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The Type of Self Love that Will Actually Manifest a Specific Person

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 391

  • @ShellyBullard
    @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +22

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    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 3 роки тому +1

      Shelly Bullard 🌸 I still can’t get over how youthful & glowing you look
      Also I can’t help seeing Pocahontas reflected lol
      I finally got it, it’s the inner Goddess look coming out. I think it was when you announced that you were going to upload when you are inspired as opposed to uploading due to a schedule. You looked so charged & beaming
      Bought self love 👍🏼
      Yay got 5 in total so excited to start 🤗

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому

      @@shivangi2009 Wonderful realization. I agree with you. And YES! It will eventually become so natural to just love yourself, every day. I love the journey you're on - thank you for sharing!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +1

      @@sunitafisher4758 Thank you so much Sunita. I know, funniest thing, when I just gave myself permission to post whenever I want, I naturally wanted to keep posting on my regular schedule (just with the ability to take breaks whenever I want). Thank you so much and OMG enjoy the course!!!

    • @kharenc5118
      @kharenc5118 3 роки тому

      I really love this video Shelly.. Thank you 💓💓

    • @swathishetty96
      @swathishetty96 3 роки тому

      Shelly please make a vlog of your closet, absolutely love those, everything you wear❤

  • @maclibra0803
    @maclibra0803 3 роки тому +179

    Self-love will always keep people interested in you because you carry a certain glow that attracts people to you.

  • @bohead01
    @bohead01 3 роки тому +105

    I just had an epiphany with my manifesting of my SP. She has been driving me nuts lately with hot/cold behavior and breadcrumbs. I'm 52, I have less than 8% body fat. I work hard at a good job, eat right, and do cardio then weight training after work. After I was stretching tonight after weights and appreciating the work I put in, I was like "fuck this". I am the one that is the catch here with all of the good things I have going in my life. It's time for her to recognize how much I am worth being chased. When the anxiety starts to set in about her, then I am going back to the appreciation of all I am and bring to the table. She'll be crawling back begging to be with me soon.

    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 3 роки тому +13

      Karl Hungus 🌸 sounds like you need to do grounding meditation. It’s basically self love affirmations while meditating in beautiful nature in sunlight. Release all expectations & outcome, stop thinking about her and really start to see yourself in a positive way. She will start to see you the same.
      I had same issue and then I released all insecurities, fears etc and grounded & centred myself
      I became extremely calm & super happy. I did this for myself and not for anyone else’s benefit, only my own 💕
      Go out more if possible in nature and try to possibly meet new people where ever you can. That will take your focus off her & back onto you once you start to have more fun. You will be ok 🤗

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +13

      Wonderful reframe Karl. Seriously, WE have to see our own worth first and foremost. SO IMPORTANT. I'm excited for you!!

    • @bohead01
      @bohead01 3 роки тому +3

      @@ShellyBullard thank you for that. Love you for your videos and constant assistance in living in the end. It takes effort to get out of that anxiety zone, but I am sick of being there and when I DO get her back I want to be in a place of peace and know it will work out.

    • @bohead01
      @bohead01 3 роки тому +3

      @@sunitafisher4758 thank you so much for your wonderful reply. I did so tonight on my dog walk and yes felt amazing and interacted with everyone on the path.

    • @DianeD
      @DianeD 3 роки тому +20

      @Karl Hungus -- That "fuck it" moment is powerful, yeah? The truth is, even if you didn't have 8% body fat, were jobless, ate junk food and weren't all that fit you'd STILL be the one to be with. Who wouldn't want you? You're amazing, totally lovable -- no matter what the outer says/looks like. Can't wait to hear your success story about your SP running after you or someone even better loving you up!

  • @chasingbutterflies1111
    @chasingbutterflies1111 3 роки тому +105

    Ever since I have added self love to my manifestations, I felt a big change within me. One day I woke up and just feeling confident, happier, optimistic, from being needy, unhappy, hurt...
    It was like magic! And the bonus is, my SP is pursuing me!! After 5 months of no communication, he messaged me 3 days ago and wanted to date me again!!💕
    Self love works when you really do it for loving and prioritizing yourself and putting them aside. They come back 💯 guaranteed! 🙏❤️💙

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +5

      Omg how wonderful! So excited for you! 🥰

    • @ZA.29
      @ZA.29 3 роки тому +1

      Camille how wonderful!! This is so encouraging, thank you for sharing! Do you mind sharing some tips/affirmations of what you've done? Would love for my SP to pursue me as yours is pursuing you! It's been sometime since I've heard from mine 😕

    • @chasingbutterflies1111
      @chasingbutterflies1111 3 роки тому +12

      Z A Hello Hello! I have been doing my favourite affirmations every single day like, I am pursued, I am chased, I am a magnet to my SP, I am a catch, I am love and I am loved, I am beautiful in and out, I am unforgettable, I am the prize, I am irresistible, I am desired, and the most powerful affirmation is I AM THE ONE!
      I took him off the pedestal and regained my power back. I did visualization, and scripting. Be patient my dear and just trust the process and let it go! He will come back esp when you feel him deep in your heart! All the best to you!🙏❤️💙

    • @ZA.29
      @ZA.29 3 роки тому

      Camille thank you for sharing what you've done! And for your encouragement! It sometimes feels like an uphill battle and is discouraging at times. We had a beautiful relationship and I'm still confused as to how I pushed him away, will try your affirmations and continuing hoping for the best. Thank you again ❤️

    • @chasingbutterflies1111
      @chasingbutterflies1111 3 роки тому +6

      Z A You’re welcome! Up and down emotions are normal while waiting for your SP to show up, but I tell you, don’t get discouraged. I felt that way too, but I kept myself busy. I joined the gym, improved myself, I changed my hair colour, I shopped summer clothes, I went out for dinner with co workers, relatives, and so on...One day when I posted a picture of my new look, then BAM, he messaged me and gave a compliment that made me grin from ear to ear and gave me butterflies in my tummy feeling! Lol... It’s so exciting!!
      The good news my dear is, if it is happening to me, it’ll also happen to you. Don’t quit, keep it up, he’ll show up soon!!!🙏💕

  • @Ashley-rp8fg
    @Ashley-rp8fg 3 роки тому +45

    Several years ago, during a terrible breakup, I thought that I was nothing without this person and if only I had him back, I would be happy. A friend of mine told me that I needed to learn to be happy on my own and recognize my worth and that was when the love would come back to me. My worth wasn't defined by having this person in my life or not. So that's what I did. And sure enough, the love came back. But at that point, I realized what I brought to the table and what I deserved. I was full of such love for myself that I no longer wanted the person that I thought that I couldn't live without. Self love takes time and patience, but when you get there, amazing results are delivered. 💖✌️

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +5

      Loveeee

    • @ninalove9252
      @ninalove9252 3 роки тому +1

      Gold 🙏 love this and totally been there myself. Also read you can heal your life multiple times it was a huge help on seeking out the love that is Myself. Seriously in my case I Know my SP and previous SPs just show me the way to be back to feeling good unconditionally and love, appreciate and bless all of them unconditionally. What a blessing after all, the lesson or the SPs 🌹

    • @ruthandrew1473
      @ruthandrew1473 2 роки тому

      Wow

    • @ruthandrew1473
      @ruthandrew1473 2 роки тому

      I know of a man who can help you bring back your ex he is the one that help me bring back my ex

    • @ruthandrew1473
      @ruthandrew1473 2 роки тому

      Message him on WhatsApp

  • @sylvidiremaharani1440
    @sylvidiremaharani1440 3 роки тому +25

    I thought I was doing everything for me, but I just realized that I wasn't!
    I put my skin care, dressed up nicely SO my sp would like me more. Even when I had money, my first thought was buying him something *glup* thats scary.
    But it was me months ago, now I put myself first and I'm truly grateful. It's like "when I lost you, I found myself" lol.
    He's coming back anw, but idk. I want him to give me the best of him or pls just leave me alone. I deserve better.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +3

      💗✨🙏

    • @zelihagokce
      @zelihagokce 3 роки тому +1

      Yes!!!!

    • @windyp.z8242
      @windyp.z8242 3 роки тому

      Wow awesome. i wish i too can be like you one day.. oh god!

    • @sylvidiremaharani1440
      @sylvidiremaharani1440 3 роки тому +1

      @@windyp.z8242 I'm wishing you the best, you deserve it❤

    • @windyp.z8242
      @windyp.z8242 3 роки тому

      @@sylvidiremaharani1440 Thank you so much! Means a lot ❤🙏

  • @happyvinu6579
    @happyvinu6579 3 роки тому +20

    Guys this is so true...the moment I started loving myself and putting myself above he just came back to me...but I had no intention to get him back.. because I had finally given up on everything.i was mainfesting but I was on such love vibration all the time...the moment I shifted to higher vibration love myself and believed only the best would happen to me ..it happened

    • @happyvinu6579
      @happyvinu6579 3 роки тому +13

      @Manu sha this is my exact story ...I did all the affirmation, visualisation boards, visualisation but I seemed to be driving him away..(now I know exactly how this works..this was 4 years back and I didn't have this much knowledge on the subject)..I was always trying to play the victim,in my mind I was the damsel in distress..I would listen to sad songs all the time..I would cry to bed every night...this happened for one year...I was in such low vibration..the things that were ruling me was fear, hope(not absolute faith) ,sadness, anxiety ...but then one day I decided to end this all..I had some kind of awakening I completely changed into a different person... absolute self confidence ,started seeing how beautiful I am,how intelligent iam,how talented iam(I am a straight A+ scorer,a dancer and a painter all self taught),and trusted in God that only he will give me the best of the best and I let everything Go....within one month or something he contacted me back and told me how sorry he was ...we are still in a strong healthy relationship and he absolutely adores me ...I am his first priority now...I absolutely trust LOA...the key is self love it always has been...😍😍😍

    • @happyvinu6579
      @happyvinu6579 3 роки тому +7

      @Manu sha this exactly honey.. I know exactly how you feel..I'm pretty sure you are chasing him...stop chasing him...stop giving him energy...manifest at morning n night rest of the day get busy somehow.... whenever his thoughts comes up replace with positive memories n positive happy visuals and just smile...smile from the heart...don't be sad that it ended...be grateful that it happened...be grateful and happy that you got to feel love...the most important thing stop chasing him....stop waiting stop fear....you are enough....you are complete...you don't "need "him....don't let one bad memory(like fights) or negative visuals come... whenever it comes replace it with some positive memory(not necessarily with him... with your friends,family, yourself etc)
      Love yourself ...see your beauty see your worth...love yourself and believe with all your heart only the best will happen to you....thers a higher power at work...God didn't bring you this far to abandon you my love...trust me ...don't love yourself for bringing him back...love yourself for you...do something for you...I will Highly recommend you to read the book psycho cybernetics ....it's available in Amazon

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +2

      Loveeee, thank you for sharing!

    • @aswathysabu2917
      @aswathysabu2917 3 роки тому

      @@happyvinu6579 you are from?

    • @aswathysabu2917
      @aswathysabu2917 3 роки тому

      @@happyvinu6579 are u from India??

  • @JackJackWrites
    @JackJackWrites 3 роки тому +44

    I did this today without realising, just because it felt good. I just *decided* to feel good and choose joy and feel happiness and bam, he messaged me. Onwards and upwards, I'm going to carry on with this vibe!

  • @hayafahad4813
    @hayafahad4813 3 роки тому +12

    I was watching your videos for a month now and my focus was on my SP the whole time, I woke up today thinking "why not focus on me and only me because I deserve this energy and focus more than anyone else, today I choose unconditional self love before anything else" and I honestly feel more loved and centered by now

  • @karaswanson5905
    @karaswanson5905 3 роки тому +14

    LOVE THIS. When you finally do self love just for you (for me that was inner child work, and also being in a relationship with myself 🤣) it changes everything you just want to shout it from the roof tops 🙃👍🏼

    • @karaswanson5905
      @karaswanson5905 3 роки тому +2

      I also want to say that it changed the way I looked at an SP in my life, there’s no need there. In fact, he is completely removed from the pedestal I put him on, and now I am the one on the pedestal. I know that he is great and I do care about him, but I also know that I could have literally anything I want and I want nothing less than to be in an amazing incredible relationship where someone is loving and present with me...anything less will never ever do.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому

      Wonderful!

  • @michellejackson9965
    @michellejackson9965 3 роки тому +27

    This is an awesome point because in order to be able to love someone else you must love yourself first!!!

    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 3 роки тому +1

      Michelle Jackson 🌸 exactly 🤗💕

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +1

      !!

    • @yuumeiishihana5004
      @yuumeiishihana5004 3 роки тому +2

      My thoughts exactly! And in order to receive love from another you must love yourself as well!

  • @maysaraali5772
    @maysaraali5772 3 роки тому +3

    The color of the necklace really shines with your eyes. You look so beautiful!

  • @holyhyenas1759
    @holyhyenas1759 3 роки тому +7

    Self-love gets results that we want 😊 Yes, this is all started with a SP, but I ended up loving myself more, and as a result, people around me are showing me care, love, and respect 😁

  • @amylever5687
    @amylever5687 3 роки тому +10

    It's my SP's Birthday today and I felt so high on self love that I felt ok to send him a Happy Birthday message. Not expecting or needing anything in return. He sent me the nicest message back. I am living in the end that we are more than friends and feeling so confident about it! All because of what you teach. More importantly than being with my SP I feel so infinite and happy just loving myself. ♥️

    • @ruthcarlisle2663
      @ruthcarlisle2663 3 роки тому +2

      @Amy Lever this is lovely and brilliant. 💕💕💕💕

    • @amylever5687
      @amylever5687 3 роки тому +2

      @@ruthcarlisle2663 Thank you so much Ruth! Sending so much love to you! ♥️♥️♥️♥️ Xx

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +2

      Amazing!

    • @Wifeyytalks
      @Wifeyytalks 3 роки тому

      @@amylever5687 r u guys together?

  • @ylf191
    @ylf191 3 роки тому +17

    Shelly! SELF LOVE FEELS SOOOOO GOOD. Every time I listen to your guided meditation on self love and go within its a feeling of pure bliss and ecstasy.. Honestly I have grown so fond of loving myself that I couldn't care less about whatever I have been actively "trying" to manifest . I know it is going to come but then again my life is going to be beautiful regardless. Self love is so powerful and potent! Thank you for the guidance! 🙏🏻

  • @alexaleuropa
    @alexaleuropa 2 роки тому +1

    It’s funny because I was doing anything to get my ex back and have been severely depressed over the situation. But from watching so many of your videos I’m starting to feel love for myself and now have so much interest in LOA. I almost don’t think I even want him back anymore!

  • @TrangLe-dp8jf
    @TrangLe-dp8jf 3 роки тому +6

    Before I was so needy with my specific person. Now I feel so much love for myself and my man. At first I thought that I have no desires with my sp but it turns out that I get rid of my needy feelings with my sp. I thought that Shelly's mediations are magical but it turns out it makes me have strong belief and get rid of my needy feeligs. I take care of myself well. Now I am starting to receive to attention from my man. He said he likes me. He said that he likes to get to know me and that's not just words. I am so happy to receive love from myself and from my man.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +1

      💗💗💗

    • @chloe0452
      @chloe0452 2 роки тому

      Hi Trangie, what specifically did you do? I would like to take some of your advice. Thanks

  • @TheCosmicBaddie
    @TheCosmicBaddie 3 роки тому +6

    Yesss, when we love ourselves, we open ourselves up to love from others as well, since we finally feel worthy of it :)

  • @nicoelle
    @nicoelle 3 роки тому +2

    Yes! I finally connect deeply and lovingly to myself and that's the biggest gift of them all :)

  • @mansidubey9405
    @mansidubey9405 3 роки тому +5

    There's a reason why people love you so much, you're just simply amazing and you make things really easy to understand ❤💫

  • @ksf1412
    @ksf1412 3 роки тому +3

    Wow! You made great points once again. Nailed it!! Self Love is harr when you have a lifetime of abuse. Im tryin each day to watch a video to eat healthy to exercise and take care of me as a single mom. I really want a relationship with my SP a week ago he told me that even after 14 months hes only here for a good time. That broke my heart.. I dont know to get out of the hurt and believe i can still have him with him saying that. Has anyone manifested a sp after they were told they dont have feelings for them? Thank you Shelly for your love and support. I love your spirtit.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +2

      What i would do is take space from him and literally focus entirely on yourself... how amazing and worthy you are. Fierce Self Love... watch my video on that.

    • @ksf1412
      @ksf1412 3 роки тому

      thank you so mucn..imucn..i will definitely put energy on myself and watch that video.

  • @Jasmine-gt7ec
    @Jasmine-gt7ec 3 роки тому +8

    Wow Shelly for the 1st time today I realized that manifesting my sp had everything to do with loving myself. I realized what it felt like. Like if I don’t like myself, how can I expect anyone else to?
    I manifested him back but didn’t get the response I wanted so it took that to give me the realization. And realized I have a lot of more work to do. Nothing to do with my sp. This video is exactly what I just experienced. 🙏 I hope I stay in this realization. I’m happy but I also want to cry. Btw I just bought your Free Yourself course. I hope it helps. Thank you Shelly.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +2

      OMG this is such wonderful news that you realized this. I'm so happy for you! Yes, the course will help A LOT (Free Yourself and my Self Love Course are my 2 most popular... you'll really resonate with it). xoxo

    • @tacobelle69
      @tacobelle69 3 роки тому +1

      I’m in the same boat and I KNOW I have a lot of work to do. I’m so down in the dumps over it though because I dont think I’ll ever find self love. At this point I don’t even know if I’m sad over him... I think Im more mad and sad at myself because I feel this way. I’m not even trying to manifest him back at this point because I know I can have him but I also know I’m not ready and will push him away again.... good luck 💕💕💕💕🌻

  • @marializistroud498
    @marializistroud498 3 роки тому +15

    That’s exactly what I did. Started the healing, started manifesting my SP/ex-boyfriend but then begin to baste myself in self-love and even attracting a new great guy. I do have a question: “If I’m manifesting my SP/Ex but attracted a new guy whom I’m now dating does that interfere?” Thank you so much Shelly for your wonderful work, your energy is felt so deeply and I’m so happy now.

    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 3 роки тому +6

      Maria Lizi Stroud 🌸 I was trying to pull my SP and via healing, self love etc I met a new guy and he’s way way better hat the other person
      I believe this is source bringing to you a supreme match and he will treat you more like a queen. Gravitate towards this new chap 👍🏼
      Still practice self love and your own progression in life. I believe this may be a true soulmate coming your way 🤗

    • @tehminapathan350
      @tehminapathan350 3 роки тому

      I'm having the same question too, I'm currently talking to a guy who's way better than my SP but I am still in love with my person so Am menifesting him
      Will "me talking to tht guy" affect my menifestation?

  • @iados
    @iados 3 роки тому +4

    Self love is one of my favorite topics!! It is so important and people usually realize it late

  • @rankconarine1322
    @rankconarine1322 3 роки тому +4

    I am freaking amazing

  • @sunnyk.9820
    @sunnyk.9820 3 роки тому +5

    Shelly, I always feel so inspired by you. Everything you tell us comes from the heart, comes with care and healthy advice. Thank you so much for that.
    I see this video as a sign because through my meditations, I often automatically visualized myself looking a certain way when I'm with my SP. I didn't know what to do with it at first, so I ignored it. But throughout my self love process, I began to buy different clothes and today I made a hairdresser appointment to cut and dye my hair red. Just like in my visualizations with my SP. And I noticed I'm stepping into that version of myself now because I feel confident like that! I feel powerful and magnetic! Something I haven't felt before. It feels like my SP is back in my arms the moment I'm fully stepping into the new me. It feels refreshing. Meditations and dreams can give you a lot of hints, too. It feels magical.
    Shelly, thank you for your wonderful words. Thank you for being you 💖

  • @aditimajumdar2736
    @aditimajumdar2736 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you so much Shelly for promoting self love. I have starting loving myself so much to the point I don't even care when my SP comes around for me. I love myself so much that I'm ready to give up on him if he doesn't match my standards and prioritize me. I'll not wait on someone who doesn't treat me right.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +1

      Loveee

    • @Blessings313
      @Blessings313 3 роки тому

      Wow love your confidence

    • @aditimajumdar2736
      @aditimajumdar2736 3 роки тому

      @@Blessings313 😊😊

    • @Blessings313
      @Blessings313 3 роки тому +1

      Aditi Majumdar your comment reminds me that we should always see ourselves as the PRIZE, & to put the energy back on ourselves. we are the ones being pursued. 👑

    • @aditimajumdar2736
      @aditimajumdar2736 3 роки тому +1

      @@Blessings313 yesss..that's it! 😁😁....our life is our own and always will be! You had your life even before you came across your presenr SP or in future you may find another person who you'd call your next SP. The point is....people might come and go on our lives but we will always have ourselves. So we should not make a person the centre of our universe. The focus should be on ourselves. When the time/person is right...our SP would come around and it would all be very beaitiful. Until then we should prioritize ourselves and focus on our own lives! 😁😁

  • @decemberclouds
    @decemberclouds 3 роки тому +5

    Still basking in self love for myself. ♥♥♥♥♥ Listening to affirmations and your self-love videos when I can!

  • @marwaibrahim1095
    @marwaibrahim1095 3 роки тому +4

    Self love is key! I wish I knew this years ago. Working on the self love journey, thanks for clarifying the difference. I still need to learn how to deeply love myself 🥰. Thanks Shelly

  • @samhitaparab
    @samhitaparab 3 роки тому +11

    When you spoke about the transition from your sp being your primary focus to 'YOU' being your primary focus. I felt the whole process🌸 I can really say that I FINALLY LOVE MYSELF. And it is indeed a gift to me from me. Majorly, I can feel that back then my heart would feel closed, but now I feel so open - open to love, to receive and to loving MYSELF. And what I can see is - many of my thoughts/Affirmations regarding myself or my sp are showing up in my reality through many people..so I know that my sp is just the next person!❤️
    I love the fact that self love is becoming profound and natural for me💖
    Also, if I may ask Shelly, could suggest a read on self love for starters?

    • @ruthcarlisle2663
      @ruthcarlisle2663 3 роки тому

      @Samhita Parab you are definitely the self love goddess. This whole thing is about us.
      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +3

      This is beautiful!🥰💗

    • @swathishetty96
      @swathishetty96 3 роки тому +1

      Love yourself like your life depends on it- great book

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +1

      @@swathishetty96 Never read it but it sounds amazing.

    • @samhitaparab
      @samhitaparab 3 роки тому +1

      @@swathishetty96 thanks girl ❤️ could you tell me the author's name please?

  • @Jade-bh1eh
    @Jade-bh1eh 3 роки тому +5

    I am loving this new approach on your channel. I feel these videos are intuitively made and are coming straight from the universe. There’s so much joy and love in everything you are teaching us and it’s not pushed.
    On another note, I definitely feel what you are saying about self-love. Years ago I manifested an sp and he would come in and out of my life as our paths would cross. Every time he would come back in, I would completely lose myself. I stopped going to the gym, started being late to work, and all of the self-love acts went out the window. I felt amazing when we were together, but loosing sight of who I was. Anyway, I will never allow that to happen again. Yes, that’s a red flag that you are not supposed to be with that person. If you aren’t growing together, then your relationship is doomed. ❤️

  • @jacquelynallen488
    @jacquelynallen488 3 роки тому

    I found myself feeling that familiar anxiety and sense of loss. I let go of my desire for a minute. I started focusing on what makes me know I love myself. I got my car cleaned up. I made my bed. I took a long walk. I exercised. I painted my nails. I exfoliated my skin. I washed, dried, and curled my hair. I put on a nice outfit and learned a new makeup technique. I got a massage, a mani/pedi. I took a a friends offer to go on a nice trip. I’m feeling like I’m back to myself. And this is how i found myself when my SP found his way to me. Bliss was there when he showed up. It’s a normal way of life. Love me. Love my life. Thanks Shelly. As always, love your videos.

  • @maribelr0120
    @maribelr0120 3 роки тому +3

    Self Love 💘 focusing on me first and I'm finally understand why is so important... I can see actual results happening in my life day by day.. Thanks Shelly again. Every day I listen to you and I'm changing to a better person and LOVING me !! 💘

  • @TiuTauTilhi
    @TiuTauTilhi 3 роки тому +4

    I've learned to focus on my heart space and self love through heart chakra meditations, they make such a difference to my overall feeling about myself and my capabilities, and I've noticed the improvement in manifestations, as well. I believe I still need to work on it (we're never 'done' and 'ready' anyway) for the bigger goals, so I'm grateful you are giving away these ebooks. Thank you, Shelly.

  • @ivf.malpani.clinic
    @ivf.malpani.clinic 3 роки тому +3

    Self love is the key.
    Focus on Self love and rest will be taken care of 👍

  • @Izna_Fina
    @Izna_Fina 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Shelly!! I'm the beginning for me i was so doing it for a result. It felt like work. I had a big moment where I read you can't bs the universe it knows your real intentions so be true to yourself. After that i kept seeing other manifestations working and just recently I have fallen so in love with myself and even not great news doesn't bother. I just say ok what is this teaching me ? It's an amazing place to be in. Knowing I can create and adjust whatever, whenever.

  • @theresam6734
    @theresam6734 3 роки тому +5

    I have grown really fond of myself 👸 and it feels great! 😍❤💖

  • @maggiecastro9791
    @maggiecastro9791 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Shelby 💓 I started listening to your videos because I wanted me sp back ,but you make me realize that I needed to love and accepted myself first, it is a journey of self love and self acceptence that I'm right now , and it feels really good . And for that I thank you very much 💕 thank you for your teaching and guidance. Much love to you 💕

  • @loveisreaal
    @loveisreaal 3 роки тому +3

    So true.. so beautiful.. so beautiful to remember 🤍 I’d experienced a breakup where I started loving myself in that genuinely way and all the world started to conform to my vision of a beautiful and sweet and incredible me, world and friends next to me.. and that feeling... it is so deep that I love remembering every time even now 🤍 I love my life 🤍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💞💕💓

  • @terrybunton194
    @terrybunton194 3 роки тому +2

    You really understand the human soul and relationships and how you losse a sp and then get them back. I genuinly LOVe your advice. Thank you so much.

  • @gio-elena1467
    @gio-elena1467 3 роки тому +4

    Yaaaay😍, feel grateful.
    I'm excited for the video💗🌈
    Thank you Shelly 🌹🤗

  • @sweetsue4204
    @sweetsue4204 2 роки тому

    My SP is a fisherman. Two nights back it occurred to me to learn to tie his favorite fishing knots (I’ve never fished, myself). Once I learned his most basic knot, I researched it and learned that fishermen used to tie a rope with the two knots and send them back to their lady love in a loosened state. If she was willing to wait she would tighten them together and carry that knot until he returned to her waiting arms.
    I immediately made one to carry with me. I have no problem waiting for the universe to work it all out for me. 💕 As loving as I am, it’s inconceivable that he isn’t looking for a way at this very moment to get back to me. 🥰

  • @letisiamartinez3291
    @letisiamartinez3291 3 роки тому +3

    💯 So true! Self love is vital. The shift I’m experiencing for myself is going from knowing I love myself to feeling love for myself when I drop down into my heart space and feeling this is the space I’m manifesting from. Then I trust and allow for it to show up.

  • @Rana-ks2sy
    @Rana-ks2sy 3 роки тому +3

    Last year(up to even 3 months ago) I was the person who wanted to commit suicide...
    I felt there was no way for me to live anymore,totally devastated,felt being unworthy,abandoned,etc...I hated myself & whenever I looked at myself in the mirror I told myself:"u know what?I hate u & u deserve nothing"
    Suddenly I found manifestation & these spiritual stuff..I worked on myself...did lots of selflove,at first I did self love only to get my person back...But later on I found that I want to do this for me,I want to enjoy my life...I realized the true meaning of self love.
    And now..I even dont care abt my person anymore..I am my first best,my only priority,I love myself deeply & know I deserve everything & if I want to start a new relationship whether w my sp whenever she's back or w someone new,That person must know my worth & treat me like I'm the only girl on this planet...I now apologize to myself for the times I treated me like a complete shit & know I'm really a good human being & have a caring heart...
    Guys..please don't accept less than u deserve...y'all are amazing...But the only person who can make u feel amazing is u yourself.Y'all worthy & deserve all good things so please please know your worth.
    Love y'all so much & love u Shelly💖

  • @Melissa-bg8uy
    @Melissa-bg8uy 3 роки тому +4

    It has taken some time but after listening to a lot of your video’s And learning how to go within and focus on myself I’m able to calm myself down and be less reactive to what goes on around me. Thank you so much!

  • @jenreu
    @jenreu 3 роки тому +1

    This is so true. By working on self love I actually see my manifested goals are closer. ❤
    And i didn't know about this before i experienced it. And it motivates me to love myself more.

  • @pratimania
    @pratimania 3 роки тому +3

    Both of your guided meditations i.e on self love and inner child are so great and amazing, honestly on both of them since they are released. Ideally i started them as techniques as stated by you but gradually I could discover that self love is the best without any expectations, once you start loving yourselves and immerse in that feeling ,there is no looking back :) I can proudly say now no matter what I will be there for myself. Gradititude is a not enough word for you Shelly :) you are the guru

  • @nourshamismail5303
    @nourshamismail5303 3 роки тому +21

    Funny how you are making this video now that my SP is manifesting in my 3D reality

    • @decemberclouds
      @decemberclouds 3 роки тому +3

      I love your positivity. ♥

    • @namratapanjre2681
      @namratapanjre2681 3 роки тому +3

      Same here ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nourshamismail5303
      @nourshamismail5303 3 роки тому +2

      Awwh thanks you guys. It means a lot❤❤

    • @Wifeyytalks
      @Wifeyytalks 3 роки тому

      @@nourshamismail5303 can you please suggest how

    • @nourshamismail5303
      @nourshamismail5303 3 роки тому

      @@namratapanjre2681 I was manifesting an SP for a while and the second I started thinking of how I am irreplaceable and special they came back. However,I ended up manifest and even better SP that is 100% what I want so I no longer want the other SP. Don't get me wrong,you can manifest anything you want but I personally hate tweaking the current reality and it's easier for me to just manifest a new SP

  • @subhangighosh2682
    @subhangighosh2682 2 роки тому +1

    Trust me, I've been watching a lot of videos on manifestation. But, this is by far the best video because it really teaches you to love you first, instead of loving something or someone primarily. Though I don't have insecurities about myself, but I guess I'm not so much into doing things that make me feel good. So, this has inspired me to look differently at things. We are all we have. Why not fall in love with ourselves first!

  • @BiancaFanu
    @BiancaFanu 3 роки тому +3

    I've found my muchness during these 24 days 💚 and I'll continue to do so 🙏🏽 deeply grateful to you! I actually added your name on my list of daily things to be grateful for 🌹💎

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому +1

      Aww I’m so happy to hear this!

    • @vincentross-vh2tl
      @vincentross-vh2tl 6 місяців тому

      ​@@ShellyBullard
      How can you get a ex that doesn't want me
      You have a course about that
      Please explain

  • @zelihagokce
    @zelihagokce 3 роки тому +1

    This is what I thought to myself after I talked with my SP yesterday and set boundaries, what makes me feel loved and respected. I didn't completely part ways with him but I left the conversation end like that. I thought...yes, I love myself way more than before to now prioritise my self and I told him I have a vision of where I see myself right now and it's where I'm on a high level of love.
    I thought: I love him YES and he's so good in so many ways, but I am not feeling like I'm getting the dedication and love I want and turned to myself and said, surely there must be and most definitely is a SP in this crowded universe, thinking just like me who is willing to be for life together, happy to give and recieve.
    There are way more people who will come into my life, who will show me the love I want and manifest for myself starting from now. Because that's what I allow now and don't have my whole focus on entirely one person who needs to SHOW me the needed and desired love.

    • @sweetsue4204
      @sweetsue4204 2 роки тому

      The needed and desired love you seek is all within you. When you accept that truth, the universe can complete the desire. Go ahead. Keep learning to love you more. You’ll be glad you did. 🤗

  • @Nicole-xo3go
    @Nicole-xo3go 3 роки тому +1

    I love that you brought this up because I realized exactly this last week! I thaught that I loved myself, but I didn't like really genuinely and I stopped telling myself stuff like "I'm not worth it" since I would never do that to any friend and I am my one best friend for life and I'm amazing!! So why would I ever do that to myself? After this I have really been feeling a difference and I even dreamt signs that something big is about to happen 🙏 I feel blessed and LOVED by myself, that's all I need until the universe brings my SP closer to me ❤

  • @LivingMyBestLife517
    @LivingMyBestLife517 3 роки тому +2

    This is a lovely video. Totally agree - thanks.

  • @sigalm8205
    @sigalm8205 3 роки тому +3

    Ow, this is so interesting !!!! I love self love meditations and being our best friend, such a good point to do it mainly for ourselves!!

  • @rhirhi4726
    @rhirhi4726 3 роки тому +3

    Yes, I am my number 1 priority...I love me 💖

  • @shelby9088
    @shelby9088 3 роки тому +3

    Oh man this is what I want for myself and for everybody here ❤️ have never really experienced this completely

  • @vikkisunflower8899
    @vikkisunflower8899 3 роки тому +2

    Wow that necklace makes your eyes totally pop.

  • @LauraM0129
    @LauraM0129 3 роки тому +1

    I originally discovered manifesting and LOA with the intention of attracting back my SP. However, as I started to develop an understanding, I did realize that self-love is the most important part and IT IS A LOT OF WORK! (You are trying to undo years and years limiting beliefs.) I didn't think that had such limiting or negative beliefs about myself but when I started to look at all aspects of life, including the past, it became evident that I didn't have self-love or the belief that I am worthy and deserving of all of my desires. I always felt like I have just been trying to survive this whole time but, have rarely ever thrived. Self-love is for me because I'm tired and exhausted of amount of effort I have to put into everything to get such little or even negative results, and of the suffering. I want to thrive in all aspects of my life.
    I am able to fairly easily manifest him back and receive contact but it's not the way that I want. That just tells me that I have more work to do on myself. That I can only change myself and I am the most important person in my life. Thank you, Shelly, for this video. One day I will have a wonderful success story for you about all of the amazing things that have happened in all areas of my life.

  • @yeoyvonne
    @yeoyvonne 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the distinction 👍💜

  • @JUSTMELILC1
    @JUSTMELILC1 3 роки тому

    I coukdnt agree more Shelly 🥰 im not there 100% yet but I can start to feel a shift. Thank u for this, its a great reminder that loving ourselves is above all else. ❤

  • @dedemomo4193
    @dedemomo4193 3 роки тому +1

    You just handed over the self love key, I finally love myself, love ya Shelly 💚😽

  • @mrsp8999
    @mrsp8999 3 роки тому

    This might just be your most important video so far Shelly - thank you once again

  • @nancygarcia5304
    @nancygarcia5304 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Shelly. I still struggle with self love. I need to take time off each day to practice. 💞💞💞

  • @iffatjahan1111
    @iffatjahan1111 3 роки тому +1

    Yes , finally I am there for myself. 🙏❤️

  • @rosalinasilva9018
    @rosalinasilva9018 3 роки тому +2

    I do love myself and want to manifest a new SP that I have met.

  • @manishakumari6872
    @manishakumari6872 3 роки тому +1

    No matter how many times I feel low n again on same past hurts, I again stand up strong and start again on self love n I become more happier than earlier. M still transforming n feeling much better. Thank u Shelly for making these videos n focusing more on self love. I know I am healing n loving myself more n more. Thank u n love u😘😘😍🥰

  • @mbjunior81
    @mbjunior81 3 роки тому +2

    Shelly Bullard : your’e such an inspiration - my new mentor, I listen to you daily ❤️

  • @liissillaste8401
    @liissillaste8401 2 роки тому

    Your words about people genuinely finally loving themselves made me cry. ❤❤

    • @daramolarachael6509
      @daramolarachael6509 2 роки тому

      Hello friend, I fixed my relationship with the help of this great spiritualist now my partner is back and more committed

    • @daramolarachael6509
      @daramolarachael6509 2 роки тому

      Send him a message for fast result via WhatsApp

  • @Blynn_
    @Blynn_ 2 роки тому

    Thank you. This clicked for me right before I watched your video and then it popped up. I have been doing this for someone else, but now, I finally just want to see the best in myself regardless of SP. Now I feel like life is going to get real good! ❤

  • @elizabethmims8258
    @elizabethmims8258 9 місяців тому

    This helps so much !!! Obviously I’m very new to manifestation , I will try this ! Because I love me and I deserve it !!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  9 місяців тому

      I’m so glad it resonated. Maybe you would like this video also if you start your manifesting journey: ua-cam.com/video/BIKY7oXMZB0/v-deo.html Enjoy! 💛

  • @Sana_969
    @Sana_969 3 роки тому +1

    Self love does change us for the better.. 😊 Love 💜

  • @bhargaviacharya2785
    @bhargaviacharya2785 3 роки тому +1

    Omg Shelly I honestly Love you 💗💓. You are the best teacher on the planet. Thank you for educating us, means a loooot😘👍😊

  • @neilpitzner9279
    @neilpitzner9279 3 роки тому +1

    We all know you have a life too. So I just wanted to say thank you for taking the time for all us. Greatly appreciated

  • @SurlyMontanan
    @SurlyMontanan 3 роки тому

    I realized this tonight shortly before watching this. The truth has set me free and the pedestal is in the trash as I’ve released my burden.

  • @twi1902
    @twi1902 3 роки тому

    It becomes a very different experience as with every "technique" to realize that you are practicing something because it feels good rather than because it will get you what you want.

  • @sweetsue4204
    @sweetsue4204 2 роки тому

    I really like me. 😁 I tell my friends all the time that it’s not ego or being braggadocious, it’s just fact that I’m amazing, and I recognize it.
    The way I’m attracting right now is about as powerful as I’ve ever emitted. Everywhere I go people are stopping to engage with me in positive ways, and compliments are showering me all day long.
    Being magnetic is my normal default tone, but this most recent attention to self love is ramping everything up. This is such fun. 😁

  • @Jazlunaxo
    @Jazlunaxo 3 роки тому +2

    you showed me how to love myself 🥺 anyone would be LUCKY to be w me 🙊

  • @metalangyalkaaa
    @metalangyalkaaa 3 роки тому +2

    The keeeey of the law of attraction, thank youuuuuu Shelly,❤️🌺💗🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @lauraangelicalomeliraya4623
    @lauraangelicalomeliraya4623 3 роки тому +2

    I totally agree with the video of today, Shelly!! I mean, lately and I mean almost a year ago, I was giving myself to other in many ways, and I was leaving myself at the end, and of course that was not correct, so I started suffering when my sp changed the attitude towards me. But after watching your videos and learning what you´ve been teaching Vualá!! I understood what it was all about: Me all the time, and according to me, I knew it, but i forgot it because of all the situation regarding my mother´s health. So thanks again, may God bless you and give you all what you need. A hug from Morelia!!! =)

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому

      Gorgeous! I love this so much! Congrats on your amazing growth! Makes me so happy to hear.

  • @sidsolovelyyy
    @sidsolovelyyy 3 роки тому +1

    My subconscious mind must be impressed because im having dreams of my SP lol . I've been listening to Neville meditation every night before bed visualizing. So far day 4 and I just want to dream forever. Not only I manifest my sp in 3d....i am in 5d and its am amazing feeling. The dream I hold dear to my heart . I've been experiencing success stories after success. Im so happy 😊

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  3 роки тому

      I’m so glad it resonated.🥰

    • @sidsolovelyyy
      @sidsolovelyyy 3 роки тому

      @@ShellyBullard looks like this was 2 months ago , now im running the other way haha funny how the tables turn. The self love journey put me on a path, im embracing love for self and no longer interested in Sp , where things were unrequited. No matter how many times I rewrote the story , deep in my heart somewhere there's love but in this 3D world , I say goodbye to the twinflame journey ...I am at peace these days more than ever than I started 😌 🙏 thanks Shelly .

    • @natashatwine7818
      @natashatwine7818 Рік тому

      Which manifestation did you listen to of Neville?

  • @tehminapathan350
    @tehminapathan350 3 роки тому

    Hello❤️
    Shelly you're so beautiful and thank you so much for all your help in my journey ❤️
    Yes yes yes I'm getting in a relationship with my person and he loves me ❤️
    Each and everyone who's reading this, YOUR PERSON LOVES YOU, ADORES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU ❤️
    Believe in yourself ❤️

  • @ninalove9252
    @ninalove9252 3 роки тому

    Love this! Another quality piece thanks Shelly ✨🙌🏽 Sometimes I look back wondering how come the old me could perceive self love as something that extra, unaware of its significance when self love is the missing “secret” sauce/real deal? Not only for manifesting, for living a quality life as we prefer but also exactly what else do we want to prioritise other than loving on ourselves, putting feeling good first and foremost because we Are Love ✨✨

  • @lucasdesouza9674
    @lucasdesouza9674 3 роки тому +2

    Live you channel, thank you

  • @sweetsue4204
    @sweetsue4204 2 роки тому

    IMO, if you’re “trying”, you’re feeling deep inside that YOU are flawed, and must change before the SP will give you a try. When you truly love yourself, you know you have quirks, but overall you’re a total package, and you like who you see in the mirror, first thing in the morning.
    When you love yourself, every day becomes a new adventure, filled with potential and possibilities. 😁💕

  • @michelechristensen4436
    @michelechristensen4436 3 роки тому +2

    I love this!! Thank you for your words and guidance!

  • @faithvaleriebravo5444
    @faithvaleriebravo5444 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much Shelly. I really need to hear this now just to refesh
    everything ive learnt from u.

  • @playginn
    @playginn 3 роки тому +2

    So inspiring!! Really needed it! Thank you ❣🙏🙏🙏

  • @frankkennedy2768
    @frankkennedy2768 3 роки тому +1

    I love your channel. The universeis bringimg me your videos in such a timely manner.

  • @real_deal11
    @real_deal11 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for the amazing support ❤

  • @Divinefeminine888
    @Divinefeminine888 11 місяців тому

    I love this needed this today- shared with me fellow females manifesting love ❤

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  9 місяців тому

      I’m so glad it resonated. 🥰

  • @TheVikasas
    @TheVikasas 3 роки тому

    Excellent video, Shelly. Great to see you back with a bang as I was truly confused when you would upload your videos. I hope all your future videos are gonna be great to watch and gather information so that its gonna be helpful for us.

  • @juradodina5949
    @juradodina5949 3 роки тому

    Thanks Shelly for always reminding us the importance of Self- love 🌻

  • @hayleydoblo4396
    @hayleydoblo4396 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing Shelly! You inspire me :) Self love is key! I love who I am and you have helped me on this journey x

  • @La_elaah_ela_alah1
    @La_elaah_ela_alah1 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for being here ❤❤😍 am going to manifaste my sp .... We are already togather in union on th 5d ... And we are going to be on thia amazing 3d world😍❤❤😇

  • @mirandasummer
    @mirandasummer 3 роки тому

    THANK.YOU for this video i think it's like an answer to a prayer!!!

  • @PersonalGrowthNow
    @PersonalGrowthNow 3 роки тому +1

    Already commented, but I’m watching again as I often do and when u talk about being wanted and loving self genuinely I think of the song by Danny Gokey “Wanted”. The Piano & Cello version is the best.

  • @melissaacosta3848
    @melissaacosta3848 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks!!! The self meditation😊done with you helped me so much!!🙏🏼

  • @PersonalGrowthNow
    @PersonalGrowthNow 3 роки тому +2

    5:58 literally touched my soul.

  • @COURTNEYLEATON
    @COURTNEYLEATON 3 роки тому +1

    Love your vids that delve deeper into the techniques of manifestation and just feeling all round good about ourselves

  • @muhdeyam6281
    @muhdeyam6281 3 роки тому

    Can’t believe im just finding your channel now 🥺 I immediately subscribed for your contents and liked since you worded things out deeply and perfectly ❤️💛