Tips for Bad Trips: 1. try to get away from the stimulation in a crowd. Sometimes the bass can be overwhelming mixed with the flashing lights and all. 2. Dont ask the person having a bad trip if they are okay too much. literally just once. Being asked if they are okay too much puts them in a bad headspace as they will know theres a lot of concern about them and makes them feel like a burden 3. Keep a conversation going and progressing. Avoid repeating the same stories (they can get stuck in a time loop) 4. Obviously Drink water to stay hydrated 5. Acceptance is key. Dont fight a bad trip. Accept it's not going well and things will turn around. (might not be an amazing turnaround but it will stop being intensely bad)
You can always also go to medical! Be honest with them, they are only there to help you. Sometimes it helps to just have a medical professional tell you/ someone that they are okay and will be fine. Also eating something bland during or after the come down, even when you have no appetite, like crackers or cereal always helps me. Stay safe friends :)
The only bad trip I've ever had got better as soon as my bf came down and talked to me, I realized I was having a bad trip, and I took a sec to sit down and accept it. When I got up and moved out of the bathroom it was like stepping through a portal. I wasn't 100% but I felt SO much better and my trip was okay. Your set and setting is the most important thing so take your mindset and environment into account before dropping please.
Okay, I understand this on a soul level because my friend and I are wearing fishnets and I was hyper aware of it... until she was like yoooooo.... pull them to the side and done. Lmao! 🤣 I mean she wasn't wrong... but get in and out is the real goal!
My top tip for first-timers: Ride the wave. Its a simple but sometimes it will last a few minutes or a few hours, no matter the drug, just enjoy the moment, even if your peaking or freaking, just ride the wave and ride it until its done. Once your in your in, so might as well enjoy it.
For the “ what to do when you’re tripping” question. Electrolyte capsules help my boyfriend. He gets very hot and sweaty. So he pops an electrolyte and I fan him. It usually takes about 30 minutes for the panic stage to pass.
I was waiting to see what she would say as I recently did an entire fest w/o sitting down or taking off my bottoms and I just needed to know I wasn't the only one.
that back is always more fun because thats where the flow artists are a lot of the time!! Always be intentional with substance use. Like literally say an intention prior- that always helps me :)
I went to Lost Lands reunion and there was a couple getting it on in the crowd. It was honestly really gross in my opinion. Like there’s a time and a place. And it’s definitely NOT in the crowd of a music festival
Using a menstrual cup, during a festival or any time really, has changed the game for me. It's easy to empty, you don't have to worry about disposing it or having a string show, and they're not as messy so you can still wear some skimpy bottoms.
Yes!! I was gunna comment this. Also you can wear a menstrual cup a lot longer than tampons. You are also not putting any chemicals down there for hours on end if you end up not have your period at all! It’s a life saver
I know I'm late to this video but I want to add in that if something happens while using a substance, DO NOT BE AFRAID TO GET EMS INVOLVED!!! They cannot and will not "get you or your friends in trouble". If someone needs help, help them and go get help! 💖
Trim the tampon string so it won't hang out but can still easily be retrieved. I've done this for pool parties & it worked great. Source: professional dancer
1. You need to eat! Even if it's just a little something, you will feel better and will be able to keep going for longer. 2. For the jaw clenching, if you press your tongue into the roof of your moth it will help it subside.
I carry a mini 2oz flask in my sock when I go to festivals. So far they havent checked my socks but at the same time I've only been to one official music festival so far and the security was fairly chill.. my bag was certainly checked but I wasn't. I'll be going to my next one on August 10th, so I'll let y'all know how it goes (reply if I forget)
Last year at bass canyon i rolled too hard and my fluffy blanket and water was my best friend 😂😂 Also testing is so important, me and my boyfriend ALWAYS test, and we bring the testing stuff with us, just to be saaafe
Instead of tampons I recommend the "Diva" cup! It's life changing and reusable. It also lasts longer than a tampon (12 hours). Also the "string" part is very short so it will not be visible.
I rolled 3 days in a row,2021 was my first EDC 🥱 Felt like shit for the next 3 days and was super tired. Now I know not to roll too much. I was chewing a lot of gum and having a great time, thankfully never got sick. ♥️ would do it again, maybe only 2 days
You are so amazing,my friends and i are going to edc orlando this year AND staying at home bass so i have been watching ALL of your videos no lie😭im even more excited to go it’ll be our first edm festival so ur videos r so helpful
Idk if this is appropriate but if you're having a bad trip and you have them available to you, benzo's like xanex are a trip killer. Take one and you'll be fine in 15 minutes.
@@bradleypearce4645ikr. That's why I said i wasn't sure if it's appropriate to say but it does work. And it really is sound advice. I had a trip back in the day that I wish I knew this information.
Nice job & answers. A few pro tips from someone who's a retired raver, the best thing to do at parties whether high or sober are massages, dancing or roll tricks like cloud 9. We had a bunch of fun tricks, too long to list here. For the come down you want to take 5HTP to replenish your serotonin. Too gone on cid or mushies: drink vitamin D milk & avoid things with vitamin C. Too gone on k: drink/eat sugar. Too gone on x: eat bananas or magnesium. If you're overwhelmed, take some deep breaths, close your eyes & think about someone/something you love ❤ Idk about the need to poop & peeing through fishnets. That's new to me lmao! Def drink plenty of good water/not tap & phat pants are still a fav fashion for me just to wear on the daily. Comfy, holds all your stuff including a water bottle & great to dance in!
@icarusfencing The person who wants the cloud 9 done to them lies down on the ground & closes their eyes. A friend grabs their ankles while another friend grabs their wrists. Both people simultaneously & slowly lift the cloud niner off the ground going up as high as they can then slowly back down without touching the ground. Makes ya feel like you're floating. Bonuses are swing them side to side or blowing vicks in their face.
I live in Clearwater, FL, and I used to go to Sheppard's Beach Resort often, because they usually have a summer concert series. It's on the beach, you can walk in the sand if you need to cool off, there's regular bathrooms available, and it's all around a good time. The tickets were really cheap too. Benny Benassi was supposed to come in april last year, and tickets were around $16USD plus taxes. Unfortunately, lockdowns happened and he couldn't leave Italy, and Sheppards shut down the summer concerts. Anyways, I took a date there to see either 3lau or Paul Oakenfold, and there was a couple on the dance floor, tucked away on the side railings of the stage, that were getting it on. Everyone kinda just moved away from them, and security escorted them out of the venue.
"What to do if you start having a bad trip" -answer- focus on positive things! Sit down and put your head down on your knees. Put your favorite music on your phone! And worst case scenarion induce vomiting. Worst case scenario is your heart is racing! Please just vomit it out of your shaking!
i have seen several occasions of people um getting it on at festivals. and good tips on time of the month. first edm festival i got it and was nervous to ask. Now i always pack for other people.
When the shrooms hit you gotta shit!! 😂 I always bring baby wipes and toilet seat covers with me just in case lol also the TP runs out quick so it’s good to have wipes or tissues handy
Yes! I thought I was the only person who pulls their body suit to the side when they have to pee. None of my friends do it & they think that it's weird that I don't pull off my entire body suit. Short story time: but I didn't lock the door once & a guy opened it while I was fully out, so a little PTSD helped with that decision.
17:04 I have seen it, it was in San Bernardino, Hard with Styles, Headhunters if I remember right , dude had his lady in front of him like lifting her, skirt up and just started going at it. My group was like WTF
Bro if someone is fucked up on mostly anything BEST thing you can do is squat down, (even if you don’t smoke cigarettes trust me) smoke a dart, get some fix, and either stretch or let someone you know stretch you out. This has worked with every single person I know that was mostly rolling. Try it, it could save the vibes !!
Hey honey, I'm currently starting making Kandi for EDC O 2022 and I love the idea of Narcan Kandi and I want to make some in the future when the fest is closer to pass out to someone in a larger group. Would I be able to wear them/bring them in the fest? TIA💜
I’m going to edc and my friend and I are worried about not being able to find any goodies. Rolling at edc is always fun but our friends that usually supply us are not attending this year. Any advice on where to look?
I'm a guy, a lemme tell ya: when i discovered the magic of yoga pants, there was no going back! No chafing, theyre not too hot, and they keep the bugs and dust off your legs! I just get some weird looks sometimes being a guy, but most ppl at raves are all for it!
1) can you please give important tips for going to a festival alone? 2) advice and tips on how to maintain/ get front row for headlining acts Really value your opinion when it comes to music festivals. This month I will be going to my first one, and really need some advice on these questions.
PSA: taking dramamine is a GREAT way to stop nausea / vomiting! seriously, i’ve never felt sick when i take it at the same time as the thing i’m taking :)
If you have a mental illness and take meds I was told by my doctor it can be extremely dangerous to take drugs and it can cause a psychotic break with the pill reactions and brain chemistry. Just a tip.
Testing is moot. Methalone shows up yellow and MDMA shows up dark purple almost black, so it takes very little MDMA to cover up a whole lot of Methalone. Your best bet is to know what it looks/smells/tastes like. Mostly its grey although I have had some super fire white and tan pills. It should have a rootbeerish type smell and it should taste absolutely horrible/extremely bitter.
Sneaking is easy to do if you have a rain fly, especially if it's removable. I use my hiking CamelBak and it has two compartments on the bottom that can fit up to 4 shooters, a couple of wax pens/carts, and some party favors. The zipper tucks away and it's basically invisible. Same thing for my bladder pouch, the zipper tucks away and I put the tube in there so they don't even know it's there. They sell hidey underwear for dudes that have an extra pocket if you don't mind wearing baggier pants/shorts. ALWAYS test your shit pls 💕 and I definitely agree w not rolling more than one day in a row. It's better to space it out with other things, or candyflip instead of a full on roll. IF you intend to do so anyways, please buy and use a supplement like RaveAid both before, during, and after your roll. They make magnesium gum now that should also help (I haven't tried it yet I just use regular). If you're still prone to clenching like I am you can take magnesium supplements regularly leading up to the rave and get yourself a baby chew toy - I have a mini banana - it'll stand up to the chewing and the texture will be pleasant. I use Monistat chafing powder gel for my thighs and it works well for men too, it doesn't get greasy or wet and lasts awhile. I've also found that the crotchless clothes sit perfectly where I chafe to add protection if I've already done the damage. I hope some of this helps 😊
Tips for Bad Trips:
1. try to get away from the stimulation in a crowd. Sometimes the bass can be overwhelming mixed with the flashing lights and all.
2. Dont ask the person having a bad trip if they are okay too much. literally just once. Being asked if they are okay too much puts them in a bad headspace as they will know theres a lot of concern about them and makes them feel like a burden
3. Keep a conversation going and progressing. Avoid repeating the same stories (they can get stuck in a time loop)
4. Obviously Drink water to stay hydrated
5. Acceptance is key. Dont fight a bad trip. Accept it's not going well and things will turn around. (might not be an amazing turnaround but it will stop being intensely bad)
You can always also go to medical! Be honest with them, they are only there to help you. Sometimes it helps to just have a medical professional tell you/ someone that they are okay and will be fine. Also eating something bland during or after the come down, even when you have no appetite, like crackers or cereal always helps me. Stay safe friends :)
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I cannot stress your #2 or #3 enough!!!
@@risar7291 those 2 tips are probably the most helpful for being around someone on a bad trip. It's come in handy to remember those things!
The only bad trip I've ever had got better as soon as my bf came down and talked to me, I realized I was having a bad trip, and I took a sec to sit down and accept it. When I got up and moved out of the bathroom it was like stepping through a portal. I wasn't 100% but I felt SO much better and my trip was okay. Your set and setting is the most important thing so take your mindset and environment into account before dropping please.
Peein through the fishnets is a pro move, we love it
you gotta do it
Okay, I understand this on a soul level because my friend and I are wearing fishnets and I was hyper aware of it... until she was like yoooooo.... pull them to the side and done. Lmao! 🤣 I mean she wasn't wrong... but get in and out is the real goal!
what omg nooo i don’t have the aim😂😂 I need practice i guess🤣
just a little bit of advice so you don’t pee on your fishnets ladies 😂 is to cut a hole on the main area you pee through
Le savage Lmaoooo.
My top tip for first-timers: Ride the wave. Its a simple but sometimes it will last a few minutes or a few hours, no matter the drug, just enjoy the moment, even if your peaking or freaking, just ride the wave and ride it until its done. Once your in your in, so might as well enjoy it.
For the “ what to do when you’re tripping” question.
Electrolyte capsules help my boyfriend. He gets very hot and sweaty. So he pops an electrolyte and I fan him. It usually takes about 30 minutes for the panic stage to pass.
Queen!
@@S0l01 🤍
Raveraide !!
she has def rolled you ain’t foolin anyone gggirrrllll
The fishnet thing had me howling. This really just is the way 😂
I was waiting to see what she would say as I recently did an entire fest w/o sitting down or taking off my bottoms and I just needed to know I wasn't the only one.
that back is always more fun because thats where the flow artists are a lot of the time!! Always be intentional with substance use. Like literally say an intention prior- that always helps me :)
Yesss come hang with the flowmies we are hella fun!
Literally the main reason I stay in the back besides the space it has to dance lol not like your not gonna heart the music
First festival was EZoo this weekend and I quickly found out that I love the back WAY more because of the flow artists and room to dance!
Watching your videos getting myself hyped for edc 2022. First time returning after going in 2018!
I went to Lost Lands reunion and there was a couple getting it on in the crowd. It was honestly really gross in my opinion. Like there’s a time and a place. And it’s definitely NOT in the crowd of a music festival
Using a menstrual cup, during a festival or any time really, has changed the game for me. It's easy to empty, you don't have to worry about disposing it or having a string show, and they're not as messy so you can still wear some skimpy bottoms.
Yes!! I was gunna comment this. Also you can wear a menstrual cup a lot longer than tampons. You are also not putting any chemicals down there for hours on end if you end up not have your period at all! It’s a life saver
Thank you for sharing! You just solved my problem for EDC
"When the molly hits - you gotta shit"
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE! LOL
I'm never a throw-up-type with any substance... but its ALLLLL number 2 🤣
I know I'm late to this video but I want to add in that if something happens while using a substance, DO NOT BE AFRAID TO GET EMS INVOLVED!!! They cannot and will not "get you or your friends in trouble". If someone needs help, help them and go get help! 💖
Yeah 100%
Yesss this is what I've been waiting for
Trim the tampon string so it won't hang out but can still easily be retrieved. I've done this for pool parties & it worked great. Source: professional dancer
I love how open you went!!! You’re the best !
1. You need to eat! Even if it's just a little something, you will feel better and will be able to keep going for longer.
2. For the jaw clenching, if you press your tongue into the roof of your moth it will help it subside.
I carry a mini 2oz flask in my sock when I go to festivals. So far they havent checked my socks but at the same time I've only been to one official music festival so far and the security was fairly chill.. my bag was certainly checked but I wasn't. I'll be going to my next one on August 10th, so I'll let y'all know how it goes (reply if I forget)
Last year at bass canyon i rolled too hard and my fluffy blanket and water was my best friend 😂😂 Also testing is so important, me and my boyfriend ALWAYS test, and we bring the testing stuff with us, just to be saaafe
Instead of tampons I recommend the "Diva" cup! It's life changing and reusable. It also lasts longer than a tampon (12 hours). Also the "string" part is very short so it will not be visible.
I rolled 3 days in a row,2021 was my first EDC 🥱 Felt like shit for the next 3 days and was super tired. Now I know not to roll too much. I was chewing a lot of gum and having a great time, thankfully never got sick. ♥️ would do it again, maybe only 2 days
thank you for always being real with us emma! this was a fun video to watch
The gold bond chafing stick is literally a life saver.
If you don’t have this stick deodorant is a life saver for thigh chafing
These were really good questions! Thanks Emma for sharing!
I love this video! Thank you for being so open with your answers 🥺🙏🏼
You are so amazing,my friends and i are going to edc orlando this year AND staying at home bass so i have been watching ALL of your videos no lie😭im even more excited to go it’ll be our first edm festival so ur videos r so helpful
Hella magnesium beforehand for jaw clenching
Yesss Emma, loved this. Excited for part 2!
Please do a part 2 I love that you dgaf lol I’m here for it !
yes!
Idk if this is appropriate but if you're having a bad trip and you have them available to you, benzo's like xanex are a trip killer. Take one and you'll be fine in 15 minutes.
Lol the answer to your drug problems. Do more drugs! Seriously though this will work
@@bradleypearce4645ikr. That's why I said i wasn't sure if it's appropriate to say but it does work. And it really is sound advice. I had a trip back in the day that I wish I knew this information.
Loving the raw, real talk!
What about walking with a flag pole all day? What would you suggest?
Thanks for making this video Emma! Great info 👍🏼
Clutch. Cheers to all the first timers! Enjoy!!!
Loving the tips imma.sharr ur video on EDC Orlando group .. thank uuuu 🥰
Nice job & answers. A few pro tips from someone who's a retired raver, the best thing to do at parties whether high or sober are massages, dancing or roll tricks like cloud 9. We had a bunch of fun tricks, too long to list here. For the come down you want to take 5HTP to replenish your serotonin. Too gone on cid or mushies: drink vitamin D milk & avoid things with vitamin C. Too gone on k: drink/eat sugar. Too gone on x: eat bananas or magnesium. If you're overwhelmed, take some deep breaths, close your eyes & think about someone/something you love ❤ Idk about the need to poop & peeing through fishnets. That's new to me lmao! Def drink plenty of good water/not tap & phat pants are still a fav fashion for me just to wear on the daily. Comfy, holds all your stuff including a water bottle & great to dance in!
what's cloud 9? can u explain some of the tricks?
@icarusfencing The person who wants the cloud 9 done to them lies down on the ground & closes their eyes. A friend grabs their ankles while another friend grabs their wrists. Both people simultaneously & slowly lift the cloud niner off the ground going up as high as they can then slowly back down without touching the ground. Makes ya feel like you're floating. Bonuses are swing them side to side or blowing vicks in their face.
Always remind yourself that you took a drug this is not your life now
Very much agree! Find solitude in knowing many people hard been there before. Breath. Breath a lot lol
Omg lol this actually made me laugh. This is not your life now. Definitely a good reminder!!!
Nothing wrong with taking drugs, taking drugs irresponsibly is what's wrong. Be safe!
I live in Clearwater, FL, and I used to go to Sheppard's Beach Resort often, because they usually have a summer concert series. It's on the beach, you can walk in the sand if you need to cool off, there's regular bathrooms available, and it's all around a good time. The tickets were really cheap too. Benny Benassi was supposed to come in april last year, and tickets were around $16USD plus taxes. Unfortunately, lockdowns happened and he couldn't leave Italy, and Sheppards shut down the summer concerts. Anyways, I took a date there to see either 3lau or Paul Oakenfold, and there was a couple on the dance floor, tucked away on the side railings of the stage, that were getting it on. Everyone kinda just moved away from them, and security escorted them out of the venue.
Ahhh I’m excited!
"What to do if you start having a bad trip" -answer- focus on positive things! Sit down and put your head down on your knees. Put your favorite music on your phone! And worst case scenarion induce vomiting. Worst case scenario is your heart is racing! Please just vomit it out of your shaking!
Also for your periods, a menstrual cup is super convenient bc it can stay in for 12 hrs
i have seen several occasions of people um getting it on at festivals. and good tips on time of the month. first edm festival i got it and was nervous to ask. Now i always pack for other people.
Monistat chaffing gel works wonders ladies!!! It makes your thighs rub like silk!!
Loved this!
Great video 🙌🙌
I take Tums for pre festival anxiety. 😅
Can’t wait to see you at imagine! 💜🎉
Yess love this video 👏👏
As a guy I could care less how I look or people look at raves and I feel like many other guys can agree
My boyfriend and I are going to EDC ORLANDO on his birthday! We look forward to going to your meet up❤️❤️
Same😊
Love this video. So raw!! Hahaha
When the shrooms hit you gotta shit!! 😂 I always bring baby wipes and toilet seat covers with me just in case lol also the TP runs out quick so it’s good to have wipes or tissues handy
This is great!😊 See you at Arc!
Yes! I thought I was the only person who pulls their body suit to the side when they have to pee. None of my friends do it & they think that it's weird that I don't pull off my entire body suit. Short story time: but I didn't lock the door once & a guy opened it while I was fully out, so a little PTSD helped with that decision.
17:04 I have seen it, it was in San Bernardino, Hard with Styles, Headhunters if I remember right , dude had his lady in front of him like lifting her, skirt up and just started going at it. My group was like WTF
😂😂😂 you’re so funny
I love your honesty and how transparent you are!!!😂 also, do you still partake in favors!?
Bro if someone is fucked up on mostly anything BEST thing you can do is squat down, (even if you don’t smoke cigarettes trust me) smoke a dart, get some fix, and either stretch or let someone you know stretch you out. This has worked with every single person I know that was mostly rolling. Try it, it could save the vibes !!
(Vicks not fix)
Hey honey, I'm currently starting making Kandi for EDC O 2022 and I love the idea of Narcan Kandi and I want to make some in the future when the fest is closer to pass out to someone in a larger group. Would I be able to wear them/bring them in the fest? TIA💜
you might have to sneak that in!
I’m going to edc and my friend and I are worried about not being able to find any goodies. Rolling at edc is always fun but our friends that usually supply us are not attending this year. Any advice on where to look?
cop
Definitely not a cop. I just wanna have a good time lol.
In the same boat
Ask your friends where they got it from lol
@@itania14 they drive lol I flew this last time.
I have never clicked so fast
thank you!!!!
I'm a guy, a lemme tell ya: when i discovered the magic of yoga pants, there was no going back! No chafing, theyre not too hot, and they keep the bugs and dust off your legs! I just get some weird looks sometimes being a guy, but most ppl at raves are all for it!
Need more videos like this ! Lol
ERIC PRYDZ I FUCK WITH YOU SO MUCH MORE lmaoo i just started watching your vids too
Can't wait to meet you lunchbox fam!
I roll away
1) can you please give important tips for going to a festival alone?
2) advice and tips on how to maintain/ get front row for headlining acts
Really value your opinion when it comes to music festivals. This month I will be going to my first one, and really need some advice on these questions.
Never take less than .75 or you’ll just get depressed. !!!!!! 1 point is the sweet spot but 3/4 point is the minimum
PSA: taking dramamine is a GREAT way to stop nausea / vomiting! seriously, i’ve never felt sick when i take
it at the same time as the thing i’m taking :)
How do you pace it? is there risks?
Great video
Is it good to be stoned on edc ? 😁
depends on the person, but it's a hell no for me
Are they just offering in the crowd or something?
Old school ravers would know about pacifiers for jaw clenching 😛
When I was a raver in 2012-2014 in nyc we used pacifiers
Yep binkys but I just chewed gum or a sucker since I was/am a popper/breakdancer
the best nickname for pandemic ive ever seen is pon de replay
If you have a mental illness and take meds I was told by my doctor it can be extremely dangerous to take drugs and it can cause a psychotic break with the pill reactions and brain chemistry. Just a tip.
Really?! I take anti depressants for my bpd and was planning on rolling at my next festival :/
❤️❤️❤️
How do i sneak in a 20lb tank of nitrous asking for a friend
Testing is moot. Methalone shows up yellow and MDMA shows up dark purple almost black, so it takes very little MDMA to cover up a whole lot of Methalone. Your best bet is to know what it looks/smells/tastes like. Mostly its grey although I have had some super fire white and tan pills. It should have a rootbeerish type smell and it should taste absolutely horrible/extremely bitter.
definitely tuning in for that bigger chest tops 💖
*Joey Voice*
How you doin 😎
What's up ash 🥂
Spray your tampon string with instant tanner so it will be skin colored and if it shows it won’t be noticeable.
WOW! never heard of this but that's genius
I cut a hole in the crotch of my fishnets when i wear bodysuit and fishy net combo 😅
Y’all are taking too much e. Pace yourselves guys you got 3 days!
Like 👍🏻
What?... I'm not here for the tips about sneaking stuff in! Um... I was here for advice about rave periods. 😳😇
Sneaking is easy to do if you have a rain fly, especially if it's removable. I use my hiking CamelBak and it has two compartments on the bottom that can fit up to 4 shooters, a couple of wax pens/carts, and some party favors. The zipper tucks away and it's basically invisible. Same thing for my bladder pouch, the zipper tucks away and I put the tube in there so they don't even know it's there. They sell hidey underwear for dudes that have an extra pocket if you don't mind wearing baggier pants/shorts.
ALWAYS test your shit pls 💕 and I definitely agree w not rolling more than one day in a row. It's better to space it out with other things, or candyflip instead of a full on roll. IF you intend to do so anyways, please buy and use a supplement like RaveAid both before, during, and after your roll. They make magnesium gum now that should also help (I haven't tried it yet I just use regular). If you're still prone to clenching like I am you can take magnesium supplements regularly leading up to the rave and get yourself a baby chew toy - I have a mini banana - it'll stand up to the chewing and the texture will be pleasant.
I use Monistat chafing powder gel for my thighs and it works well for men too, it doesn't get greasy or wet and lasts awhile.
I've also found that the crotchless clothes sit perfectly where I chafe to add protection if I've already done the damage.
I hope some of this helps 😊