I have a baby sister and I’m kind of like a father figure. I feel like I’m mean to her at times when she needs me to help her or do things for her how should I build our relationship
You being like a father to your baby sister is a lot to put on your shoulders. All of us, no matter how old we are, get impatient and frustrated. When you feel like you are getting impatient, frustrated or about to be mean to her, take a deep breath and leave the room and tell her: I need to take a minute to calm down. I’ll be back. And then do that, go calm down and come back and help her after you feel more patient. And sometimes when you feel like you have been mean to her, apologize to her and tell her that you’re sorry that you were mean and that you’re going to try to do better. Watch as many of my videos as You can and you’ll get some good ideas about how to help her even more and be a good big brother to her. She is very lucky to have a brother that cares so much to watch this video and make a comment. I hope you have someone in your life that is doing their best to be good to you and help you to be the best version of yourself.
Yes, I need help with billing a relationship with my daughter. She complains a lot but she’s not good enough she don’t have common sense she just tired. I would like to know what to do I’m going to say.
Hi Robert, Thank you for your comment. I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with your relationship with your daughter. I would recommend two of my e-Courses for you: How to Connect With Your Teen Daughter, and Talking to Teens: Tools for a Happy Household. You may want to consider a personalized parent coaching session with me as well. You can find all of this on my website, www.barbsteinberg.com. Thanks, ~Barb
Yes! I'll give it a shot, I'm all in! This makes perfect sense to me.
This is so helpful. I need to go back and listen to the earlier ones.
Thank you.First time I am hearing what you are commenting.please make such video
this was very helpful thank you
I’m happy to hear it was helpful! You’re welcome!
Excellent!!! Thank You
Could you give some examples ?
The 4:1 rule is a great one!
Agreed! Glad you like it and use it!
I have a baby sister and I’m kind of like a father figure. I feel like I’m mean to her at times when she needs me to help her or do things for her how should I build our relationship
You being like a father to your baby sister is a lot to put on your shoulders. All of us, no matter how old we are, get impatient and frustrated. When you feel like you are getting impatient, frustrated or about to be mean to her, take a deep breath and leave the room and tell her: I need to take a minute to calm down. I’ll be back. And then do that, go calm down and come back and help her after you feel more patient. And sometimes when you feel like you have been mean to her, apologize to her and tell her that you’re sorry that you were mean and that you’re going to try to do better. Watch as many of my videos as You can and you’ll get some good ideas about how to help her even more and be a good big brother to her. She is very lucky to have a brother that cares so much to watch this video and make a comment. I hope you have someone in your life that is doing their best to be good to you and help you to be the best version of yourself.
Yes, I need help with billing a relationship with my daughter. She complains a lot but she’s not good enough she don’t have common sense she just tired. I would like to know what to do I’m going to say.
Hi Robert,
Thank you for your comment. I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling with your relationship with your daughter. I would recommend two of my e-Courses for you: How to Connect With Your Teen Daughter, and Talking to Teens: Tools for a Happy Household. You may want to consider a personalized parent coaching session with me as well. You can find all of this on my website, www.barbsteinberg.com.
Thanks, ~Barb