28:17 “…but very rarely are we self aware enough to understand that we’re CHOOSING something that is not respecting us and we’re CHOOSING to try to change someone instead of just receiving what is for us.” #Gold
This is, by far, my favorite episode. Lauren’s story really resonates with me because I went through a very similar situation. It’s amazing the way she beautifully articulated what she went through and how she healed without being disrespectful toward the other party. She handled this conversation with such maturity.
I always gave the side eye to ty dollarsign for dating Lauren she still had the mindset of a teenager. A lot of older men dater younger women sometimes a minor if they could get away with too.
Rightt, and I found it surprising that she chose to date someone so much older than her too WITH a preteen child at that knowing that she’s always seemed pretty conscious abt red flags. I just KNOW that her traditional Latin parents must’ve been giving her shxt abt it 💀 The feeling I’ve always gotten from seeing them was that he served as a mentor for her in her music as she’s talked abt him giving her a nonexistent confidence in her writing skills and would take her along w him to the studio to watch him work and we’d see her as a result b exposed to other artists in the industry and be taken along to industry parties..it reminded me of the mentorship-esque relationship that Diddy and Jennifer Lopez had minus the age difference of course. I think Ty being an affirming voice for her within the sectors of her insecurity regarding music was a big part of her attraction from an outsiders point of view and maybe saying or admitting to that would’ve seemed too much like a transactional relationship in which someone “used” the other but I think it could just b seen as one of the few parts that contributed to their coupling and not the entirety of the reason they were together 🤷🏾♀️
Didn't really know much about Lauren before this episode (obviously other than Fifth Harmony), but man, I love seeing someone mature. 26 and emotionally beyond her years; she's grounded. I hope to hear her views on life, love, and self in another ten years and see how she's progressed.
@regular rae I AGREE with you SSOOOO much!! I’ve seen some things from her rather seldomly( aside from her music videos & performances), but I enjoyed this interview quite a bit!!!
@@SupernaturalLove100 & @Darlene Saldana It’s most certainly ESSENTIAL for EVERYONE, both males and females indeed!! ESPECIALLY, those whom are younger and who are just beginning to get their feet wet and those who literally, are just starting to set out on their adventures and their own journey in the world. It’s MOSTLY, ESSENTIAL for the young(er) generations. Even though learning healthy and non toxic stuff is certainly beneficial to anyone of ANY generation. For the younger generations the internet & social media is both a gift and a curse. As long as it’s well balanced with the realistic understanding of how embellished it can be. It’s possible to be used well & also as a learning tool.
30:14 "that might be a past story that I have to bring to the table and talk about." 30:27 "Come from a place of understanding yourself rather than blaming someone else for treating you a certain way." 30:34 "sometimes people are treating you a certain way, which is valid." 31:41 Lauren speaks about the power of empathy This is all 💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
"The respect that is necessary for a real relationship to happen, has a lot to do with grounding yourself and your truth and understanding yourself and your triggers" 💫 La escucharía toda mi vida compartiendo lo que aprendió, como sanó y como va creciendo y siendo esta mejor versión suya. Su mente es increíble.
I don’t know if Shan has an episode about this, but would love to hear more about the partner she felt like her body was rejecting because of recurrent infections… Not too many people discuss what these things may mean about knowing whether your partner is meant for you
Surprised Shan mentioned it bc some would categorize those experiences, body manifestations as spiritual and I believe she doesn’t typically align wit that.
@@MsMizz1 It doesn't have to be categorised as spiritual, but I understand how some would see it that way. However a book like: "The Body Keeps The Score" provides an alternative way of looking at such things. The body has an inherent wisdom which it doesn't help to ignore.
Thanks for this comment! I didn’t know that was a real thing even though I was experiencing it. I tried to rekindle things with an ex who cheated on me but every time I would hangout with him, rashes would appear on my skin and when I stopped hanging out with him the rashes would disappear. I couldn’t figure out why! Now I have a better understanding because of your comment.
I love Lauren. I feel everytime she talks, i listen and learn a lot from her. I'm spiritual like her too. And i love this talk. I love that this didn't focus on the hurt and pain, but more so on empowering, healing, place of love, compassion, and lessons learned w/o judgement.
My goshhhh. I went to her show last WEEK in buenos aires! Listening to Always love live, having her singing in front of you... it was and incredible experience and the song is a masterpiece. I cried during that performance. Because like she said, it's about seeing the love I had for a person but knowing that we couldn't be together anymore. I walked away after talking for a long time but right now I'm the worst person alive ... Going back to Lauren. I met her and She is such an amazing person. I love the way she expresses herself and how mature and healed she is right now. Genuinely happy for her and her relationship and thankful for her being in this world. I love her ♡
I love this.. especially because she is being so open and vulnerable.. i also love how she mentions her new relationship with a woman openly.. i know a few women that after a bad break up with men they run to women emotionally to heal them and low key kind of use them.. and i adore..that she is not like that at all.. she is open.. transparent.. still young but more mature than most.. and can articulate her feelings very calmly.. very refreshing.. 👏👏.. also shan did a great job interviewing her and giving her a very safe and relaxed space so she can feel that way..
Ughhh I love Laurennnn, scratch being a Fifth Harmony fan for almost a decade lol (had to ad that). I just genuinely love her choice of words, she’s such an intentional speaker, and I always feel her energy through the screen. I wish we were best friends lol 😫💀
This is one of the most impactful podcast episodes I’ve ever heard, Lauren's spiritual and emotional depth really helped create a shift in me. I've listened to this 20x and counting lol😅 I can't get enough!
I didn’t know of Lauren before this episode but she is a VIBE. Can definitely relate with her journey and I’ve been guilty of matching energy for energy in the past- now I know better. Respect all encompassing is key and a bare minimum 🔑. So affirming🫶🏾. Loved this episode 🙌🏾
I am shocked with how much I come back to this interview. This applies to so many different relationships too, anything that doesn't resonate in a healthy way.
What she said from 31:47 to 33:00 is such a compassionate way of loving, but she is also realistic at the end when she said that not everyone has the tools to love a person like that, and that is okay.
Lauren is awesome; owning her truth and blossoming wonderfully. Shan, thank you for being such a likable conversationalist, you ask meaningful questions and you listen to hear, not solely to respond. I am watching this channel more and more!
28:12 "It's easy to get caught up in what's happening to you and how you're being treated but very rarely are we self-aware enough that we are choosing something that's not respecting us. & we're choosing to try and change someone rather than receiving what is for us." 29:31 "It take a lot of courage to be honest with yourself about why you're feeling the way you are any not just externalizing/projecting by blaming your partner."
This has helped lots with my recent breakup. I also matched my ex’s energy. He would yell and treat me like 💩 and so I was like “oh hellll no” you wanna yell.. so can I. It was ugly and made me feel ugly. But I did feel justified and still do.. trying to work on that. I should have left him a long time ago. ❤
I love Lauren jauregui so much man she is such a inspiration she is so beautiful and so mature she helps me so much your such a special person girl keep it up ❤
Love her. Her enlightment is not only learned, but I feel spirituality is pure love and acceptance even in letting go. Love is truth. Beautiful interview. Also, as a Latina this resonates 110% In love, we give endlessly, but yes the point about respect and getting our love needs met is SUPER Key. I learned this in all relationships. It still shocks me because being Latina there have been some preconceived expectations on how much I can give. This usually exceeds what I can give in reality. And when I politely step away or address my boundary time and time again people are shocked and or offended. Yeah, guess what? I matter. What did Iyanla say? 'Yes, we teach people how to treat us.' Yes, please be respectful to yourself. 🙏 Thank you Shan for another beautiful 😍 interview. Now, I will be looking for Becky G's interview. Love Lauren's voice. Mucho Amor and Light 🥰🌠🌌
I loved this conversation. So enriching. I literally just found this channel bc of it. Loved it. Susbcribing it. And I LOVE that Lauren is so happy and free in her current relationship. I hope she keeps growing, learning and blossoming like she has been. So happy to have followed her path since 2012 ♥
OMG I love that you had her on the podcast! I’ve been a fan of hers since Fifth Harmony & followed her along her solo journey! I can’t believe I’m just now discovering your podcast. I can’t wait to see more episodes.
i seriously cant choose which episodes are my favorite, they all hit me at the perfect time and i learn so much and get so much value from each one. lauren is amazing and so insightful, definitely inspired me to reflect on my past relationships and will be sharing this episode forward because its just so good. a topic im curious and intrigued on hearing about again is you and jared's open marriage, i know its a sensitive topic and it might bring some backlash from others but not from me. i love hearing about you guys dynamic and your relationship style. you truly are my relationship and love muse! Love you Shan!
(This was originally an email but I realized I could also leave a comment) Im listening to Lovers and Friends episode I do think about divorcing you. Of course it was an insightful episode as I would expect since I’ve listened to almost every episode but the very end really touched me deeply. Shan shares something so vulnerable and talks on her fear of letting her fear go. I just want to thank Shan for being so honest because I heard my own heart in that sentiment. As a queer, non monogamous, and a-romantic person, I am not someone who aspires to be married. Even in that, I still found myself relating so deeply to this episode. I struggle with keeping people at arms length no matter what the relationship dynamic is but constantly craving deeper connections. Never entering a situation without an exit plan. This is where fear has a deep hold on me. Being afraid of rejection, abandonment, and pain keeps me from the love I know I am deserving of. So I stand in solidarity with you Shan. Thank you again for continuously choosing to share hard truths. Sierra
Ay caramba Lauren ya eras mi crush (fisicamente y artísticamente) pero escucharte expresar sobre aspectos importantes caramba no puedo evitar q me gustes más 💗🌈💯
I have been in a very long distance relationship (UK - Korea) which on top of it is a military relationship. I was wondering if you would ever consider doing an episode on one or both topics. I love and appreciate your work it has helped me in a lot of ways.
What she said in the beginning is why men like Leo Dicaprio goes for younger women, it's not surprising that with Ty Dolla sign, a black man, is not ok with a young girl becoming a woman. They can't handle when you start to see things for what it is, besides "I am dating a older guy" which a lot of young girls see almost as a prize.
This comment is very biased. “It’s not surprising…a black man”. That was your first mistake because Ty Dolla sign doesn’t reflect all black men. Your low expectations of black men seems like a personal problem
@@i.1213 Yes here and then you will find black men who is not threatened by grown women, but overall black men are the first ones to shame a woman who is not married in her 30's. But yes these black male celebrities are something else.
…what does him bein a Blk man gotta do w the age old reality of males dating younger women which is not specific to the Blk community? Your cmment became very questionable at that point as it was an irrelevant mention…..
Her earlier understanding of love as to what can I do for you how can I be of service to you is the way it's supposed to be. That is how you're supposed to love. It's only a problem when it's not reciprocated.
Stream ‘50 feet’ by Lauren 👌🏽 “I need more than fifty feet If your mind, body, soul ain't aligned I don't need you messing with mine Outta sight, outta mind”
Age gap is too big. Knew they were never gonna make it…she has abandonment issues lol 2 years is nothing babe…absolutely nothing. That’s a brand new relationship… empathy for a GROWN man? No ma’am. Absolutely not
2 yrs may b nothing to you or in the grand scheme of things but it can feel like a long time in a relationship and was to her so dismissing that lived experience for her ain’t necessarily it. The age gap was too big however along w the fact that he had a whole preteen child which made it even more less likely to work and weird. She can have empathy for his shortcomings as a human 🤷🏾♀️
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This Lauren girl...She's gorgeous.
28:17 “…but very rarely are we self aware enough to understand that we’re CHOOSING something that is not respecting us and we’re CHOOSING to try to change someone instead of just receiving what is for us.” #Gold
This is, by far, my favorite episode. Lauren’s story really resonates with me because I went through a very similar situation. It’s amazing the way she beautifully articulated what she went through and how she healed without being disrespectful toward the other party. She handled this conversation with such maturity.
I always gave the side eye to ty dollarsign for dating Lauren she still had the mindset of a teenager. A lot of older men dater younger women sometimes a minor if they could get away with too.
Rightt, and I found it surprising that she chose to date someone so much older than her too WITH a preteen child at that knowing that she’s always seemed pretty conscious abt red flags. I just KNOW that her traditional Latin parents must’ve been giving her shxt abt it 💀 The feeling I’ve always gotten from seeing them was that he served as a mentor for her in her music as she’s talked abt him giving her a nonexistent confidence in her writing skills and would take her along w him to the studio to watch him work and we’d see her as a result b exposed to other artists in the industry and be taken along to industry parties..it reminded me of the mentorship-esque relationship that Diddy and Jennifer Lopez had minus the age difference of course. I think Ty being an affirming voice for her within the sectors of her insecurity regarding music was a big part of her attraction from an outsiders point of view and maybe saying or admitting to that would’ve seemed too much like a transactional relationship in which someone “used” the other but I think it could just b seen as one of the few parts that contributed to their coupling and not the entirety of the reason they were together 🤷🏾♀️
Creepy
Same. Its very weird. I tried to push it aside because I thought she was happy but he was a whole grown man and she was just coming out of the teens.
Didn't really know much about Lauren before this episode (obviously other than Fifth Harmony), but man, I love seeing someone mature. 26 and emotionally beyond her years; she's grounded. I hope to hear her views on life, love, and self in another ten years and see how she's progressed.
What more young females need to see. Young Females who mature up and learn to love and respect themselves.
@@darlenesaldana6665 why don’t we ever say “young males?” 🤔
@regular rae I AGREE with you SSOOOO much!! I’ve seen some things from her rather seldomly( aside from her music videos & performances), but I enjoyed this interview quite a bit!!!
@@SupernaturalLove100 & @Darlene Saldana
It’s most certainly ESSENTIAL for EVERYONE, both males and females indeed!! ESPECIALLY, those whom are younger and who are just beginning to get their feet wet and those who literally, are just starting to set out on their adventures and their own journey in the world.
It’s MOSTLY, ESSENTIAL for the young(er) generations. Even though learning healthy and non toxic stuff is certainly beneficial to anyone of ANY generation. For the younger generations the internet & social media is both a gift and a curse. As long as it’s well balanced with the realistic understanding of how embellished it can be. It’s possible to be used well & also as a learning tool.
30:14 "that might be a past story that I have to bring to the table and talk about."
30:27 "Come from a place of understanding yourself rather than blaming someone else for treating you a certain way."
30:34 "sometimes people are treating you a certain way, which is valid."
31:41 Lauren speaks about the power of empathy
This is all 💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
"The respect that is necessary for a real relationship to happen, has a lot to do with grounding yourself and your truth and understanding yourself and your triggers" 💫
La escucharía toda mi vida compartiendo lo que aprendió, como sanó y como va creciendo y siendo esta mejor versión suya. Su mente es increíble.
I don’t know if Shan has an episode about this, but would love to hear more about the partner she felt like her body was rejecting because of recurrent infections… Not too many people discuss what these things may mean about knowing whether your partner is meant for you
Yes please I had a similar situation and I’d like to hear more
It is so common! Ppl will say it’s woo woo but it’s another example of the wisdom and awareness of our bodies that we’re disconnected from.
Surprised Shan mentioned it bc some would categorize those experiences, body manifestations as spiritual and I believe she doesn’t typically align wit that.
@@MsMizz1 It doesn't have to be categorised as spiritual, but I understand how some would see it that way. However a book like: "The Body Keeps The Score" provides an alternative way of looking at such things. The body has an inherent wisdom which it doesn't help to ignore.
Thanks for this comment! I didn’t know that was a real thing even though I was experiencing it. I tried to rekindle things with an ex who cheated on me but every time I would hangout with him, rashes would appear on my skin and when I stopped hanging out with him the rashes would disappear. I couldn’t figure out why! Now I have a better understanding because of your comment.
I swear Lauren’s mind/art has helped me take steps towards growth on so many levels, so much appreciation for this human 🤎🧚🏼♀️
I could hear Lauren speaking forever. Her mind is just amazing
Lol Lauren developed an even heavier latina accent after 5th Harmony and I love itttt😭❤
I really enjoyed this conversation and felt seen. Lauren’s self awareness is goals.
she says a lot without sayin anything
I love Lauren. I feel everytime she talks, i listen and learn a lot from her. I'm spiritual like her too. And i love this talk. I love that this didn't focus on the hurt and pain, but more so on empowering, healing, place of love, compassion, and lessons learned w/o judgement.
The duo I didn't know I needed
My goshhhh. I went to her show last WEEK in buenos aires! Listening to Always love live, having her singing in front of you... it was and incredible experience and the song is a masterpiece. I cried during that performance. Because like she said, it's about seeing the love I had for a person but knowing that we couldn't be together anymore. I walked away after talking for a long time but right now I'm the worst person alive ...
Going back to Lauren. I met her and She is such an amazing person. I love the way she expresses herself and how mature and healed she is right now. Genuinely happy for her and her relationship and thankful for her being in this world. I love her ♡
I love this.. especially because she is being so open and vulnerable.. i also love how she mentions her new relationship with a woman openly.. i know a few women that after a bad break up with men they run to women emotionally to heal them and low key kind of use them.. and i adore..that she is not like that at all.. she is open.. transparent.. still young but more mature than most.. and can articulate her feelings very calmly.. very refreshing.. 👏👏.. also shan did a great job interviewing her and giving her a very safe and relaxed space so she can feel that way..
Ughhh I love Laurennnn, scratch being a Fifth Harmony fan for almost a decade lol (had to ad that). I just genuinely love her choice of words, she’s such an intentional speaker, and I always feel her energy through the screen. I wish we were best friends lol 😫💀
Me too 😢only got to meet her once and it was the best day of my life
Lauren really knows how to express herself and is so well-spoken
I love Lauren, shes just so powerful
This is one of the most impactful podcast episodes I’ve ever heard, Lauren's spiritual and emotional depth really helped create a shift in me. I've listened to this 20x and counting lol😅 I can't get enough!
I didn’t know of Lauren before this episode but she is a VIBE. Can definitely relate with her journey and I’ve been guilty of matching energy for energy in the past- now I know better. Respect all encompassing is key and a bare minimum 🔑. So affirming🫶🏾. Loved this episode 🙌🏾
Go listen her EP prelude IS very raw and amazing
I am shocked with how much I come back to this interview. This applies to so many different relationships too, anything that doesn't resonate in a healthy way.
What she said from 31:47 to 33:00 is such a compassionate way of loving, but she is also realistic at the end when she said that not everyone has the tools to love a person like that, and that is okay.
Lauren is awesome; owning her truth and blossoming wonderfully. Shan, thank you for being such a likable conversationalist, you ask meaningful questions and you listen to hear, not solely to respond. I am watching this channel more and more!
28:12 "It's easy to get caught up in what's happening to you and how you're being treated but very rarely are we self-aware enough that we are choosing something that's not respecting us. & we're choosing to try and change someone rather than receiving what is for us."
29:31 "It take a lot of courage to be honest with yourself about why you're feeling the way you are any not just externalizing/projecting by blaming your partner."
I came on here because of Lauren but I now want to so many more of these you are an amazing host!
Lauren is such an incredible human being ✨️ such a beautiful conversation 💙 Lauren's music is a vibe for sure 🖤.
SUCH A GREAT CONVERSATION! I loved hearing her speak. Everything she said resonated
Thankyou for the full video version. Love Lauren since fifth harmony days
Lauren is such a special, beautiful, I could go on and on. This literally healed me
Not me ballingggggg at this song 😭😭 so beautiful and cathartic. Very soothing and I love the nuance of the lyrics. I'm grateful for her vulnerability.
I love and appreciate how Shan navigates through conversations. It is a true ART
This has helped lots with my recent breakup. I also matched my ex’s energy. He would yell and treat me like 💩 and so I was like “oh hellll no” you wanna yell.. so can I.
It was ugly and made me feel ugly. But I did feel justified and still do.. trying to work on that. I should have left him a long time ago. ❤
Thx for sharing! 💛
I'm crying 15:00 - 18:00 because that really hit home
god i'm in love with her she's so bright and centered....
Thank you❣️Shan your journey and growth is truly so expansive and a privilege to watch. Also lauren is an actual icon. Two powerful women.
Great episode nice to see a conversation ona high level with both women that are smart
I love Lauren jauregui so much man she is such a inspiration she is so beautiful and so mature she helps me so much your such a special person girl keep it up ❤
Love her. Her enlightment is not only learned, but I feel spirituality is pure love and acceptance even in letting go. Love is truth. Beautiful interview. Also, as a Latina this resonates 110% In love, we give endlessly, but yes the point about respect and getting our love needs met is SUPER Key. I learned this in all relationships. It still shocks me because being Latina there have been some preconceived expectations on how much I can give. This usually exceeds what I can give in reality. And when I politely step away or address my boundary time and time again people are shocked and or offended. Yeah, guess what? I matter. What did Iyanla say? 'Yes, we teach people how to treat us.' Yes, please be respectful to yourself. 🙏 Thank you Shan for another beautiful 😍 interview. Now, I will be looking for Becky G's interview. Love Lauren's voice. Mucho Amor and Light 🥰🌠🌌
I just watched the snippet of this episode this morning. I was thinking dang I wish I could see the full version. And boom here it is right on time.
Thank you, really enjoyed this program. Learned a lot. Lauren is a smart young lady.
39:53 "If you talk to me crazy, you can't talk to me."
lord this resonates on every possible level.
I loved this conversation. So enriching. I literally just found this channel bc of it. Loved it. Susbcribing it.
And I LOVE that Lauren is so happy and free in her current relationship. I hope she keeps growing, learning and blossoming like she has been. So happy to have followed her path since 2012 ♥
Shan you always understand the assignment with the topics and guest!!
Def my second favorite episode ❤✨️🙌
OMG I love that you had her on the podcast! I’ve been a fan of hers since Fifth Harmony & followed her along her solo journey! I can’t believe I’m just now discovering your podcast. I can’t wait to see more episodes.
i seriously cant choose which episodes are my favorite, they all hit me at the perfect time and i learn so much and get so much value from each one. lauren is amazing and so insightful, definitely inspired me to reflect on my past relationships and will be sharing this episode forward because its just so good. a topic im curious and intrigued on hearing about again is you and jared's open marriage, i know its a sensitive topic and it might bring some backlash from others but not from me. i love hearing about you guys dynamic and your relationship style. you truly are my relationship and love muse! Love you Shan!
(This was originally an email but I realized I could also leave a comment)
Im listening to Lovers and Friends episode I do think about divorcing you. Of course it was an insightful episode as I would expect since I’ve listened to almost every episode but the very end really touched me deeply.
Shan shares something so vulnerable and talks on her fear of letting her fear go. I just want to thank Shan for being so honest because I heard my own heart in that sentiment.
As a queer, non monogamous, and a-romantic person, I am not someone who aspires to be married. Even in that, I still found myself relating so deeply to this episode. I struggle with keeping people at arms length no matter what the relationship dynamic is but constantly craving deeper connections. Never entering a situation without an exit plan. This is where fear has a deep hold on me. Being afraid of rejection, abandonment, and pain keeps me from the love I know I am deserving of. So I stand in solidarity with you Shan. Thank you again for continuously choosing to share hard truths.
Sierra
Lauren is amazing 👏🏼
Her story is relatable.
Ay caramba Lauren ya eras mi crush (fisicamente y artísticamente) pero escucharte expresar sobre aspectos importantes caramba no puedo evitar q me gustes más 💗🌈💯
Amazing episode!!! Thank you!!!
Love this episode! Love Lauren even more. Also Shan, where is the Becky g episode I would love to listen to that.
Love this podcast from Bangladesh.⭐
New listener and um hooked
Welcome! This is life-changing podcast.
I love Lauren so much
I love Lauren ❤
Love Lauren and this episode!! ❤
Loved this!!!!!😍👌🏾
She is amazing ,Inspiration ❤
I have been in a very long distance relationship (UK - Korea) which on top of it is a military relationship. I was wondering if you would ever consider doing an episode on one or both topics. I love and appreciate your work it has helped me in a lot of ways.
23:00 THE TRUTH 😩
i love Lauren Jauregui
I love you Lauren
53:06 healing from the past, Selena Gomez mentioned
How did I miss the episode with ItsmyRayeRaye?! I cannot find ittt!
love Lauren ❤
"i cAaAaAn rEeAaaAd iT in yoOuUur eNerGy!!" LOL someone made it a meme please!
What she said in the beginning is why men like Leo Dicaprio goes for younger women, it's not surprising that with Ty Dolla sign, a black man, is not ok with a young girl becoming a woman. They can't handle when you start to see things for what it is, besides "I am dating a older guy" which a lot of young girls see almost as a prize.
This comment is very biased. “It’s not surprising…a black man”. That was your first mistake because Ty Dolla sign doesn’t reflect all black men. Your low expectations of black men seems like a personal problem
@@rayshawnphoenix2135 Not all black men thankfully! But black rappers, yes! 💯%
@@i.1213 Yes here and then you will find black men who is not threatened by grown women, but overall black men are the first ones to shame a woman who is not married in her 30's. But yes these black male celebrities are something else.
…what does him bein a Blk man gotta do w the age old reality of males dating younger women which is not specific to the Blk community? Your cmment became very questionable at that point as it was an irrelevant mention…..
@@rayshawnphoenix2135 🎯
Where is Raye's episode???????????
Lauren Jauregui 😍😍😍
Did I miss the it’smyrayeraye episode?
I can’t seem to find it. I never saw it posted
i came here for this comment. i would love to see it.. i’ve been a follower of hers for years.
I feel like it was deleted 😕
Right Bc I am SEARCHING!!!
14:40 this is exactly why my last relationship ended. that shit sucked
Hermosa Lauren ❤
Yes two duo❤❤
I lovedd this epidosee. Also, where is this Becky G episode?
How many times is 'you know' used in this conversation
ok but need to see the raye episode
Has the raye episode come out yet? I was looking for it 👀
Her earlier understanding of love as to what can I do for you how can I be of service to you is the way it's supposed to be. That is how you're supposed to love. It's only a problem when it's not reciprocated.
I know this is off topic but Lauren can actually play Amy Winehouse. Idk something about her gives Amy's personality ☺️
She even looks like her!!!
We always know before we leave
She is getting healthier
In what way?
The host looks like a female version of ty dolla, am i tripping? GREAT EPISODE!
Stream ‘50 feet’ by Lauren 👌🏽 “I need more than fifty feet
If your mind, body, soul ain't aligned
I don't need you messing with mine
Outta sight, outta mind”
Where’s the Becky g episode? I tried to find it but couldn’t
This was great. Thank you! Selena Gomez would be a great guest One day.
Shan what episode was Rae on talking about break up during quarantine? I think I missed that one!
That's what I'm trying to find too!
21:44 Why are you trying to get me hot? 😂
Man Shan I FUCKED with this video so hard. Thank you for such amazing content as always. Really hit the spot on a deep level for me. ❤️
wait wheres the becky g episode??
she is 26. im 40. is lauren my mentor? this is so cofusing
39:14 Wow profound
40:25 Yeah some people don't even deal with you like that
Where can I find the episode with Becky G?
I relate!
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What’s with the drums in the background noise in the beginning. 🤦🏽♀️
Do you have a video out with Raye?! I seen a quick clip of her in the beginning of this video but I can't find the podcast with her 😢
What’s y’al favorite cereals?
These ads are out the ass I know people need to pay bills but I hate capitalism
could you tell me what episode of the podcast becky g was on? I'm trying to search for that one as well! Thanks great content!!
I was hoping someone mentioned this because I swear I’ve never seen that one!
Age gap is too big. Knew they were never gonna make it…she has abandonment issues lol 2 years is nothing babe…absolutely nothing. That’s a brand new relationship… empathy for a GROWN man? No ma’am. Absolutely not
2 yrs may b nothing to you or in the grand scheme of things but it can feel like a long time in a relationship and was to her so dismissing that lived experience for her ain’t necessarily it. The age gap was too big however along w the fact that he had a whole preteen child which made it even more less likely to work and weird. She can have empathy for his shortcomings as a human 🤷🏾♀️