Adult Children of Alcoholics - Why do ACOAs manipulate and fear vulnerability?

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  • Опубліковано 22 лис 2024

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  • @claytonhufford6922
    @claytonhufford6922 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Dr. Vass!!!! Thanks to AA I discovered ACOA and Al-anon. These programs have given me healing and hope through recovery. So glad I found your channel!

  • @sfuful
    @sfuful 9 місяців тому +1

    This is really interesting and you present well. I hope you could record again with better sound quality.

  • @marye5335
    @marye5335 4 місяці тому

    Ive been working ACoA for about 8 years & I love these videos. They're very succinct for when you need some reminders & for when you want to share the message with others. Thank you!

    • @Dr.SofyaVass
      @Dr.SofyaVass  11 днів тому +1

      I am so glad you're finding these videos helpful

  • @todamoon55
    @todamoon55 4 місяці тому +1

    I can tell your content is probably absolutely terrific. It's just that your sound is so bad and many of your words are dropped. I do wish that you would fix these issues. This is the second video I've watched where it's very hard to understand your content. I think I could learn a lot if I could hear it.

  • @JillYoung-j5y
    @JillYoung-j5y Рік тому

    Thank you so much I really liked your post

    • @Dr.SofyaVass
      @Dr.SofyaVass  Рік тому

      You are most welcome, glad you liked it

  • @buttaz3000
    @buttaz3000 Рік тому +1

    Would you say many of these people are on the narcissism spectrum?

    • @Dr.SofyaVass
      @Dr.SofyaVass  Рік тому +2

      Good question! Narcissistic personality disorder is very rare - however people have narcissistic defenses. When people are afraid of being vulnerable - they opt for control which is part of the narcissistic defense spectrum, also deep shame in self results in finding flaws in others as well which can feel like narcissistic abuse. Remember that the way people speak to you and the standards they hold you up to is also usually the way they speak to themselves and hold shame for their own ways of being.