortable its made her.
@@SupernaturalLove100 That is so weird I hadn't even hurt it until now. I'm actually realizing I don't know a lot about the 5th harmony girls until more recently which is crazy because the group is no longer together.
Woah. Another pr stunt?
why u say that
I do not feel sorry for Lauren .He was in a relationship with someone else when she got with him !!!!!
No. Yellow diamonds in a line! How you're standing siiiiiiide byyyyy side! As your shadow crosses hers! What it takes to coooome aaaaliiiiiive! It's the way you're feeling, you just can't denyyyyyy!!!
😘🥰😍
Listening to these justifies the stats.
Fatherless girls look like this. So sad
Nope, Lauren is great and she does have a father. You can't be yourself when she's not there! Oh oh oh! La la la la la la - you feel amazing! How are you, how are you?
Code words for carousel rider
🤣👌🤟
What does that mean?
@@valf156115 what that means is she was not too interested in a relationship but mostly about getting laid.
@@whitewolf8458how did you come to that conclusion?
@@thatblvckhippie1911 simple her words...attitude towards men...the secret to getting a good quality man is respect, loyalty and 🎖 honor.When women present to a man that it cost money to date them(a whore) or telling them their sh!t, hence passportbros.
CC FATAL FRAGILE MASCULINITY
Sounds abusive